I know what some of you are going to say, but bear with me. I have had strong feelings for one of my managers for a while. I didn't know when I developed feelings for him, that he was married. I actually thought he had a crush on another woman we work with because they have great chemistry. Anyways, I am 26 and he is 25. I never told him how I feel about him, he's obviously never asked. But he has definitely known how I feel about him since at least December. I could tell, when his behavior towards me started to change. He wasn't as social towards me. In January, it was my birthday and although everybody around us wished me a "happy birthday", he didn't. It wasn't until he was on Facebook that evening that he posted "happy birthday" on my wall. The past couple of months, he has barely interacted with me at work unless he absolutely had to, regarding something work-related. He hasn't interacted with me on FB since late January, no comments..no likes, nothing. My thought is that maybe he told his wife and she told him not to interact with me outside of work or maybe he's paranoid that people at work are going to think something's up between us. Well, we were all out of work temporarily for a month so our building could get a makeover and the past 2 days we've been back, he hasn't acknowledged me once. There were times where we were so close to each other physically that it was legit weird for us NOT to say anything to each other. Why's he doing this? It hurts. What's even worse is I've been hinting around on Facebook about somebody treating me like I'm invisible and I'm sure he knows it's about him, but of course he pays it no attention. I get that he's married and it's probably what is best for his marriage and his job, but he doesn't have to flat out act like I don't exist. What's even worse is I've been hinting around on Facebook about somebody treating me like I'm invisible and I'm sure he knows it's about him, but of course he pays it no attention. I get that he's married and it's probably what is best for his marriage and his job, but he doesn't have to flat out act like I don't exist.

I know evil is a strong word but that's what he's becoming. I don't know if I should tell the children about his crimes. He's almost been to prison multiple times. I found out that he's been ruining and wrecking many lives. People hate him to the point I even get lots of harassment and someone tried to kill him too. Should I tell my children and what should I tell him? The kids are 8 and 11.

and blows off any of my attempts at intimate conversation. All this after a solid day. There was absolutely nothing that proved this. What gives? provoked** not proved...

I know what some of you are going to say, but bear with me. I have had strong feelings for one of my managers for a while. I didn't know when I developed feelings for him, that he was married. I actually thought he had a crush on another woman we work with because they have great chemistry. Anyways, I am 26 and he is 25. I never told him how I feel about him, he's obviously never asked. But he has definitely known how I feel about him since at least December. I could tell, when his behavior towards me started to change. He wasn't as social towards me. In January, it was my birthday and although everybody around us wished me a "happy birthday", he didn't. It wasn't until he was on Facebook that evening that he posted "happy birthday" on my wall. The past couple of months, he has barely interacted with me at work unless he absolutely had to, regarding something work-related. He hasn't interacted with me on FB since late January, no comments..no likes, nothing. My thought is that maybe he told his wife and she told him not to interact with me outside of work or maybe he's paranoid that people at work are going to think something's up between us. Well, we were all out of work temporarily for a month so our building could get a makeover and the past 2 days we've been back, he hasn't acknowledged me once. There were times where we were so close to each other physically that it was legit weird for us NOT to say anything to each other. Why's he doing this? It hurts. What's even worse is I've been hinting around on Facebook about somebody treating me like I'm invisible and I'm sure he knows it's about him, but of course he pays it no attention. Uh coverdaler, I am a Christian so I know all about Jesus lmao. I am fine the way I am, deary. Uh coverdaler, I am a Christian so I know all about Jesus lmao. I am fine the way I am, deary. Being married doesn't equal treating somebody like they're invisible.

Recently i was approach by 3 married women. And i told all 3 to get out of my face, i dont want trouble or destroy a household. They insist and annoy the living sh!t out of me with how unhappy they are with their husbands - lack of sex tops the list - At that point i tell them if they suffer from lack of sex they should talk it thru and stop wasting my time. Im not paid to listen to their BS and its not business. They always talk about wanting sex from me but when it comes to sealing the deal they walk away. Im not good looking and im getting old. So why married woman behave this way ? To see if they still attractive at a poor guys expense ? Update: And isn't it fair that i hate them today ? But why lie to a poor lonely man doing his best to get a life ? Why not play their deceit on a handsome young guy ?

I want to watch my sexy beautiful wife have awesome sex with a pornstar type dude. I've been fantasizing about this for years. But I don't know how to find the best person for her. She said she might would do it but I have to handle everything

Me my bf don't live together, we do talk on the phone and on imo and WhatsApp..My friend told me that he's constantly monitoring my imo and WhatsApp status to check when last I was online etc etc..Why would he do this?

Me and my fiancé decided we're not gonna have sex after we're married. We just don't feel like it. He said he doesn't want to. Do we have to have sex ?

I got engaged to my first love two weeks ago. We were about to get married five years ago but our families got in between and separated us. I've only loved him for the past five years and the memory of him was the only thing that kept me going. We were reunited a month ago which is when he told me he had a wife. This wife then told me that they're divorced and that we were free to be together. My fiancé then agreed to marry me. Yesterday, she took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. Later that day, I found a note right outside my door from the ex to my fiancé telling him to forget what happened between them 'last night' and to go ahead and marry me. I have no idea about the date the note was written on but it has to be within the past four weeks because the ex didn't know me before then. The last straw was when her stepsister (we live in the same house because she's married to my fiancé's cousin - it's a traditional joint family) had a phone conversation with her and I heard her (the sister) asking her if she missed her period yet. My world has turned upside down. I'm pretty sure now that my fiancé and his ex slept together during OUR relationship and that the ex could be pregnant! How do I make him fall for me again? He loved me once and he can love me again. I was 19 when my mother forcefully took me away from him. I just need the ex out of the way and then I can get his love again. The ex is only 19 anyway, what's she gonna do with a baby? She hasn't even finished university yet! His family don't like the ex because she and her stepsister always caused a commotion in the household; they don't like each other. They're really eager for me to marry him so that the ex can't come back.

We went through a marriage, three miscarriages, and two years of a relationship together. I loved him so much and after only four months of our relationship ending and two months and not talking to each other, he already has a new girlfriend. I couldn't even think about dating right now. He broke up with me but he told me it was because I cheated on him two years ago. I cheated on him because I was young and stupid! I was only 19 at the time! And i never did it because I wanted to hurt him! I'm an appeaser and did it because I didn't want to hurt the other person! Stupid and dumb but I grew up. I only cheated once two years ago. But this whole relationship, he cheated on me and I forgave him for everything and was always there for him. I tried to be the best girlfriend I could be. How could he move on so quickly? Did he never love me? He was the one who wanted to marry me and have kids and I gave in because I loved him. He told me that he never wanted to get close to another girl nor have children ever again after we broke up. How come he lied? He said he was going to go and travel the world and move and now he's in a relationship? How do I go about this? I already sent him an angry text and he told me to leave him alone. Am I right for feeling this way after everything we've been through. We only stopped talking in February. He told me he was breaking up with me because he just needed some time to get over my cheating mistakes in the past and then BOOM!

Broke off with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose or want me to meet the family. He had no problems getting engaged in a past previous relationship, and even though his excuse with me was that he didn't want to lose anything if we divorced and that there's nothing to gain for a man if he marries, he would still text women on Facebook he would have been interested in marrying. Even when those women ignored him because they were already in relationships. So I broke things off, but the thing is, I have never been in a relationship in which I was so sexually attracted to the man, we are in our 30s, he us my type physically just didn't see eye to eye. I miss him, should I hold my tongue and not text him or tell him I'm sorry I broke up ?

I never felt this way until meeting my husband. He's a really super quiet guy and so very sweet. He doesn't talk much but is very friendly. Everyone loves to talk to him and he has a really positive response from people. Me on the other hand, I keep to myself but I am pretty talkative. I ask people about themselves, I show encouragement and I try to be as nice as I can. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but nobody ever wants to talk to me or start a convo with me. Only my husband. Even friends that I've had for many years are talking to my husband and not at all to me. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. But nobody asks about me or asks me things or is eager to talk to me like they are to him. Even online I'm basically ignored lol. I never had this problem before. I don't know what to do or what I could potentially be doing wrong. Any ideas here??

I've had a friends with benefits relationship with a girl for about 3 months. She's really great, smart and beautiful, but we've only been "friend". I really don't like this whole arrangement but I'm scared of pushing it. We still just hang out with mutual friends who have no idea of what's going on. Anyway, last Saturday all of our friends had a house party since everyone was home from college. A mutual friends boyfriend brought one of his friends along. My fwb and him hung out were touchy feely. He was all on her and she was just letting him. She's never done any of this infront of me and at that moment I just got so mad and went home. I didn't say goodbye to anyone and just got in my truck before I did something stupid. On Sunday she called me and asked why I went home and I went off on her. We started arguing and she said that I was overreacting so I just hung up on her. She's called and texted me a few times since but I don't know what to say. All this time I've been crazy about her and she's denied me and then she goes and does that infront of my face. But given our relationship, was I out of line?

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youre not in love because if you were you wouldn't want to share your partner with anyone. stop lying to yourselves and just bang other people without trampling on the true meaning of marriage. for those who are not married, just stop saying "I love you" its one thing to be kinky, as all of us may have the fantasy of seeing our significant other with another person or doing various sex acts within a group, known as orgy. Also now is the worry of sexually transmitted diseases, infections and you cant lie when issues of jealousy arise. it just CANNOT last forever. there are SO MANY various kinky and creative things you can do as a couple without inviting another person to ejaculate all over your spouse. but that's just my opinion.

youre not in love because if you were you wouldn't want to share your partner with anyone. stop lying to yourselves and just bang other people without trampling on the true meaning of marriage. for those who are not married, just stop saying "I love you"

Always had a healthy sex life but for the last two months he won't touch me and is masturbating a lot, in the shower and even in bed when he thinks I am asleep. I think he seeing someone else

My wife and I separated for a while but she was still pregnant with our third child. We reconciled about a week ago now and I found out this past weekend she's pregnant with the partner she had before we reconciled. Our third child is 3 months. She is 5 weeks pregnant. I keep pressuring her to have an abortion because it's not mine. So she tries to play victim and put the blame on me saying that I'm pressuring her to get an abortion. I'm not pressuring her but I don't want the kid. I'm not her dad that was stupid enough to take in his wife's daughter. Or my wife's stepdad who took all four of her and her siblings. I don't want that kid in my house because it's not mine. Her and her cousin are due four days apart and my wife cries to me saying that I never support her and why can my cousin have her baby and not her. I told her because her cousin wasn't being a ***** and a whore and the father of the baby is her husband not another guy. She cried to me this mornin because she is scheduled to go in today to actually have the procedure done and she's blaming me saying that things won't be right afterwards. I told her we were going to celebrate after because I want kids that are mine not another guy's no matter how responsible they say they will be.

Please don't judge me i'm a 29 year old woman and i'm married almost 5 years and am sexually active almost 5 years and i always believe sex after marriage and i was against oral and anal but as the years passed now i want to try new things with my husband who was not virgin before marriage and wants oral from the beginning of our marriage.Now after 5 year i want too but there is some reasons that turn me off: 1.It's sin 2.My butt hole will be loose and i would poop in my short can't keep that when there is no wc in around. 3.If i do that once he would want that all the time.And i don't like to give him bj every time we want to have se. If you are married and experienced can you please tell me what should i do????

Please don't judge me i'm a 29 year old woman and i'm married almost 5 years and am sexually active almost 5 years and i always believe sex after marriage and i was against oral and anal but as the years passed now i want to try new things with my husband who was not virgin before marriage and wants oral from the beginning of our marriage.Now after 5 year i want too but there is some reasons that turn me off: 1.It's sin 2.My butt hole will be loose and i would poop in my short can't keep that when there is no wc in around. 3.If i do that once he would want that all the time.And i don't like to give him bj every time we want to have se. If you are married and experienced can you please tell me what should i do????

I wish he was a better man. I wish he would listen to me. I wish he would know how it feels to lose the one he wanted cause he's taken her for granted... and everything we had got destroyed. It's a little too late for him to come back. He says it's just a mistake, think I'd forgive him like that. If he thinks I would wait for him, he thought wrong.

So my husband and I just got married and before we got married he would eat me out, finger me the whole 9 yards. Well ever since I had our son one yr ago he does not do ANY of that. I will beg and he still won't. All he will do is beg for him to put it in me and I won't even be wet, he will just tell me to get myself wet and then we will do it for about 2 minutes (if that) and he cums... like it's NEVER been this boring. I asked him if it's because of my weight (I still have baby weight I didn't loose, I was 160 pre baby now I'm 180.) he said it's not that, he's just "not in the mood" which is bull because it's been a year since I've had any satisfaction. We are going to marriage counseling next week but I don't think that'll help this problem, that'll probably just help our constant arguing. This is getting to the point where I just want to pack up and leave or get someone else to satisfy me because holy **** this is awful, I can't go years without being touched sexually by my own husband. What would you do?

I'm waiting for my wife to buy my 14 year old daughter beer or pot. I think she would by her anything just to look like the favorite parent and make me look like the mean parent.

My husband and i just arent right for each other and i need to leave him, "im not going to talk crap about him" but we cant stay together, hes driving me crazy, the issue is we have two kids and im disabled, i cant work or take care of the kids by myself. My familys poor, we cant afford baby sitting for the kids, my mom says i should go to a shelter, the issue with that is i cant work, im disabled both physically and mentally. I cant hold a job, so what can i do? Im going to kill myself if i stay with him, i just cant do it anymore. I have to do something and all i can do is go homeless or kill myself. I dont want to be taken care of by the state though. Gah idk what to do. Any ideas?

Last year i got married. Its an arranged Marrage. So we did not know each other. Her family pressurise us to get hurry on Marrage. So, my family did not get enough time to know about her background. Because of my busy ness in job i also failed to get enough information to be concern about it. Anyway problem begins from the day 1. They forcefully take her in the car. We did not diny. She came in my home. But alas she and her family was totally against of our family my parents. They just need me nothing else. Too much anger is her main problem. Never obay any rules in our house.I m 28 and she is 25. So there is no big age difference. After 2 months of Marrage she pronounced the word "divorce " for a silly reason. she can't suppose to say this. After 6 months of Marrage i get informed she had a relationship. no matter. i took it easily though she tried to hide it from me. but that boy uses bad language and word about my wife from several fake fb account. Even he spread some bad writing and pic in fb where he tag my friends also. it was too much insulting for me. at present my full family against her. But they never express it infront of her. They tried to segregate us. She suspect me without any reason. And lies to me several time. I accept all her fault but this time she blame for money. it seems she loves money not me. i told her to keep distance from me. in the answer she worn me for false GD in respective police station.should i continue my life with her?

So I was arguing with a friend in class and she was saying her life was harder than mine. She takes two classes( with no labs) and says she never has time to do her homework (she always tends to ask me for my homework and never helps when I need it, which was probably like twice, and it gets annoying sometime). Anyways never does her homework on time an stresses herself out. She is a wife to a man who s in the army so he isn t home and they have a house where its just her, and him when he comes back. So shes either alone or with her mom at her place. She does not have a job btw, just school. Shes always "busy" and tired in class. And during our argument she said her life was way more harder than mine. I take three class(one has a lab) and work 30 hours or more per week, as well as babysit at home. I manage to do my homework on time too, and she says I have a much easier life than hers. That my life isn t difficult and I shouldn t complain bout school. So please tell me. Am i wrong? And can someone explain how her life can be more difficult than mine? I m not complaining bout my life, but I just want someone to explain. I did end our argument with just agreeing saying hers is difficult cause it was annoying but someone explain.

Why is it in our society it is frowned upon to punish your wife but its ok to punish a child (toddler) who truly doesnt know any better? I seriously dont understand guys who bad mouth "woman beaters" then they turn right around and spank the hell out of a 2 yr old? What gives?