A friend of the family, he is successful, wealthy, beautiful houses, vehicles, boats I mean he has everything. Including a beautiful, attractive and successfully wife and very much loved by his entire family. He basically made her successful by teaching her how to be a successful business woman. His problem....... he cheats on her. She's (my opinion) either too dumb to look at the signs or shes too submerged in her own success. His wife is 10 yrs younger to him, he is a strong alpha male. Before he met his wife she was living pay check to pay check struggling to provide for herself and her daughter. I mean this woman has changed, her life has changed. How can she be so blind?. His new object of desire, is also younger, struggling and he (it seems like it) can't leave her alone. He is smitten by his new lady love. So why do men cheat on their beautiful successful wives? I mean he made his wife successful, gave her a life she could never have had. For what?

or having done to him?

Do you know where your husband or bf is?

Because the way the models are holding the pizza boners, with white, gooey sauce (it's supposed to be cheese) dripping off their lips, there is no way those women are wives.

''what's more important your work or me?''. What the hell does that even mean? I don't work because I enjoy it. I do it for the family.

My parents divorced when I was a little kid and I didn t see my father for 20 years. Needless to say, this affected me tremendously growing up. My mother always said one thing and my father is saying another. I know that both sides are biased and neither person is infallible. This is why I want to get to the heart of what happened all those years ago. Are there court records I could access? If so, would I have to pay a fee? I live in Connecticut, if that means anything. Thanks.

I'm honestly not sure how it happened. He's been my boss since June. I think he was my first crush there, despite him being married and having a family. We're both smarta**es and he has really sexy blue eyes, so I think that's what started it. The longer I knew him, though, the more I began to loathe him. At work, he comes off as very arrogant, lacking compassion, and can be pretty much a douchebag. When he's off the clock, he's actually pretty nice. He said he's really a nice guy, he just was raised to take work seriously...perhaps TOO seriously. There have been many times he's made me want to cuss him out and quit. Things have been strange between us lately, though. Back around Christmas, I gave all of my managers gift bags of candy and he jokingly asked if I poisoned his. If work was slow and some of us got off early and had stuck around to eat, he always ended up sitting next to me. He knows he hasn't always been my favorite person and it seemed like he really enjoyed bothering me. About a month ago, work ceased for a bit for a building makeover, but we still had training at another building. During that time, I guess we've gotten closer. He constantly teases me and pokes fun at me; I was kind of slumped down in a chair that had a hole in the top part and he jokingly pulled my hoodie's hood through the hole and put it over my face and walked away lol; I don't have a vehicle right now and during lunch breaks, he offered to take me to get lunch, but I always declined; he offered me a piece of gum and joked that he didn't poison it, purposely referring back to the Christmas joke; we're FB friends now and he "likes" a lot of my posts; he commented under one post saying how much he appreciates my positivity and encouragement and that it's a "blessing" and that I should "keep it up". All this recent positive attention has caused me to be obsessed with him. Not to mention, I am very sexually attracted to him, but would never act on it. What do I do? How do I go back to loathing him? Also, I had a dream that started off sexual, but then he was my boyfriend and I told him I loved him. Why did I dream that? I am 26, he's 37 and I am by no means unattractive, by the way. Anonymous-Haha different guys, that's why. Guess I look like the work slut, eh? Anon.-You DID notice how different the two posts were, right? One avoids me like the plague, the other loves to bother me lol.

What does this mean? Why would he be hurting from his past and present?

I've just got into a chat with a man who is married. I told him I am not able to continue chatting with him because he's married. He says that the intimacy and love had gone. His wife is away for the weekend with a guy she's having an affair with..they've been married 20 years and have 2 children. So I told him 'fix your marriage, work on it to the end. If that doesn't work, separate and divorce and find someone you're happy with'. So he says...'I just continue because of commitments...but there's no love'. Now, we chatted for a few hours and he's really nice and wants to meet me in a few weeks when I'm near the city he's based in. I told him no. I'd like to hear from anyone who met someone who was married but their spouse was having an affair. Could it happen that this guy falls for me and then a divorce does happen? I will say to him..don't contact me until you have divorce papers filed.

I met this dog couple months ago, I think it was about five months ago. And let me tell you it was love at first sight. We were purely in love and we decided to get married. Now he s getting all aggressive and won t listen to me. I tried to use physical affection to get him to listen, but he wants more and abuses me if I don t. What should I do?!? What would you do?!

What is your opinion on someone who is not engaged, married, pregnant, or has a kid by age 21 when everyone else there age does? Alabama=So weird

we had a long separated period where we havent seen each other in about 3 years. recently we got back together.and he proposed to me, i said yes. however in those 3 years we were separated, i had found a person of interest. it was a sexual online experience (trading photos,flirting). we kept it up for a month. we never met in person. i had made a video of me naked and masturbating. (im a female btw) and forgotten about it when my fiancee reconfirmed our relationship. i had deleted and blocked this online person. i hid the video and photos in the gallery of my tablet. i forgotten about it all until my fiancee found out, we talked it out and forgave me. however i still feel guilty. i am currently repaying him back by loving him more and bj's and sex. i still feel heavily guilty. i would like to point out there is liable confirmation that neither of us had sex in those 3 years. but thank you for those that say its in the past. also we known each other for 8 years, sadly any and all of our secrets leak out for the both of us. but thank you anyways to the people that answered :) and yes i have unresolved issues. no i have a lot more experiance in legal marriage than usual. i have a mail-order husband AND a fiancee/BFF for cripes sake no i dont like using men or a false relationship for bills or whatever. i do whats best for my family, hence the first husband.

He has a fake account and he'll send them messages about how he thinks their new bf is scum and they can do better, but these women don't know who he is because he has a fake name. Another thing that he does is look at young girls, we are 36 and he likes teens. I think am the only woman he has dated that's his age, everyone else before me has been 18-23. His last gf was 19, she didn't have a job, lived with mom and dad, smoked weed, and he was fine with all of that but then she broke up with him because she hooked up with the guy who sold her weed and they use to date in high school. I hadn't noticed these things about him until we moved in together and it's slowly coming out, his preferences for teens, his weed smoking, etc. I know his family really well and his sister and older brother are sooo not like that, I just don't understand how he could be so different from his siblings and parents. Should I end things or try and work this out ? Or am I just being too uptight and need to lose up ?

He comes so fast I hardly get any pleasure, usually 10 seconds then he rolls over and sleeps while I frap away to relieve myself. Tried talking but he says all men do this. I need more and have realized I should have tried him out first Totally frustrated

I can't do anything without my children's father thinking crazy or negative. I've never cheated never been in contact with any other man at all since we have been together. That's over 6 years. I can't work a job without him asking about the men who's working around me. I can go buy food in a drive thru without him having bionic ears and think he hearing things. I deleted my call log trying to get space in my phone I have a habit of not wanting to delete photos. And he keeps making an issue out of that saying its suspicious and starting drama.

Anybody out there have any suggestions on the do's and don'ts to talk about to keep it a fun night? This will be the first time we've done anything together without the kids in four months.

a year into our marriage i found out my wife was cheating off and on since we were engaged. i was crushed beyond words we tried to work on it for a few months but she decided to continue the affair and wanted me out of her life so for the past year she continued cheating and sent divorce paper broke up with the guy and she dated others while i moved up to finish my last year of college and ended up landing a great job. through this whole time both our families and friends dont know what has be going on and her family just found out we are now recently divorced. Im not sure what she told her family, but i know its not the truth. so I guess what im asking is should i tell her family the truth in a mature way? I was close to them and i dont want them to think i just left her behind to finish school when the reality is she was cheating hardcore.I dont want them to mad at her because we are both moving on but i just what them to know i kept my vows and i wasnt the one who wanted the things to go the way they did and also to thank her family for time I spent with them over the years. I still havent told my family or friends yet. It has be hard for me to let go because when i talk to people i know there is no turning back at that point.. wish she just could have been faithful wtf.

My husband claims he has a job but to me it's not even a job. He's working as a mechanic from 5:30 pm all the way to 7 in the morning. And he comes home with 20$ bucks or sometimes nothing.. I am doing all that I can to apply for a job but every time I call for a follow up on my application, I get no call backs. I don't know how we're going to pay rent and our 500$ electricity bill that's sitting in my landlords name right now. We are struggling and my husband won't do anything about it. He says he loves the people he works with so he's not going to quit. But the fact that we have a 5 month old son makes it even more stressful. I am a wonderful mother. I watch him every single day with care. Lately I've been feeling like I'm a single mother. Cos I rarely even see my husband anymore. When he gets off work, he sleeps. And when he wakes up and has a few hours of free time, he goes to hang out with his friends. I ask for his time all the time but he tells me to quit bitching and that he sees me everyday. I don't know what to do at this point. Lately I've been thinking about giving up on my husband cos he's so selfish.. he only thinks about himself.. the only reason he wants to stay working at that job is because they all smoke weed and get high... he's not even trying to support his son. I just don't know what to do..

I haven't changed as much from before having a baby.our baby is almost a year old.Iv had a lot of surgeries in the abdomen area because of a complicated pregnancy and a previous loss. I have stretch marks and a bit of a jiggly stomach.not much changes in weight.My husband just told me I dress up ugly and my hair is ugly n a list of things that is ugly about me. I barely get time for even a shower.I do everything at home and raise our baby all by myself when my husband sits and watches TV.Be barely does anything. We don't have sufficient income for me to buy new clothes or hire any help.We almost never have sex ever since our previous loss. I have a shoulder tear Because of carrying our baby day long and a tailbone injury due to a fall.Yet he doesn't try to help.How can be even expect me to do anything for myself? We never have money for anything.I haven't brought anything for myself in years now.Am only 24.he is young too. I am not a troll. I was not dressing up before also. But only now am ugly to him.I am hurt. I don't know if I'll ever be able to recover from this.

so i was hanging out with my wife, we were talking, and I passed out and i have weird scars on my body and bruises. every few days now they keep popping up and i keep passing out. she says she has nothing to do with it but they keep appearing when shes with me pls help

So, I ve been married to my wife for about a year. Prior to our marriage, she lived with me for another year. Ive provided for her financial needs/wants for 2 years, she has not had a job. She recently started working. On her first 4 paychecks, I didn t ask her for anything. She didn t offer either. But I have credit card bills that I ve incurred over the past 2 years. On her last check, I only asked her for $100 to help me cover a payment, and her response was, "are you forreal?"

behind your spouses back, is this ok

is it abusive to try and make your spouse jealous in subtle ways

we've been married for 3 years, she's already gained about 40 pounds, we talked about this when we were dating and I told her how I felt about it then, we used to have sex all the time, now I can't remember the last time we had sex, we don't have any kids, I bought her a tread mill and all kinds of other things to help her including a personal trainer and a membership to the gym but she always uses each one of them only once or twice, a lot of wasted money, she's only about 4 foot 9 or 10 inches tall but she weighs more than I do and eats way more than I do too and it's hard to watch, I've always been athletic and toned and very active in the bedroom, her entire family are all obese, I'm afraid our sex life maybe over, being extremely sexual myself I'm having a hard time excepting my fate, she's the best woman on the planet in my opinion, her face is really pretty but the weight gain made her face really chubby, she the nicest person ever very sweet no trouble at all and she works, I would never leave her or divorce her, Any Serious Comments and Advice would be appreciated greatly.

Just asking for advice on how to handle it. We weren't really having sex barely at all and the pill was giving me awful headaches. I'd been on it for over 10 years anyway. I stopped taking it after going to the doctors and they prescribed me a different one, I just decided not to take it. Don't want headaches and not having sex often enough by any means to justify taking it. Like once or twice a month. Now that I'm not on the pill my husband is fine with using condoms- so far. Only been twice in a month and a half, almost 3 times but we don't have any more condoms. He wanted to just do it and pull out. I told him I could get pregnant and he says no I won't. It's like I'm a teenager again!! Having this conversation!! I don't know how to handle it without upsetting him, he truly thinks it's ok and that I'm being ridiculous.

I bought myself a new phone not too long ago and my husband suddenly saw this and he got mad at me and threatened to destroy my new phone, calling the guy friend a homewrecking son-of-a-b***h, if he ever caught me texting other guys or exchanging inappropriate pics and messages with them. I couldn't hide my phone from my husband because he has a sixth sense. This guy friend is a single White guy who is four years older than me and my husband (which is not bad) while me and my husband are Asians. My husband thinks every White or Black guy where we live has Asian fetish and yellow fever. I can't just leave my husband for another guy like that even though this guy friend doesn't look that attractive. There are a lot of desperate single guys in my area who date married women or women in relationships.

what to do

I got married when I was 20 years old and have since been divorced for 15 years this December. I am engaged to be married and am turning 40 next year. Didn't want to be an old hag bride. What is too old? and do I look old?

My husband and I are moving away, and starting our lives completely over. We will be starting with absolutely nothing but a bed and clothes. We'll buy what we need as we go along. This is on the heels of our daughter moving across the country to be with her boyfriend. My husband isn't well. He has gone downhill quickly, and he basically wants to be around family members before he can't anymore. Anyways, many times he chokes on food. (They're working on that now, but I don't know what the end result will be.) When he's doing well, he usually wants me to make comfort food, like eggs, or something with ground beef - like chili or spaghetti. My question is, how do I organize my cooking, in these type circumstances? Up through now, I'll make a meal meant for four. A lot goes to waste unfortunately, some gets frozen, my daughter tends to either eat like crazy or leave her food out to go bad. But with it mostly myself, but needing to be prepared for him, I need to find a better way to do things. Any suggestions?

I just got married 3 months ago after i year's of marriage.When he moved in after our wedding we discussed how we would respect each others privacy. That I wouldn't go through his stuff and he wouldn't go through mine. So I'm doing a load of laundry last night and find an bag of what looked like trash in the garage and I open it to check and see if I should toss it. As I open it I find a huge pile of shredded letters and women's lingerie! He had some g strings, lace panties giant bras, and cotton panties. Some of the stuff was stained. My heart dropped that's why I didn't want to see his stuff but the dirty bag was just in the garage. As I turn he is standing in back of me looking pale as can be. He said he kept it because he wanted to put the letters together that an ex had shredded them!!! It's trash and impossible to put shredded letters together. Why would he keep that? I don't know what to think. Now I've got a picture in my mind of all the women he's been with after seeing what they wore for him.

My husband quit his very lucrative hedgefund position without a new job in line. I have stayed home with our children. I was a supporter of him leaving because he was miserable, and it was affecting his health. However, I thought he would go back to his old job or have something in the works... Luckily, we did well enough financially to be able to job search and take our time. I have been very supportive! Anyhow, the months keep going by and he hasn t found the right click. It has been 8 months! He has turned down multiple positions, has recently been offered 2 more positions, (over 100k salaries, which he would be taking a paycut) but doesn t want to take them because he will be "unhappy and hate life." We have a 4yo and a 7 month old. We re staying in a hotel. Idk what to say to him. I told him he just needs to take something, and he said "that s the mistake many people make. They just settle!" Im so tired of this. Our finances are dwindling, the hotel life isn't great, we have small children and he wants to keep holding out to see if something better comes along! I do just want him to be happy..

My marriage is ending, no one will hire me, and I feel like I want to run away. Should I hike the PCT?

I'm inlove with my husband. But sometimes he gets too insecure, I don't understand him anymore. He gets insecure about money issues. I make a bit more than him. And I've always always told him that MY money is OUR money now since we're married. Whenever I ask him whether I can buy a new luxury bag, he won't even help me decide he'll say "Do whatever you want. It's YOUR money." Or when i offered to pay for his brother's education, he says he can handle it and he doesn't need my help. I just want him to understand that we are in this together but he seems to be so obsessed with financial issues. I want to help him, help his family, and I want my decisions to be OUR decisions. Whenever we meet some new people, he'll always try to compare himself to other men. Saying bullshit like "Atleast he's able to take care of his own wife." Like i dont know what response he wants from me. I totally lost in one time, when I rejected him for "the deed", and he snapped at me, accusing me of not loving him, not being attracted to him, or that I regret our marriage. It's so frustrating because I do love him very much and only him. And NO I DO NOT WANT TO DIVORCE HIM.... because there is no one else for me, but him. So I'm at a loss as to how to make him feel secure.

I am married and have been having an affair for 7 months. My husband works all night so I bring my boyfriend over and have unprotected sex in the bed I share with my husband and I don't feel guilty. I love that I am having an affair and my husband has no idea. The sex I am having with my boyfriend is so great and I love getting his *** inside of me.

To elaborate, I pay two mortgages, her cell phone, insurance, and credit card bills. She helps by pays 250 a month, covers utilities, I pay the other 2000. Just paid for 2 sets of plane tickets, $2400. And she wants me to pay the entirety of a cruise for the Summer, 1500. Its for her sisters wedding in leaving out of Long beach. I am up to my neck in her debt accumulated with her. I ve had it. And when I saw the text, i wrote her friend an email to explain the dues that we ve accumulated. She s mad about that. What can I do to let her know that she needs to take responsibility?

Is it ok to be turned on by their belly buttons since those aren't genitals? How would you feel walking in on your husband or wife masturbating to pictures of babies belly buttons? The reason i ask is because I'm a married man and i am sexually turned on by them. I often think about poking, fingering, licking and flicking​ babies belly buttons. Sometimes I turn my own belly button inside out and put an electric toothbrush on it and pretend I'm a baby having my belly button violated. I have this fantasy where my wife ties me up while I'm in a diaper with my belly button turned inside out and she's talking to me like a baby while she plays with my belly button. She doesn't suspect anything about this. Should I risk it all by telling her?