Friends: Question: How long should a roll of toilet tissue last for 1 person? How long does a roll last you? |
- Question: How long should a roll of toilet tissue last for 1 person? How long does a roll last you?
- Question: Do you have to go into the pool at a pool party?
- Question: All of my friends hate me now because of a bunch of lies my "friend" made up about me. I feel lonely and depressed, what do I do?
- Question: Weird roommate stories?
- Question: My friend is texting me with periods now she ignored me at school today...plus shes acting strange and replying shortly is something wrong?
- Question: I'm a short middle schooler being tormented by jocks and their ring leader, the leader of the jocks is someone I used to bully? Ideas?
- Question: Ok, so I have two friends who both think they are in the right. Topic: Racism, Bullying?
- Question: My social anxiety is really bad. I need help!?
- Question: My gym teacher thinks I'm a troublemaker?
- Question: Why is she still my friend?
- Question: How do I, or should I even apologize?
- Question: Did my friend give me good advice?
- Question: How do I become friends with these two guys?
- Question: My friend canceled our plans to hangout with my ex best friend.?
- Question: Is it possible that someone can have two sides? (One is depressing and one is happy) Because I have a friend who MAY be faking two sides.?
- Question: My friend is avoiding me?
- Question: How do I stop being friends with someone?
- Question: How to start talking to someone?
- Question: How to tell if you are friends with a bad crowd?
- Question: How can I get over the feeling that everyone is against me?
- Question: Forced to choose between friends?
- Question: My so called best friend is treating me like crap and I don't know what to do?
- Question: My friend won't make up with me?
- Question: I don't feel smart enough for my classes. What should I do? *serious answers only please*?
- Question: Why does this girl kick me in the balls so often ?
- Question: My friends are really embarrassing and loud?
- Question: Ok, so I have two friends who both think they are in the right. Topic: Racism, Bullying?
- Question: Am I kidnapping my daughter?
- Question: How can I cheer up a friend who lost her kitty best friend? she's really upset.?
- Question: What do you think of this bullying situation?
- Question: I feel like I have to give some friends space. What do I do?
- Question: Im broken?
- Question: Feel empty, have no real friends?
- Question: Anybody want to be my new friend to talk with me?
- Question: What s it called to have somewhat of an attraction/obsession with a person?
- Question: I'm always the "last resort friend," do I move on or try harder?
- Question: Friend sexting friends husband?
- Question: Everyone keeps calling me cute but im not pls help ;--;?
- Question: Why isn't my friend texting back at all?
- Question: Can i ask who this is??? a classmate tried to catfish me and my friends with this picture?
- Question: 'Popular' Girls are not All MEAN?
- Question: How embarrassing is this on a scale of 1-10?
- Question: Why did my bisexual friend gaze into my eyes smiling...?
- Question: Why did he invite me and not our friend?
- Question: Why do my friends at school think I'm weird for wanting to join the marines and serve my country?
- Question: How come I'm a loner at school?
- Question: Suicidal Thoughouts?
- Question: I Just Lost My Best Friends?
- Question: I don't understand why its so wrong?
- Question: Need help, friend issues. Read details?
- Question: Did he really carry him?
- Question: Is that a big butt?
- Question: My girlfriends ex threatened me?
- Question: What does it mean when someone writes to you "thank you for being part of my story"?
- Question: Why did she kiss me?
- Question: Have me and my friend of 10 years been friend long enough for me to ask if she's a virgin?
- Question: Do you want to separate from your friend, if yes, tell how?
- Question: Can someone help me with this problem involving a girl in my class?
- Question: Why does my friend get mad when I hang out with other people, yet she does it all the time?
- Question: My good friend is always putting me down and is worsening my self esteem and depression. What do I do?
Question: How long should a roll of toilet tissue last for 1 person? How long does a roll last you? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:44 PM PDT This ***** keep complaining bout some toilet tissue. It was 3 ppl using a roll n she just blame me cause it didn't last long. Now she give us 1 each and mad that I use it up in 4 days. The ***** think it should last a week. Isn't it true that some people use the bathroom more then others. It's diff for everyone. She compares me to her and her husband lasting 4 days. |
Question: Do you have to go into the pool at a pool party? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:28 PM PDT So my friend invited me to his graduation party which is a pool party in two weeks. I am a crossdresser and I shave my legs and I do it in the privacy of my home so they don't know that I do crossdressing. I am afraid that they will think that I am gay so I plan on not going into the pool and say that I hurted my leg and that the doctor requires me to not go swimming. Plus I don't even know how to swim either. Would I have to go into the pool if its a pool party ? Would it work to just say what I plan on saying ? |
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Question: Weird roommate stories? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:19 PM PDT So, my roommate never leaves her room. Never leaves her bed** I should say... She only leaves to go to class and to go pee/shower. She doesn't even eat in the dining hall so instead warms up food in the microwave and eats that as her meals. She also brushes her teeth in the room, like she spits into a cup and then throws the spit out our window. She studies in her bed or on the floor and then gets mad when I want to use the ladder to get to my bed (since the area she sits on the floor is next to the ladder). She gets mad when my friends come over; I also have this program where I get online tutoring via webcam. She always yells at me for having these tutoring sessions be in the room, but I really have nowhere else to do them (our campus has really bad wifi, our room as the strongest connection). She grunts every time I come and and say hi, and always asks why I don't go home on the weekends. I know it's her room just as much it is mine, but it's just annoying because I always have a pair of eyes on me. I know privacy really isn't a factor when you're living in the dorms, but there should still be those times you have the room to yourself (even if it's for 5 minutes). I never have that, and it's really aggravating. anyways, I know this really wasn't a question but more of a vent. What are your thoughts? What bad roommate stories do you have? |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:13 PM PDT So in 5th grade I was considered tall I was 5'5 and I bullied everyone because I was starting in the basketball team. This one guy who was kinda chubby I bullied in and out of school. Well he hit a huge growth spurt, he's 6'5 in 7th grade and a star basketball player now. He continually bullies me, he pushes me into lockers, steals stuff and holds it over my head. He even took my back pack and put it on the rim of the basketball goal. When I had the gym coach get it down he lied and said I did it and his friends backed up his story. He continually makes my life a living hell. He threw away my homework destroyed my backpack. At one point at a party he flirted with my crush when I was trying to flirt with her and then kissed her in front of me and carried her away while they laughed at me. I know I was mean to him but I never thought he could hurt me or my social life this bad. What makes it worse is that he is a teen model for s clothing line and all the girls at my school love him now. He doesn't bully anyone else except me. It turns out he's being mean to me because I also bullied a close female friend of his into anorexia |
Question: Ok, so I have two friends who both think they are in the right. Topic: Racism, Bullying? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:06 PM PDT Ok so throughout the school year one of my friends (friend A) has let some people call him the N-word, but not others. (He is black btw) He gives some people the "permission" to say it to him. Then he gets pissed if someone else calls him it who he didnt let. My other friend (friend B) decided he had nothing better to do then to test this **** out. He had one of my other friends (non-important) go and call him a N-Word (hard r (not sure if it matters (does it?))) This guy is a friend of friend a so he didnt mind. Then Friend B went up to friend A (because he felt there was soicial injustice with friends A's logic) and proceded to call him a N****r Friend A said "what did you call me?" friend B said it again. Friend B could tell Friend A was pissed and walked away thinking he proved his point, and got pushed down by friend A. Friend B was pissed and turned around and punched Friend A connecting in the face. Friend A Then pushed Friend B to the ground again and countinuously punched him in the back of the face and surrounding areas. Friend A was pulled off of friend A by surrounding people. Who is in the wrong? And an explanation. Thanks. |
Question: My social anxiety is really bad. I need help!? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:03 PM PDT Hello guys, I'm 14 and we lived with my family to my grandmas house for 2 years now. And I'm gking to my old house. And I develop aome sicial anxiety there. And my friends here fetch me and we go to a place where there is so many people. I just cant go talk to them because I might feel awkward so they arw playing badketball but me just watching them there alone playing and my friend saying come sit here you are alone tjere but me i refuse idk why. It just felt awkward and I just go home. And later they will fetch me again. I need some help?! |
Question: My gym teacher thinks I'm a troublemaker? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:03 PM PDT Okay so my gym teacher has never really liked me very much. But especially so in the last couple weeks. So I talk a lot to my friends during warm ups in gym and he really doesn't appreciate that. But I've been trying hard not to recently. Anyway, here is the main problem. So my gym teacher also is one of the lunch monitors for my lunch period. Yay. When we are done eating we have the choice to go to the library or go outside. But, if too many people go to the library and not enough want to go outside they will keep the remaining students in the lunchroom. So my friends and I were chilling at the lunch table decided to play "baseball" with a chip bag. I was the "batter" and my friend pitched it a couple times and I hit it around and stuff. He comes over and says "AJ I need to see you in the hall" which was greeted by the usual "ooohhhss" from my friends. He told me I've been having difficulty following directions lately and all that blah (which I didn't even realize?) but whatever its cool. I usually bring a can of soda to lunch and whenever I do I always shake it and we open it to make it fizz. We've done that all year, its not a new thing. Today I did that as usual and he comes over and says "AJ take your lunch and come with me right now." He made me sit right next to him and the lunch monitor table RIGHT in the front of the lunchroom and that's where I have to sit for a week. Why does he only punish me and why does he only notice my soda habit now? |
Question: Why is she still my friend? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:51 PM PDT I'm a dude and my friend Cassandra has been friends with me for a few years. I had a big crush on her but she told me we could only be friends. I feel like I've been a big headache for her at times. If im feeling low I always call her to talk about my problems, sometimes I can be really clingy. But she never says NO to anything, why does she still stay as my friend if if I'm hard to be around????? There was another guy who really liked her but she didn't feel the same so she cut him off!!!! |
Question: How do I, or should I even apologize? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:48 PM PDT So, I was friends with this girl. Trust wasn t easy due to how my mind is wired, and her past experiences. She thought I was playing mind games, and treating her like a toy, or a pet. I wasn t, but the friendship was terminated rather quickly. Fast forward about a year and change later and the guilt is still killing me over it. Now I don t want to get it twisted about the why, she wasn t totally wrong that I m that kind of person. Only wrong that I was, or would do that to her. It s been a while since then and at this point I have to wonder if contacting her (Internet is only option at moment) would just make it worse, or if I should swallow my guilt and leave her in peace. If I did, I don t think it would accomplish anything, I certainly don t deserve the forgiveness. However this has been eating at me since the day of the event, so how should I go about doing this. SHOULD I go about doing this? |
Question: Did my friend give me good advice? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:13 PM PDT I can't stop thinking about someone. my friend told me to focus on my favorite actor in order to forget about him and compare them both to see what they have done that has positively impacted my life and whoever has most influenced me in a good way wins. |
Question: How do I become friends with these two guys? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:10 PM PDT They are both in my spanish class, I'm pretty sure they think i'm weird because i dont speak at all. the funny part is my friends outside of school all know them through soccer and I kinda wanna become friends with them too. and yesterday one of MY friends was with one of the brothers and I told my friend to tell that guy to add me on snapchat and he said no because i'm too quiet in class and i dont speak. Like how am I just supposed to speak when they're both sitting far away from me. I don't know what to do honestly. |
Question: My friend canceled our plans to hangout with my ex best friend.? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:09 PM PDT I don't care that she's still friends with her but yesterday we made plans to hangout at my house but this morning she texted me this morning saying last minute work came up. I knew it sounded off but it can happen so I just brushed it off and said okay. I still have my ex best friend on Snapchat and I do this hack where I can view her story but she doesn't know I viewed her story and I saw my best bff and my friend hanging out together. It's not them hanging out that upsets me, it's that she canceled our plans and lied to me about it. Should I view her story even though I haven't in months? I feel like that would be suspicious of me. I feel like I can't trust my friend now. I just recently stopped being friends with my best friend and ever since then my friend her girlfriend have been acting weird towards me and I just get a weird feeling whenever I'm around them. I just feel so lost and don't know what to do anymore. Should I approach my friend about this or leave it alone? |
Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:54 PM PDT |
Question: My friend is avoiding me? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:17 PM PDT A couple days ago we went with a mutual friend to talk to a preacher about some stuff that's been bothering her. Well, in the middle of the conversation he asked about our faith stories. I felt no reason to lie, so I basically told him the truth that I've always struggled with religion and didn't really know if I believed in God. This girl is insanely religious, but she seemed really supportive in the meeting. However, as soon as we left the building she was really cold and canceled our dinner plans immediately. Now she doesn't even want to talk to me. I don't understand what her problem is. The worst part is, we're supposed to be roommates next semester(her idea), and I don't want to have to live with her if she's going to be like this. |
Question: How do I stop being friends with someone? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:37 PM PDT Ok, so I'm in a situation where I don't want to be friends with someone anymore because he's jealous of me, he's lying to me, he's keeping secrets from me and he wants me to do things I don't want to do. Unfortunately, I'm doing a group project in school with this person and I really want to stop hanging out with this person. My parents say I should wait until the end of the school year but I'm not sure what to do. Any advice? |
Question: How to start talking to someone? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:36 PM PDT I'm a guy and in high school. There's this one kid who I rarely see talking to anyone. It's not like he looks or acts weird or anything I guess he just doesn't talk that much. He seems pretty cool too so I wouldn't mind being friends with since I usually see him by himself. I mean, everyone needs a friend right? I usually run into him in the bathroom and sometimes he'll speak and ask what grade I'm in or say "I like your shoes" etc. Stuff like that. Like it turns out we have the same birthday (last week) and today he said Happy Belated Birthday, and I said the same. After that, I realized that he's open to talk to a stranger and is cool, so why not start talking to him? But I don't know how to do that without coming off as weird etc. etc. Can someone help? If you're wondering why I want to be friends with him, I kinda need more guy friends since a lot of the ones I had left the school, leaving me around a bunch of girls; no complaints, but it's not always about girly stuff all the time. If anyone could help that'd be cool, thanks |
Question: How to tell if you are friends with a bad crowd? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:25 PM PDT We all do stupid things like drink and smoke weed when we are kids but sometimes I feel like my friends go to far with things and get themselves into too much trouble with that and other things some of them are worse than others but overall I feel like they don't realize when something is too much don't get me wrong I like having fun a lot but I don't want it to become something I have to worry about bringing me down with them they're my boys and I still want to have fun but I also want to succeed later in life |
Question: How can I get over the feeling that everyone is against me? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:15 PM PDT I'm in JROTC and my platoon commander just can't stand me. She makes effort to not show that to my face but she talks bad about me behind my back which makes me feel really weird because she talks to the other people in leadership. Its just like 7 or 8 people but I feel like everyone thinks bad of me because those people have a lot of influence with everyone else in rotc. I think I lost their respect or something but they think I did something that I didn't do and most of them are just listening to rumors. I've spent the last few months trying to prove them wrong and trying to get them to like me but I'm just tired of this. Some days I just don't care but then this feeling comes back to me. I see them everyday. We all hang out every morning at the same place and I constantly feel judged every time I'm around them even though they don't say anything bad to me. I have cousins who are also in leadership and they try to keep me away from trouble but they're really close friends with the other cadets who listened to those rumors so I still feel alone even though I have family right in front of me. And the thing is it's just a handful of people who make me feel this way while everyone else is good with me. And there's 300 something other cadets & almost 30000 kids in my high school but those few make me feel so insecure. Maybe I need to go somewhere far away, maybe I need to move schools and start over? I don't know I'm just really tired of feeling alone. Almost 3,000 kids in my school. Not 30,000 |
Question: Forced to choose between friends? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:05 PM PDT Recently, one of my best friends (A) broke up with her boyfriend. Our other best friend (B) initiated a relationship with him shortly afterwards. There were no lingering feelings between A and this boy, but she was upset that B would do that to her. After some time, B told A that her and the boy would not continue with anything. A while after, B came to me and told me that her and they boy had started seeing each other. She told me not to tell A as she believed it would be better coming from herself. I agreed, and a week later B finally told A, resulting in them no longer being friends as A felt betrayed that B would hide that from her. Now, A is telling me (and a couple of other friends) that we should stand behind her and stop talking to B in the same friendly matter. This would result out (B and myself) friendship being ruined as well as a bunch of other friends that support B and the boy. I really don t want to lose B or A, but I know not ostracizing B would cause A to take distance from me. What are your opinions on this and what I should do? tldr; My best friend is asking me to stop talking to my other best friend in order to support her during a fight they are currently having. I don t want to lose either as friends, what should I do? |
Question: My so called best friend is treating me like crap and I don't know what to do? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:49 PM PDT My friend asked me if i was coming out for some drinks. we planned it the day before and I got ready and was waiting ages for her to get in touch so I text her and she said she's going somewhere with her other friend without saying sorry. If it was the other way round though she wouldn't like it and I've been such a good friend to her. I feel used because the only time she wants to spend time with me is when her other friend is away somewhere. And i dont have any friends to have fun with i have social anxiety do i find it very hard to make new friends so I feel like I've just got to put up with it but I don't like the way I'm being treated 😕 |
Question: My friend won't make up with me? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:48 PM PDT About two months ago my friend got mad and yelled at me about something stupid. We didn't talk for a few days and I texted him asking why he was mad but I got no response. So then I left it alone for a few weeks until I texted him asking if we can talk. Still no response so I finally asked him to please tell me why he's mad. He responded and we argued over text for a bit but I apologized for everything. I eventually asked if he really wanted to end our friendship over this and he said no and that he is sorry too. That was a Saturday and then at school on Monday I saw him and we looked st each other but I walked the other way bc I didn't know what to say and felt awkward. Then we didn't talk that whole week and I eventually texted him asking if everything was alright with us bc I thought we had made up but we hadn't spoken at school. He never responded. The next day my friend asked if he would want to hang out with me and her during break and he said no I'm good. We still haven't talked and I feel very hurt about the whole situation. I really want our friendship back and the day before we started fighting he said he wanted to hang out with me and my friend more like old times. I don't understand how someone can go from saying that to not speaking and ignoring me. I really want to text him but I don't want to seem crazy. We are going to see each other at an after school club tomorrow and I want to approach him and talk to him but I'm afraid he will yell at me or ignore me. |
Question: I don't feel smart enough for my classes. What should I do? *serious answers only please*? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:48 PM PDT I'm in 11th grade, and I have always been a very gifted honors student. However, recently my grades just keep going down and I feel so helpless about them . I know I'm not capable of bringing them up. Every time I bring it up to family I get yelled at to shut up and get over myself, which usually ends with me in tears. I have had clinical depression since I was 12, and generalized anxiety disorder since age 14. The only people who will listen, are my 2 best friends, who are both seniors and won't be there next year. Usually,after parental arguments, I can call one of them and they'll help me calm down and cheer me up. The last parental argument I had was before school, and as soon as I got there and saw my best friend, I fell apart crying on her shoulder. But right now, my biggest issue is feeling like in lacking in intelligence. What should I do? |
Question: Why does this girl kick me in the balls so often ? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:32 PM PDT She lightly kicks me in the balls and says it was an accident. Even if the kick wasn't strong, it still hurts. After that, she hugs me and apologises. That happened 3 times this month. She also sits next to me and wraps her legs around my legs.. For no reason. (we are 14yrs old) Why is she doing that ? |
Question: My friends are really embarrassing and loud? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:04 PM PDT My closest friends that i hang out with everyday at school are really annoying and embarassing especially at lunch, where they always make retarded noises and do stupid stuff. It really gets on my nerves and everyone probably thinks im weird because i hang out around them when they act retarded and loud. Im nice to them and cant just abandon them and plus i dont have any other friends outside of the friend group really so i dont know what to do. I just want them to act more mature but knowing them they wont be able to do that. |
Question: Ok, so I have two friends who both think they are in the right. Topic: Racism, Bullying? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 12:26 PM PDT Ok so throughout the school year one of my friends (friend A) has let some people call him the N-word, but not others. (He is black btw) He gives some people the "permission" to say it to him. Then he gets pissed if someone else calls him it who he didnt let. My other friend (friend B) decided he had nothing better to do then to test this **** out. He had one of my other friends (non-important) go and call him a N-Word (hard r (not sure if it matters (does it?))) This guy is a friend of friend a so he didnt mind. Then Friend B went up to friend A (because he felt there was soicial injustice with friends A's logic) and proceded to call him a N****r Friend A said "what did you call me?" friend B said it again. Friend B could tell Friend A was pissed and walked away thinking he proved his point, and got pushed down by friend A. Friend B was pissed and turned around and punched Friend A connecting in the face. Friend A Then pushed Friend B to the ground again and countinuously punched him in the back of the face and surrounding areas. Friend A was pulled off of friend A by surrounding people. Who is in the wrong? And an explanation. Thanks. |
Question: Am I kidnapping my daughter? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:38 AM PDT I'm trying to get my 12 year old daughter back into our home, but she refuses to go with me because her friends are inviting her to the mall. Would it be considered kidnapping if I take her with me anyways, against her will? Her "friends" are druggies and some have gang symbols, so I do not like it when she hangs out with them. |
Question: How can I cheer up a friend who lost her kitty best friend? she's really upset.? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:36 AM PDT |
Question: What do you think of this bullying situation? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:22 AM PDT Our son has been repeatedly bullied, hit and tormented by another boy for months. We have reported it to the school many times and it is well known to everyone it is happening. He's been punched, bruised and tormented daily for months and everyone knows. Teachers have seen it many times and done nothing. We've been to the school and nothing. We've written letters...nothing. Then, my son was in music class and the bully was behind son flicking him really hard in the head. My son cried out, "ow." Teacher told him to shut up and deal with it himself. The bully flicked him again and my son decided to deal with it himself. He picked up a metal folding chair and beat the snot out of the bully. He didn't break any bones or anything but e kid was bruised up. Now, the school suspended my son. They've been ignoring this situation for months that they were well aware of. They'd been informed verbally and in writing as well as seeing the incidents and other kids reporting it and did nothing. Finally, when my kid fights back, he gets suspended. What kind of justice is that? |
Question: I feel like I have to give some friends space. What do I do? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 11:14 AM PDT I am that I have to give some of my friends space, but I don't want to because, I can;t handle being separated or not hanging with them because I am the only one doing it. And There is another kid who I am jealous of because I feel like, he is going to hang out with them and I'm the only one who can't hang with them. What do I do? It also makes me feel like if I don;t hang with them that long, I'll lose them to this kid. What do I do? P.S I can't handle letting them go or if it may not be a lifetime. |
Posted: 24 Apr 2017 08:48 AM PDT im a 17 year old girl in 11th grade. my finals are near. My classmates are on my nerves and I really dont like them. My apparently "friend" is friends with people whom I dont like and apparently she didnt like as well. I have finals stress and on coming saturday I have math test. I hate my life. |
Question: Feel empty, have no real friends? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 08:16 AM PDT I am 26 years old, never had a girlfriend, no real friends, no car, no social life. Many of my high school classmate getting marry and have kids, buy house,achieve a lot of things and i feel like **** now, feel like broken, how can i get rid of this? Can i know a circle in this age? Can i start all over again and know someone? |
Question: Anybody want to be my new friend to talk with me? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:59 AM PDT I unfriended my friends today at lunchtime and have nobody to talk to. |
Question: What s it called to have somewhat of an attraction/obsession with a person? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:51 AM PDT Its a co-worker. It s not stage 5 clingerish, in fact we never hang out. I do find myself wanting to constantly talk to her or text her, interested in her activities, her life. I would like to be a closer friend of hers, sometimes her comments irk me and I distance myself and then I m back. I blocked her for a month but then I saw her again at a team meeting and unblocked just to text her something random. She has this better than attitude and I m just not like that, I m more down to earth- so our personalities sometimes clash. We chit chat and are usually cordial to eachother I just don t know why I can t shake this desire to be All up in her grill. Wait, Am I a lesbian? |
Question: I'm always the "last resort friend," do I move on or try harder? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:45 AM PDT I could go a lot deeper with this but it's too long to submit. I'm a really introverted and quiet person. However, I made five really close friends with these girls in choir (I'm really involved in choir, always there with shows and practices) and I really started opening up more. We would have sleepovers together, went to formal together, and had a lot of fun. However, these past few months I've been noticing I'm more of the "last resort" or "tag-along" friend in the group. Each girl in the friend group has their best friend who their always with most of the time, expect me and another girl. The other girl, however is kind of drifting away and making other friends. I try to get closer with her but she's a really stubborn and pessimistic person. Each weekend, almost all the girls get together and hang out. Which is okay, but when it's every weekend and you never get an invite, it makes you wonder. Today is what really started making me wonder. Me and one of the other girls in the friend group were absent from school because we're both sick. No one asked me why I was gone, but they asked the other girl why she was gone. It makes me feel like no one cares about me and I'm tired of feeling this way everyday. It would sound easy to just move on from them, but like I said I'm always at choir and so are they so it makes it harder. Should I make more of an effort with them or just move on? |
Question: Friend sexting friends husband? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 07:10 AM PDT I just found out recently that one of my friends grace has been messaging my other friend Sharon's husband. She told me this happened a year or so ago and that he sent her a pic of his "private area" via Snapchat. I asked my friend why he would randomly do that and she didn't have a good response. I've seen grace flirt and do this to other men but never anyone in our circle of friends. My question is whether or not I should tell Sharon..I feel like if this happened to me I'd want to know but I'd hate to be responsible for causing issues in there marriage. I'm actually willing to stop having any contact with grace now. I don't trust her and the fact that she was willing to participate in this makes me sick. Any opinion would be helpful. |
Question: Everyone keeps calling me cute but im not pls help ;--;? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 05:23 AM PDT |
Question: Why isn't my friend texting back at all? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:27 AM PDT He hasn't texted me for the whole day and yesterday he texted me only 2 times and that's it. He acted like nothing was wrong. I don't understand why he would lose interest cause he asked for my number and suddenly doesn't text me back. He usually doesn't take long to reply but this whole weekend he's only been replying after a couple hours or the whole day. Also I know he isn't intentionally ignoring me because I'm never left on read but he just never checks his messages or something?? Like I wanna ask him what he does all day but I feel like he would think I'm clingy. Also in getting really annoyed by this somehow and kind of getting obsessed but I only like him as a friend but it's pissing me off that he won't text back!!! |
Question: Can i ask who this is??? a classmate tried to catfish me and my friends with this picture? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 04:08 AM PDT idk i'm just really curious bc a classmate tried to catfish me and my friends using this picture https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/4c/e5/9b/4ce59b25b726625489425cd1a2223303.jpg |
Question: 'Popular' Girls are not All MEAN? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:57 AM PDT Okay so I am in year 10 and I am with a group of great girls consisting of about 7 people. I didn't know until last month that our group was considered 'popular' by other groups in the grade. (I was inviting my friend from another group to hangout and she said 'i don't know, u guys r in the popular group so i don't think ill fit in there') I am SHOCKED. I swear, i am not trying to show off or anything. My friends and I never considered ourselves in some cocky popular group. We've always thought we were just an ordinary group of friends. Also, I fail to make more friends from other groups because they think I am mean, sassy and I always talk crap about people's back because of the group I am labelled in. No matter how hard I try, ppl won't believe i simply want to get to know them! What should I do?? Ummm okay just to clarify, I know my friends and I are not mean because we are..well, not mean smh. We don't say bad things or anything and we also try to cheer other students up when they are down, whether or not if that person is our friend. we are NOT vicious and back-stabbing, I swear. just because there is this stereotype, doesn't mean everyone is. |
Question: How embarrassing is this on a scale of 1-10? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:40 AM PDT So I am staying living with a friend/roommate and her 3 girls and boyfriend. I took a shower yesterday and didn't realize that I left my panties on the sink. I have only stayed here for about a week. 2 of her girls stay downstairs so they didn't see it. My friend and her bf have their own bathroom so they prob didn't see it. One of the girls and I share a bathroom so I am sure she had to have seen it. I have never done anything like that before in my life. I am 35 and the other girl is late teens or early 20's. My panties are white and looked clean. Just bunched up in a little spot on the sink. Chances are maybe she never saw it (her mom never said a word to me) but chances also are that she might have seen it. Should I talk to the mom and see what she says? Or just let it go? How would you rate the embarrassment level if it was you? Please help. Thanks. |
Question: Why did my bisexual friend gaze into my eyes smiling...? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:37 AM PDT I'm lesbian and she's bisexual I caught her staring at me (shed never done this before unless we were talking to each other) and when I turned my head to look at her she was smiling while gazing into my eyes, and the eye contact lingered for longer than usual, no words she just gazing and smiling at me. Then when I smiled back after a while, she broke eye contact I been called cute (but not since school) but Im so self conscious and think I'm really ugly and I don't wear makeup Later she asked me to help her with something on her computer and I did but while I was looking at her screen i felt her staring and smiling again but didn't look at her this time and then the next day she completely ignore me. When I came into room she went silent Idk if she was thinking Im kinda cute? Plz lesbians, if this has happened to you aswell tell me what it means Also she kinda teases me like she'll be with her best mate and look over at me and say "this is your fault" in a joking way. Idk if that was just a excuse to stare at me. But she never stare when she's with her best mate or if the room is full she ignore me |
Question: Why did he invite me and not our friend? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:14 AM PDT My best friend and I have a close mutual friend who is having a graduation party soon. He invited me about over a week ago, and I asked if my friend of she was invited anywhere for the past week, and she said no. I don't get why he wouldn't invite her when she invited him to her parties. They are both on good terms as they still talk and get along when we hang out, although sometimes she says she feels left out when him and I go deep into conversation with each other.I don't think she likes him as more than friends and vice-versa, because she has liked this other guy for months. I don't really have a problem with it, I'm just curious. What do you guys think? |
Posted: 24 Apr 2017 03:07 AM PDT I am a young woman who wants to be in the marines, ever since I was a kid. Guys at my school think it's weird, they refuse to date me, girls refuse to hang with me because I seem 'odd'. In fact I'm in rotc and I am the top leader and people hate me for being a leader, they get mad when I get awarded and never can be happy. I've lost friends because of that. I feel like one day they're gonna stop me, but I know I can't let them! Do any of you believe that the ones hated, become the true heroes when they get older? |
Question: How come I'm a loner at school? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:45 AM PDT Ever since I got to high school, most of my friends have left me. I try talking to people, but they always give this look that is like "your weird get away and stop talking to me". My school has cliques, there's the popular people (who are spoiled and rich), the nerds, the hispanics, etc and I don't know where i fit in. What sucks is that I'm in rotc and people think I'm some kind of loser because I wanna serve my country. I never have anyone to sit with at lunch, and half the time my teacher needs to pick my partner for me because no one literally wants to hang with me! I feel as if my reputation is ruined! No guys dare to even like me, hell I've even been tricked one time when this girl asked me who I liked and I told her and then she was screenshotting everything I was saying and sent it into a group chat filled with my crush and my old friends, I got humiliated that day and it caused me to want to give up. When I talk to people they just think I'm weird for talking instead of choosing to Snapchat them. I'm very strict and conservative!Right now in rotc, I am a 1st lieutenant and I'm working my *** off to get in the marines! I feel as if people want to see me fail. I never used to be so lonely, I was once that kid that made jokes and had friends. I had a bestfreind but she got really jelous I got far in rotc! What's wrong with me? |
Question: Suicidal Thoughouts? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 02:16 AM PDT Im going through a lot of anxiety, its chronic actually, however...this is not a problem, ever since i was a teenager my friends looked at me as a pedophile, 5 years later whenever a young boy pases boy they,ll look at me and laugh, when i was a teenager i was kinda into small kids and yes its a mistake and i regret it but my friends still say to me that im a pedo, even in front of other guys, and these other guys are thinking that im a pedo this is their image and by that i have extreme suicide thoughts and its getting annoying plz help |
Question: I Just Lost My Best Friends? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 01:42 AM PDT I lost my best friends that I have known for years now and I don t know what to do. When people are talking **** about me, my best friends began turning their backs on me. It s just unbelievable that my best friends could turn their backs on me so easily. I m so sad and this is affecting my school life. Next year, I m hoping for a fresh start but I can t seem to get one because I m going to be stuck in the same school for another year. Help!! |
Question: I don't understand why its so wrong? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 12:47 AM PDT Why its so wrong for some people to fall in love. Mostly young people. Why was it that five years ago when I was a minor, people told me I was naive ignorant and being taken advantage of when I was with an older man. Yet, here I am still with the same old man who still cares and loves me very much. I let it bother me now because, a friend who happens to be a minor, is in the same situation I was at five years ago and it makes me so sad and angry that everyone tells her she is stupid and wrong and too young to understand what love is. I was 14 at the time, she is about the same age as I was when I fell in love, and she has it harder than I ever did. All her friends make fun of her and it makes me angry. I can't do anything to help her though. |
Question: Need help, friend issues. Read details? Posted: 24 Apr 2017 12:28 AM PDT My friend Diana has this guy friend who's really tall and buff. He could overpower we with one hand because he's like twice my size. So yesterday while I was on my friend's couch waiting for her to come back from getting snacks at the gas station. He comes from his room (they're roommates) and I smile and say hi. He doesn't say anything and he looks outside and locks the doors. Then he started walking towards me and I become nervous. He he picks me up so easily and forcefully tries to undress me. I tell him to stop and before he could get my crop top off. My friend knocked on the door and said "Hey Joz! Open the door!" And I say 0Coming!" Then he drops me and runs to his room. What do I do now? I'm nervous to go to her house now. |
Question: Did he really carry him? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:54 PM PDT Did he? |
Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:44 PM PDT Do you see a big butt in the picture? if so who is it? |
Question: My girlfriends ex threatened me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:10 PM PDT So my gfs ex somehow got my number and texted me, "better watch ur back man" and sent me this picture: http://imgur.com/MrJbuBY I didnt even respond to him, but of course im a little nervous. Hes 24 and im only 19, as well as my gf. Mg gf told me he has a past of alcohol abuse and gets very abusive so im pretty scared. Should i go to the police? |
Question: What does it mean when someone writes to you "thank you for being part of my story"? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:02 PM PDT My professor wrote this to me in an email at the end of the semester. I've known him for several years and think of him as my mentor but was particularly touched by this phrase he used - hes very reserved and I never know what he's thinking - what do you think? |
Question: Why did she kiss me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:25 PM PDT I gave my friend my necklace that I wear to work. I told her that I wanted her to have it because I cared about her and I thought that she was special to me. She had his big smile on her face. She pushed me to the door and then she hugged me. She then kissed my cheek. She pushed me out the door and I just stood in silence. I knocked on the door and asked why she kissed me. She opened it and then kissed me again. My face was red and she saw and smiled. |
Question: Have me and my friend of 10 years been friend long enough for me to ask if she's a virgin? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:11 PM PDT I know that's a private thing but we have been friends a long time. |
Question: Do you want to separate from your friend, if yes, tell how? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:01 PM PDT |
Question: Can someone help me with this problem involving a girl in my class? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:56 PM PDT So basically I have this girl in my class that I don't have crush on and she is behaving very strange when talking to me. When she was giving away chocolate for her birthday to the other guys she didn't behave very weird, but when she came to me she made a very strange smile and looked at me in the eyes the whole time. But here is the weird part. When other boys talk she looks at them and listens carefully but when I talk she doesn't look at me. I have some reasons for her to have bad reputation with me but when I talk to her, her voice changes.....DRASTICALLY. It becomes VERY quiet and still looks me in the eyes very....sad. Can someone tell me what is wrong with her? |
Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:51 PM PDT I don't get it. It's almost funny to me because it's not like I prefer hanging out alone. This girl has always made plans with other people and will mention having plans with a guy or something without inviting me. She can obviously have other friends. But when I go hang out with other people, she ignores all of my Snapchats and starts ignoring my texts. I don't get it? I don't even do it often. Idk if it's jealousy. |
Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:49 PM PDT For about 6 month one of my best friends has been putting down my looks, mannerisms and basically everything about me. I get it that friends joke around, and from many of my friends I take their jokes without getting hurt, but she crosses the line and I have even asked her to stop multiple times. I lost my cool when we were at a fast good restaurant and all I said was the burgers in the picture didnt look like the real thing, and she went on a rant about how my picture dont look like me and how ugly I am. Everyday she points out that I'm ugly and shes better than me. I used to have good self esteem but now I truly believe her. I even started to cry and she acted like nothing happened and she did nothing to make me cry. I swear everyday she's putting me down, and nothing I say can make her stop. How do I get through to her that this is hurting me in a deep way?? |
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