I sent an emotional txt to a friend about not listening/having empathy when speaking about my infertility journey & still hasn t replied? Ive listened to her whinge about her husband & life for years and always tried being supportive but couldnt listen to me at a time when Im opening up about something thats a big deal for me.

So, my friend unadded me a few days ago and i m trying to add my friend back their name will pop up and i click add but it just loads and never adds them. What s up with this?

Last summer my best friend started to smoke weed! Some of his other friends pressured him into it. Now he has slowly drifted away from me and I don t know what to do! Once, after not going to his house for months, he convinced​ me to come over and smoke with him; I submitted. But I don t want this to be the future of our friendship! His parents won t do anything. His other friends are the cause. And now he values a high more than our friendship. I can t just leave him behind, but I feel like I can t do anything. If I talk to him about it, he ll just avoid me even further... Please how do get my friend back?

I have been friends with this person for 5 years now and it seems like now that we have been out of hight school for a year things have gotten worse. I always noticed in high school that she would always do the bare minimum or if not that she wouldn't do anything at all! There were many times the teacher would pull her to the side and She would come back angry and up set that they called her out on the things she was doing and why her grades were so low. Well anyway here we are a year after graduation (Where she barely Graduated) In the past year I have had two jobs (One was seasonal so it didn't last long) and I have done Three shows (I'm in theater) all three she has missed. She always complains that she has nothing to do (She doesn't work go to school or anything her mom works all week and my friend doesn't drive) but When I ask her to go to thing or hang out she's either "Sick" or something is wrong with her dogs but then I see her post on face book hanging out with another friend who is 1. Going to school 2. Has a job 3. is engaged! I just don't get why she would hang other with this one friend but when I have a show or I want to invite her two the movies something is wrong and this all started when I started working and doing shows all the time. How do I deal with this? Should I just let her go and stop being friends! because I have so many other friends (Ones from theater) who always ask to hang out and are SUPER supportive! I just hate that I keep loosing friends.....

I have a friend, but I'm sort of annoyed with her friend. What pisses me off is that I am the only one he is a jerk to. He treats everyone else fine. I'm the only one he is an *** to. Like he keeps criticizing me when I do Something wrong, he is stern towards me, he gets cranky when I talk to him or even talk! I have tried to be nice to him but he is being a total asshole! What do I do?

Soo,i'm turning 16 in like two weeks. I was looking forward to this day for so long,but the people that made my last bd so cool aren't there for me anymore and I dont know what to do . the boy I used to like was the dj and now I do know a boy who can be the dj but i dont know him close enough . what should I do? he and his friends are friends with my classmate soo i was thinking of inviting them all,but i dont even know the others well. how should i get close to them? I was thinking not to make a party maybe ? because I'm afraid it wont turn out well. Any ideas?

i let two friends of mine treat me as if i was there pet. they call me good boy, tell me to fetch things, wont let me on the couch sometimes. i mean is it weird that i do this.

So i'm in college and i have a friend who i've know for about 7 or so months. Recently we've been hanging out a LOT more than we did at the beginning. Going on trips, doing makeup, hanging out but some **** is striking me the wrong way. I sent her a message and I asked her if I could rant to her and if she has a min. She said yeah go on girl. So I tell her a really serious story about how my mom and i are not seeing eye to eye etc. Her reply was a gif. She sent me a gif that had a guy with his mouth open in awe lol. Then later she says "I'm sorry girl. it will be okay. also how did you make graphs in our social presentation last year" and i said umm i love the subject change, and told her i made them in excel. then she said "No I'm sorry. its my group project. but like i feel for you. yeah the shapes." then she asks "so excel first then ppt or what" I'm giving her super short answers at this point, and then she tells me thank you and thats it. Quick background: I'm always listening to her rants and literally always doing favors. The other night I edited a picture for her so the background would be transparent for shirts she was making for her org. she asked me how to and i ended up doing it ******* for her. Idk like the only thing i can remember he doing is buying me a starbucks drink. But i mean we hang out but idk i just feel used. For example, i'm always giving her heart felt responses, going out of my way, teaching her how to do her makeup like mine (she loves the way I do it), and idk its just UGH. Also i'm usually the one driving which is fine, and she will say like "im gonna give you gas money" and i say nah you dont have to, and then she says yes I do but she never does lol!!! She bought me 1 starbucks drink. I can not think of one other time where she did me a favor. For example, i'm always giving her heart felt responses, going out of my way, teaching her how to do her makeup like mine (she loves the way I do it), and idk its just UGH. Also i'm usually the one driving which is fine, and she will say like "im gonna give you gas money" and i say nah you dont have to, and then she says yes I do but she never does lol!!! She bought me 1 starbucks drink. I can not think of one other time where she did me a favor.

I have been close friends with someone for 2 years, but the last 5 months or so I have really wanted to end the friendship. I am not compatible with this person anymore and unhappy with how they talk about my life choices. My friend is studying engineering and he always puts down my degree (International Relations) with comments like "That's a bit of a copout degree wouldn't you say?" or "A nonscientific degree is something that people too stupid for real studies do". After a few months of this and also changing interests I decided I would tell him I do not want to be friends anymore but right when I felt the time was right his mom died. Reasonably so he has been wanting to do a lot with me lately because he is in a bad place, but he continues to make comments like this to me as well as behave in some very selfish ways. For example we went to lunch and he realized that he forgot his wallet after we had finished eating and I feel like he is using me right now because of the situation that he is in. I definitely am sympathetic to him and want to support him but I also don't want to be friends with him anymore because of how he treated me the past few months. Would you end the friendship now or wait until things cool off in his personal life?

i have two friends at my school who are

I'm in 8th grade and there has been something that has been bugging me a lot lately. People ignore me to unreasonable levels. I'll explain. Let's say I'm at my desk and it's before class starts I was talking to my friends and let's say someone is standing on the other side of the room, doing nothing. Let's call this person Greg. I say, "Hey Greg!". No reaction. "Hey Greg!" Again nothing. This is simplified but it happens every single day. It is getting excessive. I have a question about a math problem, the person I ask about is doing nothing, sitting around done with the problem talking to no one. Do they respond? No. Even today we got out of class early so when I went to my next class there was a kid waiting by the door I asked him what's up and he walked away without a word. Even if people do listen to me they don't pay attention. Sometimes I don't even bother telling someone something or even trying to talk to people because I feel like they won't respond or ignore me. It has gotten so bad I am genuineIy surprised when someone looks at me when I talk to them and I'm shocked if they respond. People starting conversations with me are a weekly occurrence. Obviously it's not as bad with friends but all of these problems still happen. I like making new friends but it's difficult when people refuse to talk to you in the first place. Anyone ever dealt with something like this? Thanks.

Ok everytime I do a roleplay on skype with my friend she ends up putting a lot of pregnancy in the roleplays and it is making mad and having more stress in my system and she won't stop at that. i want to tell her but I'm scare that I've get her mad or upset about it when I'm being honest from that. It's like everyroleplay she does this and never have fun or fight or something else instead she puts"pregnency"on everything I can't take it anymore. Is there a way to get her stop or do I need to reason with her? And when she said"for a bit" she never comes back to skype until next day morning at the roleplay her character and creepypasta character she put Masky being pregnant and I can't do nothing about this.

As I said above I feel terrible. I snitched on a co-worker. Not thinking. It just came out. The day before Easter ( Saturday ) she was mentioning to me how her family always does multiple things on Easter and how she didn t want to work eyc... and jokingly mentioned how she might not be there the next day ( Easter ) for her shift. I come in on Easter and they told me she called out without thinking I just said " She told me yesterday she was ". After I said it I was like " **** " I shouldve just kept it to myself. Now, it s literally eating me alive. I don t know what to do. What if they tell her I told them? 😔 I need advice or something to make me feel better. Not " you are a snitch! " I think I ve heard that enough.

I am 16 years old and finishing my GCSEs soon and will be starting sixth form in September. I am staying at the same school that I'm at for sixth form and I am terrified that I will continue to have literally zero fiends. I lost all of my friends last year and now I am so incredibly alone. I have no one. I'm sit at home by myself and live a boring pathetic life. I try and force myself to be more social and gain more friends but I literally just can't. I'm stuck at this school for the next two years and it's going to be torture. Even after I finish my a levels I will go to university and again I will be alone there as well. I hate not having any friends. I feel like I am Wasting my life. And it is so embarrassing. I'm going to be alone for he rest of my life. No friends. No husband. No family. I don't even know what the point of living is any more. What do I do?

My whole life I've been treated like SH*T by people, by love interests, friends, everyone. I have met a girl close to a year ago (we're both bi), and immediately became good friends. She first made me feel truly loved since i NEVER really felt that in general. From friendship it very quickly grew into romance and to eventual SEX many times. I guess I could say I loved her after knowing her for 5 months. The problem is, she took a break from a serious relationship DAYS before she met me. And during that 'break' we fell in love with each other. Though she didn't take it that seriously like me. The girl still had a feeling to get back with that person after all that and basically told me no to continuing any relationship ever again, she doesn't want to hurt me anymore. And to be honest I knew about that other person and the whole time i still FOUGHT FOR HER but i lost. That makes it hurt more... But what i'm asking for is for tips to stay close friends with her even though the betrayal. I have NO ONE else close with the same interests, life goals, and someone who still cares about me as much as her. Not to mention i have been diagnosed with some MENTAL DISORDERS to make my situation worse... How do i get over the 'relationship' and maintain a healthy close friendship?

I cant find them anywhere.

i recently joined a group chat for my college class next year, and its not like ive bee nonstop talking or being annoying, i only talked every here and there, and nobody knows who i am so its not like i have any reputation. every time i try to join in on the conversation, its like i never said anything to anybody and the topic switches or nobody replies. it sucks, bc im already so shy and im really trying to put myself out there and make friends but it already feels like nobody wants to be my friend :( even in my own friend group its like everyone talks over me. why do people do this? i feel invisible most of the time and all i want to do is make/have friends been **

We met last september and ended uip getting really close. She initially started flirting with me and also opened up about her anxiety issues and how her previous long term relationships ended with her getting cheated on. She told me she had been single for over three years and preferred being on her own. Back in dec we confessed our feelings for each other but she said she was scared and I could tell that was something holding her back. We continued to stay friends and I did everything I could to show her I truly cared about her but I guess it was not enough and I ended up putting way too much effort into it. She instead kept suggesting we hookup but I turned it down mainly bc I knew it wouldnt end well for us as her previous fwb ended horribly as well. Back in feb she told me she wanted more from our friendship but needed time and then a couple of days later she told me she always only saw me as a friend and nothing more which didnt make any sense at all. We started drifting apart, since I started ignoring her texts and I felt like she led me on and was never honest with me. I knew she was scared and I dont blame her but she went about it the wrong way. She has apologized for leading me on but our friendship has just not been the same and I dont know if there is any point in us staying friends now.

I sent an emotional txt to a friend about not listening/having empathy when speaking about my infertility journey & still hasn t replied? Ive listened to her whinge about her husband & life for years and always tried being supportive but couldnt listen to me at a time when Im opening up about something thats a big deal for me.

So, my friend unadded me a few days ago and i m trying to add my friend back their name will pop up and i click add but it just loads and never adds them. What s up with this?

Last summer my best friend started to smoke weed! Some of his other friends pressured him into it. Now he has slowly drifted away from me and I don t know what to do! Once, after not going to his house for months, he convinced​ me to come over and smoke with him; I submitted. But I don t want this to be the future of our friendship! His parents won t do anything. His other friends are the cause. And now he values a high more than our friendship. I can t just leave him behind, but I feel like I can t do anything. If I talk to him about it, he ll just avoid me even further... Please how do get my friend back?

I have been friends with this person for 5 years now and it seems like now that we have been out of hight school for a year things have gotten worse. I always noticed in high school that she would always do the bare minimum or if not that she wouldn't do anything at all! There were many times the teacher would pull her to the side and She would come back angry and up set that they called her out on the things she was doing and why her grades were so low. Well anyway here we are a year after graduation (Where she barely Graduated) In the past year I have had two jobs (One was seasonal so it didn't last long) and I have done Three shows (I'm in theater) all three she has missed. She always complains that she has nothing to do (She doesn't work go to school or anything her mom works all week and my friend doesn't drive) but When I ask her to go to thing or hang out she's either "Sick" or something is wrong with her dogs but then I see her post on face book hanging out with another friend who is 1. Going to school 2. Has a job 3. is engaged! I just don't get why she would hang other with this one friend but when I have a show or I want to invite her two the movies something is wrong and this all started when I started working and doing shows all the time. How do I deal with this? Should I just let her go and stop being friends! because I have so many other friends (Ones from theater) who always ask to hang out and are SUPER supportive! I just hate that I keep loosing friends.....

I have a friend, but I'm sort of annoyed with her friend. What pisses me off is that I am the only one he is a jerk to. He treats everyone else fine. I'm the only one he is an *** to. Like he keeps criticizing me when I do Something wrong, he is stern towards me, he gets cranky when I talk to him or even talk! I have tried to be nice to him but he is being a total asshole! What do I do?

Soo,i'm turning 16 in like two weeks. I was looking forward to this day for so long,but the people that made my last bd so cool aren't there for me anymore and I dont know what to do . the boy I used to like was the dj and now I do know a boy who can be the dj but i dont know him close enough . what should I do? he and his friends are friends with my classmate soo i was thinking of inviting them all,but i dont even know the others well. how should i get close to them? I was thinking not to make a party maybe ? because I'm afraid it wont turn out well. Any ideas?

i let two friends of mine treat me as if i was there pet. they call me good boy, tell me to fetch things, wont let me on the couch sometimes. i mean is it weird that i do this.

So i'm in college and i have a friend who i've know for about 7 or so months. Recently we've been hanging out a LOT more than we did at the beginning. Going on trips, doing makeup, hanging out but some **** is striking me the wrong way. I sent her a message and I asked her if I could rant to her and if she has a min. She said yeah go on girl. So I tell her a really serious story about how my mom and i are not seeing eye to eye etc. Her reply was a gif. She sent me a gif that had a guy with his mouth open in awe lol. Then later she says "I'm sorry girl. it will be okay. also how did you make graphs in our social presentation last year" and i said umm i love the subject change, and told her i made them in excel. then she said "No I'm sorry. its my group project. but like i feel for you. yeah the shapes." then she asks "so excel first then ppt or what" I'm giving her super short answers at this point, and then she tells me thank you and thats it. Quick background: I'm always listening to her rants and literally always doing favors. The other night I edited a picture for her so the background would be transparent for shirts she was making for her org. she asked me how to and i ended up doing it ******* for her. Idk like the only thing i can remember he doing is buying me a starbucks drink. But i mean we hang out but idk i just feel used. For example, i'm always giving her heart felt responses, going out of my way, teaching her how to do her makeup like mine (she loves the way I do it), and idk its just UGH. Also i'm usually the one driving which is fine, and she will say like "im gonna give you gas money" and i say nah you dont have to, and then she says yes I do but she never does lol!!! She bought me 1 starbucks drink. I can not think of one other time where she did me a favor. For example, i'm always giving her heart felt responses, going out of my way, teaching her how to do her makeup like mine (she loves the way I do it), and idk its just UGH. Also i'm usually the one driving which is fine, and she will say like "im gonna give you gas money" and i say nah you dont have to, and then she says yes I do but she never does lol!!! She bought me 1 starbucks drink. I can not think of one other time where she did me a favor.

I have been close friends with someone for 2 years, but the last 5 months or so I have really wanted to end the friendship. I am not compatible with this person anymore and unhappy with how they talk about my life choices. My friend is studying engineering and he always puts down my degree (International Relations) with comments like "That's a bit of a copout degree wouldn't you say?" or "A nonscientific degree is something that people too stupid for real studies do". After a few months of this and also changing interests I decided I would tell him I do not want to be friends anymore but right when I felt the time was right his mom died. Reasonably so he has been wanting to do a lot with me lately because he is in a bad place, but he continues to make comments like this to me as well as behave in some very selfish ways. For example we went to lunch and he realized that he forgot his wallet after we had finished eating and I feel like he is using me right now because of the situation that he is in. I definitely am sympathetic to him and want to support him but I also don't want to be friends with him anymore because of how he treated me the past few months. Would you end the friendship now or wait until things cool off in his personal life?

i have two friends at my school who are

I'm in 8th grade and there has been something that has been bugging me a lot lately. People ignore me to unreasonable levels. I'll explain. Let's say I'm at my desk and it's before class starts I was talking to my friends and let's say someone is standing on the other side of the room, doing nothing. Let's call this person Greg. I say, "Hey Greg!". No reaction. "Hey Greg!" Again nothing. This is simplified but it happens every single day. It is getting excessive. I have a question about a math problem, the person I ask about is doing nothing, sitting around done with the problem talking to no one. Do they respond? No. Even today we got out of class early so when I went to my next class there was a kid waiting by the door I asked him what's up and he walked away without a word. Even if people do listen to me they don't pay attention. Sometimes I don't even bother telling someone something or even trying to talk to people because I feel like they won't respond or ignore me. It has gotten so bad I am genuineIy surprised when someone looks at me when I talk to them and I'm shocked if they respond. People starting conversations with me are a weekly occurrence. Obviously it's not as bad with friends but all of these problems still happen. I like making new friends but it's difficult when people refuse to talk to you in the first place. Anyone ever dealt with something like this? Thanks.

Ok everytime I do a roleplay on skype with my friend she ends up putting a lot of pregnancy in the roleplays and it is making mad and having more stress in my system and she won't stop at that. i want to tell her but I'm scare that I've get her mad or upset about it when I'm being honest from that. It's like everyroleplay she does this and never have fun or fight or something else instead she puts"pregnency"on everything I can't take it anymore. Is there a way to get her stop or do I need to reason with her? And when she said"for a bit" she never comes back to skype until next day morning at the roleplay her character and creepypasta character she put Masky being pregnant and I can't do nothing about this.

As I said above I feel terrible. I snitched on a co-worker. Not thinking. It just came out. The day before Easter ( Saturday ) she was mentioning to me how her family always does multiple things on Easter and how she didn t want to work eyc... and jokingly mentioned how she might not be there the next day ( Easter ) for her shift. I come in on Easter and they told me she called out without thinking I just said " She told me yesterday she was ". After I said it I was like " **** " I shouldve just kept it to myself. Now, it s literally eating me alive. I don t know what to do. What if they tell her I told them? 😔 I need advice or something to make me feel better. Not " you are a snitch! " I think I ve heard that enough.

I am 16 years old and finishing my GCSEs soon and will be starting sixth form in September. I am staying at the same school that I'm at for sixth form and I am terrified that I will continue to have literally zero fiends. I lost all of my friends last year and now I am so incredibly alone. I have no one. I'm sit at home by myself and live a boring pathetic life. I try and force myself to be more social and gain more friends but I literally just can't. I'm stuck at this school for the next two years and it's going to be torture. Even after I finish my a levels I will go to university and again I will be alone there as well. I hate not having any friends. I feel like I am Wasting my life. And it is so embarrassing. I'm going to be alone for he rest of my life. No friends. No husband. No family. I don't even know what the point of living is any more. What do I do?

My whole life I've been treated like SH*T by people, by love interests, friends, everyone. I have met a girl close to a year ago (we're both bi), and immediately became good friends. She first made me feel truly loved since i NEVER really felt that in general. From friendship it very quickly grew into romance and to eventual SEX many times. I guess I could say I loved her after knowing her for 5 months. The problem is, she took a break from a serious relationship DAYS before she met me. And during that 'break' we fell in love with each other. Though she didn't take it that seriously like me. The girl still had a feeling to get back with that person after all that and basically told me no to continuing any relationship ever again, she doesn't want to hurt me anymore. And to be honest I knew about that other person and the whole time i still FOUGHT FOR HER but i lost. That makes it hurt more... But what i'm asking for is for tips to stay close friends with her even though the betrayal. I have NO ONE else close with the same interests, life goals, and someone who still cares about me as much as her. Not to mention i have been diagnosed with some MENTAL DISORDERS to make my situation worse... How do i get over the 'relationship' and maintain a healthy close friendship?

I cant find them anywhere.

i recently joined a group chat for my college class next year, and its not like ive bee nonstop talking or being annoying, i only talked every here and there, and nobody knows who i am so its not like i have any reputation. every time i try to join in on the conversation, its like i never said anything to anybody and the topic switches or nobody replies. it sucks, bc im already so shy and im really trying to put myself out there and make friends but it already feels like nobody wants to be my friend :( even in my own friend group its like everyone talks over me. why do people do this? i feel invisible most of the time and all i want to do is make/have friends been **

We met last september and ended uip getting really close. She initially started flirting with me and also opened up about her anxiety issues and how her previous long term relationships ended with her getting cheated on. She told me she had been single for over three years and preferred being on her own. Back in dec we confessed our feelings for each other but she said she was scared and I could tell that was something holding her back. We continued to stay friends and I did everything I could to show her I truly cared about her but I guess it was not enough and I ended up putting way too much effort into it. She instead kept suggesting we hookup but I turned it down mainly bc I knew it wouldnt end well for us as her previous fwb ended horribly as well. Back in feb she told me she wanted more from our friendship but needed time and then a couple of days later she told me she always only saw me as a friend and nothing more which didnt make any sense at all. We started drifting apart, since I started ignoring her texts and I felt like she led me on and was never honest with me. I knew she was scared and I dont blame her but she went about it the wrong way. She has apologized for leading me on but our friendship has just not been the same and I dont know if there is any point in us staying friends now.