My husband and I have been together for 11 years (and it was a great 11 years). He had an emotional affair (slept with her) on me recently for almost 3 months with another woman. He says it was just lust, because we've been having a hard time at home with our first child, things got hard and he said I neglected him, was always working or was with the baby. He says he loved everything about our 11 years and he wants his family back and will do whatever it takes to get us back. I am completely heartbroken that he'd do this to me, and I have lost complete trust and respect for him. If it wasn't for the 11 wonderful years we've had, I probably would have told him this is the end. But it's been a hard 2 years since our first child was born. We've been able to get over everything in our life up to this point, so I feel in a way it's worth it. A part of me wants to work it out, but I'm not ready, I'm too hurt and I won't be for a couple of months. I don't want to tell him that either because I feel it's going to make him think he's got it easy. In this process I don't want to lose him either. He is already ready to do whatever it takes to makes things work again. I'm in a stage where I just hate him, I feel betrayed and I just want him to feel the pain that he's caused me and our 1.5 year old son. (note: I remind him everyday what he's done) What do I say to him without losing him?

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I want more sex than he seems to need.

I feel like my husband has a very low sex drive. I want sex much more often than we have it. On average we do it once or twice a month. Is it unreasonable or unrealistic for me to expect more? I am 24, he is 25. We are both fit active people.

I am 22 and a virgin. I plan to be about age 27 when I get married and be 30 years old and married with a baby. I feel that so many 21 yr olds getting tied down is ridiculous. Most of the girls only get 200 likes on Facebook because they have an engagement ring or an ultrasound pic. I feel that I have lost friends. According to the young and married you are a loser if you are a 22 yr old virgin. I hate all this BS. Half of these couples were dating less than 6 months before getting pregnant, engaged, or married. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and are still not ready to get tied down.

I have to leave at 11pm to go pick up my husband up at work. I am now at home in my bare feet and since I am not getting out of the car and only going to be gone for about a hour I am going drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes. I only wear shoes if I have to and I don't need shoes for a 1 hour drive since I am not going in anyplace.

My Husband Donald and I recently moved back to California after he got out of the service. We have been staying with my sister and her family til we get situated on finding our own place. We went to San Francisco a few weeks ago with my sister and her daughter Stefanie. When we stopped at Ocean beach Stefanie wanted to go play in the water. She was allowed to take her pants off and go in her underpants. Many children do this. My Husband feels that my sister should not be letting others see her daughter's underpants cause they are "really a panty". This is the second time that Donald has been present with Stefanie's white nylon brief showing so maybe it is he feels insecure? The first time was Stefanie was when he walked in while Stefanie was getting a spanking. She was lying across Mommy's lap with her skirt bundle up past her waist. Do you agree with how my Husband feels?

So....I could just be way too overemotional. But my issue is, I feel like I m not getting laid enough. I feel like we used to do it all the time. Now i watch him ogle other bi**** like his eyes pop out his head and I m sick and TIRED of him jerking off. We do have sex, but I just feel like him acting like a pervert disgusts me. I know all guys watch porn, I know all men jerk off and look at other women. But would it kill him to make me feel special sometimes or act like I m sexy too? P.S. I do have issues from him cheating from 2 years ago BEFORE we were serious and before we were married. Ever since he confessed he does nothing but come home, provide and be a good man to me. But I m sick of it. I think it s just my issues because I want to feel wanted too. Sometimes as women we just want to feel wanted, like we re the only one. I don t think men have the capacity to really love as much as a woman does. At least definitely not my husband. Any advice or how to get over him looking at other women would be appreciated Signed, Lonely

My husband s family all live in the U.K. We just found out my Mother-in-law is getting married in two months time at a courthouse in London. There will be no ceremony and my Mother-in-law will head straight for a honeymoon in Bali after getting married. My husband wants to vacation in Bali at the same time so he can celebrate with them as it s cheaper to fly to Bali than the U.K. However, we cannot afford for both of us to go. This trip would also eat up all funds we have saved to celebrate our anniversary at the beach. I will not only not get to go with him to Bali, but will also have to cancel my vacation - the only vacation I will have for the next year while he spends a week on the beach in Bali. So here s my question: is it unfair for me to say no - please don t go? I want him to have the opportunity to celebrate with family he has not seen in a year, but this is money we saved for both of us. I don t want to sacrifice my only vacation (an anniversary celebration) for his impromptu trip to Bali - even though it s to see family. Am I being selfish?

When you meet an attractive guy and there's mutual flirting going on, he asks you out and you have the judgement call. Is he 'dressing up' his real married status to seduce you? You ask if he has children as you don't want to ask outright 'Are you married?' He says yes. So you say 'Ah, you're divorced?'. He replies 'Separated and divorcing'. Silence.... You have no mutual friends and he is a stranger you met in an event or party. Do many men say they are separated (particularly if they are on business in another country) just to get another girl to fall for them and have a 'secret affair'?

I am 30 but still feel I was at fault since they did it for me. They divorced when I was 8.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. Within the past 2-3 years I ve always pictured and dreamed about marrying him and picturing our wedding day. We never really talked about it before. The other day we were walking our dog and out of nowhere he asked me "Do you believe in marriage?" I got really excited when he asked me this, because I thought maybe we would finally have the discussion about us getting married. I told him that I do believe in marriage. Then he flat out said. "I don t." When he said that, my heart shattered into a million pieces. I didn t really say anything about it to him, all I said was, "hm, I guess." He told me that he doesn t see the point in marriage because they mostly end up in divorces anyway. I can see why we both have different reasonings. His parents got divorced when he was 6, and MY parents have been married for 35 years. The whole rest of the walk home I was trying so hard to hold back my tears. I really want to marry him. I don t want to leave him, I can t imagine being married to anyone else and I love him more than anything in the world. He also told me that even though he doesn t believe in marriage, he does believe in love. I don t know what to do now. I really want to get married one day, and I want it to be with him. But he doesn t ever want to get married?? What should I do? Thanks.

Will he try and use for her for money? He's used to being taken care of. His ex, since he's known her, never worked until now. She was a stay-at-home mom for about four years. She owned her own, home, car, so she really didn't have any bills. She stopped working to take care of her sick child. The ex-girlfriend sells on ebay. The ebay takes care of her bill, so she can save full checks from her job. The narcissist in the past got only $19.00 in gas money and cigarettes, and never paid his ex back. They were together for almost 3 years. She never gave, nor did he ask for too much. Will this change since he knows she's employed? The narcissist played both sides with his ex and his ex wife. His ex found out his divorce was pending, not complete. His wife took care of him, now they are divorced. He is homeless and carless, with less than a dollar to his name and has robbed dope dealers he was selling for. Will he see his ex as new hope for income?

So a friend that I began to dislike is about to get screwed I began to dislike him, and I told his wife to take his money and house if they ever divorce... I said that out of anger... but now they are getting divorced and.... she really plans to take alot. Sure, I told her to do that, but I was pissed off when I said that... so... I almost wonder if this is my fault. Do I call ghostbusters so she doesn't take his house after the divorce? My friend... or former friend has a pretentious personality which makes me want bad things to happen to him...

My (ex)husband filed and decided he didn't want to go through with it. On the anniversary of the second year, I walked into the courthouse, filed my affidavit of consent, and waited patiently for 30 days for my divorce papers to arrive. They didn't. Now my (ex)husband smugly says that he'll never let me out, because apparently, new legislation has passed that says we have to sign some property agreement form. WE HAVE NO PROPERTY. He still refuses to sign this. This is nuts! He lives with the girlfriend he left me for!

I'm not judging, I'm divorced and I know why I did. I want to see other people's reasons.

My brother married this girl and this is how she's acted since.... 1. She refused to contribute anything to the household even though she had a good job 2. She refuses to go grocery shopping... she has never gone once since getting married several years ago 3. She quit her job after getting pregnant and refuses to return to work 4. She refuses to buy food, toys or clothes for her baby even tho she gets an allowance 5. She refused to drive her husband to the hospital when he fell seriously ill, ordered me to do it 6. She kept crying and yelling demanding a new car until he finally got her a brand new $50,000 SUV 7. She never cleans the house or throws out the trash even though trash can is full of flies 8. She throws the bag full of dirty diapers on the front door because she can't walk 30 feet to the garbage can She acts like she's a Princess and we're her servants. Is there something wrong with this woman and can she be fixed with drugs or something?

Its a twisted and sick true story and this is what happened in summary: wife cheats on husband for years making him paranoid and suspecious. She cheats with her childhood friend and neighbour. Then seduces a poor loney guy and cries her heart about being abused by husband. The guy keeps an eye open and doesnt buy the story. He plays along and discovers her affair with her neighbour. And that she was gonna lead him on and then blow the whistle on him to her husband that the guy is hitting on her and harassing her; that way she gets the heat off her lover and looks like a faithful wife to her husband. She is so wicked that once the guy told her he knew what she was doing and to go f**k herself, she faked suicide and blamed it on him. He bought that story and comforted her for 2 months. Then she told him to f**k off and get out her life. What should this guy do now ?

We have been fine nothing has changed im still the same person..but for the past two weeks hes been acting so weird and distant..he gets home all serious and is making decisions on his own without even telling me about them..he dosnt kiss me or hug me how he used to..for the past 3 days he just wants to sleep in the living room.. i ask him why hes acting that way n he says nothing? I dont think hes cheating on me because i check his tmobile app n i dont see anything ( he dosnt know ) we have been living together for the past 10 months. Do u think hes annoyed of being married? Maybe he wants his freedom again?

So I am in my late 30's and when I look back on my life, I see that many of the people that once hung out in the same social circles as I did, have pretty much given up going out clubbing. I am married but my wife insists that I do what makes me happy. She wants me to continue to be social and go places as long as I don't cheat on her. I think that is really nice of her to want that for me. But what I see from other people is once they hit like 24 or 25, they get married and by the time they are in their late 30's , they have kids who are starting high school. They act like they are ashamed of the way they were when they were in their early 20's or ashamed of that time of their lives. Me personally, I have never had any children.

My husband and I have been married for 7+ years and we have a 4 year old son. My husband s behaviour is increasingly violent although there are glimpses of the man I married which come acrossee every now and then. He doesn t spend time with us and when I m working reluctantly takes care of our son. Our little guy loves and emulates his dad a and I feel terribly guilty at the thought of breaking my vows. I feel so isolated and unsure of what to do...

I've had several BFs but never lived with anyone till now We are very active sexually, he has a huge sex drive but even with sex twice a day he masturbates sometimes twice a day, he doesn't hide it from me, I watch sometimes , don't mind it but wondered if this is normal with most men, and does it fade out the longer you are married?

It may not be a big deal because we are still pretty young,but one of my friends said that theyre going to f*ck my wife with a smile. He said it in the last year and said it again yesterday. Please be serious and don't say things like "oh yeah, Im gonna screw your wife to". He kept saying it to. Is this kind of disrespectful? Why or why not?

Been married for 9 years everything seemed fine happy couple great sex ( seemed to me) Then a week ago he takes me out to dinner he wanted to 'tell' me something. He just came out and confessed to a one month affair with a 19 yr old intern at his work. It broke my heart I ran from the restaurant sobbing. At home he said it was just wild sex and no emotions. Ian so upset and confused I think I am leaving him.

My wife came to me and told me she wanted to have sex with another man while i watched, I was into it so I agreed but now she doesn't want to do anything with me sexually and is always trying to have my brother (who was the guy i watched her be with) come over to "hang out" with us. Did I become a cuckold?

my husband was molested as a young child age 6 by an old man. tormented by a teenager putting his dick up against the back of him at 7/8. he also spent a majority of his youth in juvenile centers from age 14 to 25 never spent 6 mths out straight. I found emails on craigslist from men an he replied wanting to please them and suck their dick to be recorded and to do two at one time. when I found these he said two of them he chickened out an said it was all talk and the third time that I actually caught it in his phone gps everything he said he didn't do anything an the ad was for the guy to give oral not receive . but he did it he came in his mouth he said it lasted a half hour and he did look at him. he says he doesn't understand why he say he is not attracted to other men that it was a masculinity thing and say that I have been emasculating him a lot an with his past he just an cant explain.. but we have other deceit issue that he hid very well. we had a couples with couples session every time the man came into frame or said something his dick got soft. but to cumming what he did with a man 20 years older than him how could he *** to him? an not be attracted like there aren't an manly sounds or grunts or gags?? please help me. we are already on the last thread. if he doesn't change the way he acts and he gets so mad when we talk about it or I ask for some details he gets so angry like able to hit me or the wall. hasn't hit me, still like jumps. I was taught that's a liar!!!

Ok, basically im a wife two years of marrige, the thing is, in bed room i always start giving my husband o.s. or a h.j or whenever he says he wants it, well after that he jumps right to the act widouth foreplay for me no kisses not looking at me nothing, or in other cases he ends and says; is your turn latter. It can go days and my turn never arrives. Sometimes just after I do something to him before (o.s/ h.j) A couple of weeks ago i had a melt down i talk to him that ill like to get some foreplay too and for him to pay atention to me, as ussual he said i alwayd get it he nevers get the foreplay that I DO, not really. Then he told me if I was good to him/ behaive for 3 days in a row ill get foreplay on the 4rt day, wth? So what do you think i can do or say to him is totaly unfair. I dont even ask him for nothing anymore in bed or out of bef bc i feel bad bc i know at the end of the day he will reject it and ill make a fool out of my self :(