Family: Question: Are my parents strict? or do i deserve it?

Question: Are my parents strict? or do i deserve it?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 02:26 PM PDT

So i am a 14 year old boy who likes to spend most of my time on my laptop or playing on my ps4. my parents have decided that now i am only allowed 1 hour of any technology a day. my grades arnt the best and could be better (Most subjects around 60 70 percent) but that doesnt seem to be the problem with my parents. after the hour is finished they unplug my ps4 and take my phone leaving me with nothing to do which i dont think is very fair since they are using thier phones for games and stuff like that ALL the time. and even when im using my technology im not mean or grumpy or a bad kid in genreal. so plz help cause idk why they are limiting my time to just an hour.

Question: My daughter is walking around the house with her boobs out in front of my girlfriend and my friends should I make her cover them or not?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 02:13 PM PDT

Question: Do boys easily get embarrassed by hugs in public?

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Question: Do you think this was cute cause of her dress?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 02:04 PM PDT

My Mother showed me a group of pictures from my sister's wedding last week and one of the photos is really weird. They took a few back at the cabin where many of the guests stayed. One of the bridesmaids had her seven year old daughter in the wedding. A very pretty girl who had on a very short dress that her panty showed underneath. In one of the photos of the group together is the little girl (Maria) laying flat over her Mother's lap getting spanked with her underpants fully showing. The little girl was commented on how cute she looked at the wedding in her little dress and white panty with it. So it was cute to have a photo of this cause of the dress the little girl had on.

Question: Can my mom force me to do whatever she wants?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:37 PM PDT

My mom is forcing me to do boxing and won't let me quit. She says all of us have to do what she says and we don't make the decisions in our lives until we're adults and sometimes she gets violent and then it's just verbal abuse. Yesterday I stood up to her and told her that if she doesn't want to be questioned she shouldn't lie about things she's acting like are sincere. A few years ago she told me she didn't want me doing a sport because she wanted me to do it and it was one of those long speeches that had meaning. Well that was a ******* lie. She told me I better not ever "Be disrespectful for challenging her authority" and kept telling me how much of a pussy I was for trying to challenge a woman, well how about getting pushed around by a woman? You can't ****** win with her. And she said next time I "challenged" her she was going to bust my lip and have me stay home for a few days. I'm really sick of it all and am just thinking about killing myself or running away. Because living with her is extremely restricting. And she thinks she can build her kids to show off like trophies or something.

Question: Getting over your brother fighting you?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:35 PM PDT

I'm mid-20's female and my brother is just a year younger than me. We fought a lot as kids, as in he had a way of expressing himself by trying to fight me when angry, back then, he wasn't' stronger than me so of course I kicked his a$$ for putting his hands on me. Fast forward, I moved back in with my mother for a little while after college to save money before moving on my own. He was still there but now with two kids and a wife (also living there). About a week before I was to move out, we got into a foolish argument (I swear he just never realized my attention is NOT on him and I never wanted to be bothered by him - arguing with him does nothing for me in life). Anyway, in the midst of the argument he jacks me up against a wall and I grab his neck, and blah blah I'm in a situation I didn't want to be in. He also says psychotic things like "we're not kids anymore' ... YES I beat you up as a kid, but YOU PUT YOUR HANDS ON ME FIRST! I swear this boy needed a father around growing up ....(neither of us did). I feel like I pretty much officially do not care about him (or seeing his kids grow up), and can't stop thinking about that fact. He's really been nothing but a sideline hater and envious boy my whole life. How do I forgive and forget? Anyone can empathize? Talking with him is NOT an option, I'm 100 percent sure he has not grown up enough as yet. Plus, there's the disrespectful and foolish "wife" and enabling mother contributing to the Non-man that he is.

Question: Does my sons dad have to tell me who he leaves our son with?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:19 PM PDT

My ex husband is very immature and likes to leave our son places while he works as long as someone can take him, he doesn't care who. I found out the other day that he left him with his workers cousins wife who he didn't even know. Now he is letting a woman that he met online who lived in Mexico but is staying with him watch him. He met her 6 months ago. It worries me so much!! I don't trust people with my sons life and he is throwing him wherever he can. We have 50/50 custody. My son cries to me all the time that his daddy is never home and he doesn't want to go to his house but of course I have to let him. I'm worried that he will leave him with someone who will hurt him or who isn't nice to him. He is four years old. Does his dad have to let me know who is babysitting him? He will not tell me when I ask and I think it's just because he wants to be able to let him go anywhere as long as it's convenient for his work schedule. He owns his own business. If my son is sick or has no school, he won't take work off but makes me when my boss has threatened to fire me for taking work off to pick up my sick son. I'm just so tired of him crying and being left places he doesn't know and that I'm not comfortable with.

Question: Do you think I have tough skin after reading this?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:08 PM PDT

All my life I have dealt with a Mentally abusive Alcoholic Dad, who always got fired from job after job ever since I was little which caused my mom to be neglectful as well. My mom is a good mother she always takes me to places but she never actually wants to hear me talk because shes to busy all the time. I also have an older brother who I feel like my parents took care of more and when they got to my turn I feel like they didn't care as much or forgotten about me so all I did in my childhood was playvideogames and watch t.v Now at 23 years old its still more of the same. My mom is still a great mother with taking me to places and doing stuff with her but she never wants to hear me talk because its a waste of her time with stuff that she has to do. My Dad is still an Alcoholic and Mentally abusive. My brother just got a job, and I just graduated college so I hope I get a job soon! So I can get out of this almost basically abusive environment. I don't let them bother me but the feel of being neglected all the time just plain sucks at least when I live on my own I wont be neglected Id just be relaxing on my time off.

Question: Are you a twin?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:07 PM PDT

Identical or fraternal?

Question: Do you think it's okay or is it inappropriate?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:58 PM PDT

I live with my brother and sister in law and my year old niece. I'm going to be a junior in high school. My sister in law is the one who actually takes care of me. ( she's the on

Question: Is it mean that I don't care too much for my blood brothers cause they weren't suppose to be born?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:57 PM PDT

Question: Quick... Need help with this?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:52 PM PDT

I m going parasailing tomorrow in New Jersey and I have disgusting feet from ingrown toenails and I m going to get them fixed next week but I m going after my trip and my family don t know I have It but I m going barefoot and I can t let them see or my family will punish me and be very disappointed in me. I called and I can t go with shoes on. What do I do???? Please answer soon.

Question: I live in the ghetto and I have no place to park my car? I need advice?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:52 PM PDT

I live in the hood and where ever I park my car it just ends up getting towed. I'm a 24 year old male, I have a job, I'm going to school but everything is just so hard right now. I made a mistake by buying a car without having my license. I don't have any help. I'm living with my mom and she's useless. All she cares about is me giving her money. Her life sucks and she wants me to be on her level with nothing. My plan and dream is to drive to California in December and follow my dreams but right now I'm just on the verge of giving up.

Question: Overheard my brother confess to my Mom?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:27 PM PDT

That he killed a girl over the weekend, What is it worth to me ? My Mom said for my brother to come home from school and not say a word.

Question: He lied and I feel like a fool?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:26 PM PDT

He called me at 2 in the morning to tell me how his ex was stalking him. He said he had to flag down the police. She threw a drink on him and even ripped up a shirt he left at her place and left it hanging on his front gate. He told me had her blocked on fb and in his phone. While we were lying in bed last night I noticed his phone vibrating and her name popped up. I said, I thought you told me you had her blocked? He looked stunned and said you need to understand that I need to talk to her in order to square the situation away. I called her phone number and handed him the phone. He then got upset and was going to leave my place because I called her. I couldn't understand why he was so upset if he wasn't seeing her anymore. Then she text me her call log showing me that he had called her 4 times before he got to my place. He ended up staying the night. When I got work the next morning she text me saying, "Please keep this door away from my door". What kind of person stalks their so called stalker? How should I feel? What should I do at this point? I told him I knew he had contacted her again...I need advice please!!

Question: My Mom is so dependent and I feel guilty because I can't help her?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:15 PM PDT

She doesnt work. She only calls when she needs something She always want all my money and when i say no she gets really angry. Shes married but he doesnt work either. Im trying to start college and I cant afford to take care of her, like buy groceries or fix her car and it makes me sad and she says kids are suppose to take care of their parents when Im in my 20s..I simply can barely take care of me. I feel guilty. Today she needs help with her mortgage and light bill and car doesn't have gas and she sits and sadly tell me abd I wish I vould help but I have my own bills due and things Im trying for. Any advice?

Question: I woke my step-mother up?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:53 AM PDT

My sister and I were playing minecraft (video-game) last night and were whispering. A couple hours earlier my dad had told us be quiet (name) has to get up early for work tomorrow (she works in a school as a teacher and was going back today). I am not a mean kid. I was going to try my best to be quiet. Today at lunch my dad angrily told my sister and I that we woke her up and she couldn't sleep and that we need to apologize. I'm the type of kid that if anyone yells at me or gets mad at me I almost cry. I'm very shy and sensitive. I don't give ANY problems to my family AT ALL. I'm definitely going to apologize for sure, but I'm TERRIFIED my step-mother is going to yell at me and lecture me. I've been worrying about it all day. I was almost in tears when my dad told me what we'd done. I just don't know what to do. my step-mother is a child psychologist so for a living she deals with all kinds of children. In school, they are only sent to her if they're misbehaving in class. When I entered this family, i learned the expectations real fast. Stay in my room, be quiet, don't give any opinion whatsoever, go along with whatever they want, don't ever think that maybe you should have an idea on what we do or what we eat. This is not a pity cry. I just don't know what to do. How should I approach this? (this is NOT a troll) since my parents haver shared custody, this week i was staying with my dad. I an VERY close to my mom and tell her all about my situation at my dad's house. just ive been here for a almost a week and haven't had a chance to talk to my mom.

Question: Who feels like they need their mother? A boy or a girl?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:50 AM PDT

Question: If a boy is feeling sad or had a bad day can a mother's hug get him to feel better?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:34 AM PDT

Question: I found out my great grandfather was a romani gypsy, does it mean that i am a romani gypsy?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:33 AM PDT

Question: My sister is jealous of me?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:30 AM PDT

im 12 my name is Emily and my sister is 21. me and my sis have different dads. our mom is white and our dads are completely different races. my sis's dad is Mexican a foreigner. my dad is also not from here he was born in Cuba my dad is also half black from my great grand parents. my mom made friends with this woman and she has two kids. they came over to my house and out of nowhere my sis asked them "who is prettier me or Emily?" she also says stuff like: your lips are so plump and full (she has small lips), your hair is so beautiful (i have curly hair and she has straight), your butt is big and plump (she's made fun of because her butt is super flat), also your figure is so beautiful (my mom says i have the best figure in the entire family). even though she says things like this she's also mean to me she make fun of me and tries to make me feel bad and she mentions mean stuff about me out of nowhere. my two brothers and my mom thinks she's jealous too. i get more attention from people than she does. also my aunt and my mom says im prettier than she is (my mom doesn't say that in her face that'll just be heartless) but my stupid brothers do say that im prettier though. im not trying to brag or anything or trying to act like im the prettiest thing in the world but please help this is putting a dent in our relationship what do i say to her to fix this?

Question: I hate my brother in law so much his face disgusts me?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:30 AM PDT

Anyone else hate their brother in law? Have you ever had a nasty disrespectful brother in law live with you for years? How did it end and how did you finally get him out? Stories PAH-LEASE! I NEED IDEAS ASAP! I'M GETTING THIS LOSER OUTTTT!

Question: Brother in law behaving like an ABSOLUTE child, about to kick him out?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:21 AM PDT

So my brother-in-law has been living with my husband and I for 2years. I was okay with it at first for a short period because he had nowhere else to go. Now I'm fed up and my husband is too.He eats everything in the house, even when we tell him specifically not to eat something or take it easy. He will drink a while 12pk of soda a day. He won't clean up after himself after we ask him to multiple times. He is extremely dirty. He walks in our room, even at night, without knocking or asking for permission to come in. When we are speaking to each other he will barge in and interrupt. If we are watching TV together he will play videos super loud on my husbands phone(he doesn't have one, no job) even though we have told him to cut it down 2 and sometimes even 3times. He doesn't have any respect for my husband and I AT ALL! We haven't had one day of peace or privacy in 2yrs because of this man. He is 27yrs old, only had 4jobs(all of which lasted less than 2months)in the past 10yrs,he won't work or listen to us at all. My husband is in a ethical dilemma because the brother doesn't have anywhere else to go and no money because he won't work, but also he knows I'm at my wits end with him and we're on the verge of kicking him out and even have discussed divorce over this. The brother still doesn't care. They got into a fight and my husband told him to leave and get out of our home multiple times, and he wouldn't leave, he refused to leave! He said he doesn't have anywhere to go! Police?

Question: Did you really involve my dad?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 11:15 AM PDT

Question: Does it make you a real man to stay and face the responsibility of being a father even if unexpected..?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 10:55 AM PDT

And take all the bad talk from your family and the scorn then to run away from your problems to not seem like a failure to your family? (Ps, I plan on staying for my child)

Question: My mom won't let me stay home alone this weekend. Should I ask if I can stay with my Grandmom?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 10:36 AM PDT

My family is going to the beach this weekend but my friends are having a get together before summer ends and I haven't seen them all summer. My mom already said NO when I asked her if I could stay home alone this weekend. I'm a senior in high school. Should I ask her if I can stay with my Grandmom this weekend instead who lives 5 minutes from me? I don't want to make my mom mad how should I ask?

Question: Toxic sister. Is it wrong to keep her away from my kid?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 10:02 AM PDT

I m due with my first child in December. I m honestly worried because my relationship with my sister is so broken. She isn t doing drugs or anything, she s just really toxic. Some background: we fought a lot in high school (graduated 10 years ago) and she still brings up things that happened back then. She lives in my dad s basement at 30 with her boyfriend loving off of her and drinking after going to AA and saying he s "good now". She only works temp jobs and uses it as an excuse to not do things that cost money or time but still goes to week long music festivals that cost boatloads of money. She blames me for her "being stuck" at dead end jobs and living with our dad. She often calls me evil or Satan ect. She gets mad when I (yes, even pregnant and with asthma) won t hug her when she s smoking. I play into it sometimes when I let my emotions get the best of me and she s bringing out the worst in me. She even uses my baby as manipulation. But the hard part is that she is my sister so I m supposed to love her, right? Is it okay to not let my baby around her?

Question: Should this individual have a new caseworker/caregiver?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 09:23 AM PDT

An individual has a case worker appointed by their family to get them social since they have few friends. The case worker has LOTS of clients and is always out and about and has no time to get them out of their house. They instead go through their stuff instead and there are a few concerns about this person. 1. They would not accept a friend request on facebook 2. They EXPECT THE WORST in this individual on everything and find themself wrong and assume the person is bs ing them if they say anything is good 3. the SAME people this person knows get distant to the person they are coming to check on after repeated visits, as if nothing is really remaining confidential 4. The case worker will go berzerk because the person made food and the case worker wanted them to spend tedious time cleaning their car when they came back from work hungry. 5. They drop in the house uninvited and are not court appointed or put up by law, and even dropped in after the individual had a 15 hour shift just to bully them to pack a bag for a trip FIVE DAYS LATER that could have waited. 6. They order the person around and yell at them and even make fun of everything they do on a constant scale 7. With the way people who know this person view the individual, the individual is less accepted in crowds of others who may have stuff in common and social gatherings for disabled people because the case worker is likely spreading gossip about them

Question: My brother is very ungrateful and rude?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 09:16 AM PDT

My dad is short on money and my mum lives elsewhere, my dad bought him pieces of white bread and he should be really thankful but instead he threw a tantrum for the bread being a little squished. He always opens his mouth widely when he eats making weird gushy noises. He treats me like a dog calling me a mongrel and the b word. I try to be reallyngentle with him but he would say insults that hurts me so badly but I try to hide it and smile, on fb he messaged me saying things like "you are a pathetic loser and a big fool you *****" he hates studying too, but he's addicted to games and that's all he does. I really don't know what to do about him, he makes me uncomfortable and upset constantly

Question: My parents love my sister more than me....?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:48 AM PDT

Well, in my whole life my parents haven't given me much importance as my sister and they don't say it but i know through their actions. I am just 13 and my sister is 5 years older than me. I can't do anything to my sister, i can't hit her,tease her, ask her anything when she's busy or mum will just get furious....but apparently she can whatever she likes to me. I'm basically her punching bag and my mom doesn't say anything to her when she bullies me and it's really sad for me to go through all this.

Question: My mom is very slow minded and I'm taking advantage of her :)?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:41 AM PDT

My mom is pretty slow and she blames me for the dumbest things even though it be her fault like really ? Like this happened today, she had some appointment today and she had me and my lil bros social security and all that and she was blaming me talking about how I was following her and didn't see it fall and that im no use,etc,. Then we called the spot and they said it was on the table where she was (I wasn't there at the time because I couldn't) Then again this happened today she said she wanted chicken talking about she want a chest, a hard one. She made 0 sense. The other week she said she wanted the same thing and I knew she was talking about breast so I boUght a side breast and she said she didn't like it. Then today I bought a center breast and she said she didn't like it and I had to switch and get a side breast like what is wrong with you r head? so now I'm basically taking advantage of her by taking her money and I'm giving false explanations (which she falls for) on why she owes a certain balance on her credit or why the cash she saved doesn't feel like enough and stuff so yeah I don't regret it btw lol its just a prank

Question: PLEASE HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:17 AM PDT

please read.Before the summer holidays ended we were supposed to bring our books home from our locker and i needed my mom to pick me with her car like she usually does but she had to drop her boyfriend at work (hes living here illegaly) and i rang her to pick me and she said **** off and i said ok and i carried alot of books home but there was still some in my locker over the course of 3 days because i was studying before the exams and my school is 90 miniutes away from me and i have to go through an express road and i couldnt go back because the school was closed and when i came home she didnt talk to me for at least a month that was in june. Now its september and i only have work books which i dont need anymore and my mum is refusing to pay for anything i dont have books and im doing my junior cert this year.When i came home from training yesterday my mum kept giving out on me i tried to ignore it but she kept saying i was useless i will fail my test and she blamed it on me and she said im evil and devlish for that then she put a curse on me that i will die young and my children will kill me and she says she will disown me so i lost my temper and kicked a tiny bin that was in her room and it broke then i broke the house key and smashed a banana because i was angry i think my mom needs help there must be something wrong with her please help i never loose my temper and i have to walk to school now she doesnt give me money or school lunch i feel like jumping off a bridge

Question: Why would a mother pay for her sons gym membership and NOT for her daughters'?I mean the boy is athletic the girl doesnt go to the gym.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:14 AM PDT

She doesnt pay for her.WHY???

Question: Would it be inappropriate to wear bathrobe in front of host family?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:11 AM PDT

I'm leaving for Rome in a few weeks to be an au pair for the year and my mother and I have been going back and forth on whether or not it is appropriate to wear a bathrobe in front of the host family I will be living with. I in no way think it would be considered inappropriate. All of my robes come to a few inches above my knees and they don't show any cleavage when it's tied. I don't see how it's any different than a dress. My mom argues that the silky material is "too sexy" and that it would be disrespectful to the mother because "she's not gonna want to see some young girl prancing around in her silky bathrobe." Is my mom just being dramatic or am I missing something? I don't want to come off as disrespectful or have any problems with the family.

Question: Can social workers take my baby off me?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:09 AM PDT

I live with my parents and 4 other siblings 2 boys and 2 girls. Currently me and my sisters are in one room and the house is way too crowded and only has 3 bedrooms and we won t get offered another house. Could my baby get taken off me for this?

Question: Poll:How often should I kiss my mom?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 08:00 AM PDT

Question: Should I re home this dog and other animals?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 07:41 AM PDT

My brothers girlfriend keeps getting animals and leaving them with my mom. So far she's gotten a guinea pig a rabbit and a dog. She leaves them here because her grandma who she lives with won't let her have them. I almost rehomed the rabbit a couple days ago. Some one wanted her but then his girlfriend threw a fit. She doesn't take care of them, she literally gives them to my mom when her grandma says no. My mom works a lot so I end up having to care for them and I already have 3 rats a hamster and a dog. What should I do?

Question: My dad never listen to me and he always thinks he is right and I am the one who are wrong.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 06:42 AM PDT

This problem has been happening to me for the pass few years. I am 14 now and I used my own money to bought a computer. After some talking and even tears, he finally agreed that I am buying a computer for myself. But now, he is becoming even more sensitive than before. When ever he sees me using a computer, and he is not in a good mood, he always told me that I have been using the computer too much and he is saying it like he really hates me using a computer. But in fact, I am using the computer normally just like other people, they are doing fine and so do I. But it seems like he overreacted to the harm that the computer will bought to me, which is very less that it won t really affect much. I ve tried to talk to him a lot of times but he never accepted my thoughts and thought I was only making some excuse. My dad is that type of person that won t look at other s perspective and only accept things he wanted to. I ve tried look at things at his perspective but I still think I am not the one who had done wrong. I don t know what to do.

Question: How can I prevent my sister from interrupting my masturbations? Please help!?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 06:32 AM PDT

Whenever It want to masturbate I fear that I will get caught, My sis has caught me in the act multiple times, on purpose. And that's the real problem. It began when she started doing it, and a few times I walked in to tell her something or borrow a magazine or whatever, and accidentally caught her. And now this's like her revenge. I never, not one of those times, caught her on purpose. Why would I?? My sis is really vindictive, even over trifles. I use a vibrator and it's a bit loud so if possible I only use it when I'm home alone. Anyway, if she hears my she bursts into my room (she doesn't even knock to make it seem like an accident!) and then she mocks me. If she catches me by accident (which is rare) she stares like there's an alien in front of her. Plus I get kinda exposed, which I really dislike. he never really got exposed cause she's always doing it under her bed covers. I don't cause I can't really move as freely as I wan then. I don't want her to se me naked, that perverted, nasty little brat (she's very much a pervert, she has a dick shaped pillow, two vibrators, and she recently bought a can cap in the shape of a dick and two testes) ! I need this to stop, I wan to be able to masturbate in peace and I definitely want her to start knocking, at all times, not just when I'm at it.

Question: Why does my brother like our narcissistic mother?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 06:29 AM PDT

he is my only reason to live but it's a toxic environment and i cant go there what to do

Question: Look up to my teacher as a father figure?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 06:17 AM PDT

I look up to my band director so much as a dad. I have a dad, but he isn't the best...my band director really listens to me, and we talk a lot, because I always have problems with depression. I'm a 17 year old, senior high school student, and Ive been with him through four years of marching band, concert, and symphonic band. Recently, I've just got this emotional connection with him, because he really listens and understands what I am saying. My father never does that at all, I've never had any emotional connection with him, but with my director I have. He knows this, too. I wrote a letter to him recently (as band gets him busy a lot of the days, its hard for us to make days to talk so I write letters, so we can catch up later) and in the last one I wrote how I look up to him as a father-figure and that he means so much to me. This isn't odd is it? I really love him as if he was family.

Question: He has two children but is being very picky on what jobs to apply for?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 06:10 AM PDT

So he is moving out of his house that he lives in, in my city and he has been living off his savings for over a year. He says he not going to be homeless and that he has options: either his son's mom or daughter's mom. I keep asking where he's going and he tells me he doesn't know yet. He is leaving is less than a week and i feel like I am somewhat in the dark. When I asked where he is going, he just tells me not to lose sleep over where he's going to be staying. He talks about helping one of the moms save money and it gives him an opportunity to watch him while she works. I don't have my own place yet but he told me that he'll only visit me on one condition: that I have my own place. I plan on being in place in a couple of months but I feel that it is unfair for him to do that. I also feel like there is no relationship at all. We've been together for a year and a half and he has kept me hidden from both women. He keeps talking about wanting a future with me but deep down I know it's not going to happen. He says he has NO where to go but he is being very picky on what jobs he applies for. He is not being very proactive and wants to "take his time." I think it's crazy he is doing that because he has two kids to take care of. He has jokingly said that he would be okay living off of me. Is it reasonable for him to stay with his baby mama until he finds employment?

Question: I am SO SO Jealous and angry at my brother, what do I do?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 04:56 AM PDT

I'll tell the basic story of why i'm so jealous and mad so that you can try and understand, i'm into gaming, and for the past year or so i've been REALLY wanting a PC for gaming, problem is they're quite expensive for a decent one. My brother has always been telling me I shouldn't get one, I should stick with my PS4. Recently, my brother got a job at a nursery, the ONLY reason he got the job was because my mum works there and practically forced him to apply. My parents were telling him to save the money he earns to spend towards a car, as he's currently trying to get his driving license. Of course as soon as he's able to afford it he goes ahead and buys the EXACT PC that i've had my eye on for over a year. This has really pissed me off and made me jealous, but that's not the half of it. My brothers not the smartest, he failed his maths exam at least 4 or 5 times, he always steals and then lies about it, he even hides stale pizza in his wardrobe and he's flippin 18. My grandfather told him that if he passed his maths exam he'd buy him a car. What a surprise, he actually passes his exam and is now being bought a car of his choice, in a price range ofc. What did I get when I passed my exams first try? nothing, my brother gets a car. I am SO mad I don't know what to do with myself, how does my idiot brother get everything I want and more? He got what i wanted, because my mum got him a job herself. He got a car, because he passed a fuking exam. FUKSAKE.

Question: Why is my mum so pushy?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 04:47 AM PDT

My mum is pushy literally everytime I come home from school. I would go to the bathroom, she would get on my computer and start looking at my assignment and fixing random bullshit thats correct. I would come back and find it literally in pieces, and if I ask my mum why she did it, she would call me retarded and lazy and would tell me to find my own way home, wake up in the morning by myself, cook my own dinner, and she just won't give a **** about me. My friends have already asked me why my mum is so pushy last time at the school subject selection meeting, and she kept wanting me to go pick commerce even though i hate that crap until she started to shout at me in the auditorium. Just 10 minutes ago, she kept insisting that I suck at saxophone scales and she ran through everything I've learnt and she kept saying it was all wrong when nothing was. I told her that until she started shouting and I just ignored her and ran to my room. She then started sprouting that **** before: wake myself up, find my way home, cook my own food, etc. btw i live 2 hours away from school and have to get up at 6:30 am. Does anyone know why my mum is so pushy?

Question: Am I a bad person?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 04:25 AM PDT

I feel like I'm a bad person because I'm moving nearer my fiancé's mother who lives on her own then my mother, father and 2 brothers and sister - it wasn't planned as its so close to work and I don't drive.. I feel like I'm a bad person because of this and my mother has said how unhappy she is about it.. It's 20 minutes away by car but 2 bus journeys away from my parents house.. My parents are looking to move nearer anyway.. Thoughts?

Question: What qualifies as 'strict' parents?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 03:59 AM PDT

Im curious.

Question: My sister is a liar and a sneak, how can we stop this behaviour?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 03:56 AM PDT

I say "we" because my mum and dad are really struggling with her as well. First of all she is 12 years old, her favourite activity is playing on her phone...even at night when she's not supposed to be. My parents told her that every night her phone belongs in the living room to charge, she takes advantage of even that. She waits for my parents either to go to bed or away from the living room and she takes her phone back to her room and she sets an empty phone case near the charger to make it look like her phone is charging. (My parents figured it out this morning) Case #2: Her face is covered in pimples and it really embarrasses her, my parents are doing everything they can to help her with this problem. The only problem is she goes on a "healthy" diet for 20 minutes and then gives up. She sneaks candy, cookies, anything her sticky fingers can get to. It makes no sense at all...she wants her face to look better but at the same time she lies and takes junk food. Case #3: As me being her older sister obviously my things seem really cool to her and she goes shopping in my room. The problem is she lies even when confronted with the truth. She took my favourite eyeliner and my mum found it in her room, well, when my mum had a long talk with her the best explanation she had was "I swear I have no idea how it got in my room." She just doesn't know when to give up, this happens way too often. How can my parents deal with her lying?

Question: Does my little brother have autism or anything?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 03:48 AM PDT

He s 16, and he is incredibly smart. He plays chess basically all the time, and he says he is obsessed with chess. His psychiatrist never mentioned anything with autism, but I just think that s because that wasn t ever brought up. He has an extremely terrible memory and concentration, but when he plays chess, he can concentrate very well and actually remembers all of his chess games from memory! He does poorly in school but all he ever does is chess and he is really awkward and is just weird in general.

Question: Is my bedtime too early?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 03:48 AM PDT

I am 15 years old, turning 16 next year. My weekend and holiday bedtime is still 9:30 and I am not allowed to use my phone/laptop, watch TV, stay up to do assignments or read a book. Mum makes sure my phone and laptop are with her every night and I have no way of keeping them in my room. My friends dont have bedtimes and they can stay up till whenever they want. Theres literally nothing i do in the mornings except chores, but they only take an hour so they can wait. I still wake up at about 8 to 9am on weekends regardless of what time i stay until (sometimes i secretly stay up till 11 or 12) so i dont think it will be a problem if im allowed to stay up... On holidays i have to help my mum and sister in the morning but even if i went to bed really late my mum would still shake me awake at about 7:30 in the morning, so it would not make a difference. But are my bedtimes too early? And how can i convince mum to let me stay up... nothing will change her mind and i feel like she is babying me too much. I will be 16 and this is too childish. She even did it with my brother when he was living with us (he was 19). Help?

Question: How can I stop minding that my mother is mad that I am missing two hours of her birthday?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 03:23 AM PDT

I am going to be with her for 5 hours but am missing two hours because of some out of town family I want to see that day on my Dad and step-mother's side. My mother is jealous because of her post-divorce bitterness that she puts onto me. You have seen questions about it earlier in the week.

Question: Grandmother with dementia doesn't recognize me?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:45 AM PDT

My grandmother has been diagnosed with dementia, and she's been that way for about a year now. Until recently, however, she has always remembered who we all are, but she would sometimes hear voices, and imagine conversations that never happened. Now, she doesn't recognize me, at all. Worse than that, though, any time she sees me, she thinks I'm my father. Now, he is not the best person, in the world (and that's a huge understatement). He was extremely abusive to my sister and I, as well as our mother. After we left, we haven't seen him in years. Anyway, whenever we go to see her, she starts getting mad, and yelling at me when I walk in, because she thinks I am him. And, she won't ever let me tell her who I am, or that I'm not him. She interrupts me, and screams for me to leave. Honestly, considering how much he put all of us through, I can't blame her for her reaction to seeing someone she believes to be him, but this means that I'm never able to see her anymore, and I'm not sure hours much time she may have left. I just wish there was something I could do to make her stop thinking I'm him, because I really want to spend time with her, but at the same time, I don't want to cause her to get upset every time I'm there, because of who she thinks I am. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? Does anyone know of anything I could do to remedy this? Thanks a lot for any kind of advice you may be able to give.

Question: Please advice how can I solve this dilemma ...?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 01:21 AM PDT

My housing society members are joing every evening(around 8pm) for durga puja rehearsal..They are asking me to join also..my daughter's half yearly exam is going on...each day she is having a paper(each having 6 to 8 chapters which she has to run through from 3pm to 12:30 at night)...I teach her entirely...she is in class 6 and does not have any tutor....should I go out each evening from 8 to 10 for rehearsals while her exams r going on... Please advice.

Question: What to get from America?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:30 AM PDT

My auntie and uncle are visiting from America (i live in England) and they said they can bring me back some things we can't get in England - I'm a 13 year old girl so things like EOS - but not really sweets because it's not very healthy xx

Question: Step dad being a dick backback? 10 points for creativity.?

Posted: 01 Sep 2016 12:25 AM PDT

Ok so my step dad is and ******, tonight for instance it was 2am my mom was talking to me and my step dad had already gone to bed around 12. He came outside at 2am looking pissed asking why she wasint in bed he walked inside i cussed and walked away for a few minutes so i didnt lose my composer. i come back mom said she had talked to him and he would'int say anything other than i don't wanna hear it. so we are setting back outside and she just now went in the room and he started going off i think he may have thrown something i don't know but why does it matter i want payback for the last 4 years of torture he has put us thru im 18 he moved in when i was 14 ever since he has been an ****** he is 51 now and he had a heart attack about 8 months ago which made him even more of an ******, he drinks half a bottle of rum and coke everynight even before he had a heart attack he use to smoke three packs of cigarettes a day he quit after the heart attack anyway any ideas on being an ****** back but in ways that won't get me kicked out last time he threw a pillow and it cut my moms face mind you she is low blood disorder or whatever so i popped his truck tire. im looking for non violent ways of bring him to his knees like make it look like everything in his life is going wrong. if you need anymore info ill be pleased to help.

Question: Is it my fault or my moms fault?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:52 PM PDT

please read.Before the summer holidays ended we were supposed to bring our books home from our locker and i needed my mom to pick me with her car like she usually does but she had to drop her boyfriend at work (hes living here illegaly) and i rang her to pick me and she said **** off and i said ok and i carried alot of books home but there was still some in my locker over the course of 3 days because i was studying before the exams and my school is 90 miniutes away from me and i have to go through an express road and i couldnt go back because the school was closed and when i came home she didnt talk to me for at least a month that was in june. Now its september and i only have work books which i dont need anymore and my mum is refusing to pay for anything i dont have books and im doing my junior cert this year.When i came home from training yesterday my mum kept giving out on me i tried to ignore it but she kept saying i was useless i will fail my test and she blamed it on me and she said im evil and devlish for that then she put a curse on me that i will die young and my children will kill me and she says she will disown me so i lost my temper and kicked a tiny bin that was in her room and it broke then i broke the house key and smashed a banana because i was angry i think my mom needs help there must be something wrong with her please help i never loose my temper and i have to walk to school now she doesnt give me money or school lunch i feel like jumping off a bridge

Question: 3brothers ages 13and two biological are13and14 Mom says her 13yr should have his own room and the two other share.. Dad disagree?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:44 PM PDT

Question: Why do I have such a crappy relationship with my brother?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:31 PM PDT

Growing up, I always looked up to him, even though he was an ***. I remember him locking me in a closet for over 30 minutes with his chucky doll. And when I got to high school with him, he was on the football team and I still distinctly remember him getting them to invite me to a party, then once I got there they told me there was a $100 entrance fee, and I could see them laughing at me from inside(just like a damn horror movie). He also told everyone and their mother when I started my period, telling them I bled all over our house. Even with all of this, I tried to befriend him. Then he went to college, and we didn't really talk, I would text him but wouldn't get a response. Then he came home for the holidays and brought his gf, they both ignored me the entire time they were here. I don't understand why I have no relationship with him. I start college next year, and might be going where he is going, which he has already said he would not be happy with, so that will be interesting. I know this isn't a normal relationship.. Do you think we would maybe get closer if I go to his school?

Question: Why are siblings so mean to each other?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:24 PM PDT

Me and my brothers all get along wonderfully now, I'm 18, and there 24 and 26. But our childhood years we fought a lot, mainly I fought with my older brother not really my oldest brother. I remember I'd be watching tv and one of my brothers would come in and just change it while I was sitting right there, I mean that is so rude! They always did everything together when we were kids and I was left out, once I went into a room they were in and my brother closed the door in my face. Waiting for the bus we stood in a line and I wanted to be in the front and my brothers never let me (I was 4 so give me a break) My mom had to make a schedule for who got to stand where in the bus line. My brother would grab me and try to put my head in the toilet. I wanted to have a pillow fight my brothers agreed and I ended up huddled in a corner while they painfully and violently hit me with pillows. They would take my doll and throw her in the trash. My mom said me and my brother were the worst to kids to take to town. I mean I was no angel, but why did we fight so bad and went out our way to be so nasty and rude to each other? My brothers used to fight a lot to, when we were small me and my brother used to team up and make fat jokes to our older brother (even though he wasn't and isn't even fat) Like I said my relationship with my siblings is wonderful now.

Question: I love my teacher like a father?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:20 PM PDT

I look up to my band director so much as a dad. I have a dad, but he isn't the best...my band director really listens to me, and we talk a lot, because I always have problems with depression. I'm a 17 year old, senior high school student, and Ive been with him through four years of marching band, concert, and symphonic band. Recently, I've just got this emotional connection with him, because he really listens and understands what I am saying. My father never does that at all, I've never had any emotional connection with him, but with my director I have. He knows this, too. I wrote a letter to him recently (as band gets him busy a lot of the days, its hard for us to make days to talk so I write letters, so we can catch up later) and in the last one I wrote how I look up to him as a father-figure and that he means so much to me. This isn't odd is it? I really love him as if he was family.

Question: 4 kids one girl three boys 7g 13b 13ss 14ss 4bd home I suggest the two biological share rooms they're more compatible my husband disagree?

Posted: 31 Aug 2016 11:16 PM PDT