I m 23 years old and my fiancé is 33 years old. We have been together for 3 years. I found out 2 weeks ago that I am 2 months pregnant. We talked about starting a family after my masters, after the wedding and being newly weds for a few years and plus I settled into my career. We agreed we would start trying for a baby in four years. I ve been on the pill for 2 years and never had any problems. However, I don t want a baby right now. I discussed this with my fiancé and he is distraught that I don t want his child. We discussed so many options and I want an abortion as quickly as possible. He doesn t want me to get rid of our child and feels that since I m pregnant God changed our plans. I have mixed emotions right now. We haven t spoke for a week and he wrote me a letter letting me know that he found similar looking pills and swapped them out instead of my BC pills and did it for a few months. I take 3 pills a day (BC, vitamin, water pill) and I store them in my weekly pill dispenser. I m livid right now and I don t ever want to see his face again. He called me today but I let it go to voicemail, in the voicemail he said that he is going to to tell his family we are expecting and then going to tell my parents they are going to be grandparents. He knows my parents are against abortion and they have been wanting us to give them their first grandchild so bad. I m seeing his true colors right now and I don t know what to do! Why would my fiancé do this? Any advice would help

I accidentally said something that made my crush get mad and annoyed and completely did a 180 on me.. He doesn't really want to do the long distance thing even as friends and i told him that he would never know unless he tries and that I think it would be nice to just have someone to talk to and then said wouldn't you want that, and he texted me back saying he doesn't and wanted me to respect his boundaries and told me not to text him again 😢 I did though cause I also got mac and told him if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything and that it was my apologies for wanting to try and get to know him better and told him I won't ever text him again 😞 anwyay.. I just wanna know what he meant, and why he got so mad, and I feel bad because I didn't want it to end with him being mad and thinking i was a *****, but it's too late now :( more answers would help

Just a theoretical question and what about when the kid tens 18? Then would it still be legal/illegal?

He called me at 2 in the morning to tell me how his ex was stalking him. He said he had to flag down the police. She threw a drink on him and even ripped up a shirt he left at her place and left it hanging on his front gate. He told me had her blocked on fb and in his phone. While we were lying in bed last night I noticed his phone vibrating and her name popped up. I said, I thought you told me you had her blocked? He looked stunned and said you need to understand that I need to talk to her in order to square the situation away. I called her phone number and handed him the phone. He then got upset and was going to leave my place because I called her. I couldn't understand why he was so upset if he wasn't seeing her anymore. Then she text me her call log showing me that he had called her 4 times before he got to my place. He ended up staying the night. When I got work the next morning she text me saying, "Please keep this door away from my door". What kind of person stalks their so called stalker? How should I feel? What should I do at this point? I told him I knew he had contacted her again...I need advice please!!

So, I have heard that prisoners don't have access to computers or the internet. So how is that they make online profiles for pen pals/dating etc... It doesn't really seem that clear to me, and if you google it nothing really comes up but a list of dating sites. Obviously they get access to the internet some way, but I want to know more specifically how? Is there like an application that they fill out? Or is it a legal right of theirs?

My wife has a son from her previous marriage. He is 7 and I have been a father figure to him as his father has been unreliable and inconsistant and when he is involved in his life he only wants it in small doses (a couple of hours a week) when it's convenient for him. My step son is very rude to my wife (his mom)at times and I don't like it. He will tell her what to do with no please or thank you, boss her around and she will just do things for him. He throws tantrums if he doesn't get his way and she will make excuses for him saying he is just tired. How do I deal with this? He isn't rude to me by is very rude to his mother.

My live-in boyfriend discussed swinging twice over the past two years. I am against participating in it myself due to personal and moral reasons (although I am not against it in general...we actually have friends who are swingers). Yesterday, he said he was leaving nudism because he keeps getting shot down when he wants to do whatever he wants to do, referring to swinging. Says he is no longer attracted to me and to not even bother trying. At this point, we are only staying together for our son. No resentment, but just living as friends and roommates. Our preschool son thinks the world of his daddy and vice-versa.

I dated a married man for a year. I know it was wrong but we really fell for each other. Towards the end he would start ignoring me. Not texting me as much. His wife caught him cheating with me twice but they didn't divorce. He would say he loved me, and that he wanted a baby with me but later realized he had no intention of leaving his wife. Since we both work for my uncle. Towards the end I was honest with my uncle and he fired us both. I miss him terribly and I haven't heard of him since. Should I contact him? Could he hate me?

Ive been dating this girl for a while now and one day we were talking and somehow her parents came up.. Suddenly she turned serious and started telling me everything that she kept in for her whole life. Her parents are divorced and her moms new husband is being mean and absuive to her, sometimes he hits her tells her he hates her and that she s useless. All she wants to do is finish her last year of higher school and run away back home (were both from a different country) I don t know what to do or how to help other than confront her and listen.. What should i do? Were both going into grade 12 and no e of her friends now about this..

He called me at 2 in the morning to tell me how his ex was stalking him. He said he had to flag down the police. She threw a drink on him and even ripped up a shirt he left at her place and left it hanging on his front gate. He told me had her blocked on fb and in his phone. While we were lying in bed last night I noticed his phone vibrating and her name popped up. I said, I thought you told me you had her blocked? He looked stunned and said you need to understand that I need to talk to her in order to square the situation away. I called her phone number and handed him the phone. He then got upset and was going to leave my place because I called her. I couldn't understand why he was so upset if he wasn't seeing her anymore. Then she text me her call log showing me that he had called her 4 times before he got to my place. He ended up staying the night. When I got work the next morning she text me saying, "Please keep this door away from my door". What kind of person stalks their so called stalker? How should I feel? What should I do at this point? I told him I knew he had contacted her again...I need advice please!!

I accidentally said something that made my crush get mad and annoyed and completely did a 180 on me.. He doesn't really want to do the long distance thing even as friends and i told him that he would never know unless he tries and that I think it would be nice to just have someone to talk to and then said wouldn't you want that, and idk what happened but he texted me back saying he doesn't and wanted me to respect his boundaries and told me not to text him again :'( I did though, I told him if I had known he was so stubborn I wouldn't have said anything and that it was my apologies for wanting to try and get to know him better and told him I won't ever text him again :( anwyay.. I just wanna know what he meant, and why he got so mad, I feel bad now :(

I just got back from dropping my daughter off at school, Sine it was warm out and I did not get out of my car and was only gone for 15 minutes I drove in my bare feet and left ny shoes at home.

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

We always had a good relationship, and I am not the type of person to block people. In fact I don't think I've blocked anyone I know in the last 15 years. For some reason she's started acting strange though. The first thing she did was she stopped replying to any of my messages when we used to talk all the time. After not replying for 2 months, I asked her why politely and she said, "I just don't feel like talking sometimes". She did this for a year...just stopped talking to me out of nowhere, with no explanation other then she didn't feel like it. The next thing she did was she somehow got my mom's password and she started reading all of my mom's messages sent to everyone. She could read any conversation I had with my mom. Also, when my husband proposed to me to get married, I didn't tell anyone except my mom. I wanted to wait for the right time to tell people, but she had read the news from my mom's inbox, and announced on my fb page "congrats on the proposal!!!" ....when I was waiting to tell everyone. The final straw was she sent my husband an email saying I'm evil and I used her for medication?? I remember there was this one time where she gave me 2 of her meds (because I ran out), and then I gave them right back to her when I got my prescription filled out a week later. I don't even take those meds anymore and only needed them for a month. She keeps freaking out at me, and ...well it's kind of weird/unusual. So I blocked her. Was that the right thing to do?

I am 7 months born and I have dextrocardia. My left ear is deaf. I feel like the odd one out honestly. Lol I hate my school. I'm 15, 4'8 and 42kg female. All you adults have no idea... All my friends are 18/19/20/21 because everyone in my grade. People who are young. Don't seem to understand, they're immature. It's so sad that I have to talk with adults because they mature and understand, they won't criticize me. Sorry to be negative, im a pessimist. I feel like ending my life sometimes, because it's just so annoying. I know friends aren't it all.... It's just explaining what's wrong with me, and all this curiousity ****.. I'm just tired, I'm stressed out. Tbh. Could anyone just give me some hope, or a pep talk?? It would really help me. Here's this coming from a 30 week girl with dextrocardia that struggles with serve asthma and clumsiness. Xx

I'm a black female but I've dated nearly every race of men and preferred Hispanic or black men the most. Now that I'm getting older though, the idea of marriage and family comes to mind more often. Being a college grad makes me gravitate to more educated, serious kinds of men (I used to like athletic men and party guys). I didn't realize how FEW Black or Hispanic men even have a college degree until I graduated and moved away. Where I live now, the only men that I meet who are socially my type are from my alumni groups and most of the men are white or Asian. I honestly think I'd prefer an Asian man because the race issues in America aren't strong with them and I would feel more secure/confident with them, but they don't approach me much... However, nearly EVERY event I've gone to, I have attracted at least one of the white guys around. So I meet them a lot and often, but I can't bring myself to date them. There are a few reasons, but it seems it comes mostly down to me not trusting them at all. America has too many race issues and I guess I've internalized them, but I don't trust white men, so dating them seems almost entirely out of the question. I don't even feel comfortable being friends with them. I just imagine he's like the "typical" white American male type that isn't who I want to know. But I don't want to be single right now.

My ex girlfriend had her Find my iPhone on an IMac I bought for her but kept and now this is on the screen. Is there anything I can do?

I am 12 turning 13 in december and I still don't have a phone! My parents got me a phone in 6th grade (I'm 8th now) and my mom took it away and lost it. Im so frustrated because Ive been proving myself responsible for years and they refuse! its really annoying because EVERYONE has a phone literally everyone. I can't take photos of stuff or do anything i feel like a loser and I'm going to high school soon for gods sake. How should i convince them to get me a phone?

I don't really have any interest in creating any sort of long distance relationship, friendship or otherwise. I just find them in general to be a lot of work and very tedious. I know that seems harsh but I really don't mean anything personal by that. You seem nice and I wish you well. But I that's how I feel :/ does it sound like he's at least interested in me but doesn't wanna pursue a long distance thing.. I wrote back to him that I'm sad that he feels that way about long distance relationships because he'll never know unless he tries, and that I think it would be nice to just have someone to talk to, and then said wouldn't you want that..

and how to fix it

A guy told me he wants to meet me. Then when i said yes he said no and we fought and he blocked me. And later we saw each other somewhere and stared at each other. After that he unblocked me and im his only contact but he doesnt message me. He doesnt talk to me. Why is he doing this? Why isnt he messaging me?

I want no one resort's me my mom boyfriend and i sometimes don't see eye my brothers don't respect me when they want money I give them it it a problem when I use the micowave because when one person using the microwave I try to let them know. I'm using it and I'm going to turn it off for 2 min respond is like oh use the stove I want to move its not right I help out also with money my check. It get on my nervs how my mom allows to behavior my younger brother called me a retart I got in his face my act like she did not know what happen when I told her she allows stuff to happened

Is it because I have a more round facial structure or do I really just have baby fat? Thanks. Pictures: https://imgur.com/a/OyR3U

I finally decided to be direct and honest with the guy I like, and it's been hours since he's gotten back to me and I don't think he will, and I honestly feel so genuinely hurt because I was honest and told him what I wanted and I kinda wanted that back, but anyway before I move on and delete his number I just want to text him one last time and say something silly like I'll take that as a no.. guess I'll move on if I'm never going to from you then.. what do you think?

Need as many answers as possible ASAP.

I was told that im supposed to get a sex ed class in like middle school but im in 9th grade and never been in one and the only things i know i literally learned drom porn like am i supposed to get one or what?

I have a co-worker who I get along with she paints and haves me several to hang in my house. Sometimes she's nice and has given me countless little gifts. I gave her an orchid plant and she didn't say anything except u sent it? But then I saw it I her office about a week later. We have shared personal things with each other. We both lost our parents by 23 years old. She's really nice one minute then she isn't. She also went through a bitter divOrce she isn't over yet also. She was also mistreated by her husband. I'm consistently nice to her. She doesn't know how to accept gifts well either. She doesn't treat other co-workers this way. Why is she this way to me? Does she like me or not?

What does it mean when an young employee uses your phone all the time to take selfies of herself without asking? I am married .She has met my husband several times.I am 42 she is 20 . Selfies are always taken with a fish face or a half drunk looking side view. She does not do anything else on the phone. I am trying to lock the camera on the iPhone now Thanks She has only met my husband she has never talked to him for all those wondering..My husband is 50. She is dating a very handsome young guy

I want to stay at parents to save up money for a surgery for something I'm insecure about. I don't have the weight to get it. And I don't like this town. Should I just leave for the town instead of fixing my insecurity? I don't know what makes me happy or what I want anymore. I want to think logically

Okay so I'll keep it short.. There's this girl I'm really good friends with (just friends), and she's kind of my only close friend soo.. anyway; her dad is successful, has his own business and is certainly quite wealthy. It's currently based in Cyprus, although it used to be Iran. Right, now he wants to take his ex wife and their child with him; I'm thinking though.. even if he could move his business abroad, surely his ex-wife and their child couldn't go with him? I was under the impression they had to be married.

This is the weirdest thing ever happened to me. I'm from Europe. I came to the US some time back and all of my friends are from around the world. I don't have any American friends (except for my friends' spouses). And on top of that my name is pretty long and difficult, I don't share my legal name with anybody just like that, not even on social media. This morning someone called from the hospital from the state where I lived for 4 years (I moved from there like 3-4 years ago). They said my legal name and then named a guy who listed my contact name & phone # as an emergency contact. I told them I don't know anybody with that name. How in the world my full legal name and phone number ended up being someone's emergency contact? Non of my friends know the guy I tried searching him on FB and google