And shoulders shampoo for his birthday. How cheap is that?

She always just hides her face when I go downstairs... its making me cry and idk what to do. She just goes under the blankets only when I go downstairs. Help..?!?!? We get along well, but it still hurts when she does this... She obviously doesn't hate me and I did nothing because we were talking and laughing before

I just feel cheated by everyone. I feel I desereved the benefit of the doubt instead of my health, social, personal, and social media being allowed to use against me for being a care giver to a sick and disabled sixty year old woman with heart problems. Instead, I was wait listed, stone walled, abashed, stereotyped by my looks and unreasonable & unrealistic expectations for Millennial young women, & those whom had learning disorders as a child. Just to be made into the state and town joke. Just so the state can get kick backs and tax breaks at my mother's retirement expense and my expense and expense of our reputation and health and well being and safety. Anyone else think the laws NEED CHANGED WORLD WIDE/NATION WIDE/CITY WIDE/STATE WIDE/ EVERYWHERE?

I'm from a conservative family, so I never seen my dad naked nor he seen me naked since I was a baby. So I was home alone so I decided to take a shower, I came out dried myself etc and walked out into the hallway without a towel or anything, and my dad was there. He seen me fully exposed so I just held my junk and walked to my room but I could feel myself getting hard..... does that mean I'm attracted to my dad because I never get erections In the gym showers or anything

To all my watchers...... I know this is gonna seem very awkward but I have to ask. When do you guys think it's appropriate to talk to a child about love, sex and appropriate/responsible sexual behavior? The reason why I'm asking is because the older of my two sisters is....well, I won't exactly say how old she is but I will say that she's a few years away from the dating age, which means that she'll be going through that boy-crazy phase soon. And when that happens, I don't want her getting into any unnecessary trouble that could have been avoided if we had given her the talk sooner. I want to bring this to my parent's attention ASAP but knowing them, they'll probably just think I'm overreacting and say that she's still too young .....

i always felt like she has but im certain she does now. i posted something disrespectful about her on my twitter, i said it was wrong for a mother to not help make doctor appointments for her son. and she got super mad and told my boyfriend to put me in check and keep me away from her. i didnt mean it to sound as rude as it did, i was just so angry and upset bc he was in so much pain for so long and not getting help. shes on vacation now and wont be back til tomorrow or friday. i wanted to apologize in person but my boyfriends uncle said shes still pissed. i dont know what to do and i feel like i ruined everything! i feel like the whole family hates me now c she told her sisters and parents and now they all hate me i just know it. and im so shy and awkward i dont even know what to say ehen i see her?! please help me :( i already know it was stuoid trust me ive heard it from my own mom and boyfriend.

Please no harsh comments. I'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 next month and I'm very attached to my mother, she's always been there with me wouldn't even let me be with a babysitter as a child, her and I have a rocky relationship sometimes because I get angry and say really mean stuff to her.. I've been able to control it though. Other then that everything is amazing normally I can handle being away from her for the day but today I was going to the bus and she was waiting for in the other bus stop to get to work and I just started crying and I ran to her. I don't know what to do I just want to not be so attached to her and to be a better daughter, I tell her everything she's my best friend. This question is a bit all over the place I'm sorry I just need some insight.. also I am the baby of the family.

My sister is dating a rock star she's also engaged to him after only being with him for 2 months. Whatever she wants she gets he always gives it to her. He spoils her a lot. It's kind of weird that he's 77 years old she's only 24. He has grandkids even a great grandkids. He doesn't look that old even though he is. He's a nice guy but I don't want her being with him. She's already talking about having kids with him. I think he's got enough kids already. He has 7 grandkids plus that one great grandson he has. I think he's also too old be making babies. She's really obsessed with him she goes to watch him sing every night he gives her front row seats. I think she's been hanging around him way too much. If she wants a shirt or a cd he gives it to her. He's taking her to D.C. for they're honeymoon. She always mean to people and bosses them around whenever a young fan girl tries to give him a hug she gets pissed off. She's mean to his fans too she's always bossing them around. She thinks she's little miss perfect. He always treats here like a princess. She even bossy to me too. Even when they're out walking they get cameras and people around them she pushes him through the crowd and pushes them out of the way and yells at them. What's going on with her ? Is this normal for her ?

I have a sister and a brother. When all 3 of us graduated from high school, mom and dad told us they would pay for any addition schooling we wanted. I chose to go to college. My sister chose to go to beauty school which mom and dad paid for and my brother chose not to get any additional schooling and immediately get a job. It is now 10 years later and at family gatherings we have this disagreement. My brother and sister want mom and dad to give them an equal amount of money they spent paying my way to college. Mom and dad refuse. They say they gave us a choice and we have to live with the choice we made. My brother and sister's latest argument is that I should give them the amount of money mom and dad spent on my college education because I am now very successful and I can afford it. I am not inclined to do that. Do my brother and sister have a valid argument?

I really need help. Im not depressed, thats not it. I just have a shitty life. Everyone wants to put a label on it and blame depression. I have a physically and mentally abusive mother who blames my birth as the reason she did not get to accomplish any of her dreams. And a father who doesn t give a sh*t about me. So I moved in with my grandparents and my grandmother is great , except for one tiny flaw. She will not defend me against my grandfather. He is the most opinionated man I ve ever met and never fails to enforce his opinions as fact. He bullies me about my weight, religious choices , and life style. Every time I disagree with him, he threatens to send me back to live with my abusive mother. Says he doesn t care what happens to me there. He is so nice to my sister s but not to me. He says he provides food, shelter, etc. I should be grateful no matter what he says or does. Like for example he is extremely religious. My sister put on the vampire diaries and had the remote. He starts screaming at me to turn it off that it s demonic. Says I should be snatched the remote from my sister s hand and shut it off. But when he watched Lord of the rings that s ok. I ve just had enough at this point. My whole family makes me want to die. What should I do?

My mom really likes my husband Joe and he really like her. Nothing gives Mom's more fun than joking around with Joe except when he jokes back with her. At the dinner table for example, Mom ask Joe "Is that a gun in your pocket or are you glad to see me". Joe said "They don't make guns that big". Mom and Joe both laughed for 5 minutes. Another time Mom ask Joe if he wanted to see his mother in law happy. He said "what would it take to make you happy". She said 10 inches. Joe said "I will not cut off 2 inches for anyone". Mom could not stop laughing. Should I tell mom to knock it off as Joe will think she is flirting? Is what she is saying to Joe not appropriate? Joe just thinks it is a very funny what she is doing?

I was swimming in the pool at my home and my brother and his wife were visiting me. I was swimming in my pool and my brother's wife Jan came out of my house and ask me if she could join me in the pool. I said sure. She said I will be going skinny dipping. I said wait until I go in the house. I went in my house and told my brother Bill that his wife was outside skinny dipping in the pool. Bill said she has a great body and she likes to show it off. Did you get a good look? I told him I had NO DESIRE to see his wife nude. Bill said that sounds like you are gay to me. Does me not wanting to see my brother's wife nude mean I am gay?

I have a family member who threw away two $30 baseball caps that I owned just because she didn't like the style or the brand. They were both in my closet and she found them while she was cleaning house and them and threw them away while I was away. She's kind of a controlling snobbish bitchy person (there's really no other way to describe her personality). How do I deal with this?

I am 25 years old- I was talking to my mom on the phone the other day about starting a family. She said, "I would hope you would wait at least two years." I don't understand why she is so hesitant about this idea... I am married, have been in a well-paying job for a year (I'll be starting a new job this year and moving), have a master's degree, and am very responsible. It hurts me that she feels like this. I have lots of experience with children and babies. We probably wouldn't start trying until around August, but I just can't wrap my head around why she isn't fond of the idea... I didn't expand- I am a speech pathologist and I'll be moving to a new job working in a school. I will have breaks and summers off to care for the children. The entire reasoning behind starting in August was that we would then hopefully have the baby in the summer, and I would not need to worry about taking time off. The school I'm working for doesn't offer any paid maternity leave no matter how long you have worked for them.

I'm gonna be 27 this year and my youngest brother is 18 and my younger sister is 23. My brother graduated early top of his class and has been enrolled to UCSF. My sister on the other hand joined the Marines and has been gloating about how great her life is. And here I am 27 I got my bachelors in Applied sciences and it hasn't really taken me anywhere. All this plus after learning some news about our mom who is currently serving a sentence for meth I feel like I don't know what I'm supposed to do in life for the longest time I always wanted to work for the US Geologic Survey because this line of work has fascinated me since I was 10. For the last 9 years I've had been working job to job simply because the market is competitive what can I say. Any way long story short it seems I'm always hearing about how great my siblings are doing or my friends while I'm here struggling month to month. It's just something I don't get I worked hard so far in life. I wasn't a great as my little brother but I still graduated with a 3.2 gpa which isn't bad and worked hard and dedicated everything every time I got a job but never moved up.

I and my sister are adults and live with parents. My sister doesn't speak if i don't speak, i have done things for her, and she act as if i am not her brother. My dad isn't concern about anything that has to do with me,, and only care about my sister. My dad has threaten me, and said he disown me when i called 911 when he pushed me. I don't feel comfortable around my dad. What to do? I plan on moving out but what to do?

My grandfather is on the brink of 70 with new girlfriend who he's been seeing secretly for a few months or so. Thing is, she's just a few years older than MY MOTHER (his daughter) & she used to LIVE with my grandparents and mother when she was younger. My grandmother had sent her back to her mother because she was "too fast". She's not related to us, but Like family I guess. My grandfather stays here in Chicago & frequents to visit her in Memphis every other month; going back and forth. She's got him to buy her tonsssss of things and treats her 13 yr old daughter like she's his. My grandfather use to be on drugs and has been clean for over 20 yrs. My mother us to help with that and has been very supportive of him. She doesn't approve of this new relationship either.His new girlfriend has got him thinking that we don't care about him, that my mother has never did anything for him, which is a lie; that all of the people "he loves" lives in Memphis....(all of his family (immediate) pretty much live here in Chicago). She Just puts all kind of junk and lies in his head...So bad that he's even cursed me out, called me a B***h & kicked me out of his home for good because I told him my views on it. She's even got into an altercation with my mother via social media. How do I get him to see that she's manipulating him, and only after the money?

I'm an adult. She said it's too dangerous. I said I can do as I please even if it lands me in an early grave. She smacked me. Who do you side with?

My partner spends all the holidays without me . E.g. Christmas & Easter with her parents and leaves me here . We both work overseas as expats and I have asked her several times why she leaves me here by my self but each time I get a lame excuse e.g. my mum wanted me home because she was not well. She has a dad and two sisters so I do not understand why she in particular has to be home ....

I'm 33 I have been hurt but dumb men enough in my life I just don't wnt to go through the pain anymore. My mother really wants me to get married and have kids and I don't want to see the disappointment in her eyes...but I don't want to get married. I just don't see the point or a good reason to get married. please someone help me understand why I don't. Most guys I meet just seem so idiotic to me I cant see myself honeslty trying to fit myself into their ideal of a women and well I just don't feel like making na effort to fit in with someone I don't even really like that much and most of the guys where I live are beer guzzling football lovin beer gut having meat heads who are simpltons.

I had my son at 17. He will be leaving for college in 4 months. Im super proud! The problem is...Ive always been on mom duty my whole adult life. Now at 38 im not sure how to proceed day to day without taking care of all his needs? Any tips on how to adjust?

ok like i said i cry when my brother leaves every day and night i can't be away from him like yesterday i put a shirt of his that he left and i cried i can't be away form him SOS

So I m 21 and me and my bf want to get a hotel together downtown after work and my mom says no because I have to come home everynight since its "her house her rules" im not a virgin so i asked her why does it matter and she says its because i am living in her house. I have a job now but i dont make enough to move out just yet. I also have to wait until i finish college because she will stop paying my tuition. I feel as though since i am 21 i should be able to spend a night at a hotel with my boyfriend.

My parents limited my time to use computer, and most of the time I used to make graphics logo and programming. Problem is when I tried to do 3D stuff (Animation and Modeling) I couldn't finish most of the project because my time is very limited and usually took me a week to finish any small project, which doesn't matter to me really much because I can move to photo design. The problem is when I use my PC, they will told me that I always spend time playing game. Which I show them every proof, including my money that I got online by selling graphics and logo design. They just nod and say the same thing ever and ever again, when I told them that I'm not playing. They'll be like "I don't care, you still spend your time on computer and doing nothing" I personally don't enjoy being with them, because I love what I'm doing and I'm doing something unlike what they usually told me. I really want them to support what I'm doing and help me instead of thinking about me very negatively. Maybe it just asia culture? I earned more than 60-80$ per month by just selling graphics I made online, any advice to make them support me? What I did is nothing for them at all, and it make me feel really annoyed about them.

I ve made some horrible mistakes and I can t do anything about it,I ve made the mistake of sending my ex some private pics of me and I m so scared that someone will show them to my family, my family is extremely religious and I m so scared what will happen to me.They ll probably beat the sh*t out of me for running the family name or I ll be kicked out of the house,I m only 17.I have no idea what to do,I wish I could just die.Anyone please help me.

I live with my brother and his wife and my mom.. the problem is that I hate his wife because she is the worst person ever and she is a liar, clever, selfish, mean, ignorant, its type of person and I have to join college this year I hate hostel, but what I think now is that I should leave home because I can't bear her anymore but I love my mom and my bro. so I am confused and she is always sugar coating my bro. I hate her, I am stuck. HELP :(

Hey, I just found out that I'm adopted. My mom told me. Now everything makes sense. How my parents always favored my older sister. How I was always only worthy of their love if I had good grades. How I had to obey my sister all the time. My parents never bonded with me the same way they did with her. My question is...could you please give me words of encouragement? Thank you.

I'm (21, female) love parkour and sometimes I do the dangerous kind. My sister (28) found out, came over to my house, and spanked me for "getting myself in life or death situations on purpose". I don't want to press charges but what do I do now? I should talk to her but I feel humiliated. What should I tell her? Were her actions justified (morally, by law she assaulted me). Oh, btw, our parents are dead so I can't talk to them about it. Thanks!

I desperately begged them to take my money and not let my parents know. But still those bastard cops refused and charged 200 bucks to let me go. My dad came all the way from home to give them the money. I feel i am the worst person in the world :( I regret every second of my life

I have two sisters and everyone thinks I'm not jealous of my sisters, my thoughts are like that, life is theirs, their bodies are their business, they give them to whoever they want, jealousy is a jerk thing, My mother thinks I have to be jealous of them, in my opinion those brothers who claim to be protectors are nothing more than assholes and everything lives in the binge

He doesnt respect my mother. He yells at her all the time. He underestimates her and makes her feel bad in when they are around with other people. He was always like this. He hit her sometimes in the past. One time he hit her while he was driving and my little sister was sitting in the back. When they came back home she was crying and told me what happen . Yestarday we went at my brother's house it was my niece's birthday. And he got drunk. I was about to drive them back home and my mother told me to go through my uncle to say hello for a few minutes as his house was in our way. My uncle was sick. He had a surgery. And I told my mother ok yea lets go. So we went, and my father didnt want to go out of the car. We went into my uncle's house and 5 minutes later he nocked the door. And start shouting and yelling to my mother for no reason. My uncle didnt know he was in the car. He didnt know what was happening. It's not a normal family this one. I wish i had a better father. I feel bad for my mother because she has to stick around him.

I have a family of 7 and finances are tight so they would have one less mouth to feed.

-My sister has always stole from me, put me down and borrowed money to never pay me back. She gossips about me a lot as well. -My dad has lied and cheated his way through life and also always put me down and gossiped about me to others. -I have always been nice to them but they are just condescending/vindictive people. -When I reached my thirties I became a volunteer in my community and worked 2 jobs. -My dad and sister are frequent church-goers but my mom is a good person. My dad and step mom always have drama going on with coworkers, family, other church goers. -I finally told my dad, sister and step mom that I don t like how they treat me and to either treat me better or get out of my life. They said no and I told them I don t want them in my life anymore. -Was I wrong to do this?

I m 16 and I smoke weed to be less anxious and to focus, leading me to be more social. My sister s dad and his wife smoke and they recently caught my brother. If they find out I smoke, I m afraid they will tell my mother that I smoke. In turn, my phone, TV, and privileges will be taken away and I ll be forced to break up with my girlfriend. What do I do? I haven t smoked in about a month.

I hate everything. I hate my life, my school, people, etc. i cant stand school and when i come home i have to deal with bull **** arguements. Did I mention that my mom also killed herself? Yeah. She frickin did. Hell she wasnt even drunk. Did i also forget to mention im only 14? Honelsty im better off dead. FML. Thanks for listening to my rant on which why i hate everything.

i have a sister who s one year younger then me, but she skipped a grade so she s in the same grade as me. we got our report cards back for third quarter and i got really bad grades. i don t even know how! and I m so afraid that my parents will freak out and get angry at me (they re asian so they care a lot about grades). and these grades are supposed to be sent to the high school I m going to too!! my family usually considers me to be smarter then my sister and they re always encouraging me and they think I m REALLY Smart. My sister showed them her straight A report card yesterday and I made up a lie that my teacher hadn t given it to me yet, but she did. OMG IM SO SCARED I actually got REALLY bad grades and i feel as if they re going to compare me to my sister (WHO s ONE YR YOUNGER then me) and think I m really stupid. My sister is also the type that likes to discourage people and put them down. I know for sure if I tell my parents about my grades, they re going to tell her, and she s probably going to laugh in my face and tell her friends. HELP PLS

Hi I have two deceased sisters its depressing as **** and I cannot go one single day without thinking about them. I have two brothers but no sisters because my mom couldn't carry girls, one of them would be 19 and the other would be 13. I'm 17, firstborn so I would have a big sister and a little sister. I'm not gay, COMPLETELY straight as I will emphasize but I cry about them all the time and get in touch with my feminine side when I think about them. My mom told me I can do that and that doesn't make me gay that I am very emotionally vulnerable and all that. I'm so depressed my life has been decimated by my Munchhausen Syndrome I was diagnosed in the ER two months ago and my mental illness the only thing I have to live for is my desire to hurt myself and then go to the hospital. I wish they were in my life to hug and kiss and talk to and be their BFF and their friend for life They have appeared in my dream four times since I was told about them when I was 12 they are angels helping me get through life and by my side every single moment I'm not very religious at all but when I think about them on a daily basis I cant stand the thought for one moment about never getting to meet them let alone not spend eternity with them and let them comfort me and hold me and love on me I cry myself to sleep about it all the time what if I go to hell cause I'm so sinful I'm a Christian I always will be but hardly ever pray and am dead addicted to porn and hardly ever think about sin or God I just wanna get an IV, have nurses taking my vitals, talking to me and being so nice and nurturing, so many people thinking I'm so sick and worrying about my health, so much sympathy, and prayers, and attention and being hooked up to machines and seeing me barefoot and in my hospital gown with an IV, and an oxygen machine, only reason I have to live other than my two miscarried siblings that I will see in heaven if I'm a decent man and I believe in God and Jesus Christ. I never kissed anybody Never had sex, never really had any friends or a girlfriend, period. The friends I do have never pick up the phone, I'm so bored and lonely. I don't know what it feels like to be loved, me and my mom have a weird relationship, my dad physically abused me and sexually assaulted me, he's not in prison, never spent a day in jail in his entire life, nobody believed me and everybody made me look like a liar and a loser. He's a better person now but I just wanna smoke weed to numb the pain, go to karate, hang out in my bedroom and homeschool and make it look like i got my **** together so I don't end up in the looney bin for now, and I will spend the rest of my worthless existence traveling the world, everywhere from Europe to the US, town to town, major illness to major illness, self-harming and living to go the ER or hospital at the end of the day, cause I feel like nobody loves me.

Me and my mum work at the same place, my mum is really popular at work and quiet and withdrawn. The people at work do not like me very much and I don't like them. If my mum were to die soon (hopefully not) then the people at work would definitely attend her funeral. I do not want to be at the same place and have to talk infront of them. I have spoken to my mum about this before and she says she's ok with me that going. What do you think?

So I'm a 14 year old girl. me and my parents got Kicked put of our house because my parents spent rent on drugs, so we moved into a trailer with a use to be drug dealer, we been living here for about a year and a half, our roommate always seemed sketchy to me so I never talked to him really, so there's a hole in the bathroom wall bout the size of a golf ball, I never took much thought of it since on the other side of the wall was out roommates room and which I thought was a peice of wood nailed down covering it, but apperantly it was removable because I saw a eye peeking at me when I got out of the shower, I screamed and poked his eye with a tooth brush, I put on the rest of my clothes then yelled at him for watching me (hes 49 years old) I told my mum and dad about it but they didn't seem to care, I dont know what to do, I can't stand living here I need get away from my drug addicted parents and our sick roommate, please dont say call the cop or child support, I honestly dont have the courage too, and I had bad experience with them.

before my parents divorced(I was almost 11) my house was a very open policy. We never closed the bathroom door, we sometimes changed in front of eachother, etc. so when my dad cheated on my mom and I was forced into a new house, it wasn't an easy transition going from that open to super closed up. Every once in a while my old self would come out and I'd kinda take off just the top of my swimsuit or something and then I'd be like crap, but I had nothing then to be fair. I only used to flash my nipples tho... then I guess my stepbrother who was just 3 months older than me got a bit excited. He kept asking to see my vagina. I kept making excuses at first but finally I gave in but instantly regretted it. He also showed me his penis many times. Idk why I let him just come in my room and mastyrbate and stuff and didn't just tell him no. (Idk maybe I was vulnerable from my severe depression) He stopped for a while... and now he's back at it again... he'll touch me when I tell him NO and he wanted to eat me out and me to eat him out and for it to be a secret between but I also said NO to that... god I should've never gave in on those times before now it's all my fault... he's the angel of the family so telling my dad and stepmom is pointless and idk what to do.

I have missed out on attending a metrosexual/feminization program when parents took my siblings to such programs due to work and now my eldest sibling has been telling lies that painted the image of me being a macho man/manly man and a misogynist since, just so he can ensure I'm blacklisted from what I missed out. I am now ridiculed for appearing at certain places, getting a styled haircut and dressing in a certain manner due to his lies. And if that wasn't bad enough, this metro/feminization program was already believing in and spreading other lies about me since 2010, giving him the unfair advantage to spread his own lies further I am now suffering from undue mental anguish caused by society forcing me to being a manly man caused by him telling his own lies. Him telling his own lies about me was insult to injury as I have already been defamed since 2010.

i hate it so much, everything about this world sucks. people are so cruel and evil and when you go home and think it gets better it doesn t even your own family go against you and are mean. im so done and im ready to take the easy way out but it s not even that. i wanna die because everyone tells me to. my mom always make remarks about my weight and my brothers are always calling me mean words, and my brother always tells me to kill myself so i mean what s the point, i have 0 good friends, my family hates me, and i have no one. im alone and im ready to leave and disappear and make everyone happy. im a mess and i wanna help myself but i can t take it anymore i m so weak now

dad made my grandpa MY MOMS DAD (my momis dead keep in mind) she made y moms dad (aka mt grandpa or pawpaw) fix her sucky *** car for free..he makes a mess over the weekend and makes me and my brother clean it up because he doesnyt want her to have to do it..my brother seems to like her though he says shes cool..im like whatever i hate her so much she spends all the time with us and she works withmy dad...she comes over wednesday thursday friday saturday and sunday and every other weekend has her 10 year old and her 3 year old with her can someone tell how to get rid of her?????

My mom walked right up to my dad and said shes getting married to another man that shes been dating for 4 years. Me, and my 7 year old sister and my 16 year old sister are with my dad and my adult sister and 13 year old brother with my mom. At least that's how it was originally until my mom talked my 16 year old sister with her. Then my mom put in the divorce papers she would stay with my mom and they would all move to Canada from Montana. My mom and this guy met on this explicit site and have been together for 4 years. Now they are getting married and she ran away to Canada morning after my mom and dad fought and she started wielding a knife around the house. She is in Canada now with her fiancé and stuff but now my 16 year old sister decided she wants to be with my dad now and she is basically stuck with my mom who is horrible and abusive. My dad has this amazing new girlfriend who is super sweet and amazing. The only problem is my mom is super jealous and crazy. She will stick my 7 year old sister on Skype with fiance that has his private area exposed. Now she wants everyone including my 7 year old sister to live with her and her fiance for child support money she won't actually support us with except for she made an exclusive point that she doesn't want me. She says minor children don't get to choose where they live because they are minors and she don't want me cause she said I'd probably runaway and she hates me. HELP! My 7 and 16 year old sis don't wanna live with her!

Look. I am a dude, and a minor at that. There's no way in HELL I'm walking into a Spencer's or something and buying one, though that would solve my problem, it creates another. I want to order one from Amazon, but I'm petrified one of my parents is gonna open my mail, regardless of the facts that A. They said they wouldn't. B. It's illegal for them to open my mail. What do?

I just overheard my parents talking about divorce. My mom said she didn t think she could trust my dad anymore, and it just wasn t working out. Then they started fighting and my dad said he should just move out. Then my mom shot him down on that idea. They came to an agreement to think things over for the next few weeks. But I have never heard them fight like this before, and recently things have been getting worse between. They don t know I know, but I think they are really serious. I know if it came to it my mom, little brother, and I would live in our house and my dad would move out. Because he is always talking about how much he wants to move out. I don t want my parents to stay together just for us kids, but I really don t want to see my parents divorce. I love both of them and want to be able to see them both every day. I know it s not my fault, and I should probably let them work things out by themselves. But I am really scared, I don t want them to divorce!

This was when I was living with my uncle. They were talking on Skype, he had come in on the tablet and I heard that so I just pretended to be asleep still. I'm a 21 year old male virgin, but what kind of grandma says that??? Dirty Grandma! I'm sure this sounds like I'm trolling, but I am telling the truth, don't you think I'd rather tell people that I'm NOT a 21 year old virgin? I wouldn't tell you I was a virgin if I WASN'T. No guy lies that he's a virgin if he's actually had sex, guys want to be seen as winners, not losers, and being a 21 (or even 18) year old virgin is seen as a loser for guys in the US, but as sl*ts for women, it's a stupid double standard.

What should I do when my parents aren't paying attention to me? I've tried video games and tv and Netflix and hanging out with friends and just going outside. They are just too busy. My mom is working 5 days per week and my dad does stuff at home and is on his computer like 24/7. Please help

. He has cussed my mom out/put his hands on her. He has pushed my 15 year old nephew, ruined my sisters sweet 16 she had at our house because he has anger issues. We owned a cleaning business for four Years then he got a job doing towing. I didnt work for four months then he quit because he got angry. Then he didnt have a job for six months. I struggled to pay everything but I did it on my own. Then he got a really good job with retirement , benefits and etc.. We have always argued but now when we argue he changed his bank password so I no longer have access or know how much money he has. He has made his dad his benificary and has excluded me from all future plans. He even called the lanlord to have me temoved from the lease. (i paid $510 to rent anf he gave me $300.. He did all of this behind my back.. Now, he isn't answering his phone at work. He isn't talking to me when he gets home and we haven't had sex in two months. When I say something he doesn't want too. Now, here are my issues.. I'm jealous so I accuse him of cheating all the time. I talk a lot of **** when we fight. (so does he). He even went as far as saying he's glad our son died. (miscarriage). We have always been heavy drinkers on weekends and stuff and now he never wants to hang out and drink. When I ask him too. He calls me a alcoholic. He has me feeling like I am the worst girlfriend ever. What do y'all think

I notice kids w/"smart-phones" are on them 24-7....

around October my little brother (10) told me(16) that his friend liked a girl in his class and that girl liked him back. so i am friends with the little girls sister and I told my brother i kinda want to tell this to caroline. so i wasnt going to but my brother was like do it do it do it so i told her(my brother was watching to make sure). so its 6-7 months later and the friend is sleeping over and i was upstairs in the other room from my brother and my parents called me downstairs. so i came downstairs amd my mom told me to stay in my room away from him because he cried for 2 weeks after my brother made sure i told my friend. and she was saying tht his mom got mad at my mom because of it and now im laying in bed the day after my 16th birthday crying. like i do every other night. i felt fine until my mom called me down i told myself i wasnt gonna cry but now i am.

So my sister-in-law came from college and was complaining that her back is aching due to playing basketball.. I said I can massage her back with Bengay for her,,, She said its alright.. I said I do that all the time to my wife (her sister) all the time and she finds it soothing... She still said no... I said if she feels shy,I can keep this as a secret between us and not tell anyone... Once again she was very reluctant over it.. suddenly I look like a bad person so I stopped it... I dont know why she took it wrongly when all I offered was some massage to relieve her back pain....

My father is constantly putting me down.ever since I was a little girl he would make me feel real bad about the way I look.He loves to put me down when his friends and family are around.I always feel low about myself ever since I was little because he verbally abuse me.I feel as though he hates me so much.I do so much nice stuff for him and still he always turns around to make fun of me.

So I liked my cousin for awhile and idk if she likes me also were both 15 so every time we see each other we hug and sometimes I stay over at her house and we both chill and have fun but also she asked me to be her chambelan at her cousins quince so every time we dance at practice its the best feeling so idk ice she likes me I need advice??

He is 26. I am 32. The last visit to his parents house she was just getting done with church and had her makeup and hair done. He sprayed her with the water hose and poured a water bottle down her back. During that same day he intentionally ate all her candy, tackled her in the ground, threw stuff at her from across the room, drank all her drink while she wasnt looking, punched her in the arm, etc. This went on literally all day long. Sometimes she woulf laugh but other times you can tell she was annoyed. I didnt really hang around him much because he was too easy aggravating his family. Now I understand that siblings tease but I felt he took it too far a lot of times and even his Mom told him to stop a few times. I was really annoyed by it and kind of stressed because I felt like it was too much. I have a sister and yes we tease but I wouldnt spray her with a water hose after she did her hair and makeup or constantly bug her like he does. ..... Read below

This is a train wreck so please just stay with me... I have a cousin that is in an abusive family. She was adopted, and I am related to her adopted father. I live in a different state, I am well aware that the abuse is taking place, my cousin has run away before, and she told some authority figure in the runaway case that she was having suicidal thoughts. So far nobody that has been involved has helped her. I am a minor, she is too. I'm 15 and she is 14. I don't know where to contact or what to do to help her, but she doesn't deserve to have to live with this and I really just need to find a way to help. If it helps, I'm in Tennessee and she is in Texas.

My parents are really strict and controlling. I am still living with them and I'm 21. How can I deal with them?

Also they dont talk 2 each other they hate each other want to spend more time with my dad but only see him once a week. also i got a baby sis on dads side want 2 spend more time with her but dont want 2 leave my mom pls help