I've been dating a man who unbeknownst to me is married. We met one day when I was walking home in the neighborhood after grocery shopping. He lives in the neighborhood too and approached me, introduced himself, chatted for a while and exchanged numbers. He was very polite and friendly. We've gone on dates since and he's always been a gentleman.  Well I recently decided to look him up on Facebook, and Google and was horrified to find that he's been married for 8 years, with 3 children including a 1 year old baby girl! He professes his love to her on Facebook and I doubt she knows what he's up to. I also found out that he lied about his age - he's 50 but told me he was 42! I am a 25 year old woman but I look even younger than my age which makes me wonder why he ever approached me to begin with.  I confronted him about this but he just said he "married her for papers" which is obviously a lie. I'm so upset about this and feel bad for his wife. My question is how do I go about handling this? Do I let his wife know? They seem happily married and I don't understand how someone can disrespect the person they love like that.

back in the days, i chose the same college my crush applied to. we wind up not ever dating, we made out once in high school. Right now, he s single and all the way in cali, and knows i m married with a baby too, and i m in nyc. I find myself thinking about him fantasizing about dating him for even a short time, i even tell my husband and he s understanding trying to tell me not to let it consume me though. what should i do?

So I learned one of my ancestors went missing in 1903, it was suggested she fell of a steamboat in the middle of the night with her daughter. But they never truly found out. I started to email the woman who wrote the article she is also a descendent of the husband. He was wealthy, and I think he may have been abusive. She left without telling him. He filed a lawsuit against the owner, then disappeared. Either he was murdered, or he fled. Trying to protect the family name. The woman who wrote the article is probably trying to find out what happened too. But whould it be rude suggesting he was abusive? We never met, and she lives across the country. Or what do you think may have happened?

Regard of what ever happened in the friendship has a man or a woman ever married the person that harassed??? Just was wondering!!!

Been married for 5 years and still love & want him. I'm still young and don't know what to do? He's mentioned polygamy and I get jealous when he talks to other women. Please give me some kind of advise. Thank you.

I need suggestions on what to do. I cheated on my wife by having sex with a coworker half my age. I am very involved in my church but am too embarrassed to turn to anyone there... should I tell my wife? What should I do?

This man came to California on a fiancé visa. We have been married for a year. He left me and went back to Israel. I don't have any money for a lawyer. What do I do?

I was married for three years to my ex husband. I gave up my career as a receptionist so I could stay home and organize all the papers, clean the apartment, water the plants, feed the cat, dust the furniture, collect the mail, etc. Because of the money I lost by sacrificing my career, I sued him for alimony, and I am able to collect it monthly. I have not been able to find work for the past two years as those three years I dedicated to our household made me unemployable. The problem is I have met a guy who has a good job and he wants to marry me. I would like to be married again, but I am worried about what may happen if I am not allowed to further collect alimony because of marriage. Can anyone help here?

Every time I reject him for sex he throws temper tantrum at me even when I was heavily pregnant and was at risk of preterm labor, after I gave birth and was suffering from post partum depression (and he contributes to the bulk of my depression of course). And I'm a student when I got pregnant, I don't have a job, I took last semester off because of pregnancy and I have been staying at home taking care of the kid since he was born while my husband is working. For that he keeps calling me a leech, a bum, that I use school and child as excuses to not get a job and that I don't do ****, all I do is stay at home take care of the kid and sleep...(moms and dads with hearts know how much sleep you can get while taking care of a newborn..) He's been causing me tremendous mental distress but he's smart enough to not get physical with me.. Can I sue him and make him pay for what he did when we divorce? I have postpartum depression record in hospital

is their relative strength the only thing saving most husbands from domestic violence?

Women are always complaining they are oppressed in marriages. How is this? They control pretty much every choice the man makes, they control when he can have sex, what he eats, what he buys for the house, literally everything. All men are expected to do is go to work and make money, the woman has all the power these days.

Who is also my lover. He has asked me many times to marry him but I don't love him. He is only 50 years old and despite the age difference we get along great. Should I give in ? Marry him even though there is no love there?

I knew this woman years ago who was in a bad marriage. She was married to a cold fish. Her then husband wasn't sexually intimate with her for years. She decided to divorce him because of that. Her kids then grew up in a broken home. One of her kids was only 6. Not too long after her divorce she got involved with a virile, studly young man twenty years her junior. Was she being selfish and thinking only of herself?

I saw my husband flushing the home toilet with his feet and got annoyed. Am I right to be upset that he does that? I just feel like everyone uses their hand and he used his feet so its not right. His argument was :my feet are clean, I just showered. My argument is It doesnt matter, its disrespectful that you do that. I dont know why I feel its disrespectful except DONT DO THAT. Any thoughts??

We have joint custody of my 9 year old who has been living his whole life in this state and recently my ex filed a motion that she wants to relocate to canada. Her reason is that cant find a job here but the truth is that her whole family immigrated 2 years ago to canada and she wants to be with them...she has been in this state for 10 years and maybe worked 4-5 months somewhere not more!! I had filed a motion to increase my visitation times and also another motion that she was in contempt of quitting court ordered counseling. Once she got this motions served to her in retaliation she filed the motion to relocate. We went to court on this 3 days ago and judge asked us if we came to an agreement on all these motions which we didnt. Reason being my attorney said we can come to agreement if you can drop your motion for relocation then we can make agreements on rest of the motions which included 2 other motions by me and 2 by her. They didnt want to drop the relocation motion as a result we went in front of the judge with all these motions and he right away appointed ( Guardians Ad Litem). We also talked with family relation officer that day and my ex went off on me with a list of false accusations such as I am stalking her, I am abusive, harassment, she is afraid of me etc. she went off for a whole 15 mins and I just sat there listening. I am worried that she will make false accusations against me to the GAL person and make herself look good and make me look like ****!

I think this is really weird question but to be honest I am very rich (not like Donald Trumph but I can afford a lamborghini) and also good looking (yeah I have spot in my face lol), and I feel like my girl friend is after my money because she acts so weird than other girls (I just don't want to be specific, she might be reading this :p) but seriously I am in love with her and if she leave me after marriage then that will be.....arrrghhh, I can't explain. But if she do so then I don't want to give her any of my wealth, so is there any way that I can do something legally to marry her and not give her share of my wealth (actually my dad's wealth, but that's my wealth too right?)? Thank you and sorry if someone get angry with my question but I had to ask this and if I don't get answer then this this migraine will kill me, I am damn serious!

She is the one that wanted to end our relationship and she has started to act jilted She havent deleted me from facebook and she is posting comments like: Im like this , evil but delicate If you want me to be a b#&& I'll be one Is good to enjoy life and not post in on social media , that way no body judges you, no body cares. She act like she doesnt care about our situation every time we talk she ignore me , she acts like she doesnt know me (we work at the same place) She makes comments (almost laughing) about that she has gone out on dates with guys, went to parties , went drinking comments like , i wan to be single and go to parties. I think she is doing this to bother me ( a little yeah) But what gets me curious is why she is doig this if she is the one that wanted to end our marriage? I tried everything even seek conseling and she saids she doesnt want to so why keep acting like this?

I don't know what to do with myself anymore. I hate my life. There is nothing I want more than to be able to move to Canada, and spend the rest of my life living there on my own. But I will NEVER be able to do that, simply because I live in a place where I need my dad's permission to travel, no matter how old I am, until I get married. I don't want to get married. I literally have no interest in marriage whatsoever, but every time I tell my mother that she asks me to think about how it will be whem I'm so old I can barely walk, and I have no children to look after me. I'm sick of my life. I'm 17. I want to move out. I want to live somewhere else. I want to get a job and start my own life but I can't. What can I do? Please help.

But make sure she can cook!

There's so many problems with this one she doesn't drive like she use to and the engine doesn't work

Was trying to be respectful but it seems women just want us guys to take control? Young kids and married life is still kind of new to me

Men and women, boys and girls, what is your perception of a divorced woman? Do you judge them? Do you look down on them for failed marriages? Do you think they have skeletons in their closets and are cautious of them? Do you distrust them? Tell me what you think

I have been with my fiancé for 5 years now. He is such a wonderful loving caring man. Or at least he used to be. Lately he seems as if he s always upset about something or the kids get on his nerves or I fell like I get on his nerves. He works a lot and is gone a lot. He s a truck driver. Sometimes he gets confused about things and I point things out to him. Well tonight he told me he s tired of me always trying to prove him wrong and it s getting old. I m not trying to prove him wrong I m just pointing out facts. I don t know what to do. I feel as if he s unhappy. He s making me feel really bad about everything. We have 4 kids and I m a SAHM. I completely understand that he s tired and needs rest. I always let him rest all he can when he s off. I feel like he doesn t want to help with anything anymore. Is he tired of me? Tired of us? It seems like he would rather be gone working than be home with us. Should I keep my mouth closed even though I know he is wrong? I

I am 32 she is 24 but I am in great shape and actually look younger than her . She was of of normal weight when we met but has become almost double in 1st year of our marriage . She loves junk food and cry like a baby when I try her to stop . She is taking me granted

I'm 24,in two colleges and I have a modest income. I live in a motel with my mom and honestly it's miserable, I have no privacy from her and she always makes life plans and they always revolve around me staying with her forever. I want to find a husband and have children! Not live with my mom!!! Anytime I mention going on a date my mom demands the date bring her back food and says it's normal and a date always brings the mom food. When I talk about getting married she always includes herself like saying she will move in with any husband and I. She has a good income and tons of family, I'm sick of feeling like I'm married to my mom!!! I feel like just getting away from her. I love my mom very much but it's getting gross as far as I'm concerned. When I say I want to travel with friends she automatically says she wants to go,shes even wanted to come along with me on dates and no not to chaperone but just to come! I don't know what to do and I'm looking for advice,what should I do? I'm very depressed and have even contemplated suicide because I don't want to have to live my life for my mom. I've tried talking to her but she throws fits and gets greatly offended.

My parents have been divorced for over 10 years. My mom is single & my dad has a gf. My sisters are both 7+ years older than me. On my grandmas birthday we (my sisters and I) were going to go to my dads house (my grandparents live with my dad) to celebrate her birthday. My sisters thought it was a great idea to ask my mom to come and she said yes. My mom and my grandma have a pretty good relationship , so my mom wanted to deliver her a present. I am very uncomfortable with the whole situation. My mom going to my dads house when he has a girlfriend. Awkward. We walk into the house and my dad, his girlfriend, my grandma, and a family friend are sitting on the couch. My mom begins talking to my grandma and the family friend. My dads girlfriend whispers loudly in his ear, "She justs walks in here like nothing." My sister hears this comment and yells " WHAT B**CH SAY IT LOUDER! She begins to go on a long rant. (My sisters angriness was due to a bunch of things my dads gf has done). At this point I walk out because I am embarrassed and uncomfortable. My mom just simply says "goodbye Angelina" (my grandmas name) and they walk out. My sisters block my dads number and on all social media. They were mad at my dad for not saying anthing to his gf after insulting our mom. I did not do anything. Father s Day is coming up and they are not going. I don t know whether I should go or not. I would feel very awkward after all the drama that happened, but at the same time life is short.

like my girlfriend laughs at me and says thats what ya ****** get for being an asshole some boyfriends deserve a tack on their seat and even worse does your boyfriend ever deserve a tack on his seat what does your boyfriend deserve that you did

He uses our child. For an example, he told her not to tell me but that he only wants her on Fathers Day so they can go see the new Dory movie. Our child told him we are already going tomorrow. From what she said (age 11) he yelled at her saying that all they do is see the same movies over and over and she always sees new movies with me. I have primary custody. If he would have asked, I would have probably let them go together because it is Fathers Day but instead he belittles me to her. Should I say something?