I think it's been gone for awhile, I still love her and think she's beautiful, but the dynamic of us has gotten weird over the past years. sex has become less frequent, and now rare

As a husband I'm dealing with the foul stench coming from my wifes anus. Help me?

If you have anything under 7 inches they make fun of you. And want a bigger size. Because they want a "mans" penis. Since genitalia is uncontrollable i guess. Its honestly not fair if you have small boobs or a small penis.

His family was ok at first. They were accepting of my children and I and invited us over. I was so happy because my family has all passed away so this was my chance to have a larger family for my children (other than just having me). His ex is insane. I mean literally. I have read her psych evaluation. She is always hounding him about child support. He pays. He is not behind. But she will text him the day it is to be deducted from his check and say "Wheres my money". I text her one day. I explained to her that my husband is a good man and that he is not going to just stop paying for the kids. She told my husbands family that I text her and told her that I hate the kids and that I do not want them back at my house and that they are not safe around me. They believed her for some reason. I offered to send them screenshots of the text. She called DCS and told them that one of my kids molested her kids. There was an interview done by a forensic psychologist. It was found that she had coached the kids and it never happened. His family said that if the kids said it it has to be true because they do not lie. They have even admitted it to me that nothing happened and they lied. Now his family refuses to accept us, will not allow us to come for holiday get togethers and make him chose between his family or his wife. How do I deal with this? He says I need to leave his ex alone about things because she throws fits. So I'm suppose to allow her behavior?

Nothing happened. I just saw her in a supermarket and we exchanged hellos. Now, my wife is acting all weird about it. Is that normal?

Husband looked at my phone and saw my texts without asking me and it caused a big fight because I said some things about my husband in those texts. He also asks why I like certain things on Facebook so I got off of there. What should I do about this abusive behavior?

What if Your girlfriend or boyfriend started political fights with your friends on your Facebook timeline projecting their politics (not defending you just voicing grit own politics) and they got into it with several of you friends on there and when you told them to stop doing this they blew up on you and deleted their Facebook completely and are now on instagram and twitter instead which took all of your relationship photos off of Facebook too. How would you handle this situation? Also on instagram and twitter they don't have any photos of you whatsoever just selfies of themselves.

My gf roled eyes wehn I sed no sexing tonite an lef house wit crfredit card, got bak lait weith 10 fake diks an enuf loob fur an whol orgie? Is she want me put 10 diks in my bunghole?

My husband and I are going through a divorce, and we have split custody (in florida) do I have a say in who my kids are allowed to be around when they are with their father? My estranged husband allows a woman that I can not stand to babysit them. Is there nothing I can do?

If you were paid $10 million to not have any sort of intimate relationship with your spouse for 365 days, would you take it?

I have been with my husband for 6 years and we have 2 kids and we are currently separated and I have to get a job because I was a stay at home mom witch is fine other than the fact don't make a lot at all and he makes ×2 what I do and he will not help with money or very little if any calls sometimes but says he loves me and we been spending ever weekend together well we still having sexual relations but he seems to say what he has to just long enough to get his way someone please help

My husband started his job about 3 years ago and when he did we became close with his coworker and his girlfriend. We're actually really good friends now and talk almost every day....However the lines between bro-code, girl-code and marraige -code are being blurred. My husband shared a few times that *Bob has cheated on *Lucy. I raised my suspicions after numerous observations that lead me to believe Bob is a cheating Donkeyhole. So this has been an ongoing battle of gaining more and more information and not knowing what to do with it. Another one of my husband's co-workers was talking and said Bob cheated again when they were out the other night. I'm sort of starting to avoid Lucy because I feel horrible for her. What do I do? I tell her, my husband gets mad at me and Bob gets mad at husband or I don't and I'm just a really Chitty friend. If it were me, I'd want someone to tell me...But I also have my husband who already said he won't tell me anything anymore because I'll rat and breaking bro-code. I don't think cheating is ok. Ever. And especially when it's on my friend who thinks Bob is going to propose to her. Advice? Thanks.

"sexual freedom" courtship environment nowadays. From a financial preservation and peace of mind standpoint how much more foolish can men be to get married? Even a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship offer little financial and emotional peace of mind return on investment. Friends with benefits arrangements you get many pro's and few con's.

A couple weeks ago I noticed my husband not coming home from work as scheduled. Or coming home way earlier then expected. So we got in an argument over it. The crazy unpredictable hours. Because he was so defencive. So I told him I want to see check stubs. Because nothing was adding up. And when he got his check he absolutely refused to show me the stub. A simple stub that would have proved me wrong , he won t show me. There is a little more to the story like , we always kept phones open to each other and now he hides it from me. He says me and my whole family are crazy, nuts... So On and so on....I usually let his little lies go...but seriously why not just show me the stub? Am I wrong for being so pissed?

I enjoy it but eventually it's like, I want to see him!! (And I will be telling him this as soon as he is home) I just realized it recently how I think I'd enjoy sex more with him and feel closer to him to see him. I don't understand blindfolding and tying up from a man's perspective. Is he hiding my face? (it's just my eyes and nose a little bit with a scarf) I'm not ugly, does he want to imagine I'm someone else? He's anonymous to me in this way sort of but is he trying to make me anonymous? I guess I just don't see the appeal of doing that so much. It's not every time. I would have enjoyed sex with him a lot more this past time if I'd been able to see his face. Does anyone have any thoughts on his perspective? Which I'll be asking him

I feel its love because I have seen him and watched him for years. His wife passed away Friday. I made him a nice food dish.

We dated for a couple of years and were madly in love. I was stuck in some issues and then I was taken advantage of and it's been a year since I got out of that situation. My husband always throws it in my face. I make a comment about a dude and he's like well you like older man ******* you. Then he complains about everything I do. I try keeping the house clean. I do the laundry I try being sweet and affectionate but it always seems one sided. I tell him that and then he just says that I knew he wasn't a really affectionate person. He never iniates sex or anything and when I confront him about it he just says I'm boring and I don't do anything exciting during sex. He says watch porn so you can learn how to do it properly. Because I had brought up the topic of us having a little kid and he's like we will never have kids cause we don't have sex. I try but the passion seems gone on

I have been dating a guy for 1.5 years. I have two children from a previous marriage and he has one. My daughter is 10, my son is 8. His daughter is 11. We are starting to have some struggles and are unsure how to address them. His daughter seems to be very envious of me. She isn't kind to me, lies to me, bosses me around and is just disrespectful. I love children, coach a girls basketball team etc. I have tried hard to bond with her and keep hitting a road block. I'm out of ideas. She seems to have confused a father daughter relationship vs a lovers relationship. When I'm holding her fathers hand she comes up and takes my hand away and holds his hand. When we are sitting together she will come up and sit between us. When I run the back of his head while we are driving she will push my hand away and rub his head. When I say goodbye to him and kiss him, she will run up wrap her arms around him and kiss him like I do. It makes me uncomfortable. I can see that she is jealous and having a difficult time but how do you work through this? Any ideas?

What is life all about if you compromise on the most important decision (for most of us) you'll ever make: whom you will marry?

we've been together for about five months now. He has four kids with two different mothers all under the age of 11. It's starting to become overwhelming all we talk about every day is the problems with the kids what things they're doing wrong he's always having to go to each mothers house so they can parent the kids regarding issues The kids are having. I've dated men with kids before but not 4 kids with two different mothers. Seems like this is all we talk about every day it's very overwhelming. I am 37 with two children almost 18. He is 44 do you think this is too much drama? Don't get me wrong I love children I'm just at a point my life where my kids are older and I want more adult time without so much drama.

Is this very abandoning? Even if ithe marriage was destined to end?

He asks me to promise that I will never give up on him. He's worried that I will take away his baby from him when we get married and have one (i.e in case we divorce) . Sometimes he speaks like he doesn't trust me completely. I can feel that he has a lot of love and affection for me but he is at times pessimistic whether our relationship will last forever. He's a very good natured person who is very responsible, talented at music, and never wishes ill will on others. He loves helping everyone who come to him. I really admire him a lot. No kind of fights or whatsoever has happened between us though but somehow he doesn't trust me completely. What shall I do?

I know this occurs, I'm just wondering how COMMON it is. I make $150,000 a year about, have taken her on a nice South American vacation, and own a business. I'm 5'6, balding (keep my head buzzed) and skinny at the moment due to a hip surgery preventing me from working out for a couple months- but otherwise I have a decently good face and naturally good muscle-toned body, and a good smile. My girlfriend is a little curvy and has slightly crooked teeth but is overall attractive, with good skin and hair and eyes/face, good boobs and is 5'7. Me and her both connect extremely well, we have sex every time we hang out. She LITERALLY CANT KEEP HER HANDS OFF ME. She's very into me. We have amazing sex. Even when I took her to a club with friends, she's all over me and not even looking at anyone else. (Although she did tussle her hair once when a guy came over to us, and I got annoyed and called her out on it.) Anyway, we never wear protection, she always lets me come in her, she even does unique stuff I'm into. She always says she loves me and stuff, and is very romantic. However there's been a few times she has acted cold, and it often happens during ovulation, whichworries me. She also failed a lie detector test which said she cheated on me physically. And I caught her in a few non-sex-related lies. Is there a possibility she's faking all this just to get married to me? She hinted at marriage today and says she loves me all the time. We've been dating 4 months so I know it's soon. She's an Au Pair. She also had me drop her off at a house which turned out to not be her house, but she claimed it was her house... this was early on when we were dating for about a couple months. I found out later. She never admitted it to me until I called her out on it.

My boyfriend has some strange quirks. After posting a different question about him having 5 phones, now I'm wondering about his behavior a little further. Please tell me what you think. Usually after he says something alarming, he follows with "I'm just joking." randomly said "I have 2 people who want to kill me" stays in different motel rooms won't tell me where (after being kicked out of a leased home for not paying too long) When I'm with him, he obsessively checks to see where his phones are & is sure I don't see the screen. A few times he couldn't find the phone & I thought he was going to have a real fit, he drove to a secluded spot & made me get out of the car while he searched top to bottom until he found all the phones & SCREAMED at me when I reached in to grab my own phone out of my purse then checked to be sure it wasn't his. when he said "don't go in there" he repeated "don't" about 30 times in a row. we went to get gas, he had me walk in to pay, then locked me out of the car saying the station could blow up if I get in the car while he's pumping the gas. said if we ever married, he would have his phones locked in a gun safe. I said I wouldn't marry someone who needed to hide things from me & he may go through my phone at any time. Although I do suspect he'd put spyware on it, he's insanely jealous & ALWAYS accusing me of an array of things. walks behind & to the side of me a foot or so most of the time. When I stop, he stops, like in sync. If ever I tell him he's acting strange or that was weird, he tells me no, MY reaction to his behavior is what is weird & that if I need therapy, he'll be happy to get me the help I need. Always telling me his ex's had mental problems, were abusive, abused or some addiction issues that he offered to help them with & paid for because he's such a kind guy who felt sorry for them. But tells EVERYone the list of people he helped & what he spent on each.

Ex husband just got out of jail (obvious reasons for divorce) and I cannot locate his address, but he has an active Facebook account, can I serve him through messenger? I live in North Carolina, he in Georgia.

How badly did your relationship suffer?

https://www.flickr.com/photos/153995306@N05/ Dont know what im expecting here maybe some advice. He was physically abusive, had affair for 5 years, narcissist, and accused u of a disorder so that you were so self conscious you cut off everyone ? but u agreed to rent/allowance and a program he wanted u in , not desiring the career path? u could possibly take out a loan. This question is really confusing, I just don't know what to do because I am dependent on him (he pays rent and grad school) but i don't want to be enrolled at this school/with this career and i have cut off everyone. i want to move a state away closer to old friends but I have no money.. only option is to get a loan. he pays for car phone etc (happily now.. not before when i was in school going to graduate, happily pays for things since i have graduated & cut everyone off am taking his path).

He or she emotionally abused you over small stuff. They cursed you out and didn't want to seek any counseling for their selves, they constantly blame you. That's emotional abuse and messes you up after sometime. Would you divorce with small children? What are your thoughts? My thoughts are mental health first. The person couldn't possibly love you, if they are putting your mental health at risk and making you feel bad as opposed to good.

Some of these messages were after he came after me and i went to the hospital senior year of college, had a bulging disk. i am so isolated two years later and therapy that he has totally been content and financially supportive now post college. i live 20 mins away from him, took on a program he chose and i am trappedhe had affair for 5 years and parents are back together. my mom is the same way. i have cut off everyone. i got into an abroad program for a year&the anxiety worsened. upon return, i took his advice to do a post grad teaching program, he promised hed pay for that and housing. i am living in a very good situation, now that i am isolated he gives me money without any questions or abuse, and all of my friends are two states away and a relationship with an ex ended. i am completely isolated. i did horrible in this program, they asked me to simply finish up classes and continue in the fall. here's the deal- i have one class left to finish up . it's a month left of work. i don't want to teach. i want to move and get out of this horrible situation, but i have lease til september. i just found a place 2 states away thats 500$. i could technically still rent this for another month without telling him and slowly plan my move out. i seriously need help, no one knows what is going on with me, i don't have finances on my own . should i just stay here with the lease and financial security? i am 24. https://www.flickr.com/photos/153995306@N05/? https://www.flickr.com/photos/153995306@N05/?

My mistress wants me to befriend their husband and hang out with him, wife is ok with it but he has no clue...

17 in high school. I am pretty nerdy but I'm cute or so I've been told. I don't like when guys at school talk about women like they're objects. It breaks my heart and they're the only guys who actually get girls. They cheat on their girlfriends. I know confidence is a factor but I'm confident too but maybe it's my baby face. I'm not here to feel sorry for myself but these women are queens and deserve the best yet maybe these guys are mistakes they'll learn from lord knows. God bless you

You were married for 20 years, divorced for 5, found yourself and happiness, confidence, etc. finally, started a new relationship and in it for 5 years and love the heck out of them, happy and stable - would you have any desire to marry again?

Hello, I am 34 years old male. Married to a good woman. No issues, but i just can t stop masturbating. I feel like am not having enough sex, so i kind of find fulfillment in watching porn, sexting, phone sex, video sex with other women. I don t actually have physical intercourse with this other women, but i sex them online. That s how i stay sexually satisfied. I am finding it difficult to stop this, i just need some thoughts and contributions from someone about my situation.

I do not know what to believe. He normally tells me everything on his own. That s how he has been ever since we met. And now we went to a parlor to get ONLY massage. I don t know if I believe that. What should I do?

Do you still get aroused and hard around your wife or are those days long gone ? Also, how long have you been married ?