Marriage & Divorce: Question: Feeling guilty about affair and wife? |
- Question: Feeling guilty about affair and wife?
- Question: I don't have much experience ...?
- Question: How did you know your spouse would be yours when you were just chatting online?
- Question: Who did you hit?
- Question: I forgot my wife's birthday, now what?
- Question: Do men ejaculate more into their lovers than their wives due to the excitement of an affair?
- Question: Wife acting odd for months after her girlie weekend away, now wants anal which she never ever would try before , did she cheat?
- Question: Would a woman marry a man who has bipolar disorder?
- Question: My husband put a survalent camara in our house to see who comes to see me and what we say is it legal?
- Question: My husband is verbally abusive when we argue. I am so sick of it. What can I do?
- Question: Am I crazy for thinking my husband would be happier with another woman?
- Question: My Girlfriend wants me to propose but I really am not sure I want to marry her after 7 months of dating... HALP!?
- Question: When a wife hold her belief that her husband is cheating despite of repetitive denial of her husband, what does the cheater feel?
- Question: I was an unknowing participant in an affair. Is what is going on normal or am I crazy to think its not?
- Question: MORMONS! What happens to a Temple Marriage if husband is ex-communicated?
- Question: If you made $2,400 a month and your husband was on ssi disability income, how would you support your kid(s)?
- Question: 6 years still isnt ready for marriage?
- Question: What would you do in this situation involving pending divorce and custody?
- Question: If a guy needs to get loans/borrow money to start a resturaunt, how is he Financially? Rich? Broke? In late 30s?
- Question: Is marriage important? Is it a wise decision?
- Question: Is it normal not to have sex after getting married?
- Question: It's been 9 months & im scared he'll never love or marry me WTF SHOULD I DO?
- Question: Can I still get a 50-C against my Husband if he told me to leave alone and I still had contact with him after that?
- Question: Taken married people: how would you feel if your spouse spent more time with an opposite sex friend than you?
- Question: Is it wrong that i am in love with a married man?
- Question: Is love ever enough?
- Question: Will it be ok if I get married to my second cousin?
- Question: We've been together for 9 months and HE HASNT SAID HE LOVES ME IM SCARED ILL NEVER GET MARRIED?
- Question: How do you get married when your husband is deployed?
- Question: Why do gay people refer to their significant other as their partner?
- Question: What is marriage?
- Question: Do you think it's okay to say "It's none of your business" to your spouse?
- Question: I caught my wife sleeping with another guy?
- Question: My boyfriend won't come with me to my country after marriage?
- Question: Married for 33 years and unhappy?
- Question: My fiance is a good guy, but when he gets mad at me, he yells all kinds of insulting things, not name calling,Two weeks away from marriage!?
- Question: Why do a lot of men think marriage is like prison?
- Question: Am I justified in not trusting my wife completely?
- Question: Why cant I forgive and forget my husbands emotional affair?
- Question: Sex question?
- Question: My husband does not show affection, concern, or care. What should I do?
- Question: Why would a wife fake an affair?
- Question: Is it normal to develop feelings of uncertainty?
- Question: Do you think marriage is over rated? Can you fall out of love with someone you thought you loved?
- Question: My wife put drugs in my bottle of whiskey,you can "see" it in bottle,what do I do,how can I know what"it" is, can she be arrested? Help,plz!?
- Question: Should I marry my ex-girlfriend?
- Question: Does this sound like cheating?
- Question: Are feelings of uncertainty common once your long term?
| Question: Feeling guilty about affair and wife? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 08:43 PM PDT I had an affair which lasted a few years. I still love this OW very much but recently I feel very guilty towards my wife who is innocent. I've been married for a long time and this is a first for me. I think the OW is my soulmate and we share a connection which I have never felt even with my wife. My wife is a nice lady but we don't have much in common. The marriage didn't have any real problems before the affair. The attraction between the OW and me was overwhelming and it just happened not because I was running away from problems in my marriage. I want to be with the OW but I cannot bring myself to leave my wife because I don't think I can get past the guilt. I am a good provider and my wife is dependent on me. I need real advice on what to do especially from those who may have been here before. Don't need to be judged because I know what I have done wrong and am seeking genuine help and perspectives. Thanks. |
| Question: I don't have much experience ...? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 08:19 PM PDT This is my first boyfriend. Not sure if I want to stay in the relationship. I realize that I have to make this decision and not anyone here, but I'd love opinions. Pros: he is kind, attentive, loves me, principled, we aRe highly compatible in many ways (religion, personality, etc). I love him also. Cons: He is in a lot of debt and can't seem to make ends meet, he doesnt have a steady job, probably won't have one since his wants to write and speak for a living. He has no car, so if we see each other I'm always the one to drive. (i dont do it that often.) He doesn't have to make tons of cash, even minimum wage would do as long as it is steady. He wants to get engaged and to marry. If I said yes, he'd book the church tomorrow. It seems to me that if we were to marry that I'd be the one doing everything, working, taking care of kids and taking care of him, bringing in all of the finances, helping him get his stuff together. I think it would be too stressful in the long run. But am I placing too much importance on things that don't really matter? Would like to hear your feedback. |
| Question: How did you know your spouse would be yours when you were just chatting online? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:45 PM PDT |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:39 PM PDT Was it cos he has done something or just cos he's seen me naked? lol |
| Question: I forgot my wife's birthday, now what? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:38 PM PDT She's making a big deal out of this. It was an honest mistake. And it will never happen again. |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:35 PM PDT My lover seems to come twice as much as my husband, is thisdue to the excitement of the affair? |
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| Question: Would a woman marry a man who has bipolar disorder? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:23 PM PDT So I have bipolar disorder and I have constant mood swings. I am 26 years old and I am single and never had a girlfriend at all. I get moody sometimes and sometimes I get pissed off and screamed. I have screamed and yelled when I have arguements with my family. My family told me that I am such a horrible person and that I am going to end up alone in life because no woman would want to marry me because I am such a jerk to everyone. I am sorry but I am bipolar and my illness is part of me. There is no cure for it. I am sad now and feel hopeless in life because now I feel like no woman would want me now. Would there be any woman who would want to marry me if I have bipolar disorder ? |
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| Question: My husband is verbally abusive when we argue. I am so sick of it. What can I do? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:54 PM PDT We have always had our ups and downs, and were getting on well recently, but the other night we had a fight and he told me that I am a pig, that I am crazy and that he hates me. I'm gutted, I'm living far from my family and friends and asked him he he would look after the pets so that I could spend time with them but he said no. This weekend he has gone to his sister's and I'm alone at home feeling sad and lonely. The fight we had that caused this was so silly - I nagged him for using the wrong sheets on the bed and nagged him about not separating his socks before putting them in the wash. That's when he yelled and swore at me. I don't know what to do. Financially I don't know how I can leave him. I don't know whether I want to leave him. I just know that my confidence has been shattered and I'm afraid of becoming depressed. I couldn't even find the strength to have a shower today or leave the house and have just lain in bed all day. All advice welcome. Thanks everyone |
| Question: Am I crazy for thinking my husband would be happier with another woman? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:50 PM PDT Been together for 12 years. Shortly after we got married I noticed he was watching porn regularly. And only the "ebony " category. After several conversations,I just let the topic go because he denies that its only that category (even though the history doesn t lie). We both have worked at the same place for about 10 years together. We both have a great relationship with a fellow co-work,we ll call Pam. Recently Pam announced that she is getting a divorce. Since then my husband has been talking over the phone with Pam...even playing video games online together. Pam and my husband s personalities are similar and I have often wondered if he would be happier with her. She is in fact ebony,she is beautiful and funny. It seems like he enjoys himself when he is around her. At the end of the day, I go home with him and he doesnt wanna joke around or anything..just wants to lay down and then spend an hour in the shower...... Sometimes,I think he has been looking at that category only,to find women who look like her. I told him once that if we ever got a divorce he could marry her and he got pissed. I guess my question is,is it strange that I think my husband would be happier with someone else? And am I crazy or does it seem like he possibly likes Pam? Thank you for your time. Confused in CO |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:39 PM PDT Me and my g/f have been dating nearly 7 months and she is putting MAJOR pressure on me to propose or move in and it's irritating me. I DO care about her very much, not saying I don't want to marry her but I'm just not convinced she's my life partner. She's 29 with 2 kids, and I'm 30 with 1. Long story short she went through my computer and phone and found that I had been on a dating site. This was just last night, so this morning she basically gave me an ultimatum saying move in, propose or its over and don't come over any more. I don't know what to do... I need some advice... HALP! |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:14 PM PDT When a wife hold her belief that her husband is cheating and she insists to him she will never believe his lies, she has strong evidence, she states that only confession will save their marriage; despite of repetitive denial of her husband, what does the cheating husband feel? Is this a good reverse psychology for the cheating husband to confess? Is this the best way to strike his conscience and feel more guilty? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:58 PM PDT I began seeing a man who had told me he was divorced for 6 years with 2 daughters. We were not using any birth control (my naive mistake) and I ended up becoming pregnant. Shortly after (about 5 weeks in), my roommate found out about his wife and that he was still married. He had been divorced for 6 years. From his first wife. I screenshot everything and texted him that he owed me an explanation. The story turned to "We were separated, now she wants to work things out. I don't know what to do." Of course I advise him to tell her what's going on and beg that no matter what happens, he doesn't abandon our child. A week or so goes by and he informs me he told her and that he wants nothing to do financially or otherwise with our child. So I contact her hoping that I can beg on my child's behalf that we be civil. She hadn't heard of me before. He lied to me about telling her. So of course her natural reaction is that I'm a homewrecker. I found out from her that he has ANOTHER child that he never sees (not from lack of trying according to him), that he had in high school. And that they were never separated. |
| Question: MORMONS! What happens to a Temple Marriage if husband is ex-communicated? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:54 PM PDT My husband and his ex-wife were married in the Temple. My husband was ex-communicated during their "legal" divorce. So... What happens when my husband dies? Is he still tied to ex-wife and children? If my husband becomes an active Mormon again and gets his temple recommend back, can he get a temple divorce? And if he does get a temple divorce but we don't get married in the temple (I'm Baptist), what happens? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:26 PM PDT Supposed that you really liked your job. |
| Question: 6 years still isnt ready for marriage? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:20 PM PDT we been together 6 years now and hes still not ready for marriage. i try not to rush him because i dont want to run him off but im starting to feel like its never going to happen. i want more kids and marriage...he says he want the same and make little comments like "when we get married" or "when we have our children" but i feel like hes telling me this just to keep me quiet. we are 27 and i know thats pretty young but i dont want to wait until im 35 to have kids OR waste all of these years with someone that i dont belong with. we have had our issues with trust being one huge issue. we both are changing for the better and have came a looooonnggg way. i must also admit that we both arent financially where we need to be and im not mentally where i need to be..like i have alot of trust issues because of my childhood. i know i cant ask anyone what to do but advice would be nice. |
| Question: What would you do in this situation involving pending divorce and custody? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:15 PM PDT This scenario and question does not involve me as the subject as I have been divorced for 3 years now. But here's the situation as to what you would do: A woman who was in an abusive and controlling relationship/marriage is eventually left by her husband for another woman. She is left with her child to care for as he goes off the grid, no financial support for this child or anything. He doesn't file for divorce, but yet will put it on her while he manipulates when he gets to see his child. As time goes on, she takes control of the visitation responsibilities, and blocks him altogether as he was given advanced warning if he kept manipulating the situation when it came to filing (and basically teasing the kid, knowing he can't come currently see him just to make the mother look like the bad parent when he gets the child's hopes up knowing that no agreement to see the kid was ever settled upon legally). So now when all contact is blocked, he files for divorce and continues to harass her to let him see the child on the phone. She is afraid that she is going to look bad in court if she doesn't give in to his demands/request to talk to the kid, even when he continues to harass her about it while he has a lawyer who can talk to hers about custody and visitation. Does her concern hold merit? (To me, I say absolutely not. I just want to know what you all would think in this situation). Thanks, guys! |
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| Question: Is marriage important? Is it a wise decision? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:08 PM PDT I'm currently in my early twenties, and friends started getting serious with their relationships, but I always had ideas against marriage. Everybody is telling me to get serious, however I'm currently working and I'll be all right in a few years financially. I just feel that marriage is a financial gamble on a relationship and you can experience quite a few financial issues in case of a divorce. Every woman I either date or am in a relationship with wants marriage. It's not that I'm selfish, but I don't like the idea of a contract, which is what the idea of marriage is. Am I being right or wrong? I just feel that it's irresponsible to work to get to a place and gamble it on marriage. I can change, she can change, so it just feels like a contract that forces us to be together. I don't want to ever end up in a marriage where I'm forced to be with somebody for financial reasons. Am I right or wrong? |
| Question: Is it normal not to have sex after getting married? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:38 PM PDT So I have been married for 4 months. We've been in a relationship for 3 years before that. We've been living together for about 2 years. Our sex before marriage was great, but now since we got married it sucks. We have sex like once or twice a month. We used to have sex everyday before getting married!! I don't know what changed. We are both 24. No kids. Was getting married was a mistake? Or are we are falling out of love? Is this normal at the beginning of every marriage? I was told that the first year of marriage is always the worse. But we've been living together for awhile. Our life routine hasn't changed. We are still living in the same place. We both have great jobs. The only thing that has changed was our marital status. Did anyone else experience something similar? I'm freaking out thinking getting married was a mistake, I'm beginning to regret it. |
| Question: It's been 9 months & im scared he'll never love or marry me WTF SHOULD I DO? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:34 PM PDT ok im almost 23 and hes 31 he's divorced been divorced for 6 years no kids but he seems to carry his emotional baggage in this relationship he told me he hasnt felt comfortable enough to say he loves me yet and it "takes time" but i've been on family vacations with him watched his dogs and his house when he would go on business trips spent holidays with him he gave me a key to his house but still claims he doesnt feel comfortable saying "i love you" and his heart is still "guarded" he some days says i need to hurry up and get my degree so we can move into a giant house in the future and then another day say he wants to move somewhere on a farm saying "I' and not "WE" anyways its f**king bothering me cause i feel like its time to get married to him i've invested so much into him and his family and also my family is saying since im keeping his dogs and spending the night there some weekends he NEEDS TO MARRY ME Cause they cant stand me coming back in forth to there house and to his house and were not married yet and he might not marry me cause i do so much for him oh yea and he also reminds me we've been dating less than a year & saying "I love you " is too soon & he's invested enough PLEASE HELP SHOULD I JUST TELL HIM I WANT MARRIAGE AND IF HE DOESNT WANT MARRIAGE TO GET OUT OF MY LIFE?? AND PLUS WITH HIS LAST MARRIAGE IT TOOK HIM 7 MONTHS TO PURPOSE SO WHY TF IS IT TAKING HIM SO LONG THIS TIME IF HES ACTUALLY SERIOUS? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 04:24 PM PDT So my Husband and I are currently going through a separation because he cheated on me. He has taken everything from me and has really caused me emotional distress, so I decided to get a 50-C against him. He has threatened me. Anyways, he messaged me after I told him not to and want's to cooperate. Should I message him back or just leave it be and continue on with the 50-C and take him to court? I just think it could help negotiating.. but there are consequences, right? |
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| Question: Is it wrong that i am in love with a married man? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:46 PM PDT Is it wrong that i am attracted to a married man? |
| Question: Is love ever enough? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:45 PM PDT I love my girlfriend and we have a really strong bond we've been together for about four years. I really don't want to be with any other person as I have been out on the scene before. I know we are all individuals but she has some habits that kind of don't click with me. For example I love to go to the gym and eat healthy. She doesn't like to go to the gym and eats fast food. Anytime I try to get her to go to the gym and eat healthy she tries and then just gives up and doesn't care which I don't really respect At the same time she knows she is facing financial difficulties yet she fails to fill out any of the forms for aid. I taught her how to do good spending habits and how to save money when she shopping and once again she gave it a try and it worked but then she gives up and goes back to her old ways and spending carelessly. So now basically every time we get together she's miserable and I'm sitting here wondering myself why don't you just do something about it I already told you what to do. She can never get ahead of her problems in life because she procrastinates everything to the last minute so basically she's always in a constant state of chaos and I can't take it anymore. But then again I love her but she just can't seem to get it together.... if she had everything together everything would be perfect. What should I do? What do you think about this is Love Enough? Because I sure do love her |
| Question: Will it be ok if I get married to my second cousin? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:22 PM PDT We are only related by marriage, btw. We are not related by blood. |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 03:02 PM PDT ok im almost 23 and hes 31 he's divorced been divorced for 6 years no kids but he seems to carry his emotional baggage in this relationship he told me he hasnt felt comfortable enough to say he loves me yet and it "takes time" but i've been on family vacations with him watched his dogs and his house when he would go on business trips spent holidays with him he gave me a key to his house but still claims he doesnt feel comfortable saying "i love you" and his heart is still "guarded" he some days says i need to hurry up and get my degree so we can move into a giant house in the future and then another day say he wants to move somewhere on a farm saying "I' and not "WE" anyways its f**king bothering me cause i feel like its time to get married to him i've invested so much into him and his family and also my family is saying since im keeping his dogs and spending the night there some weekends he NEEDS TO MARRY ME Cause they cant stand me coming back in forth to there house and to his house and were not married yet and he might not marry me cause i do so much for him oh yea and he also reminds me we've been dating less than a year & saying "I love you " is too soon & he's invested enough PLEASE HELP SHOULD I JUST TELL HIM I WANT MARRIAGE AND IF HE DOESNT WANT MARRIAGE TO GET OUT OF MY LIFE?? AND PLUS WITH HIS LAST MARRIAGE IT TOOK HIM 7 MONTHS TO PURPOSE SO WHY TF IS IT TAKING HIM SO LONG THIS TIME IF HES ACTUALLY SERIOUS? |
| Question: How do you get married when your husband is deployed? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:18 PM PDT Is there any way that it is possible? My boyfriend and I are planning on it but I think we're going to later on, but he's going into the Air Force and that means he'll be gone for at least 4 years; what if we decide to get married two years into him being gone? Is this possible? |
| Question: Why do gay people refer to their significant other as their partner? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 02:06 PM PDT Straight people refer to their significant other as their boyfriend or girlfriend, or husband or wife. Gay people refer to their significant other as their partner. Why is this? |
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| Question: Do you think it's okay to say "It's none of your business" to your spouse? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 12:20 PM PDT Personally, I've never said that to my husband seriously, and I would be horribly offended if he said that to me. We don't do the whole "privacy" and "secrets" thing. Just wondering how many of you say that to your spouse, or would be fine if your spouse said it to you? |
| Question: I caught my wife sleeping with another guy? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:32 AM PDT I was so angry and felt betrayed. I just couldn't help it and slapped her. I thought she is so innocent and loving but she proved herself to be a b grade prostitute. I hate her so much after what happened. It makes me feel that all women are cheaters and bad by nature. |
| Question: My boyfriend won't come with me to my country after marriage? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:09 AM PDT I am from the US and he is German of Indian and German ethnicity. We both met in the UK while studying and fell for each other. He's a very good person, kind, handsome, intelligent etc. The thing is that he says that he'd like me to come to Germany with him and isn't interested in coming to the US after marriage. I do know that he loves me a lot but won't compromise on this matter. What shall I do? I love him. |
| Question: Married for 33 years and unhappy? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 11:04 AM PDT Been married for 33 years, fell lonely, I can not trust my wife expressing my felling because then she uses to get back to me and making me fell like a child so I op to keep it to myself. I feel no interest in her as a women after many attempts for fisical romantic encounters, I don't have anyone else but sometimes I just want to walk away from the relation specially when she gets fisical. Has anyone experienced the same? |
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| Question: Why do a lot of men think marriage is like prison? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 10:21 AM PDT This seriously p*sses me off, so much. I mean, really, guys. I always hear married men whining like - UGH I just want to get away from my wife, she's AWFUL. Let's go to a strip club and get hammered! Let's bang a few prostitutes! That'll fix everything! UGH my wife is complaining that I cheated on her and that I went out drinking. GEEZ women are soooo terrible. Like, Jesus Christ. Do these types of men even have brains? If marriage is SO horrible: 1) Don't get married. 2) Don't propose. It's really that simple. Marriage is a beautiful bond between two people who love each other. It's meant to be a commitment, and to be taken seriously. If you can't handle that, DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH IT. Like, what the heck? Why do these guys act like that? |
| Question: Am I justified in not trusting my wife completely? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 09:10 AM PDT I have never caught her cheating. But I have caught her not mentioning certain things (such as her ex husband coming over to her house while I'm not there to see his kids) I've caught her discussing our relationship with a male friend of hers and saying negative things about me to him. She's also taken a trip to visit a male friend I've never met and told me I should just trust her even though I've never met him. I've caught her lying to other people about where she was while she was out with me. She's also friended guys on Facebook whom like all of her photos then I find out some guys was messaging and emailing her. Should I trust her? |
| Question: Why cant I forgive and forget my husbands emotional affair? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 08:32 AM PDT I found out my husband was having an emotional affair (or so he says) with one of his co workers... at the time we were only married ONE MONTH and to top it off i was 8 Months pregnant!! I've never felt so hurt and betrayed... He said he was sorry and would never do it again...but i can't believe him,i don't trust him,I've lost respect for him. I was so happy i was a stay at home mom with our children, did everything for him to show my appreciation for him working to support our family, but now things have changed and i can't be happy...i can't forgive him for taking my happy little life away... i accuse him on a daily and go threw his phone,i make him take pictures and send them to me to prove where he is at... i even told him i wanted a divorce... i never thought he would do anything to hurt us as a couple...never thought I'd have to worry about this with him! Now i can't forget the messages i read and the reason he says he did it...i can't forgive him for the hurt he caused me... i have tried but i can't...why can't i just forget and forgive him? |
| Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:27 AM PDT I have been with my now wife for about 3 years. We just recently got married last month. We are both Christian and she is not from the United States so we decided to get married and start the paper work to get her naturalized. (Small ceremony at church) The thing is that we are not living together although we live a couple miles from one another. The plan is to have the big celebration in about 5 months along with the honeymoon. Then we will finally be able to start our lives and make love. We have never made love, in fact not even close and it is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I am a Christian and refuse to turn to porn or any other way to satisfy my need for intimacy. Lately we have been having some issues such as bickering and small fights. Partly I think it is due to the fact that we are both intimately frustrated. I promised her that I would wait until our celebration to make love. I will keep that promise but has this ever been done? Is this normal? I feel completely depressed sometimes because I have a ring on my finger and a beautiful wife but I feel as if she is just a glorified friend sometimes. I see her about 3-5 times per week and it kills me every single time I see her. What should I do? |
| Question: My husband does not show affection, concern, or care. What should I do? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 07:02 AM PDT My husband has shown very little affectionate or concern/care for me during most of our 20 year marriage. The little affection that he has shown (occasional peck on cheek when returning home from work), I had to ask for. Sex happens about once a month. I don't initiate sex, after being turned down on several occasions. When I try to communicate with him about day-to-day goings on, he often keeps his back turned toward me or walks away while I'm talking. He never calls/texts me during the day, tells me what I mean to him, compliment me, touch my hand, cuddle, hug, etc... I've suggested counseling, and expressed what my concerns are regarding the lack of affection in our marriage. He says this is who he is and maybe he's not the man for me. He is a good man, provider and father. There is just not an emotional bond between us. Help! I don't know whether to hang in there or try to find a loving/affectionate relationship with someone else. We have 3 children. |
| Question: Why would a wife fake an affair? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 06:29 AM PDT Why would a wife fake an affair, then deny an affair despite the faked evidence? She refuses intimacy, is demeaning, is dependent, is manipulative. What response could she possibly want? This has been ongoing for years. |
| Question: Is it normal to develop feelings of uncertainty? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 05:26 AM PDT Meaning, is it normal to feel unsure of everything as far as where your at in life with your SO and where you are going? I've been feeling very uneasy these last few weeks and I have no idea why exactly. I'm finishing my junior year of college this month and it's got me thinking about everything else in my life, primarily my relationship with my girl. We've been together almost 5 years and it's been great. We've been through a lot and it's all gone by so quick. We've never had a long vacation or crazy getaway and since starting college it's always been work and school. We live together and our home life isn't much different and we just do the same thing day in and day out. Recently I've been trying to figure out where I see everything going in the future and I get those feeling that times just slipped by. I have no crazy stories about wilding out, or about chasing girls or anything. Part of me wishes I had experienced that or had at least done more. I'm basically married as it is and it's bothering me the more I think about it. I love my girlfriend, I just can't stop thinking about experiencing more. Is this normal? |
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| Question: Should I marry my ex-girlfriend? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:50 AM PDT I dated my ex for 6mos before I made the mistake of breaking up w/her because I had a crazy thought run through my head that I could do better than her. I started reflecting on my life and I realized that although I am a beta male, I am successful enough to attract someone younger than her. Since she is the first person I had sex with aside from a ******* from a hooker & cybersex with many women online, I wanted to experience being with a younger woman since the hooker was an old hag and since my ex is about to hit the wall. But a day later I regretted my decision & started to miss her. I was too stubborn to contact her & apologize but she ended up contacting me one week later BEGGING me to take her back. She said she is madly in love with me. It felt so great to have a woman BEGGING to be with me when I've been rejected by women my whole life. I now realize that I love her and I want to marry her despite her histrionic personality disorder. Also, I know for a fact that she is a loyal woman because she had a colostomy when we first started dating & I thought she was only dating me because no other man wants to date a woman who craps in a bag, but she had her colostomy bag removed last month. She can now crap normally and she STILL wants me even though she is good looking enough to attract an alpha. She is approaching check-out time, so I figure I'd do her the favor of marrying her since she will be over the hill and checked out from the alpha dating world in just 1 or 2yrs. ******* is bl0wj0b |
| Question: Does this sound like cheating? Posted: 27 Apr 2017 01:18 AM PDT A guy I know is 52. He has been married for 22 years. They do not have kids. He told me his best friend is a woman he works with who is 31. They spend a lot of time together, but he says they're not dating. Is this cheating? Is it disrespectful to his wife? I asked him what his wife thought about his friendship and he replied, "She has more important things to worry about." |
| Question: Are feelings of uncertainty common once your long term? Posted: 26 Apr 2017 10:25 PM PDT Meaning, is it normal to feel unsure of everything as far as where your at in life with your SO and where you are going? I've been feeling very uneasy these last few weeks and I have no idea why exactly. I'm finishing my junior year of college this month and it's got me thinking about everything else in my life, primarily my relationship with my girl. We've been together almost 5 years and it's been great. We've been through a lot and it's all gone by so quick. We've never had a long vacation or crazy getaway and since starting college it's always been work and school. We live together and our home life isn't much different and we just do the same thing day in and day out. Recently I've been trying to figure out where I see everything going in the future and I get those feeling that times just slipped by. I have no crazy stories about wilding out, or about chasing girls or anything. Part of me wishes I had experienced that or had at least done more. I'm basically married as it is and it's bothering me the more I think about it. I love my girlfriend, I just can't stop thinking about experiencing more. Is this normal? |
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