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- Question: My mom hit me today I don t know what to do?
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Question: My grandpa won't let me ride my dirtbike? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 01:40 PM PDT every year in school i get kicked out so i made a deal with my grandpa saying i dont get kicked out of school he will buy me a dirt bike it was about the 4th marking period of school and school wasn't over yet but i found the right bike for sale and we bought it he said if i get kicked out i can't ride it well a week later i went to rtc and they suspended me for a day and know he hasn't let me rode it and he said i can't ride it all summer what do i do? |
Question: Adult children refuse to move out. Help? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 01:30 PM PDT I never wanted my kids but they are 17 and 18. I took them out of school in 8th grade, I never let them go back. I refuse to teach them how to drive. I refuse to give them an ssn and an ID. I refuse to get them a bike. They refuse to walk 15 miles to get to public transportation. For 17 and 18 years I have spent very minimal money on them, I buy them cheap food from dollar tree while wife and I we buy expensive for us. They have no money. I want to kick them out on Christmas Day this year. My wife says I'm wrong but I do not think I am since 17 and 18 are basically adults? |
Question: My mom hit me today I don t know what to do? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 01:14 PM PDT So my mom has hit me in the past.. But today my brother was acting wild he was running and messing things up in the house he is 5 years old and was also fighting with my sister which is 7 years old. My mom had enough and hit them both. I felt bad and told her "you are such a bad parent" she said it was none of my business and hit me.I cried in my room and just wanted to leave forever and report her but I m scared to do that because we could get separated. She also verbally says mean things a lot and hits us sometimes. I could say we get annoying and she gets stressed out but should she do this??? She has a boyfriend who i personally don t like he hurts my moms feelings as well..Maybe I should report her but eh I m scared😭 By the way I m 13 years old and female. |
Question: How soon can you move out of your parents house ? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 01:05 PM PDT I'm 17 I live in New Mexico, I'll be 18 in November. How soon can I move out? And when will it be legal for me to move out? Does it have to midnight of the night I turn 18? Like let's say I turn 18 on the second and it's the first, can I leave that night? I know what you are thinking. Short story is. My mom is crazy, she hits me, says she hates me wishes I was never alive, once I try leaving etc… she calls the cops and says I'm a runaway. So when is it legal enough for me to leave? Thank you |
Question: How do I get over my anger? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 01:01 PM PDT So, I turned 13 three months ago. Since then I've been getting kinda depressed and really angry randomly. I don't know if this is just something that teenagers go through, or if I am really angry. My dad said I am becoming "a brat" which is something he had never said to my brother when he was a teenager. Whenever he calls me a brat I go to my room and start crying. I always snap at people whenever they say something stupid, and I really want to learn how to be calmer. Please help! |
Question: Why does this person keep calling us? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 12:59 PM PDT Someone keeps calling our family phone number at around the same time or sometimes at random times. I'm only 15 and I was home alone when I picked it up - that person just laughed at me. I hung up scared cause I was home alone. I looked up the first few digits of the number online and it said a US state has that number. Which is unusual because I'm from Canada and I don't have any American friends in real life. I'm sure my parents probably do, but it's unlikely that they would do this. I think it's a guy, and sometimes he says nothing. Sometimes he says something crazy or just laughs. I'm scared that someone may be stalking us? Or maybe it's just some kid from Florida fooling around and getting themselves in trouble by scaring people on phone calls. I haven't mentioned this to my parents, they usually just hang up if the person is speaking something they don't understand because they don't speak any English at all. I'm usually home alone after school and this weird person keeps spamming calls. I'm not familiar about how to block certain people but I just hang up whenever they call. |
Question: Why is my older sister so shy and quiet? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 12:22 PM PDT My 17 year old sister is very shy and quiet, she also doesn't enjoy being around people and prefers to stay alone in her room instead. She always has been like that and I'm not trying to say that there's something wrong with her, it's totally fine and I love her the way she is. I'm just wondering why she is like that when everyone else in our family is super talkative and enjoys socializing. I mean she was raised by our parents who are really outgoing, around people all the time and talking all day. The rest of the family is also like our parents so shouldn't my sister be outgoing too when she has been around outgoing and talkative people her whole life? |
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Question: How do I keep my Dad from imposing his ignorance onto me? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 11:13 AM PDT |
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Posted: 14 Apr 2017 11:00 AM PDT I ve been living with my dad and my stepmom for three years. Throughout those years my stepmom has insulted me and my family saying that I am a b*tch, a prostitute, a witch and drug addict for no reason. My dad knows about ALL that, the only thing he says to me is to ignore her and to focus on my education, I had never disrespected my stepmother, every time she says something just to confront me, the only thing I do is just hear what she has to say and go without saying a word. For three years it has been like that, my mom doesn t know anything about it because I don t want her to worry and, if she knew about it, I couldn t go live with her because she is in another country. One time my little sister came to my room and my stepmom punished her, I love my stepbrothers but I stay away from them because I don t want them to get in trouble and it breaks my heart hearing all the things my stepmom says to them so they hate me. She says bad things about me to people, which aren t even true. I can t stand living with her anymore, but I m just 15, I ask my dad if I could get a part-time job because I want to save money until I m 18 , finish high school and move out of his house. I love my dad and my brothers but I can t handle my stepmom s insults. Please give me some advice on how at least get along with my situation 🙏. |
Question: Why does drug user carry around tissue? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 10:34 AM PDT My dad is a drug user I believe he uses Meth and he thinks I don't know he still does it but I certainly know. I'm 20 btw. Well last night he spent the night at our house and he left his jacket so I decided to look through his pockets. Yeah I know I'm being nosey I have no right blah blah blah. Whatever. I found 4 wads of napkins, and 2 lighters. But I would like to know why he carries so much tissue with him. Over the past 3/4 years he always has tissue in his hand or in his pockets when he gets change out. Why ? |
Posted: 14 Apr 2017 10:33 AM PDT I then instructed her to to do another function, without her asking me. She became indignant and tells me "you don't have to tell me that - I know what I'm doing." Of course I pointed out that if she knew what she was doing she would not have asked me all the questions. Startinf an argument. What's her problem? I then instructed her to to do another function, without her asking me. She became indignant and tells me "you don't have to tell me that - I know what I'm doing." Of course I pointed out that if she knew what she was doing she would not have asked me all the questions. Starting an argument. What's her problem? |
Question: Ladies who drive would you do this? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 10:16 AM PDT I will be leaving soon to drive to my parents house for Easter. I have a 5 hour drive so to be more comfortable I am going to drive in my bare feet and keep my shoes on the passengers seat out of the way. |
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Question: What would happen if I were to call the police on my mom? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 09:19 AM PDT My mom has not been a stereotypical mother for a long time. I am 14. She must have mental health issues. Ever since I entered middle school, she has "gone crazy," for lack of a better term. She's incredibly controlling & strict. She takes my phone the moment I get back from school and keeps it during the weekend, & refuses to let me hang out with friends. She's also just an embarrassing person. She's extremely rude & cheap, refusing to dine out without a coupon. We live in a good life and my dad has a very good job, but she still insists that we get treated like we are poor, which I am so grateful that we are not. In public places, she obsesses over her phone & stands on it in the middle of crowded store aisles & even parking lots, where she's almost caused car accidents many times. I try to talk to her while she's texting, and her response is always "Mhm" or "Shut up." She hates me so much. She's talked about giving me up for adoption MULTIPLE times & I really want that. I can't deal with her. She hits me & goads me into fighting with her all the time. She slaps me, hits me with chairs. Sometimes she just sits down and screams for minutes on end. She's called cops on me before for disobeying an order, like when she told me to go in time out and I refused to abide such a childish rule. They never listen to me when I try to tell them my feelings. She calls me names, tells me to go die, and believes that I am the Devil when she's not even religious. Ugh, Yahoo Answer limits. I have good grades of A's and B's. My mother is not employed. She literally does not get along with other in a professional environment. I am so scared of her, I keep a pocket knife on me at all times when I am home alone with her. She is so vile and expresses her feelings on how she just wants me, her own daughter, dead. Please help me. I want options, too, not just calling the police. Ugh, Yahoo Answer limits. I have good grades of A's and B's. My mother is not employed. She literally does not get along with other in a professional environment. I am so scared of her, I keep a pocket knife on me at all times when I am home alone with her. She is so vile and expresses her feelings on how she just wants me, her own daughter, dead. Please help me. I want options, too, not just calling the police. Ugh, Yahoo Answer limits. I have good grades of A's and B's. My mother is not employed. She literally does not get along with other in a professional environment. I am so scared of her, I keep a pocket knife on me at all times when I am home alone with her. She is so vile and expresses her feelings on how she just wants me, her own daughter, dead. Please help me. I want options, too, not just calling the police. |
Question: What would happen if I were to call the police on my mom? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 09:19 AM PDT My mom has not been a stereotypical mother for a long time. I am 14. She must have mental health issues. Ever since I entered middle school, she has "gone crazy," for lack of a better term. She's incredibly controlling & strict. She takes my phone the moment I get back from school and keeps it during the weekend, & refuses to let me hang out with friends. She's also just an embarrassing person. She's extremely rude & cheap, refusing to dine out without a coupon. We live in a good life and my dad has a very good job, but she still insists that we get treated like we are poor, which I am so grateful that we are not. In public places, she obsesses over her phone & stands on it in the middle of crowded store aisles & even parking lots, where she's almost caused car accidents many times. I try to talk to her while she's texting, and her response is always "Mhm" or "Shut up." She hates me so much. She's talked about giving me up for adoption MULTIPLE times & I really want that. I can't deal with her. She hits me & goads me into fighting with her all the time. She slaps me, hits me with chairs. Sometimes she just sits down and screams for minutes on end. She's called cops on me before for disobeying an order, like when she told me to go in time out and I refused to abide such a childish rule. They never listen to me when I try to tell them my feelings. She calls me names, tells me to go die, and believes that I am the Devil when she's not even religious. I live in Florida. She also puts me in debt for doing things that parenting requires. The other day I was throwing up in school and the nurse demanded that she pick me up. Later that day, she began yelling at me for being such a burden, and said that the moment I get a job I have to pay her back for all the car rides that she has given me. I'm also extremely depressed and suicidal. I understand that there's orphans, people without parents, or people with drug addict parents who "have it worse," and my heart truly goes out to them. However, that still does not make my living situation tolerable. |
Question: How do I avoid being rejected by family? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 09:13 AM PDT It is my worst fear and it is a fear I spend several hours a day thinking about. Growing up my mom told me we had been rejected by her family but it turned out that was a lie and her family was at odds with my mom but not rejecting us kids. |
Question: How to handle things at my job? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 09:13 AM PDT I m a caregiverror for my aunt who s disabled. She s extremely sick & overweight & out of the (literally) 15 pills she takes 12 of them make her sleepy so she sleeps a lot. My uncle is very sick as well & has HORRIBLE issues with his blood sugar therefore his mood is up & down. They have a 9 year old daughter who my aunt doesn t discipline at all & my uncle tries to discipline but has more or less given up. She s extremely rude to me & cusses like a sailor. Her parents let her walk around in just her underwear which personally I think is a tad inappropriate for a child her age. & it makes me uncomfortable just cause anything can be said by someone (my aunts nurses) who come in & say something & it ll be a huge mess. She constantly tells me to f*** off & that I m a c u next Tuesday & asks me VERY personal questions about my sexual life. My aunt & uncle don t do anything about this even tho I ve voiced my opinion & I m honestly getting really annoyed with it. Because they sleep a lot I never know what I m supposed to do here to tidy the place up. I ve done what I normally do when they re asleep but then they tell me to just wait till they get up cause they don t know until they wake up what needs to be done. I really can t lose this job. I m just looking for ways to make it more bearable. Thoughts? |
Question: Is it really too hard to find someone to talk or discuss? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 08:48 AM PDT Male here, i feel so strange & awkward about myself about the situation i am into these days, trying very hard to calm my mind and trying harder to make some friends to talk or to discuss life. I am looking for opinion about my situation i am going through. I don't have friends at all, i am all alone. No one to talk, or discuss the things to get someone's opinion. I am wondering why it's too hard to find someone to talk at least. I don't want to be alone. I need people to communicate, as it's in my behavior. I believe in communicating the things with healthy mind set. Please anyone, who is willing to talk? |
Question: Is this comment from my friend: Supportive, Catty or Indifferent? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 07:06 AM PDT After receiving a job offer she said wow, and congrats but afterwards she texted me saying, "I hope it is a good department". Is that phrase: Supportive, Catty or indifferent in your opinion? |
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Question: What would you do in this situation? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 06:06 AM PDT A couple weeks ago, there was a car in front of my house sitting there for hours. My mom and I thought nothing of it, although we decided to take photos of the car. After a while, the car drove off. A few weeks later after my older sister and my dad went to work, the car came back. My mom tried to wait until the car would leave again, keep in mind that she doesn't know it's the same car so she doesn't think much of it. Out of no where, the man gets out of his car and he tries to open our door. He starts shaking our door knob violently. Luckily, we always keep the doors locked. Also, I forgot to mention that my mom was home alone at this moment. Anyways, she freaks out and she asks them what they want. He then knocks on the door and he says something in English. Although, my mom doesn't understand since she doesn't speak English. (I know, it's really frustrating) The man leaves when my mom mentions calling the cops. Again, a few weeks later or yesterday, the man came and sat in my driveway for hours. Although, this time my mom wasn't home alone. The man never got out of his car and left in minutes. I don't know what to do. It's been making me anxious for days. I wanna call the cops but we don't have his licence plate number. We also don't know if he's an innocent guy and if he is just misunderstood. |
Question: I HATE my older brother.. I wanna get rid of him from my life..?!!? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 04:19 AM PDT I'm 16 and he's 3 years older than me. He acts as if he knows EVERYTHING. He think he's better than everyone. He dropped out of school saying "They were too stupid, I couldn't stand it." And he cuss EVERYTIME. Like, he's just sitting on chair doing nothing, but he have to cuss anyways because he want to. He think it's okay for him to hurt others, but not okay for others to hurt him. He hit me, and I get bruised. I always try to avoid arguing but he make things up just to argue me and hurt me. And when I try to stop arguing cause I get tired of it so much, he says "That's all you've got. Because you're retarded." He never EVER admit it when he's wrong about something. He doesn't want me to care about him, but he frigin tease me when I ignore him. I'm afraid he's going to kill me if I hit him like he does to me.. He enjoy watching me hurt. What's creepy is that he never act like that in public.. I once talked about it to father, he doesn't even care. My mother passed away long ago. I can hear my brother cussing about me in his room right now. Wtf is wrong with my brother?! Why should I be the one to stay calm.. I've had enough and I want to get rid of this person from my life... What can I do? :( |
Question: Moms would you have done this? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 04:13 AM PDT I just got home from dropping my daughter off at school. Since I did not go in anyplace and came right back home I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home. |
Question: My 5 yr old tells me not to touch him...? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 03:53 AM PDT If he doesnt stay where i want him either to change a shirt or give him his clothes i get him by the arm and move him where i asked him to go, he jerks his arm away and tells me not to touch him. As if i was hurting him, sometimes he says owie and starts to cry if i move him where i asked him to go like sit on the couch, sit on the chair...he stands there so i pick him up and sit him down and he says owie, or dont touch me, or starts to cry...im getting sick of him telling me not touch him he sounds like a stuck up teen and its getting on my nerves. I almost want to stop highing him daily or showing him affection he sticks his tongue out at me, he makes sure im looking when he is hugging his dad so i see how many kisses hes giving him the. Sticks his tongue out at me like saying i like daddy not you. And when i come into a room where he is with his daddy he quickly runs over to him as if being scared and tells daddy 'mommy is coming hurry so we can leave the room daddy' and follows him all over the house and snears at me when i look at him. Even when i hug him he says dont touch me, go away, go sleep." Should i just stop touching him amd just ignore the brat? Idk. All i van say is he is a stuck up brat and doesnt deserve my affection. |
Posted: 14 Apr 2017 02:48 AM PDT My brother never actually was a person who would like to reach a carrier or work hard. He wanted to party and all that. But he has 2 kids and got divorce, he needs to pay child support and also bills, food and everything. But he is just sitting there and being worried and in the night he goes out with girls. He a Loser. Me and my sisters tried many times to tell him that you should find a regular job that he shouldn't lie his self , but start solving problems, his problems are expanding more and more, and being this immature is going to get him on the street soon. What can me and my sisters do to convince him to work more and take his life under control. I heard a lot of story's when people understood that their life is not in the right way and they started fighting for better life |
Question: What can I do with my life? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 02:39 AM PDT Bashing me, talking to me and treating me like absolute sh*t. Making me clean the whole house and do everything for them and then they call me lazy. They treat my other siblings better and they show that they love them, if I get angry on one of them they would say, who are you, who you think you are. Don't even touch her or do anything to her. And I actually didn't even touch her or hit her. My siblings treat me badly and make fun of me too because they know my parent won't do anything to them and they would yell at me instead. I have a twin sister, we aren't identical twins she looks completely different from me and she is really bad she always hits me and throws on me stuff with no reason. My parents don't believe me and when I recorded her and showed my mother she still thinks I'm bad and I haven't done anything wrong. I am a really nice person and I don't treat anyone badly at all but sometimes I can get angry fast because I can't handle it anymore. It hurts so much when they call me by names I don't like, and everything I do to them they say that it's nothing. My family thinks everything I do is wrong. They tell me to come out of my room and be social and when I do they would start blaming me for everything. They hate me so much and my mother sometimes do tell me she hates me and she wishes for me to die. I feel so lonely I don't have anyone to talk to. I always get misunderstood by people, no one understand me and they don't want to. |
Question: My grandma on my dads side who i see 1-2 times a year is dying. Should I feel bad? Posted: 14 Apr 2017 01:54 AM PDT |
Question: I think my cousin is dead? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 11:22 PM PDT Well my cousin Robbie is MLG and he weighs like 350 lbs, and today my grandma got really angry at him and unplugged all his consoles and made him run a mile around the block as punishment. When he got back, he was sweating like crazy and he kept coughing over and over and complaining that he felt like he was being stabbed in the lungs whenever he took a breath. Then he collapsed on the ground foaming at the mouth and we all panicked and my cousin Leonard started screaming and my aunt rushed him to the ER and forgot her cell phone at home. He has been there for 3 hours and we haven't heard from either of them or the hospital. Do you think he is dead? |
Question: I just want to give up on life, what's the point? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 11:13 PM PDT So many things are just wrong and I don't believe I will ever have my own life. I find myself babysitting and handing out my money to my siblings which makes me not save but they say they'll pay me back but haven't yet and it's been months. and I do all the stuff around the house and nobody does anything. I am always so angry and I take it out on myself or my boyfriend :( my boyfriend doesn't deserve that but he understands to not take it personally but I just feel bad. He knows how my family is. I literally cannot do anything for myself. I am always tired. I always have a bad attitude. I am never happy unless I am with my boyfriend but sometimes I'm in a bad attitude because of home. I just don't know what to do. I'm a person who cannot say no to helping others and I know my family takes great advantage of that. I cannot move out because I have no fvcking money to save enough!!! So don't suggest moving out. I'm old enough to move out but there are reason of course as to why I'm not. My siblings are a bunch of lazy fvcks and if I leave everything will be left for my mom to do and she works every single night with two jobs. She doesn't need anymore work to do. I feel bad. I help my mom a lot and no one does anything really at all. My older brother has no job and he's one who owes me money and he drives my moms car all the time and goes wherever. I just don't understand why I'm the only responsible one here but everyone else thinks they are when they DO NOTHING!!!! |
Question: My dad wants me to be on Dr. Phil. What should I do? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 11:02 PM PDT I'm 14. My dad recently went through my room and read my diary. He discovered I've been cutting ever since I was 12. He decided to take me to a therapist... and that therapist was extremely judgmental. I was reluctant to go back and it's only been one session. Because my urges haven't been cured in one session with a judgmental therapist, he thinks I should go on the Dr. Phil show. I told him I'm willing to see a new therapist, but he told me Dr. Phil is the answer. I don't want my self-harm to be broadcasted on television. How can I convince him to take me to a different therapist? Should I maybe use makeup to hide my self-harm so I stop seeing a therapist all together? I'm in 8th grade and home schooled so I can't see a school counselor. I'll be able to see one in August. |
Question: Should I have let my mom in the delivery room? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 10:57 PM PDT my baby is 3 month & I was thinking about the delivery. I'm 30 y.o & have been with my child dad for 15 years. Since 22 (great job & house) my mom has wanted a grandchild from us. Always talking about how she wanted one & we were never bothered by it at all. We would just laugh because we knew the day would come. All, including my uncles aunts cousins and grandparents know how much my mom has wanted a grandchild. So finally about 1-1/2 yr ago I found out I was pregnant. She was so excited & gave me a huge baby shower & would have gave me anything if I would have asked for it.To this day she is in love with my daughter & would take a bullet for her. She will babysit for me & even a show up at 2am to help me. Growing up my mom raised me & my siblings as a single parent since I was 7. I think with all that stress it caused a lot of arguing between us & we grew apart from my age of 14-20. I've been thinking back to the day i gave birth & remember that day my husband convinced me not to call my mom when I started labor. My mom & husband had their differences but worked them out. After 4 hours we finally called her & she was there in 10 min. Finally getting to my point, my mom was so exited & at the last minute I told her I didn't want her in the delivery room, she was crying and devastated. What is worse is that I allowed my husband & myself to make her wait 7 hours before seeing her. I had no reason, I just thought it would be funny to make her wait. Do you think this was wrong? |
Posted: 13 Apr 2017 10:49 PM PDT okay so I babysit for my aunt and easter is like this weekend and I want to get a gift for my cousin the youngest son who is two year old a gift and not my the other oldest who is 8 because my aunt favors her oldest son and breaks her back to get him what ever he wants and has admitted to me that her oldest is her favorite and will probably get a huge 200$+ basket full of toys and candy and the youngest will get very little.and since i see the little guy like my proto son I want to get him something really nice that he can rub in his older brothers face. Am I wrong |
Question: How can I comfort my sister ? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 10:20 PM PDT My sister is upset she wants to have a baby with her boyfriend so badly but she can't. She's on birth control she has an IUD in. She said it hurt really bad going in she's afraid it may hurt worse coming out. She likes not having periods or cramps or any of that but she really wants a baby. She's only been with him for a few months. She's already crazy about him. She said it's not fair they can't have a kid. I told her she can always adopt a baby but she wants her own she wants one she and him made. She doesn't understand why she can't get pregnant with an IUD she said it's not fair all her friends have babies. She's really upset. How can I comfort her ? |
Posted: 13 Apr 2017 10:17 PM PDT Verán, salí del bachillerato a los 16 años de edad y entré a la facultad a la misma edad, el problema es, que al momento de elegir carrera, no sabía que era lo que quería y al momento de decidir, me deje influenciar por mi familia, así que me metí a estudiar "maestra de primaria", la carrera dura 3 años + 1 año de servicio social, y ya me había dado cuenta que no me gustaba mucho que digamos, pero no estaba segura, ademas de que si no era eso, entonces, que era?, seguia sin atraerme nada así que seguí, y ahora econtré una carrera que me encantó, comencé a investigar y me enamoré de la carrera, "antropología fisica forense"(nada que ver una con la otra xD) pero... Ahora tengo 19 años... Si, solo me falta el servicio social para graduarme, y no se que hacer, por ser la "cerebrito" de la familia, todos tienen mucha fe en mi, ademas de que por nuestra situacion(esa es otra cosa tragica xD) mi tía es la que ha estado pagando mis estudios desde el ultimo año de prepa, hasta ahora, no quiero decepcionarlos, y ademas hacerlos saber que estos 3 años han sido en vano, que el dinero fue desperdiciado, y peor aún, la carrera que quiero estudiar, no hay escuelas en mi estado, Dios! No se que hacer 😞😞😭😭 He pensado en acabar la carrera y despues estudiar lo que quiero, o simplemente hacer qud me expulsen e invento que los maestros me odian (tuve la oportunidad de que mi propia familia me sacara debido a unos chismes a cerca de los maestros, pero no funcionó 💔) ya no se que hacer 😭 |
Question: Dad doesn t know mom abuses me emotionally and physically? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 10:15 PM PDT My dad pays child support for me and sometimes a little extra. He s so nice to my mom and all but he doesn t know that she hits me. And yells at me. For example tells me I m stupid or useless. Or will throw things at me or hits me with her fist. Should I tell him or would there be no use? I can t live with him because he doesn t pay much attention to me. I just feel like I want to tell someone who I suppose cares about me. |
Question: Would you rather live with your controlling mother in law or sister? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 09:45 PM PDT Would you rather live with your controlling mother in law in a backyard and pay 350-450 depending on the electric bill (200 for the room, 100-150 for electric) or $360 at your sisters house(inside the house with a bathroom) we get along, she's married with two kids and offered us a room to help them out with the mortgage. the backyard room doesn't have a bathroom. We are in college. If I explained all the details it would be a book. Just looking for opinions... |
Question: Should my sons search history concern me? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 09:39 PM PDT My 22year old son is viewing mother and son incest videos. How should I take that? As his mom it grosses me out. Do I even bring it up? |
Question: Would you ever call your sister your lover? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 09:37 PM PDT |
Question: My sister found out I searched up erotic dances!! Help!? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 08:22 PM PDT I m 17 and my freaking sister is 16. She looked through my freaking phone when I was away and saw that I was reading about erotic dances on Wikipedia. Now she s using it against me and freaking making fun of me and blackmailing me. What s a good excuse to explain it since it s not as bad as porn? |
Question: My mom treats me like crap? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 08:12 PM PDT I am 17 turning 18 in 3 weeks. My mother lets me do NOTHING she never lets me go anywhere. And if so it's because I fought my way into going (then she says I'm digusting and rude). Then whenever I get a friend she get's OBSESSED WITH THEM ( teenage girls) and then after she get's too close with MYYYY friends she starts saying how she HATES THEM and I shouldn't hang out with them. Her goal in life is for me to sit home all day and have no friends, whenever I get involved in a boy she wrecks that. Her goal is to destroy my life. I Iegit have extreme ANXIETY promblems, like I've got to the point where I can't eat I'm getting to the point of depression. I used to be used to be a super happy kid. My mother hates me with a passion I don't what I did to her. My brother is allowed to whatever he wants, he has a gf he comes home at 4am and ha s them over everyday and she's so nice to them. But she treats me digustingly. I can be a super outgoing person, but I've noticed since she's kept me sheltled my whole life I have promblems dealing with large groups of people I don't know how to act and freak out. She's literally destroyed and gives me NO money I've been working for working for 8 months and pay for everything myself she pays everything for my brother. Her goal is for me to have no fun in life, whenever I try to do something fun she ruins it and says I shouldn't be hanging out with Mexicans(she's incredibly racist). . She treats my brother who does so many terrible things (he's 20) like a prince and me like trash, then she says I'm rude and disrespectful when I freak out and have a tantrum it's just sometimes I can't take it anymore and don't what to do I've gotta to the point of wanting me die (I wouldn't ever commit suicide) but I just don't want to leave anymore she verbally harasses me, and I can't take it. It's so sad to me because me and her used to be so close, but honestly it's too late for that to happen ever again whenver we get back to being good with each other something happnes I just need to get away from her, she thinks she's doing me wonders but she's not I feel bad for being rude to her, but's it's like what am I supposed to do sit there and let her destroy my life. |
Question: My mom treats me like Sh*t? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 08:06 PM PDT I am 17 turning 18 in 3 weeks. My mother lets me do NOTHING she never lets me go anywhere. And if so it's because I fought my way into going (then she says I'm digusting and rude). Then whenever I get a friend she get's OBSESSED WITH THEM ( teenage girls) and then after she get's too close with MYYYY friends she starts saying how she HATES THEM and I shouldn't hang out with them. Her goal in life is for me to sit home all day and have no friends, whenever I get involved in a boy she wrecks that. Her goal is to destroy my life. I Iegit have extreme ANXIETY promblems, like I've got to the point where I can't eat I'm getting to the point of depression. I used to be used to be a super happy kid. My mother hates me with a passion I don't what I did to her. My brother is allowed to whatever he wants, he has a gf he comes home at 4am and ha s them over everyday and she's so nice to them. But she treats me digustingly. I can be a super outgoing person, but I've noticed since she's kept me sheltled my whole life I have promblems dealing with large groups of people I don't know how to act and freak out. She's literally destroyed and gives me NO money I've been working for working for 8 months and pay for everything myself she pays everything for my brother. Her goal is for me to have no fun in life, whenever I try to do something fun she ruins it and says I shouldn't be hanging out with Mexicans(she's incredibly racist). . |
Posted: 13 Apr 2017 07:49 PM PDT Ok, so my mother in law has been living with us since we were younger. Unfortunately she has NPD. She has also been dignosed with late stages COPD and general anxiety disorder. We do not get along at all. She is very stubborn, mean and cruel. She is slowly dying. My husband has the sweetest heart and i have told him many times what she is really like behind closed doors. He trys so hard to make up for it but i feel awful for even saying anything because she is dying. She lashes out at me, my kids. Says hurtful things. My husband says he hates being in the middle and i understand. What i dont like is how she speaks so well about her other adult kids who do nothing for her. He bends over backwards for her. Should i just not say anything and stay out of the way? He has enough stress already. I feel like i add to it. He will not put her in a home. Or have am assistant come and help....i have asked. I know when she dies his world will fall apart. My husband doesn't have any family here but his mother and.myself and his 2 children. Should i just stay away and let her say these things? Or go somewhere else when she starts her arguements? |
Posted: 13 Apr 2017 07:49 PM PDT I've grown up my whole life with everyone doubting me, I don't know why. My own dad said I'd never finish high school because I was dumb. I graduated high school and he said I'd never graduate college. I graduated college, and now he thinks I'll never get a good job. I got a good job and now he says I'll never be rich. I don't get it. I'm into fitness and bodybuilding, and my friends said I'd never be muscular since I was always skinny. They laughed at me when I started lifting weights. I got bigger over the years and they said I'd never win a contest. I enter my first contest and win 1st place in my division. Why do people always doubt me. I don't know why they don't support me. |
Question: What do you think about this situation? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 07:24 PM PDT My dad is 73 years old, and he has Pre-Existing conditions like Mitral Valve Prolapse, Atrial fibrillation caused by a heart valve problem, namely the Mitral Valve Prolapse He suffered, and survived 3 heart attacks, a collapsed lung, and a whole bunch of bouts of Pneumonia. He Survived Large Diffuse, B Cell Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma Cancer. But now he's on his death bed from Small Cell Carcinoma, extensive stage, stage 4 Lung cancer, terminal. He's still walking around, far better than anything I ever heard of after all this. Here's the problem as things are now.. I left him a note, I told him that I am at the hospital, I did that because of really bad Joint pain in my right knee and it was in the middle of the night and the doctor was closed, and I just wanted an X ray and maybe some pills and a bandage and information He follows me right up Bob Younkin Drive. To me its a short walk, a few blocks.. But that street is actually what used to be a Runway, and its long and for Him, that walk is a country mile. He should not be doing that Well the next day He has a Torn muscle in his shoulder, and Pneumonia. Today when he got out of the Hospital, I yelled at him.. I said. No you sit the f)uck down and take a REST I'm making dinner. Let me tell you something, I'm 30 years old, and if I notice something wrong, I have every goddamn right to go see a doctor I didn't go to hell, I went to the Doctor You can't be following me, I walk too far. You did this to yourself, stop it. |
Question: Is my dad a bad man? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 07:05 PM PDT He sleeps with married women and claims sociopaths on his tax returns. He claims me every year because he pays for all my bills while my mom does not. He made me sign a letter saying that which made me and my mom get into an argument(I live with her since he allows sociopaths and married whores to live there and he lets them take advantage of him). I feel like it's my fault for signing the letter and the reason why I'm not working is because I'm a full time student. |
Question: My grandparents are so boring please help me!!? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 06:44 PM PDT I am grandparents for spring break i know boring right, I was forced by my parents. My grandpa wants to take me fishing with random old people and I hate fishing, they are leaving saturday to go to a crawfish boil with people I will never see again and plus I hate seafood. I am so bored out of my mind! Please help me!! |
Posted: 13 Apr 2017 06:37 PM PDT I always have my work done on time and my grades are just fine, he just complains about me getting up late and I've asked him multiple times why tf does he even tell me to get up early and he never gives a clarified reason, he did the same today he came home and I was enjoying my day and I come to the kitchen and he goes "what time did your lazy *** get up today" and I said 12 and he goes "wait next week you guys are going to start losing your stuff" then I asked why and I said all of my stuff is done. And he goes " I don't care there's is a lot of stuff that needs to be done around this house" and literally 24/7 I ALWAYS clean I guess my dads no appreciating me or? Any tips |
Question: Ex-muslim/agnostic/atheist - how do I tell my parents? (Long, sorry!)? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 06:34 PM PDT I have both religious parents. Mum more practicing. She prays all of her prayers and does them on time. My dad is more chill but knowledgeable (Islamically and otherwise), likes to read a lot. I expect my views would likely leave my mum confused, I've occasionally seen she is open to the possibility of something other than an after-life (like reincarnation), whereas, my dad is more dismissive of anything that doesn't come in line with Islam. So I'm almost sure he won't accept my views, how'd he fully react - I don't really know, hard to say. Understandable that both will probably remain muslim. When someone has subscribed to this type of programming their entire life, asking them to acknowledge that they've been duped and fell for a trick that they were essentially blind to and couldn't see for themselves. This would take a toll on anyone. Even took a bit of a toll on me but I'm still young and grateful to realise this early in my life, but its heart breaking to have this happen to especially my mum who had quite a tough life, sacrificed a lot in hope it will all be worthwhile in the here-after. How do I take this away from her? There's also the fact there's that I estranged from my family. Extended family included (which is many many people, I'd lose so many of them). But I don't want to continue living like this for the rest of my life cuz YOLO. Is there a win-win situation here that I'm not seeing? Any advice (except muslims advising me to return to Islam) would be great. |
Question: Is it wrong for a friend to do this or am I being too sensitive, read below? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 06:28 PM PDT My mother has a friend who came to my mother and told my mom some mean things that my mom's sister had said about her (my mother). This woman is friends with both women and has taken sides with my mom in the feud between her and her sister. Is this wrong for the woman to come tell my mom insults that someone else has said about her (my mom) as this is causing my mom to get more angry and furthering the wedge between her and her sister? This friend of my moms is otherwise perfectly nice but I don't like her due to her trying to further the divide between my mom and her sister thus furthering the divide in my mom's family. It is multiple negative negative things said by my aunt that this woman told my mom. This woman knows both women and she works with my aunt and is friends with my mom. My mom and her sister have personality conflicts. |
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Question: My mom eats what she likes and give me what she doesn't like to eat? wtf? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 06:12 PM PDT She always does this, She lives in my house and she's such a ***** She doesn't like egg yolk so she separate it, she takes the egg whites and cooks me only the egg yolk? and in the plate hers is white mine is yellow and it just disgusts me like i like to have a nice plate too you know? but she doesn't care she cooks it puts it in front of me and could care less how that makes me feel I looked at it today again, got up said I wasn't hungry and went into my room Whats your guys opinions |
Question: Do moms talk to their son after a break up? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 06:04 PM PDT So my bf and I broke up almost 3 weeks ago(he's 23 and I'm 20). His mom came down to visit him for the first time in a year. I know his family likes me and he loves me, my family doesn't approve of us because he has a daughter back in his home state and never told me until a month later after he took my virginity. He loved me and was about to get me a promise a ring and we planned to get married once I finish my bachelors. He broke up with me because my mom is too strict (we were not allowed to hang out, he could only visit me on Sunday's at work). He could not handle my moms strictness I guess it's due to a cultural barrier. He's white and well....I don't mean to sound offensive or anything but there seems to be a trend in his family to have kids before marriage and the kids to have different dads....on my side of the family it's sex after marriage and the kids share the same dad....so that caused my parents to not approve of the relationship(Imy parents are in their mid 60s and 70s they are stricter than the typical Asian parent, his parents are in their late 40s) So I get it, there is a different way of raising kids from their generations. My parents are his grandparents age so to him the way my parents raised me is much much outdated compared to how he was raised. So I was wondering while his mom is in town, if by any chance his mom asks why we broke up, do you think his mom would kind of explain what went wrong and maybe give us a chance? None of us lied or cheated. |
Question: My abusive controling ex is keeping my family in my life. Why and what do I do? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 05:44 PM PDT I walked away from my family years ago. They had many issues. Well my ex who I left because he was super abusive and controling has befriended them and is telling them things about me. I have kids with him so I have to be in contact with him. So I can't even control not having my family in my life. This sounds crazy I know. What can I do? |
Question: I'm 19 and homeless. What can i Do? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 05:17 PM PDT The only people i have left alive in my family are my grandparents and I cant move back in with them. Military isnt an option right now because im 30 pounds overweight. I sold my truck the last time i was homeless so I could have good and a place to stay. Just need soke advice. Not looking for attention |
Question: How can I call wife of elder brother of my husband..She is younger than me..? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 04:01 PM PDT |
Question: Hard for me to tell my dad I love him? Posted: 13 Apr 2017 03:54 PM PDT Before i elaborate, I'll quickly share a little about myself. my name is Kaitlyn and i'm currently 12, 13 in May. When I was younger, i lived with my mom, dad, and older half sister. My sister usually stayed with my grandma (my moms mom) because she never liked my dad. I grew up around my parents always screaming at eachother, fighting, and getting phyiscally aggresive. That took a huge toll on my life and traumatized me. I was too young to understand anything. As I got older i started to realize that my dad drank more than the average person. He'd come home from work and drink a whole case of beer but I always thought it was normal because i grew up with that my whole life. Some days he'd go out and come back at 3am and start fights with my mom. I held the hugest grudge against him for always denying he is an alcoholic |
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