So this has happened before,my boyfriend is a lawyer and works his own law firm. But he would still text me even at work even though he would get distracted or when he didn't have much work. For example,last month he kept on spoiling me and paying attention to me and always talking to me but for the past 4 weeks.. we barely talk and it's like when he texts me he's not even there mentally . He said he is sorry and is just scattered brain rn and has a lot on his plate and that he promises to do better and that he intends too,and that things will lighten up again... and that he will make it up to me....the thing is,we're long distance like 3 hours away but do want to move in together soon so when I don't hear from him It's like I feel disconnected from him and I feel like he's not really all there like vague . Also,if I WERE to break up with him I would move back to NY and he knows that one. It's not like he doesn't want to be with me because I gave him many chances to run I've asked him. we were broken up from October to January,because he has stress and health problems in his life so in January he was the one who came back to me and wanted me. I just feel really unwanted and don't know what to do.. wait around for him because when things are good we're Amazing together. But when he does this I hate it

I have been with my current boyfriend for 7 years come June. When we first met he told me that he didn't want to have kids or get married & I felt the same (I was only 19 at the time). He's been married, divorced and has a 20 year old daughter. He has been through it all and I have not. He tells me that he doesn't want a kid because he enjoys his freedom. However I'm getting to the point where I need to be able to have children, I am 27.. I am not getting any younger. I need some ideas on how to ASK him about having kids with me. I'm nervous to do this as we live together, we financed stuff together, we have some dogs together. It is like we're married. We do NOT ever fight, we have a perfect relationship other than the fact of I want kids and he doesn't. I pretty much want to tell him that I want to have kids or I'm going to leave and find someone else who will want the same as me but nicely. I can't settle anymore, I need to do what's best for me but I'm not sure if someone out there that has been in my shoes before?? Someone that can tell me how to start the conversations? I've been putting this off since January and it's just getting worse..

I was told I'm usually always " in the clouds" and that I'm like Alice in wonderland.

How can you know if a person is entitled?

i meant him lol

Is she interested? Or should I leave it alone

So lately I've been kinda liking my step cousin. And im a guy by the way. We dont see each other very often because we go to completely different schools, she lives​ in the country, I live in a town. So we re complete opposites. But, Today was Easter and it was time to go see family, and that ment going to see her. While we were eating, she looked at me and I looked back and we locked eyes and we didn't​ say anything. Untill we both started laughing at the same time. I said what and she said that I started staring at her and I said cause she was looking at me. Then we both laughed it off but I took it more than a coincidence. Im not very old and Im only 15 and so is she. So I still sometimes play games with the little cousins. And we were doing a game of tag, and she was it and chased after me. We ended up at a big bush, And she was on one side and I was on the other. And once again we locked eyes. I said a few clever things that made her laugh. But Im the only one who knows ​that I like her. Maby she thinks I like her. I don't​ know what to do right now, wether I should tell her and the family that I like her, or have like a secluded relationship. Im just confused and dont know what to do. Im hoping I could get some advice from anyone out there to help me with this problem.

I feel weird even asking this, but here we go. One of my managers is like a father to me. He reminds me of my father, same height and build and friendly. He has no enemies, just like my father. My father died when I was a kid, I am 26 now. This man and I are very close, however, I make it very clear to everybody that I see this man as a father figure, even though he's only 15 years older than me. Now, I have only been in the presence of his wife and teenage daughter twice, but I can tell they don't seem to like me. It might be all in my head, of course, it doesn't feel like that though. When we do see each other, it's almost like they stare me down, I can't explain it. The kicker is that this man's own father had an affair for like 18 years, on his mother. Do you think my father figure's wife is worried he may do something like that, and with me of all people? Again, I must stress, I only see him as a father figure and he sees me like a daughter. He gives me fatherly advice, even.

If anyone out there can help with my question I would be forever grateful. When true alignment is my ultimate goal; in which another persons actions or lack of actions had no effect on my vibration. What does one do when a loved one is not giving me appreciation in a given moment shown through their actions( I.E. standing me up, not answering the phone, unfulfilled obligations)? To me, what seems to be the path of least resistance would be to avoid further interactions with this contrasting behavior however, as a person who aspires to find alignment within, should I try to negate the contrast by focusing on other more positive attributes this person has while ignoring the way I feel aka feeling sad

I already know I will get judgmental answers, but bear with me. I've worked with this guy since late June. I guess I always had feelings for him, but I tried to fight the feelings until late August or so. When I first developed feelings for him, I had no clue he was married and had kids, as he's only 25. I am 26 and I'm single, no kids, so it's easy to assume he might be the same way. Well, my feelings have become very strong over time. He definitely has a clue I am into him, although we've never brought it up to each other, of course. Some of the things he's said in the past or ways he has acted (not bad) have hinted to him knowing. He is very distant as of a couple of months ago. I get it, I'd be distant as well. He's trying to respect his wife and what not, I understand that. We've all been on a month-long hiatus from work while the building was getting re-done. I haven't seen him in over a month. During this hiatus, I tried to add him on Snapchat (mind you, we're friends on Facebook, but that's all...I don't even have his new phone number that he got in December), but he wouldn't add me back, therefore, I ended up removing the request. He has not interacted with me at all during this hiatus. As frustrating as it is to deal with, I understand. We see each other again for the first time in 5.5 weeks, on Tuesday. How do I act around him now? My feelings are very known at this point and I'm not sure how to act. I am so nervous about being around him again, I feel it'll be awkward. He's known my feelings for a while, like I said, but I am wondering if it will become really awkward now. For instance, a guy I jokingly call my "adoptive father" jokingly asked my crush if he'd adopt him. I said "well, you're my adoptive father, so that might get complicated"..do you think my crush understood why it'd get complicated if he "adopted" my "adoptive father"? By the way, that last part was done over Facebook through comments and my "crush" did not acknowledge my comment. Abbot, I ask myself that every day. Welcome to your tape.

My best friend got married last year. She asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding which I gladly accepted. The whole wedding process was very difficult as she made many changes (changed the bridesmaid dress color twice when I almost bought a dress I couldn t return), telling me the wrong reception dinner date and restaurant, etc. I decided to call her mother (whom I met with to discuss the wedding) and told her I was unable to attend. Her mother threatened me to pay 200 dollars if I didn t make it to the wedding. I did not attend the wedding. My friend asked me if I could still come to her wedding and I was going to but she never told me the reception place on her invite (just the church). She claimed she gave it to me months ago but she didn t. Now, I deleted her off Facebook but had to add her again because she texted me today asking how I was and why she didn t see me on Facebook. She still keeps in touch despite what happened. A part of me thinks about not deleting her because we have been good friends since middle school, we are now in our early 20's but I don't want to be friends anymore after this. My mom also thinks it's bad what happened and thinks we should stay friends. What should I do?

Every time I wear sweatpants or appear to be wearing them outside of the house, my dad gets mad at me and says they look like **** or uses a Japanese word meaning "embarrassing," he tells me only welfare bums wear sweatpants. Help, I'm 28 and have a master's degree. I am not a troll.

I am 23 and I have experienced much drama in my life and I am so sick and tired of people always complaining to me about all the crap they go through and somehow I am selfish for not giving the advice they want me to give. I tell people the cold hard truth and it amazes me that people only want to hear the truth if it suits them.

I'm 17 & evolving I'm working out eating right meditating etc I'm not loud like I was I'm more positive but I'm young and sometimes I have urges I've got a lot of love. Sometimes I come across a beautiful woman is it bad to indulge in these activities knowing it won't turn serious

My parents and I just got home form my grandparents house. We had Easter dinner at my grandparents house. I had a 4 hour ride home so as soon as I got in the backseat I took my sandals off so I could be barefoot and more comfortable on the ride home.

women who have been sexually assaulted and posed for further humiliation. The problem is -- -> son tampered with panties -> son ejaculated his own sperm on top of already dead women. -> son kissed and cuddled with dead women until morning sun either our son has a career in fbi or he could be in trouble.

I've fallen for a beautiful woman that goes to my church. The sad fact is she is married, but her husband and daughter are living in another country. I brushed my desire after that fact, but it got complicated after she came to the market where I work. She was with her client shopping as her aid. My desire for her came back and I approached her and we exchanged numbers. I came off polite but too scared to act let alone tell her how I felt. It got to the point where she would come see me at work regardless of where I was to say hi or be seen. I decided to tell her that I really wanted her I couldn't lie anymore and for her to choose to stay away from me. At church she wouldn't look my way anymore so I think it's over. The following week she shows up to my job with her client and come find me to ask me question about a finding an item with her client next to her. Out of everyone who works in this store she came all the way to me. I help her but can't seem to get what game is this? What should I do?

I am 18 a senior in high school. I have moved in with my boyfriend and since I will be gradating high school in May I have stopped taking birth control because we want a baby. I will be finished with high school in May and I want to be a stay at home mom. My boyfriend is 21 and have a very good job working with his dad and brother and makes good money so I don't need to get a job or go to college. I just want to be a stay at home mom and have lots of children, I think all moms should not work and stay home and raise their babies and not have a daycare center raise them.

I got a call from my ex wife's mother that she had bought a new computer and she needed help setting it up so she could get on the internet. She was such a nice person when I was married to her daughter that I was happy to help her get her computer connected and running. She very much appreciated what I did that she cooked me a fantastic meal. She was a great cook. She must have told her daughter what I did because a few weeks later my ex wife called me and asked me to do the same for her new computer. We had a friendly divorce so I did not have a problem doing the same for her BUT there was a potential problem. My ex wife had remarried. I did not think her current husband would want me at his house. I asked my ex wife to check with her husband to see that it was OK with him that I came to their house and hooked up her computer. She assured me that her husband did not have a problem with me coming to their house and working on the computer. This does not seem right to me. I can not imagine ANY husband wanting the ex husband around. Should I personally talk to her husband and ask if he is OK with this OR is it none of my business what goes on between my ex and her husband and go over and hook up their computer. I would really like the opinion of guys on this situation. Thanks guys and everyone else.

I was walking by a man I know and (and his wife who I don't know personally but do know the existence of minus her name which I don't know because he has never used her name if I mention her) we made eye contact and I smiled (because I'm friendly). He didn't smile back, but instead proceeded to keep staring at me until I finally looked away. It wasn't a bad look just strange that he would do that while his wife was right there. So is this weird or rude for a man to do? I don t know if I would be ok if my husband did this in front of me. Thanks

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