I am turning 23 soon. I would love to post online pics and videos of me giving birth with my husband holding a leg. Real men do that and it is more beautiful to have a baby in your 20s than 30s tbh. I thought about getting very tan too. I want to be tan while pregnant too. I don't want to be a 33 yr old virgin.

I brought up the idea of counseling over a year ago and my husband refused. Last June I talked about a possible divorce but we continued to still try to work on things. I feel alone and unloved. 2 weeks ago I went on a business trip and ended up sleeping with someone else. I am now home and have brought up the idea of a divorce again, we want completely different things in life and have never really connected like a married couple. My husband does not want a divorce and when i asked him why he wants to stay married to me the only answer he can give is because he "finally feels like part of a team" I feel like I have been carrying the burden of two people on my own. I have not yet told him that I cheated and I do not want to if I do decide to follow through with the divorce because I do not want him to be able to use it against me. I know that I have to tell him if we have any chance of making this work... I know that I want out for myself, but I also feel guilt and worry about how it will effect the rest of his life and our daughters life. any sugestions or words of wisdom are appreciated. I do not need any nasty answers...

Tengo 30 años, me casé cuando tenía 15 en México, alos tres meses me separe de esta persona y no lo e vuelto a ver, ahora vivo en los Estados Unidos y me eh vuelto a casar nunca tome mi matrimonio de hace 15 años encerio y mis preguntas son,, sigo casada? Cometí un delito al volverme a casar? Que debo de hacer?

First when i walked out she was so naggy but now that ive filed for divorce she hasn't contacted me and only answers me with one word texts. Is she trying to win me back

Literally all my girl friends from high school got married to guys who are completely spineless. They do whatever their wives tell them and never take the lead in the marriage. They follow their wives around at the grocery store while the wife pushes the cart and she orders him around what to buy and makes him pay for everything. She tells him what shows to watch when they are both watching tv, etc etc.

I have to leave at 11pm to go pick up my husband at work. I am now in my bare feet at home and since I am not going in anyplace and my husband and I are coming right back home I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes. I don't want to put my shoes back on for a quick 20 minute drive since I am not going in anyplace.

He sleeps with married women and claims sociopaths on his tax returns. He claims me every year because he pays for all my bills while my mom does not. He made me sign a letter saying that which made me and my mom get into an argument(I live with her since he allows sociopaths and married whores to live there and he lets them take advantage of him). I feel like it's my fault for signing the letter and the reason why I'm not working is because I'm a full time student.

I found out my ex cheated two weeks ago. Caught him red-handed. I left the country on a solo vacation, and he apologized every day for the next week. He kept asking how he could fix things / make things better, but I told him it wasn t my job to help him out of the hole he d dug for himself. Since then he has asked for my bank info and has begun depositing thousands of dollars into my account. He hasn t said anything else. How the hell am I supposed to interpret this? Is he an idiot and trying to make me feel better, or is he clearing his conscience by paying me off?? FYI: he is a multi-multi millionaire, so the money amount hardly affects his lifestyle.

I'm 28 and I have 5 young kids with my husband who is 31.I'm biracial and he's a typical white man who annoys me all the time. And I don't like his kind. He tells stupid jokes all the time and lesves the house a mess. He's so lazy and just leaves a mess around the house. He works and I take care of the house and kids. Am tired of his parents always visiting. It's his fault I never finished college and that I depend on him. I have young kids and am tired all the time. I have had trouble losing weight after the last pregnancy and I don't want to be intimate but he always wants to. I'm just so tired of everything and tired of looking at his pale face, what do I do?

my husband and i are getting a divorce and on Apr 2nd, he found another partner who is also going through a divorce and are her divorce if final they plan on getting engaged. They've been dating for a week but apparently they've known each other for 8 years. i have a feeling that he's been talking to her the entire time he was with me and that they planned this out cause i dont believe that anyone could find a partner, date them for about a week and a half and then decide they are getting engaged.

What do you do when you are 23 and fiance is 33 and love your fiance but the relationship is not fulfilling, you don't talk about marriage anymore and your sex life is almost completely gone. What do you do when he stayed with you after you found out you were pregnant from a previous relationship and has since helped take care of your almost 2 year old son who calls him dada? What do you do when you miss hiking, being outdoors with your family, being around your friends (who also have babies now) but are across the country? I'm so stuck. I want to leave (I visit my family for 5 weeks next month. Just me and LO as fiance hasn't even met my family yet.) and my parents said they will help me get back on my feet. My mom can get me a job working with her (ive been a sahm because we cant afford daycare even with me working out here cause the pay sucks) and my dad said they still have an extra car I could use. I have a little brother that is a year older than my son and another sibling on the way. I am suffering from depression just staying inside all the time because theres only 1 car, our neighborhood isn't walking friendly and fiance never wants to do anything. He says I need to get over it and not take the easy way out by leaving. I'm tired of not having money, being stuck inside and not able to show my son the world. I'm scared to leave because I would feel guilty about taking away my son from my fiance who sees him as his own. I just need some encouragement. EDIT BECAUSE OF FIRST ANSWER: MY SON HARDLY GETS OUT. WE GO IN THE BACKYARD BUT MY FIANCE NEVER WANTS TO TAKE HIM TO THE PARK OR TO THE ZOO. MY SON IS HAPPY BECAUSE HES A BABY AND DOESN'T KNOW ANY BETTER. HES NEVER EVEN BEEN AROUND ANOTHER BABY HIS AGE. SHOWING HIM THE WORLD MEANS TAKING HIM OUTSIDE BEYOND THE GROCERY STORE AND THE BACKYARD. I DON'T BELIEVE IN STAYING IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR THE KIDS. HE CAN SENSE WHEN IM DEPRESSED.

That's why he's so understanding. He knows what's it like to be deem "dirty", sexually. Adrian. You're the best. But so is my husband. And I already love him It be such a waste to stop loving one man only to start loving another. Also, I don't want to stop loving him. Don't feel bad about HIV it's just a very nasty virus. It's not a big deal, well it shouldn't be. Anyone can get it. You are amazing. I have to stop this, it will unnerve my husband and he's been through enough. How did you get HIV? Silly question right, you had sex.

I'm genuinely interested in the psychological aspect of this situation. A man who has been married for 30 years to a wife he says he truly loves, is having a long-term affair with a young woman who he has also developed significant emotional feelings for over the past year. He puts significant effort into his affair, ensuring communication with his mistress throughout the day, every day, via text, call, and FaceTime when they cannot meet in person. The affair is both sexual and emotional. The marriage is also sexual and emotional. This man feels guilty for hurting his wife because he truly loves her, but continues to see his mistress anyway. What's the psychology here? It's obviously deeper than right-from-wrong. He knows it's wrong, feels bad, but continues to do it anyway. What's the motivator for the affair, what's keeping him in his marriage AND the affair, what has to ultimately happen for him to end one relationship, regardless if it's the marriage or affair? Thanks for your answer, smart cookie. I wont say if I am wife, mistress, or neither, because I am not looking for advice, I am only interested in the psychology of this man. I think it's deeper than wanting to feel desired because he is getting sex from both his wife and his mistress, so he's desired by both. He loves both women, this is not debatable. I'm most interested in the psychology behind what keeps him with his AP and with his wife, and what it will take for one relationship to end.

Husbands who love their wives unconditionally and put her needs before his own and she doesn't even acknowledge his efforts and treats him like dirt. Wives who will do anything for their husbands and the husband is off at the bar talking to other women. Why do people do this?

My husband is a full-time online student who studies from home. He previously worked part-time but quit because he failed a class (which cost more than he made working over the entire semester) so he could focus on keeping his grades up. Meanwhile I have been working full-time at an office and also studying part-time from home. I encouraged him to get a job over the summer to both help out financially and to also get him out of the house. His best/closest friends are online. His most frequent hobbies consist of playing online video games and playing guitar, both at home. So I'm really his ONLY in-person social interaction most days. He gets very clingy and needy. It is frequently hard for me to school work done at home or even at the library or a coffee shop if he is with me, because he has a habit of interrupting me every few minutes to show me something that could have waited until I was finished. If I'm not "in the mood" he gets self conscious or suspicious that there is someone else. We share one car and he drives me to and from work. He informed me this week that he got a job with flexible hours so he can work part-time during school on full-time over the summer and on breaks. Even though they are willing to provide office space for him, where he knows multiple people in the office, he has opted to work from home. I NEVER get to be alone unless I run away. Why would he do that after I've expressed this concern? Could this be considered spousal abuse? Since people seem to be making light of the situation, let me make clear that I'm not allowed to leave the house without him unless he is dropping me off at work. By gets suspicious that there is someone else, I mean he reads my messages/emails. He spends all our money on video games and guitars while contributing little to nothing financially. If I do try to leave just to get a break, he threatens suicide.

I got married on 9/2016. I was with her off &on for 6yrs until last yr when we broke up for 6mnths Jan-Jun, we broke up b/c I just got tired of being accused of something I was NOT doing (cheating), but when we broke up my God son &mother(close friend) was jobless&homeless so I helped. I never asked for anything to live there& wasn't trying to have a relationship other than just helping but we did get close (her words:Im not going to live with you¬ screw you), I told her I was still in love w/ex & didn't want to be in anything so I never mislead her at all & gave what I felt was 6 mnths to get on her feet at my expense, 6 mths was up & me & my ex got back together, my so called friend knew I was get'n back with Ex &wrote a 6 page nothing but BS letter to my spouse before we married accusing me of screwing errybody... spouses sisters &friends & she believed it all¬hing I said &married me anyway I asked her not to marry if she didnt trust me, 1mnth into my marriage my wifes son was killed & I became to target of her frustrations&again false accusations. Wife & I work in the same building&theres 3 woman that Fatal friend named in the letter (friends of FB) Im accused of being with & aint did a thing, my wife trashes my name under the false thoughts, co-workers (600+) heard rumor & even boss treats me different, I've attempted suicide b/c of all the neg-backlash of something I didn't do. I feel Im tortured daily at work & wife wants to work things out but I want FREE.

feel they can act like slobs in public. picking their butt cheeks, wiping their fronts with a burger king napkin etc.

My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and I love him to death. I recently started working at the nursing home as a CNA. I have been working there for almost 4 months and since I started working there I have made a few enemies and one friend. She is an amazing person. Kind hearted, caring, thoughtful and selfless. We are both married, but her husband mistreats her so badly and it kills me every time she comes to work with another bruise. I don't know what to do. I know I have feelings for her but I don't know what to do? Any advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

He was taking a half year assignment in China and was back recently. 4 Chinese girls called him because they were impregnated by him. My husband told me he would not go there anymore and we can ignore those 4 girls. I am thinking about we can move on as long as he won't fly over there anymore. But i feel bad for those girls because he lied about being single over there. I know they need to raise kids on their own and i think conservative culture over there means they will be abandoned by their family. Should I move on too? My husband keeps telling me they are worthless and nothing to worry about.

Like last night he was trying to be cute and touching me and I said I'm not in the mood tonight and rolled over. He had a disappointing look to his face and he slept in the guest room for the night :/ He doesn't pester me or annoy me for it if I say no he just goes away, help?

It's not restless leg either. So do you sleep in separate beds? We have slept in separate beds since the second year of our marriage because of this constant movement. I am the opposite, I don't move an inch. My parents said I sleep like a dead person. They even used to check on me because I was so still.

She cheated on me two months after we got married told me to leave our house and moved another guy in. (they broke up in two months) We tried to talk on 4 occasions but only argued, we haven't met in person since I moved. She cried when she saw my mom at this diner she works at. (it was dramatic, everyone saw) She asked me on a dinner because she wanted closure I denied her. I don't have her number we only talked on facebook. I miss her so much the only reason I denied her dinner request was because I felt to hurt. How do I get over her? I don't think I should take her back after that but I wan't to end the pain before I end my life

We are 40+ yrs old and have a very sexual relationship. We've been together for 2yrs. He thinks we should remove sex for awhile. He has suggested it before but it never lasts for more then a few days. I think what he wants to do but have a hard time sticking to it. He wants to see what is the foundation of our relationship. He is a very critical man and thinks hard on everything. I've complied each time he tried because I understand why. Yet it doesn't stop me from feeling unwanted. I think the best way for us to try this is to keep distance. However I love seeing him and I love his presence. He asked me am I Ok with this. I told him I dont know. Im okay with respecting his wish but I dont like how it makes me feel and do I ask how long. I know if I do he will say he doesnt know being the critical and analytical person he is. FYI I chose this category, "marriage & Divorce" for mature responses Thank you Boj, thats a slap in the face that I need. Thank elj2017c. Im going to read this verse repeatedly today. Thanks livingrawguy. We actually do have good chemistry outside the bedroom. Yet we do have alot of sex. We talk everyday on the phone for hours outside of sex we see each other at least once a week and at least 2 others times with sex. We are very sexual(touchy feely and flirty). Yet I also get that he wants too make sure sex isnt the biggest motivator. Thank you Bentley, I think your quit right.

who*res and give us married women a bad name. Why do single mothers do this? @Irene--first off, thanks for answering but secondly , I'm no troll. I see single moms trying to steal married men. that's probably what you've been doing for years.

Tried talking about this so much we stopped Won't lose weight, she was so pretty 12 years ago now I have a huge fat person living with me whom I don't recognize .... it's time to go

The man either becomes selfish and puts his own desires (sexual, financial, etc) over the well-being of the family and raising kids, he stops taking charge of creating a life for his family and being a good provider and leader and spends his time in selfish pleasures instead. Or the woman becomes selfish and doesn't appreciate and support the role her husband plays in the marriage. She loses trust and respect of her husband for no apparent reason and uses sex as a bargaining tool for her own selfish reasons.

We married and he come from work he bend me over tells me to remove my skirt and panties. He slaps the side of my bum (no it's not a big bum) and slides his penis up and down my crotch from behind while I'm bent over and he slides it in and wants it like this every day after work. In the morning he has me giving him blow jobs every day and sex right after he came from the BJ. In this sex he is very rough and goes really deep and fast, gives it to me hard and makes me throw my legs wide open in the air. But when he has ate dinner I cooked for him and were ready to sleep he gives it to me really slow, we have candles on, and he always tells me how wet I am and how hard it makes him. And that always gets me even more wetter.

Im not very good at showing her affection its not that i dont love her i do but i just wasnt raised in that type of family any ideas would be appreciated