He is scandal ridden as he had a statutory rape charge 30 years ago. He is no longer on probation for it. He has not offended that way since. However, he is not nice to his wife. He is an alcoholic and yells at his kids all the time. He also holds grudges and is said to be lazy. I am an adult but figured my parents know best and stayed away. Should I avoid him at all times (not counting like weddings or funerals)? His wife is pretty cold though means well.

I kind of want to see my dads gf give birth. I mean look how hot she looks pregnant! She's 22 and about to pop. She was an intern at his work that's how they met.

17, I'm a nice guy have good grades. But especially with older women. Is it just disrespectful

I'm a thirteen year old girl. My mom died a few months ago, and a family friend just found out yesterday because they were in another country. She said she couldn't believe how emotionally strong I was/am. What does emotionally strong mean? Thanks!

I saw a question on here... some girl complaining that her boyfriend was racist because he said he would not date a girl who has slept with race-X of men. Now, here's the thing, I'm not White but I don't think that is racist at all. Everyone has different standards. There are for example, men who will only date virginal women. I think calling that guy a racist was completely uncalled for. Comments on this?

Ive been with my bf for 1 year. Everythig that happens he blames me. For example i tell him why you did that to me.. he says even you........ he blames me that my family dont accept him ( because he is an illegal immigrant with a failed asylum). He tells me go with the one whom ur family accepts. I feel emotionally and physically tired. This week i told.him that i dont like him anynore nd am fed up. Now he is buying me gifts etc... then i start to feel guilty that maybe am the bad one etc... im sorry this sounds lame but i need to get it off my chest... if i let him go i start getting panic attacks. Plus today he went to my mums house to check on her even though my family doesnt like him. Am angry and depressed.. i have anxiety and i feel im in a dark tunnel

Ive been with my bf for 1 year. Everythig that happens he blames me. For example i tell him why you did that to me.. he says even you........ he blames me that my family dont accept him ( because he is an illegal immigrant with a failed asylum). He tells me go with the one whom ur family accepts. I feel emotionally and physically tired. This week i told.him that i dont like him anynore nd am fed up. Now he is buying me gifts etc... then i start to feel guilty that maybe am the bad one etc... im sorry this sounds lame but i need to get it off my chest

I'm a woman and every man is so much bigger muscular stronger more serious and determined and capae than me...I mean that's probably how it's meant to be. I get intimidated by every man. What about men?

I say 30+ cause I figure since the internet has been around the less porn shops there are for men to be frequenting

besides looking? are they aware of what men are doing with me every second of the day across America? Then again,I forget,most porn shops have closed now probably since everyone sees whatEver they wish on d*** computers now

This guy likes me but I dont like him back. The only thing that I like about him is that he's very sweet and treated me very well. However, I am not attracted to him at all and I don't get butterflies or excited whenever I'm around him! But I feel bad because I think I hurt him :( I knew he liked me for a few months and I finally decided to lie to him that I have a boyfriend. I figured that it would be less painful for him to think that I have a boyfriend rather than saying "l don't like you back"! I'm thinking that It just might be the attention that I'm missing because this is the first time a guy has ever liked me.

stupid unitingtwinflames.com is monitoring my head and yes I'm aware they took off the site but they are still in my head and they make it seem like I have no friends, untalented that I can't do anything besides ******* like being a porn star and not good in singing dancing acting or even writing and that nobody ever liked love or even cared for me and they made my entire family on their side and are bullying me...how do I make them stop and what should I do?

He is currently a compulsive gambler and therapy hasn't worked for him. What can we do ?

My neighbour let my husband's grandmother borrow matching earrings and necklace for a Christening. She met her a few times at barbecues and the last one that was when she asked if she could borrow the jewerelly she saw her wearing. My husband had no idea about this and then his grandmother passed away. It turns out my mother in law thought the jewerelly belonged to her mother and she asked for her to be buried in it. My neighbour has asked if there is any chance it can be returned and I am rather embarrassed by this because it's a scenario I thought I would only read about in a trashy magazine. I have you know that I only found out she was buried in it when I showed a photograph to my mother in law. Naturally forgot about the jewellery under the circumstances.

Well, I don't use Instagram really. I have an account with a few Facebook friends who follow. Well just now, I got a random message from someone that said "ur dad's having an affair. Ur moms and ugly ***** #fugly." it was from someone that I don't know, and she had zero followers...zero everything....she didn't even have a profile picture. What this just a troll? A spam account? Sorry, it just kind of freaked me out. I declined her message so she can't send me anymore. Update: By the way, this is the first time someone has ever messaged me through Instagram. I don't have any pictures or anything up on there either. No personal information or anything.

What does this mean? Why would he be hurting from his past and present?

I always catch him staring at my sis or I at the dinner table. She's 19, and I'm 18, and I think he's been doing it for at least 3 or so years now. I know that he frequently goes to the car to jerk off, and when I was 8 I remember finding a picture saved on his laptop of a Japanese (high school) girl showing her panties. My sister and I know for a fact that he also takes nudes and probably sends them to our mum, but chances are he might be sending it to other people as well. Anyway, he kniws that he's staring, since I've asked him to stop several times 2 years ago. He has really bad anger issues so he just starts shouting at me like "WHAT? I'M NOT STARING. YOU'RE JUST BEING TOO SELF CONSCIOUS". That's right, I'm very self conscious, but I actually stare him down when I catch him staring. I catch him staring a lot, and he always unsubtly averts his gaze, only to look back at me and say "What?". He also tries to side-eye my sis in an attempt to be subtle. There are more things I could talk about, like how he is very affectionate and touchy (though it's normal for my parents' cultures), and he's a narcissist who walks around shirtless all the time, always feeling his chest and checking himself out. He's also started walking around at night in his briefs, which I find disgusting. What do you think, and what should I do?

I'm going to the mental hospital and I do plan to tell them if my abuse. It only happened under one roof and we had a social case before and I was moved to my aunts house and felt safe and loved. I have a ton of family and friends that have told me and others that they'd take me in, in a moments notice. Will I have to go to a foster/group home or can I go with loving family where I'll be lived and safe?