Family: Question: My mother doesn't feed me (and is possibly abusive) ?

Question: My mother doesn't feed me (and is possibly abusive) ?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:43 PM PDT

Hello, I am a 15 year old girl and I am from Europe. I lived with my mother only since I was little. My mother was never a good mother and she likes to blame me for her problems all the time and bullies me at times when she has her anger issues. One time she almost broke my arm at 3 AM because I didnt have a cigarette to give her. But the point is - She doesnt buy food for days , even weeks. We have old hard bread, milk thats usually spoiled and butter or small amounts of cheese. She usually eats at work and then at home she eats the cheese and hardened bread. I work at a hotel / resort, she is the boss and i work at the washing room, because i failed this year at high school and i went to work so i wouldnt be at home and could buy myself food and clothing. I dont eat there because everyone eats in one room and i have anxiety of being and eating infront of people i dont know well so i usually just drink water. She NEVER cooks for me , never did. She only buys food for when her male 'friends' come over and cooks for them. What do I do? I have had no food besides coffee, water or small amounts of bread for 5 days.. also I lost my healthcare because I am not a student anymore and she said she wont pay for it - but I need my birth control and iron pills because I have blood issues. Please help.

Question: Why are my sisters so mean and how do I deal with it?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:23 PM PDT

My sisters have talked bad about me since the dawn of time. PRETTY MUCH FOREVER!!! I'm 18 the second oldest is 19 and the oldest is 21. I've heard them say that they hate me as soon as I left the room. Just today, my sister (21) said what a loser! Under her breath. They have called me ugly by comparing me to a monster from their dumb little video game. They also do the backstabbing SO I CAN HEAR IT! They have managed to lower my self esteem and now I don't even want to go near them. IT IS EXTREMELY UNCOMFORTABLE! They glare and exchange glances as if my every move is a huge mistake. They constantly make fun of me behind my back! They have called me a b*tch, wh*re,$lut and I'm the baby of the family! I would never do such things!!! Basically my sisters are bullies! I feel like Cinderella with my two rude REAL SISTERS! I go out of my way to treat them nice and the oldest puts on a fake attitude to look good for our parents. She acts all nice to my face then when she's alone with my other sister she strikes. The other sister (19) is the one that started the she's a wh*re thing and accused me of doing nasty things! EWWW! They look at me and laugh to make me feelembarassed and I'm beginning to think they are doing all this stuff to make me feel worthless! What do you think their motives are and how should i deal with this? The second olfest was bullied, she started the whole thing! I think she is trying to do this to make herself feel superior. What are your thoughts?

Question: I need help?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:22 PM PDT

what should I do my girlfriends family don't want her in her life and don't want her in the house and to get her I need to get 1k to travel and my family thinks she is playing with me... she isn't playing me how can I make her believe that she isn't playing and make money I have been looking for jobs No ones hiring me and I need her

Question: Girls would you do this?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:17 PM PDT

I have to leave shortly to ride with my mom to drop my dad off at the airport. I am at home now barefoot and since I am not getting out of the backseat I am going for the ride barefoot and going to leave my shoes at home. I had shoes on all day today at school so I don't feel like putting my shoes back on and I won't need shoes for a 1 hour ride since I am not going in anyplace.

Question: Hold sisters hand in public?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:12 PM PDT

I'm 17 (guy) and my sister who is 16 suffers from really bad social anxiety to the point that even "normal" everyday situations like going to a store and buy something are almost impossible to manage for her because she gets extreme anxiety symptoms (shaking, blushing, blank mind, etc) and just panics. I feel so bad for her and want to help her as much as I can. Often I come with her because social situations are easier to manage for her when we to them together. But even when I'm with her she often feels really nervous and uncomfortable in public. So when I feel she's anxious or when she tells me she's scared I hold hands with her, or even give her a hug when it's really bad, and try to tell her that everything will be okay and nothing bad will happen. It really helps her to calm down and makes her feel more safe and comfortable. So far it always was a normal thing to do for me and I never thought anything weird about it. But now this guy from my class saw how I held hands with her and for some reason he knows that she is my sister. At school he told me that it's really gross, perverted and I should be ashamed. I tried to explain it but he didn't even want to understand and said that I was just making excuses. He even told me that incest is illegal and kept teasing me about it the whole day. What the ****? Is it really that wrong and what should I do now? No way I will stop doing it.

Question: How to motivate mother?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 12:39 PM PDT

Am 16 and My mother is 41 year old with No job no license no car she just stay in the house all day and sleeps we live in the a apartment and I hate it I want to move out and live close to the city so I can go to the top Muay Thai schools and start wrestling again.my father does everything and there divorced she just lives of him and expects him to do everything she claims to already got a apartment in city but she always lying so I don't believe It.i flip on her everyday and call her a bum and loser and lazy and a retard it's 3 o clock and she is sleeping everytime I tell her to get her **** together she tells me am gonna give her a heart attack or a stroke I want to go back to the gym so bad but there is none around me and I have no ride I just do what I can around the house and it's getting frustrating not having coaches and equipment I just wish my parents seen my talent like my old coaches did.

Question: My roommate never leaves the dorm?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 12:22 PM PDT

Never leaves her bed** I should say... She only leaves to go to class and to go pee/shower. She doesn't even eat in the dining hall so instead warms up food in the microwave and eats that as her meals. She also brushes her teeth in the room, like she spits into a cup and then throws the spit out our window. She studies in her bed or on the floor and then gets mad when I want to use the ladder to get to my bed (since the area she sits on the floor is next to the ladder). She gets mad when my friends come over; I also have this program where I get online tutoring via webcam. She always yells at me for having these tutoring sessions be in the room, but I really have nowhere else to do them (our campus has really bad wifi, our room as the strongest connection). She grunts every time I come and and say hi, and always asks why I don't go home on the weekends. I know it's her room just as much it is mine, but it's just annoying because I always have a pair of eyes on me. I know privacy really isn't a factor when you're living in the dorms, but there should still be those times you have the room to yourself (even if it's for 5 minutes). I never have that, and it's really aggravating. anyways, I know this really wasn't a question but more of a vent. What are your thoughts? What bad roommate stories do you have?

Question: Did I get snubbed on this forum. ?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:37 AM PDT

I had joined a forum back in 2014 and was active on it periodically. I took a short hiatus from may 2016-feb 2017. When I came back i chatted more about my interests, chat with people who I thought I had something in common with and tried to help others as much as I could. There was a particular thread where members posted their outfits. Everyone who posted their outfit seemed to immediately get three to four responses. When I shared my outfit (a full one), it took three days for someone random to reapond. The person said I looked very stylish and lovely. Another person, who was more well known on the site, complimented the person who posted their outfit before me, then posted their outfit. She immediately got about five compliments within two hours.  There was also a thread on that site where you had to say something nice about the person above you. Every time I had said something, it took days for anyone to say something to me. And whenever they did, they said nothing about my personality and just commented on how creative my screename sounded. One guy went as far as to compliment something that he had no evidence of. It felt fake and forced. It really seemed like people who were either the most well known or were apart of cliques, got the most comments, but I still feel like I got snubbed in the picture thread by that particular girl. I didn't do anything but be myself on that forum.

Question: Should I still visit my father?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:20 AM PDT

I am visiting my mom in my home country. My dad lives in a different country, that I've never been to (he abandoned us 30 years ago). I made plans to visit him and see the country where he is from. I've got relationship with him only for the last 4 years. I went out of my way and booked my tickets and hotel for 3 days there before I go to where I live. The day I told him, he was drunk (recently I learnt he has been drinking a lot lately). When he learnt that I booked hotel, he said if I don't stay in his house, he doesn't want to know me, because it will be shame for him in the eyes of his relatives. He lives with his other wife and she hates me and my mom. Besides I am 31, my dad abandoned me when I was 11. I don't feel that he has any right to dictate how and what I should do at this point. He simply should be grateful that I don't hate him for leaving me and still want to have the relationship with him. The bottom line, I want to cancel the trip all together. Should I?

Question: How close to 'identical' can non-twin siblings be?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:16 AM PDT

Say two boys or two girls with the same parents are born 10 months apart...they have the same DNA, how much like twins can they be?

Question: Want to have sex with my nephew, how can I get to it?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:07 AM PDT

I'm 55 and he is 26. It seems he wants me (look to my ***, legs, etc). What should I do, really want to seduce him. Any aunt ever did this? Any advice? If you have any please mail me taschibra@yahoo.com

Question: I have 2 really annoying siblings and whenever they annoy me i get angry with them and i push them away, then they run to our mom and i get?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:05 AM PDT

Question: I literally cannot stand my little sister, I hate her?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 10:59 AM PDT

I'm 19 and she's 15. So last December we had an argument which I don't remember what it was about. It's now April and we're still not talking. I've tried to be nice to her in the past but it never got anywhere so I just stopped trying. This is the longest we haven't spoken. I just don't know why she hates me so much. She's even got my other sister who's 16 to hate me, she's that controlling. I'm not even exaggerating here. She's like the oldest out of the two. Today I asked her to give me the remote control back because I was watching TV. She then just threw it across the room and called me an ugly *****. I was like what the hell is your problem and from then on started to argue. Then she was making fun of my depression and social anxiety which made me so so mad because I've really been struggling with it (especially socially anxiety since a very young age) and I hit her (I know I shouldn't have) and we started fighting where my mum had to break us up. I'm so done. I know it sounds silly because she's younger than me but your sister says she wouldn't care if I died then it does really hurt. All three of us share a room because we only have 3 bedrooms and my brother will be 13 so he can't share with a girl. I just don't know what to do. I'm in tears because I'm just so angry and hurt, especially making fun of the things I'm most insecure about. No one understands. What should I do?

Question: Why Has My Girlfriend's Mom Started Hating Me Ever Since I Stopped Letting her Daughter Control me?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 10:39 AM PDT

When me and my girlfriend started dating, I admit, I was a complete pushover and my girlfriend walked all over me and ordered me around, and controlled me and I let her. And her mom loved me because she liked the fact that I would do anything to please her daughter and worshiped the ground she walked on. But I've matured a lot since then (4 years ago) and ever since I started taking a more dominant and assertive role in our relationship, her mom has started to dislike me. I still respect her daughter obviously, but I am much more mature and take charge in the relationship and instead of letting her walk all over me. I guess our roles have kind of switched and now I'm the dominant one in the relationship where I used to be the submissive one. Her mom has made comments behind my back about how much "i've changed" and "turned into a manly man" and how she doesn't like it. When we started dating I was only 20 and a late bloomer and now I'm 24, got into lifting weights, and have physically and mentally matured a lot. I also work in sales now after I graduated college so I have sort of changed into a more confident person and more outgoing and assertive

Question: What do you do when girls acts like this where you live?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 10:25 AM PDT

Where I live girls are down to earth, will talk to anyone and carries a 'down to earth presence' While they proclaim to be down to earth, they all carry a consistency about them. They were raised to believe that 'tough and scary' gets somebody respected. They seem to despise victim mentalities, they seem to get into physical fights very often. My sister got into a small squabble with one and she wanted her to go out in the parking lot to fight her. They will usually shake their finger and roll their head and shout 'I come from a family that takes nothing off of nobody, start s h I t with me get s h I t back!' What should I do?

Question: Should I take the blame for something I didn't do?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 10:23 AM PDT

I recently stayed at my aunts house for three days and she has quite a few cats living on her property, most of which are outdoor but three or four of them are indoor. I stayed in a room that has a door that opens to a private garden. I'd go out there occasionally just to get some sun and catch up on reading but I always would remember to close it. The day I left I got a text from my dad telling me that my aunt was extremely upset because one of the indoor cats had gotten out from the open door in the room I was staying in. I was shocked to hear this because I distinctly remember having closed the door made the bed and cleaned up any mess I had made. I felt extremely guilty although I didn't do anything to cause the cat to run away. I also discovered that I had taken a picture on Snapchat with a timestamp of exactly 5 minutes before I had left and the door just so happens to be clearly closed in the picture. I didn't even want to talk to my aunt so I sent my dad the picture to which he sent my aunt and she assumed that he was calling her a liar. In some aspects I can be careless but I am an animal lover and have animals of my own so in this aspect I am not careless at all. My dad at first believe me when I showed him the picture and the timestamp but now he is insisting I accept the blame. Is that fair?

Question: My uncle is estranged from his brothers and sisters and living with his mother in law at 70?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 09:25 AM PDT

She's a gold digger who is only after his inheritance.

Question: Should I be worried about my brother?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 09:16 AM PDT

Recently my brother joined this club called "Workers United" and he's been wearing a red uniform to all the meetings.

Question: My step sister is touchy ? Does she like me or what?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 09:06 AM PDT

She hugs me nearly every day. When we watch TV, she puts her head on my shoulder, wraps her legs around my legs... She's sometimes very playful with me and asked me to carry her on my shoulders/back around the house once. 3 days ago, she lied down on the couch with me and wrapped her hands around me. I don't want to make her stop since she's very seductive and good looking. She came into my room half naked 2 times already, asked me if I touched her clothes. What should I do ? Does she like me or she's just very friendly ? Cause she's a very nice person in general. Please no "Im creepy" answers(And we are 14, if that helps...)

Question: Will a hotel mail your lost items?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 08:23 AM PDT

So I just realized when we got home we left a few items. The hotel is 2 and half hours away.

Question: I made my mom really upset and she fried?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 08:21 AM PDT

We were at my grandparents house visiting my grandma and my boyfriend called me and we were having a disagreement and he normally handles it in a calm manner that day he was being grumpy with me and my mom and grandma were saying stuff like he's going to be physically abusive which isn't true he never hit any of his past girlfriends or even his mom and I got so mad I told my grandma it was none of her damn business and when we were riding home she started to cry and it made me feel so bad and now she doesn't talk to me as much anymore:'( any advice because this is killing me

Question: My gfs ex is threatening me?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 08:08 AM PDT

o my gfs ex somehow got my number and texted me, "better watch ur back man" and sent me this picture: http://imgur.com/MrJbuBY I didnt even respond to him, but of course im a little nervous. Hes 24 and im only 19, as well as my gf. My gf told me he has a past of Abusing alcohol and gets pretty scary, so im pretty scared. Should i go to the police?

Question: Is it bad to tell your baby sister that the sun goes away when he's mad at her?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:41 AM PDT

Question: I live across the street from a registered child predator! HELP!?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:40 AM PDT

My family and siblings have been great friends since birth with a boy across the street, he's more like a brother than anything.. but the problem is that his brother was recently charged and arrested with attempting to commit sexual acts on a 14 year old, it was an undercover sting operation where he was talking to a "girl" online, and after explaining detailed sexual things, planned to meet up, where he was arrested. He got out on bail, but I am that same age, and I'm scared to lay in my front yard, or be home alone. This is one of my best friend's brothers. I would have gotten into a car with him, I would have let him come into my house, because my family thought we knew him. I still am friends with his brother, but it scares me to no end. He isn't going to jail! and He's an adult still living across the street with his parents (he's mid-20's) And he isn't leaving anytime soon... please help, I'm really scared all the time. And so are my parents. I am 14, by the way. The same age as the "girl"

Question: Does my mom have the right to be mad at me?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:29 AM PDT

My grandma has surgery in 3 days (thursday, 27th)and my mom says im not aloud to go bc of school, I'm going anyway bc that's my grandma. Now my mom is pissed at me for being "immature". How does me supporting my grandma make me immature?

Question: I think my dad gave me herpes. Should I go to the doctor or tell my Mom?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:00 AM PDT

Question: Is my dad mentally abusing?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 06:53 AM PDT

Im almost 16 and i dont like my dad at all.I live with my mom and dad and i absolutely hate living with them because they always fight. My mom dont like my dad either because he drinks like 3 times a week. He dosent drinke that much that he is like crazy, he will just pick on my mom. I have seen him like super drunk he has even raped my mom and broken bathroom door. He is disrespectful towards my mom. My mom is like scared of him when he pisses him off, my mom wants to buy me new furniture for my bedroom but she keeps that from my dad because he says its a waste of money, and i get that you now.But my mom makes 6 times more money then him.And he always gets pissed when my mom SPEND HER OWN MONEY...My dad gets just really angry when people dont act hes way. Example- i was really hungry and wanted to make food for myself and he got really angry and said we have food, he always gets angry when i dont like the food he or my mom had made. I think my dad is really close minded he hates gays, black people, muslims. And im opposed of him i dont hate anybody. My dad makes me feel really bad after i talk to him i cry. Im just really unhappy around him. My mom dosent realise that he is really negative and toxic person in my life. And i absolutly hate racist people thats another reason why i dont like him, When he sees a black person or muslim he says he wants to kill them and calls them n word. I think he just think they all are like terrorists and he ALWAYS talks about how black people kill everybody and it pisses me off how much hate he has

Question: I like my new step brother ?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 06:44 AM PDT

I really enjoy his attention. I like when he flirts with me... I hug him just to get his attention. I think he might like me, but I'm still not sure. He comes into my room for no reason just to talk for 30 minutes... He's pretty touchy, too... We are 14. What's the best way to make him horny/get his attention ?

Question: Men, would you want to be a father at 60?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 06:12 AM PDT

I have a high sex drive. I want to populate the world with babies. Any advice?

Question: How do i tell my parents i want to drop out? Im a gammer and hate school, i want to make my own game and maybe a company someday.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:36 AM PDT

Question: How do I explain to my old fashioned parents that I want to be a fashion designer?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:13 AM PDT

I'm a guy and I wanna work in the fashion industry to design women's shoes. I mainly wanna design boots (ankle boots, mid calf, knee highs, riders, etc) because I love them, they're sexy. I want to design my own line of boots. My dad already thinks I'm not enough of a man. How do I explain to him that I wanna design women's shoes? I'd go back to college to study visual arts or design/graphic design.

Question: I resent my parents.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:01 AM PDT

My family is very toxic and unhealthy in many ways. Though there is no alcoholism or physical abuse, the relationships are extremely draining and exhausting. My dad abandoned me and my mom when I was 11. My mom and I were extremely poor and my aunt hated and wished me death. Long story short, I moved away when I was 23. But kept working to save money to help my mom to move away from my hateful aunt. Today at 31 I was finally able to by my mom a condo by the sea. I got the keys today. Meanwhile I found my father, reconciled with him and tried to establish communication that I was missing all my life. Lately I started to realize that no matter how much I try to put my family together and establish some relationship that I was craving ever since I was a child, it will never work. And perhaps it's too late for this. My mom is a very primitive person, idk if she always was like that or she became stupid with age, but the more I look at her words and actions now and before, I see that she can not make any decisions, she seem to have narcissist personality disorder and puts me down all the time, no matter how much I try to help her with everything. My dad is not very smart either. He made some bad decisions and now keeps making more of those, even in communication with me. I am 31. I feel like I spent most of my time trying to have a normal family other kids had. I am divorced, no kids, no bf. I've wasted my time and energy for my mom and dad. What should I do?

Question: What should i do ?

Posted: 24 Apr 2017 12:10 AM PDT

im 15 years old boy and i have a younger brother age 11. Our parent always having fight especially at night. I can handle it but im worried about my brother. I tried to put him to sleep early so he cannot hears the fight.I know i cannot do this everyday. Can anyone help about what should i do?

Question: I am trying to join man so i can learn to fight so i can beat up my alcoholic father for all the damage done is this a good idea?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:48 PM PDT

Question: Is it wrong to travel alone? Your husband is okay with you visiting a girlfriend and just to have girl time.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:46 PM PDT

I'm 28years old I'm the only daughter and I have 3 kids. I have a friend in Colorado and is my first time traveling alone. When she was in ca she's wasn't perfect terms. But she found help and I would like to see her at her best. Just catch up as well just have girl time nothing crazy. But my mom really unhappy and I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong she does feel that I should take my 1 year old with me or one of my kids with me. I'm I reydoing something bad? To be honest I work so hard I never done anything like this. She did made me feel bad I told her my one year old is staying with his dad and my other kids can too be she's always been so over protective grandmother as well.

Question: What are some good excuses for keeping my phone in my room at night?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:21 PM PDT

I am a teenager and I live with my parents. Normally I charge my phone in the living room. I don't know why, I guess it's just a habit. Tonight I want to keep it in my room, because I need to do some things online. (Nothing bad, just random things that I didn't have time for during the day.) It's already midnight and I'm supposed to go to bed soon. If I tell my parents that I want to keep my phone in my room tonight, they might get suspicious. I need a good excuse to charge my phone in my room.

Question: How can I get my both my parents to accept me for me is they are complete opposites and I can t change some of the things they wouldn t like?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:20 PM PDT

I m insane, love crazy music, want to run away, suicidal, pretty sure I m emo (I can never tell), in a relationship (my mom s Mormon and we can t date till 16), want to have sex with my boyfriend, masterbait, have crazy friends, Mormon (my dad hates Mormon s) but don t want to be (my mom s side of the family would kill me), my mothers child (my dad hates my mom. He says he doesn t but it s obvious), and want to have my own life (I hardly ever get to make choices for myself). What should I do?

Question: How to make up for not having a dad?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:13 PM PDT

i feel like i missed alot by not having a male role model in my life and i hate that it bothers me. how do i make up for it. no one wants to help me.

Question: Do I have something wrong with me? My father is 5'0 and my mom is 4'11. And I'm 6'2 and only 13?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:22 PM PDT

Question: Do you think it's ok for a mom to help her 6 year old son with parts of his bath?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:16 PM PDT

Like for instance, if she just came in at the end to help him wash his hair, rinse off and just dry him off. Is that ok?

Question: Need Help please answer! Home living situation.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:06 PM PDT

hi, I just want to get a little bit of an understanding. So my mom and I fight. A lot. I hit her almost everyday, and yes I love her but I feel like it might be better if I go live with my aunt. Could this be possible, if I were to tell the school what would happen?

Question: My mother is 5'0 and my father is 5'10 Can I grow even further in 15?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:47 PM PDT

Question: Daddy issues and pushing people away?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:34 PM PDT

To make a long story short I have daddy issues. I don't know my bio father. My step dad never is interested in anything I do and never seems to be interested in what my sisters and I like to do and who we are. I love movies. I wanna go to film school soon! Tonight when I was watching a movie he actually made a comment about it and said he liked that movie too. It's funny because all I want is for him to talk to me about movies and get to know me but now after he finally said something I wanna push him away. Am I crazy? I think it could be because I know he's just gonna go back and ignore me again soon? Has anyone else ever felt like this

Question: My parents refuse to trust me----SEND HELP?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:27 PM PDT

So I am 17, and a junior in High school. I have straight A s, I am in high academic classes, play sports, I am part of the National Honors Society, part of the Debate team, volunteer quite a bit, and have over a 4.0 GPA. My teachers all love me, and I am friends with the good kids. I have never drank, I do not attend any wild parties, and I have never broke curfew. Despite all of this, my parents do not seem to trust me. They will not allow me to get my license (because that would mean more freedom I guess?) and as of recent they have began to insist on taking my phone every night at 9 pm. They have my pass code, and they look through my phone every night. I do not have anything to hide from them, but I feel as though this is a tad bit excessive. At this point I do not know what to do or how to handle this situation that only seems to be getting worse. I have tried talking to them about it, but it only seems to make the situation worse. Please help.

Question: Is it my dad's fault?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:21 PM PDT

I am getting fed up with living with my drunk mom and hearing bull from other family members. I can't stay with my father bc my sociopath cousin lives there-I'm 20 and a full-time student so i don't work. I told him to get rid of her for 4 years, but he hasn't and he knows I have to deal with difficult people- they're not as difficult as the sociopath was but still.

Question: Im depressed and broken up, im going to send this to my farther who left us, does this sound good?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:00 PM PDT

Yes i am. When you first left you told us it was just going to be a family reunion and that you would be back in a week or two. Time passed by and like an idiot, i kept asking our mom "whens our dad coming back". Time still passes by, and you just end staying there, no warning what so ever. You promised me that i would be starting my junior year out there and i never did. Throughout the 7 months my moms been struggling to give me money for school and do other things. You left me stranded here with our mom, my sister and brother and ive truly grown to hate them. I resent you for doing this to me? For living me here to be miserable everday and get beat on by my mother who emotionally and verbally abuses me. And i resent you for leaving us to start another family. Ive beeb struggling with my self esteem and depression and i have no one to talk to about it, I cant even remember the last time i was genuinely happy. Out of the 16 years of my my life i cant even remember a time i was happy for more than one day. I blame you and our mom for the physical fighting i witnessed when i was younger and we were still living on the east coast, and the verbal fighting that went on when we were living in the old apartments, the house, then back to the apartments. I really have nothing more to say to you, im not coming out there this summer, or ever, except for when i go collge, and even then i dont want to talk to you, and i dont want to be around your new sons or you girlfriend or whatever.

Question: WTF should i do!!? PLEASE HELP!!?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:37 PM PDT

Alright so im opening in three months my own pizza place back home. But big thing is that i would love to move to Miami, option is to work in the Marriott in which i have a big opportunity in. Bad thing is leaving my family like i did last year when i went to live in Orlando. Thats the reason why i had to go back home. (if i have the pizza place i would open 2 back home and two in florida... but it would be a while until i move to Florida) Big question what should I do? I know it depends on what i want to do, but im 22 years old and well I just want to be happy lol what do you think is the best thing to do?

Question: What is the proper name of the wives brother to the husband?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:29 PM PDT

Question: Did I make the right decision?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:04 PM PDT

A few weeks ago, I left my boyfriend because for the last 3 years we have been having problems with his mom talking crap about me on facebook, to his family, and even sending nasty messages to my dad... she refuses to be cordial with me or allow me at any family events, even though I've done nothing to deserve this treatment. My boyfriend allowed this to happen but also fought with her about changing her ways but his parents won't budge. There wasn't anything else wrong with our relationship but this was causing too much strain on both of us. He grew tired of arguing with his parents and I was done with being treated like garbage and watching him spend time with them without me for holidays etc.. But now people are saying I let his mom win by leaving and I miss him like crazy, and I know we both still feel love for each other.. I'm not sure if I made the right decision anymore. Opinions? Please and thank you

Question: Help with bullying?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:40 PM PDT

My sister is getting bullied by her three roommates. They gang up on her, and call her names (like bi*** and two-faced). They pretend she has a mental disorder and tells her she seriously needs help (she doesn't! I would know! I'm her sister!!) and threatens to go to authority if it isn't fixed. They complain about the indian food we eat and so she goes out to the dining hall every freaking breakfast/lunch/dinner to eat her homemade food because they've complained about it the one time she decided to eat in the dorm. They spread gossip about her being two-faced. this infuriates me the most. My sister is the most cinnamon bun roll thing I've ever known and she would not hurt a living soul, even the bullies. I kind of don't like that about my sister!!! She even comforted one of the bullies while they were crying and the bully swatted her hand away and called her a useless piece of sh**!!!! My sister's cried hours about this and everytime she calls me or my parents, she is sobbing. It breaks my heart and my mom and dad's. recently people have started hearing about this (because of the yelling inside the dorm) and started to turn against the bullies (they're pretty popular, my sister is not). So they came up and called my sister a b-word for making people turn on them. My sister calls me crying and i don't know what to do. She can't switch out of her dorm. Her college is a bit special and it's really bad if you do. How does she deal with these people?? **i'm the younger sister so I can't visit her or anything.

Question: Should I tell my parents that my sister is ordering things online without permission?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:27 PM PDT

My 15 year old sis with autism started using Instagram alot and she started ordering things from there. I get that she had trouble making friends when she was little,she finally started gaining friends, so i shouldn't "ruin her life". She already thinks im an annoying little brother sometimes. She orders harmless things like slime (that putty-like clay stuff thats popular with kids). Our parents are foreigners to came here to Canada and they grew up uneducated so they kinda have no idea what kids do nowadays. Once my mom almost caught my sister's mail by taking the envelope with her,but my sister lied and said it belongs to the people who rents our basement. Another thing,both parents don't speak English at all so it wouldve been so easy for my sister to trick her. High schoolers are allowed to go out during lunch period, and my sister buys gift cards for those people she's buying from in exchange for the items. She tells them a fake first name so our parents wouldn't recognize it and assume the mails don't belong to us. And my parents don't snoop in other people's envelopes so they just leave it in a cabinet where everyone sees the mails. My sister would get the mail later on when parents aren't around. Should i tell them that she's ordering stuff without permission? Cause she's buying gift cards to buy them too which costs money

Question: I am so fed up with my son!! Advice needed?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:26 PM PDT

I am so tired of my son! He is 20 years old and acts like a child. He graduated but barely. He hasn't had a job since. All he's ever done is play on his computer and talk to his online friends and read anime. He doesn't know basic needs or how to balance a checkbook, he's bad at Math too. I think he's depressed and always struggled with it. He has ADHD and stopped taking his medication years ago because they made him emotional and sick. He has tried a special medical school where it's a little easier for people who aren't as intelligent. Anyway, he says he doesn't mind getting a job but he's too anxious about working. I think deep down he wants to better himself but he's negative. He told me before medical school that he wouldn't like it and it wasn't worth the money. And he stopped going it within 2 months, and now I'm stuck paying 2000 dollars for his schooling that he's not even doing. He doesn't care about ANYTHING. If I kicked him out it wouldn't work because he just says he'll just live homeless and still not get his crap together. Our family is always asking me what he's been up to, and then they all talk about him like he's a loser. All he talks about to me is some comic book character and how pretty he is, and I am tired of it. I admit I wasn't the best mother, I was young and neglected him often. But, he isn't my responsibility anymore. He's an adult and I love him because he's my son, but what am I supposed to about him? What is wrong with him? Is he mental?

Question: My husbands in-laws hate me because of his ex-wife. How do I deal with this?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:13 PM PDT

His family was ok at first. They were accepting of my children and I and invited us over. I was so happy because my family has all passed away so this was my chance to have a larger family for my children (other than just having me). His ex is insane. I mean literally. I have read her psych evaluation. She is always hounding him about child support. He pays. He is not behind. But she will text him the day it is to be deducted from his check and say "Wheres my money". I text her one day. I explained to her that my husband is a good man and that he is not going to just stop paying for the kids. She told my husbands family that I text her and told her that I hate the kids and that I do not want them back at my house and that they are not safe around me. They believed her for some reason. I offered to send them screenshots of the text. She called DCS and told them that one of my kids molested her kids. There was an interview done by a forensic psychologist. It was found that she had coached the kids and it never happened. His family said that if the kids said it it has to be true because they do not lie. They have even admitted it to me that nothing happened and they lied. Now his family refuses to accept us, will not allow us to come for holiday get togethers and make him chose between his family or his wife. How do I deal with this? He says I need to leave his ex alone about things because she throws fits. So I'm suppose to allow her behavior?

Question: Clingy mom ?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:04 PM PDT

My mom can be controlling, manipulative at times, and overbearing. If she could spend every minute of the day with me she would, and she gets mad when I want to leave to spend time with my boyfriend. I am about to be 18 years old and feel as if I can't grow up. How should I deal with this situation ?

Question: MY Dad is SO ignorant of people that are different. How can I let go of my anger at him?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:41 PM PDT

Question: My little sister gets away with hitting me pushing me and saying she hates me and then I get in trouble for it help me I'm sick of my life?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:27 PM PDT

Question: My sisters boyfriend is disrespectful. What can I do?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:25 PM PDT

He used to respect my mom. Now when he comes he doesn't even say hi to my mom. Both him and my sister are disrespectful to my mom. I want to talk trash but my mom told me to stay silent and wait until my sis turns 18 in august

Question: How to I convince my mother to give up drinking for us, she is an alcoholic and I can't seem to get her to stop.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:25 PM PDT

It is so bad my friend's parents won't let my friends come over.

Question: My mother says that when my Dad first saw me as an infant he said "what did I do to deserve this". Might she just be kidding?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:57 PM PDT

She says this was because I was such an ugly baby.

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and wrecked Easter, what should I do about it?

Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:56 PM PDT