Recently my father and brother, both of which I had a great relationship with, moved away leaving me with my mother. We never had a great relationship to begin with but its been getting worse. She ignores any feelings/problems I have. I came home crying hoping for support but all I got was yelling for ruining her day. When I try to talk to her about our relationship she makes herself the victim which results in me feeling guilty and not resolving it. Anytime she does something that I dont like (ex.telling her friends my personal things) and I try to calmly tell her to not do that, she just waves her hand at me and again yells at me ruining her day. Any problem I try to talk to her about somehow gets flipped to being her problem so it ends up with me comforting her instead of her comforting me. It has become physically abusive as well. Recently after a seemingly small argument (i wanted help lighting the fireplace but she was busy so I did it myself) she burst into my room, started throwing down and smashing my things, threw items at me so i got a bruise leaving me to clean up. My friends think she is the nicest mother (she really is nice when anyone comes around thankfully) so when i try to reach out to anyone they don't believe me. im worried they will think im making things up for attention. I have a hard time opening up since I couldnt do that my whole life with my own mother. I really dont mean to sound like a bratty 16 year old I just dont know what to do. Please help.

This guy with who I talk most of the time flirts with me, he went on dates with me when I invited him, sex text me, etc.. however every time we talk at a certain point he needs to say but when did I say I like you? Just to get me mad.. he says that Its funny when I'm mad.. but when we fight.. which is most of the time he dismiss from everything and says, he never made me believe anything, do whatever I want.. etc.. why does he do so? Does he genuinely love me?

He is disabled, rarely leaves the house and has more or less given up on daily normal life. Yet, he is ok with this behavior on his part. I have taken care of him regardless of his attitudes or depression. He refuses to take his anxiety med and has informed me he wants to know what will happen if he stops taking his heart meds now. I have stood by my husband through child support from his past child, his being a workaholic and literally putting his family in the background for many years, but I don t honestly know if im a positive influence in his world or if I m being sentenced to watch him slowly die. Sadly, his only concern is our sex life. I love my husband and would love to be more intimate yet he makes it difficult to not notice that he cares about little else in our life. My questions to his Dr. We re simple. He won t walk as prescribed so does he need a wheel chair? Is there a better way to treat his depression. Notes... his mother and sister are live in the dark, stay away from others, don t answer the door to anyone extremely strange folks. My husband lives in front of the tv, only leaves the property for Dr. Appt s one day a year and recently one trip a month to Walmart for his personal grocery must haves. The Walmart trip once a month just started. The tv is on glaring when I m trying to sleep no matter what time I have to be up. Physically I am exhausted and mentally I feel like I m on a roller coaster.

I mean, they are hot as hell... but I'm a girl... and dont know much about either lol

I just want to love him. I never felt like that towards anyone but you. You hurt me really badly and he's so lovable... There's just no other word for it. Well there is but they will only make you feel bad. I'm not going to love Adrian, yos I already love you. All you have to do at this point is come back ASAP, come clean, and be yourself. Not abuse me verbally or physically and that's it. I'm pretending Adrian doesn't care about me. Easier for me that way. I'm suffering enough without having to face that I've been stringing a man along for 5 years. Tell him I hope he's OK and thank him for being there for us and putting up with having to watch our se'x and all... All just all, nobody should suffer what we made Adrian go through. The two of us humping in our fake bodies. Oh dear God...

was dating this guy for months and who was a year out of an on and off 5 year relationship with his ex. When we started dating I knew this, but he vowed he would never get back with her or hook up with her. Unfortunately this week he ended up meeting up with her and they hooked up. Since then he's apologized and I forgave him and he asked me if we could stay friends while he decided what he wanted to do. I agreed to stay friends but now im having second thoughts? I dont want him to forget about me if i decide not stay his friend, but at the same time i'm risking being friend zoned (we still are intimate), or him deciding he does want to give his ex another shot... NO idea what to do.

I noticed periodically that there will be 1, 2 or a few entries in my bfs search history that make it look like he googled "cameltoe" along with a Tumblr blog dedicated to that topic. But I already talked to him about doing that but most of all, the searches show up between searches for our Hair salon or movie showings r his mom's obituary. It seems strange he would suddenly google Cameltoe in this middle of those searches. And I know those entries are in there at times when he and I are together and i doubt hed ever Google that right next to me especially after voicing my distaste of it.

I have a friend and she is 17 years old I told her a secret that I have a boyfriend and I told her to not tell anybody so now I'm here in the UAE and she is in SUD she told everybody I know especially my family and now I'm in a big trouble and I want to get revenge on her in a distance way could you please help me?😭😭😩😩

A few days ago I found out that my married manager has been flirting with me and also making comments about how my coworker looked good with hoops and how she should wear them more often and when I heard that I kinda just got fed up with it and told my female manager how I think it's just inappropriate for him to be flirting around when he's married and today I asked my female manager if she talked to him and she said the GM talked to him and said no more comments, no nothing, strictly work and I got a bit sad because I didn't mean to make so we can't socialize with each other anymore I just wanted to stop flirting with me, like I still wanted to talk to him but about normal things actually becuase I did enjoy talking to him and now I feel like if I had just talked to him it would've have been like this, like how does the GM just expect us to ignore each other when we work together and kinda have to talk to each other. And in a way I feel like it was more about us than it is with him flirting with my coworker. Do you think I should've talked to him first about it? Now I everytime I work with him I feel or see him I get pissed and sad. Do you think it was selfish of me to do that?

Whenever people tell me they love me or they say I'm good at something, I always feel uncomfortable and shakey and want to hide from everyone

My ex and I broke up around 3 years ago mutually due to 'losing the spark'. We were together for 3 years before we broke up. About a year after we broke up I found out that she had moved on, it broke my heart but I accepted it and I was happy for her. After 3years of barely speaking, we finally spoke on Valentine's Day this year and in that message she sent me a pic of a valentines present that I gave her almost 4 years ago and she said that she never knew how weird it could be to go from talking and seeing someone all the time to not talking at all, she also asked if I had met anyone I said no then she went on to say that she wonders how things would be if we were still together.After that she said that she hoped I can find someone that makes me happy because I deserve it.I was shocked she said that but I just said the same back. At the end of this conversation she said bye and told me to 'stay in touch'.After this I sent her a pic of a place where I used to take her and asked if she remembers she said yeah and asked who I was with but the convo ended when she didn't reply. it seemed as though we were close again as she remembered everything including that it's my birthday in a few weeks and jokingly said that I should start thinking about 'settling down' bcos I'm getting old. I have tried to get over her but after 3 years I'm still not over her and after we talked recently I'm beginning to think that still might have feelings for me, could there still be a chance?

She is like half my age....she locks eyes with me all time...but never ever a smile .....I am like 35 and she is 22 or something ....everytime I see her she iz just staring at me with no smile .....what does it mean ? ...

Also, can you guess which one is my sister?

Okay so there is this guy I use to date about 3 years ago and recently he messaged on facebook.I went to his profile and see that he is married now.I decided to block him because now I am in a relationship a good relationship with my brother and I do not want to mess things up for us.So yesterday I got an email saying that he messaged me again but from a different profile.My question is should I tell his wife since she is also on his Facebook page or should I just leave it alone?

What would you do if you fell in love with a guy, you two got into a very healthy relationship. Time passes and the guy is comfortable in the relationship, he doesn't tell you "I love you" everyday like he used to, but you haven't quite reached his stage yet and have the need to hear those words. Overthinking whenever he doesn't give you that affection, because the change seems so drastic. It went from a longdistance relationship where we'd skype call and play video games for 8-12 hours a day to calling 2 hours a day and I appreciate what we have, but I still get upset by him not being as present. (Please do not imply that he may be cheating, because of the lack of time. He has proved with everything that he actually lacks time). I'm always overthinking. For example, if i were to tell him that "I'm going to be busy today, I'll talk to you later!", he'd just think: "Oh, okay, she's busy today!". Yet, if he told me "I'm going to be busy today!", I'd think: "I wonder if I did something wrong" and then proceed to get really upset. He gives me all the assurance I need, but yet, it seems to him like I don't trust him, because of all the assurance I need. I do! But I'm always blaming myself for completely pointless things and overthinking. I'm a very emotional and clingy person, and he's fine with that, but I fear that my anxiety may tire him out sooner or later! Please help.

I'm 32, 2 years ago I met a 40 year old Filipina lady online, we have been dating ever since. She lives n Kuwait in the UAE, and was planning on going home to the Philippines, I was going to met her there in the Philippines. So she went home just the other month. I can't reach her ever since.. not at all.. it's like she doesn't even want to bother with me and I can't figure out why.. we both loved eachother and it was just at surprise I would meet this great lady online and love her so much! I even met her kids online and her family. I always made time for her online even when I was working. We Skyped almost every night and we had a good thing going I even tried messaging her kids to ask if she's ok..no reply.. don't know what to do. Please don't flame me it throw trolling insults. I'm being sincere...

its a long story but just recently I found out my manager was married and got pissed because he would constantly flirt with me and playfully touch me and have back and fourth banters and this was all before I even found out, and when I did I thought that we could just talk normal to each other like short conversations or something but he kept on flirting with me still and saying weird things like you know I'm always here for you and that's my girl and I don't know it's just confusing and just yesterday I found out he's been doing the same thing to one of my coworkers, he said something about how hooped earings looked good on her and she should wear them more often and she was like 17 anyway I got so fed up and just told my female manager that's he's been flirting and how inappropriate I think it is and today our GM talked to him and she told me no more comments, no nothing, strictly work or something and I got kinda upset because I did enjoy talking to him for the most part when he wasn't being flirty and now I feel like i can't even talk to him and I like talking to everyone at my work I mean I talk to all my coworkers all the time about random things but to him I feel like I can't even say hi or ask him for anything and today when I came in he was kind of like in the corner making fries and being in the back, I felt he was quite and now I'm wondering if it's something personal. Do you think it is?

I already know what you're all going to say, but hear me out. He is my manager or one of them. I am 26, he's 25 and married. I respect that and would never jeopardize that. Plus, we're friends on Facebook and he's always posting about their marriage and everything. He also talks about her often, they're definitely still in love after all these years (they've been together since he was 16). My issue is that I have fallen very hard for him. Keep in mind he does nothing to cause this. Ever since he has figured out how I feel about him, he's kept his distance. He has stopped interacting on Facebook ("liking" or commenting my posts), he didn't accept my add on Snapchat so I removed it, he only interacts with me at work when he needs me to do something, etc. We used to flirt a little, but nothing was meant by it. My 55 year old co-worker even said he was a flirt, although he really doesn't seem to mean to. He's just a goofy guy in general. My question is, what do I do to get over this? I have an FWB, who I have feelings for, but he doesn't want a relationship for a while due to a recent heart break. Everybody at my job is on a temporary hiatus due to remodeling and a contract was drawn up saying if I leave within 2 months of re-opening, I have to pay them roughly $200. Therefore, I am stuck there until at least July. I think the only thing that really gets to me is how much torture it is not being able to have the same interaction we did before. I get it, but it sucks. Back in January, he wouldn't tell me "happy birthday" in person, but he did on a Facebook wall post. It's like he'd get reprimanded somehow for wishing me a happy birthday in person or something. Marie, a few ways he found out I liked him. I'm very obvious without knowing it. I accidentally drunk called him on FB messenger on New Years Eve (I hung up before he could answer, but still...I was obviously thinking of him), I gave him extra candy in his gift bag (for Christmas, I gave all my managers, as well as my work friends gift bags full of candy), etc. Anon, I typically see him 4-5 days a week at work, but haven't seen him in a month due to this hiatus. And I can't think of anything off the top of my head, but they weren't purposefully flirty. Yes Rebecca, alymorr00@yahoo.com and it is so much more than a crush or physical attraction. I can be away from him, like I have been, but it's the little things that trigger the pain of missing him. Every time a coworker brings his name up or when another coworker has him in their Snap story or the fact that his brother is now manager at my local grocery store. Teresa, oh yeah that is SO easy! Why didn't I think of that!?!!? -_- Seriously.

Would I be born to a different mother or father?

Today I made the mistake of looking through my teenage daughter's phone when she walked away. She's the kind of girl who makes her password her birthday. Anyways I found some really dirty conversations between her and multiple boys. Not only did I find out that my 13 year old daughter has multiple sexual partners, I also found out she has been sending nude pictures. In addition, I also found out she regularly cheats on her boyfriend and has been drinking alcohol. What do I do now?

Here's why everything sucks. I get that people don't give a **** about me - but that's okay. I'm okay with that - well, kind of, but I understand that. Like it's fine that no one gives a **** about me, that doesn't really bother me anymore (not that it didn't at one point, but whatever). What really ******* sucks a **** ton is that those people who don't give a **** about you get to have power over your life. When you're younger you don't have that control, and sure you're told to get help, but then the few times you get it, that's hardly what it turns out to be. It's just a bunch of strangers telling you you need to get over it - stop being a bratty teen, tough it out, just accept it. But I can't. I really sincerely ******* can't, and I know that's ******* dumb to say, but guess what? I'm kind of a **** so yeah. Just, there's not a person, there's not a place that I can just know that it's okay to be whatever I am at that point in time in a way that matters, and yeah that's kind of my fault too, but at the same time, every time I have tried **** hasn't ever worked out. I don't know, it just seems like when people tell you to get help it's supposed to work, people are supposed to be understanding or on your side or whatever, but I guess that was kinda dumb to assume. The shitty part is that I don't even have an excuse for feeling this way. I mean, I'm ****** up because of my parents, but who isn't? There's no like major trauma or whatever, and it's not like everything's shitty all the time, or at least you know when you're around people and you smile or whatever and then you believe it but then they walk away and all of it comes back, just yeah that suckiness of everything in the world ever even though life isn't even that ******* bada But thanks for listening, that's dope,, Bye, well maybe, but I don't know yet, but bye

So i m in high school and there s this cute girl that looks at me from afar a lot and but when she s up close walking by me, she tends to look somewhere else. We haven t ever talked but we have been schoolmates for about 5-6 years. She is a shy girl so could that be the reason she does that? Thanks in advance

So there s this guy in my class (I m in college) and he sits in the same row as me, like two seats away. I ve spoken to him before because he was in the same group as me for a project earlier this semester. When I was in the group he would avoid eye contact with me and act subtly rude to me. Also, a few weeks ago, he sat in the seat next to me, and when I sat down in my usual seat, he moved away after a minute and moved back to his usual seat (2 seats away). Then a few days ago, he did the same thing! So weird. I felt like I was repulsive or something! What do you think about this?

I am 21 and I was having a conversation with a 15 year old, the parents called the law, and I am being charged with statutory chat. The legal age to chat is 16 in this state. If I went to Canada, would they look for me there?

I've been with my boyfriend for over two years. We have our ups and downs but he makes me super happy and I wouldn't trade him for anyone personality wise. But when I really think about it I don't really get attracted to guys physically. Their appearance, sexually, etc. We have sex quite a bit and lately it's just been like a chore and doesnt feel right. I'd give anything to have a girl with his exact personality. I just don't know what to do. I love him with everything I have and we've been through so much but the physical attraction is just barely there anymore. I want some vagina in my life again lol. I would be so disappointed if I hurt him though. What should I do? And threesomes are weird for me, I'd probably get really jealous and it just wouldn't be fun.

We have been together for 15 years. He had a drug problem on and off the last five. Stealing, etc. It put a strain on our marriage. He finally goes to rehab. Has a good job now. but our home was destroyed due to a flood two months ago and I have reason to believe he may have caused it. It's finally under construction. We had to live in a temp house though and he picked fights with me and it finally got to a point where he left and is in his dads basement for two months now. He has no remorse. I'm having a hard time dealing with all of this. What do you make of this ? Back on drugs, although he is working. Or guilt maybe?

i did it wi my brotha nd he is sayign i is pragmatic neigh with hi babby? how do i chek?!

I have a friend in my neighborhood who wants me to roommate with him, his brother, and girlfriend. Their mother moved out months ago and havent had untilities on since December. They recently got them on only because i gave 250$ and they pawned my playstation and the other girl helped and he donated plasma. He hasnt had a job since january because i got him one with me and lost it after two weeks. The other girl had a job but quit because she did drugs the night before and didnt come in that morning so she figured her boss already terminated her. I felt a little pressuered into ot because he kept bringimg it up and it seemed like it was falling on me to make it happen. I feel like i shouldnt because he has horrible work ethic and almost got me fired from another job and goes to work when he feels like it, but i feel like ive been yanked into it because they. used my money and stuff to get bills on. They struggled to get the money for each bill because no one has a job and ive told them im not paying bills im a house full of adults who wont work so ive given them 30 days to get jobs or im leaving. At first it seemed like it would work cause it sounded like we had enough money for a few months untilities but it was only enough for water and they recently got electric on by pawning the PlayStation without my knowledge. I said i would at first but i changed my mind and wrote him saying i wouldnt contibute anymore until they got jobs. Thoughts?

Even my own mother got irritated with me... look I totally get it can be frustrating to answer the same question but my bf is just MAD at me and he screams back it louder. I Feel so worthless, am I worthless ? I'm just going to stay out of everyone's way and not go to gatherings.

The last tree-four weeks he started to forget things. And the last 3 days he was not able to eat right. Actually he can not eat at all. We have asked the hospital what should we do, and they said that its impossible to put him on medicine because he might die from heart attack. What should i do? Please i really need your help.

I love my father dearly. Even more than my spouse. Of course I am closer to my spouse but I love my father as much or even more than my spouse. My father isn't just any random dad off the street. He is the only parent I've ever seen in my life who would take such unprecedented sacrifices for his children. He loves me so much and I could tell that he will always be beside me even after his passing. Is it ok to cherish a father more than your own spouse? right now, i take care of my father a lot in every single way possible.

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Today I have a dance class that is one hour and a half away from my home and I don't want to dance today I'm too tired and stressed with homework but my mom always urge me to dance anyway even when I have a freaking fever!!!! My homework is way more important than just some dance class! Some of my friends that dance sometimes don't go to dance class cuz they don't feel like it and their parents allow that! My mom says she doesn't want to waste money after not taking a class I'm supposed to. Whenever I tell her I don't want to dance today or something and give her a good excuse why she gets all mad and throws things at me! Please help me find a good excuse and I can't fake being sick either because my mom knows if I am faking or not she has a very good sense so please help me!!!

I'm wanting to have a get together for my dad with stage 4 prostate cancer. He has responded incredibly well to chemo and is doing well. I've seen people do this on Pinterest and google Is this weird to do? Just a small get together with my dads family and friends and a cookout. Thoughts? Thank you.

I am 15 and last night I lost my virginity to my 18 year old boyfriend in my bed. My parents were out for the evening. I did not use condoms because I wanted my boyfriend to *** inside of me. The sex felt so good and form now on I will never use condoms when I am having sex. I am so happy I just turned 15 2 weeks ago and I am now having sex. I am going to have sex again today and not use any condoms.

When I asked her, she was very nervous. Almost confused? My sister and I took a walk together and did some jogging. The landlord was NOT happy, but she has always been stuck up. The rabbit is okay. After we took him to the vet when Tim told me everything was going to be fine and that when we go to the restaurant tomorrow, I should invite her. Then Sarah (that's her name) agreed and now Beth (her sister) is going to call the landlord? Beth and I never got along. After the thanksgiving we had together, things can't be the same again. I shouldn't have gone to the vet and now I think Tim is mad at me because of it. The birdhouse I built for him was suppose to be an apology and he faked a smile and pretended to be happy. I know I ruined everything and things can't be the same with Beth and I anymore. I don't know what's wrong. Sarah keeps telling me that Tim is going to the restaurant alone if I don't go, because then Beth won't go and Sarah would be upset and the landlord would be mad because Beth would call her to complain. I'm just nervous about the birdhouse and if Beth is going to be okay after the divorce with her and his wife. I tried to be normal and I can't pretend to be okay anymore. I love her. He's not fit to run. On Saturday, Beth even bought him new shoes and I don't know what else they did, but when they got back, I could see how upset Sarah was about it. It's like everyone is becoming each others enemies and the landlord only makes it much worse. Please help

1) I am a Chinese gay man, in China, nearly all men are going to get married. 2) yesterday , I went to a gay massage dark room. and I had sex with an elder guy, who during the motion, I recognized to be my father by the intermittent dim lamplight. 3) I am going to commit suicide now.

1) I am a gay, I can tell most gay are racists. 2) we are discriminated by the society, and we need some other groups of people we assume lower than us to denigrate . 3) we like men's body , we like penis from every race, but we show indifference to their minds and their personalities. gay focus on sex most. this makes us genuine racists. 4) we can tell which race have bigger penis, and which we wish to have sex with, but we gay people never truly respect a race. we don't care such a thing as race equality. we just need penis from other races. 5) I am a gay of 20 years active history. I am not a hypocrite. I tell the scary truth , probably not accepted by many other people with superficial and shallow minds.

I used to be close with my cousins aand they're blood but as I got older I kept distance and usually hung out with friends, but they every left my side. We only see each other now in family parties. Recently my older cousin invited me to go to a concert with her but I'm scared I might act awkward cause I don't talk to them like I do with friends ? Any suggestions? Should I just not go?

I have been having marital issues lately and my boss dug and got the info about it. He has begun to ask me if I am dating anyone and if I am behaving with guys. He also has asked (in a roundabout way) if I am intimate with any guy friends. I am not offended by his questions, because we get along great- but recently he asked me if I was going out with any guy friends this weekend and told me he doesnt like me going with other guys and asked if I "really meant it" when I said I hung out with other people. He has comforted me and rubbed my hand when I was crying once and seems to know details about my personal life that I do not share with others. Why does he even care about what I do? He does not ask other female workers these questions and usually waits until we are not in the office to ask this stuff.

Whenever someone talks to me about their problems or asks me about something, mostly my sister, I don't know how to respond or how to talk them through it. I'm bad at giving advice and I always say the same thing. I'm also an awkward guy. Even at school, when my crush talks to me about her problems, I don't know how to respond, then my other friend joins in and my crush tells him what she told me and my friend knows exactly what to say.

I'm on business overseas from April 1st - July 1st. I miss my kids terribly and I've been feeling very depressed. I have 8 year old and a 9 month old. I've never had to be away on business like this and hopefully never will have to be ever again. I just feel horrible. I am trying to immerse myself in my work. Any other advice? Thanks.

I have a 1 week old baby girl. I have no emotions toward her whatsoever. Her dad left when I was 8 months pregnant so im a single mom. How can I give her up for adoption?

Can somebody really do this?

I create my daughter different from other parents, I'm a liberal mother with her, I'm modern, I always talk to her about the dangers of life, I'm liberal, when she does the housework she can leave, I'm not let her go to the ballad by herself And sleeping the night away because she is only 16, the solution is to educate I was conservative with my other daughter and she was rebellious, but everyone says that she will get pregnant and will become a slut. Men are the ones who criticize me the most, I demand that she get a job

There's this guy (he is 48 am 32) that always compliments my hair every single time he sees me and sometimes it's a compliment he throws at me at the end of our conversation. Normally it's " that hair color really suits you" or " Looks good long like that, never cut it " I haven't done anything new to my hair it's been blonde and long for a while. He doesn't seem gay. We do work together at the same office building. Lately he throws in "babe" when he talks to me. He started working at the office around the same time as me, about 6 months ago. He use to just be polite; but now he seems a bit more bold. Does he seem interested or is he just being friendly ? He is an extrovert type so am not sure what to make of it. Do men continue complimenting women if they aren't interested ?