I am a 19 year old guy single, and it's been a LONG time since I've cuddled with a girl or gone outside. I mostly just stay inside my house everyday ever since I started high school for 4 years. The last time I cuddled with a girl was in 5th grade when I was a kid and now I am graduating from 12th grade. I only want to cuddle or hug with a girl, we don't have to kiss or have sex or anything like that.

He's my coworker and when I message him he sometimes gets into long conversations like he doesn't want to stop talking, or he'll tell me 'adios Chica Bonita' before he leaves. I noticed he checked out my LinkedIn too. I think he's flirting. But other times he ignores me. If I visit him he sometimes acts like he doesn't want to talk, and we don't see each other outside of work. He volunteered to help me move some boxes one day. So I left a piece of candy on his desk. I feel dumb. Was it too forward? Did I embaerases myself?

Why? No I don't dress that way, I'm a virgin and don't find men in bars/clubs.(just saying) What's wrong with me ?

Obviously you break up with them, but how? Just thought I should know how to do that before getting a boyfriend or girlfriend.

So I just graduated 8th grade, today is the last day I'll ever see this girl physically unless I'm wrong about the highschool shes going to. I was going to ask her out but she was with her family and I wimped out, we've barely talked before but we've swapped glances at each other but I always thought she was the type to just daze off at random things, she also flirts with a ton of popular kids... I feel like I missed my only chance, what do I do?

I work with a guy who is married. Unfortunately he has developed quite a crush on me and me him but I would never do anything with a married man let alone someone i work with. Everytime we are together or he looks at me he gives me that look of seduction. The other day he told me something that I was really shocked over. He was talking about how he likes it when women take care of themselves and don't let themselves go so to speak. I said dude you need to stop. Now FYI his wife is not exactly little skinny Minny. My friend said he's pretty much telling you he was ta you and is not attracted to his wife anymore. Other than that he likes it when I wear tighter clothes and show confidence and also he will flirt with other girls to throw it off. Most of the time he'll flirt with me more so with eyes contact, facial expressions, body mo events, speaking sexually towards me about my body and what he likes and the fact he pretty much wants to touch me. So what exactly is he telling me

So but how can i tell if he's taken without looking or sounding desperate

I sometimes wonder am I kidding myself that I enjoy being alone

So basically I find my friends cousin to be very attractive, perfect in my eyes. However, I haven t ever really met her. We are going to a weekend long concert soon and she will be attending. I don t know if/how I should try to get something started with her. It feels weird but she is literally so perfect. Help me out thanks!

Leave your kik. Ima guy btw. Plaease. Im bored.

Hello, I been with my partner for 3+ years now. We are 19. He has a widowed mother him being only child. My family really took him in, helped him complete school, and get him on the right path. His mother isn t too goal oriented when it comes to college which is almost a must these days. I no longer want to go to their apartment because any time I go his mother crosses the line with me. Not only did we do everything for him and never asked her for nada in return, she constantly tells me to get a job and interferes with my personal life. She screams at him to move out or give her 700 in rent, work 3 jobs, meanwhile we are full time college students. It s very stressful and actually upsetting. I currently do not work because my parents tell me school is first and they ll support me until I graduate. I have excellent grades. I m not an expensive person so fine by me. Thoughts? I been nothing but respectful and patient for almost 4 years now.

Seriously, it's too freaking easy to crush someone with the information on google and the Internet.., why would you ghost somebody that could destroy you in so many different ways?! Just man up and freaking say the hard thing.

I am a 20 year old girl and dating a 40 year old man and he looks 30.I love him alot but feel awkward at times cause I don't know if this is normal or if I'm the only one that feels this way

He's been begging me to let him go down on me and I'm super insecure about it and it's a big deal to me but yesterday I let him and that was it. He did it for like literally 2 minutes and kept stopping and asking me if I came yet... Eventually I got sick of the situation and lied and said yes. After that he didn't bring it up again and it's making me sad. He was like "you taste pretty good." And that's it. Like it meant a lot to me and then he just asked me to give him a bj and idk I just thought since he knew I was so scared about it and unsure he'd make me feel okay about it but I don't now and I feel like he hated what he saw and was dissapointed. Can you give me advice please? I'm only 15.

So recently I've been hooking up with my best friends fiancée's sister for the past 3 weekends. But it's more than just hooking up or so I think. We make out allot, we cuddle n fall asleep next to each other, she attacks me with kisses, kissing my hands and wanting me to hold her.It's pretty passionate..of course that's other than the sexual stuff. Anyways i asked her out to dinner n she agreed n i talked to her about our situation. I told her I don't want this to be e meaningless nor do I want to view you as some piece of meat for my entertainment because I do care about you. At first she seemed like she was dodging and acting very sketchy But then she told me that she likes hanging out with me and does in fact like me. I told her I don't want to feel like I'm competing against any dude n that If this isn't what she wanted then let's end it here and just become friends. She said she was scared of her sister finding out as well as my best friend but I've already asked them if it was okay to take you out n they said yes. Our final moments we cuddled n kissed and she told me I'm not competing with anyone, n she doesn't want to see anyone but me. Cool right? The following weekend I spent it at her house n things were pretty passionate. Very romantic very special Now she won't reply to any texts. Either from me, My best friend or her own sister, I feel like I'm being played by her.i honestly don't understand. When in person she's all lovey n when it's text she's emotionless.

How did it feel like cuddling with this special person for that amount of time?

im 17

To me the only difference is that romantic love involves wanting to have sex with them. Therefore you could feel platonic love for anyone even a same sex friend who you share a connection with but obviously no sexual desire because they are same sex. What are all of your opinions on this?

So about four months ago I dated this girl for about two months. Everything was going really well. We both hit it off and actually became really close; talking to each other everyday and going out many times a week. Physically things were good; except we next slept together. I figured she was taking it slow. The reason we stopped seeing each other was because I felt she was holding back - for a little while she became a little distant after I asked her to be my gf (bailing on Vday and her birthday plans with me). Soon after she told me she had unfinished business with someone else and wasn't nearly ready to be my gf. So 4 months have gone by now and I have dated other girls, but none of them compared to what I had with this girl. I really do miss her and I do wonder whether she is still single and if she's sorted out her "unfinished business". I know people always advise against dating exes, but we were never official. Is it the worst idea in the world to contact her again?

So basically I messaged this girl that I barely talk to in class telling her that she's very pretty to sort of break the ice . She replied thanking me and some other miscellaneous stuff. However when I responded to her reply by asking her about her hobbies the message was left on delivered ever since. Does this mean she's not interested or is there a chance that she just didn't see the message.

We talk a bit and know each other, and I was thinking a little compliment then ask 'I'm I a lucky enough guy to go on a date with you this Saturday?' What do you girls think? I turned 15 today and she turned 15 a few months back.

We met online. He called me and we talked all night , then he came to see me the next day, he was all over me physically A few days later (he completely stopped texting) but then asked me on another date ,again we went to the movies and he was dying to get sexual which I refused .... Afterwards he completely stopped calling only texted once in a. While and then didn't see me for a whole month.

a while ago I had ran an errand with my mom on a rather humid day. Because I planned to workout later that day I was wearing exercise attire. On the way back home we passed a car shop. A guy was walking towards it, looked at me for a few seconds and then let me pass by him. He started talking about something mundane but as I passed I felt him still looking at me. My mom chimed into the conversation and the two of them talked as I walked around the corner. When we parted ways my mom went on about how he was trying to talk to me and how I should've let him take me out somewhere. (It wasn't that serious though !) I was however kind of attracted to him and felt too shy to stand and talk. :/ I'm in my 20s and the guy looked like he was in his also

I have a friend (she's not that close to me) and she is dating this guy. She kept telling me that she wanted me to meet her boyfriend and she basically got us to talk on text. He told me that my friend confessed her feelings for him first so then, he decided that since it hasn't happened to him in a while, he would like her?? (True love or not?) Now he recently started to text me a lot and he does sound quite flirty in his texts calling me pretty/using pick up lines/using winking emojis. What's his intention?? I feel like my friend could have sent him to be all flirty just to test me :/ What do you think and some advice please?

For instance, feeling pressured to choose one person over the other. or if someone cheats with you and you pressure them to choose their partner over you. *you over their partner. Sorry for the typo

If a girls says she doesn't have a boyfriend them her pússy probably isn't getting pounded. That thing much crave cóck

Okay I need advice very badly. Me and my ex dated for over a year and have a long history together. We broke up several months ago and he now has a new girlfriend that has been around for about 5 months. Lately me and him have been talking to each other all day and all night; getting close again, not even romantically, but just talking about life. I always bring up his girlfriend because it feels weird being close to him again with him not being single, and he says him and her are not doing well and he talks badly of her sometimes. He'll say she treats him poorly, and whenever he tries to break up with her, she guilt trips him into not leaving, due to her family issues. Anyway, lately he's been flirting more with me, and we got into a conversation about how much money he would have to give me just to get one bl*wjob from me. He seems to keep fantasizing about this and can tell hes very attarcted to me. At first I told him it was wrong, and then he offered 50 dollars. He said his girlfriend would never know. I want to say no and know that it's terrible, but the hardest part is that Im very attracted to him. I find myself wanting to kiss him every time we hang out. He was my first boyfriend and I haven't done anything with anyone since him. Would it be terrible if I gave him oral sex ONCE, just to get it out of our systems and then never do anything again?

He came back to me while cheating on his new gf ... When I found out I dumped him but was horrified at the pain and trauma he caused me..... I met someone new who treated my poorly, barely talking to me, never seeing me... I think it's over between us now So my ex won.... He FKED me up, found a girl , has his rich daddies money While I am once again broken hearted I used to believe there was a god, but not anymore

My girlfriend wants her chest pierced and I am not into that at all. I don't want to disrespect her choice or her body, but I honestly will be turned off by it. Scared even, I can't think of how badly that will hurt! How can I tell her I don't want her to do it without being mean? She wants to get them done this weekend.

My girlfriend has this little peach fuzz above her lip. It really bothers me. But I'm afraid to say anything. Do you think she's angry/embarrassed? I know I'd be happy to improve things about myself if she told me what she doesn't like.

We were playing chess, and I said "I won. You are very stupid to make really dumb moves. Only idiots would make those kind of moves. That is why you will always be inferior. You can go cry salty tears now. Do you want me to get you a box of tissues because you will be needing it." They just got mad at me, and told me that they won't ever play chess with me ever again. 1. How come they don't understand that I am good at chess? 2. Are they just salty because I won all the games we played? 3. How come they are salty? 4. If you were my friends and I said that to you, how would you respond to me?

I met my virgo guy a month ago(even more) At a party at my place that was organised by me and an old fling(just a fling) and He invited his part of the crew/ i invited mine. The party was a disaster but me and the guy were having fun together and I really didn't think anything was going to happen between me and him, aspecially if he's not really my usual type lol. The night started getting heated until we ended up in a bed infront of everybody and he was teasing me under the blanket, until he started to get closer and closer and then he started to lick his lips and my friend left the room, she kinda felt awkward and I told him ''My bad ): hahah'' i was also kinda scared, so I left. He was ok with it. Then i came back in the morning, passed him a vest bcuz he asked for one, and we kept talking, he started kissing me. Next day he came back with the vest and we had sex (I was also high. And btw my virgo's a pothead) And I kinda mentioned i didnt want any boyfriends(again, i was high and I always contradict myself) and he seemed fine with it. I also mentioned that I perfered to talk instead of sex. After that I thought I wasnt going to hear from him(Even at the party) but he just keeps texting me. He's super funny and sweet and I love it, but thing is, I don't feel him. He doesn't have any emotions, but he does. Anyways, he's confusing me lol. Since then he's still texting me, sometimes sends me snapchats but i feel like i'm waiting for my man to come back from the army, when he's just a couple of kms away. And what pisses me off is that when i feel good about him and being with him, he stops texting me for a while. The longest that he hasn't texted me was 2-3 weeks and that very day I saw my old fling, came back home thinking about him with oh guess what my piece of **** of a virgo texted! came back to earth! omg. And he also mentioned (I just finished school) that I would have the BEST summer16(also my fav song) with him after he asked me about my plans for summers(he was like ''Shiiit your gonna be partyeen all days now arent you? hahaha") and I was like idk lol. anyways he texts me every 2-3 days, sometimes stops texting me in the middle of a conversation which drives me nuts. I'm like "Is he even intrested? why would you keep leading me on if you don't?". and so after 2 days I made a solution do think about my old flings again. And every time I do he starts texting me. Like if he knowss. And I feel like he's keeping me in a leash, but I kinda like him. But i don't know. The only thing that makes me stable in this whole world is relationships with guys. And I'm just super confused about this one. I don't know if I should keep texting him, or just end it

We started talking on an online dating site, then we met in person and talked for about an hour. She always responds to my texts, but never texts me first. We've already planned on hanging out next weekend, but haven't fully decided on what to do together. Since it's only Tuesday, I don't know what to text or talk to her about about until then. I'd ask her what she'd like to do this weekend, but I know girls don't like a lot of questions. Please give me some tips on what to say to her. I'm a guy btw (my name's not really Ivy). I'm also friends with her on facebook.

Edit I had plenty of times when I would go out to eat somewhere and a girl would "forget" to charge me. The two most flagrant ones was when a waitress was flirting with me and charged the girl I was with her drink but "forgot" to put mine on the order. And just today, I went to a refreshment stand at a ball game, and I asked how much extra was it for a thing of melted cheese, and she said 2 dollars. Next thing I know, she does not charge me for it and gives me the cheese anyway while looking at me and smiling and saying have a good one. It happens a lot

I have so many guys in my inbox saying "hi beautiful" and "hey sexy" and two guys have poked me BUT i'm in a relationship. Why is this happening. I would never cheat and i did not respond to any one of those guys. It's just awkward.

I finally met someone But he never even calls me or talks to me, we've only hung out twice and today he wouldn't even go to the mall with me he told me to come to his house(I didn't want to do sexual things) and he barely talks to me It sucks I feel so lonely I told him how I feel but he doesn't care ,

My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago because we fought a little too much, and it's been on my mind a lot. She says she misses me and still loves me but also doesn't see us getting back together. That doesn't make sense because she's the one who left me. Is it possible that she actually could still have feelings for me even though she is the one who left me.

Eventually, it will come time for us to meet each other's family. But his family is of different heritage than my family. The problem? My parents always have bad things to say about any race that isn't their own. What if they don't approve of this guy just because of his race? He's my age, treats me with respect, and he loves me for who I am. He's been my best friend for five years. This guy is amazing, and I would be devastated if my parents would disapprove of him or do something to intimidate him.

Last week I met a new coworker at my workplace. When we fist met we did talk a good amount. After work I offered her to drive her home sine she lives near me and she agreed to go with me. We talked some more on the way back and then dropped her off. A week later I worked with her again and this time she waited for me to finish my work and I again offered her a ride home. I also asked if she wanted to stop by somewhere to eat on the way home since I was pretty hungry and she agreed. We ate and talked some more and then dropped her off again. Considering these were the first 2 times I met her do you think she is interested in me? 0 following 3 answers

Ok so I have a crush on this girl but she doesn't know and we text a lot on snaphat (a texting app). I try to give her clues by saying cute things to her and I think she's noticing. But every time I say something cute she saves the text but doesn't save the rest of the conversation only the stuff when I say like u looked beautiful today or I miss u and she'll say I missed u too. Stuff like that. Girls why do u guys save or screenshot the cute texts a guy sends u?

I met a girl on kik sensay and we started talking. We send each other pics but im a little suspicious. How can i tell if she is a pedo or an actual girl?

im a 17 year old guy and omg how do girls manage to be soooo cute??? Like when they smile and laugh and play with their hair and pout and sneeze i have to look away so the girl cant see the "awwwwww" face im making. And they dont even know that theyre so cute either which just makes it that much more adorable. HOW??

so a couple of months ago i got invited to another one but i had terrible anxiety and said i couldnt go because i had work. well it looked like so much fun and all my friends went and i kind of regretted not going, so this time around i actually rsvped and got a dress ect. but the thing is ive never been to a dance/party since 8th grade and i remember how terribly embarassing it was when i was on the dance floor and had no idea how to look cool so i just stood there. now shes having a dinner at 6 and i dont know if i should show up a few minutes early or get there a few minutes late??? i dont know what to do. what are they like? how do i overcome this anxiety? i want to cry, i dont want to go

He'll mock/remark on them and how they like me, tearing them down about how they approach me the wrong way. I've asked those guy friends if they like me, and they don't, so I don't know why he is acting like a green eyed monster. He has a girlfriend. He always glares at them when they approach me or talking with me. Prior to him and his girlfriend dating, he was telling me that he liked me and didn't know who to pick. I told him to take it or leave it, and he choose her, so I moved on.

Do you think that stereotypes are stupid and personality and heart are more important than body and height?

I have been with my husband for almost 6 years, we started dating when I was 16 and he was 21. I was lost in love with him. I later moved in with him and everything was perfect until I found out he was cheating, being the dumb 18 year old I forgave him multiple times.Due to getting cheated on multiple times I had lost all trust for him and he knew this, so he asked me if I wanted to start over and move out of Texas with him. So I did, and we moved to Virginia. And yep u guessed it , I got cheated on again. Now keep in mind every time he gets caught I ask him if he is sure he wants to be with me , if he doesn t want me I will not stop him from leaving, and I will respect his decision to the fullest, but every time he says he loves me and doesn t know why he does it, that s it is a problem that he will fix. So I decided to stay again but we decided to be in an open relationship, but this has made things way worst and the relationship is pretty much over. I hurts so bad but I have to let this man go , but I can t seem to do it. Every time I try to leave something keeps stopping me and we end up talking about making it work again. It breaks my heart to leave but I know I have to get out of this relationship and find true happiness. I will take any advice I can get, I literally feel like I am lost in life .

So I've been talking to this guy for a couple of weekks and he has put a mindset on me that we will become a couple later in the friendship because he said it himself.he can be interesting and fun to talk to at times but he's usually the first to stop replying. The thing is sometimes he takes forever to text back, he likes other girls pictures, he gets on Facebook without responding to my text for hours and I usually have to be the conversation starter. For example he says something like "oh yeah I saw the movie too" and I say "oh really? Did you like it?" And he only says "haha yeah it was good". I have to keep the convo going. I was supposed to meet him for the first time last week but he blew it off saying "I've been out all day with my uncle I'm so tired right now my bad I really wanna see you though, how about tomorrow?" I was so pissed but I didn't show it. His friends number increases and I assume he's adding different girls and probably talking to them on Facebook but should I really be stressing over him even though we're not even dating? What if he's like this even when we start dating??? Should I wait until I meet him in person and then maybe his interest in me should change and be better?

I've liked this guy for two years and I even added him on snapchat, but he didn't add me back. I got over him because I've found another guy who is really sweet and smart. I un added him from snapchat a couple of days ago, but now he liked my Instagram photo. The thing is when I showed interest in him he never liked any of my pics. Why did he do this?