hispanic husband catches black male in bed with his sexy wife??She calls me Papi is this good ? She says he treats her like a slave and I treat her like a queen...is it safe to keep seeing her ? She can cook very well...she Is very nice looking woman..?What to do...

Hola hace 7 meses me gradúe de la secundaria, tenía un amor platónico era mi maestro, me empezó a atraer en el último año, me encantaban los martes el único día de clases con el y sobre todo mirarlo, me di cuenta que el también me miraba de la misma forma y se convirtió en un juego de miradas la mayoría de veces siempre era yo quien la apartaba , nadie se atrevía a hablarse y cuando lo hacíamos era sobre cosas de escuela pero el me miraba fijamente a los ojos y aveces a mi boca eso me encantaba, pero nunca paso de eso, el ultimo día de clases una amiga tuvo un problema con una maestra y me dijo que la acompañara a buscarlo, yo sabia las horas en las que daba clases y salones, llegamos y le contó sobre el problema, antes de irnos me dijo oye, es cierto que tienes novio a lo que yo le respondí no por que, es que una amiga tuya me dijo que si el me contestó y le dije para nada ni idea por que lo haya dicho en ese momento hablando en un tono muy bajo acaricio mi cabello y mi hombro haciéndome estremecer yo le dije que me tenía que ir cosa que hoy me lamento haber hecho pues daría todo por que se volviera a repetir volte a ver a mi amiga y tenia su cara en shok total pues dice que fue muy descarado al hacerlo frente a varios alumnos , hace aproximadamente un mes comenzamos a hablar por facebook y mis ganas de decirle todo lo que siento por el crecen pero tengo miedo no se como lo tome, que dicen se lo digo? Para no quedarme con la duda O simplemente lo olvido Gracias

It seems like people initially get the impression that I'm shy, introverted, and meek...also as I dress very feminine I guess people also assume that I'm very feminine. I'm none of these things, I can be quiet at first while I'm sussing things out but as you get to know me I'm actually more of an extrovert, very confident, and a little bloke-ish (as I've grown-up with guys and worked in male-dominated workplaces). I swear people seem to take a dislike of me on the basis that they expect one thing and get another, it's particularly bad when dating as guys seem to think they're getting a girly-girl when they're actually not.

family who complain all day and blame everything on others. I am a liberal and always will be and I want to help women and minorities advance in life and have better opportunities. I get along ok with my family now but they're constantly trying to convert me to how they think. What is the best way to deal with them? correction: closed minded

So, the day I picked up my wife from surgery (she had a gastric bypass sleeve) my dropped my son off at daycare. Me and my wife head home then get a call from CPS detective saying that we would have to meet before picking our kids up, So, we met and they asked how he got the bruise, we both didn't know. But because they believed it was a few days old they removed me from the home for a couple of days until their hearing on the following monday and told my wife she couldn't take her medicine because they were narcotics. So we met and keep explaining that she needed her medicine and take I couldn't be out of the home while she was recovering. So, because they believed that I caused the bruise and because she wouldn't give up the kids temporary they suggested a safety monitor to live with us (someone of our choosing) and the first person we choose they rejected because they asked her if she believed we did it and she said that no and if it was us, because how small the bruise was it must of been an accident. So we had to find someone else to stay with us and it was a pair of close friends, Eventually our friendship was ruined and we had to move state and we got the Okay from our case worker and they transferred the case but it was dropped because our current state determined that the weight chart from the old state was crazily off. They were weighted the day they left and the day we got to the new state. Now, we are trying to foster but the old state claim is "substantiated".

My daughter's father and I have been together for a while, but he was barely home, have physical fighting in our past,cheats but he takes care of the house and my kids only know him.. and his daughter 3 years old is close to him.. ..but hes barely at home, and spends everyday by his male friend house for hours ,spend most of his day over there with his friend and his wife and children,...my youngest daughter was killed in a car crash in Sept that was almost 7 months ago.. And he was the driver ...I felt he put us in harm's way... The relationship got worse...A few days after the funeral I ran into my ex...we had 3 years of history but he was violent and a drug dealer then.... He went to jail for 5 years.... He came home and is doing well ..anyway I slept with him and now I'm 6 months pregnant with his first son he has a daughter but always wanted a boy... And he feels this will change his life,if I allow him to be there changing diapers,,getting up early, the whole package, but I don't want to be with anyone... I want to just grieve in peace and take care of my kids... What should I do... And the money my daughters father and I got from the lawsuit.. He wants to buy a home together and raise all the kids.. But he's barely home, and I'm always alone... I would never be happy living that way... I just want to run away this is my mess up, and I'm torn between security, everything staying normal but awkward after the baby, and change and total isolation

I told my female manager that my married male manager has been flirting with me, making a joke about me being his wife and how I think it's just inappropriate for him to be doing that but BEFORE I told her this, I flirted with him back too, not knowing he had a wife and we would always tease each other and everyday that I came into work he would always put his hands on my shoulder and just playfully touch me in like a flirt way kinda and when I did find out he was married and he knew it now I thought he'd stop and hopefully just talk but he kept on flirting with me and poking me and then I found out that he's been flirting with the other cashiers too and I just got so pissed off that I decided to let my female manager know and yesterday she said the GM talked to him and i asked her what'd she say and said no more comments, no nothing, strictly work and in a way I kinda felt sad because now we can't even socialize with each other and that's going to be hard and all day today I was just thinking like how it made him feel because when I came into work he was kinda like in the corner making fries, being in the back all day and the other coworker said she tried being nice to him, saying hi to him and he just kind of ignored her and it made me feel bad kinda cause I didn't mean to make things awkward like that, I just wanted him to understand I didn't want him flirting anymore, i thought I was doing the right thing but now I'm thinking maybe I should've just talked to him first

There is this area that I have to be in and people proclaim it to be norouriously snobby. Anyway people would be perculiar. The General bunch would be nice to me, some would however randomly walk up to me and challenge me. The people around them would ignore his behavior, totally snub him. The guy would be challenging me to get me to fight him and I would ignore the guy, and then the guy would resort in bullying me. When I warn him that I am gonna get something done about it, the people who were nice to me that snubs his behavior turns against me in favor of him and starts holding in and standing in. This happens a whole lot out here. Why?

Im a black girl, in college, and most girls dont want to befriend me. They are all white girls, and they isolate me, and talk behind my back. I look exactly like this celebrity : https://www.instagram.com/sevyn/ I am nice, kind, a bit shy. Is it something with my looks? Personality? I have three years left, and feel alone. What should I do?

Technicaly our parents arent married just a couple

This guy I'm friends with asked me to come to the caribbean with him, two of his male friends (whom I haven't met) and his sister. What the hell? yes I'm a girl

My girlfriend said she had a dream that we broke up and soon after I found another girlfriend. Specifically, in her dream I was driving with my new girlfriend sitting beside me, and with my actual girlfriend in the backseat. My new girlfriend was jealous of the bond that my actual girlfriend and I had and she didn t want me to be around my actual girlfriend. My girlfriend said after that she woke up and started crying. She told me about her dream two days after it happened. This dream has come up a few days after some tension between us. Mostly things are good in our relationship and we spend a lot of time together. She told me her dream over the phone, while I was showering. When I asked her about the Dream in person she told a more brief version but not looking in my eyes once. What do you think her dream means?

I'm just about to graduate and start my career as an engineer at a company I've interned for previously. I have been going back and forth on whether or not I want to have roommates or not. I am very clean, responsible, and very used to up to 8 roommates in a house at once (I co-rented and a 9-bedroom house through college). I plan on getting a dog soon as well. I thought everything looked good to live with 2 guys I spent the last year with doing my engineering capstone project, but things just changed. I was already aware that one of them is married with a young daughter. He plans on renting one of the rooms in the house just until he can get his own place for his family. His wife and daughter would come from out of town on the weekends. The daughter has a cat. He also has an 18 year-old daughter, but she won't be around too much. The other roommate seemed pretty standalone and simple until now. He just asked what I thought about his new girlfriend moving in too; they've only known each other for about 2 months. I told him I didn't mind as long as the costs are split fairly. He failed to mention until later that she has a pitbull, 2 cats, and has a habit of bringing home stray animals from work until she can find them a home. I've already heard stories of the pitbull not getting along with the cats. It's already starting to sound like hotel Rwanda. At least 4 animals at all times, at least 4 people. The financial difference is the only thing that's keeping me interested.

My husband and I moved into a duplex 6 months ago. My neighbor is a single mom with 2 kids. I have 1 kid. When we are waiting for the bus. I m friendly. I said hi to her at least 3 times and recently I stood beside her and said hi. She gave me the cold shoulder. Then when my husband takes our daughter outside to wait for the bus they talk about many things. She came over last night. My husband answered the door and she asked him to take her broken tv outside. It s been a few weeks since I said hi to her. So today I looked at her as she crossed the street and she rubbed her eyes and totally ignored me. I was hoping she would say something. The silence makes me uncomfortable.

Im 18 ans on Friday i ended my 14 month long relationship with my partner who is 29. We had been living together for about nine months and had gotten engaged in November. I have since moved out and back to stay with family for a while. The thing is I haven't felt sad or angry or relieved at all, I don't really feel anything whatsoever just kind of indifferent to the whole situation and it's been five days now. I'm not sure if this is normal as it's my first serious relationship that's ended; I see all the time girls being distraught over failed relationships even if that were the ones to call it off. I'm starting to feel really bad about how I feel - or should I say not feeling. Any advice or opinions are much welcome Thanks in advance 😊

Been together now 8 months, I love him but he won't leave his wife. I am 22 he is 34 we have so much fun and the sex is amazing he says he loves me but after 8 months he keeps going back to her every night. He claims its the kids but if he really loved me he would dump her. He says she's an ungrateful ***** who treats him bad and never wants sex. Should I dump him? Or just be seconds?

I want to smoke with him and I can't a my house, and his is too far. Where should we go?

I got a family issue, and I m looking for a general consensus. If I m in the wrong, please tell me. So my mother died Saturday morning. I went to the nursing home to clean out her stuff, signed the papers at the funeral parlor, and contacted relatives. Before the end of the day, my aunt called me and laid out a plan that she and her sister would make all the plans for the memorial service, they had already decided what was to be done, and they were going to take money from my sisters and I to pay for it. I bawled out one aunt, my sister bawled out the other one. Granted we said some unkind things and really let them have it. But now they want apologies from us without acknowledging that there was anything wrong with their actions. I could sincerely apologize for hurting their feelings if they could at least admit that they had a really dumb idea. But they don t think it was dumb. They call themselves "trying to help" and now "regret trying to be nice to us." I m really at a loss. What would you do? And I d like some responses about what you think of their idea. Thanks!! (Please refrain from swearing in your responses.)

Hey people. I'm a 13 year old girl and I have a 15 year old brother. We have the house to ourselves for another week as our parents are out for work. We have it at the best time as it's spring break. But here's what happened. Me and my brother were on the couch watching a movie and we just came from the pool. I then fell asleep in my swimsuit. I fell asleep in my black swimsuit. I woke up to a hand in my swimsuit, touching my butt. It was my brother. I didn't know what to do. I just laid there. I'll be honest I tried farting to get the hand out of my swimsuit but my brother just squeezed my buttcheeks. It had to be 30 minutes before he took his hand out. I got up 10 minutes later and just showered. I haven't talked to my brother and he's only talked to me and I've only answered him. My parents won't be back for another week so what should I do? He has 6 more days to do that. As I am a heavy sleeper, who knows how long he was touching me before I woke up. What's the best thing to do?

My older sister lives in Vegas and I barley see her and I want to visit her. My sister said it was okay . My mom was kinda on the verge of saying okay but she's leaning to more of the no because she's worried for me.How do I convince her that she can trust me and not to worry ?

I'm 17 I've never done anything bad I've got A's and B's and I'm pretty handsome but I'm a virgin not that I'm trying to lose it also I would never pressure any woman to sleep with me I'm more of a cuddle person I'd rather talk about life. But I mean if we did have "the sexy time" how would we even get away with it because if we're both 17-19

I m a 16 year old girl. I m having a really hard time with my mom these days when it comes to makeup. Despite many bigger problems my mom has, she still manages to annoy the crap out of me. I wear very minimal makeup, just a little eyeliner and mascara. At least every other day, even though she already knows I don t want to hear it, she tells me that I need to put on MORE makeup. What kind of mother tells their teenage daughter she needs MORE makeup?? And what annoys me the most, when she tells me I need to put on eyeshadow. And no, not just any eyeshadow. When I actually put on eye shadow, she ll be like.. "Put some eyeshadow on!" Me: "I AM wearing eyeshadow!" "Put some BLUE eyeshadow!!" -- that ticks me off. Especially since that eyeshadow is so freaking ugly. I don t know why she hasn t gotten the memo that if I wanted to wear that ugly eyeshadow I would, but obviously I don t wear it because I. DON T. LIKE. IT. This morning we were at the store and I was getting a drink. Out of no where, she starts yelling "you re doing your makeup wrong put some blue eyeshadow on.. and some more mascara." Then she quickly pulls out a brush and some blush, attacking my face with it, making me look like a clown. I cannot go a day without her irritating comments on my makeup, how am I supposed to respond to this? She s really pissing me off!

I mean, they are hot as hell... but I'm a girl... and dont know much about either lol

I think I have a serious problem I'm 14 and I've loved my teacher since I was 13 and I have fantasies about him without his clothes and having sex and my friends say I have a big problem and that I'm a psychopath I'm not sure about that though. I searched him on google and found some personal infrormation because I looked at his voting records and it listed his birthdate and his address and his reletives and his phone number and I took screenshots of the information and I'm so tempted to call him but he would probably recognize me and I don't want that.. but I can't stop thinking about him and touching him and killing him with him bleeding and in pain as he collapses in my arms as he bleeds, my hands soaked into his crimson blood.. the feeling so satisfying.. I NEED HELP!!

Look at my little sister. After school she goes to hockey practice then its choir rehearsal. After that its gymnastics , Homework and bed. She seems tired. She is a 5th grader and mom pushes her to do good in all of it. Why cant kids just be kids again who goes home after school and play? Why do we need to do all this stuff we don`t enjoy? For me its football practice, church stuff takes a lot of my time, its guitar practice. I`m always busy. Is it wrong to just have a little lazy time?