Was it really that bad? There's two decent men in the whole show.

I live in England and I am foreign student. There is one professor we didn't meet yet because I didn't attend his classes yet because I was busy with someone at home. We spoke on the phone once and he was bit upset with me for not showing up to lectures and I informed him I was busy. To make it short, during the Easter break within a week we exchanged 19 emails (all professional emails and mostly initiated by me but he will go the extra mile to arrange online meeting with between me and other student members since I couldn't attend the lecture. Do you think he likes me at all? Sometimes in his emails he uses smiley face and honestly I look forward to his email everyday. What are ur thoughts?

Like, if I get married, can I still masturbate? I'm afraid it would be embarrasing for anyone to catch me in the act and if I move in with a boyfriend, we'd obviously sleep together so I'd never het the chance. That goes for watching porn, too. Is that considered cheating? I don't want to give up porn or masturbating...

Im filing for divorce and my ex has my son in contempt of a protection order custody arangement the cops told me the only way they can get my son back is if i have custody so i put in my divorce papers full legal and physical custody with my ex having pre arranged supervised visits due to the fact that he is currently in contempt of the custody arrangement now i heard if he doesn't reply to anything within 20 days everything is granted in my favor also i have a writ of assist from the judge but no one knows where he is with my son so its no help to me is this true or will the judge decide otherwise this is all new to me im 22 with no family support

I know this is wrong but this is how I feel: I hate that every time my wife and I are talking the kids constantly interrupt us. I work day and night during the week between 2 jobs, and I just wanted to have a conversation with my wife today. It frustrated me so much that they kept interrupting! They're acting up and they need even more attention. As wrong as it may sound: I'm not willing to give it to them. They know that when I'm off I don't interact much with them, I do errands, work by myself on car and house maintenance, nap, go to the gym, whatever it takes to get them off my hair. I don't enjoy interacting with them. I understand that they need and deserve more attention from their mother than I need from her; but the situation is making me feel more attracted to the hot chick at work with whom I can have a solid conversation for more than 5 minutes at the time than I do for my wife because of all the frustration I feel trying to talk to her on my day off. WTF!? Don't get me wrong; I have never cheated on her, but I can understand why there's so much cheating happening to other men with children. PS. I work 2 jobs so she can stay at home with the kids. I suck at parenting while she's great at it. I focus on making the money and avoid interacting with the kids so the few times I do interact with them, I can have a normal interaction instead of the shitty memories I have of the interactions I had with my father. I don't want them to grow up being beat up, yelled at, or constantly be reminded that they're an expensive inconvenience. Even if I feel that way, they shouldn't be treated the way I was treated when I was growing up… ****! Some days I feel like I have it all and some days, like today I just hate my life! It bothers me that she's not steamy anymore, but she has to spend so long dealing with the kids, cooking, cleaning, that she doesn't take care of herself... I know it's unfair to compare her to someone I only see at work, who does not have kids, but the contrast makes me feel like I should get more... Like I said, I don't do much of the daily chores in the house because I work two jobs and today is my day off. I used to help more around the house when we were both working, but now it doesn't make sense for her to work because she'd be working to pay for daycare...

Like if they are very impatient, argumentive /stubborn, skip showers.... Or anything else. Or should you just leave them as they are.

My wife of over 1 year opened up to me and said that she gets triggeres thoughts of past relationships....she says she hates them and it disgusts her and she cant help it but it makes me feel awful cause it could be something sexual with us and then she can say thst it triggered a thought of someone else.....how should I feel? I personally hate it and it makes me feel sick to my stomach.

I was walking by a man I know and (and his wife who I don t know but do know of) and we made eye contact and I smiled (because I m friendly). He didn t smile back, but instead proceeded to keep staring at me until I finally looked away. It wasn t a bad look just strange that he would do that while his wife was right there. So is this weird or rude for a married man to do? I don t know if I would be ok if my husband did this in front of me. Thanks

My husband and I have been together for about 12 years. We have been through a lot, substance abuse (resolved long ago) unemployment (also solved) and getting his two angry rebellious teenagers from his ex after cps took them(almost resolved). However over the last two or three years, I just don't feel the same about him. We dont hold hands, we don t often have sex and when we do, I don t enjoy it. His behaviors that I used to over look, now just disgust me. He doesn t seem to try very hard either anymore. He is rather lazy, he holds down a job usually but he doesn t really do much else(which is nothing new). As horrible as it sounds, I think I'm just falling out of love with him and all the bad things about him just seem worse. My husband is a good man, he doesn't cheat, he's not abusive and he is a nice guy. I know ppl will say "real love doesn t die" but that s Bullshit. Any advice?

I'm a 24 yrs old woman and my husband is 31. We've been married for a year. I mean seriously. I find it really hot to swallow his cu`m and besides, I don't want my bed get sticky and it's better to just swallow. And also, I want to reward for being such a good and loyal husband to me. The idea that turns me on the most was when he was asked out by a girl and he rejected her and told her that he's married. And fyi, that girl is my friend(he doesn't know her) and I set them up. she did me a favor by asking him out to test his loyalty out.

A guy who is separated, aged 40 (has a teen daughter) talked to me today. I said 'oh, I"m sorry, that must be dificult, being separated and having a daughter - he shares custody). He said to me: 'No, it is not difficult. There aren't many single, never married guys of 40 around and the ones I know are losers'. I found this a little bit worrying as I know lots of 40 year olds and older, women and men who have never married or had children and I certainly do not see them as losers. In fact, I see many separated parents who are stressed out of their minds and often find the separation and aftermath exhausting, not to mention the bitter feelings that often accompany divorces/separations. Opinions please.

I still love my wife so much like when we first met years ago. I still feel that whenever she's around the whole world just seems brighter. We've been married for 15 years. Is it normal?coz i still feel like that young man who blushes everytime he laid his eyes on his crush.

He comes from the country. Doesn't have a place to stay yet. I figured he'll stay with us for a month or 2 until he finds a room. What's wrong with that? She's being a pain right now.

how long after the wedding do wives decide it's time to begin sleeping apart from their husbands?

Under what circumstances would it be fair to destroy someones marriage ? Cause you were used, lied to, broken hearted etc ?

Do women realize that they are severely limiting their options by trying to find a man who will not only wait for marriage to have sex, but also make them wait to kiss until marriage? I don't understand women's logic behind this? I've met several women who are waiting until marriage to have their first kiss and they are 30+ and still single. I dont think they realize the only men who will wait until marriage for a first kiss are ones who have no options and are ugly/and or deformed or have a serious mental or physical ailment

I was naive to think she would divorce etc as she promised but then found out she's only using me to get attention from her husband. At first i told her to leave me alone and its never gonna work out etc and that im looking for a spouse of my own. She lured me, wasted my time n energy, stressed me and then blamed me for destroying her life and kids lives. Only to find out that her plan worked and that she's happy with husband and that my utility is expired to her. Now i feel devastated. Should i destroy her marriage ? And screw her kids too if her husband kills her as he promised he would if he found out i was hitting on her ? He also threatened to kill me too but theres no way he can reach me. I got nothing to lose. Sure i was naive but i was honest when i told her to leave me alone and try to patch things up with her husband. She started a wicked plan and i dont see why i should be the one to be "mature enough" to walk away broken hearted and fooled. I owe her kids nothing. Solutions ? Le mer: i was sincere cuz i wanted her to get off my back since it would never work - divorce ? Never. But she kept on pushing and making promises and depicting a future together. Now that dream is broken cuz she lied from day one. I should just suck it up and move on ??

is it hard to find a latina for marriage ??not looking for sex only justaloving latina to bring to America..may i find a wife in mexico?I dearly love latinas

If you are not getting along with their parents and have not ask the father's permission, should you still get married? We don't need it anymore right? And after we get married, we will respect each other and keep away from each other like A. Jolie and B. Pitt right? I mean you can come see your child just not associate with me. Don't come while I am around. Your child and grandchild can go see you too right? So we should still get married right?

I am thinking of just giving up. Every one of my friends is getting engaged or married. My own best friend had no one before and went online and got married last year to a great guy. I don't even wear makeup anymore, I don't care how I look, etc. I used to but I just stopped caring because it seems like I am not marriage material. Every guy wants me as a casual person (I dress regularly, I am very loyal, etc.) but I don't think any guy wants me for marriage. I'm smart, kind, thin/normal body type. Should I just give up? I want to but I am 24 years old so I guess a lot of people would say I'm still young but I've gotten to the breaking point.

She's tired and frustrated after working nights and taking care of the kids during the day while I'm at work. Barely gets any sleep during the week and only a couple of hours when I get home at night before she has to head out again for work overnight. We need the two incomes just to make ends meet and the family's health insurance is under her work. so it's a tough spot all around. I am currently trying to see if I can get every other weekend off to spend more time with her when she's off as that is an issue we don't really see each other much. anything else that may ease her a bit and help the situation would be greatly appreciated.

My husband has been acting jittery and at times randomly curses me out and goes off. I do know he smokes weed but it's definitely not the weed. He is a great man at times, then he sweats a lot, drinks tons of water and switches in this mode of like someone I don't even know I get scared. Today my mom wanted to take our daughter shopping and she said she'd return our daughter 4 hours from now. He smiled in her face and said ok sure. After she left, he yelled and cursed me out saying I should have let him know . I told him that I did try but he was resistant to listening and if it were a issue he could have just told my mom not today. He said I put him on the spot even though I had already told him. I tried to walk away since he had a weird look in his eyes yelling at me. I went into my car he grabbed the car door wouldn't let me leave cursed me out and said you think you are ******* perfect and just saying random things that I have no idea like irrelevant stuff. This morning , he had been happy and made me breakfast. After I went to the store while he stayed at home. I came back to this kind of personality. I'm hurt and on edge of a divorce therapy didn't work because in his head I'm always wrong no matter what. If I walk away when he's yelling, he said I got disrespectful so I don't deserve anymore of his respect. If I'm 5 minutes late to daughters ballet I get yelled at and cursed at. In his college years he spent time doing cocane, weed and stuff.

Is it something to worry about if your husband deletes his messages that are only from women? I don t want to believe anything is wrong, but when I ask him about it he says it s just a mindless thing he does and that he doesn t want to fight. After that the conversation is just over.

She's tired and frustrated after working nights and taking care of the kids during the day while I'm at work. Barely gets any sleep during the week and only a couple of hours when I get home at night before she has to head out again for work overnight. We need the two incomes just to make ends meet and the family's health insurance is under her work. so it's a tough spot all around. I am currently trying to see if I can get every other weekend off to spend more time with her when she's off as that is an issue we don't really see each other much. anything else that may ease her a bit and help the situation would be greatly appreciated.

Hi. I'm 18 now. When I was 15 I was friends with a guy who was 18. I met him at a party and he initially wanted me to come to his house. I said no. I said we should hang out at a cafe instead. It was really weird. He was staring at me with a dead look in his eyes and I just felt uncomfortable. He seemed very uninterested in me. When we left the cafe he put his arm around me, and it just felt weird. He led me into his car, and nudged me into it kind of aggressively tbh. He started kissing me immediately. I responded because he was still an attractive guy. I crawled into the back seat with him. The back seat didn't have doors. He wanted to take me to his house, his parents weren't home. I said no. He asked many times. He pulled out his dick, I blew him consensually. I said "Hey my friends are here. I have to go." I started standing up to get out through the front, but he grabbed me by the hair and the arm and pulled me back to the seat. He pushed my head down so I could blow him again. I kept saying "I really have to go" and probably tried to get up and out about 3 more times while being restrained. A few times I tried to leave he'd just kiss me. I said, "I'm not in the mood" so he got on top of me, started kissing my neck, and groped my boobs and vagina. He then said, "Are you in the mood now?" I eventually said, "Get off" and he seemed surprised. We had planned to hang out at a later date before we met at the cafe, he cancelled on me immediately after I left.

Allowing my ex husband and father of my kids come over to my house and hang out, have lunch etc at my place and see his kids?

I m a 27 y/o guy, married almost 5 years (been with my wife since I was 16), got a daughter almost 3 y/o. I have a decent job, working my way up the ladder slowly but surely. I have plenty of aspirations for the future. The problem is, I feel stuck. Not in my relationship or career or anything like that, but just generally... No matter what I do, life is boring to me. I want to be able to do more, to BE more than this. I feel selfish and ungrateful just saying it because I know I m lucky with what I have. But that doesn t stop me feeling this way. My wife is going back to uni in a few months for 4 years, my daughter will be starting school in not much more than a year from now, I will be getting fully qualified in my job hopefully in 2 months time...... But for some reason, none of that is enough. It makes me feel even more trapped. I have to provide for my family. Not a big ask, but one that makes me want to take off to the Seychelles for a month for one last ditch for freedom. I have business ideas, I want to volunteer, I want to travel, I want to write a novel, I want to learn languages and music and history and politics... But I can t. And I don t know what to do...

My own wife has been getting disobedient lately, and I think it's because she's been spending time with some liberal housewives she met. She has been ungrateful of how hard I work to support her and the kids (even if she did work, she'd never afford this kind of lifestyle), and she's been criticizing everything I'm doing. That really angers me. If I work to support the family, I have the authority in the family. She is criticizing the fact that I often have to travel for work, she criticizes my need to go to the gym most days of the week, and she criticizes my sports fandom. She is a stay-at-home, and we have a 4 year old who isn't even home all day herself (she goes to daycare). I workout every day before work in order to stay fit and healthy. I think it's very selfish that she's criticizing that. It's worth the amount of time I spend which is only an hour a day. She criticizes me for watching sports on weekends. HEAVEN FORBID I enjoy one of America's favorite pasttimes on f***ing weekends. Point is, I don't like the way this is headed. How do I get my wife to be more obedient? She needs to understand that she isn't entitled to the comfortable and easy lifestyle she lives (it's easy now that our daughter goes to daycare and she can go out socializing on MY dime every day).

I met a married woman and told her to get out of my face and call me only after she divorces. She insists on being friends and just annoys me with how much her husband neglects and abuses her. She agrees to have sex since i told her i got no interest in listening to her drama and she should solve her issues with him since he is the one fkin her n not me. She said yes twice and then never showed up. Then she proposed running away together and i told her she's crazy and that would totally destroy her kids n family. At that point i couldnt take it no more n said if she wont leave me alone i will hurt her family. She tries to suicide twice within a week and falls in a catatonic state. I blame myself and risk getting caught in order to comfort her; i was the first person she called when she woke up and helped her get on her feet etc. During those 2 months in hospital her husband was busy figuring out why she did it. Then he figured there must be a backdoor guy aka me. He goes thru her phone and contacts me; saying he will kill both of us. I make up a story and told him she loves him. He was disuaded but he said he will dig more into the matter and if i was lying he will kill both. I told her what happened n to be careful but now she says im lying and that im a monster that tried to destroy her family and esp now that her husband began to love her again. At this point im thinking to tell her husband the truth and to get off my back - his wife is a cheating whore. : Its also clear she used me from beginning to make him jealous. I remember her saying that her husband is an attractive man; and that she enjoys staying home with kids - he is rich too - I got not beef in this mess, just used and thrown away like a tampon. Plus she now she calls me the monster that destroyed her life and her husband is hunting me down. What not tell him the truth ? Thanks alot Onlooker !!

I think it's cute when my husband's tummy growls. It's such a cute sound. I like putting my hand on it whenever it does that. It's been doing it a lot lately. Either he's really hungry or he might be sick. But I think it's cute. Isn't this weird ?