This is the 3rd time I caught him talking to hooker's on craigslist, exchanging phone numbers, dirty talk and making arrangements to meet with them, putting me at risk for HIV. He also emailed transvestite's. He swore to God that he wasn't doing this again until I checked his emails and discovered this. I called the cops and told them that he slapped me. The emails felt like a slap in the face, and he had actually slapped me in my face months prior. The emails just gave me motivation to report the slap. I'm having mixed thoughts on whether I'm right or wrong for this...

I met a married woman and told her to get out of my face and call me only after she divorces. She insists on being friends and just annoys me with how much her husband neglects and abuses her. She agrees to have sex since i told her i got no interest in listening to her drama and she should solve her issues with him since he is the one fkin her n not me. She said yes twice and then never showed up. Then she proposed running away together and i told her she's crazy and that would totally destroy her kids n family. At that point i couldnt take it no more n said if she wont leave me alone i will hurt her family. She tries to suicide twice within a week and falls in a catatonic state. I blame myself and risk getting caught in order to comfort her; i was the first person she called when she woke up and helped her get on her feet etc. During those 2 months in hospital her husband was busy figuring out why she did it. Then he figured there must be a backdoor guy aka me. He goes thru her phone and contacts me; saying he will kill both of us. I make up a story and told him she loves him. He was disuaded but he said he will dig more into the matter and if i was lying he will kill both. I told her what happened n to be careful but now she says im lying and that im a monster that tried to destroy her family and esp now that her husband began to love her again. At this point im thinking to tell her husband the truth and to get off my back - his wife is a cheating whore. Its also clear she used me from beginning to make him jealous. I remember her saying that her husband is an attractive man; and that she enjoys staying home with kids - he is rich too - I got not beef in this mess, just used and thrown away like a tampon. Plus she now she calls me the monster that destroyed her life and her husband is hunting me down. What not tell him the truth ?

I have been with my husband for years now... We have three Children ..two boys three and five and a four month old girl. He has no respect for me and verbally abuses me. When I was pregnant with our daughter I asked him to rub my feet and he said "why don t you suck my dick". I stayed with him thinking he would change and today I was discussing what I want for our patio and he said to me "shut the **** up *****" "suck a dick" .. I immediately started crying because I can t believe what he says to me and the way he talks to me and he looks at me and said "I m just kidding". It s almost like I feel as though he is crazy... His father abused his mother and he acts just like his father. He calls me a ******* asshole and belittles me in front of my boys. I want to leave but I m a stay at home mom with no career training and I m afraid...I m afraid I won t be able to support my kids. Has anyone heard of a man talking to his wife like this? Why do men do this to a woman? Please be kind and no insults.

one person for the rest of their lives?! ... And if that ends, they usually want to kill themselves?!

My husband I got married in KS 2 years ago. His parents are immigrants from China, and very traditional. There have been constant conflicts mainly because of cultural differences. After a few months into our marriage, we got new jobs and moved to CA. However they would still call my husband just to complain about me. About a year ago, my husband lost a job and he has been unemployed since. To make matters worse, around the same time, we learned my husband was unable to father a child due to genetic disorders. Since last summer he has been sporadically staying in KS to help his parents close down their family business. I only spent 1.5 month with him in the past half year. I asked him to spend more time with me, but he just told me it's his duty as a son to help his parents. While he's helping them, I'm working hard everyday to pay all our bills by myself. His parents also expect him to stay in KS to help them, saying "since you don't work in CA, you don't have to go back there anymore", even though he has a wide (me) there. When he tries to say no to them, they get upset and start guilt-tripping him, saying things like "we raised you", "we paid your tuition" I try to be supportive but I'm starting feel like, to him, I'm just an option, not a priority. He has also been on dating sites here and there, telling me he's only looking. Now I keep asking myself, do I really want to give up on having kids, for a guy who doesn't even put me first? I don't know what to do. I have a job in CA and since I'm very specialized it's hard for me to find a job in KS that can feed two people. I don't want to make him choose between his parents and I, but I feel like his parents are running over our marriage. I'm OK with not having kids, as long as my husband and I can have a happy life together. However, with my husband aways taking care of his parents at cost of our own marriage, I'm starting to have second thoughts. But I still love him so much and feel completely stuck.

I am 33 years old. I failed a marriage with husband so now divorced and see my 7 year old part time. I lost a good job because of my negative thoughts. I am working now at a job who might not hire on first shift because the people been there 30 years plus. I feel like a failure lost it all. I lost a good car due to my alcohol addiction. I went to AA but I ran away again . I keep going back alone again nothing much accompanied in my misery.

I am 20 year's old young man that has a great life as many can say. I have a full time job as an interpreter at a law firm office and majoring in linguistics at Cal State University of Los Angeles. A few weeks ago i met a wonderful woman named Sasha that was just hired at the law firm office in which i currently work. The problem is that i caused such an impression to this woman as soon as we met. Yesterday i met her husband at a work dinner provided by our law firm office for employees and their families. As we were conversing her daughter appears into the picture and tells me that i caused such a big impression in Sasha "her mom" , because i look like her first love back 20 years ago.The issue is that her husband approached me and threatened me to stay away from his wife and not speak with her. I spoke to her daughter and she told showed me a picture of the guy she was dating 20 years ago before getting married to her actual husband. The issue is that i think that her husband feels threatened by the fact i look so much alike this past boyfriend of her's in the past. What should i do? Sasha my co- worker is nice to me and always sits next to me in the employee lounge and it seems like i can't avoid her. How would you feel if you were the husband? Details: Sasha is 42 years old. Sasha's husband is 43 years old. Sasha's Daughter my age 20.

Sex is overrated and it's not better than love. There is nothing special about sex. Eating and drinking are more important than sex. Sex comes with alot of problems. If you have sex you won't die. If you don't eat and drink then you will die.

We watch it sometimes it's a turn on just wondered if others did during sex?

I met a married woman and told her its not gonna work out unless she divorces; plus i got no time to waste since the clock was ticking for me. She insisted that we stay friends but with her husband watching over her back was still a waste of time and just fruitless. She had issues with him, neglected, mistreated, no sex etc. She had a crazy plan to run away from him and i disuaded her etc. One day she agreed to have sex then changed her mind. I got pissed and threatened to hurt her family. She tried to suicide twice and went into a catatonic state. I left my job and comforted her from afar, contacted her friends and family and begged them to stay close to her. I said i was an old friend etc. Her husband goes thru her phone and contacts me. He threatens to kill me and her. I explained i was an old friend and owed her my life since she disuaded me from suicide etc and explained how much she loves and respects him. Now they're happy together; more than ever before. She calls me and says im a bastard and piece of sh!t...after comforting her for hours each day, risking being killed and leaving my job. She called me a monster too. Who is to blame ? I dont appreciate being insulted. I asked who's to blame. Both of us ? Probably yes; i still regret not running away from day one. Do both of us have mental issues ? Yes of course. But the end result is that they're happily married - i made a mistake and paid it dearly to make things work for her and for him. Does that make me a monster ? NB when she woke up after 2 weeks the first person she asked to see was me and i comforted her until she got back on her feet. What crazy dreams ? Plz explain. Party delights: what ur saying is pretty much where im at now. I just expected some recognition and to leave on friendly terms; i dont want her to think of me as a monster each time she remembers me; after what i went thru. Her husband is the source of all her problems that she eventually spilled on me. Plus her insecurity and making promises she never kept is what made me lose it and make those threats that lead her mind to suicide. Im trying really hard not to call her and tell her this. Not only i lost my job, time, energy, money and living for 2months with constant fear she might die cuz of me; but i exit the stage as the monster and her husband the hero. Could anyone accept that ? What did i gain from all this mess she started thanks to her husband's neglect and psychological abuse ? That im a monster ?!? Now thats what i cant digest. Her husband is a psycho on the look out for the backdoor guy and promised to kill her and me if i was the guy she cheated on him -

He is a chain smoker and I have to put out his cigs in the morning or he will take and smoke whatever is their. He took a pack out of a carton I had hidden last night and straight out lied to me this morning. He wants me to question myself and make me believe I am wrong. However, I know what was their and that he took them. He would rater fight, lie, and swear at me instead. He is a chain smoker and I have to put out his cigs in the morning or he will take and smoke whatever is their. He took a pack out of a carton I had hidden last night and straight out lied to me this morning. He wants me to question myself and make me believe I am wrong. However, I know what was their and that he took them. He would rater fight, lie, and swear at me instead. His lying almost ruined our marriage 2 winters ago. Since then I have forgiven him for all his lies and things have been good. I have sensed lately that he is started to be dishonest about senseless things again. My biggest problem is his refusal to tell the truth and the lengths he goes to to avoid telling the truth. He will drag this out for days before fessing up. He will treat me like crap until he finally caves and tells the truth. But he could be caught red handed and deny it.

He told me on our first date that he makes 200,000/yr. He Is an entrepreneur. When we were making a budget, he told me to put $6000/month as his income. Has he lied to me? He said that it really depends on the clients that come in and that he put 6000/month to be "safe". He said at times clients come in and request $3000 dresses.

I've been home sick all week and my husband pretty much has left me alone in bed. He went to church last night and a little while after he left I heard the door open but he never came into the bedroom. A few hours later I heard the door again and he walks in. I asked him why he was walking in and out so much. He said that he had been at church and that his daughter was home for the weekend from college. Her boyfriend lives in the town over from us and he goes to her school so when he came home he dropped her off. This morning several hours after he left for work I sent him a text to say that I guess we were on a need to know basis because he didn't tell me his 20 year old daughter was coming home. His reply was, "what was the big deal?" I feel like I should have known she was coming home. He then says that my 21 year old son left 2 days ago to go hang with his girlfriend and I didn't feel the need to tell him he wasn't going to be home so he didn't see the big issue in telling me his daughter was coming home. He said they're both adults and we don't need to keep tabs on them that much. Much less, he didn't think it was that big of an issue to tell me his daughter was coming home. He only tells me things when I need to know.

I ve spoke with my husband about the lack of sex in our marriage numerous times. I m to the point I m angry and I want to shut him out. We ve been together 5 years married for 2. I would like sex 2-3X a week, but he is okay with once and even if it is once it s because I initiated. I ve asked if it s something I ve done or if he has a hidden fetish but NOPE. I had a baby 10 months ago but I ve lost all the weight and I m smaller now than before I got pregnant. I know it s not my weight or appearance. I take care of our child and home, I try hard to make a peaceful home and still it doesn t help. I m 23, and he is 32 and I ve considered it could be our age gap but I ve talked to other woman and they can t keep their husbands off of them. It s causing a lot of depression and I m afraid that it will lead to divorce which is something I really don t want, but if sex less than once a week for the rest of my life is my future it s a hard one to overcome. Have any other woman experienced this, and if so how did you "fix" it.

So my mom & I have been video chatting with myself & three kids. My husband doesn't want her having contact with the kids until she's made major changes. She's one of those people who doesn't know her place so she tries to do what she wants & he doesn't like it. She also allowed me to have sexual contact with some of my cousins when I was younger. My husband doesn't want her to have any relationship with our kids because of that. So that our kids don't know her enough to trust her so she does the same things to them like what happened to me. Well he found out I've been vudechatting with her & hasn't talked to me in a week. I think he's overreacting I've forgiven my mom for all the stuff I'm not mad at her I don't get why he is....

My gf, or now fiancée, are planning to get married in the near future. I asked her to marry me on new years eve. I was with my brother and his fiancée at their party. He is getting married this summer but he is 28. I love my fiancée and I love who I am with her. She is my first and hopefully last and I think that is romantic despite what my brother says. My brother and I talked at the party and he said: "Being in love is not enough to make a relationship last. And how do you know she is the one? You haven't even had the wrong one yet. You asked the difference between us. No doubt you are mature but I am experienced. I have made mistakes, I have seen what mistakes lead to, I have travelled, lived abroad, loved the wrong girls, had my heart broken, done things you can not do as a married man. Be careful about stepping up to the everyday routine of every day life. Once that wheel starts spinning it's hard to make it stop". I'm not like my brother. I don't have to travel the world, I don't have to screw things up all the time to know what I want. All I know is that I am happy with her and she is the one for me. What is wrong with that?

Yesterday are son Max was in a bad accident an he is in the hospital. I was here from the time I got here at 3:30 yesterday afternoon until now (its almost 9:00 a.m.). Max is in an induced comma an he may have swelling on his brian. Before I go any farther, I need to explain that their is a BUNCH of men in love with me on the internet, an their not loosers, there docters an dignataries an one is even a buyer! Usual at night when Max goes to bed I will entertain these men, showing them my breasts, vag an butthole an sometimes I will masterbait for them on cam. Oviously I didn't last night cause I was here. I asked my asshole ex-hhsbend to just stay here long enough for me to run home (20 minute trip) an see who was on cam an explain what bappened but he wont do it, said he had to go to work! Ugh. He thinks these men is all fakors because most of them is in Nigeria an most of them just want to talk about there BTA (thats basic travel allowence) so they can come to America an marry me. I know my ex-husbend is just jealous that I am getting all this attention from these men, it prolly kills him inside to know that all these men wants me so bad. He got married an the least he can do is let me find some happiness, he is so selfish. What can I do about this?

My husband has an affair on me in 2015 I left him with our 2 girls that were 4,and 3months old and got our own place. I work hard not Dated anyone and take care of my girls. He is now moved in a 23yr old he is 40 2 months after I left him and now almost 2 yrs later she is pregnant with twins. Posting all over fb there blessing everyone congratsing them etc. I'm over here laughing like ummm he is married and hasn't even filed. Lol when I bring it up to him he says not today not talking about it today but says he wants to file soon.. 2yrs separated and hasn't filed? Why? I don't have the money for a divorce and I work to much and take care of our girls he should pay for this end what he started. So why is he not?!

Today, I really hate my husband!!!! I was studying for my exam this morning and he came back from his walk. He was talking about something and I suddenly interrupted him because I have a question about my practice exam, then he told me, that is rude, actually it is super rude. Am I really being rude even though there is please at the end of my question when I asked him something? I am 6 months pregnant and he is making me more upset. Now, I am not in the mood to study.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and I'm 24 years old but my girlfriend is 21 years old. Just wondering, is it too early to get married after 3 years of dating?

I've been married for 5 years and every year my wife says nothing to me but goes out to buy herself a ticket to fly back to her home country China. She will just announce it out of the blue. I have tried to tell her that I'm also missing that country but she doesn't care. Always suits herself and says she needs some alone time for a couple of weeks. So I've given up in our 6th year of marriage right now. I have made separate plans to return to China next year and visit mates. Unlike her, I will mention it closer to the date. Also, I'm planning on volunteering overseas in a medical cl8nic but I'm not saying anything to her. Just going to buy a ticket and announce it. She can yell all she wants about me using my annual leave. But it's my choice and supports my nursing studies. I have given up on going back to her hometown with her to see her family. I will go there myself with my parents even if it's a bit awkward. Up to her if she wants to make it less awkward and finally get on a plane again with me. We never go on vacation together. Not since we got married 5.5 years ago. We seem to live Chinese style lives with everything kept separate. No plans to vacation together. Everything kept practical. It hurts me. She doesn't seem to care and carries on enjoying herself whilst I'm hurting!! At 34, I wonder what it would be like to turn away from her affection and love to me in the home. Why else would I still be with her right? At least she shows caring in the home.

i would have no problem introducing a man into our relationship to satisfy my wife in a 3-some

Before I married my husband he always had female friends. Some it was cool but others it seem like ge wanted to hanf wit them more than me, especially when I was pregnant. Now I feel like I need to get make friends. But I m kind of scared because every make friend I had end up trying to date me. Can females have friends? Are males with female friends end up talking to them? Is it possible for a married woman to have a male friend?

For the past 8 mo. my husband hardly ever wants sex. I always want it at night and every time I ask it's always "no, not tonight. I'm tired. I'll make it up to you tomorrow." Well tomorrow never comes (no pun intended). I figure, ok I won't ask at night, I'll ask during the day. That doesn't work either. So last night around midnight (go figure), he asks for a hand/********. So I get pissed. I say I've been trying to have sex for weeks and now that you want it, it's one-sided. I get nothing?? So he's like, "Well fine, you can get on top of me." (First of all, I'm ALWAYS on top) I thought he didn't like sex at night, so I told him I'm not prepared and I don't feel sexy right now and I'm kind of pissed now. So tonight, he's playing his stupid f-ing game on his phone that I HATE because it makes him so angry and I don't understand why the f he still plays it. He's getting all pissed at it, and I try to calm him down and initiate sex. When I ask if he wants to, he snaps at me, "NO!" I'm pissed and I tell him how much I hate that game and that our sex life is suffering. He apologizes for snapping because he was just pissed at the game. Then he says it's not fair because I turned him down the other night. The ONE f*cking time I decline and he throws it in my face?! I'm SO mad and hurt. Wtf do I do?? I'm trying to be understanding because I know he works a lot and he's tired but I have needs too. He'd rather play video games and drink than have sex with his wife. I'm so hurt :'(

So my husband pretty much refuses to do ANYTHING around the house. He says that I constantly nag him to do stuff which is true, but it's only because I literally will ask him to clean up/put away HIS THINGS multiple times throughout the day and he'll either forget or just not do it. Therefore I start nagging and getting angry. He does pay all the household bills so I do believe that I should be the one that does the deep cleaning/cooking/grocery shopping, ect. All I ask is for him to clean up after himself! For example; he'll leave all his clothes lying on the floor, instead of putting them in the hamper. He'll make food and just leave all the dirty dishes, crumbs, and wrappers out on the counter. He'll being do something and not put any of his stuff away after. The list goes on. All I want is him too clean up after himself. I cannot stand it anymore and i'm starting to get bitter and mean. I left the house a mess tonight and he still hasn't tidied one thing up. I'm going on strike. If he's not going to do anything then I'm not. What the hell should I do!?? Also, I came in the bedroom earlier on and all his clothes were on the chair, so I told him that he either puts them away or I'm throwing them in the living room. (I've been staying in our bedroom lately, because I can't stand the mess out in the living room/kitchen). He said I was a really mean person. Like come on!

From personal experience, telling her to be quite will only make her talk more.

What were some of the first subtle signs of the improprieties? I was married to a huge cheater and I know that while jealousy is not good, total LACK of it is a big clue in my opinion. Just curious to find out what others experiences have been when I mention jealousy I am not speaking of my own jealousy but LACK of jealousy the ( unfaithful party) has. My EX husband never cared what I did because he was busy doing his OWN thing( and we aint talking going to the gym or fly fishing) I could of done alot but did not. Everyone marveled at how he trusted me and that was SO wonderful. Yes because HE was getting his GROOVE on what did he care?

Married men (in western countries) are looked down upon in society. They are not seen as men, but as slaves and/or ATM machines to women (gold-diggers).