She was cheating on me wh a Puerto Rican guy who is 38 and she is 26. We have three kids together and the third one was born in sin because she was cheating at the time he was born. She cheated for 8 months from august to this month. I found out then I kicked her out and took away our kids so she could suffer. I brought her back because I couldn't take care of the kids so I don't let her out at all and took away all her devices and she has to ask for permission for everything from now on including using the restroom and eating. Her bedroom is now the garage and there is no friends coming over either. Our three month old misses her but I can't let them near her. I don't want the kids near her because she doesn't deserve to be with them. When I see her in a good mood I feel like bringing her down so I rain on her parade. We were outside having a good cookout and I told her she couldn't come out or eat with us in family because only good people get to share with others. Our kids call her a ***** and I told my sister in law to call the police and tell them that she won't leave the house but I don't know what else to punish her with. I've been thinking of embarrassing her and telling the whole family of what she did. My sister in law told me the whole story after everything came out clean and I believed every single detail. And no I am not a troll but I don really want her to suffer.

My husband and i are newly weds. Ever since we married, he been a lot closer to my family including my parents and 4 sisters. He is gorgeously handsome, brilliant and used to be very popular among the ladies. Women couldn't resist hitting on him back then. So I get a bit paranoid that my bunch of sisters might flirt with or hit on him whenever they are over at my house. I have faith that he won't cheat on me but I hate the idea of anyone hitting on him. I would spy/eavesdrop on their conversations from the living room. And I always stick around my sisters and husband whenever they are over and scrutinize them.

Hey guys my girl of 2 years whom I live with does. Not allow me to put rules at home with her 5 year old child who I care about like if he was my own I don't have any kids yet we where planning on getting married next year but this has me thinking about my future how it would be she gets offended if I tell the child something like if he's gonna jump off something and I see it can harm him it will bother her if I want to show the kid where to put his clothes put his toys away etc etc he back talks to me and her but yet she calls me daddy and the kid does two but I have no say but yet she told the baby daddy's father she still loves him after a breakup she begged and begged and begged and I gave her a chance again but recently I saw a msg saying to the baby daddy that it bothers that someone else is filling in his shoes so why is she with me and why does she want me involved and at the same time she doesn't

My husband and I married in 2011 in the U.S. and lived there until 2016, when we left the country to travel. We have now separated and plan to divorce. The problem: I am in Colombia and he is in England. Neither of us currently has plans to go back to the U.S. anytime soon, if ever. What can we do to split up and have it recognized in the U.S.? We have no kids, no house, all money in separate accounts and neither wants anything from the other, just a clean break. Help? (We lived in New York state.)

I have known three couples where the men cheated, and my friend is a therapist and tells me she sees more men cheat than women in marriage, why is that?

I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 35 with 3 kids of her own from a previous marriage and relationship. I love her and her kids adore me, but I'm just... I dunno, I'm just don't know if I'm ready to step in and be a father at my age. My family tells me that I should be living my life, testing the waters and looking for something with no baggage. Not taking on a ready made family. While I can understand where they are coming from, I still love her. What should I do? Would asking her to marry me be a mistake?

i get the feeling he doesnt like me due to things which happened between me and my wife before we married. i met him for the first time at the wedding and he was very unfriendly with me. several times i caught him staring at me and he didnt look away. hes 18 and im 26, could he even beat me up if he tried? hes only like 5'7 i would say he isnt even a famous boxer. hes only a trainee plumber who does these fights as hobby we live in a different country from her family and none of them are particularly close

If a young entrepreneur says that make $175,000/yr on a bad year & when preparing a budget says put down $6000/min per month as his income and is he rich

I'm getting married soon and my fiancée and I split everything: food, mortgage, so on. Is this normal? People say it's weird and only roommmates do that. Just wanted to know if we are the only couple doing so.

And not call him a premature ejaculator.

My husband is cheating, I have evidence, haven't asked him yet because I am so upset, why do they do this? We had a great marriage, why?

It was a whirlwind fling of about a month, I came to my senses and stopped My husband has been so good to me and now he is ill I am consumed with guilt I want to tell him to clear the air so if anything happens to him at least he knows the truth.

since the day I met my spouse his brother has always said sexual things about me&has always played it off as a joke U r having a party your hubby invites his brother2the party this is your1st time hanging out with his brother outside of family events as the party starts2end&you're drunk husband says he's going2bed&asked u2stay up2make sure his drunk brother doesn't drive&get some sleep so you're sitting in the living room chatting with your brother in law then he stands up walks towards u&he stops next2u&grabs your breasts& u slap his hand&tell him no he continues2try2grab@your breasts&tries2get down your shirt u continue2firmly say NO&slap his hands away he continues2ramble about wanting2get in2your shirt you're shaking&scared u keep saying no slapping his hands away he finally gives up&walks away into the restroom while he's in the restroom u put a blanket&pillow on the couch u put his keys on the kitchen table&go2your room u wake your spouse who also is drunk u r crying&tell him what happened he brushes It Off&tells u2go2bed the next morning u wake up&your brother-in-law is gone&u explain again2 your spouse what happened your husband text messages his brother&then calls him your brother-in-law answers&your husband asks y did u grab my wife's breast what the hell?Your brother-in-law replies I was drunk I'm sorry! your husband then tells him how frightened u r Your brother-in-law responds with tell her not2 b scared&I'm sorry! Everyone tells u just2let it go

I walked in on my wife and another, umm, larger, man last week and since then, I haven't been able to get hard without thinking about it. For some reason the thought of another man pleasing my wife really turns me on. I'm also fantasizing about her humiliating my penis size while having sex with someone else. My question is, is there something wrong with me for thinking like this instead of being furious that my wife was cheating?

We've been together about three years now. I've been noticing some weird symptoms for a week, ever since I experimented with anal sex with another man. We didn't use a condom because he assured me he was clean. Since then, I have continued to have sex with my wife because I don't want her to suspect anything even though I know it's wrong. I want to tell her but I don't want her to find out I'm attracted to men. What should I do??

Husband had feelings for another women our entire marriage? He tells me this 11 years later what does that mean about our entire marriage? ....He cheated on me with her 11 years later (now) ....I feel like our entire marriage wasn't real. I'm hurt but ok trying to figure out what this means for our entire marriage and what it really was.

I move. And he efuses to move with me but I make 111k, he makes 65k. He won't look for a job to be with me. He now says I am acting weird and I should just ignore the entire thing. He gets mad if I bring it up, should I be concerned?

My ex wife was so loud and angry when we first separated. We were always arguing. She asked me for sex last month i ignored her and told her im filing this week. Ever since then, she took me off child support is working with me financially, when i text she is texting one word texts and never texts me. It's weird. What brought the change. Is she seeing someone new

I don't care, and I know my wife's oblivious when it comes to emasculation, but do other wives do this, reference some past sex they've had, all the time (like once a year or two) she just did again, and tried to cover up like she wasn't. seriously, it's weird and it kinda makes me want to cheat (I'm not, of course because why would I want to deal with two women?) but anyway why does a woman do this (out loud)? FYI, i'm not taking care of this woman, she contributes equally to the household, so she's not some trapped ho with no respect, reminiscing.

Hello, my husband and I have been married for 2 years we're both in our mid 20s. He's my best friend and honestly aside from some small hiccups our marriage has been bliss. Ive always wanted to have kids and my husband although not to enthusiastic about it agreed to having 1 or 2 once we were financially stable and both ready. We use the pull out method and a couple of weeks ago my husband was a little too excited and didn't pull out in time. I took a test and was excited to find out I'm pregnant! However when I sprung the news to my husband he laughed and thought I was joking. When I assured him I wasn't thenfirst thing he said was "well you'll have to get an abortion". Words cannot describe how much those words hurt me, I think I felt my heart break. I told him I could never do that and I don't want to and he shouldn't either and he stormed out of the house and went to his friends house for the night. He retired in the morning with a hangover and tried to convince me to get an abortion. This started a huge fight and ended up with me crying and losing respect for him. Ever since he's been cold and distant and gives me dirty looks whenever I make eye contact. We invited my parents over to tell them the news and they were so happy for us and my husband put on a huge show and acted like he was so excited and couldent wait. When they left I said "you're some actor" and he said "did you want me to tell them the truth? Like how disgusted I am about this"? I told him I really couldent believe him and he told me that I should expect this because he never wanted to have a kid this early and we as husband and wife are not ready. He then told me " you do what you want to do but don't look to me for tons of help because you know what I want". He then said that pregnant or not my responsibilities as a wife to him don't change and he expects things to stay the same during the pregnancy. Last night he came in the bedroom and said he wanted sex. I told him I wasn't really in the mood and wouldent be anytime soon with the way he's acting. His response was "that sounds like a you problem now are you gonna do it or not". I was so upset at this point I just said you know what, fine and started undressing. I looked at him and said "you know I'm really not into this right now I'm doing it solely for you" and he said "that's no skin off my nose, thanks" and he had sex with me while I just payed there wanting to cry in my head. What in the???? Why is my husband doing this? I refuse to ever have an abortion and whether he's ready or not we were blessed with this baby and we're having it. And he's just gonna have to get used to it. Has anyone else gone through this? Could it just be he's scared or nervous? I feel so alone.....

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If you DON'T know what your outlook on marriage/divorce is, then answer this to help (only if you have no clue): What would it take for you to marry someone? and then what would it take for you to divorce someone? OR Do you know anyone who as gone through a divorce? Why did the marriage have to end? Did the divorce affect their kids? and how did the divorce affect their relationship with you or their social status with family and friends?

I'm 28 and i've been married for 5 years. I love my husband, but I had strong feelings for a younger man at my ex-job, which turned out that he was just using me to make another woman jealous. I moved to a new job for a month now, but i've been distracted by the hurt feelings every time i remember how much he likes her and how he was just using me. I want to stop caring about the guy and the girl he likes, but i've been crying my eyes off every night begging God to take the feeling away, but I still feel the same. Please have mercy on me and pray for me or giving any advice.

Okay so I bring in 2500 every 2 weeks doing Warehouse Labor, Graveyard shift. My wife doesn't work, she just sits at our apartment and handles the house upkeep. Now this last week when my check rolled in, it was 1300. I had to help a friend out of some problems and that's why it was a little low. My wife looks at my check without my permission and yells through the house "Who have you been messing with? Your check hasn't ever been this small. Where have you been these hours that you're not working?" I try to explain to her that I was helping my friend and she just straight shuts that down with "BS you cheating." Man it took all the word of god to keep me from laying hands on her at that point. I'm sitting here trying to explain to her why things is the way they is and she just shut it down like I don't have that right. Seeing she wasn't in the mood to talk, I got up and made my way to the door. This heffer runs in front of the door and yells "You're not going anywhere until this lost time and money is accounted for." I don't feel like talking to her while she's disrespecting me like this, so I locked myself up in our bedroom. How do I get this woman to leave me alone?

I know someone who says he doesn't miss his wife whenever she's overseas visiting her relatives. He says it's cuz he knows she'll return. Still, I find this at least a little but cold. How can you not mis your wife? What do you say?

Be it myself, him, or the kids, he can't handle any other emotions except for happy ones. He can't manage his own emotions, and has extremely angry outburts and he even smacked one of the kids on the leg last night during an outburst, while shouting at her. She's only 3.

I'll try to make this short but my husband and I bought a house 2 years ago from a man that did the work on the home through a self-owned company; he lived there during that time. Long story short, we bought the house, later very expensive things went wrong which lead us to find out he did a lot of major work illegally, without permits. We entered into a lawsuit with the man because he was not willing to work it out with us and we are getting to the final stages and due to the high amount of money on the line, about 75K, my husband is concerned the man will want to send someone to hurt/kill us so he wants to install a safe room in the house which I think is totally bizarre and paranoid. The man has said nothing threatening to us, my husband is just merely afraid he will become unhinged through it. I am not saying he won't, he could, but it is HIGHLY UNLIKELY. We can't own a gun because my husband sleep walks and we used to have one and he fired it off in his sleep. We literally cannot have a gun, we tried multiple things. I think a safe room is absolutely crazy and expensive not to mention. Am I not looking at the risk of the situation appropriately? Help me someone.

The divorce paper are file and just waiting but She call me all the time. It's about to tell me something funny that just happen at work or to ask my opinion on her sister getting divorced and what they should do to try to prevent it. To tell me that I should go out and date new woman or ask if what to have sex. But she's firm on not wanting to get back together and not wanting to work on the marriage. the conversation always ends with how are the kids. But it might be a five minute conversation or a 25-minute conversation before that one is asked. I don't getting it. One minute its going good between as and the next day I'm a a**hole. I know you never understand a woman. But can I get a woman opinion on this?

If you are having problems with your significant other is talking bend their back and venting your frustrations with them to a single opposite sex single acceptable?

by inviting a 3rd party (female). I'm on the fence, it could be fun, or it could be awkward. I'm secure in my relationship, I love my husband and I know he loves me. What do you think? Anyone with experience in this?

do you believe couples who swing or partner swap are truly in love? or is the wife so in love and it pleases the man to see hi swife be taken by another so she just does it anyway?

I can't stop thinking about a co worker, I get hot and 'glow' when he speaks to me. I think of him at home, when my husband makes love to me I fantasize it's him. I couldn't wait to get home on Friday for some privacy so I masturbated in the bathroom at work something I haven't done since college! Is this emotional cheating? And will it stop?

This is like the 15th time in 3 years. The verbal abuse over dumb stuff. My phone was off and he thought I was ignoring him and my daughter had stubbed her toe and wanted to talk to me according to the voicemail. He cursed me out and I called back as soon as my phone was charged. She turned out to be ok. The name calling is very bad how could you call your husband or wife a piece of sh*t because you think they are ignoring you. It's time for a divorce I already spoke with him several times about name calling. This time I didn't even attack him with names either. It's such a shame that families have to divorce because of emotional abuse. How do I break the news to him?

My worst fear has finally come true. I saw erotic text messages between my wife of 9 years and her personal trainer. I looked him up on the gym's website and found him to be a 22 year old college football player who also works part time at the gym. I always knew my wife was a whore, but I never thought she would cheat on me with a black man. I thought that if she would cheat it would be with some skinny white kid and I could just ignore it. Now I know that nothing will ever be the same down there thanks to the 6'8 tight end/personal trainer/wife banger. I also found lingerie in the closet that my wife has never worn with me. I found it last week and thought she was surprising me, but now I know it was never meant for me. I don't know what to do. I still love my wife, but I don't know if I can stand the thought of sharing a hole with a colored person. I also don't know if I should expose the trainer. What do you guys think I should do?

I am doing an assignment interviewing couples who have been married for 15 years or longer. Please answer the following questions below How did you first met your spouse and what did you found attractive about each other? How would you characterize your marriage? why do you believe your marriage has lasted for so long? And Finally, what advice they would have for young couples who want to have a long-lasting marriage.