Today I woke up to my father and mother overly praising my older brother for being being so mature and great cause he did the dishes last night. Even though hes 26 yet acts like a spoiled 15 year old girl. How sleeps all day, doesn't cook,clean,very rarely takes care of his puppy and yells at his games all night. And at our parents when he's asked to go down to the store which is right down the street. This would' be a big issue if I didn't do every ******* thing in the house, I cook I clean, do the laundry because my mom just had surgery on her knee a few months ago and won't be able to do the things she use to without her knee hurting 24/7. But i don't even get a ******* thank you, the whole week I took care of the house right after the surgery no one not even my mother cared. So today mom wanted to get the laundry done I got dressed and was about to take it down she stopped me called my brother who was sleeping at 1:00 PM to help her. Rejecting my help to get the dog blankets and walked out with my brother who took 5 minutes to get up and 5 to get dressed. When I bring it up that she tends to play mind games and that she and my father favors my brother, she goes on about how my brother has issues and should be respected. Lets not forget that multiple school counselors recommended that i get therapy and psychological help but she and my dad ignored that and said i'll be fine without it. All I want is some gratitude. Am I overreacting or is my anger justified?

I'm a 14 year old girl and I live in Ohio. My family is far from the best environment for me and I need to get out or be free somehow. A couple of years ago, while I was 10, my father began to sexually harass me. At first I didn't know anything was wrong, but a couple of weeks after I began to realize it wasn't normal. I was stuck between telling someone or keeping quiet, and I made the mistake of not telling anyone. I didn't tell anyone because I just wanted to have a normal life, and I thought that he would stop eventually. He didn't. He got worse and began to fully try to touch me everyday, which started about a year ago in seventh grade. During this time, my father even became physically abusive, although he had always been rough. He is also emotionally and verbally abusive. I told my mother about two months ago and she was so shocked and started crying, but I dont think she was crying for me. She was crying for herself. For about a couple of weeks after that, she asked how I was doing a lot, but telling her didn't help. She didn't offer to be there for me, and she didn't offer to somehow get me away from the house. We didn't tell authorities because they'd fine him, and he'd come back to get revenge. It's how he is. We didn't tell because this would cause a divorce, which we didn't have the money for, and would probably make my brother sad. Lately, I've been getting blamed for everything. I have $700 cash for anything I'd need. I just want to run away. Should I?

I'm 16 and my parents were divorced when I was about 9 and from that point on I've lived with my mother , however when I had turned 12 I often didn't want to leave my dads when he would have me up until now . I didn't realize then that I didn't have to live there although I'm thinking now that its too late. I love my Mom and shes done a lot for me yet I don't want her to feel I don't and that's why I've refrained from telling her for so long . So I made a Yahoo account to hear anyone's thoughts on the matter..

I overheard my brother talking to his buddies. He said "I am the most unlucky guy in the world". "The most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life is someone I can not date, my sister". I think "I should check our birth certificates so see if either of us is adopted". Is that a compliment or something not appropriate to say about your sister?

Is it one way of nature telling her that one is better than the other. In animal kingdom, I know some animals try to kill their new borns, or simply abandon them because of their sickness. Is that the case?? Why would she till this moment favor my other sister.

So yesterday I was invited to a party. My mom said yes and then she said no because she remembered I did something I did. Today I decided I ll try again buttttt I busted it my room basically wasn t clean WHAT CAN I DOOOOO the party starts at 7

I really want to to go the march for science in Atlanta tomorrow with my older brother and a group of friends to show our support but I'm still only 17 and my parents are very avid Trump supporters and think the ground he walks on is holy (mostly just my dad) and so anything that might be perceived as an act against trump he detests. I'll be 18 in 8 days but I still kind of need permission to go. And if they say no I'm considering lying to them about going to a friend's house and going anyway, but I really hate lying to them and I just want them to see that this march is a good thing and science based policies are so so so necessary. So any advice hlon how to bring it up and how to convince them to let me go?

Ok so I have family problems and I feel my calling is somewhere else,I've thought about running away but I can't drive and where would I go?

Essentially she moved out 5 years ago at the age of 18 from mom and I's house, but for the last 2 she's been living with 5 roommates. Now I just talked to her today and apparantly the first year she was lease holder and her roommates didn't pay full rent then and still don't despite now living month-month without a lease, forcing her to pay $800 of her SSI to rent montly, which is roughly $1500. She hasn't seen a doctor since a month after living in the place, and just hasn't been able to afford her healthcare/medications anymore over rent, she's also lost a scary ammount of weight. Apparantly her boyfriend moved out two months ago and is planning to 'move her in with him' but in the meantime she's defaulting on his portion of the rent now as well that he's not paying. I'm not sure what I can do to tell her to help her, but it sounds to me like these 5 people knew she's incapable of thinking clearly and have just been taking advantage of that, and the boyfriend too. She did have a case manager but the story on that was that the case manager would come over once a week and complain about her boyfriend/summer heat/her job and not actually do as she's payed to, so she had to give it up to save money. That being said, what can I do to help her? I don't want to see her dead before I'm 18 and able to actually give her the help she needs. Even if there' just advice I can give her in the time being. I just don't know what I can do.

There are alot of details, but I will make it brief. My sister is 58 with a 24 year old daughter. They are homeless. When my sisters daughter was 6 they moved in with my parents and freeloaded off them until last year when my father died. She went to nursing school and after not passing the exam twice, gave up. My father always paid all of her bills, even though she worked, he ended up paying her student loans. When he died last year, he had kept track of everything, it totaled over $150k Her daughter is pure evil, has been in trouble with the law, has warrants out for her arrest, etc. When they lived with my dad (who was 93) she used to push him and verbally abuse him. She verbally and physically abuses my sister. My father had written my sister out of the will, but she did get $4,000. Since she was homeless I told her she needed to use the money to get a place to live and get back on her feet, instead she used it to bail her daughter out of jail. Over the past year, she has "borrowed" from eveyone she can. She owes my sister over $8,000. I cut her off after $1,000. Yesterday her daughter was driving her car and the person she was with, the police had been following. They got pulled over, and my sisters car was impounded because she had no insurance and the registration was expired, and there are 4 outstanding speeding tickets (from her daughter). She needs $300 to get the car out of impound. I could help, but should I?

I got PTSD from yelling from my step dad and I get absolutely no sympathy on this website so **** you.

My aunt and me keep butting heads about this....... SHe is one of the closest ppl to me, been that way since I was born. SHe helped raise me. So, I want to work out any lil thing that come between us. She has a strange habit of not washing her plate when she comes over... She refuses to let anyone else touch it, saying she has germs, etc... But she does often take my plate and wash it for me if I leave it, so she doesn't make herself have to look at my dirty plate the way I have to look at hers sometimes... Today she stopped by, left her plate dirty, put it behind the TV and left for work... I waited for her to leave, then washed it, trying not to touch the inside... Is there something wrong with this picture? I usually either wash my plate, or try to leave it in the sink. My aunt does not. Hers stays very conspicuously out of the sink. It's led us to have arguments in the past... If it were my own house, not my parents', I would be a lot more firm, I think... If a friend or relative visited, I would not stand for them insisting that their dirty dish is NOT washed by me, ONLY by them, and will stand dirty and WAIT for them to wash it when THEY so feel like. Thanks for reading... NO, I"m not trolling.

He is such a fat baby jerk smarta$$ My mom should be ashamed to have given birth to such a piece of garbage but instead she is ashamed of ME, her straight A, 13 year old daughter who does all of her chores without complaining. So I accidentally used his napkin at lunch instead of my own. So the whiny baby throws a fit and my mother hits me and is "so ashamed of me" her exact words. wtf? I am a good person. Good grades, does chores, helps my disabled widow grandpa who lives next door without ever accepting his payments, does chores, is nice with my siblings, and I get treated like sh*t. My parents don't trust me...I have never broken any rules or snuck behind their back or anything. AND she lets my brother talk to me like a smarta$$. He calls me fat and ugly and claims that "I am going to marry a pretty skinny woman when I grow up, not a fat ugly girl like you" He makes comments like if I say "Quiet, Mommy is on the phone" he snaps "I DONT CARE" then I get in trouble for it He will scream and "burst into tears" then my mom comes in and he says "she's being mean" and then my mom smacks me. UUUGGHHHHH My seven year old sister and I are very close. Why can't I be close with him? I love him...but he hates me for no good reason. My dad gets mad at my brother so behaving so meanly...and he is a cub scout. How can such a jerk be a boy scout? Is that just how it works? Mom punishes the girls while dad punishes the boys??? I feel like a terrible person. I don't want to be. Why can't he see that I love him? Will he grow out of this bull$hit?

My grandmother has a younger brother. He has a daughter who is the same age as me. What will my dad call his daughter? And what will I call his daughter?

He's 14. I know that he has a low self esteem and he thinks he's ugly... That is not true... He's actually very handsome(hot you can say), his body is perfect, he's tall and very intelligent(one of the smartest in our school) He knows how to behave and is a gentelman. All other guys in our class are losers and idiots, that think girls like being slapped on the butt. He treats all girls very well. I know that 5 other girls in our class have a crush on him(we're both 14 and go to the same school) and all of them are very good looking themselves(They are my friends. They told me that they like my brother and think he's hot) Even I have had fantasies about him... I have even told him that one girl in our class likes him, but he never believes me. When someone talks about looks, he will get uneasy. He can't look into other's eyes when talking. He was this way for at least 2 years. He used to be very happy and had 50+ friends...(yes... 50 or more), but he changed over the years... How do I convince him that he's perfect ? Cause he is... I can't understand how he can even consider himself ugly... And he's not gay... He had a girlfriend before his depression...

So my mom got a phone call from her sister this morning. Her sister asked her if she remembered aunt Rose. Aunt rose was their step mom s aunt. Essentially their step great aunt. They lost contact with her after they got older. A few years ago my aunt ran into Rose at the grocery store. She had no idea they lived in the same town. Even so they didn t keep in contact after running into each other. Last night after my Aunt and Uncle got home from a walk she saw she had a missed phone call. When she looked at the caller I.D. it was from Rose. The weird thing is when my Aunt tried to return the call the # was disconnected. That s why my aunt decided to call my mom. Imagine her surprise when she asked my mom if she remembered aunt Rose and my mom replied oh yeah she just passed away last year. Just to make sure they called their step sister to confirm. Yep she passed away last Aug. They even found her obituary. And the phone number that called was her #. But when my mom, aunt and step aunt all tried to call the # back. It was disconnected. What do you think?

Yesterday my parents told me that they are getting divorced. They have been fighting a lot for a year now. So I guess they decided that this was the best way to solve the problem. I'm very sad about this :( I never thought that they'd get divorced. Why are they? Is it because of me??

I recently found out that I am part Ashkenazim. I was brought up not knowing this. My family lived in South America where I was born, To my surprise, I am zero Hispanic. Should I go to a synagogue and find out more about my heritage?

ALL of my friends have the game, and i feel left out. The only reason im not allowed is because my mom doesnt like violence. Is my mom right?

My mom use to work as an accountant and dad lied to her about owning a millionaire dollar business in America. She fell in love with my dad and married him and even though he lied to her she stayed with him for 20 years. Even though we have two cars and college was 10 minutes away, my mom chooses to stay at home and complain. My dad works 16 hours a day and he is not making money. The thing is my mom could have made the decision of going back to college and having a career, but instead she spends 24/7 at home and she complains about my body. For 20 years my parents marriage have been falling apart and my mom decides not to do anything about but just nag about my physical appearance because she doesn't want to WORK! Dad doesn't know how to run his business properly or be a good husband/father. My mom is almost 50 and I'm about to go to college this year. She doesnt care

I live and work in the same town as my parents. They've never really understood the idea of long-distance dating (we met online but have had a number of meetings in person), and have always pressured me to just find a local boy. Anyway, I'm looking to move down to be closer to my boyfriend. I'm not moving in with him, I'll rent my own apartment just like I'm doing up here. I'm also setting it up so I'll have an ok job and be working on a degree in education while I'm down there - and I'm not exactly in a career-track job right now, although it pays the bills, so I don't feel like I'm giving up anything there. But my parents are freaked out about the idea. They're still convinced my boyfriend is going to turn out to be some sort of sexual predator and they haven't wanted to meet him except in short, very guarded interactions, even though we've known each other 6 years and been dating for 2. They think moving down to be with someone I "barely know" is the height of stupidity and I'm going to ruin my life. Is there anything I can do here?

My son is 5 and my daughter is 14, they fight constantly, I'm a single father by the way. He does something to bug her, she takes it upon herself to scream at him, they say they hate each other, I end up resolving the issue( until the next one). This weekend, my daughter & my sister went away for a " girls weekend", as she had today off, they left yesterday. Last night though, I noticed he seemed sad. He admitted he missed his sister a lot and wished she were home. I brought up that if he missed her so much, why does he say he hates her & bug her. Ultimately it was that he wanted attention from her & somebody to play with. I called my daughter & she was pretty moved by it, promised to not get mad at him anymore & to play with him more. Is the issue resolved?

Please don't take this the wrong way, because I love children and think they're a blessing. But I get tired of seeing posts on my news feed from my FB friend who always makes it sound as if [God forbid] her children are dying. The reality is that the spiritual fuss she makes over them is merely nothing more than headaches, colds, fevers, i.e. the typical non threatening illnesses that children experience. I understand that seeing your child sick is heartbreaking. My mother even told me how she worried she was when I had strep throat, and I was 25! But she knew for a fact that I wasn't dying, and that she was just expressing a mother's love. But I guarantee you my mom didn't tell people to send prayers, and neither should my FB friend, unless her children are terminally ill. As far as them having something harmless like a cold, ONE request for prayers is enough, but not a prayer every time they're sick. Sorry for sounding heartless, but my friend just goes overboard.

My dad is a really nice guy, but he is aggressive and strict in some things. He is most strict on the way I study and to my football practice. I like football, but I am getting bored of going practice everyday. My dad just dont understand that. My friends asked me to go with them at the cinema this Saturday and I couldn't go because of my football practice. I thought that it will be cool not go to practice one day and have fun with friends, I spoke to my coach and he was OK with it too. When my dad learnt this, oh my god he got so aggressive. He yelled at me 1hour+ telling me that I can't leave practice, that practice is more important than friends and shits like that, he told me to cancel my plans because I was grounded. TF. He doesnt allow me leave the house at all, he even deleted my FB account and took my phone away so I would not be able to speak with my friends. I don't even know when I am getting my phone and FB account back. I don't know what to say to him, I still regret that I didn't move with my mum back then. I am being really pressured and i am just 13. I am apologising if my English is not ok I am coming from Germany

My friend and I wanan go to this concert and are moms will pay for the tickets it's just my sister (she's 20) would be taking us and my friends mom wants my mom to take us but my mom doesn't feel like being in a car that long even tho she's not even doing anything that day. We need help is there anything you guys think we can do?

I'm going to say this as briefly as I can. I was engaged to this girl but she broke it off. I didn't have feelings for her (arranged). I then got engaged to her sister because I did like her and it was my own choice this time. On the wedding day, my bride ditched me and then I was forced to marry her sister a.k.a ex fiancée. A lot of drama happened and then my wife's sister married my cousin. Now we all live in the same house and we're all jealous of each other. I hate my ex fiancée for her betrayal. I would have eventually forgiven her if it was just a case of cold feet on her part like she said. She said she wasn't ready for marriage after jilting me but then married my cousin? WTF? She was obviously quite ready to marry him. I hate the both of them but I get so pissed off when I see them together. I think I still have feelings for her despite also hating her and I don't know what to do. My wife keeps pressuring me to move on with her (I haven't even touched her yet) but I just can't. What should I do?

So this morning I woke up with a strained muscle in my calf. It was very painful for me to walk or even stand. I told my father that I would be able to go to school after I wait it out a few minutes and massage it. And he said that was fine. So twenty minutes later when my leg was better again, I got ready to go to school. When I went to my father and told him my leg was better he said he wasn't going to take me to school because he thought I was lying. He was complaining to me about how I had too many absences from school and now he's forcing me to get another one. He already went to work and I can't go to school on my own because I live two miles away from school. Help?

My parents saw my grades and took away my phone. They yelled at me and that $hit because of a 66 is algebra. I literally went in for help everyday in algebra during lunch for 3 weeks which is 15 days, I did all my homework and clearly worked hard. Even the comment said that I tried hard but they didn t care they like numbers. My parents are the type who think you need good grades to get a house and a pool because they are a$$holes. I really wanted to smack them across the face at that point. But I realized my mistake with this but I went to my closet pretend the wall was my parents the punched a hole. The hole was easy to hide so I hid the hole. Eventually they will find it but I took my anger the wrong what would be a way to take out anger next time something like this happens.

im a 21 yr old girl i have a part time job but not enough to move out maybe i can crash on your couch for a while. i will clean and bring gifts and cook and do kaucry and the dishes i will help out as much as i possibily can until i find something more permenant, my dad is such an a-s-s hole he bullys me and nags me all day long and my mom is just the same they are pushing me to get mental help because they just because my room is a little messy, my dad is so passive agressive he is always trying to push me to do things i cqnt live my life like this its killing me i want independance i aant my own space away from my parents i want to be free. if you do decide to welcome me to your home it would mean more to me than you could possibly imagine you would be with me on the first steps on my journey to independance

Ok heres the deal, I found that my mom cheated on my dad by text.It was the 5th month of the year (May) and i think they had sex because..Well 9 months later my mom had a baby on February!And I don't know if she's my real sister or my step sister! Please help! I'll type some text messages down below: Guy : I Missed you today baby. Mom ; Boy i missed you so much! When do you work? Guy: Im working next saturday but we can go get a drink on Friday. Ok so thats all i got! Please Help!

We are nearly 15... We met 2 weeks ago. She occasionally flirts with me and spends a lot of time near me. We have to share a room for 1 more week until we get separate rooms. She glances/stares at me in the mornings when I get out of bed in boxers and then makes jokes about it. She's very touchy and friendly at the same time. Are these the signs that she likes me ? I do find her hot and I like her, but I'm not sure since she's a family member now... What should I do ?

Alright, I'm fourteen. At this age all three of my brothers were getting good grades, being good, happy, funny teenagers. I am quite different. Im fourteen and I do drugs and drink alcohol. I smoke and I'm always *so* close to ******* guys. My mother says im a disappointment and I say "**** you." right back. Im her only daughter, her youngest child. She doesnt like me. I have terrible grades but im in AP classes and have been since 1st grade because my test scores are extremely high. I ask my mom "how was your day?" When i first see her "good until now" she says. Please, do you have any idea as to why Im so different? Being a failure sucks ***.

I'm 18 years old and my dad is in his early 40s, he suffers breathing problems and he also has a money spending addiction. I never been to the beach or had a vacation trip growing up. He's always been used to not having to work and just having things handed to him from his mom and my mom. He'll often start purposely annoying them until they take out loans to buy him expensive/random things like new vehicles, flat screens, new computers, gaming consoles. They also go in debt with the bank often because he gets impatient and can't wait to buy stuff when they don't have the money for it and he guilt trips and uses his breathing issues hoping that they'll feel bad and buy it. Mainly why this affects my trip to Florida is because he wants to come with me to the beach and spend more money than I have visiting Disney world/buying expensive hotels next to the beach. He's also been guilt tripping me because he wants me to drop my plans going to Florida and just go to California beach instead when I've already planned out going to Florida. My dad keeps telling me how he might die soon and how he's already been to Florida and hadn't seen his old friend who now lives in CA since 20 years ago and it's making me feel like **** but he's wanting to do more in CA that we don't even have money for. I love my dad to death and don't mind if he comes with me but i really don't have that much money and he doesn't seem to understand it. I've been working full time saving my money.

My dad has been blaming, bossing and scolding me for just about everything around the home and being given the most responsibilities and chores despite me having younger siblings and an older sibling. My eldest sibling has also told some lies about me online that had painted the image of me being a manly man/macho man and a misogynist where I am now ridiculed by society for getting a styled haircut, dressing in a certain manner appearing at certain places, etc. Both my dad and eldest sibling have been treating me like this since the day I missed out on attending a metrosexual/feminisation program when parents took my siblings to such program. I have since been feeling very conflicted and agitated to a point I had resorted to self-defamation by telling my own lies about myself being a convicted paedophile online and in public, which has also caused me to become blacklisted in error from what I missed out on. I believe my identity and preferences aligned with metrosexuality by nature even before parents took my siblings to such programs.

I am 15 right now and Im 5'3 Im shorter than some of the fifteen year olds at my school. I want to have a modeling career and I want to start at 16-17 so I am curious if I'll be tall or not.

Lately, I've been thinking my mom is codependent. She wants to live with me (her daughter) and I am in my 20's. She broke up with her boyfriend years prior and she is looking for a new boyfriend. She basically is really bored with life I guess and I am afraid that I will never get married or have a life if she is living with me. Also, I feel like we were super close through childhood up until high school, but now I feel a strain on our relationship. I feel like I want to be more independent and unfortunately it's worse because I didn't go away to college. What to do about codependency? She also talks to me about problems which I am happy to help but she feels upset a lot

My little sister is upset she's been crying the past half hour. She can't sleep. She said she's not feeling good she wants me to stay with her. It's 3:00 in the morning. She can't stop crying. I asked her what's wrong she doesn't want to talk about it. She's scared and she's not feeling well. How can I help her feel better ? What should I say to her ?

I am a 21 year old male. A year away from graduation. Living with parents. I take full-time classes and work practically full-time as well. I have for 4 years. I know that the house is theirs. But I struggle with my parents. My Dad and my Mom divorced when I was 12. My Mom was an alcoholic since I was 10 and made my childhood a living hell for years beyond their divorce. Also cheated on him 4 different times before the divorce. She ended up committing suicide last year in March after all of that. My Dad has always had a temper. He gave 18 years of his life to her then told me and my brother he didn't plan to re-marry for a long while. That long while turned out to be 6 months. Insert my step-mom into the picture. A nitpicking, control-freak who simply always has to have things her way. She literally berated me when I was a kid for accidentally locking her out of the house, for not giving up my seat after I had been sitting there for 20 minutes at a table, and she cried over my brother accidentally using her bath towel. She is so emotionally unhinged and used to being in power. She also gave 18 years of her life to the guy before my Dad who treated her like ****. The thing is is I have kept very quiet since I was a kid about my life and what is going on because I am inwardly pretty upset about the kind of crap I have put up with. My Dad and Stepmom do no wrong in each other's eyes. Something goes wrong in the house, it's either my fault or my brother's. I have been drug and alcohol free my whole life. Gotten great academic grades. Participated in sports. Been my best to others and always generous. Despite everything I have been through. I never start fights with them. It's always them starting something with me over the ground rules they have laid, most of which I deem absurd. Whether it's the way I park in the driveway when they hog up the entire driveway, or leaving a little water on the mat after I get out of shower, I just cannot win They are completely predictable how they will respond to everything. So I often keep things important to me out of their line of fire, and deal with things a lot on my own. I am pretty fiercely independent. I just don't have the financial resources to get out on my own for another year. I know I am fricking stuck. I just feel it's kind of absurd to lead the life I have and have to put up with this crap. I mean I shouldn't feel like I resent my parents at 21, but I don't like a single one of them I am not far from leaving this house. I just am running out of ways to hang in there because it seems like every time i find a new way, they find a new way to crawl underneath my skin. I honestly don't feel I can go to them for anything. I stay at school and work constantly and travel to avoid them. They are elders at our church too. They are totally different people outside of it. Everything I have learned from the 3 of them is how not be as a parent and a spouse.

okay my sister is the biggest and I mean biggest dumb idiot I have ever met she's 28 but she behaves half her age I have always been there for her to hear her problems when she got divorced and when her husband killed himself a few weeks back and doesn't seem to care she has 3 kids and she was dating a 24 year old player guy and she posted many stupid things of him like her twerking on him at a club and sexually dancing and even posted a pic of him sleeping and hugging her with her breasts covered under a white blanket as her Facebook profile pic she even tried getting pregnant by him but it didn't work and now he left her because the girl he likes finally payed attention to him she is "destroyed" and like always came to me her stupider older sister, crying after I told her I have problems of my own I don't need to hear hers and she is still crying and trying to get back at him I'm tired of her stupid annoying *** how do I tell her her truths? any advice will help people thanks

I just need to know if they do a paternity test, would it be possible they think it is his since we more or less share the same DNA because he's my dad?

I am 15 and I m French 2 this year and i love it. Next year during spring break there is a trip to France with the French department. I really want to go and it seems like an awesome opportunity. I will be 16 so I think I will be old enough and responsible. There will be adults and teachers and a tour guide. For them the main problem is the cost it is $3,560 or around there. I don t know what i can do to let me go. I read my mom the itinerary I will tell my dad tomorrow, but I don t think they ll let me. I want to go so bad it is killing me. Do you think a PowerPoint will help. I will also tell them that I will pay around $600 because that is all I have or they pay them pay them back. I need advice I have 8 days to sign up.

I started a business a while ago and ever since my family bugs me to hire my own siblings and my cousins and even nephews but the truth is I don't want to because they spoke poorly of me growing up. I am also going to a conference and they want to come with me and it is driving me nuts I had my plans to bone some girl I met ugh! What do I do?

My parents took their argument overboard and heard a loud pound following a smack. I was at my living room studying and heard them arguing from their room with door closed. Moments later I heard pounding sounds and that alarmed me, so I went to their room and saw my Mom crying with her hands in her face walking away from him and Father facing her. When I went inside he reacted as if he had done something bad. I told them both that this was enough and grabbed the phone and walked out because I was going to "dial 911": The commotion went complex between me and them. Mom told me she pat herself loud and Father told me he was only talking. I do no take this as true. So, has this ever happened to anyone? And has anyone reacted in a manner where you had seen your parents fight enough to a point of taking things in your own hands? Parents caught in a physical fight? Need input and closure please?

I am 16 and living in a very small duplex with my mom, uncle, 9 year old brother, and 9 month old son. It has 2 rooms side by side without a door in between. There is no kitchen. There is not a real bathroom, only a small add on with only a shower. It is not built very well and the sheet rock it s made of is crumbling. The roof of the bathroom leaks when it rains because of its very poor structure. It s filled with a family of water bugs and smells horribly. We have to go to the other side of the house to use the toilet. The other side of the house is also very nasty. I am looking for legal advice as to what I can do to help my situation. My mom is physically disabled and we live off of my survivors benefits that I receive from the death of my father. That is only $720/mo. Our rent for this place is $500/mo. (Not worth the price at all). My mom also makes living here for me a lot worse. She degrades me and makes me feel like nothing. Could someone please provide me with information as to what can help my situation that would not get my son taken away and my brother and I put in foster care (if possible)?

That's when i'll be the most financially stable because I finished college and i'm saving up for a home. People are already moving out at 19 but i'm gonna be the grown woman still living with mommy

Hi I am having my boyfriend over this weekend and we plan on messing around for the first time. My mom will be staying over at her boyfriend's place as she usually does on weekends so we will be alone...except for my 73 year old grandma whose pretty conservative and close-minded. She is a little anti-gay (we're a gay couple) and doesn't really like the idea of me dating a guy, much less having sex with him in the apartment. Plus we're only 17 and can't afford a hotel. My room doesn't have a lock on it either. So it's very likely she'll randomly barge in periodically to see what we're up to. So I have a plan to prevent this. Basically she always drinks soda out of this cup that has a screw-on lid. I was thinking of crushing up 2 Benadryl tablets and putting them in there so when she drinks, they will sedate her for a few hours and give us time to do what we want. Two always knocks me out when I have trouble sleeping so I know for sure it'll knock her out too. Yes I know it's not nice to drug her but this is really the only way I'll get to do what I want. There's really no way around it. I mean, Benadryl isn't harmful either. It's naturally a sedative. But would they still knock her out when I put them in her soda? Or would they have no effect at all? I appreciate your help! Thanks for your answers :) OMG stop posting this in the Mexico category, Yahoo!! It's a family issue, not anything to do with Mexico.

I remembered this because of a nightmare I had last night and this scarred me for life obviously and I have nothing but guilt and years of therapy to go through cause of this. My dad said "You're a bad son for wanting me to live in pain." Click. -Last words of my father to me before he killed himself. I was trying to talk him out of it over the phone. Now I'm the one stuck with the plan to kill himself in a few years or less. Oh well.

Long story short, I posted "Alles Gute zum Geburtstag mein Führer" to StormFront in school, I got yelled at and received detention, my dad hit me over it when he came home, and he just got a screenshot of my StormFront post in his email and now my parents told me that they're considering disabling my internet for the rest of the school year.

I'm 17 and currently have 2 jobs. Landscaping and the car wash. I work the car wash Friday 4:30-8:30, Saturday 7:10-3:30 and Sunday 9-5:30. Since it is spring break, I also do landscaping from roughly 8-5, Monday-Friday. Today I worked 8-3:30 landscaping and 4:30 to 8:30 at the car wash. The summer will be similar. My parents are making me cut back my landscaping hours but I don't want to. Why should they care how much I work? Nobody is making me work these hours, I want to. More hours equals more money. Should they make me cut back my hours? Do they even have an argument? Thanks!

To be more specific what age did you move out from your parents house? Did you find it easy to move out and start living on your own or with a roomate?

I play an instrument, i have my own website, I love college and want to graduate, so I know the beauties of life. 20 something, independent, just recently had to move back in with dad bc of financial circumstances (hoodwinked by a dumb-@$$ part time job I was becoming complacent with, and after 10 months there was no progression or money to be made so i quit, and got another PT job while looking for a corporate position in the field i have exp in. Credit was good for 3 yrs, then last yr, due to sh*tty wages and college eating up everything (1K in debt, not counting student loans), its atrocious. I live in a city that isnt a place where jobs are available for creative, inspired people. All that's here for undergraduates are pretty much temp agency work, retail, bar and restaurant (been there, done that). I have a possible identity thief who filed taxes this year under my ssn (I just saw it when i got a rejection email from the IRS when I tried to file an extension). Luckily dont have much tax to pay at all this year. My mother and father are mentally ill - My mother has pretty much disowned me, and my dad is supportive, but i don't want to be a burden to him any longer, and identity theft is a BIOTCH to handle, financially and mentally as it is. Should I just kill myself and get it over with, because to employers and education institutions, I'll now be considered a miscreant malcontent who is to blame because she cant even manage her own privacy or finances?

My brother's wife is so lazy she never goes grocery shopping. She refuses go to work. She won't even drive him to the hospital when he fell seriously ill. She won't even throw out the trash. She won't even spend a penny on her baby's food, toys or clothes. He has to buy everything. But she kept nagging him and my brother finally got her a $50k SUV. I doubt she'll use it to go grocery shopping. Do you think this lazy BlTCH deserves it?

So I'm about 22 and I'm in a weird situation. I lived away from home for 3 years where I ended up getting depression which got worse due to a sexual abuse incident, trouble with the law and being unable to pay for an apartment without my parents help. So basically my parents have given me so many chances to live independently and I've screwed it. Now I'm back at home and going crazy. I'm not complaining about chores or lack of privacy I've lived without all my life but I'm talking about not being able to have friends or see friends ever, having a curfew every night at 8pm even though i commute every day 2 hours and my last class ends at 6pm. The only thing I'm allowed to do is watch netflix in my room. I could handle that during the school year but this is my last semester before I head off to a program for my major that I have yet to be accepted or even apply for. I just don't think I can handle another summer of netflix again. My parents have forbidden me from leaving at all until i finish school which is do-able only because any program I get accepted to will be 3+ hours away so I'm allowed to move out then. I'm just tired of staying at home feeling incompetent and empty to the point where I've attempted suicide 3 times since moving back and I realize how selfish and ungrateful I sound but I'm not doing this because I'm trying to be dramatic. I don't know what to do. I know I should just wait but I'm worried I might not last that long under these conditions

Okay so I was in the kitchen and I was just playing around and my mom jokingly said "Stop playing around before I make you do chores." I didn't understand what she said so I said "Wait what'd you say?" She repeated it like 4 times cause I really didn't know what she said and then I finally got it. Later on she called me to her room and told me to close the door. She asked me was I making fun of her earlier. I was so confused and I was just thinking to myself. All of a sudden she started crying and I kept telling her I wasn't making fun of her! And then she finally told me to get out and go to my room. I don't know what to do?