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- Question: How to tell someone you don't want to be their friend without saying it directly?
- Question: My best friend and I aren't close anymore..we are more like friends and I hate it...she hangs out with her other bff more, any advice?
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| Question: How to tell someone you don't want to be their friend without saying it directly? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:24 PM PDT There's this girl I go to school with who's pretty rude and thinks she do whatever she wants like pushing people or messing up the stuff their doing and get away with it by saying she's having a bad day and I'm so tired of it. I don't wanna be friends with her, but we go to school together and will probably have a lot of the same classes next year. I don't know what to do about it. She sometimes sits at our table during lunch and I can't really make her leave. She's only really my "friend" and this other girls friend at the table so most people wouldn't care if she didn't eat with us. Idk if I can repeatedly tell her the seats taken though. What do you think I should do? |
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| Question: How can I become better friends with people? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:47 PM PDT There's this girl who I want to become friends with because she's really cool. The only problem is that she is very popular and only seems to hangout with popular people. What kind of convos should I have w her to make me seem like someone she would want to become better friends with? |
| Question: How do I receive a return to work for Halliburton? I m on unpaid mloa at the moment.? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:43 PM PDT |
| Question: Can a straight guy be jealous of a girl spending time with a gay guy? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:34 PM PDT One of my male friends just pulled the "So you and ____ have been hanging out a lot lately." "It seems like you and ___ are together a lot." "What do you and ____ usually do when you hang out?" His questions confused me… because _____ is a clearly gay man. Is he jealous? |
| Question: What does it mean when someone has the mouth of a truck driver? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:19 PM PDT I have truck drivers in my family and they eat alot of food because they are driving all of the time. Is this what is meant by this comment? Whenever i ask them what it means they tell me it's a secret code that only other truckers share. Then they dress me in dolls clothing and parade me around the block on the back of their winnebago. I wish i wasn't the butt of their jokes but i am. |
| Question: Why do I feel submissive to my best friend? Anyone had similar problem? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:11 PM PDT Hi, I m David, 19 yeas old boy from Central europe, 192cm (6 3) tall, manly looking, strong & bit hairy. I never had problem with selefstem, never got bullied etc. But for a last month I started to feel submissive to my best friend, I have no idea why, hes way smaller, skinny and never bossy. Yet something in me actually wish he would take things in his hand and order me around. Sorry for my English and if my question is veird. |
| Question: Is it conceited to talk about yourself? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:35 PM PDT We all hate the person who loves to tell you about the things they bought like "this jacket was $200..." So why is the only thing any stranger ever says to anyone is "I like your jacket." |
| Question: She's lying, what to do about it? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:49 PM PDT My best friend of 10 years got an inheritance, it's well over 100 thousand dollars. She has bought a total of three cars, She traded the first two for color variation and model. She now has one. Her apartment is like 1,200 a month. She's bought 3 dogs, one she had to get rid of. She had tons of Victoria Secret stuff she always buys, and expensive purses along with clothes. She also let's her other friend mooch off of her rent free. Her friend steals her clothes and etc. She's had 6 jobs in total in a year and a half, she keeps quitting and is currently jobless. My mother and I are very close to her and she came to us looking for a place to live because she claims she was moving to a new place and paid the deposit but they "moved" someone else in instead. She's already borrowed money from us before, she claims the rest of her money is tied up in stocks/investments and cant take it out. We know she is definitely going to be homeless, but we wont let her in our house until she admits she spent all of her money. How to get her to tell the truth? |
| Question: Should I do something or just move on? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:41 PM PDT I lost my best friend about a 6-7 months ago. He left because he didn't like a person I was seeing and said that he loved me too much and needed distance because it hurt him. I totally understand how he feels but I can't help but feel angry and betrayed by him. We made a lot of plans together and had many promises. I'm also mad at myself for doing that too him because I never wanted to hurt him and I didn't expect him to react that way, but I couldn't really help the way I felt. He actually talked to me about a month back but it didn't get anywhere he started saying things like "did you know how much I cared about you?" etcetc. And about a week ago I blocked him on everything, out of anger, sadness and frustration, except a messaging app that we used to talk on before so in case he ever did want to talk or need me he could still get ahold of me. I kind of regret it because he immediately blocked me back. I miss him a lot but it feels useless to talk to him. He'd probably just laugh in my face because the person i was seeing cheated on me, What should I do/say even if I bothered? |
| Question: Any beautiful girl wanna chill at my place and cuddle for the evening? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:23 PM PDT Come over to my place and relax on my pad with me by the fireplace. We drink some champagne and cuddle up in front of a movie together. |
| Question: Cool letter ideas besides "open when.." for best friends? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:21 PM PDT |
| Question: Time to let go of best friend? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:06 PM PDT I've been best friends with this girl for 10 years now and I kinda feel like it's tim I let her go. We used to do everything together and now we only see each other to go out drinking. And everything is a competition between us and she's always jealous of my friendships and achievements. We also don't see eye to eye morally, she said made a choice that made me lose a lot of respect for her and I can't look past it as much as I want to. Is it worth keeping a relationship like this, 10 years is a long time but I feel like maybe I should block her number before things get worse, and at least end on a semi-good note before we end up hating each other. |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:49 PM PDT I need a men s points of view on this issue did I over react or to blame. My bf come over for a week and a bit it was his first ever visit. He arrived on a Friday and Saturday morning he went over to see his friend spent the whole day he then did the same till Monday, on the Tuesday he then announces that we can spend time together but we had to stay local as he had to take his friend to the airport later in the evening. I refused we had a talk and I expressed my concerns about his behaviour, he apologized and took responsibility for his actions. To my surprise he then turns around and says his friend told him l did wrong and l over reacted. Before his visit I had said to him that he should spend the weekend with his friend and then come over to mine s, because I knew this what was going to happen. He refused and accused me of been immature and he was coming to see me and not his friend. |
| Question: Embarrassed at school :(? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:47 PM PDT so i was at school today and someone i know waved. i didn't know if she was waving at me or if there was someone behind me, but i wasn't going to be rude so i waved back. immediately i knew she was waving at another girl and laughed & told her friends so i'm really embarrassed. im not sure if it's something to be stressing over, so how do i forget/fix this? |
| Question: My friend is friends with someone she shouldn't be? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:47 PM PDT My friend has recently started to become close to someone who is bad news. He's been known to stalk and insult the persons friends. I have become one of those friends. But because they've all been from calls with unknown numbers (but definitely him), I can't prove anything. I tried to tell her before but she just got really angry. I'm now extremely worried for her and I don't know what I can do to protect her from this monster. Any advice is appreciated. |
| Question: I dont have friends because of my parents :(? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:43 PM PDT My parents dont lwt me text anyone or hang out with anyone so I've been alone all my life and I've been so depressed and suicidial im so alone and its my parents fault what can i do should i just end it all? |
| Question: Is it wrong to report bullying when the victim has told you before not to? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:26 PM PDT Today, I reported some bullies, without the permission or knowledge of the victim, aka my friend. Was this the right thing to do? |
| Question: Does my step sister like me ? I do...? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:26 PM PDT She hugs me nearly every day. When we watch TV, she puts her head on my shoulder, wraps her legs around my legs... She's sometimes very playful with me and asked me to carry her on my shoulders/back around the house once. 3 days ago, she lied down on the couch with me and wrapped her hands around me. I don't want to make her stop since she's very seductive and good looking. She came into my room half naked 2 times already, asked me if I touched her clothes. What should I do ? Does she like me or she's just very friendly ? Cause she's a very nice person in general. Again... I get turned on whenever she does that.(And we are 14, if that helps...) Should I start doing something back ? I'm not shy and I could flirt her into submission in 5 minutes... |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 12:49 PM PDT I recently hosted a slumber party and two of my friends are coming. One of them I am really annoyed with right now and now me and my other friend want to just have the sleepover to ourselves. What should I do? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 12:20 PM PDT After seeing her there a few times I saw her at the mall and she came over and talked to me and we swopped numbers. I thought she might would be a good friend and I thought about setting her up with my brother because he was single. Anyway, a year later I saw her at one of the dances and I came over to try and talk to her and at the same time try to tell her about my single brother. Before I could tell her about my single brother she acted like I was bothering her and she started ignoring me after she said hey when I said hey to her when I sat down at the table she was out. I had brought my single brother to the dance that night. But after she started ignoring me she got up and started dancing with this guy. I told somebodyelse there at the dance I was with my brother. 3 weeks later, this same lady who ignored me started calling my cell phone twice a day for weeks asking all kinds of questions about my single brother. She told me someone had told her I had a single brother. Well I brought him to the next dance so he and her could meet. (They didn't connect). After that she called me a few more times to talk and then I tried calling her after that and left 2 messages on her phone and she never called me back. When I saw her at the next 8 dances she didn't speak to me at all. She didn't even wave. When I first met her she acted like she wanted to be friends but now she acts like a stranger. Yet she blew my phone up when she learned I had a single brother. Thoughts about this? |
| Question: How to stop being mean due to being annoyed easily? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:48 AM PDT I don't like when people tell me things I already know or act like they are clueless about things they should know, I can't help but give snide responses but I feel bad after, though I don't know how to apologize because I feel that people should think deeper before they say things to me and are wasting my time otherwise. certain people can handle it like my brother and sister but others like my mom or certain friends seem offended. I feel bad but I can't help it, it's like I have to teach them a lesson for being absent minded. I boil whenever I hold back from giving a smart remark, I need help. |
| Question: How do you make your friend your asking out to a dance to stop crying.? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:33 AM PDT I asked my friend out to a dance in my middle school and a few hours later they were crying.I feel like i did something bad and i want a way to help her feel like she is okay with me.Any suggestions? |
| Question: I met a scorpio in Facebook but i screwed it up? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:18 AM PDT I want to regain the trust, of a scorpio guy that I have met in Facebook, we started slowly but one day i added him to WhatsApp, we spoke rarely due to the fact that he is a very busy person and workaholic in his business and his time is limited. But due to my ignorance and my anxiety topics i messed up plus a bit of my experience from my interpersonal relationships; there were many things i ignored about his personality and character and my biggest mistake is that i left because i didn't wanted nobody of us getting hurt ; which i have seen that movie many times, so i gave up rather early, but this friendship had something for me and him as we both were excited at 1st or so it seemed , but my excitement turned to panic or fear. I tried to apologize but it was already late. Now he is just in big silence.. Am i now in his dead list?(that's the logical explanation i can give, im virgo btw and my thoughts are running) .. Is there any way to undone my mistakes?.. Whatever i do seem to fall into the void.. He just don't care, or i have hurt him to the point of no return... Please any help appreciate. Thanks in advance |
| Question: I can't move on. Any advice? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:03 AM PDT I know I'm going to sound like a loser, but I'm a guy and little over 1 month ago I lost my bestfriend. She was mad about something ( I accidentally did). She blocked me and didn't want to talk to me again, she was the only positive person I had who never left my side. I suffer from depression so she was the person who helped me and gave me guidance though all my dark moments. But today I've missed her more than everything cried in my room today for the first time in years, all because I saw a picture of us from New years. I feel soo alone and lost without her what shall I dooo????? BTW I'm 22 |
| Question: Was the dare taking things too far? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:00 AM PDT Basically some friends and I are urban explorers and usually check out some abandoned places that we find. No lie! Recently we found out an abandoned strip club, closed since 2003 apparently. We checked the club out. Backstage in the dressing room my friends got this super random idea in their heads and ran up to me. They flat out dared me to pretend to be a stripper while putting on a show for them on the stage. Not to mention they had a few dollars on them and wanted to tip me. You see my friends are guys, I'm the girl among us, so it's kind of expected they'd react this way going into a strip club. Their idea was just bizarre, still I knew they had money and were willing to pay, so I accepted. The one condition I gave them is I wouldn't strip, that's too far. Instead they found some old stripper's lingerie and heels in a cabinet to wear over my clothes, so I could strip in some modest fashion. I started preparing in the dressing room while they pulled up chairs around the stage. Next minute I'm on stage dancing to rap off an ipod. I did a few spins and grinds on the pole, stripped off the underwear, spread my legs, gave a few lap dances. Looked stupid but tried to be sexy. Even though I didn't strip for real my friends loved it either way and tipped me as promised. In the end it was a kinky night, my friends got a show and I got paid. However thinking back was their idea truly that odd? And was it taking it too far? Honestly we just had a laugh about it the next day. |
| Question: Wanna come cut down trees with me in Runescape? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 10:55 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you think it's rude to not respond to people? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 10:38 AM PDT I'm not social. I don't want any friends or anything really like that. When people come up to me and say something to me, I'll usually just stare at them for two seconds and look away. I'll respond to other kids, if, for instance, we're doing a project in school. I'll respond to teachers if what they say is important, which, most of the time, it is. What I'm saying is that I don't really respond to people unless what they're saying is important, because I'm not social. Here's an example, it's a real event that happened around a week ago. Two girls said, "Hi", to me in the lunchroom. I just sat there ignoring them, waiting for the bell. They proceeded to say, "Maybe he thinks we're ugly", but I didn't fall for their trap. They just did that to try to get a reaction out of me. They wanted me to say something along the lines of, "No! I don't think that you're ugly! I'm just having a bad day, really". It all makes no sense to me. If insult them, I'm negative, if I compliment them, I'm positive, and if I just say nothing, I'm neutral. Am I right, or am I wrong? Please explain. |
| Question: Why do girls do that ? Are they flirting or hating ? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 10:25 AM PDT So... I'm 14. I walked home today and some girls I didn't know, were kind of screaming at me "hey boy" and before that, were saying "look at that guy across the street" I didn't hear the rest. A couple days ago 2 girls said "helllooo" in a flirty voice to me. What do they want ? (They're about as old as I am) This has happened many times(All of them are strangers) I look fine and dress well. Pls answer. Should I say something back ? Awhile ago some girl was smiling and staring at me. Yeahh.. I asked this before. I need more answers ? Is that flirting or hating ? |
| Question: What's the best way to make invites for these selected guests? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:48 AM PDT I'm about to switch jobs and wanted to have some co-workers over for some appetizers and drinks. However, I only want to invite a selected few and only about 2/3 of the people in my current department. You see, I don't get along with everyone in my department. Honestly, I don't even want to invite my boss. What's the best and appropriate way to invite only the people I would like to invite? |
| Question: What should I do about my secretive younger sister? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:38 AM PDT I am 25 and have a 16 year old sister. She is very secretive about her personal life with friends and boys, etc. She has been especially secretive on social media sites, blocking myself and our entire family, so I know she is hiding things. Recently, she blocked me on Instagram and claims every time she does this that her account is messed up or has been hacked. I know this to be a lie. No one else is blocked and can see her posts. I looked at her Instagram through a friends account and found some disturbing posts including her with boys in bed and a mysterious cloud of smoke. We were not raised to act this way and none of our family is into drugs or promiscuity, etc. not saying she definitely is, but it looks that way in her photos. Next, I found a picture of a painting I did for her for Christmas. It was very special and I put a lot of Time, thought and love into it. She followed it with a caption "just finished.. Not the best but I just wanted it to match my room" I made this painting for her specifically to match her room, and she's taking credit for it. All of her friends are posting comments about it being cool and amazing, and she keeps replying "thank you so much!" This is disturbing to me, yet extremely hurtful. I feel betrayed and insulted at the same time. Now, what I'm asking is advice on how to handle this discovery. She doesn't know I know, and I always refrain from confronting her about things (such as stealing my clothes and posting photos of her wearing them, stealing my mom and other sister's things, having a secret boyfriend, etc.) because she gets embarrassed very easily and I do not want to embarrass her or upset her. I would just drop this but it has gone to a whole new level and I feel she is going to continue down a bad path if no one ever confronts her, because we never do, or calls her out on it. She never has to suffer consequences for her actions. So, how should I handle this? What should I do? Thanks for the advice in advance! |
| Question: Is my friendship ruined? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:24 AM PDT Over the weekend me and my friends got drunk. One of our friends had to leave the bar and I got stuck taking care of him. My friends called me and told me they are coming now and to wait for them. I ended up waiting for like 30 min while they drank and had a good time. I don't mind taking care of our friend but I wanted to go home because he was super drunk and couldn't stand. My friends showed up and I got beyond pist. I cursed them out and they were trying to calm me down. I kept yelling and told them to f**k off and I left. Next morning I woke up and txted them that they are *********. We met up later in the day and talked and both sides apologized. It still feels weird and its been a few days. Idk if they forgave me or not and they are my best friends and i feel terrible. We've been boys throughout college and this situation sucks |
| Question: What are the popular girls at your school like? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:18 AM PDT There's this clique at our school that sits by the hall. Most of them are blonde, but the most popular girl at our school has dark hair. They all do drugs and wag school etc, one of the girl's mums let her bleach her hair and get a belly button piercing. There's 3 or so of the most popular girls in school there, and 3 or so other girls who are less popular friends of them but still get hundreds of likes on Facebook. They all carry leather handbags and have double ear piercings. Most of them smile when they see you and are nice, but gossip in their group formation. There's two or so other popular girls who are friends with them but they don't sit in their group. What about your school? |
| Question: Do I support my child's school even if I disagree with the details? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:06 AM PDT We (single mom and kids) moved from Ohio to Texas in March and my kids are adjusting to their schools well, although I don't like the year-round schooling we have in my district. To the point, my 8th grade daughter, who is a great kid (honors student etc), knowingly and intentionally helped a friend cheat. She was, I am sure, just trying to make a new friend--this is way out of character for her. That said, the behavior is obviously very wrong. The school sent home a paddling consent form. I did not even realize Texas still paddled. I am not necesarily anti-spanking, but it certainly was never the first resort in our house, and I never really thought about it at school (thought it was illegal). On the other hand, apparently my daughter did know that the clear penalty for cheating is licks, and I am a big believer in follow through, and of supporting the school. I don't know what to do. She is a good kid, but I don't want her to think that gets her around rules. |
| Question: Is my friend full of herself? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:02 AM PDT I can't work out if my friend is joking or if she is actually full of herself. She's 18 years old and I do think she's pretty I would maybe rate her a 6/10. But she always walks around saying how awesome she is and how pretty she is. Its starting to get a bit annoying. Just now she sent me a random snapchat of a selfie with "why am I so pretty". She also tells me how some people are so in love with her. She has a male friend who she tells me is obsessed with her (which I believe) who is always buying her expansive things. I've known her about a year and she is truly the nicest person I have ever met. I do believe she needs a lot of attention but she always tells me she's joking that she doesn't really think that of herself. I'm just starting to feel a tad uncomfortable. I think if I didn't know her personally I would just think she was a stuck up bimbo. also I'm not jealous of her what do you think. Thanks x |
| Question: HELP a teenager Please!!? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:02 AM PDT I feel so diffrent in school. I am so sick and tired of school. All the girls want to do is talk about boys and gossip about other people. I hate talking about people behind their back. And I dont find guys my age attractive. And I hate How they ACT in school. They are ******* 15! And ACT like their 5 years old. And I hate the way they talk to the teacher and they have no respect for anyone. I just feel so diffrent than kids my age. Kids my age wanna party all day long and Get drunk But I rather stay home and watch old movies at read old things... Why am I like this. Its so hard for me to find real friends. The friends I have at school are fake af. And I do have very stric parents, Maybe Thats Why am like this? They are very stric to me :( I dont think or feel like Them.. HELP Please?? |
| Question: Why don't I have any Real friends why am I so Lovely? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:00 AM PDT I am 19 years old and currently have a Boyfriend but we go through lots of ups and downs and people say he's toxic and I'm in a toxic relationship. And of course it's because guys change and he has but I see I keep him alot because I know without him I have no one. No one outside my family that will actually love me and be there for me. I dint want to leave him because I care about him deeply and without him I feel i won't have a social life. and now I'm going into a Depression mode thinking of my life without him . I never go out and do stuff with other "friends" just him health the only one that will be consistent and pick me up take me to his house talk to me etc. I feel strongly that without him I'll be that sameb girl, that same girl in Highschool that didn't talk to anyone that didn't have any best friends or close friends that give you that warm feeling I feel super unhealthy thinking I dint talk to anyone and no one cares about me all I do is cry everyday now I'm so worried about being lonely I wish I was an easy friend maker. I am so nice but no one is consistent with me we can go months or weeks without talking to my "friends". it hurts so bad to look bad at how much I went out when I was younger then all of the sudden poof gone. I hate it I get more and more depressed thinking about it and can't stop it. everyone will say "you're not the only one" but boy does it sure feel like it. I am somewhat feeling a tad bit suicidal like I have nothing left to live for |
| Question: Why am I so nice to people if they just take advantage of me? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 08:52 AM PDT Sometimes I feel like I don't even know them anymore. I am seriously too nice to everyone I meet in person and I am nice to everyone I talk to but whether it is family or close friends I always seem to get taken advantage of. I always make myself out there and available and I always make sure to put my needs last before everyone else. Yet I feel like I am just wasting my time. People in this life take what they want from you. Then they take advantage of everything you have but treat you as if they are not doing anything. Why is that? Sometimes I feel like there is a wall between me and this other person or persons and like I cannot see them because the wall stands in the way. So tell me- Why is it that I am so nice if people just take advantage or me and then ignore me as if I am not here? It is part of my good nature so telling me to just stop being so nice is hard for me to do. |
| Question: A club took my ID I lent to my best friend? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 08:23 AM PDT My best friend won't be 21 for another month and over the weekend she went to visit her best friend at college (upstate NY) for her 21st birthday. I have her my drivers license so she could get into bars and clubs. All went ok until the last club they went to. They kept my ID. They told her to get it back that I have to drive up there. I'm not driving 8 hours away. So can I call the club and have them give it to our friend who goes to that school and bring it home to me since she is coming home tomorrow? How can I go about this. |
| Question: What to do now, is my friendship ruined? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 08:01 AM PDT Over the weekend me and my friends got drunk. One of our friends had to leave the bar and I got stuck taking care of him. My friends called me and told me they are coming now and to wait for them. I ended up waiting for like 30 min while they drank and had a good time. I don't mind taking care of our friend but I wanted to go home because he was super drunk and couldn't stand. My friends showed up and I got beyond pist. I cursed them out and they were trying to calm me down. I kept yelling and told them to f**k off and I left. Next morning I woke up and txted them that they are *********. We talked and both sides a apologied. It still feels weird and its been a few days. Idk if they forgave me or not and they are my best friends and i feel terrible. We've been boys throughout college and this situation sucks |
| Question: How should i bang my friend in the ***(gay)? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:46 AM PDT |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:32 AM PDT When I asked her what she was doing this summer and I caught her in a lie what should I do? |
| Question: Why do some people like to be alone? dont people need people? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:02 AM PDT I have a friend who enjoys her own company, which is ok as we all do at times, but its to the extent that apart from seeing me every few wks or so she is always on her own and isn't bothered by it, she work but other than that is alone, she doesn't seem to mind it. is this healthy? don't people need people she is not mentally ill. please genuine answers.. |
| Question: How old do you have to be to have Facebook? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:00 AM PDT I am 13 and all of my friends have it, along with snapchat and other social media. I honestly don't want it...it looks boring and stupid and all I see people do on it is look on their phone. I don't want that to be me, I want to enjoy whats around me, not whats on my phone screen. Maybe that makes me the "weird one"... Anyway my friend (she is 12) has had it for a few years. I don't think she has been old enogh or even still is old enough but she says that "her sister said that it's fine" What do you think? |
| Question: What does it mean when girls do that ? Should I respond ? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:51 AM PDT So... I'm 14. I walked home today and some girls I didn't know, were kind of screaming at me "hey boy" and before that, were saying "look at that guy across the street" I didn't hear the rest. A couple days ago 2 girls said "helllooo" in a flirty voice to me. What do they want ? (They're about as old as I am) This has happened many times(All of them are strangers) I look fine and dress well. Pls answer. Should I say something back ? Awhile ago some girl was smiling and staring at me. |
| Question: How to approach new people to become friends? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:35 AM PDT I recently had an argument with my once bff, and now we're no longer friends, she was also the only friend I have, it's currently school holidays but I'm dreading having to go back to school and have no friends, there Was a girl in my classes this year who I spoke to a couple of time and we got on, but I'm not sure how to approach her and what to say to her, I'm a really shy person and i find I really awkward to ask someone to be friends, would doing it over text be better as I want to ask before school goes back so I have people I know I can go to? Someone please help me what would be bet to say and do thanks |
| Question: I'm nice to everyone most of the time but my friends disrespect me? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:31 AM PDT At school, I'm very friendly and smile a lot, and am really afraid to hurt anyone's feelings. I don't want to make anyone feel bad. I'm nice as much as possible, smile at everyone, wish my friends hello when I pass them, share a little bit of food at lunch, and go out of my way to try and help people. But I'm kind of sensitive and overfriendly...and half the time my friendly vibes get returned with rude ones. For example, I was working in a group today with my partners. One of the girls (who i thought was my friend) kept on excluding me and getting irritated with me, rolling her eyes at me and bossing me around. She talked to the other girl the whole time and didn't even pay attention to me unless it was to scold me that my acting was bad (we were rehearsing in spanish class for a spanish skit). I hate them because of the way they treat me, but I'm still very nice to them. I wish I didn't have to work with them but it's too late to change groups and there's no openings in any other groups. Second example: I can make friends quickly, but I also lose them quickly. At first, when you meet someone, they're always very nice. But once they get comfortable with you, they stop caring how they treat you. Like when I first met a girl I thought she was really nice, but when I really got to know her I found out how mean she was because she told people not to be my friend, gossipped about me, ganged up one me with our mutual friends and made me cry in front of everyone. No matter how nice i am too people they always get annoyed and irritated. or find me boring and go somewhere else. i don't talk about grades, religion, politics, myself, etc. So why does this happen to me? |
| Question: Need advice on how to deal with this work situation? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:30 AM PDT I work hard in my job, arrive on time, do the assigned tasks, stay later to finish, never absent. However, my boss and many of my coworkers do not like me. I think they decided from the beginning that they did not want anything to do with me. They did not give me the chance to get to know me. I admit that I have anxiety and depression which make me feel uncomfortable socializing/making small talk. Everyone in my office would take lunch together, but I did not want to take it with them since I felt anxious. They also gave me looks/did not talk to me when I joined them at work parties. ...I stopped going to them. To add to the stress, I have an incredibly judgmental and rude coworker. Since I do not go to work parties, she says that I am invisible to the office and that no one knows that I exist. She has been spreading gossip about me even though I go out of my way to help her in my free time. My boss is also making fun of me and bullying me. She ignores me and contributes to the exclusion of my other coworkers even though I do my job. How can I let go of this situation? |
| Question: I JUST NEED F HELP RIGHT F NOW? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:30 AM PDT i don't know how this has happened, years ago i as having fun with my friends and everything, was laughing, hanging out with them, now i just ******* hate myself, they hate me now, never call me on phone(i didn't call anyone for 3 years) and now no one talks to me in facebook, i never talked to anyone in fb for almost 3 years+, i don't know what has happened, i dont have anyone to talk to, not even a ******* girl, i see all my friends laughing/ hanging out, talking with each other, take pics togther.. now they dont stand talking to me or anything, ME AND MY BEST FRIENDS WAS TALKING IN FACEBOOK, WE BOTH WERE ENJOIYNG OUR TIME, BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT THE **** HAS HAPPENED, IM SOOOO MISREABLE!!!!!!! |
| Question: How do I end a new friendship? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:03 AM PDT Someone I worked with(she recently quit)and I needed to discuss work regularly while at work. After she quit, she called to ask a few questions about how to handle finalizing her employment(getting belongings, final pay, etc). She seemed okay. However, in talking to her more she is very hyper-critical of all women-strangers/co-workers-celebs-regarding outfit of choice, hair, behavior, etc. She is very judgemental of all, and is not someone I'd like to be around. She has begun to call me on the guise of needing more work help regarding her former employer(my current), but changes the convo into her life and her criticisms of others. What would you say to end this "friendship" you don't want? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:47 AM PDT So in 5th grade I was considered tall I was 5'5 and I bullied everyone because I was starting in the basketball team. This one guy who was kinda chubby I bullied in and out of school. Well he hit a huge growth spurt, he's 6'5 in 7th grade and a star basketball player now. He continually bullies me, he pushes me into lockers, steals stuff and holds it over my head. He even took my back pack and put it on the rim of the basketball goal. When I had the gym coach get it down he lied and said I did it and his friends backed up his story. He continually makes my life a living hell. He threw away my homework destroyed my backpack. At one point at a party he flirted with my crush when I was trying to flirt with her and then kissed her in front of me and carried her away while they laughed at me. I know I was mean to him but I never thought he could hurt me or my social life this bad. What makes it worse is that he is a teen model for s clothing line and all the girls at my school love him now. He doesn't bully anyone else except me. It turns out he's being mean to me because I also bullied a close female friend of his into anorexia |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:23 AM PDT My boyfriend is at university and will be moving into shared private accommodation with friends next September. In July he has a birthday. I was thinking that my present would be to pay for a weekly cleaner next year (among many other presents, this would not be the only one, but cost-wise it might be the main one). I'm quite a bit older than him (he's 20, I'm 30) and I'm very conscious that I may have a tendency to condescend to him ("well, when *I* was at university...") and believe he needs 'looking after'. On the other hand - cleaning is a pain and it's nice to live in a clean space, especially if the reason it's not clean might be attributable to six other people. He himself is certainly on the upper-end of well-ordered for someone who has only just moved away from home. So - to give the gift of clean or not, your thoughts are welcomed! |
| Question: Plz help..plz read really serious!!!!!!!? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:54 AM PDT I mean they r torurting and abusing me and irritating me even i have done nothing to those mofos..i am new to thiz school..they arent mean to anyone else..i am their standalone target...i myself am gud looking(people say i look like chris hemsworth) ,nice in studies ,teachers do like me and i have good sense of humor too...but why they dont like me and always try to hurt me with bad abuses even i have done nothing them??i only want everyones friendshipπ’π’π’π’π’π’π’π₯π₯π₯π₯π₯π₯ Basically there is a unimaginable bastard guy who is abusing me,even though i dont talk to him he keeps abusing me...even i am an awseome student..he always treats other guys of the class who are much below than me in a good manner but unessarialy treats me like crap..bloody helll ,its super frustating...he is doing this to me completely unreasonably..by doing so he is also attracting other bad guys to bully me.. π₯ DOEs this ************ considers me a doormat? I have been to various schools in my life time but nowhere i have been treated even quarter of this bad!!!!...these people are unessecarly extremely rude to me...where is real problem guys??...due to this i have developed serious OCD mental disease and anxiety..since i cant figure out where is the problem..i keep geeting obsessions and compulsion |
| Question: Coworkers monitoring my personal life.? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:20 AM PDT One of my coworkers constantly monitors my phone calls, text messages, and internet usage when I am at home. He repeats personal conversations to other coworkers. What should I do. I have confronted him and informed management but it is all a big joke. What should be my next step? |
| Question: I was about to be forced to pay for my friend's tattoo please help? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:52 AM PDT So on Sunday night, I was at a tattoo parlor with 2 of my friends- a guy friend I knew from high school and a college friend that currently goes to go school with me, so we went there and I paid for my tattoo which cost $70 and my college friend paid for hers which is also $70 as well. Then my guy friend doesn't have any money and he wanted to get a tattoo so bad because he never had one. He looked through one of the artist books and he said he wanted a $250 tattoo. He asked me and my friend and we both said we don't have the money to pay for it. I said to him if you get a full time job and work hard then you will get what you want. He said that he has a crappy *** job that pays **** and he lives with his rich parents but he doesn't want his parents to know he is getting a tattoo. He kept on being whiny about it for 30 minutes and we had to leave the parlor after we got our tattoos done. We also paid for his gas money and his meals at the mall the other day and the drinks we had at the bar. My college friend says that she doesn't want to hang out with him anymore because she feels like she is being used by him. I told her I knew him since middle or high school and she says she don't give a **** and she has bills to pay. Also we get straight As and Bs and we are working hard to save up to pay back student loans. Whenever we help him with his homework, he didn't want to do his homework and all he wants to do is to socialize and party. Should I hang out w/ him anymore or no? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:08 AM PDT I can't. There are these groups. The girls and the basketball players. I'm a girl btw. I'm fine with either, but the guys who play basketball are kinda scary, and I can't just walk up to the girls and be like hey let's be friends. They all go away to their own groups when it's outdoor gym. My only friend won't be here today when we have gym |
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| Question: Should I take this class for my friend? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:57 AM PDT My friend is a foreign student who struggles a lot with English. I do pretty well in my English classes and I've helped him with his essays a couple of times. Now he's asking me to take an online class for him and in exchange he will take my math class. The thing is that honestly I don't feel comfortable with this. First of all, I hate cheating and cheaters. It is completely against my values.I do struggle with math, but I like to take those challenging classes myself because I'm proving (to myself) that I can do it. And even if I did take the class for him, I am not sure if can get him a good grade. I am so conflicted because he is my friend and I really appreciate him, he is nice to me and is usually understanding. What if he gets mad and decides to dump me as a friend if I say no? He is not a native English speaker so I understand his desperation. That's why I feel that if I say no, i'm just being bad friend. What should I do? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:21 AM PDT Recently when I was drunk with some friends my roommates' friend from home visiting us said he heard that I was gay not knowing the person he was talking about was me. I then went to confront him about it, he dais "a lot of people think you're gay" and laughed. I'm not much mad that he didn't tell me, but more so mad that he's spreading a rumor about me (so called best friend) to people from home. I am not gay, not that there is anything wrong with it. Am I right to be mad? I mean, hearing it from some random *** dude from 5 states away is a little frustrating. |
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