I just want to say that "I miss you and don't expect anything from this, just wanted to tell you, and hope things are ok with you." We went out for 9 months, and it ended because I wasn't happy in the end and he needed to sort his life out & couldn't cope with things. He didn't want to see me hurt, so we never officially broke up face to face. He even cried once when he thought I was crying. He's a messed up person. He's 32 & I know it's important for him to get things together, but at the same time I care & want to move on by getting this off my chest. Should I tell him this? I'm having a hard time not moving on & I think about him & the fact he has no family around or many good close friends. He said i was the closest person to him, but in other ways he was closed off & wouldnt face hs problems.

ayuda

My daughter was 3 months old when I started dating my ex.. He raised her. We broke up when she was almost 4 years old. He left me for another girl and said he didn t feel like he should be apart of her life any more. However his mom and sister still want a relationship with my daughter and I told them that I didn t feel like it was healthy, so they went behind my back to my daughters bio dad on his weekend.. With out my knowledge or consent.. He told me after and we agreed to not let them have any more visits.. But they are still trying to contact him and I m not sure how to handle this situation.

Cons and pros

He has been through over 100 surgeries throughout his life and never has had much of a social life. A lot of people, women especially, have avoided him due to his voice and breathing. The problem is, he likes me but I don't. He has no friends. I happen to be his only friend. He is taking the rejection pretty hard that he is giving me a gift for appreciation of being his friend, that I do honor. He constantly complains about of being alone and he keeps pushing that he wants to hang with me; I don't mind hanging out even though we live two hours away from each other. He has a feeling that I'm uncomfortable around him, which is not true. I just don't like him more than a friend. I'm just afraid if he, even subtly, pushes for a relationship with me. A lot of his loneliness is due to the negative environment from his family, whom he lives with. He's also a very tense person due to the negative environment from home and work. He notices I'm lonely too, only I don't have laryngostenosis. What can I do if he was to continue to shower me with gifts and letters so I could be in a relationship with him without hurting his feelings? Has anyone been in this situation? I see him nothing more than a friend.

Can feelings for someone literally disappear overnight? See, over where I work at, there is this security guard that I USED to find very attractive and had feelings for. I would flirt with him, he would (sort of) flirt back, I would buy him things like cookies, or ask him if he wanted anything from somewhere, etc, also, we would sext each other (more me that him). I even lied about myself (how dumb is that?) He does not have a girlfriend and says that he does not want one, but he does "hook up" with people, which I don't like. There were really more CONS than PROS to this guy as far as what I find attractive in a guy, but his looks really got in the way which is not good either. Then very recently, one morning I woke up and I did not think about him at all! I have not sent him any messages since this past Sunday and I don't stay to chat with him for a bit when I see him. I used to think about him all the time, even on the weekends we would chat sending him funny messages and memes. Now Its like I don't want to anymore, and I don't feel ANYTHING for him anymore. Its all gone. I don't even find him attractive anymore. It REALLY feels like that it all went away over night. Is that possible? I always thought that it would take time. He has made it clear how he feels about me, how he sees me as a friend and thinks that I am cute, but would not date me. He does not do that with people that he works with. But we have flirted with each other quite a bit.

So, I have always had a passion for singing since I was 3 years old. I just turned 22 years old. It was sort of my coping mechanism that I had because I was an only child. I also taught myself how to play guitar and piano. When I was a kid I would always sing and record myself whenever I was alone. So for years I was so used to singing when no one was around and I'm really shy about it. I know I need to get out of my shyness If I want this to be my career but it's hard when I've become so used to doing it when no one is around. Now my mother has heard me sing and told me I should really pursue this. My mom's boyfriend has heard me sing to a little and he said I can really sing too. But I've only sung for him one time and when I did I kept laughing and stopping because I got nervous. . NOW here's the twist, my mother's boyfriend is a musician, he's been in the industry, worked with celebs, has plaques. He was in a popular band in the 80's. So he asks me to sing for him again and I tell him sometime this week because I wanted to prepare myself. He says "No give me a specific day". And I tell him "just sometime this week". So he says "you know what I'm done, I don't want to hear you sing now. Don't ask me anything about music" I didn't grow up singing at talent shows or anything like that. I have an audition for a music scholarship on June 20. I'm nervous and need help. I feel frustrated because I feel like he just gave up on me and got mad. Any advice?

Just now a white car that looked really nice (like it wasn't dirty or anything), parked in front of my house for a couple seconds, then drove off. What do I do? I live in a rather poor neighborhood so seeing a really well taken care of car looked odd, and it parked right in front of my house too, so it didn't look like a coincidence. What to do? My parents are getting a divorce and I heard that could be it, but is that true?

Application dry, I recommend serious answers. Have your say. Kindly, could you tell me the country from which he came after finishing the comment?

I met a man & we became acquaintances and eventually it turned sexual & it was just that. Which I was okay with. After awhile we started seeing eachother more. He would text me throughout the day, stop by for lunch. i would go to his basketball games he bought me gifts.we just started building a friendship. Over this year&half period obviously he grew on me & I caught feelings. we continued & the day of the Super Bowl I was texting him about the game laughing betting on who would win and he Calls me. I could hear the woman and she was asked me woman to woman who I was.. I said look I didn't know that was your man I don't want any part of this I'm sorry & I hung up. The calls continued and I ignored and she called me off her phone and I had a brief conversation with her finding out he's been with her for 5 years married for 1. All she wanted to know Is if we had slept together. After that the he called me from different number, came to my job.Of course I was hurt. He told me that they have been separated for a while and that he married her because he thought she was pregnant but she didn't have the baby and she changed after they got married. He was pretty much begging me for help He said he wanted to gain the upper hand so he didn't loose half of everything and then HE would initiate the divorce. After a few weeks they were ok..Since then he hasn't made any attempt to end the marriage. 3 months later & I decided to tell her. i now feel horrible. Like I ruined so many lives.

I was always honest with you but you keep pushing too much. Idc what others think since they have only your side of the story and i don't know them. Please move on and leave me be. I have too much to worry about to care for another person. Take care.

i was living with my uncle's,one fellow came to live near us.he is something like always sex minded...he always took girls,womens for his pleasure.and I dont like this person from the begg...I also somewhat fearing him.and at that time I used to watching porns most of the time.after many months my mothers sex thought came with that person in my mind.he already told me his friend is a tantrik.there is not good relation between us so I fear this thought is a tantrik effect or my own thought? so I fear how this thought came to my mind .....I am feeling very much pain and guilty myself how it came to my mind i dont find any reason... your answers are welcome please help me ....this matter ........help

what do you girls expect in a guy?..will it bother you if a guy is a virgin and doesn't tell you he's a virgin at least in the beginning because he doesn't wanna freak you out? no way i can be honest about it i hate lying to you but i will.... god help me i have so many embarrassing relationship questions i feel like a total freak asking them so i''m not gonna...just hope life will find a way for me to make everything turn out alright i swear to god after i climb my way out of this rabbit hole of shame and embarrassment i will make up for everything i've missed

I work w/ him & we haven't spoken to each other since we broke up, except today he thought he should message me, and then got pissed off at me when I replied. He claimed that I was telling co-workers about our sex life & my fetishes when I was w/ him, when I said no such thing to anyone I work w/ but I was told that he was telling people about our sex life when we were together, but when I mentioned that he denied it all. When I denied all accusations, because they were all simply untrue, he said I'm a dumbass for trying to lie and deny it all and called me crazy. He was like "they don't care about you else why would they gossip about you", they are my co-workers, I don't need them to care about me and people gossip all the time, if that were the case then NONE of them like him because damn do they talk a lot of crap about him. I blocked him on everything. Made sure of it, as well. If he spreads more rumors about me at work would it be OK for me to speak to my manager? It's getting old and he had no reason to bother me.

I m trying to write about how insecurities play into day to day lives. Need from both men and women.

I have a boyfriend I've been dating for 1.5 years now. Been best friends for 2 years before that and friends for 2.5 years before that. I live at home and am the oldest of 6. (Im 20) i never brought friends over Becayse my siblings were babies/toddlers while i was in high school. I brought my boyfriend home a couple times at the beginning of relationship but my mom made jokes about him being fat (he's just built bigger abd was in prime health at the time) so he stopped coming around. For a year this was an issue until recently he started wanting to come around more. My mom and i have been in many arguments and now it pretty much came down to i choose him or my family. She is not open to second chances and thinks he is manipulative and when i said she was manipulative fir trying to break he and i up she flipped out. I don't have that much money and just quit my job (mom said she could support me so i could find something full time but now says she won't) (work didn't allow time for job hunting) i love him and want to mske it work. Any advice? I've always had a plan for life but now I'm just completely lost.

"Hey Tyler, come over to my house" texts Cara on her IPhone 6. "Ok be there in 10 minutes" replies her lovingboyfriend Tyler. Cara Ried was an adventurous girl who loved outdoors and herboyfriend. Five minutes later Cara   received a call that her boyfriend was killed by a drunk driver.  "I love you Tyler" said Cara even though she knew her boyfriend wasn't coming back  Cara's best friend Lexa tried talking to her but Cara refused to talk. "Cara, please say something". Cara shook her head no, she felt like vomiting. Minutes later the bell for 4th period rings, but instead of going to science she rushes to the office to ask if she can call home, seconds later, Ms. Aronson, the vice principal  ask Cara a few questions, but Cara doesn't answer, she feels dizzy, her arms and legs as wobbly as noodles,  then she faints. "where am I "Ms. Ried t.p'ing the professors house  is unacceptable at Harvard , so as of today you are expelled from this school" said the dean very sternly". "but--"  "get out and take your stuff with you". Cara doesn't remember anything from last night, all she remembers is passing out . Car had a crush, His name was Evan Hale, one of the more advanced students at Harvard. Cara finally left after 30 minutes  packing and walked to her apartment by the grocery store, but what she didn't realize is that she dropped the paper that had her adress on it. After she got home she relaxed and watched some tv. ​The end

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

I just finished my second year at a community college and I'm transferring to a 4 year school in the fall. I'm super excited but also a little nervous about living on my own. I mean I'll be a junior but I'll be as clueless as the freshmen and peers in my graduating class will already have it together and have their friend groups and such. It sounds silly but I just want to have fun and do well in school the next two years. How should I ease my nerves?

For example my old boyfriend felt horrible of what he had done to me when he apologize which I don't get why he would actually feel bad after all if he truly did really cared ....

I have this see through top and I usually wear a black Cami underneath. Tonight, I decided to just wear the see through open knit top without the Cami and this guy saw me coming back from the laundry room. It was dark , its night right now but there is a pathway that is dimly lit but he was standing far back so maybe he didn't see. I then said hi and he said hi but was looking at my face the whole time. Do you think he noticed? I am so embarassed!

want to look like i do drugs on social media, please help give some tips please :)

My boyfriend is a manager for a popular hotel chain in a larger city with a small city feel. THey have treated him awfully (bad GM). One day we were off work at the same time and road together so I went to his work so we could leave. He needed to quickly finish some paperwork so he took me to his office while he finished it. His office is in open view for any employee who walks by (it s not tucked away in a corner) and he was behind his desk while I was seated on a bench on the other side right next to the door, which anyone could see into and which we left open. Another employee lied to his GM saying we shut the door, which we did not. His GM called him in and told him this and they both went back to look at the cameras and see that we never shut the door. My boyfriend was going to get in trouble but when the GM found out the girl lied he did nothing (he is very sexist against men and loves women, it was a pretty well known that he was sleeping with his assistant) So this employee basically called me a slut, insinuating that I would sleep with my boyfriend in his office during the day with employees everywhere. Should I complain to corporate? I don t work for them and am basically just like any other resident of this city or possible customer of this hotel and was basically called a slut. I would never do anything like that and I m offended that anyone would even say that or have that associated with me every time I walk in there! What should I do?

I am very beautiful with the perfect hour glass shape, but sadly while I'm extremely nice and friendly I have to deal with pathetic jealously all the time. I love women, but I truly believe there is a special place in hell for women that are jealous and haters of other women. I mean it's got to be cool to have nipples and no boob right? They can pull off the boyish tom boy look, or immediately put on men's clothes and be transgender. I mean seriously why the jealously. I've seen all kind of jealous trash on here talking about they look gross without a bra saggy ect. No, mine aren't saggy at all and look great without a bra because they are shapely unlike when you have nipples or tiny triangles only and look like a dude.

So I have many ideas in mind but I'm still stressed about it. I have thought about Bluetooth speakers, a watch, a fishing knife engraved, and even naming a star after him. I'm not sure why guys really want. he's really difficult to buy for so anyone have and suggestions??

I have OCD: Once there's a thought in my head it's hard for me to get it to go away. Lately, all I think about is how everyone farts. Like even the prettiest girl or the hottest guy, farts. The guy I have a crush on, I actually think in my head how he farts too and it kind of grosses me out. I don't know. I have very obsessive tendencies and this is the newest one. How do I stop thinking about this?

today I added this girl i liked in snapchat & she didn't add me yet but then on Twitter she deleted some followers & I think she hasn't been going on Twitter either but now she's been getting some followers on Twitter . But then I search her on google & I saw that it only shows her Facebook profile which it takes me to right to her account but it didn't show all of the people in that name it only takes me to her profile but now it shows all of the people in that name & on instagram she deleted some followers But now she's been getting some followers

Wrong category Yahoo!

He has gotten to the point where he does not listen and feels as though he can do his own thing. I've sacrificed so much for this young man and he in term shows not gartitued. His dad has convinced him that there is another way...an "easier way". So much has gone on in the last 3 years and I will not bore you with the details. He is my only child and I hate to put him out but I see no other way. I know I would be throwing him to the wolves but I can no longer live in hell because of him. HELP.

Say you come across a profile that seems great. Until it says you should message me if "You re not crazy and enjoy good beers or any other alcoholic beverages ". My emphasis is more on crazy comment . ...would you message him still? Thoughts...opinions....