It's kind of hard to explain everything. I've been dealing with it for about a year but I've always been able to manage it because knowing if I killed myself, I would be hurting a lot of people that cared about me. Lately though, I've realized I wouldn't. My whole "friend" group just treats me like ****. I'm that kid everyone in the group just roasts all of the time. I've been thinking about leaving, but I don't know where else I would go or where'd I sit at lunch. . I can't leave them because I have no where else to go. I can't bring up any of my problems to them because all they say is that I'm a sensitive pussy or say I can't take a roast. But when they "joke" around and say no one likes me or whatever the roast is… they all roast each other obviously some times but to me it's all the time and what they don't realize is when they tell me to kill myself or I'm sensitive they don't realize I'm depressed and hearing that doesn't help me at all. I'm not funny. I'm not athletic. No girls like me. I'm not that smart. No one likes me. I just don't see why I am still here. I basically stay in my room the whole day. My parents are good parents but I just can't bring it up to them. They see me as this really popular, bright, well liked and confident kid but I'm none of those things and I don't want to let them down. There's a character limit on here, but please, someone help me…. How do I get through this? Each day it feels more and more impossible not to just give up.

I am in my late teenage. I havent done anything. I have social anxiety so I dont even talk with people, hang out with friends or go out often.No GF. WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO ? I NEED SOME SERIOUS HELP.

I just got home from dropping my best friend off at her house. Since it was hot out and I did not get out of my car and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

I'm a woman w a very close male friend. I've known him 20 years even though we lost touch for a while,we've strongly reconnected since he got back to town a few months ago. Well we got together and since we had been texting for about a year leading up to him coming back a few months back, I thought we'd definitely sleep together. But he declined and said he wants to keep a boundry and wants to work on a deep friendship w me. Well it's understandable and it's been a GREAT friendship. We've helped eachother emotionally, somewhat financially ( he loaned me money to save my house) and he fixes my car for me etc. And I helped him find a good job through a friend and he calls me when he needs advice. It's a very strong trust bond at this point. But he still never shows sexual intrest. I know he's straight! only thing is SOMETIMES he Wil joke about doing stuff w me but then IMMIDIATLY says he's kidding! Even though he knows I wouldn't mind. Could a friendship mean that much to a guy that he avoids sex or is he just not attracted to me?

We were really good friends but he always got upset with me over some random stuff and he would try to give me ""advice"" but he was always so confrontational... And then he said I was toxic and now he hates me and doesn't want to be my friend anymore. I would like to prove myself but I'm not sure how or how long I should wait or what to do and it's eating me up...

This is my boss, who is a lot older than me. I am a girl of 22 years. You see, he is inexplicably very gentle with me when he tries to explain something to me, avoiding to hurt me with words. Always when he passes by my side he tries to make a joke to make me laugh. The other day I was very discouraged by a small mistake I made, and he consoled me and dismissed the error. Once he even interrupted a conversation he had with me to tell me that I had something in the hair and then touched my hair gently to remove it. On another occasion, he was on the phone and I waited for him to finish to ask him something, and as he spoke he moved closer and closer to me, so much so that I began to recoil instinctively. When he talks to me, he also stops very close to me. Many times he says "hello pretty" when I arrive. What do you think? Is he flirting or just being too nice?

Hi! Basically, I just want people to be able to contact me if they need help, but without giving them my number or email. I could make a new email, but I was just wondering if there was a way I wouldn't have to go down that route? And I don't want them to have to download an app just to talk to me. (I promise, this isn't creepy. It's sort of like a hotline for kids at my school who don't feel safe and need someone to talk to.) Thank you so much! -Tiffany Ps. I don't know how to change my profile picture on here, so sorry for the cartoon from 50 years ago!

during math class i said i had a knife in my bag and was willing to stab my best friend. but i actually had no weapons, knives of anything in my bag. and i said it was a joke and i said it onfront of my whole class but i dont think they assumed i was joking. the teacher was concentrating on something and hes the type of teacher to forget things. will i get suspended? im getting really bad anxiety.

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There's this 1 teacher who's very outgoing, playful, & funny. He jokes with everyone in the class except for me. Sometimes when I walk into the class, he'll literally stare at me until I sit down or until I look away. He stares at me with this look that I can't describe(it's not a bad look). Sometimes when he dismisses class he'll look at me as I leave. He always give me 100s on homework and passing grades on test. One time I did the wrong assignment but he still gave me an 100. I'm a quiet girl, I mainly talk to my friend who sit beside me. The teacher normally talks to everyone and joke with the other quiet students in the class. Everyone talk to their friends in that class. But when my friend and I talk, he'll ask us to be quiet. I'm assuming he's asking him, because he never looks at me when he ask us to stop talking. He'll look at him and say "I'll wait" or something.. When I went in his office alone last year he was extremely sweet, which is what made me take his class this year. but now all he do is stare at me and not show any attention to me in class. One time he called on every female student in that class and asked them for their opinion on a situation. He skipped my name. I was embarrassed when he did that. He usually wait outside for students to come in the class and joke with them as they walk in. When he seen me he walked back in and held the door open from the inside. He then said good morning/afternoon as he looked down at my tat on my thigh(I had on shorts)

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idk what to do , I don't want to upset her by not coming but I don't wanna feel out of place at the party either ( ion fw her friends cause sum fake others annoying) and the friends I'm cool with of hers aren't coming

My friend is upset because her and her fiancé got into a car accident. They seem to be ok he's not looking so good. She's pregnant she's glad that the baby is ok she's worried her kid won't have a dad. They always get high and crazy around each other they were playing on their phones while they were in the car. He was watching a video and not paying attention. He was barely breathing when the crash happened. They were both wearing seat belts. There was no drugs or drinking or anything. She's really worried for him. He's still in the hospital. She doesn't want to be there with him it makes her sad and worried. They're both really young he's 24 she's only 21. They're planning to get married next month. How can I help her feel better ?

My 2 best friends are always hanging out without me now and we all use to be super close. There's been times where they have invited me out but within the last month I've been stood up by one, or they are always together and never invite me. One even texted in our group chat about getting their nails done together a&hanging out then quickly sent an apology text after saying that it was suppose to be a single text, clearly meaning it was just for my other friend and not me- which hurt my feelings. They always post on snapchat when they are together & I haven't hung out with them in almost a month. It got to the point where I was done feeling like a pity invite & a third wheel with them & if they weren't gonna invite or talk to me I wasn't going to care or go out of my way to talk with them. I didn't want to beg to hang out with them, they both have my number. This week I got a text from one of them saying how we should get together soon. That same day, that friend put on her snapchat story of her and my other friend hanging out- why she didn't just ask for all three of us to do something that night , I don't know. Now i just got a text from the other friend asking if I want to get dinner this week. I'm not sure what to do because i don't want to hang out & then watch them continuously hang out without saying something to me. At this point my feelings have been hurt by them that I don't really even want to hang out with them. What would you do or say?

Ok there's this girl in school she's one of the popular girls. She's in my biology class and a few others. We had a test and she walked up to my in the hall before class and was like "are you good at bio" so I said pretty good. Then she asked me if I would help her cheat by switching papers with me when the teacher wasn't looking then switching back. She told me we wouldn't get caught so I agreed. Anyway I got her a B+ on the test (I only got a B somehow). Ok and that was that. But then a few days later in study hall she called me over to her table where she was sitting with a friend and she said "I'll let you sit next to me if you do my homework for me." It was for history which i'm good at so I did it. And I basically sat there doing her work while her and her friend talked the whole time. Then today after bio she said her wrist hurt from softball and asked me if I would carry her books to her next class for her. So I agreed. Then after I did it some popular guys in the hallway went up to me and they were like "haha you know Hannah's making you her *****" So Idk what to do. I kind of like getting her attention but people are starting to notice and give me crap about it. What should I do?

So basically, one night I got drunk with a close friend (only him) and long story short I got so drunk I don't remember any of this happening but my friend told me. So apparently I offered sexual favors to him (im a guy) even though I'm not even gay.. And I'm slightly concerned that even though I told him to just forget about it and not to tell anyone (bc its a source for gossip which isnt even true) and he was fine and its been about two months and he hasn't told anyone. I have a girlfriend, we've been together for over two years now. I don't know what to do and I'm paranoid because I'm afraid of stupid drama that wouldn't even be true. It could ruin my high school years. What do you guys suggest I do? At the end nothing happened between us.... just so y'all know

I feel like if I got close to anyone they will hurt me. Whenever I get close to anyone they find a way to hurt me. Most people are selfish and they'll try to get something from you at any costs (usually money even if you're broke). Most people aren't worried about what happens to you as long as they get what they want. I hate being around people like that. I've seen money turn people into monsters. I've seen money make people turn on their best friend. That's why I plan to donate most of my money I make when I grow up. People won't have as much incentive to rob me. I won't be concerned about materialistic things, so I wouldn't want to rob people. I don't want money to turn me into a monster and I don't want to be around people who worry about money. I don't want to be greedy and I don't want to around people who are greedy. Money, greed and jealousy are evil. A few days I caught myself wanting to be greedy, so I said I'll just have as much as I need. Not as much as I want. My plan is to live in a van and donate most of money to charity. Also save some money for emergencies and retirement. Idk how I can make friends or have a gf if I can't trust no one

Someone named Isaac bullied me at school for hating someone. I said that this person named Bryson acts like Hitler because he's always very rude to me earlier to this person named Cash and he told Bryson's best friend named Isaac about it who is also rude to me and went up and almost beat me up. I'm a Sophomore and he called me an eighth grader. Those three guys are Adult Transition Students ATP. My friends stood up for me. Isaac yelled at me and I tried to solve it for him but he won't accept it and I said it was his problem not mine because he refuses to fix that problem. Well I got bullied by him and he won't solve that problem. Well that's his problem not mine. Also I'm afraid I might get suspended for it. This evil guy might tattletale on me over stupid crap. I've fought Isaac and Bryson many times as a Freshman and as a Sophomore as well. Also are there's a way to feel safe from all of this bullying? I need to find a way to survive my school before they do something bad or get me in trouble or something.

OK so we are in our almost mid 30s now and a year an a half ago one of our best friends got a bf and she immediately distanced herself from the group perhaps her bf was strict and didn't want her to be hanging out with us anymore knowing that we are single so there's a potential that if she hang out with us at lounges, bars then other guys might approach her or something, but this is just my assumption due to her immediate distancing from us. Our communication with that one is nonexistent now and we only see her during our birthdays because when it was her b-day, one of our mutual friends suggested we get together for her bday so we did, then she started to only see us on our bdays but that's only because we went to hers which was set up by one of our friends..not even by her even though it was her bday, so i decided not to bother next year with her bday since she obviously doesn't care. So now another friend from our group got a man, haven't seen her for 2 months, whenever we go our with a few girlfriends, she says she cant' come. I'm the type of person that won't put men before friends as I can easily balance both so this type of attitude bothers me greatly and it feels to me that these so called friends need you when they are bored and single so when they get a man, you no longer are needed, so I'd like to know how to handle such friends? This second one who just got a man knows that me and other friends complained about the first friend and how we didn't feel like she was a friend anymore as she didn't call, didn't even suggest to meet up once a month for a cup of coffee, it's like we didn't even exist for her, so this one knows how we felt about the other one yet she is starting o mirror our other friend now so i feel like our friendship was bs & fake & only based on convenience. I don't get how these women can be so desperate for a man to throw their friendship aside like that. Both are now in a serious relationship & it seems like they are desperate to marry so how would you handle these so called friends? I already kind of distances myself in a way that on FB group messaging where we are 5 friends, the friend who just got a man asked us how each of us are doing saying that she feels like she missed a lot, 2 friends answered while me & another friend didn't even bother responding to her because if she feels like she missed on a lot, then she can easily come and hang out with us & not act like the 1st friend who disappeared a year ago after her bf.

I am student in university, I feel that people ( boys) in my campus talking bad things about my because they are looking at me in a weird look that look you know and i was thinking if i made something wrong but I didn't because I don't talk to people to much and I don't wear bad things , I think it's because I don't know how to talk to boys so i was try not to talk to them and I know that i made a weird things

I m 17 years old and I babysit for the same family once or twice every week (I ve been doing this for app. a year). A friend of mine lives a few houses down from the clients and he s seen me playing basketball with the kids in the driveway a few times. Today he asked me if it would be okay for him to stop by and play it with us. Now, many times kids from the neighborhood will see us and join the game, and once there were 7 kids at the house playing in the driveway. The parents were fine with that, as I didn t invite any of them into the house. The thing is, I didn t know any of those kids (the oldest one was 13), but I m worried it might be different because this is a friend. He wouldn t come inside and he would be helping keep the kids entertained, but is it not okay just because I already know him? I m not inviting him, he says if he sees us he might stop by.

she is melora's friend and im mad because melora always ignores me because she has shannon as her friend so i have no friends and my grade I hate SHANNON SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!

There's this guy I know and his 20, he bought a property and got a big house made for him and He also drives a brand new car. He's currently going to school full time, how does someone have soo much money to doo all that????? I'm 21 and barely afford food!!!!! I'm not hating I'm just wondering

So, I am in college and I have been friends with thus guy for three years now. I am an introvert and I suffer from major depressive disorder and that makes me very quiet around people when I hang out with them and I tend not to talk much. This makes me look sad to him and he keeps telling me that I look like I want to cry, but the thing is that I just don't know what to say and I'm scared of him. Also, because I am so scared of him, I tend to not tell him anything if I am upset at something so whenever he asks me, I tell him that I am fine and everything is alright. Although, I really care for him, I always make time for him and when he was going through a really tough time this semester, I tried to tell him that I loved him and that I was ready to help him whenever I can. But I always feel like I am doing him a disservice. Today I apologised for being a bad person to him and he didn't verbally disagree with me. He just said that I didn't't need to make for anything and that I was fine. Am I a bad friend? Did he mean to say that I was a bad friend? I don't know what to do because I really care about this person. Please help me and be honest. Missing details: this person also texts me all the time and we see each other everyday so I assume that he wants to be my friend as well

Hey there so I have this friend supposedly my "best friend" so in this friendship she calls me on the phone almost daily just complaining about her life and all her drama and I sit there hours upon hours listening to her and consoling her , but when I try to discuss my feelings and problems she brushes them off like it s not a big deal and like it doesn t matter ..... on top of that I removed a year ago and when we I come to visit as soon as I m here she asks me to pick her up and we go places to spend money or gas, she also tears me down and criticizes me for example yesterday we saw someone who we knew and she made a comment how she was prettier than me for no reason at all, and if I say I like a guy she tears it down either he s a bad guy or he s too good for me. Then yesterday as well we met up with a couple of friends and she bought them food and such and didn t even offer me(her sister, best friend whatever) it hurts bec Prom is tomorrow and I came down four hours to go with her and some friends then I found out she told me her and a group are going to dinner and didn t even ask me if I wanted to come along so I was kinda upset but kept to myself..... sorry this is long I just don t know what to do should I just let it go after prom or try to confront her? Please help I m so confused :(

i have no friends. my parents are at work. and im off work. im bored and lonely and im depressed. i have no one to go out with. im thinking im gonna go to sleep in a moment. since i got no one to hang out with.

so i was hanging out with my friend and he said hello and i got really offended. it sounds like he is telling me to go to hell. pls help

I am an EXTREMELY socially akward kid. I've been playing soccer for 10 yrs now and just about a yr or 2 ago I started hating it. To the point where I am thinking about breaking my own leg just to get out of soccer. I don't go to school with any of the kids there since I go to a private school and they are all best friends because they go to the same public school. This doesn't help the fact that I already can't talk to people. I am in the 1 division which is the best you can be in. This sucks because every team we face is 9x harder than they should be. I hate this as well because I p[lay defense and everything is always my fault. They just recently brought another kid onto the team that they kicked off before because he is a great defender (so they pretty much replaced me but im still on the team). Idk what to do, should I go through with breaking my leg? Or is there a different option you can think of? My parents are ungodly strict about me going to every practice and game and being an hour early so I can't just be like im quitting

My old City and told them my criminal history I moved away 300 miles away why did that person call anyway they didn't like me that is why they did it. Is it true that people always find out your past no matter how far you move away? People don't care in my new city they know who I am and what I stand for.

Ok, I have a friend that is super obsessed with Prince Rogers Nelson. She has tons and tons of pictures and videos etc on her social media pages (Instagram and Facebook). Her social media pages are literally purple! She memorized every single song on all of his albums. She knows absolutely everything about him. I wouldn't be surprised. She has everything Prince. She has a Prince purse, shirts, iPhone cases, bracelets etc. All she talks about is him. As we all know Prince died on April 21st and she is absolutely devastated over his death. I mean depressed and the works. The posts she posts to her Facebook is mind boggling. Let me give you an example, "Prince is looking over me everyday. He is my guardian angel i believe," Or "Prince is looking over me today. Today is a hard day for me. I am so happy his is my guardian," Those are just some that I can remember. And God forbid you say something negative about him. She goes ape-**** on you. Gets so upset at you for it. It's unreal. Last year three days after he died I got fed up and confronted her about her obsession and she got super upset at me and got her boyfriend to fight her battle and got him to yell at me for telling her the truth. She acts like her was her significant other, her father, brother or even boyfriend. She acts like Prince was someone she knew personally. She keeps saying that the day he died was the day a piece of her also died.

About a week ago I invited a friend to go to a football game with me, I was very excited to go but now he has told me That he wants someone else to come with us. The problem is that I don't want the other person to come with us but I don't wanna be rude or mean and say that because i kind of know the person also. What do I do?

Some couple I know has just decided to take the route I have been planning for years. It's the Transsiberian express to Mongolia. They're gonna do the trip a couple of months before me, this year, now that I've finally got the courage to actually do it. I feel really bad now I've heard they're doing it too, I've always thought I was gonna be the first of anyone I knew to do this route. I know it sounds a bit stupid, but I feel like I'm not original anymore. And it doesn't matter if it's anyone I don't know, it's just that I kinda do know them, and we have mutual friends, so when I'm taking the trip, I'll feel like a copycat. Probably posting the same pictures onlie, only two months after. I hate it, even though I know that I shouldn't look at it that way. Is there anything I could do to feel better?

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Soy joven, tengo 21 años, y aparentemente no me va mal en la vida. El problema que más padezco, es en mis amistades, que no se comportarme en público. De primeras puedo parecer una persona amigable, y buen comportamiento, pero a la larga mis relaciones con amigos se debilitan debido a que "me paso de gracioso", y no se comportarme tal como debiese a mi edad. Me es difícil cambiarlo. Si pueden ayudarme, lo agradecería.

What do you think is a fair retaliation for a guy you pinched my nipple? Something really painful for him

She's my friend we've been friends for a while but i really dont lke or want her coming over my house. She's older then me and very innapropriate at times. She wants me to smoke with her but i dont plan on smoking and overall i just dont feel like hanging with her all weekend. For instance one night she came over and she yelled d*** because my dog came out of the room while my mom was sleeping! Everytime she asks to come over i make up an excuse because i simply dont want to hang out with her and my mom is very strict and good like i definitely dont want to be around that. I feel bad because i ALWAYS brush her off but its because i dont want my mom questioning me about something SHE said or her pressuring me to smoke with her. Should i just not respond?

I have an online male friend from overseas. We met in 2010 and kept in contact till 2014. Then we lost each other. We used to fool around a bit. We reunited a few weeks ago. He is now married with a baby, and I am in a relationship. He still talks dirty to me. I tried to explain to him that we can't do this, as we are both taken. A few nights ago, he invited me to video chat. He was alone, lying in bed, in his underwear. I asked him where was his wife and child. He said: "in my country. I am alone" He turned the conversation sexual and filmed his clothed male parts to me and asked if I liked it. He then pulled off his underwear and started masturbating and moaning. The video chat was cut short due to a phone call on his side. So yeah, he did say that he was worried that I am 29 and not married. But what I personally find more worrying is that he is a married man with a baby and he is talking dirty to another female. I can't let this go on. It shouldn't have gone on at all. I never started it. He should be happy and content with his family, and not with me.

im a 15 year old girl and i am bisexual. i had a party with friends and we ended up drinking a lot and i don t remember most of the night. and i mean i truly do not remember any of it. i woke up the next morning and my friend was crying and i didnt know why and when i asked her, she said that we kissed and i was in shock. she told me that i was very very drunk and that i was clearly not myself and that she told me that she didnt want to kiss me but i ended up kissing her anyways and i ended up undoing her pants but she finally stopped me and i rolled over and passed out. i feel like such a terrible person because 1:i would have never ever done such a thing while sober 2:im a million percent against unconsentual sexual activity and i am a feminist 3:she said that we both need to get over this situation but yet uses this situation to get people to come up to her and ask her whats wrong and 4: people always tell me that i am one of the nicest and best people they know and now i dont think its true anymore. i could be coming off as completely insensitive but my friends and i think that this is an accident that is something to learn from and avoid in the future but this girl keeps talking about this situation to people and describing it like i raped her. is this considered rape? the people that know about this situation even agree that it was a mistake and that everybody eventually goes through drunken kisses and that she s taking this too far and making this a lot more serious.

Lately my friend has been lying to me about not being able to go to the gym when clearly she has been going I find out because her other friend postes on Facebook each time they go to the gym together and that one day my friend told me she couldn't go my dad saw her and her other friend walking to the gym that's how I found out she lied to me. Now my so called friend dosent even talk to me ever since she's been hanging out with the other friend I mean she can have other friends I know but she's been completely ignoring me and it's hurting my feelings what should I do? I need advice

All my friends rub in my face that I don't have a job, but I'm a full time college student 5 days a week going into the dental field. It kind of gets to me, but my parents really want me to focus on school. These friends aren't even going to college or have plans to go they basically work regular 9/5 jobs. Are they right? Or am I wrong? What do I say or do?

So I have this "friend" that is extremely mean and condescending toward me. Every time I have a problem or something is about me, she makes it about her. It s so emotionally draining. No one else wants to be her friend because she manipulates people and takes advantage of them. I m scared to tell her I don t want to be friends with her anymore because she s suicidal. Please help!

Im a 17 year old girl in 11th grade. I have always been this nice person as I could be until this year that I got 2,3 friends *girls*. They'd always compliment my beauty and be around me. Specially one of them would say "No one's beauty in the class come to my eyes other than you" The way she said it gave me butterflies and eventually I fell in love! Im not a lesbian and this was the weirdest things happen to me. I became an aloof and arrogant person. I'd ignore her and other friends because I was so desperate for friendship and now that I got it I thought to myself the best way to keep it is to be an aloof. Then things changed and she started a bit ignoring but in a mature way and time by time the infatuation went and now just the love of friendship is there from me towards her but it seems they're all just tired of me getting off by everything little things. For a childish misunderstanding I told her "dont be sad from me" and she said "why? what happened that u realised it" and I said "I just thought to myself that yesterday Ive got too far" and she said "well im happy that u realised" and I sent her a smile and kiss emoji and then "I love you" and she just send a red heart. I really felt like a loser because I Thought she'll say I love you too but I was wrong. Now I feel like a ****. Right now im a person who ignores, at times arrogant, fights for mostly no reasons and then says like a poor people sorry and gets shitty response :( I wanna start becoming positive and happy My mom says the only way to attract people is to be yourself, normal and just do your own thing then only people would like to be around you. She says its the rule of physics. is she right? Once my teacher told me that last year you were so calm and nice that I was attracted to your goodness but this year you're a bit wild, sad and have a inner conflict with yourself. Which she was actually right. I feel like im a person who doesnt deserve friendships. Im always the person who's there for people in the times of their sadness but when im sad no one cares. My life is filled with weird actions, reactions and basically all I can say is that I have a weird life. Now my finals are near and Im trapped in this situation with friends and im so sad. Any advice on being better and basically not care anymore and just be happy? :(

Half of my friends are really supportive but some of my friends have been neglecting me and it been have a very difficult time for me. From battling with depression, anxiety, paranoia, lack of sleep, the death of my best friend etc. These friends have been there for me in the past. If I dont have those friends in my life idk what i'll do. I wont be able to live without them. I contemplated things such as faking my own death but thats way too cruel and I wont want anyone to commit suicide because of my fake death. And I dont want to alert my other friends, family and more important the cops But I want to put them to an exterme test to show how much they will miss me and how much they care about me. How should I plan this out? Any suggestions

I have tried everything to cheer myself up but i just feel unable to, and it all started since my friends screwed me over when they decided i'm suddenly no longer good enough for them just because their life has gotten better financially, so they went and made friends who are the same "level" as they are... those were my friends of 12 years, and since then I haven't gotten out from the house unless i truly needed something and if it was for a second i know damn well that i will i'm an introvert and those were the only people i was friends with and needed and i have forgotten how to make new friends... it sucks to feel that you are not important enough to occupy nobody's thoughts - and i always assure myself i will get over it and that nobody is allowed to make me feel this way unless i let them do so and i feel better for a minute and then i think to myself who am i kidding - i'm unable to enjoy the things i used to enjoy like drawing, listening to music, reading books and watching movies... and it doesn't help that my family is going through a rough time financially, and it hurts me to see her suffer while i'm incapable of providing her with the life she deserves and i feel like its too late to fix things now and think that my friends are excused not to want to be friends with me anymore because i am a loser after all

I'm 18 and before I started high school I always thought I'd be out going to parties, in a long term relationship, getting over being a quiet person, have a good job, looking forward to graduation, etc. But here I am. I hardly ever go out hang out with anyone. I can't figure out why I have problems with women, I've had only 2 girlfriends for the 4 years in high school. Im still very much quiet person and haven't improved much. I have a shitty job with a bunch of annoying people who talk behind each other's backs. And I will miss high school because once I graduate in a few weeks that's it for my social life. I'm gonna lose my only friends that I have to talk to. I mean what do I do from here? I have issues with anxiety and some nights I can't sleep because I stay up thinking about this. And my dream is to get married and have kids someday. It doesn't seem like I'm on the right path.

So I will try to make this short. I was asked to house/pet sit for this family I once summer nannied. It was only for a week and the dog was very old. Anyways, the mother is very strict. She actually fired my friend who use to be their babysitter. The kids are very very difficult as well. As strict as the mom was she told me that I was Mary Poppins and that they would never be able to find a nanny like me when I left (I had to go back to school). I mean, I am telling you, I went above and beyond for this family. So my tasks while house sitting were to let the dog out, feed dog, keep house locked, take out recyclables, and get mail everyday. I went out no more than 4 hours a day I would say. My boyfriend stayed over a couple nights because I was a little anxious staying there alone. If my boyfriend didn't stay I probably would have had my little sister stay. The house cleaner came about half way through the week and I picked up and left so she could have her space. I get a call 2 weeks later from the mom of the house I was sitting for. She started the conversation out with "who was at my house?" and I told her my boyfriend stayed there a couple times. She said that the house cleaner just reported to her that the house was trashed with food, dishes, and dog poop on the floor when she was there and the tub had stuff in it (I did take a bath and im assuming it was my epsom salts/soap scum). I was distraught. The dog poops ALL the time on the floor. It was raining and she didn't want to go out. I also remember picking up most if not all of my stuff and dishes! The lady said that she basically lost trust in me and I very much so apologized. I was very very upset. I do not recall leaving the house trashed for the cleaning lady! Not to mention, before the family came home I did ALL of their laundry and folded it and put it on their dressers. I washed and folded all of the sheets that were taken off every bed in the house. Not a dish in the sink when they came home. New sheets on the bed I slept in. Cleaned the bathroom I used. I even took them to the airport so that they didn't have to pay to leave their car there all week. I couldn't believe that she called to tell me this after everything I do for them and her kids. I would understand if I had done wrong multiple of times but gosh. I mean Im not kidding, I have had panic attacks from her conversation with me over the phone regarding this! What do I do?!

She just got a new iPhone 7 but I think she's being a ungrateful brat about it. She complaining about how ugly it is and how mad she is because she got the phone in gold. I told her at least she got a new phone but she still complained about it non stop. Her uncle brought her the new phone and I think it's rude to whine about it when her uncle brought it. She keeps complaining it to me and I told her that some people can't even afford it so stop being so ungrateful about it and then she got really mad at me. Do you think she's being ungrateful? I personally think so.

Every single day I wake up, go to school, and go to sleep. But not once does anyone notice me. The only time anyone acknowledges me is when they ask me why I'm so quiet. It's like the world is going on, people are socializing, people are happy, but I'm just here watching. Whenever I try to talk nobody hears me and if I have a conversation they never talk to me again. I've tried getting involved but even then nobody likes me. I've been playing volleyball for five years and every team I join nobody talks to me. I've been playing with the same girls on my school team (middle school and high school) for about four years and all of my teammates are all friends with each other but they never talk to me. I'm really shy but I just can't understand why I can count the amount of times people talk to me on one hand. What am I doing wrong?

im 14 and always feel awkard and to blame for everything For instance I was at my friends house and she got into trouble for having me over and not doing chores and I just felt like it was my fault at school if somone hits me or runs into me Im the one apoligzing not them. why do I think everythingi s my fault?

[I know this because we were playing a game where we listed out top 5 friends, and I was second on her list] I left to another school for two years (we had known each other for 2 years previously) but we still saw each other every weekend and often after school. I came back to her school this year and things are different than they were outside of school. I knew she had made other close friends, but I never knew I was replaced. I get that she can make other friends, and I m okay with her doing so, but I just on t know what to do now. She acts different when we are alone together than in a group, even calling me her best friend. Should I tell her how I feel? What next?

In school I am always picked last for everything basically. In drama class we often have partners for activities and I feel crushed when I find out everyone has a partner but me, the class isn't big either. I always am the extra in a group of 3. I don't get bullied and basically everyone in my grade seems like my friends. I try to avoid the people who treat me like a backup friend but that's hard for me to do. I don't think it's because I am new either because the other newer people get picked before me. Recently this has been severely making me sad. I feel like all the people who laugh at my jokes are just using me as an entertainment source for a few minutes then abandoning me. I try to avoid having partners by saying I'm okay doing an assignment solo because I want to appear like I don't want anyone when I actually would be okay with anyone I could get. I feel like the only 2 friends who don't do this to me go to a different school.

My parents' friends always want to hear me play violin because they like music but I don't care because they're not my friends, I want to say I Don't care' out loud when my parents told me that they want to listen to me play violin so I can see their reaction. I'm not looking for opinions like 'Don't say "I Don't Care" it's very rude' or 'You want to be proud', I'm looking for straight answers for How my parents' friends react when I say 'I Don't Care out loud' when my parents told me that they want to listen to me play violin. I hate being watched and being judged by my parents' friends when I play violin but if it's with my friends it's okay with me.

So my best friend Ella had a best friend a while ago and her name was Bella. Bella and Ella were best friends for the longest time but then at the beginning of the year Bella started to leave Ella for "the popular" group of girls and Bella stopped talking to her. Me and Ella got really close and I remember when Ella came crying to me about how she missed Bella and she didn t know why she left her or whatever. Then, Ella came back to us because she realized that "the populars" didn t like her and now Ella and Bella are starting to become really close... i have never had a best friend like Ella and she means so much to me and I don t want her to leave me. Like we using to talk all the time with all of our other friends in the morning before school and now she only talks to Bella. And we had plans this weekend and Bella needed a place to say bc her parents are out of town and she ruined our plans. Please someone help I don t wanna leave her and idk what to do. I m really sensitive and I have been wanting a best friend like her my whole life and I don t want her to leave me:((