Be nice to him just because hes old but he's rude and sometimes I just don't like his attitude he has the attitude of I'm old you need to respect me

So I live with my dad, and my sister (nephew's mother) and my nephew. My sister hasn't really been very proactive in raising her son over the last 6.5 years since he was born, so my dad has moved in. My sister has had plans on and off to move in with boyfriends and take her son with her, but she keeps changing her mind, and staying with my dad. I am concerned because she has no will or guardianship provision in place for her child in case she dies, and my dad feels that my nephew is better off with him. I have Aspergers and anxiety and depression issues, and I sometimes am not as patient with my nephew as I should be. I have decided that it is in my best interests and the best interests of any child or guardian that I not have kids or not adopt or have any sort of custody over children. Now I am worried that something would happen to sister, and my dad would take over. He is nearly 77 years old, is having issues with his hips and has diabetes and seems to me at least to be showing signs of the early stages of dementia. I am worried if he took over custody, he would assign custody to me. And if he had a heart attack or a stroke and I was living with him (I want to move out and get a place of my own) that he would expect me to take over childcare duties. I am okay with some babysitting, but I don;t feel I could ever take over full time. I have told him repeatedly over the years that I don't want custody or guardianship over my nephew.

He gets mad at my mom trying to attack her and grab her hair and stop he got out of the house im scared my mom is scared i need help we dont know what to do whith him is 17

I am 21 years old, one year from moving out of my parent's home after I graduate college. It is growing increasingly hard to hang in there. My stepmom of 10 years micro-manages the entire house constantly and makes up all these stupid little rules that everyone has to abide by. She and my Dad are control-freaks and take each other's side on everything. If something goes wrong in the house, it is automatically assumed it is me or my younger brother's fault, and they start screaming without any proof whatsoever of our wrong-doing. They both have tempers. I dealt with a lot before they got married. My biological Mom was a life-long alcoholic and did tons of things to make my life hell. She decided to go out last year by committing suicide and died 4 days after nurses and doctors worked on her to keep her alive. My Dad and my Stepmom both gave 18 years of their lives to people who treated them like ****. My Dad got cheated on 4 times by my Mom. My stepmother was crying walking down the wedding aisle to her ex-husband and married him anyway. The worst thing is is my little brother always takes their side. It is so blatantly obvious there is double standards for almost everything here. If it's one of them doing it, it's fine. No anger if one of them makes a mistake. Should me and my brother do the same thing, it's WW3. I can't move out right now because quite simply, my full-time job doesn't pay me enough to keep up with everything I would have to pay for. To continue, I am to the point where the constant getting mad over stupid **** for 10 years by them has finally taken it's toll and my blood has boiled to a very very thick red. I seriously am aggravated I got born into what I did. I know some others still have it worse, but you cannot ignore the fact that my situation just sucks left and right. I didn't want my Dad to marry my stepmom. He said he wouldn't re-marry for a long time after the divorce, 6 months later boom remarried They get along better with my younger brother because he doesn't question anything they do hardly. He just goes along with it. He also is around the house more. I look for reasons to leave, whether that is work, friends, going on nature walks, traveling, school, whatever. I just don't like being here and I tend to avoid. I have confronted my Dad and my stepmom several times about all of this and it is increasingly clear that nothing will change, they are not going to change. that is the reality They get along better with my younger brother because he doesn't question anything they do hardly. He just goes along with it. He also is around the house more. I look for reasons to leave, whether that is work, friends, going on nature walks, traveling, school, whatever. I just don't like being here and I tend to avoid. I have confronted my Dad and my stepmom several times about all of this and it is increasingly clear that nothing will change, they are not going to change. that is the reality

When I was younger something happened in my family to cause my dad not to talk to his mom or half brothers. I have a hard time remembering that time in my life. However I do remember having a dream that my dads half brothers were chasing me while I was wearing nothing but socks. I remember having to go to a therapist who made me play with puppets or dolls. I also remember my dads half brothers teaching me something. I always kinda filled in the blanks saying it must have been how to hold a pop can one handed but now I'm not so sure. I also distinctly remember them telling me that I wasn't allowed to tell my parents what we were doing. A few years ago, my mom let it slip that there was a big fight because they accused her of touching me inappropriately. My parents said that paired with the dreams I'd had and the fact that I finally told them that my dads half brothers told me not to tell them things, they thought that they raped me. My parents refuse to talk about it, especially my mom. Whenever someone even mentions rape, she gets incredibly angry. Should I ask my parents what happened? I can't remember that whole chunk of my life but I can remember before and after it. I just want to know if I was actually raped when I was younger because my mom's reactions make me think I was. So should I ask her what had really happened?

I was raised by my step dad and my real dad has been in my life and i don t think i would ever ask my real dad to "dis own me" but i want my step dad to also be my real dad by papers. can he adopt me while i all ready have one dad? or something along that line?

He is worthless and aged 22.

Occasionally a sibling may let their handicapped sister or brother live with them after their parents are deceased, but has an adult nephew or niece taken on a mentally incompetent aunt or uncle?

Will he be able to regain some of the use of his mucas membranes with rehabilitative therapy?

so today my Father in law, hugged me and kind of felt me up, i was really embarrassed, it happened when we were alone, and he did this 3 times, the last time, groped my breast before i left he asked me to not mention this to anyone. what should i do? im afraid to tell my husband, should i wait it out or should i confront my FIL?

Its been 7 years since I left her father. In the interim of this, he passed away. Since the death she has distanced herself from me to the point I do not even feel like her mother any more. I don't want to blame him saying that he said bad stuff about me but who knows. She is an adult but will not let me keep the door open for us to even talk about why she is angry. How can I cope with this loss? Birthdays come and go, mothers days come and go and I get nothing. I reach out to her for the holidays with cards and gifts with not even so much as a thank you in return. Life is too short to be miserable and with out her at least telling me how to fix this, what can I possibly do?

The only other person in the house besides me and him is my little brother Kenny, and he's only 9 years old and I locked him in his room so he doesn't become corrupted. He's been in there a while, and he's starting to get mad and is screaming, and I don't want the police to come to my house again. What do I do? Oh and my dad is drunk and high on weed so I can't exactly reason with him. IDK what to do. Should I just beat him up?

Me and my mom argue a lot. It's always been that way. But every time we argue about something, she starts insulting me and telling me how I made her life a misery and how she doesn't want me. She swears at me and constantly compares me to other peoples kids because they're so much "better" than me. When i was little (about 6 or 7) she busted my lip open with a set of keys. I can't even remember what that was about. She's hit me a lot since then and I currently have bruises on my arm from where she grabbed me. She also grabbed me by the throat a couple nights ago because I asked to borrow her phone charger. Does this count as abuse? My mom doesn't think child abuse is a real thing. She calls it "discipline" and every time someone says hitting kids is wrong, she says "i hit Johnny and look at him, he's fine." My friends have told me she is abusing me, but is she really?

I don't know if I'm not a likable person or what, but my parents don't like me. If this makes any sense to you, they love me but they don't like me. IDK if that made sense or not but if you'll think about it for a second you'll get it. Got it? OK, now let's move on. So anyways my parents are never happy with the person I am. Tonight, after we ate dinner, I walked out of the room and heard my mom say, "What is wrong with our children?" Then my dad said, "I don't know, but (something something couldn't understand him) and she is over the top." She would definitely be me because I am the only daughter they have. Then I herd my mom and she sounded angry and I heard my name but didn't understand what she said. I walked away at this point because I was crying. I just want to be a good daughter for them but I don't know what to do anymore. This has gone on for so long I've almost lost hope for it to work. But I know I can't give up just yet all I have to do is find what's wrong with me. Something has to be wrong with me if they really dislike me this much but I don't know what. Feel free to give me advice if you know anything lol. Seriously though. What can I do to be a more likable person?