I had to move because family and friends were beating up on me and hurting me in other ways (sexual abuse)( both boyfriend and ex boyfriend). I ve been to counseling and have been on Meds. I am a year into college and still haven t met anyone yet. I ve joined the gym (ended up stopping because I wasn t making any progress there either). I don t know what to do. I m afraid I ll be alone and I don t want to live alone. Is there any hope for me?

There is a junior guy I like. He's really cute but he has a girlfriend. I had a dream that I gave a obvious hint that I liked he and he told me he loved me too. The next day I avoided him as much as possible. I don't know why. End of dream. He told me to stop by his work and say hi after I had told him I had plans near his workplace. I didn't go because I had left at 5:00 and his shift started at 5:30.

I'm 20 and I'm still a virgin, will guys not go out with me if they know that? And will they be okay waiting until we are serious to have sex? I really just want it to be special and I'm also paranoid about getting pregnant.

I am a Male about to turn 17 and i am having a hard time finding cool activities to do while i chill with my friends, i have no pool or campfire access, but i have a tv and a pool table and a pretty high budget for buying cool things to do with my friends that are both girls and guys. Please help me out!

When we are together we feel in love. He makes me laugh/ flirts with me. when we are not around we only text & he barely texts me back on time.we only hang out when I tell him we should. It's always my idea.when I ask him why he says why do I have to say let's hang out it shouldn't matter as long as we hang out. I asked him why he keeps his distance like we barely talk to each other and when we do we just text each other what we are doing & say good morning. He told me that he don't know what happened to him he just wants to be isolated. But sometimes he goes to the gym with his friend/ plays video games. I asked him do he wants to be here in the relationship because it just don't seem right to me that he keeps his distance from me when we are not around each other and idk why he told me yes I do u ask me this every day it gets annoying. If I didn't want to be here with u I would have told u this already but his actions don't match up to his words. He also gives me an attitude sometimes on the phone if I call him and if I bring up about how he acts he said if this is what u called me for to complain then I'm gonna get off the phone.every single day I talk about the relationship about how he acts like this.But why is he saying he loves me if he acts like this.He looked me in my eyes and told me look I love u and we have been together for 7 years. I care about u.but why is it that his actions don't match up? We also took breaks before in our relationship but we always come back

Why would a guy that is on an online dating site hide his perfectly written/attractive profile and turn around to make another one, but instead it's really shitty. His profile is not complete, it looks like he typed up a summary halfa$$, and his pictures suck. Why would he hide his other profile to make one like this? FYI: I met this guy online, went out for 3 months and this did not occur until we split.

So there is this Indian boy in my school (FYI I'm a 14 year old Indian girl.) and he keeps on staring at me. Today I found out he's in my Sunday school class. He looked at me a couple of times. The thing is I have a crush on him. I want to talk to him but I stink at talking to boys. What should I do? Does he like me?

would you consider this a high compliment?

I know this q is cringy & super first world problems, but I genuinely don't know what I like more. I feel like I look completely different in both & need a stranger's opinion. https://m.flickr.com/#/photos/24792347@N08/29175242560/ https://m.flickr.com/#/photos/24792347@N08/29175222500/

Explode for any reasons?

My homecoming is on the 19th so in 2 weeks. A lot of people are going but most all of my friends aren't going at all. And I'm still deciding if Iwant to gGI but if I have a date to it then that could change my mind. I'm a junior now and I no everyone in my grade and they all no me pretty well. I don't like all the guys in my grade cuz they are all fuckboys and I hate them soo much!!! And there is this new guy at my school, he is in my class and he is so funny and smart! I have a crush on him. Idk no if he knows me tho cuz I am shy in class most of the time. But I sometimes catch hhim staring or looking at me. And I was thinking thathe could be my date to homecoming..... But how do i get a date to homecoming?????? ADVICE!!!!

I almost have a genuine hatred and distrust for females. I need to move on beyond this and could use some advice on how to trust someone again. So here are some reasonings for my hatred and distrust. When I was younger (around 5 or 6) I was taken into cps custody and eventually adopted into a new family. To get down to the dirt, I went to the school nurse in Kindergarden with a fever and as she was about to take my temperature I told her, "Mommy already took my tempture with a spoon." From this point on I wouldn't hug women for the longest time. Then I had an ex girlfriend give me Chlamydia 6 months into the relationship.. More recently I walked in on my ex of a year and a half sleeping with another dude inside of our home that we had created together, in my bed, with a picture of both her and I at her mom's wedding sitting right next to the bed on our nightstand. Some heartless kind of stuff.. All of which are the reason why I have a lack of trust for women.. So in my next relationship I don't want to have horrible trust issues. I also don't want to have this disgust of females thinking they are going to betray you and do wrong to you in one way or another. So is there some kind of technique or way that I can work on this? I honestly don't want to feel this way. It's screwed up that I feel this way but I do, and want to reprogram this feeling. But how?

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 years. we are both 21 years old now. i feel deep in my heart that he loves me and he tells me this but lately his actions don't show it. he don't work he just baby sit his cousin sometimes and play the video game and play ball outside. this is everyday. he won't ask to see me unless i tell him to. when i call he won't call back he will just text. he barely calls me. but he looked me in my eyes and told me that he loves me and is not trying to lose me. when i tell him to hang out we will but it will be like for 5 hrs then he wants to leave. we will text then he will stop texting out of no where. he will let 9 hours go by without checking up on me. i feel like something is going in his life but he won't tell me. he says everything is fine he just want to be alone sometimes. what should I do? should i just keep waiting until he texts me to talk or should i keep texting him to keep checking up on him but i feel like if i do that i will annoy him. i notice that he changed when we are not around each other. i feel like we are distant. but when we are together we will act fine like how we fist acted when we met each other. should i just stop texting him completely or only text him back when he text me first? when i tell him why he don't text me much he says he don't be around his phone but if i'm on your mind would'nt you want to text me alot. then he don't ask to see me. before he always wanted to be around me. what should i do?? Does it sound like he is not interested anymore or is it because maybe he got too comfortable in the relationship and it's a good thing to give him space. he likes having his space sometimes. he doesn't like talking on the phone anymore he said because there's nothing to talk about. what did he mean by this? he thinks im boring but why is he saying he loves me but his actions don't add up to his words.I told him if he want to end the relationship he says no i want to stay here. does he mean it? When i ask him why do he wants to be alone he tells me he don't know and if i knew i could tell you. i tell him about how he changed in the relationship everyday and he says it's annoying. i love him and we are each other's first love. we have did breaks before in the past but we get back together. i feel like he does know what happend but he don't want to tell me. my mom has noticed that he changed. she said i notice ya don't see each other alot.

I am getting kind of annoyed my friend always invites me over to her apartment. I don't mind going once in awhile but her apartment is far away, and since I don't have a car I have to take a bus there. It's not like she is driving me there and picking me up. I have already explained to her I rather just stay in my apartment because I hate having to be on my ps and qs when I am at her place. She lives with her boyfriend, and another one of her friends. Also, when I go over to her place I spend a lot of money that I just don't have...her roommate always claims she is broke.

I have a friend who's a girl but my girlfriend is jealous of her nothing is going on between me and my girl but my girlfriend has always just been very insecure but I don't I want to give up a friendship or my relationship how should I handle it

I'm 17 years old, and I'm a female. I have a guy bestfriend, and he's been my bestfriend since I was like 2, we're both 17, btw. I'm starting to notice that I already love him, not as a friend, but something more than that. I'm scared to tell thim though because if our relationship would fail, I'm scared that I'll lose the one of the most important person in my life. He already kissed me on the lips once when we hung out, just for fun. I want to ask him out, but I'm scared? If a woman would ask out a man, is it a turn off for men? Please I just need help!

I had started seeing this guy from work . From the first date he said how he had a crush on me and wished he could date me ( but was my boss at the time). After a short while I stopped working at the company, so he finally kept calling me to see me. He seemed guarded, so I wanted clarity on if he was serious or not. I finally asked him why he kept coming back to me, which he finally said " I am enamored by you." i could tell it was hard for him to say. Do you feel he was serious or playing me?

I instant messaged a colleague but he didn't reply. So I messaged him a couple of weeks later and told him I messaged him before but he didn't reply. He said "what?! When?! Never. Especially from you. Quick to respond."

Me and my boyfriend have had sex like 6 times and I give him head a lot, but he has never ***. He doesn t understand why it bothers me so much and he says it isn t me. I just don t understand why I can t make him ***.

I'm a 15 year old girl and I find the idea of sex utterly disgusting. I don't know why, especially since it's natural. I know what you're probably thinking; I'm young and it's a phase. However, plenty of people in my school have lost their virginities and my friends always talk about how they want to lose theirs too (which makes me uncomfortable beyond words). You'd think that I'd be at least a little interested in sex by now because of this, but I'm not. I've caught my parents having sex numerous times and that just makes me even more disgusted with it. Why am I like this?

I'm a guy and it's my favorite thing ever. If a girl has jet black hair and fair skin I'm in love

There's not too much to explain here. Basically my gf comes over to my house a lot and i think it's rly cool that my sister and her get along really well. She sees her as like a sister. She comes over to my house almost everyday. So one time things were getting heated and I brought her to my room and I thought I locked the door. (We've had sex before in my room with family in the house.) yeah we are pretty quiet. So we were going at it, and my sister opens the door and was in the middle of a sentence (i don't remember what she said) but as soon as she saw what was happening her eyes widened and she quickly shut the door. This really sucks because I think I could have scarred her. She's only 15 (my sister). I'm 18 btw. But when my gf left my sister apologized and I reassured her that it was fine. God I'm such an idiot. Is there anything else I should do? Do u think I actually could have traumatized her? My sister looks up to my gf, is this going to ruin their relationship?

Long Story short, told a girl I liked her and whatnot last week (after a few weeks of talking), but she didn t seem interested. I said I d leave it up to her if she ever wants to meet in person (we d been talking on Facebook, but she s relatively local). She said she would like to meet at some point. Anyhow, the other day I started talking to her again, and I said I am still interested in meeting her, but I ll leave her in charge, ONLY because I don t want to seem pushy. After all, it doesn t seem like she likes me all that much. Next, I said, unless I should be the one in charge, I never know. Then she said "both of us can be in charge", but she hasn t been online since then. What s the next logical course of action?

So, I've been dating this amazing guy for the past 3 months. He complimented me all the time, genuinely enjoyed spending time with me, and even introduced me to his family last month before he left for college. We talked about wanting to visit each other even though he was leaving. We text every day and have been trying to plan on seeing each other, but it's fell through due to scheduling conflicts. I know he's been busy with school, but lately, I feel like I've been making most of the contact. Things seemed perfect up until 2 weeks ago when he didn't seem as friendly in text. Maybe he's just been so stressed and I'm being paranoid, but I've given him space and don't expect him to text me constantly. He's hot and cold. One day, he's still sending me flirty, cute texts and the next it's like pulling teeth to get him to have a conversation. We used to alternate who texted who first naturally, but this past week, I've sent the texts first because I don't want to lose him or go a day without communicating. I've even waited til late until caving. Today, however, in staying strong. Unfortunately, it's 10:30 at night and I still haven't heard even a hello from him. What is going on?

I'll do almost all of them and I might post pics of me doing them!

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 years. He is a bit older than me but our relationship was so strong and he wanted to marry me. He is going through financial issues and now he is saying he needs space and cant deal with our relationship right now because he needs to get his life sorted out because of the stress. He recently quit his job this week and he wants to work on a business he started a few months ago. He told me the break wasn't about me and our relationship. He told me we are still in a relationship and we will still talk, but he said we wont see each other for two weeks so he can get some time to fix his financial problems without feeling bad for neglecting me and lashing out at me. He said after two weeks everything would go back to normal. But I feel that he isnt telling me the truth and he wants to break up with me. This is all out of nowhere. He only just started saying it this week. I cant help but think something else is going on. He tells me that its not because he has interest in anyone else and it isnt about how he feels about me, but I feel like he is trying to get rid of me. I am so shocked and confused because our relationship was so strong and we spent all of our time together and we were so in love. We are still in love, but ever since last week he has been begging me for a break. What should I do? Should I just trust that he needs this time to work on his business or should I be suspicious that he wants to end it.

thanks everyone for being in good sports

So we were at the first day of classes recently and we were put into groups. I was sitting next to a two girls who seemed to be best friends and they both were looking at me a lot. We kept on trading stares, and when the other found out me and her friend were going to be in the same group, I heard her say "He is in your group" and they both laughed and were smiling. We ended up doing a paper and I was forced to present it, and while I was doing it, that same girl in my group was staring at me while biting her lip. Whenever I talked to her, she laughed nervously and seemed nervous the whole time. What should I do next?

Lately she has slowly become monotone, shes constantly zoning out like shes not even a part of this world. When i try to taklkto her she mixes her words and just sits there with a blank face which worries me. I know there's no problems in the relationship but shes mentally gone, like in another world which scares me if theres something wrong. What's wrong with her? I know she had a schizophrenic grandfather, but i don't think it passes on like that. Shes not showing signs of paranoia either but she seems like a different person. Im thinking about taking her to the doctors but not sure if its a phase.

When im on the sidewalk and theres a guy walking in front of me that walks slower than me, I just slow down so I dont have to pass him and he cant look at my butt... I just wanna know if its true that all guys look at a girls butt

I am 20 years old. I am single. And I am sad about it. I've been single for awhile now. In high school I would date one guy after the other. I never had sex with them but I just loved to be in a relationship and I was still finding myself. In college I had my first real relationship and after we broke up my heart was broken. That was two years ago and I haven't dated since because I want a real relationship like the one I had my first year of college. He was the first guy I was ever actually inlove with and I want to experience that again so I'm no longer dating guys JUST because I can. I get approached quite a bit and when I go out guys notice me but no one that treats me amazing like my ex did. And I'm a fairly attractive girl. I'm far from perfect or anything but I don't exactly have a problem getting a guy. It's just getting a guy that I like. And I want someone that I am inlove with so bad. Who will MAKE me love him by being sweet. And I want someone attractive. WHEN WILL IT HAPPEN!! This is the longest I've been single for awhile and it's sad because my ex moved on a long time ago. He even had a baby with some girl he's not even with anymore after we broke up. But I'm still single and haven't found anyone I like or even have potential of liking in two years! I know it's a stupid question to ask on here but I'm sad and tired of being single lol tell me genie!

I did this, my friends that are girls are saying thats gross.

I've been in a committed relationship for the past two years. I have started to feel like I don't want the relationship anymore, it doesn't feel right, and I would like to see other people. I don't want an open relationship with him. I want to end it. However, I still love him and don't want to inflict anymore pain than I already am. I don't want to tell him I want to see other people because that is going to lead him down a dark path, I already know. I need suggestions on what to tell him, please.. My problem is not not wanting to break up with him, my problem is not wanting to tell him that I want to see other people because IT WILL lead him to a sh*t path than just breaking up with him for some other good reason

After being friends for over a month, I told her how I feel and said I'd love a relationship with her. I'm not one to chase and beg at all, but from here I don't know what to do. She told me that she doesn't want a relationship now since she's started college and that we're different in some ways. We get along great and things aren't awkward at all. As it is, her and I have sort of a unique friendship in that I'm not grouped along with her other friends, I'm separate and her and I don't drink together or party, but when we're together it's just her and I. I really want things to work out, but since I've talked to her, I know where she stands and I don't want to make any moves. Is the ball in her court? I give her her space and I live my life, but most of the time that we hang out, it's when she initiates and when we do, it's incredible. As a man, I want to get the ball rolling, but she's expressed how she feels. When if ever, do I ask her about it again? We've never slept together or even kissed for that matter, but I just don't know what on earth to do. I'm not a believer in the friend-zone stuff btw, many relationships often do evolve from friendships. Any advice?

I have not talked or seen this girl for about a couple of months and out of the blue she said "Hey I'm coming to Houston from Austin next week and I want to see you we should do something. I said OK, let me see what we can do. Then she said lets go to the football game together and I will pay for the tickets. (which is 50 bucks each) I said ok. Then 2 hours before the game she said I will be bringing my nephew since he never saw a game and it would be free for him and I want you to meet him. I said sure. Then when we both arrived she said by the way I also invited 8 other people with us. (7 guys, 1 girl). So I was thinking at first this has to be a date since 1. She is paying for both of us ($50 each) 2. It was out of the blue 3. She said it would be you and me 4. Its on a weekend 5. She is driving from Austin to Houston to see me 6.She know I like football 7. She was the one that asked So I was wondering was this a suprise meeting with her friends to see if I was good enough? (even though we never really dated or If I was friendzoned then why she could not say in the beginning "hey I got an extra ticket to the game do you want to come see it with my friends? or she has feelings for me but was scared that I would put 2 and 2 together?

So here's the deal. My FWB is middle eastern and she's super submissive. I kinda dig it. But it has times where I wonder if she thinks we are actually together. For example; she'll do things like prepare food and clean for when I have people over to my house. Once in a while it's cool, but this is a regular thing. I just don't want people to get the idea that we are in a committed relationship. Actually. I would like to not even need to bring the topic up at all. I would like to just non verbally make it clear to her that as much as I like what she does for me, I have limits. suggestions?

Ok, I have a friend named S and he is like my brother. We actually call each other brother and sister. So we had been in a fight once well not really a fight I just got the idea I annoyed him and that he wanted to ignore me. I eventually found out he didn't mean to and that he was really sorry, once he and I were talking and I told him I wasn't sure when or if he would replied and he said he was sorry twice. Why would he do that? He and I love one another and care about each other. I am also not very strong and he is heaver then me by a little and stronger then me as well. So, he want's me to pick him up and the next thing I know I'm picking him up and I can lift him up off the ground. If I couldn't pick him up his plain was to fall. Later I asked him if I really did lift him up and he ended up quickly replying I had lifted him up from the ground, when he said that, his face had shown concern or something. I'm not really sure what that emotion was. What does this mean and why did he do that ? Please and thank you. He doesn't really tell me his problems ( not that I've noticed.) and he jokes a lot and isn't always serious. Oh and there is no romance in our relationship. We also just joke around or talk, and we hug and show affection, ect.

Okay so I love wearing leggings as pants..Usually,I wear shirts that over up my butt well,but sometimes they dont' cover all the way...Anyway,someone on here called me a slut for wearing leggings as pants (I was asking a question about them) and yeah..Am I? I wear them because it's the only thing that is comfy to me,and it makes me happy and confident..Jeans put me in a bad mood and everything else makes me feel insecure...I was feeling happy about myself,but now I feel like I'm looked at as a slut? am I? I don't even have a boyfriend,I never talk to guys and I don't show any skin barely..Jesus,how am I a slut for wearing leggings?? As said,most of the shirts I wear even cover my bum'

So, there is this girl at work that I like . but I only see her for a short amount of time when she arrives to work . I tried talking to her one time and tried to say hi to her but she just looked at me awkward and kept going her way. After, what happened I felt really bad, and thought to myself that I lost all chances, the next day I tried hiding from her and when she showed up she clearly saw me trying to hide and she probably felt bad about it by the way she looked at me. after 1 week had past she made eye contact with me again when she was walking by, but this time I looked at her and smiled and she sorted laughed a bit. When I was about to go I saw her again and both of us made eye contact and I just stood there staring back and I left. ever since then we both make eye contact every day and when she sees me, she quickly get surprised by seeing me from afar and acts like she didn't saw me until she gets close and stares at me. I guess she knows that i like her since i make it look obvious. so should i try to go and talk to here again or no

Everytime my family says it through the phone or text I can bring myself to say it back cause I'll feel awkward and I feel like if I'm saying a lie. My mom doesn't say it no more cause she knows I won't say I back but it makes me uncomfortable like why is it like this?

You can't expect me to believe they would want a strong stinky homeless man doing it. So, fill in the blanks. What else goes into being able to hold them at night. What does strong mean. Pretend you were creating a bullet point list for that strong homeless man who just wants to hold you at night.

As in, what would some exotic features be that's a guy would want in a girl or something