Marriage & Divorce: Question: For people who decide to live together before getting married, what are the pros and cons of doing so? |
- Question: For people who decide to live together before getting married, what are the pros and cons of doing so?
- Question: My husband shares pictures of other women on his facebook page. Should I be upset?
- Question: My mom and aunt constantly badger me and my wife about the fact that we dont want kids. Does that make us Screwed up or bad people?
- Question: Why would a man talk to a woman whose lap he laid in for hours of he's already in a relationship?
- Question: Can you get gonnohera by giving a bj?
- Question: Do all wives take a vow of obedience when they get married? Is this a good idea? Is this an expression of femininity?
- Question: Surprising husband with name change?
- Question: Are there some online places I can go to read/talk about abuse?
- Question: Should I be worried that my girlfriend posts selfies on facebook?
- Question: My parents have been fighting a lot and my mom keeps telling me that when im older ill understand are they getting a divorce help im scared?
- Question: I want my husband to initiate sex?
- Question: My boyfriend leaves me alone all the time at home to hang out with guys while I'm pregnant?
- Question: Does Texas recognize common law marriages?
- Question: How hard would it be if I was a teacher and my wife worked part time raising a single child?
- Question: Engaged at 18? But won't get married until after college. Thoughts?
- Question: Can i change my middle name to whatever i please at marriage in California?
- Question: My Fiancée is dull about our relationship together because of my ignorance and I need help to fix this current situation! Please!!?
- Question: Does fingering a girl can break her hymen ?
- Question: Do you file for divorce in your curremt county of residence or the county in which you were married. This pertains to Missouri?
- Question: I'm 40, married, & live separate from my parents... My mom thinks she needs 2 tell me how 2 live, what 2 do, & think...Is this normal?
- Question: Is waiting until marriage to have sex a good thing?
- Question: My husband cheated the day after we got married?
- Question: Doesn't he miss me?
- Question: Why do all the Kardashains date, marry Blacks? Seriously....what is their motive?
- Question: Why are mother daughter relationships so very complex ?
- Question: How to stop my sis in law from getting married?
- Question: My husband and I are looking to move out of Arizona. We are over the extreme heat and lack of jobs. Anyone know of any safe, good towns?
- Question: When does Common Law Marriage come into play?
- Question: Guys dont like me.?
- Question: Should I let wife visit her family?
- Question: I over heard my dads best friend tell my mom that he loves her?
- Question: Do you believe your spouses friendly relationship with their ex can negatively effect your relationship?
- Question: Why does he do this?
- Question: Is there any difference between "Open Relationships" and "Friends With Benefits"?
- Question: Why does my Caucasian wife hit on me? I'm African American and I hate to hit her back. Suggestions?
- Question: Really depressed girl?
- Question: Wife treating me badly..should I walk.away?
- Question: How do I break up with my husband? I don't want to hurt him but I need ....?
- Question: Anyone in Michigan been in a situation where someone's separated spouse who is on cocaine or any drug for that matter, been keeping thechild?
- Question: Women, would you want your man to read a book on how to go down on you? Thinking about purchasing one and trying new tricks on wife.?
- Question: HELP - Gone 5 mos. The spouse did not come home the night before. My friend "where were you last night?" Response "I don't remember."?
- Question: My husband that usually is nice to me hit me.?
- Question: Wife and I had sex the first time in a year after child was born. It took her a long time to heal. After we did it she said it didn't hurt.?
- Question: My husband knows full well that im the dovahkiin, but every day after returning from adventuring he insinst on calling me Ben Dova...?
- Question: Is this what marriage and parenthood is really like?
- Question: Why did my husband grab my breasts in public?
- Question: Is it normal to want to have sex with other people when married a while? Nothing wrong in the marriage-just curious.?
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| Question: My husband shares pictures of other women on his facebook page. Should I be upset? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 08:40 PM PDT My husband of 6 years often posts pictures of beautiful women (some are social media models and some are not) on his Facebook page, and writes things like "damn" or "omg" as the caption. Under the comments he ll write things like he had to look at that pic as soon as he woke up. We live together and have 3 young kids together, and I don t look anything like these girls. I m Asian and my husband is black, and I m the first non-black woman he s ever been with and all the pictures he posts are of black women. I m feeling really insecure even though I know he s not cheating on me with any of these people. Should I be upset or am I overreacting? Should I even bring this up to him? I don t have a Facebook profile, so I know he s not deliberately trying to disrespect me but I still feel hurt. Any opinions? |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 08:35 PM PDT My wife likes kids but doesn't want the responsibility and I don't like babies or children at all, so I don't see why its our "duty" to have children. What are your opinions? Additionally, I have a hard time holding a job for any length of time due to me having Asperger's Syndrome, so if we ever got divorced I wouldn't want to be stuck with child support payments. |
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| Question: Can you get gonnohera by giving a bj? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 07:31 PM PDT I gave my husband a bj we both HIV negative we usually use a condom for our sexual activities by this time we didn't use one. Can I get any sexual infections even though me and my husband are clean? |
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| Question: Surprising husband with name change? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 06:22 PM PDT When we got married almost 2 years ago I had initially planned on changing my name to match my husbands... but when it came down to it, I chickened out. I was anxious about relinquishing my old name and hyphens are not my style. I know he was bummed about it but he didn't make a big deal over it. I did change my name on Facebook for him but never on my actual identification. Our anniversary is in October and I want to surprise him by changing my last name to his. I plan on dropping into the government office first thing Tuesday before work and there is a chance my new ID will arrive before our anniversary. I am trying to think of a cute way to reveal the surprise. The obvious way to me is to slip my drivers license into his card but there is always the chance it won't arrive in time or it won't logistically work out. Does anyone have any ideas? I am in Canada, there is no time limit on assuming my husbands last name. |
| Question: Are there some online places I can go to read/talk about abuse? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 06:13 PM PDT Me and my husband have a lot of issues. I feel sometimes he blames me for almost anything. He has never been physically violent with me, but I would feel more comfortable being able to talk to somebody about this. I've tried looking for some places online but they have too many rules. Thanks in advance. No offence to religious people, but I'm not religious. Also, I am looking for a private place for just myself. |
| Question: Should I be worried that my girlfriend posts selfies on facebook? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 06:04 PM PDT We are pretty serious, have been together for over a year and are discussing marriage. However my girlfriend feels the need to post facebook selfies. For example I helped her set up her garden (mowed, put mulch down and got her a bunch of products then left had to got to work) and she put a selfie today of her planting flowers with her shirt hanging down and said "doing yard work and gardening" no mention of me and a bunch of guys liking her photo and making comments and it bothered me a little. Am I over reacting? |
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| Question: I want my husband to initiate sex? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 05:45 PM PDT I have been married for almost 2 years now, and for most of the time now I have been initiating sex, and I want to stop. Not completely, but for the most part. I have a higher sex drive than my husband, so a lot of times when I try and initate it's a no. And I'm tired of it. I told my husband to initiate sex from now on unless I'm really really in the mood and need it. But the problem is, I feel like I'm waiting around all the time for it to happen and it controls my mind. We try and have sex 2-3 times a week or more, and if it's been a day or two and nothing ha's happened I start to get anxious and frustrated and just want him to initiate! Any tips for me to not get frustrated and be patient and calm? I feel like sometimes he forgets about it or gets too busy but he says that's not true, do you think that's true? One thing that bothers me is if we plan to have sex the next day, and it's getting later at night and nothing has been said or done yet I get anxious and annoyed and just want it to happen. Any tips for me? I don't want it to consume my life or thoughts anymore. |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 05:36 PM PDT We always had this problem where he was more loyal to his friends basically leaving me home all the time to hang out with them but he thought it was okay but it's not like he's cheating and a lot of times they were in the other room playing pool drinking beer and smoking weed ...problem is it was every other day and basically that's all he ever did . I started to resent him for it and he thinks I'm being controlling or tight *** but am I ? I don't mind him hanging out once in awhile but this goes on every other day ...so now I'm pregnant I thought he would have compassion but he still leaves me at home . what do I do ? He's not cheating because they are always nearby but I just resent his friends always being around and him for basically not wanting to be more alone then with friends basically all the time ..Also I come from a tight knit family and his family parties till 3 am most days even his parents stay up that late and I don't like that lifestyle I like to read and sit at home on the weekends . i do drink I get wild but not like I'm used to I'm 27. I resent this about him is he always going to be spending so much time with friends ?? |
| Question: Does Texas recognize common law marriages? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 04:54 PM PDT |
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| Question: Engaged at 18? But won't get married until after college. Thoughts? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 04:43 PM PDT |
| Question: Can i change my middle name to whatever i please at marriage in California? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 04:39 PM PDT |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 04:27 PM PDT My Fiancée, who I had asked to marry me in July, will have lived with me for 3 years, on September 16, 2016. Our relationship has been phenomenal and nothing but perfect. Through this year, we have moved into a new home with a workshop, which I can finally keep all of my equipment and tools out of the weather and safe, as well as go in and do what it is which I love to do; work with my tools and make new projects to work on. I currently work in the oil and gas industry, refurbishing hydraulic equipment. through this year, I have fell into a zone of always just wanting to come home and work on other none important crap, and not really spending time with her. she had always asked if I would go ahead and at least ask her to marry me so that she can be reassured that I don't already see her as my wife and this is just how its going to stay..in june, it was brought us that she has been depressed and keeping everything (all of the hurt of just feeling stuck in a dull relationship that wasn't ever really focused on her) inside, and let everything just build up for about three months prior...there was fear of communicating all of the time from her which is my fault bc I cant just listen and be there for her. |
| Question: Does fingering a girl can break her hymen ? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 04:17 PM PDT |
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| Question: Is waiting until marriage to have sex a good thing? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 03:42 PM PDT Me and my BF have been together for 6 months already and we're happy. We're both 18. But, what bothers me is if we somehow do become a long term couple, usually long term couples end up having sex before marriage. I honestly don't want to have sex before marriage, but it's not for religious reasons. I'm afraid of the possibilities of unwanted pregnancy. I have goals in life that I don't want to mess up just for pleasure. I dont want to have sex but we end up breaking up later. Even if I love him alot, I'd rather have my first time special when I'm married. I do have temptations for sex but I'm holding back. I don't believe that whole "test drive" bullshit that people say. I believe in having sex with only one person in ur life which is my husband.Its more special in my opinion. I don't want multiple sex partners. I told this to my BF. If he doesn't respect that,no point to continue this relationship. He said he's ok with it and he will wait. He's saying that now, but what happens later on if we become long term. I'm not getting my hopes up that we will be cuz we don't know our future until it comes.But hopefully we're still together. I do plan on getting married around mid or late 20s. I've been getting mixed feelings about sex before or after marriage.2 of my friends already had sex but they aren't with their BF anymore but still believe in sex before marriage. Cousin isnt a virgin and believes that no one can wait until marriage to have sex. idk what to feel.Advices please? Tbh, i don't trust condoms 100% cuz they can still break. I don't wanna take that risk or even go through the trouble of taking birth control pills. |
| Question: My husband cheated the day after we got married? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 03:18 PM PDT I've been with my husband for 8 years and married for 7 years. I went looking through his old emails and I found out he had sex with another girl the day after we got married and another girl a week after. He hasn't done it since. Should I tell confront him and tell him I know or let it go? It's been 7 up years since he cheated It's been 7 years since he cheated |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 03:15 PM PDT I dated a married man for a year. I know it was wrong but we really fell for each other. Towards the end he would start ignoring me. Not texting me as much. His wife caught him cheating with me twice but they didn't divorce. He would say he loved me, and that he wanted a baby with me but later realized he had no intention of leaving his wife. Since we both work for my uncle. Towards the end I was honest with my uncle and he fired us both. I miss him terribly and I haven't heard of him since. Doesn't he miss me? |
| Question: Why do all the Kardashains date, marry Blacks? Seriously....what is their motive? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 02:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Why are mother daughter relationships so very complex ? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 02:28 PM PDT My mother and I have been worst enemies and best of friends. I remember her crying to me that I didnt spend enough time with her when I was married. Although it was NOT entirely her actions that broke up my marriage, her over involvement contributed. During my divorce proceedings she supported me but also screamed at me. I was wrong because i didn t stand up in a court of law and talk back to a judge. I was wrong because I didn t do so other things that invariably could have landed me in Jail or cost me my children. Five years later I do have my children but still my mother and I argue. its not always bad, sometimes we can have really fun times too. She now has her own boyfriend and is very much in love. They are getting married. I miss just talking to her but she s always busy. I rarely see her unless she s babysitting. My kids are older now and Dont really need a babysitter as often. I ve even called to invite her and boyfriend out for dinner. She said no thanks. The last straw was that my house is too messy and she doesn t want to be there ever again. I agree it s cluttered but my friends and childrens friends come over all the time. That was 2 weeks ago. I don t know if I ll speak to her again . She also told me that I wasnt going to be in her wedding because I was the child if her first marriage. This would be fine except that my brother is walking her down the aisle. It s hard not to take personally. |
| Question: How to stop my sis in law from getting married? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 02:26 PM PDT My sister in law is not from America & she wants to have a green card marriage. She's convinced/manipulated a kid into agreeing to marry her but he thinks it's for love. She thinks that since her bro and I are married and passed the interview then she can. Her brother and I were actually in a real relationship & for 5 years before we got married. His immigration status did speed up our marriage but we were dating and planning to marry. She has been with this kid for a few months and she still sees other guys and they don't have an official status. It's weird. I'm 22 & she's 20. They will see right thru her marriage & she can cause a lot of problems for herself and the guy. I told my husband to set up a dinner between me her my hubby and the guy. She's technically an adult but she's so dumb she's going to get into ALoT of trouble for pulling a stunt like this. What can I tell her? I wish I could give more details in this post. She's not ready and this is a bad move. Please help! Thanks in advance. |
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| Question: When does Common Law Marriage come into play? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 01:27 PM PDT |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 12:56 PM PDT I am a 23 year old woman. I have no problems attracting guys or them paying me attention when I meet them, but when we first talk, they are quick to friend zone me, or I friend zone them, and nothing really happens between us. Although we are good friends, they are quick to forget about me and move on with their lives. They dont call me, they dont text me or ask me how I am doing lately. They forget all about me. Any tips or suggestions on whats going on and how I can fix up would be really appreciated. Thanks. They do approach me, but they lose interest soon after they talk to me. Why? I do ask them for help. Perhaps that? I ask them to drive me, travel and take me to places, buy stuff for me. |
| Question: Should I let wife visit her family? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 12:38 PM PDT |
| Question: I over heard my dads best friend tell my mom that he loves her? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 12:03 PM PDT my mom started crying, said why didn't you tell me this before I had my last kid? the kid is me and made me sad. do I tell dad? |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 12:01 PM PDT If your spouse is friendly with their ex when you are not around can it effect your relationship negatively? How so? Why or why not? Even if they don't talk about them with you. |
| Question: Why does he do this? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 11:45 AM PDT My bf and i live far away. He always imagines him with me like when he goes on a road trip or out somewhere to eat he imagines me with him but he doesnt message me first online. He doesnt message me and just imagines me with him wherever he goes lol. Whats up with him? |
| Question: Is there any difference between "Open Relationships" and "Friends With Benefits"? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 11:22 AM PDT |
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| Question: Really depressed girl? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 11:01 AM PDT Ive always liked my co worker we flirt and she is big time changing found out husband cheats and abusive and she never leaves. Said she getting divorce and told me today she is extremely depressed and life doesn't matter. Im been strong with her cuz we dont sugar coat told her to women up etc and he is controlling her like a puppet and more. Also added I believe in her and she is amazing and beautiful. Told her friends she depressed. Anything else i can do? |
| Question: Wife treating me badly..should I walk.away? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 10:26 AM PDT I'm fed up with my wife's abusive nature when it's that time of the month. I'll give you an example, tonight she couldn't sleep so she played music until 3am in bed. I got upset because I'm buried in studies and just came off night shift. I will have to survive on only 4 hours sleep tomorrow. She told me to get out...when I came back she requested we sleep head to toe. I told her I'm not a mongrel dog so don't treat me like one. It always happens at this time of the month. She becomes bipolar and so nasty. Speaking rude to shopkeepers, going off to suit herself, talking badly to me like I'm trash etc. The lack of affection, nasty attitudes, lack of sex, lack of communication, lack of teamwork and lack of shared time together has me wondering why I want to keep going in this marriage. Meanwhile all of my friends are happily married and treat each other so well. They're on the same page, happy about their life together, spend quality time together and treat each other well. Instead I get told to get out etc. If I live in our new home for 6 months, can I then make a claim for it? I never paid the deposit but will pay the mortgage and all the bills. Her parents will come from China to live with us. She is angry because we have tried to conceive for three months and have missed her fertile window each time. I expect to be blamed as having some fault or being less of a man because her friends got pregnant quickly. Also, she used porn to get her in the mood every time and then asked me to do my thing and get it over and done with. |
| Question: How do I break up with my husband? I don't want to hurt him but I need ....? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 10:14 AM PDT Hubby to understand I love him deeply but I no longer can handle a sexless relationship . It's been 3 years without sex . Andwe only been together since we met for 3.6 months . We only had sex once on the honeymoon phase . |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 09:06 AM PDT From the other parent for weeks. What did they do? |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 07:17 AM PDT Hopefully it's a pleasant surprise. |
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| Question: My husband that usually is nice to me hit me.? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 05:38 AM PDT My friend called the cops and my husband chocked me and punched me in the face. I told the cops it was true. They tool him and dv advocates are telling me to leave and get an emergency protective order. I'm a sahm my husband usually spoils me and treats me great he has just been unhappy and we haven't been getting along. He is in jail now and if I press charges I can get help to get out of the home. But part of me feels bad about the whole situation and my husband was drunk and I don't know if he realised he could hurt me this bad. |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 05:30 AM PDT She was happy and felt normal and not scared. We do have two young kids. The last time we did it was 3 weeks ago. I'm just worried that we did it that one time and it will take forever to do it again. Need some advice. |
| Posted: 04 Sep 2016 04:46 AM PDT |
| Question: Is this what marriage and parenthood is really like? Posted: 04 Sep 2016 02:58 AM PDT I was on holiday in Sweden with my parents, when we went into this cafe I spotted some British tourists like ourself. A women in her 30s, her husband, her young son who was about 3 and an old man (possibly a grandparent). While we were having fun, she looked so angry and miserable I was actually scared of her and tried to not look at her. She and her husband looked so detached and clearly didn't love each other, perhaps even hated each other and she had such contempt for her son, he said "I'm hungry" and she snapped at him "you've just had your lunch and you refused it, like you refuse everything". It made me think why did they even go on holiday when they clearly don't enjoy a second of it. Stuck in a loveless marriage, her husband ugly and never pays her attention, her son why she clearly resents because he's trapped her in this life. If this is what marriage is for a women then I don't want it, ever. |
| Question: Why did my husband grab my breasts in public? Posted: 03 Sep 2016 11:54 PM PDT We were in the restaurant and I accidentally spilled my drink on his crotch and went to clean it up. Then he grabbed my boob and tried to feel for my nipple and I was surprised but then I got turned on cause it felt so good. I was begging for more nipple touching. Then he put me on his lap and I could't stop rubbing my butt on his beam which kept jumping up as I teased it. |
| Posted: 03 Sep 2016 11:07 PM PDT |
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