Would you trust a woman who talks bad about you to her friends?

She had 4 different instances on her phone of videos and pictures of her having sex with other men. She sucked so many cocks I cant stand to even smell her breath anymore. We have 3 children under 15

A close friend wants me to be her "date" to a work function. She just started a job at a new company and it's a mixer type even and she just wants me to go to keep her company. I'm free that particular night and I have a suit I never wear so I kind of want to go for the hell of it, I'm just not sure of whether to tell my girlfriend. To start off, she doesn't like this particular friend, I don't know why she just hasn't . I think she gets jealous but it's only with her. I'm pretty open with my girlfriend and to date I have never kept anything from her or lied to her so I'm on the fence about letting her know. I just don't want to deal with any drama but I also don't want to feel like I'm lying or something. Should I tell her, or am I just over thinking it?

I keep my mouth shut just easier what do I do?

I don t care much for my brother s wife. If I ever won a large some of money and decided to give my brother a lot of it, could I make then both sign a post nup saying if they get a divorce, the money and everything he bought with it, like a house and car, is his? Could I also make a will out of it and say if he ever dies, I get it back and she gets nothing, that the house, cars, or anything else he bought with it, goes back to me, and she gets nothing? He has her down to get his life insurance policy, but could I make that be the only thing she gets? She s the type who would divorce him to get half, if she knew she would get half. That s why I want to make sure my brother will be able to keep all the money I give him.

I can't keep my eyes open for more than 90 minutes at a time without them becoming painful and am taking prescription eye drops.

Me and my husband have been married for 2 months. We have a daughter I just found out I'm pregnant again. I'm really scared of loosing him. I love him so much it hurts. Why do I feel this way ? Is this normal ?

I love my husband and I'm very lucky to have my best friend, but I have this growing resentment towards him about our sex life. It's so simple "can you go down on me." He loves our sex life can there be more bjs yes and ive learn to make sweet love to his penis with my mouth and I love it. I have always struggle to be happy with it. Part of my unhappiness was me and my inability to you be my own Advocate about the things I wanted in bed I finally mustered up the strength to tell him again and again and I'm still not happy. For a very long time until maybe last mouth that been my only outlet for orgasm and as long as I've been with him missed it he rearly goes down on me and if I am lucky I will get what I want but only in 69. I must have have been spoiled by my son's father because he would do it every time no questions asked I think that's because he genuinely loved it I don't miss my son's father not one bit but I will credit him that.

After much deliberation I think what intrigues me the most is Across the Universe (piano ballad). I am a pianist and had learned this song, and it sounds similar to this version on youtube. My plan was to hook my piano to my computer, record myself playing it, send it to my DJ, and then he would play it while we all walk down the aisle. I am just curious if you think this is a beautiful piece TO walk down the aisle to. Just out of curiosity, please be honest. Thank you . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcoTjV-cG08

I've stopped buying myself new clothes, decor, and snacks for our kid among a lot of other little things. But we're still always short on money because my husband is buying things he doesn't even use. He's trying to stock up a "proper garage" and all those tools and equipment are expensive, he bought a 1,000 lawn mower for our tiny lawn that was just fine with the push mower my grandparents got us for our wedding. Now he wants to get a new 4 wheel drive truck and a camper. I feel like since he got a good job he started spending more than we make. I don't work as much since we had a kid, I'm waiting until she gets old enough for school (next year) I've tried to talk to him about it and show him the credit card bill and he still seems to think it's me who's spending too much. Idk what to do please give me some advice?

Men if your wife/significant other was giving you a lap dance and you wanted her to stop for sex but she continued causing you to finish in your pants, would you be mad at her, happy for the attention and not care about messing your clothes? I'm asking because I did it and my husband has seemed pissed for the last two days. Ive asked if I did something wrong and tried initiating sex but he wont answer and tells me not to touch him if I'm gonna do it the way I want.

My heart is broken & I don't know what to do. I have always felt very close to my brother & love him very much. He's now my only living relative yet he has forsaken me for his wife. She is possessive & controlling and has forced him into pushing me & all his friends out of his life. It's to the point where he's erased my number from his phone and he requests that I don't contact him. I respect his wishes and want only the best for him but at the same time want him in my life. I'm lonely without him. What should I do? I'd like to hear your thoughts about this. Thanks

She sucks at what she does at work but I want to be her husband. I am 41 and she is 63. I want to marry her.

I see people talking about working hard to save a marriage etc..but then why not save time and pack up and go ? I understand that if the guy asks for it he loses half his assets and if she asks for it she walks out penniless. So is it just a matter of convenience ? What else lies behind a divorce ? OK WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO DIVORCE BESIDES THE MONETARY LOSES ?

Im talking about all the non monetary aspects of marriage.

He runs an online business

My ex left me for his own selfish reasons. I came home one night, half the stuff taken, took the dog, gone, left. Long story. he built me up then broke me to pieces when he left. My head is in the clear but we had a truck together, he's doing what he can to hide it from me (in another state.) I don't want it but because it's my property too, he cant do anything if I did something to it. I don't want the truck. He wouldn't have even gotten that truck without me (good credit). I learned my lesson, never to sign for anyone, even if married. But i want to teach him something! Key the truck? Burn anything inside it? Decal to whole side with don't mess with Texas? (He is in South Carolina). Lol I don't need the truck, I just need the revenge. Something that would embarrass him to drive it around or just piss him off.

I wasted alot of time etc and now im old aka expired. I cant find single women at this age since mostly they're married with kids or damaged goods with kids - it doesnt seem fair that i pay the burden for someone elses trash after she gave him the best years of her life and body. I feel gypped. Yet im sick of being lonely and seeing my ( ex ) friends busy with kids and wife having fun etc. I tried looking for an asian wife from the rice paddies for sale or ex hooker wanna be..but both expirements turned out to be a flop and a waste of time n money. Any other solutions ? Mail order bride ? Castration ? Even hookers try to swindle me knowing am an old lonely bastard and hike the fees.

I am 22 with no kids and not engaged. So at 22 I am supposed to be married to a husband who only marries mw because I am pregnant? Also I learned that it is my fault that a girl's husband was checking me out at the store. Maybe some marriee women need to control their husbands. Most of my haters look like **** without make up and wear too much make up and bkeacj their teeth so much. It is funny how some women can affird $65 foundation but not diapers.

I was in a 9 year relationship with my ex husband, I left him, three months later he got somebody pregnant, one year later, we saw each other and agreed to have a final casual encounter behind her back, we did, then he got the crazy idea talk to his girl about me to see if there was a way she would accept us together because for one whole year he would speak to her about me so she already knew our history and how much we loved each other. Could you believe that this woman actually she does not mind if me an him are together as long as he doesn't leave her and their baby? He was so happy, he was planning out us living together and her baby and my daughter would be siblings, i could have his baby, I could teach her a few things, afterwards I was explaining to him that I don't feel comfortable with the idea, he asked if I still love him, I do but not enough to accept that, he started telling me that "women nowadays create this fantasy that the men they are with will FOREVER be faithful to them, and when they find out otherwise they're all heartbroken" I just kept saying I can't and then he started saying " F you, forget about me, lose my number, this is going to happen regardless if it's with you or not, at least my girl will never abandon me, she has proven to be more than you in the sence of staying for the long run, you will miss my love"...blah blah, his words hurt me a but but I'm trying to stay strong please help with words of encouragement ...I would deeply appreciate it

Its a long story but the point is this; me and a married woman want to have a baby. At first the husband will think its his etc and once the baby is born i take him / her. Divorce is out of the question. She has kids and he wont divorce her for his convenience - free nanny and housemaid - If she walks out pennyless, her family will pay retribution for making him lose respect, face etc in the community. He already warned her and her family. Speed: im not looking for legal advice..but thanks for insight. Bentley: its complicated..i'll the kid his mom died when he was a baby and that his real mom is her sister = his aunt. And that her husband is a jerk so we just chill at home and auntie comes visit us when she can. I also contemplated making her a widow - drastic solution - but as the widows new bf id be the primary suspect along with her. Thanks anyway.

For me it was realizing the years I wasted on him and the dream that I could never get back.

Is it a betrayal to talk about your spouse (in a negative light) and to talk about your problems you are having with your spouse with someone of the opposite sexy who is single, rather than working things out with them.

My husband says he will not get a tattoo of my name on him because that s a big commitment but yet he has his ex s name on him and they were only together for a few months we have been together for two years. What does it mean?

I was chatting with girls that are friends and my wife said she will tie me up, sit on me, duct tape my mouth and puncture my chest with her nails..i tried talking to her but she wont listen and please help im claustrophobic

We are older don't shave our private parts . He came back with pubic lower belly and butt hairs gone! Asked him he said 'It's the way now that's all' could he have picked up an STD? And is trying to clear it up?

I went thru my girlfriend found and found some inappropriate texts to a guy friend of hers. I also caught her talking crap about me to her guy friend. She blew up and broke up with me and called me a psycho. But if I didn't look at her phone I wouldn't have caught her doing that. Was it wrong of me to do that?

I recently went out with someone whom I feel is the right partner for my life. We have known each other for 4 months and have decided to marry after a couple of months. My friends keep saying why I spoke so early about marriage. Why do they think it is wrong. She and I share a lot of things and she's so soft and never fights with me. In fact she was so much enthused that I proposed to her and we even discussed the 273 questions to ask before marriage (which is available online).

Love my wife but it's been missionary only in the dark, then she runs off to the bathroom to clean the 'horrid stuff' off her, nothing else. Can't talk about it or change it. Now I am enjoying my first BJ anal and every position in the Kama Sutra with my lover and I realize I should have done it years ago why do men wait so long in bad sex marriages?

I'll start by saying that my anxiety is something that I keep to myself. Sleepless nights etc but I show a confident face in front of my wife. My problem stems from some insecurities because my wife will travel back to her home country to stay with friends and visit them. Also, in the 5 years we have been married, I ve noticed she will make an snap decision to go back home without talking to me or letting me know. We are trying for a baby. I since found out that my sperm morphology is low and it might prevent us from being able to conceive naturally. It has put a lot of strain on us. So, my wife decided out of the blue yesterday to return home (probably she has been thinking about returning home for a while). I found her itinerary in her bag by chance. I thought it was unusual for her to travel up north. She said her cousin was staying up there (confirmed this with her family). Then my gut said this isn t right. I checked in her phone to discover one of her real estate clients lives in that northern city. Alarm bells were ringing. Especially as the chat log has been cleared. We own one apartment that we live in and have 3 more off the plan. She is trying to offer me assurances but I m angry at her choosing to chase after some bloke she has been chatting to. And equally as upset with her ignoring my requests to travel with her. Her stock standard line was that I don t understand her and that some people just need some time alone to decompress. My mind went into overdrive and I have been thinking that it translates into saying that our marriage is so bad that she needs a yearly vacation away from me. I would like no nonsense advice and opinions. Because I'm considering making an appointment with a family lawyer to understand my legal responsibilities in case we separate. I couldn't imagine wanting to take yearly holidays away from her! Hence why I'm upset. I always get left behind and she never discusses it with me.

Before you say anything, I am not a homewrecker and have no intentions of becoming one. I have had strong feelings for one of my managers, pretty much since I met him 9 months ago. I am 26, he's 25 and is married. We're friends on Facebook and admittedly, I have a habit of "liking" almost everything he posts. I almost never "like" the ones he posts about his wife or that have any regard to his wife. Sometimes, I'll "like" the posts that she tags him in. Her and I have never spoken before. We recently had to be around each other for a company party and I tried my best not to look at him because I didn't want her to see me looking at her husband and get angry. Do you think she maybe knows or notices the little things? I don't flirt with him, pretty much never. I think he realized back in December that I have feelings for him because his behavior changed and he didn't interact with me as much. He still doesn't really interact with me anymore unless he needs me to do something. And on that note, we're not close. Just Facebook friends.

He hasn't even lose his virginity. Yup, we just got married a week ago.

I sleep on the couch more often than not if given the opportunity. Growing up slept on a couch every night from ages 9-17 and occasionally before that. I just have never been able to sleep well in a bed. I don t like the feeling of being wide open compared to couch where space is tighter. I don t know why but it just is that way. Anyway, my wife gets upset and won t leave me alone on it. If I don t go to bed she is on me for hours about it. What am I suppose to do. I feel bad and dead on days I try to sleep on a bed and great when I sleep on a couch. I told her this but she doesn t seem to care. What should I do?

Husband and I have been together five years. Kids and deployment have changed our relationship for the worst. He used to be so physically affectionate now we don't kiss, don't touch (unless I rub his head his actual head not down under) no holding hands no kissing, I mean its like we're just roommates who enjoy each other We might have sex like twice a week. And I can never initiate because when I do he just turns me down because he says hes not horny. And about a month ago he basically told me he doesn't touch me because he gets horny when he does. We have a two and four year old. We don't go on dates. Its like we have no idea how to go back to "dating" or he just doesn't want to idk. He kissed some random girl last month when he was under the influence of alcohol and a pill (someone spiked his **** and I was not there) I'm having a hard time coping with it but have forgiven him. Any advice?

It is not fair she is gorgeous without make up and he told her that she was too pretty to be insecure. He calls me beautiful but I hate her. I have a 7 month old son with him and I am 20. The girl I knew from cheerleading many years ago and she has big boobs while I am still an A cup. She gets to be a D cup and I heard she was a virgin. I made fun of her large breasts 7 years ago and now she is gorgeous and doesn't have a mean husband and a little ****. Life is not ******* fair. My husband would tell me how hot she was back whenI was pregnant until I told him to be quiet. She is perfect, wtf? I wish I didn't have a kid and I wish I didn't have a jerk of a husband.

My wife showers every night she thinks it feels good. I shower with her at least once or twice a week. We had sex the first time we showered together. We don't do it anymore in the shower only one time. How often should I get in with her ?