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So my GF has stated before to me she doesn't want to be proposed to on a holiday which is fine simple enough, well her best friend is coming into town from N Carolinas Iowa and I want to involve her friend which the friend is onboard with however it's Mother's Day weekend Friday-Sunday and was going to propose on Saturday the day before Mother's Day is that to much considered as a holiday? Just kind of looking for opinions thank you (NEITHER OF US ARE PARENTS)

My husband and I got married in a very quick jop wedding and are planning on having a re-do with friends and family in the summer. My husband and I have had some falling outs with his teenage daughter due to her being a pathological liar, thief, and generally not being trustworthy. She no longer lives with us. We plan on having a "money tree" at our wedding, and my worry is that any gifts, cards or money given by our guests will somehow "disappear". she has stolen money and things that weren t hers so many times, it s like if it s there it s automatically hers. My husband doesn t think she will, but given her history i can t help but feel apprehensive about it. I already have anxiety when it comes to anything with her because she has hurt, lied to and stolen from everyone who she comes in contact with, especially her own family. We never even had a chance to develop any sort of relationship because of this. Deep down I don t want her there, but she is still my husband s kid and it would not be fair nor right to say no to that.