My mom hugs each of my brothers like every day almost, and never me. I mean. Never. I cannot remember the last time I was hugged. She will hug them when they're leaving for stuff, whereas she didn't even hug me when I was literally sobbing and freaking out over my dog dying or when I was severely hurt and in the hospital for multiple days. I tried to hug her one time when I had gotten upset by my friend getting in a car crash and her reaction was to stay totally still and tell me to get it together. I don't really want to be showered with love or something, just to be reasonably cared for is all I want. It makes me genuinely sad when I see her just being so friendly and happy with them and I get completely ignored or short sharp responses. It hurts really bad. I don't want to be like some jealous jerk, I'm glad they get affection and stuff, I'm sure it makes them happy, but why don't I? Why should I be the odd one out, when I really just want a single bit of reassurance here and there that I've never gotten? I feel like such a bad person for getting upset though. Would you feel the same? I'm sure I just need to grow up; am I wrong? Am I as bad as I feel I am?

I was laying in bed the other day and I happened to look into my sister's room, and saw her changing. She was only in her bra and panties, and she was facing the wall so I couldn't see her face, only her back. Then, I started jerking off. Is this normal?

Talking to this older girl who used to babysit me she's 36 I think she's really hot we were texting she said I should visit her I said I'd love to visit her and we should hangout together she said definitely and gave me the date she comes back to town. I wanna escalate the convo to something more flirty. I'm 18 by the way and it's just that I've always wanted her she inspires me I think she's gorgeous and I know I'm young but as naive as this sounds I want her to be my first time. I love her curves and Spanish accent

No it is not the one, look who did

its been almost two years and now they are at the point where they cant go a day without arguing over stupid things it seems to me like they are just together just to be together they are both 17 and have had sexual intercourse multiple times which has caused my bestfriend to be drawn to her more emotionally not to mention shes the first girl my bestfriend has ever been with let alone the only person she had sex with well her partner told her they need space and seems not to care and my bestfriend cant leave her alone and is miserable any help?

My sister and her boyfriend live at home no jobs and they have two children a 1 year old and a 2 year old and a new baby on the way. They do have history on drugs but she stopped recently because she pregnant. Her boyfriend and her fight constantly and he hits her and they get so bad the neighbors can here. I have to get involved and stop them sometimes. Lately my sister has been yelling at her children super bad like the way she does with her boyfriend and I mean this an everyday all day thing. It use to be she only would do it to the younger one and favorited the older one but it s changed she s really mean and suspect she does hit them one nobody is around ice heard her abusive boyfriend say things to her about before and if he s saying something then it s bad. She cuses and screams in there face and I don t think that s right. She gets super mad a the smallest things kids dude. Right now the baby woke up earlier and was playing with a toy that made noise and she kept yelling at him for no reason and i heard her say that s it I m going to whoop your *** and I heard her spank him super loud. I m upstairs In my room with my tv on and there downstairs and everybody is at work right now well except them. I m home but she dosent know that. I know people have the right to spank there kids but this is super extreme I chat describe it all into detail because of space but give me your opinions when I should step in and say something. Please. Im not trying to tell her how to parent

I live in a 4-plex apartment building in a small rural town, and enjoy the building quite well. The building, however, does not have any camera s, or building security watching over it. This didn t bother me at first, but lately I wish it did. My neighbors across the hall are married, and seem quite happy. However, when the wife is working in the evenings, occasionally I will see random women show up at their apartment, and at the same time hear noises that sound suspicious. One time I noticed a van with a man inside waiting for one of these girls to return. I contacted my landlord, who told me to contact them via text when we signed the lease, but haven t heard back. Should I contact the police? I have a 6 year old and 7 year old daughter that I don t want around such activity.

I caught her staring at me (shed never done this before unless we were talking to each other) and when I turned my head to look at her she was smiling while gazing into my eyes, her head tilted slightly and the eye contact lingered for longer than usual, no words she just gazing and smiling at me I been called cute (but not since school) but Im so self conscious and think I'm really ugly and I don't wear makeup Later she asked me to help her with something and I did and i felt her staring and smiling again but didn't look at her this time and then the next day apart from a tiny glance at each other she completely ignored me Idk if she was thinking Im kinda cute? Plz lesbians, if this has happened to you aswell tell me what it means

I and my sister are adults. My dad has always care about my sister. As an adult i am feel that dad has never cared about me. If it has to do with me he doesn't seem concern. Though i am not perfect, if i try and tell dad how i feel he doesn't want to talk. He has threaten me, said he disown me when i called 911 when he pushed me. I sometimes feel rage when around him. I don't feel comfortable around him.

I believe that love is not defined by you're religion but whether you 2 love each other, anyone else agree?

We've been dating for so long at first we used to always hang out then he stopped texting and calling without saying the reason. Whenever i wanna leave he begs me not to. This year after not talking for so long i met another guy and we kinda dated when he found out he went crazy and cried i said u dont even talk to me he said i dont talk because i dont wanna get attached and im so fkn confused right now!!!

He is a flaming fa* and as Christians we did not raise our child to be a deviant.

Like how the people loved the monkeys in planet of the apes. They were slaves but they loved their life and grazing in the fields. If they had better understanding they would have been more able like the main guy. Or like the friend zone. A person gets there but only loves the other person because of their limited scope of understanding. If they knew what was up they wouldn't be in the friend zone. Yet being strung along is like slavery.

Hola amigos! espero me puedan ayudar con el tema, veran hay muy pocas ocasiones en mi caso, en el que veo a una chica y me engancho intensamente, empezamos un poco de miradas pero nada mas, yo sinceramente no se que hacer, por que estoy tan clavado con ella si no la conozco para nada? por que siento algo tan fuerte por ella? soy inmaduro? me emociono muy rapido? por que siento ganas de hablarle todo el tiempo, por que imagino besarla, por que lloro tan solo en escribir esto, de verdad espero me puedan ayuar, que significa esto? es una conexion? un lazo?

Smh so my friend let me stay with her when I needed financial help and was practically homeless. I was so grateful. Now a few months later she just asked me to return the favor and let her and her cat come and stay with me. I really don't want to do it she is not a clean person and her cat smells. I feel really bad for feeling this way but I feel like she is using me as a crunch and purposely didn't pay her rent because I had my place and she felt I owe it to her. I told her yes but I'm thinking of changing my mind. My place is nice and clean and I have new furniture that I barely sit on so I don't want her and get cat stinking it up. Ugggh I feel so mean for saying that. My heart wants to hurt her but my mind is telling me no. I want privacy I love living alone but she did help me. What should I do?

I know what some of you are going to say, but bear with me. I have had strong feelings for one of my managers for a while. I didn't know when I developed feelings for him, that he was married. I actually thought he had a crush on another woman we work with because they have great chemistry. Anyways, I am 26 and he is 25. I never told him how I feel about him, he's obviously never asked. But he has definitely known how I feel about him since at least December. I could tell, when his behavior towards me started to change. He wasn't as social towards me. In January, it was my birthday and although everybody around us wished me a "happy birthday", he didn't. It wasn't until he was on Facebook that evening that he posted "happy birthday" on my wall. The past couple of months, he has barely interacted with me at work unless he absolutely had to, regarding something work-related. He hasn't interacted with me on FB since late January, no comments..no likes, nothing. My thought is that maybe he told his wife and she told him not to interact with me outside of work or maybe he's paranoid that people at work are going to think something's up between us. Well, we were all out of work temporarily for a month so our building could get a makeover and the past 2 days we've been back, he hasn't acknowledged me once. There were times where we were so close to each other physically that it was legit weird for us NOT to say anything to each other. Why's he doing this? It hurts. What's even worse is I've been hinting around on Facebook about somebody treating me like I'm invisible and I'm sure he knows it's about him, but of course he pays it no attention. I get that he's married and it's probably what is best for his marriage and his job, but he doesn't have to flat out act like I don't exist. What's even worse is I've been hinting around on Facebook about somebody treating me like I'm invisible and I'm sure he knows it's about him, but of course he pays it no attention. I get that he's married and it's probably what is best for his marriage and his job, but he doesn't have to flat out act like I don't exist. Mike-If your incompetent self had actually read my post, you'd see I mentioned how I never brought up my feelings to him nor has he ever asked about them. I developed feelings for him within the first month of working with him and during that time, I didn't know he was married. He started talking about his wife, so that's how I knew. It's not like I confessed to him and he shot me down with his marriage. Lala-Before you TRY to insult me, get your terminology correct. A slut is a woman who sleeps with multiple men at the same time. I don't do that. So ignorant. -_- Those who say I am a stalker or stalking him-ridiculous. I don't know his phone number, his address, etc. Please enlighten me on how it is considered stalking to be upset when the guy I am interested in, doesn't interact with me on Facebook anymore nor when he is right there in front of me. Today was better, though. We interacted a tiny bit, but it was better than nothing.

Because of how socially awkward and anxious I am and because of my deficit of friends. How do I convince them that i'm not autistic and i'm just stupid

My mom is 92, in a wheelchair and I am her caretaker. Whether she's on the bed being changed or sitting in front of the TV she continually makes what I call puppy whining, help me or monkey noises. I can handle the diapers, the feeding, the ... everything, but the noise making is driving me crazy. Every time I ask her to please stop she says, "OK" and starts up again 10 seconds later. Is it hopeless? Any ideas? ps I can not afford to put her in a convalescent home. Please stop moving my question.

I know what some of you are going to say, but bear with me. I have had strong feelings for one of my managers for a while. I didn't know when I developed feelings for him, that he was married. I actually thought he had a crush on another woman we work with because they have great chemistry. Anyways, I am 26 and he is 25. I never told him how I feel about him, he's obviously never asked. But he has definitely known how I feel about him since at least December. I could tell, when his behavior towards me started to change. He wasn't as social towards me. In January, it was my birthday and although everybody around us wished me a "happy birthday", he didn't. It wasn't until he was on Facebook that evening that he posted "happy birthday" on my wall. The past couple of months, he has barely interacted with me at work unless he absolutely had to, regarding something work-related. He hasn't interacted with me on FB since late January, no comments..no likes, nothing. My thought is that maybe he told his wife and she told him not to interact with me outside of work or maybe he's paranoid that people at work are going to think something's up between us. Well, we were all out of work temporarily for a month so our building could get a makeover and the past 2 days we've been back, he hasn't acknowledged me once. There were times where we were so close to each other physically that it was legit weird for us NOT to say anything to each other. Why's he doing this? It hurts. What's even worse is I've been hinting around on Facebook about somebody treating me like I'm invisible and I'm sure he knows it's about him, but of course he pays it no attention. Uh coverdaler, I am a Christian so I know all about Jesus lmao. I am fine the way I am, deary. Uh coverdaler, I am a Christian so I know all about Jesus lmao. I am fine the way I am, deary. Being married doesn't equal treating somebody like they're invisible.

Would you wish a boyfriend like him? Would you like to be hugged by those arms?

My dad, 58, had an accident at work a year ago, which required a couple of surgeries since the first surgery unfortunately wasnt done right. Hes been receiving therapy regularly as well as seeing a hand specialist, but we know that its a matter of time before his boss tries to get him back to working. Hes a manager of an apartment building, meaning aside from handling tenants rent he also did some maintainance. Obviously after his injury things wont be the same. Due to the pain he still has, he knows that he wont be able to work how he used to. As far as we look ahead of us, nothing is clear. Im just trying to find some type of guidance to help out this situation.

My mom really likes my husband Joe and he really like her. Nothing gives Mom's more fun than joking around with Joe except when he jokes back with her. At the dinner table for example, Mom ask Joe "Is that a gun in your pocket or are you glad to see me". Joe said "They don't make guns that big". Mom and Joe both laughed for 5 minutes. Another time Mom ask Joe if he wanted to see his mother in law happy. He said "what would it take to make you happy". She said 10 inches. Joe said "I will not cut off 2 inches for anyone". Mom could not stop laughing. Should I tell mom to knock it off as Joe will think she is flirting? Is what she is saying to Joe not appropriate? Joe just thinks it is a very funny what she is doing?