If I don't like ANY of the presidential candidates, am I allowed to write in my own preference? TYIA.

My very close friend used to be so great and caring but lately she's become obsessively focused on her wedding. She invited me to be a bridesmaid which at first was the greatest thing ever but now it's like whatever I do she goes crazy. She asked my suggestion on some wedding planning things and I guess I didn't pick the flower arrangement that she wanted me to vote for and now she's being awfully rude. Do people that just go crazy on their wedding planning calm down once they get married? Should I just cut her off now and bow out of the wedding and effectively the friendship?

I purchased a Tiara for a friend to go with her wedding gown. $329.00 plus tax. She is now coming up to her year anniversary and made a snide comment about how I needed to get her gift in order before her one year. (I bought your Tiara and I thought that was a very nice gift). I had even told her..."instead of getting you kitchen towels, I want you to have a nice head piece for the ceremony". I also got a bridal shower gift that was not inexpensive. Do I owe an additional gift?

Oy! You can't pick you relatives. Five years ago my cousin and her boyfriend eloped. They ran off to Reno and got married. To each their own I guess? Two weeks ago another cousin of mine married. This was the traditional church wedding and reception. Many of us have been to weddings like this. I bought my cousin who had a wedding a gift. Now my cousin who eloped wants a gift. I thought either way gifts were optional. I think it is strange a couple elopes and then wants gift. If they wanted gifts then why not have a wedding and hope for the best?

My friend likes the following random things: Game of Thrones Buffy the Vampire Slayer Japanese language Nature-y things Eating wholesome For this "kind" of person (I know, I'm really categorizing here), what kind of ideas might be good for a bachelorette partayyy??

So my sister moved to Nashville 3 months ago and is super homesick. She is flying to Boston for the 4th of July. My Aunt and Uncle have a party up there every year and our whole family goes, if they can. I went the last 2 years and I don't want to go this year. I have wedding planning to do and I don't want to be worried about traveling. I am getting married in Sept. My sister is the MOH and I feel bad that she is planning the shower and the bachelorette party and I don't want to visit. My Fiance now has to work on that Saturday (before my sister is flying in) and I feel like that is my out. I also don't want to drive from NJ to Boston on the busiest traffic weekend of the year- and on the 4th of July, to be back for work on the 5th. My sister is all about "doing the right thing" and will be butt hurt if I don't go. She is immature and will throw a temper tantrum. I know she will try to say that I should go without my fiance- but that isn't the whole reason I wouldn't go, I have a lot to do before the wedding and I need to focus on that right now. Should I grow some balls and tell her i'm not coming, or should i "do the right thing" give into the guilt and go becuase it is my sister? Also, I will see her in August for the Bridal Shower and Bachelorette, so it isn't like i'm not going to see her for a LONG time. I also saw her over Memorial day weekend- see my other questions about that situation.

they're like all same music genre of country, that ok too?

What to do about someone who assumed they were invited to our wedding.

so my mom and stepdad are moving out of state, she was going thru things that i needed to take to my house. Well, she had her wedding dress sitting in a cardboard box. She asks me if I want her dress, and I told her no, and she's like "you dont?" and I said "no" and my stepdad laughs a little. And moms like "Well you may wanna wear it someday" and i said "I don't know whats going to happen". Might as well donate it to goodwill or give it to a bridal store if they'll take it. @ Snickers- thank u for your response. Moms dress is too big for me @ sinead- Thank you for your response! @ Candle- exactly!

My fiancée and I have been debating on whether to have a courthouse wedding, or a traditional wedding. I personally would like a courthouse wedding, so we can one - marry whenever without stress and two - save for a lavish honeymoon. He wants a wedding because he knows that is what his mother wants - and he says that he "wants others to see me as he sees me" - which I think is lovely(: My biggest turn off for a wedding is all eyes being on me. I hate being the center of attention.. My question is - what do we do/is there a way to compromise?

I was recently invited to a cousin's wedding. We're nearly 20 years apart in age an we're not close. I was surprised I was invited at all but apparently its a very big wedding, with a huge guest list. My name was on the invitation envelope and the inside envelope as Ms. S. Not Mrs? I'm assuming that they are not sure if I am married or not (they could just ask my aunt, she was at my wedding!) My name is misspelled too. The RSVP card says ___ people attending. and allows me to fill in # of people. Considering that this is a fancy schmancy wedding at a yacht club, should I give them the benefit of the doubt and just assume my husband was an oversight and RSVP for the both of us (with my correct name spelling too)? I don't want to make a big deal out of it, after all wedding planning is hard work and stressful, but inviting one spouse without the other is incredibly rude and I just don't think they would do something like that? What should I do? I just want to make sure since it is usually considered rude to bring a guest if your invitation doesn't state "and guest". But I would think it is far more rude to invite one spouse without the other! BTW its the groom who is my cousin. The bride is doing the invites, so she has no idea who I am. The groom barely knows me as well! I talked to my mom. She thinks that whoever did the invitations has no idea who I am, and the space for # of guests is an obvious allowance for a +1. There is also a space to write in names. On another note, I just looked up my cousin the groom and his bride to be on facebook and both of them are only fb friends with the grooms mom! Not one other person in our family! So apparently they are quite disconnected, I certainly won't take offense to them not knowing that I'm married.

They started dating years after we did, and rarely, if at all, is the boyfriend s family at their family events, yet she wants to invite them. I don t feel it s appropriate and I m concerned because they are an extremely judgmental crowd, and I (bride) am pregnant. in addition to *attempting* to keep numbers low, we are on an extremely tight budget. Am I out of line to tell her no? She also is not paying for anything.

I loved my girl friend. I had a good lifestyle income in my country Pakistan.We are i relatioship from 2010. I got married in USA. After getting married I was very much depressed because I had no work permit. We both knew it takes around 3 months to get work permit after arriving on k visa. I left my family for her but what happened was beyond my expectations. On the second day of my arrival she said this is not your house you have to buy own house for us. when she is in good moode she is very lovely. When she is in bad mood she calls me things like beggar and she want me to be thankful that she is living with a jobless person. That scenario was before i had my job...now i have my job and i work in a warehouse. Earning decent money but i have to do lot of hardwork. When I come back home she want to have sex everyday even if i am not i a mood. Her mother said to her men ca do sex twice a day ad it is very important to conceive. I give her decent pocket money but she dont want to work and says everything and wifes are husband,s responsibility....help me I want my marriage to work but dont know what to do...most important her family supports her i tried to talk with his family and they say every wife do this...be a man! and handle it like a man.

My fiancé is fluent because he grew up with deaf grandparents. I want to surprise him by signing our wedding vows on the big day. Is there any site or video that can help me learn this?

My partner and I are going to get married in Las Vegas. After we come back home and have enough money we will have a big wedding. I saw a dress that I like to wear to my Vegas wedding ceremony but it's dark blue. Do you think it's ok to wear a dark color for a wedding dress or should I just stick to white?

I am 24, just graduated out of college when my boyfriend of 8 years (we dated every since my freshman year of high school without "taking a break" or breaking up) proposed to me. I have mulled over many different types of weddings but decided to elope with our family there to witness. Money is tight because the money is coming from me and my fiancé. My parents won't help and may not even attend because they don't approve of my boyfriend. (There is a lot of hard feelings from high school that they are not willing to let go of. My parents were traditional and didn't want me to kiss my boyfriend so when he kissed my cheek prom night they freaked and it's been hard ever since.) My question is this: Am I planning a tasteful elopement? I know not having a lot of money cuts off a lot of options for us but we want to tasteful and nice wedding. I'm so confused. My tiny wedding gorgeous day package for $725.00, estimated expenses: $890.00 **excluding photography from outside source** 10 guests maximum, then go to Creekside Cafe and Catering for dinner, everyone pays for their own meal/we all split the bill Guest List: his mother, his step mother, his mother, his father, his sister, my mom*, my dad*, maid of honor*, best man, my brother* *Brother is in the navy, may not be able to make it, my parents don't approve, my maid of honor lives in another state