We've been married five years. He's obsessed with ***. Like that's all he thinks about I swear. I unfortunately do not have an attractive or big enough one for him and he constantly complains to me about it. I'm not skinny nor do I have the body I personally want. But he's no Channing Tatum either. I feel like I'm constantly trying to change things I do and he doesn't give effort to changing things he does. Like he drinks everyday and I hate it. He has PTSD and depression and is constantly unhappy with everything. I'm just lost and confused and wonder if that's really how he feels. I wish he'd do counseling but we would have to go through the va and that just doesn't seem like an option right now with no one to watch our kids. (2&4)

My husband and I have been together for about 12 years. We have been through a lot, substance abuse (resolved long ago) unemployment (also solved) and getting his two angry rebellious teenagers from his ex after cps took them(almost resolved) we also just bought a house together. However I feel that we are drifting apart. We just don't seem to have the same relationship as we used to. I often don't even feel like taking to him and he doesn't seem to try either. I know a smart thing to do would be to spend more time together. However we work different shifts. my husband has been trying to find a new job to fix this, but it isnt happening anytime soon. We are also pretty broke, just buying a house and all. Also to compound the frustration we have a mini pig, which is a huge amount of work. We can't even leave the house for more then three hour because of the pig. Any suggestions?? (Other then getting rid of the pig, lol)

Like did that person actually wreck anything? I'm from a broken home where my mom strayed, but I think it's safe to say that things were broken wayyyyyy before the other guy ever showed up.

I am turning 23 on June 17 and worry that I may not be married at 30 considering that I want 2 kids and to be happily married. At 30 I want to be happily married with either 1 child or child #1 on the way. My boyfriend and I both want to wait until our late 20s to settle down. Everyone my age is getting engaged, pregnant, or married where I live. I just worry about the future and don't want to be lonely at 30. Am I overreacting a bit? Have you ever known anyone who got married past age 25 who was happy?

My current boyfriend and I have a lot in common and both of us want to wait until our late 20s to settle down. I live in Alabama and too many 22 yr olds here are getting engaged, pregnant, or married. I will turn 23 on June 17.

I was wondering how many married couples share their money when the two of you are working do you put all of the money you make together or do you have separate accounts?

I just dont know what to do. Been living here for 11 years. We are here for Hubby's job. I hate it, never going to like it. It doesn't suit me. Too humid, bugs, food and culture I hate. Boring as hell. I have outgrown it and feel there is something more to life. Hubby had to get a new job a couple months ago. Perfect chance to leave right? He gets a job that keeps us here. This is just so depressing to me I can't get over it. I always thought I'd leave. I dont know how we get out of here and I feel so trapped.

I've been a real jerk to my roommate, I call him string bean, mess with him, steal his food in the fridge and his drinks, but overall I was respectful minus some ball busting. My roommate is 6'8-6'9 and plays basketball religiously. He knows I've been bad mouthing him to my girlfriend and I always made sure they never talked. Well my girlfriend was looking for me and they started to talk, next thing no I know they are texting eachother and her phone is locked and my roommate locked his since he saw me reading a message on his crappy phone that didn't have a lock. Well some friends of mine saw them hanging out and she kissed him apparently, this friend caught it on camera. I confronted this roommate and he owned up to it and said he took her virginity and laughed about it since I believe in waiting and I thought she did too... he then started talking about what he did to her, well we got into a fight and the cops were called and I went home to my parents, I found out my roommate was out of town so I took his air Jordan shorts and other athletic gear and donated that to good will and sold his tv and Xbox one, I was feeling pretty good about myself after a long nights sleep and go to work thinking my roommate and I are even well he had me arrested for larceny and the judge drained my account of 2,000 and something dollars to cover the loss of his tv, Xbox and clothes. he also filed a restraining order on me since I tried to attack him. How do I tell my ex he is bad news?

Would you have gratitude to the father of your kids if he lies about his income to get out of paying the right amount of child support and he is not capable of being a very good father to his kids because he is very self centered and only wants to see his kids a couple of hours a week if he has nothing else going on?

Not sure how to feel about this, but every so often a girl from my husbands past will pop up and add him on facebook. Today for instance, I walked upstairs, he was laying in bed playing on his phone. I ran and jumped on the bed next to him, lay down and saw that he was on facebook. A friend request was in the upper tab and he immediately tossed the phone down on the bed and began hugging me. Curious, I grabbed the phone and checked the friend request, so he starts getting defensive, annoyed and rolls over while I look at his phone. Someone he claims he used to work with adds him, so I look at her profile and then I delete her. I ve never heard of her not once in the past 6 years, he says that irrelevant, anyways after that, He instantly gets mad, throws a fit and starts calling me names. "******* stupid" "Your Dumb" "**** you" "Insecure" and so Im 1. Hurt because he s calling me names 2. Wondering why he is so upset. He said that, His facebook is his ONLY. He gets to decide whether or not to delete people. He said that he cant stop other people from adding him and it shouldn t be my business when people do. Of course at this point, I m ******* furious, Is he THAT mad because I went onto his account and removed her? Or is he mad for another reason? Same thing happened a few months ago, This girl he was friends with on facebook was posting slutty, provocative pictures of herself on facebook so I deleted her and he got mad, saying I invaded his privacy. Now what?

I've fallen for a beautiful woman that goes to my church. The sad fact is she is married, but her husband and daughter are living in another country. I brushed my desire after that fact, but it got complicated after she came to the market where I work. She was with her client shopping as her aid. My desire for her came back and I approached her and we exchanged numbers. I came off polite but too scared to act let alone tell her how I felt. It got to the point where she would come see me at work regardless of where I was to say hi or be seen. I decided to tell her that I really wanted her I couldn't lie anymore and for her to choose to stay away from me. At church she wouldn't look my way anymore so I think it's over. The following week she shows up to my job with her client and come find me to ask me question about a finding an item with her client next to her. Out of everyone who works in this store she came all the way to me. I help her but can't seem to get what game is this? What should I do?

i have pain in a place between stomack and penis on the left side after i mastrubate, and sometimes i see a vain that goes from left hip to the penis, i dont know if that is a conection there....does somebody know what is going on?

Why should he just be used as someones meal ticket. Women don't really bring much to the table, as the domestic stuff they use to do like cooking, can easily be replaced with ready made dinners, fast food, etc. Most of them just seem like leeches that spend money, and contribute little to nothing.

However, a couple weeks ago. His soon to be ex wife told him that she s leaving out of town and going back to where her family and she s taking their kids. She s only going to stop doing that if he s going to break up with me because she thinks I m the reason why they re divorcing. Which we started as friends and they re already planning on filing when I enter his life. So we both made the decision to break up for the kids kids. But remain as friends. And I don t want to loose his kids because of me. But now he s choosing to have his family back together and maybe work his relationship with his ex-wife. But he s telling me that he s only doing this for the kids. His happiness is his kids. He s prioritizing his over his happiness. But he keep telling me that he loves me but he love his kids more.. Like what I said in the beginning, we have similar situation. But I chose to be happy for myself and focus on my kids. I know my kids are more happy if they see me happy. Right now I m broken hearted and It s hard to let go of him. I just don t know what to do. We actually work together but different on the shift. Any suggestion? I honestly don t want to loose him because he s just not my boyfriend but he s also my bestfriend.

When we met, he had been separated for 1 yr. We were bffs & gained feelings. Well 2 yrs later we are engaged & live together. He had been tryin to get divorced but she refused to sign so we saved money to afford a lawyer (he has a son so this was costly) He wanted to cut it short caz it was taking so long & he just wanted to marry me already but that would mean not going thru w/joint custody so I made him stick it out so he could have that. Now he is divorced w/joint thx to me He always made me feel crazy caz I kept accusing him of lyin. Well here recently he came clean bout all the lies. Firstly we had boundaries w/his ex & he broke them. 1) During the first lawyer meeting he was consoling her caz she was cryin, he was beggin her to move on caz he already had. Said she was crying real hard, asking for a hug, he gave it, then she kisses him. He said he didnt kiss back & was very upset bout it. 2) He went inside her home when he went to see his son once & hid it. Said it was cold outsde &she wouldnt let him take his son out. 3) They have hugged twice when parting ways after visits caz she asks for one & hes too nice to say no When I asked him why he did all this he said he didnt see it as a big deal, thought Id never know & has always felt guilty for leaving her to raise his child alone. But when she was 'raisin him alone' she wouldnt let him see his son! They literally went a year w/o talking He told me he would go to counseling for lying & record visits w/her when I cant go

I was wondering if it would be possible in the future for us to regenerate our testicles like lizards grow their tails back.

I am 22, turning 23 on June 17 and everyone around me is getting engaged, pregnant, has kids, or is married. I just pray I am lucky to be 30 and happily married with a baby or one on the way. I have been dating this guy for 3 months and both of us want to wait until late 20s to settle down. He is leaving for the marines soon.

This here should be the law... To get married... A Marriage counselor has to recommend that marriage is appropriate based on Match making, personal history, health records and lifestyle. But there is no obligation to get married. During the marriage, if you cheat on your spouse with activities such as : *Romantic Affection outside of the marriage without permission from your spouse. *Dating (more than $30 spent, on more than drinks) without permission from your spouse. *Constant visitation to anyone other than family members and same-sex friends without permission from your spouse, for longer than 2 hours each visit. *Constant online activities with Opposite-sex persons other than family members, with suggestive overtones, without permission from your spouse. *Sexual contact outside the marriage without permission from your spouse. And your spouse reports it, and it should be reportable...$1,000 fine first offense, and 10 days in Jail for subsequent offenses until such time as you get divorced. To get a divorce, a Marriage counselor has to recommend it. After a Divorce - *Never again can a marriage license be issued to the instigator of the Divorce. Because the Government isn't in the Transiency business and it has other things to do besides load up our courts with marriages and divorces and lawsuits and custody hearings. *Any Children goes to the parent with the highest income, if such parent has no criminal record. Any chattel goes to the Poorest parent.

It's as old as the hills for women, you get caught and just admit to an HJ and that he was small and came quickly Men get mad at that but do get over it. If you say BJ vaginal and anal they go so mad....it really works! Are men that dumb, or do they 'want' to believe their wife wouldn't go further?

I'm not married.... but I have some questions... 1. Why does the Government continue to issue marriage licenses if there can be no laws about who, when, why, or under what conditions a marriage license can be issued ? 2. Why should I buy a marriage license if I have no right to contest a no fault divorce, for example... a divorce without first going through marriage counseling ? Because I consented to a marriage, I did not consent to the unrealistic expectations of having a 24/7/365 non stop, happy go lucky party where nothing ever goes wrong in my life or hers, or in our life. 3. Why should I buy a marriage license, if I can just lose everything ? 4. When did I consent to buy things, for tens of thousands of dollars, and then be sued for it, for no reason, and even lose my kids too... also for no reason ? When did I consent to that ?

They Comment like "his" wife was great in bed and gave them everything they wanted n let them enjoy everything with her. Nbut to him she behaves like a prude and also hid her past and only confessed when the husband after hearing from her exes contronted her. So do ppl feel about it?

I only talk to him once a blue moon and if he doesn't answer I don't keep texting him. The last time we talked was sometime in November 2016.

We're married for over a year now and I constantly think about him all throughout the day. Back when we were still dating, I wasn't so "obsessed" with him. But now, everytime I wake up, I just want to serve him, cook for him, get his clothes ready. Every night, I make sure he's comfortable and that he can vent to me his frustrations. I love him so much omg. I wanna pleasure him more than I want to pleasure myself and I wanna keep him satisfied always. Even when I'm not in the mood, I don't ever reject him bc I like to see him enjoy himself through me. He's just so amazing; I love all aspects of him. Personality-wise, I love how he's so religious and he's so righteous, playful and he makes me feel like everything in my life is in order. I just adore him so much. Appearance-wise, he's so tall and his built is so sexy (i love his abs, arms, chest you name it!) and I just wanna jump on him every single night. I wanna know if any of you feel the same way as I do? D: I wasn't like this before, but now that we're married, I just can't control it. ;)))))

We re a fairly young couple. He s 28 and I m 21. Back when we were dating, his career wasn t so good. And now he really made his way up. But along came with that is his constant travelling and meeting new people (... rich & successful girls as well).... and I just graduated from college. Whenever he s not around, I feel alone and I would always text him throughout the day. He would always update me of people he meet even though I don t ask. We re not so much of an intimate couple in the first place, but I feel so threatened every time he isn t with me or when he doesn t show affection. When he is at home, he s still constantly working or need to be in social events which i can t attend, and it just annoys me so much. I ve expressed to him how jealous I am sometimes, and he assures me not to worry. Sometimes we fight over him not being too affectionate towards me (doesnt touch me, i have to initiate all the time, always make excuses like he isnt in the mood blah blah) and he says he will try to change. But he didnt, and is still the same! :-( I feel lost and i rly dont want to think about him all the time too. :-( how do i stop being paranoid? How do i know if my husband really loves me?

I am a forty five year old, gym going, very fit and healthy man and my wife is 42, fairly fit and healthy, and we eat a good healthy diet. We are both very health aware and live what most people would say was a very health conscious life. We both have good jobs that can involve long hours occasionally but we try to put our family life first. We have two boys, aged 16 and 10 who are a handful but normal. That's all the good stuff. Unfortunately we have not had sex for five years! I have tried talking to my wife but she just cries, so I don't even try to go there any more. I have given up trying to initiate sex after years of rejection. To say I am sexually frustrated is putting it mildly. It is affecting our relationship as we are drifting apart, I have been masturbating constantly and still feel a lot of sex drive. Does anyone have any advice on how I can tackle this? An affair is no way possible..I love her too much.

Never heard a story, just gone curious. Just what if two couples from different families of common surnames found love, will they be branded as incest? In addition, if ever, one fell in love with someone whose mid name is same as that lover's last name, are they technically incest, or all these thoughts is a narrow-minded perspective? Just wondering...

I feel so angry, well my husband friends travelled 6 hours to come to our wedding but they were still late and missed the whole thing. When they arrived all food was gone. My husband basically made me cook for his guests on my wedding night in my wedding dress? I feel like **** and just no respect at all. He kept saying "who else do I have to cook" I know he doesn't have anyone else to do it but seriously on my wedding night?! I feel like I'm wrong but still angry at the same time?! Sigh