I am a 17 year old boy, and I have a 12 years old little sister. Recently I discovered that she may be having sexual relations with her 15 years old boyfriend. I've read some of her whatsapp messages with the guy (yea, I've spied her cellphone, don't judge me), and she talks really dirty to him, and she often implies that she performed a blowj0b to him. Also, a few weeks ago, I discovered a used condom in her trash can. I'm really worried for her, because she's so young and naive-looking, and I don't whant her to get hurt or pregnant... I can't believe that she may not be virgin anymore (I still am), and I don't know what to do. Should I tell my mother? Should I speak directly to my sister? My parents are divorced, by the way, and we have not seen my father in some years.

Well my dad will give my brother money all the time everytime he wants it. But he won't give me money. I'm 30 and my brother is 42. He says he won't give me money cos I smoke. Well my brother smokes too and he gives him money. Like he bought him a flat screen tv and all this other fun stuff but not me. He even told my brother which is also his step son that he loves him more. What should I do??? I can't afford to live on my own cos I only make 400 dollars in SSI and I can't get a job cos or I will lose my SSI. My mom is my legal guardian for personal reasons and I can't get a job. What should I do? I have disabilities. My dad he said "F*ck you" and "F*ck you B*tch".

I'm 17 and haven't respected my father for a while. My mother has been abusive to the point of losing her kids if anyone were to find out, and my father does nothing about it. Whenever there is any conflict, he does nothing about it. He works hard but for example, when my younger brother was angry because he was trolled in his video game, he smashed the disc and to avoid conflict my dad just got him a new one. There's things in his past that suggest why he avoids conflict. But to get him to do anything he has to constantly be told and honestly has little to no authority. What should I do? I can't move out for a while.

My brother's always been doing messed up stuff like he drilled a small hole in the bathroom door once and asked me when I was going to take a bath so he could watch me secretly (luckily I spotted it the first time) I told my parents about that and they shouted at him and he cried and promised not to do it again They filled it with clay temporarily till they could find cement to fill it up with and one week later when I was in the bathroom I saw a tiny needle make its way through the clay He was poking a hole through it again I told my parents again and mom was very hurt and dad was just shocked and he cried again promising not to do it Two years later I found a video on his phone of me bending over to paint something and my pant had slid down a little and you could see my underwear and he recorded it The worst part is we were talking to each other and making jokes normally while he was doing this I told mom and dad again they checked his phone and found lots of porn but no more videos of me so I was relieved But now I found a condom in his bag and I'm freaking out. I've had nightmares of him raping me sometimes and now I don't know if it's possible that he had sex with me when I was asleep or gave something to me to knock me out, because my vagina's been a little itchy for the past week and I don't know why and maybe my imaginations going wild but it's driving me crazy Is it possible for him to do that? Should I tell mom? Or is he just using it to masturbate? I'm scared

El vecino de al lado es de esos regetoneros insoportable que solo escucha esa porqueria, siempre sale con su su perro (un pitbull? solo para amedrentar y yo creo asalta con el, pkrque cuando no lo saca conla cadena lo tiene suelto y siento que es peligroso para los niños. he visto que entre el y su hermano lo inyectan en la espalda desde hace como 3 semanas y luego le dan carne molida cruda y pollo sin el hueso, lo que noto es que el perro subio de musculos y esta mas loco que antes. tengo miedo de que ese perro muerda a un niño o a cualquier persona, pero si lo denuncio se ve que es de esas lacras que se cobran. yo no le hablo pero luego esta tomando caguama con sus amigos y dejan sus colillas de cigarro y su pasura en mi patio, pero mi mama me dice, dejalos no te metas en problemas con esa gente, pero es que esto ya sale de control.

Me and my mom bump heads over stupid stuff because she is a shxt starter and she's always yelling and cursing at me but I stay calm. She made up some lie about me and said I said something awful about her when I obviously didn't. She was getting ready to leave the house. And I didn't want her thinking I said what she thought I said because it was bad and so ******* untrue and as I was calmly telling her that I didn't say that she said just walked right out the house and slammed the door right when I was talking like a dumbfucking child. I swear to god I ******* lost it that pissed me off so bad I was so heated. Wouldn't you get mad if you're trying to prove a logical point to defend yourself to your mom and she walks out and slams the door in your face????

i live with my parents and brothers whom aside from my big bro always try to manipulate me and make me feel dumb and i can t take it anymore the worst thing is i spend most of the time in my room because i live in the middle of nowhere and i always have ths feeling of desperation to leave and start living my own life. what can i do to stop going in insane

My mom has had many boyfriends since my dad, and although I didn't like many, I particularly don't like this one. He's negative and ignorant about everything and everyone. Plus, his kid calls me fat, ugly, stupid, and even tried telling me that my whole family hates me. The problem is my mom invites them to everything and they practically live at our house now. Any time I try to talk to her about it, she gets really sensitive. What should I do?

She made me upset over something that's not true and I was calmly telling her she wasn't correct and I was defending my point and then she started ******* yelling and I was like wtf and I was still calmly tellin her she was wrong and then she told me to shut the fck up and I shut my mouth and kept quiet while she talked. So in her opiniN me trying to calmly tell her she was wron was argueing with her. I don't see ******* how tho. And she said to me "arguing"with her is just as disrespectful and cold as the man going up to Christina grimmie and shooting her and killing her. They're both equally disrespectful" what the ****???? Is this true? Was she right?

Parents have to tell they're kids if they're doing something wrong or they tell them what they can do better. It's normal and it's needed. My mom does the same thing and I don't mind. But whenever she tells me something I can change or doing wrong she ALWAYS HAS TO INSULT ME!!!! For example, a parent sees they're child's room is dirty, they tell they're kid hey clean up your room. It's dirty please clean it. My mom would say clean up your room you're lazy af you don't listen you ungrateful gods gonna take away what you have for being lazy you're gonna learn. Like wtf. She makes these absurd fasle assumptions about me and I try to tell her she is wrong because I don't want here thinking gals and bad things about me. So I tell her in a calm calm way that she's wrong and she starts yelling and over talking me and not listening and that's when I start to get a little loud then she's yelling at full volume and I just shut my mouth and be quiet to avoid argueing. And she gets mad and says we always has to argue and that she going to fcking leave me in the dust and she says these horrible things and I didn't do anything. Why is my mom like this??? I honestly cannot stand her.

in the final exams i didnt get a good mark for physics.. i got 12 from 20 ?!!! and i dont know why my mark is this much bad cause i didnt think of 12..! and when my dad saw my report card he spitted in my face when i was asleep.. so i was like WTF ? and i saw him shouting what is this mark ?! i was like..i dont know!!! then he and my mom start to make me small by saying bad words and naming me like animals my dad said youre like a pig you do **** and you eat it yourself... WHY ? WHY ? once in the whole word i got a bad mark and i deserve this words he named me pig , dog , donkey, a ****,.....it was so many that i cant remember and during this things my mom was saying yes youre right she deserve these words :( i wish him and her the worst things ever i wished he get mute when he is 60 years old and never get the ability to talk what do you guys think is there any other way to be good to them ? i dont think so...

my family is so effed up. Everyone is so unloving and angry and fighting all the time. I don't feel like going into much details.. But my life is honestly just falling apart. everyone around me has such loving families. Even if they are dysfunctional they have love. We don't! Everyone hates eachother here. I just don't know how long I can pretend everything is ok around my friends when it's really not :/ My sister and mom and brother just had this huge fight for the millionth time which is so convienient because my graduation is tommorow and now non of them will come:( Sometimes I wonder what I have to live for. On top of my family issues theres so much more and everything is piling up i can't take it. I always feel like i'm the only one because no one else seems to go through this!

I currently live with my parents and my younger sister. My dad got a really good job offer, but it s halfway across the country. Since I am going into my junior year of high school, I can choose to have my dad move by himself and visit during holidays, then my mom, my sister, and I will join him two years later after I graduate. Or, my whole family can move this summer. I have always struggled with social anxiety and was lucky enough to finally find a group of friends this year that loved and appreciated me. Although I don t want to start over this close to the end, I can t imagine living without my father for two years. What should I choose?

I've always loved horses, I started riding when I was five years old and they're the only big constant in my life. I'm currently 17, competing in rated shows across the east coast and into the midwest. My parents will rarely show up to watch me ride, even when I'm competing hours away from home at national events. They're indifferent when I bring home ribbons, meanwhile my brother will earn a higher level belt in his stupid taekwondo class and they'll take him out for dinner and give him a pat on the back. I never got that. My dad is a high power business executive and my mum owns over a dozen rental houses, together they bring in roughly $25,000 a month. They'll brag about having millions in assets, yet they never bought me a horse, although the board, lessons, and vet/farrier fees would literally be pocket change for them. They never bought me a horse because they didn't want for me to have one, not because they couldn't afford it or for some other actual reason. They're only willing to pay for once weekly lessons though my ambitions are much too big for that. I'm currently a working student at two barns I show for (I compete on horses for four barns), work as a nanny, and babysit whenever given the chance. I pay for additional lessons, half leases, show fees, clinics, etc with money I've earned myself, and while I'm proud that I've gotten where I am by myself, it sucks not having supportive parents simply because they don't care enough. Also, a lot of the teens who compete at my level have really supportive parents who will do anything to help further their riding careers. There's horse moms whose lives revolve around helping their children progress, some of my friend's parents work two jobs in order to afford board and lessons for their horses. I teach beginner lessons to earn extra ride time at one of my barns and the moms will sit and watch their kids and discuss with the other moms horses they're considering buying. It's very alienating and disheartening for me to not have supportive parents, especially in the horse world where everyone's parents are their kids' number one fans. They're so apathetic about literally one of the most important aspects of my life and it's really hurtful...

I'm a 16 year old girl and I only am at his house 2 days a week. He won't let me wear the shorts that I want to wear, so instead of being defiant or something I just wear jeans. Now that it's summer, he won't let me. I have to wear only the hideous shorts that go almost to my knee. I feel so embarrassed in them, they don't look good on me, and it isn't fair because I feel so self conscious in them. I've told him, but he doesn't care because "it's summer." I don't know what to do. I literally dread going over there just because of the clothes he makes me wear.

My mom and I and my little brother live with my grandmother since my mom can't afford to live on our own, recently my grand mother has been threatening to hit me and she has hit me in the past, my mom never does anything about it besides tell me not to fight with her, I have always wanted to move out since I was 13 or 14 I have been planning to get and job and move in to an apartment, my mom says she just wants me to be happy so I plan to convince her to let me go at 17 because I don't think this is a good environment for me to being living in and living here I'm not allowed to work because my mom doesn't want me to; I feel it's unfair that I have to stay in this environment over my mothers life choices, and I wanted to know if it's be allowed since my mother would be consenting to it? If she does say yes I know where I'll stay, thank you in advance I live in California and I turn 17 in October, I have also applied for jobs but it's kinda difficult to get a job when you are under 18 I do have a friends house I could live at. I am homeschooled I goto a facility to test twice a week my mom would be fine as long I'm attending, I'm going to be staying with my friend and her mother, my father isn't in my life and hasn't he used to hit me and now he isn't in my life, I have looked at one bedroom apartment I do know the prices and I do understand not only do I have to pay rent but for other utilities also. I have thought this through since I have wanted to move out for so long and I have researched it.

I am a SAHM and I have two children one that is starting school this year and the youngest is 20 months. I am 3 months pregnant with my third child (unplanned but still loved) I have had scares that I am going to miscarry since my 20 month old sometimes wants me to carry her. My cousin who is also my sister in law (married to my husband's brother) has a 19 month old son who I love so much. But I cannot babysit him because he does not walk or crawl and he cannot sit by himself. We have gotten him checked but he's fine and doesn't have problems with his spine or anything.. The problem is, my SIL got a job because she said it was boring at home and didn't want to be stuck with a crying baby all day. The baby weighs 37 pounds and he is really heavy for me as I am 4'9 and short.. I have told her it's not that I don't want to take care of him but I just can't because he is really heavy. I am thinking she only got a job to avoid making him learn anything new and now I am stuck babysitting and he is crying so much. I have tried to feed him but he throws it on the floor. I have put him down for his usual nap but he cries until I pick him up. My kids are also frustrated and I have not had time to make anything to eat yet.. My SIL won't listen to what I say when I tell her about my scares.. She just doesn't care and I don't know why to do anymore? I cannot call CPS because I think she is neglect him but I can't because I love him so much.. Any advice please?? And thanks for any answers. Yes I have gotten even a third opinion and fourth and he is FINE. I am saying that the problem is her that keeps him in the stroller all day and does not give him tummy time or carry him at all. What I am saying is that she doesn't try and gives up and that's why she got a job in the first place. I would be happy to show him and I do when I babysit him but she finds out because my son tells her we played with the baby and made him stand up etc.. She gets angry and says that he is very small And she does not pay me either. I have talked to my husband but she just shows up and shoves him inside and runs away to her cars leaving me speechless

in a middle age crisis, she always fights, and makes it seem as she is a burden to me if i help her with something, and i was putting her a weave yesterday and i didnt finished, she felt like she was begging me for help, bc she says she cant do it herself, i told her i would finish it today, but i got caught up on some stuff, and she said, to take it all off, bc clearly she is begging me to help her, and she dont want to beg anyone, for ****, i said, mom im gonna finishit today, and she said she doesnt want to botherme more, so after all the hrs i put in to work on that weave, im gonna take it off, she makes me feel, that shed be happier without me in her home, i just wish id could leave.

My life currently sucks. I know it won't forever but I'm feeling so horrible and helpless. I hate being awake. My parents got divorced (which is good) but I have to visit my dad until next year (that's when I turn 18) and I rather not. I never spent any time with him. He never hugged me goodnight or was nice to me either. I do online school since March and it's really hard and I only have one class done and like 6 more to do so that has been stressing me out. Especially since I can't go back to real school now. I just feel like I'm in a gigantic hole I can't climb out of. The third problem is just my social anxiety, I take meds for it but it doesn't work that well (the doctors won't put me on anything else tho) and I barely have any friends. I'm starting to see life as the ugly thing it really is. It's hard to talk to my mom. She's always stressed out about bills and money. I feel like she's only happy when she's out with friends. Our new house sucks so that also stresses her out. My family probably thinks I'm fine with school and mellowed out about visiting Dad, but I'm not. I feel suffocated. I just don't know what to do. Maybe it will get better eventually? Right now though, I wish I could sleep forever.

She's 16. Shouldn't she of grown out of it by now? I feel like she's too dependent on me...I stopped calling my mom "mommy" when I was around 12...

Hello.. My parents have been spoiling my siblings ever since they were little..it's their way or no way..I'm the oldest (18),my brother is (15) and my sister is (7)..well they've been playing favorite more towards my brother because we found out he had a heart condition..so ever since then it's been all about him..but my main thing is..am I selfish? I've been known to keep to myself and when I finally defend myself I'm in the wrong..they let brother scream at me,cuss at me,talk back to me and make a mess,that I have to clean up eventually because he doesn't know how to do anything because he's a "baby"..he's 15 for ******* sakes..I was cleaning the dishes and house since I was 11..I understand what he's going thru but I tell them that doesn't mean he has every right to treat me like ****..and another thing..they let his friends come over (about 4 friends) and they eat all our food,drink all our drinks,eat all our snacks,basically leaving me and my little sister nothing to eat for the next week (were on food stamps) and when I tell me my parents they say "it's okay,those are his friends,we have to let him enjoy some life"..like omg...it drives me insane..sometimes I cry myself to sleep because I do everything for him and my sister and yet they still treat me like ****..I love them so much but I've been told "you love to much,it's time to do things for yourself"..am I wrong if I do that?😧😕

What should I do. I'm a 23 year old female.

I'm so tired. My family judges and teases me by my looks,style,posture,talk,interests,activities and etc. I think it's their fault that I am insecure and unconfident all the time.If I would try to talk to them about that they would just make fun of me and forget what I said...I can't wait to move out and live on my own,alone! I'm 13 by the way. *activities

So, my sister has back problems. Ever since her back started hurting, she's Bern treated like a princess, and has everything handed to her on a silver platter. ( literally, sometimes ). Now, she wasn't short tempered or anything after she got the back pain, she was just a ***** from the start. Now that my parents are favoring her, ( and my siblings too ) she gets away with anything and everything. Yesterday she screamed at me for not handing her the milk right away, and I got in trouble for not giving her what she wanted. Last week she punched me in the face, and knocked my nose out of place, just because I called her immature, for mimicking my brother, and mocking my mother in public. And you know what? I got in trouble, for "insulting" my sister. I'm really sick and tired of this, and I need some advice on what to do about it, before I break a vase over her fat head.

So 3 years ago, my dad started having an affair with this women and we found out 2 years ago. Parents split up ect. Now, my dads family is pushing me that I need to accept what's going on and suck it up and that I have to like this woman because she is now part of my dads life. I want nothing to do with her because I see her as the B word who helped break up my family, who has made my dad neglect his own kids for 3 years and this lady has the nerve to butt into my siblings issues where her opinion is not wanted.. So I guess the question is, am I wrong for not accepting her, and if I'm not, is there a reasoning behind it? Because I have tried too and I just can't. all I feel is hatred for her. I'm currently 22

My dad has a trust fund set up for me and he said I can get the money when I am 26. Freaking 26! I'm 19 now and am old enough for it, but he's saying no still! Is he being unfair or am I just overreacting to this?

So, during the past few summers, my time was spent babysitting my spoiled nephew. I would like to go out, but the rest of my family works. I have him till nine at night, and all he does is play video games and talks back. I have tried talking to them about it, but they brush it off. I'm sick of doing nothing, and they won't let me bring friends over, so I'm stuck with a bratty child, bossing me around. I have tried taking him to the park, and pool, but he throws a fit, and try's to hit me. I gave up on trying to do anything that involves sunlight since he prefers the Xbox... What should I do? I'm sick of this....

Kid 1. Eren or Armin Kid 2. Isabell or Caroline Kid 3. Erica or Bertha Kid 4. Nate or Nick Kid 5. Calvin or Ronald Kid 6. Lina or Ember

I have been at this all girls school for about 2 months now. The students and teachers are mainly Caucasian. My parents went through a lot and paid a lot of money for me too attend. So far, I HATE it. The girls in my class call me names like ni@@er, blacky, dark spot. Last week was really hard for me. A girl came into the showers and poured bleach on my toes and told me to die. I have a little afro and her friend stuck a comb in my hair and call me a nappy head bit**. Im afraid to tell the teachers because last time I told on a girl for picking with me the teacher handled it in front of everyone and just made it worse for me and told me I need to suck it up. When I walked out of class the girl pushed me and told me I was going to hang. I looked at the teacher and she looked right at me. My parents worked really hard to get me into this school, but I don't like them treating me bad and I don't want things to get worse. On a academic level the school is really great and Im honored to get in but its not what I expected.

Last night one of my brother said he hated me and never wanted to talk to me again and the other one said if my mom never had a miscarriage i would never have been there so take that *****. My mom called me retarded and said she would rather have a heroine daughter. Is it time to cut them out of my life?

I am a high school guy with a very young stepmother. She is the greatest mom any guy can have and I adore her. After hearing other guys my age talk about their mom, I think I am the luckiest guy alive. She is always there when I need help with anything. I have learned so much from her. I was just getting out of the shower and I must not have locked the bathroom door because mom walked in. She was VERY embarrassed and I think she said the first thing that came to her mind. "Oh My God, you are really hung". It was the most embarrassing moment of my life. I don't know whether I should be embarrassed or proud. Can you be both? Should I never mention this to anyone and/or should I have said thank you? You can BE SURE I am going to lock the bathroom door EVERY time I take a shower now.

Hey ladies!! I ve never posted (my wonderful friend of 7+ years Katrina Harms added me) but I do have a really big question for y all.. My daughter will be 2 September 3 and I have a basic custody agreement with her father. The last time she came home, she was, and still is, cussing quite frequently and using it in context. And about every cuss word you could think of, too, not just the basics. Also, for the past 3 months or so, whenever she comes home she hits everyone. I found out today that her father "pops" her whenever he hears bad language and she misbehaves, which is almost constantly because she s an active and curious little girl. I never hit her unless she s doing something that might possibly hurt her and I want to scare her, and usually I only have to do it once and she will never do it again. And I ve done it twice in her whole life. When she comes home she s miserable. She hits anyone who comes near her or gets in her face, she ll scream at you if you try to hug her and fight to get free. She s exhausted like she never sleeps. Have any of you had any experience with this? Would I have any grounds to modify my agreement from this? It makes me furious because I know she gets treated horribly over there but I can t do anything. Do you think I d have any grounds? Thank you!!

My mom screams a lot and says a lot of hurtful mean things to me . She also emotionally abuses my grandma( her mom). She screams a lot and threatens everyone and tells me to kill myself and says no one wants me. She does some drugs that make her this way. She is very mean towards my grandmother and I. I got mad and smacked her. Could I get in trouble or go to the jail if I hit her even though she's being like this .

Every year I see my dad for Father's Day. After all he only lives about 30 minutes away This year I saw my mom on Mother's Day. However it just so happens that the only time me and my girlfriend can go to the beach that weekend. I really want to go to the beach with her otherwise I would end up going alone and it would not be as fun. I was thinking I could visit my dad earlier like on Saturday or come during the week a couple times to see him. I'm not sure if he would be offended now I'm at the beach on Father's Day. What is your look on this? Am I thinking too much about it?

I just moved into a new house yesterday, we were decorating today and I dropped a vase and i could have sworn when I dropped it it flew in the air for a few seconds and then landed perfectly. Does my house sound haunted? Im scared.

I don t remember everything clearly, but I believe I was around 11/12 years old and I played this game called "horsie" that I made up with my sister. It was me dry humping her leg. She didn't seem to care because she thought it was a game. I made her face the bed so she wouldn't be watching me and I was extremely quiet while doing it. She was around 3 years old. I stopped before age 13 because I realized it wasn't right. I never had sexual feelings for her, but I really wanted to rub my clit against something and get off. Recently, I can t stop thinking about what I did and I've been feeling so guilty and disgusted with myself. I feel like I took advantage of my little sister and I sexually abused her. It s now about seven years later. I just turned 18 and my sister is 9. I don't think my sister remembers any of it. Basically my question is should I tell my parents about what I did or am I making a big deal? I don't know why all the apostrophes disappeared, sorry about that.

My younger sister married last year. He told her before they married that she would have to follow his religion, church of the firstborn. She was certain that she could make those changes and wanted a life with him so she agreed. They have been married and now have a baby. She started following him and his religion, but it is just to much for her. She did agree to these changes, but now she is very unhappy. She doesn t want to leave, but her husband constantly tells her that she s a bad Christian because she can t stand the skirts anymore and wants to cut and style her hair. I know all of this seems very silly to fight about, but it s a real problem in her home, so please no rude remarks.

He lived at home until he was probably 18 or 19. He moved out because my mother was concerned about some of his actions. He was working later shifts at a local job, but then some nights he wouldn't even come home and would go to a local college and spend the night somewhere. When he moved out, he packed his stuff in his truck and pretty much left while my mother was taking a walk with a friend. After a while, he found that the people he thought were friends that he knew from his job...they left him. They got the lights turned out at whatever apartment place he was sharing with them. Eventually, he moved up in position at his job and got a townhouse place. He met a lady supposedly while he was working at a storage place and they started dating. She was expecting a baby then from another guy that she had gotten a divorce from. Years later, they ended up getting married, buying a house about 30 miles away from us and his wife's uncle helped him get an air traffic controller job. He makes a lot of money (over 7K a month after taxes), but his wife seems to blow through his money for him. Every time that we visit, they've changed something in a room. Changed the floor, painted the room, changed the bed that they just changed last year, etc. Whether it is their room, their kid's room or whatever. His wife likes to lay around whining about her leg hurting from gymnastics, apparently as a teenager. She's in her mid-30's now. She has has literally worked about 6 months in her life. He seemed to get mad at my mother when she suggested that maybe his wife should work part-time to help out with the bills. There was a time early on in his job, while training...we helped him financially because his training didn't pay enough for them to make it through. His wife seems really snobby and spiteful. He didn't his mother for several months and one day we popped in at their house to see what was going on. It was 3pm and his wife was apparently just getting up from bed. She apparently stays up all night, sleeps half of the day away and he's out working. He seems to want her to be a "stay at home mom" (their kid is in school now), but it just seems ridiculous. Her ex-husband whom she had the first kid with when my brother started dating her...that guy hangs around their house. A lot. Not sure why my brother is okay with it. We were there one year for Christmas and she kissed her ex when my brother wasn't near them. Apparently the ex coaches at the ball park, which my brother's wife wanted the kid to take up sports for, so that she can go hang out with this guy at the ball park. It seems like a very regular thing. We've visited them during holidays and she literally goes and puts on these very revealing clothes and sits across from her ex-husband, giving him her full attention. My brother seems oblivious to this and looks the other way for some reason. He won't call his mother and puts her off with a text message that he'll "call her later, he's busy working." He never keeps his word. Unless, of course...he needs something from her. His kid kept, the house watched while they take a vacation, their dog watched, etc. Then he's suddenly up to talking a lot, answers his phone and is communicative only if he can get something done for himself. I should also note that some of their relatives...they have distanced themselves from them. They've both turned against the grandmother on his wife's side of the family, who also used to keep their kid a lot. They've distanced themselves from both of their families for whatever reason. Apparently her parents are not her parents...they're her aunt/uncle, which is pretty odd. Her brother and sister as she calls them are her cousins. Very odd family. Perhaps he feels that it is judgmental...

I have been mentally abused for a long time. An argument started today over nothing, my ex was making a big deal out of nothing and the only reason why he was here was because of our daughter. I never asked him to move in or stay. He always puts me down, makes me feel crap about myself. It's not the first time this has happened when it last happened he moved out, I didn't ask him to come back? He's made me feel like I never made him happy, if he's unhappy he makes a point of it and makes everyone else feel unhappy, but then he's quick enough to want sex, he's never paid for our daughter, never paid his way whilst living with me, never paid me rent. Today he started on me because of my cat? How silly? Started shouting at me and I asked him nicely and calmly to leave, he wouldn't and in the end was stressing me and winding me up, then he was using reverse physiology on me saying how it's all my fault and was in my face, I hit him, I know I shouldn't of, was I well within my right too? It got physical last time but I didn't hit back, today I did

Everytime I swear my mom always say "where did u get that from" i said "everybody does that we are human" I mean she curses too so she shouldn't complain it is ******* annoying!!! Please help me!!If you guys say you to young to swear uh NO I'm am a human being just like you!!!

I am 18 years old and my parents are divorced. I have 2 younger brothers who are 15 and 12. My Dad pays my Mom child support, she used to get $2100 a month (child support alimony), but now she gets around $1700 per month. My Mom doesn't even buy us clothes. She buys us very few things at the beginning of the school year and that's it. I barely have any clothes for the winter, but I do buy some of my own stuff and I'm trying to get a job. I try to tell my Mom that she is supposed to spend at least some of that money on clothes for us, and extra-curricular activities, which we don't even do. I used to play tennis, and I had to pay for all or most of the lessons from my own savings. The only she pays for are my car insurance which is pretty cheap, and my cell phone bill. She now wants me to give her money for both of those things, especially if I get a new car (which I will be paying for). I told her that if she wants me to pay for my cell phone and car insurance then she needs to buy us clothes and help me pay for college. She thinks our child support money is supposed to cover her bills, like electricity, cable, water, etc. Who is right and who is wrong?

I recently just turned 16 and I'm wanting to get a job and drivers license. My mom will not teach me to drive because my older sister was terrible at it. I cannot get a job because my mom wants me to be there to babysit my five nieces and nephews and keep the house clean. It's hard to go to my school functions because I have to ask people for rides and my mother does not work but leaves me to be the caretaker of my adopted 5 year old sister. Just recently my 17 year old sister got pregnant and my mom is threatening to put me on birth control and I'm not sexually active. Should I move out I'm starting to feel like they are keeping me down to be their servant please help

I am 23 years old and I have six siblings. My mom (43 years) got divorced by her husband (who is not my father) a few years ago. It appears that she is AGAIN pregnant and there is a high chance that the pregnant is not for the divorced husband. The worse thing is that of all the 7 kids she has including me, only 3 of them are for his husband and the rest of us are from 3 different fathers. How do I really accept this regarding the number of siblings that I have and that she doesn't get enough income to support all her kids and also the fact that we are from different fathers? I have never been happy with it before but now that she is pregnant again it makes me hold my grudge on her just over everything. Mom only has a shack in a small town where she stays. The 4 kids who age 15, 11, 9 and 3 stays with my grandmother in a village and me and the two twins (aging 18) stays in a city just on our own. I have been taking care of them since I was in university. I just started working recently and I have huge responsibility over my shoulder to take care of my siblings. This situation makes me walk with all shames all over me and I feel like confronting her about it but I have no courage to do it. We never got love from our parents except from our grandma who raised us. I don't know how I am going to live when she is pregnant again and people already used to talk about it when we are so many and from different fathers. Plz advice I am really dying silently and have no one tell.

My sister is 18 years old and I'm 13. A few months ago I was in my bed on my phone at midnight and my sister ran into my room with her pillows and covers with her. She layed on my floor and went to sleep. I asked her why she came into my room and she said she saw the devil on a roof of a house opposite of us screaming. I thought she was kidding so I just laughed It off. Today it was a little earlier, around 10 PM and again, she came into my room and said that there's a ghost in her room. I think she's crazy. She acts totally normal but this just isnt normal at all. Any tips?

My 2 year old is out of control. I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works ALL the time so I basically have to do EVERYTHING. It's gotten so bad that I ask family (mostly my mother in law) to babysit so I can get some peace and quiet. I would prefer to be by myself sometimes and I feel like all I do is yell at her. Very rarely I start thinking about all the things I could be doing if I didn't have a kid and get very envious of my single friends. I love her and would be mortified if something happened to her. I feel like a bad mother to feel this way but I am on the verge of a serious nervous breakdown.

My dad makes me mow our back yard cause ya know why would a man do it instead of his 17yr old daughter? The handle vibrates like a million miles a minute. I cant even feel my hands when im doing it. It irritates me/hurts so much i have to stop every 2 minutes. When i stop my hands are all red and itch like hell. I told my dad and he said its normal and that im just ******* lazy and its an excuse for me not to do it, because it doesnt bother him. uhh im half the size of him. How hard is it to fix? would i be able to? my dad wont since it doesnt bother him. Yet im the one who has to mow. (hes one of those guys that orders you around while he sits and watches.)

Hi, my name is Casey and I'm a sophomore in high school and lately I have been struggling with my weight, and a lot of family things too. I am 5'3 and weigh 113 pounds and I am 16 years old. Gross, I know. Well my dad thinks I am super fat too, so ever since my mom went bed bound, he has been forcing me to go in a metal dog crate in the cold basement from 5 pm until 5 am when I have school. I haven't told my friends because its really embarrassing. My dad thinks that keeping me in the crate and away from access to food I am going to lose weight seeing he doesn't feed me in there. Besides that we are a happy family, and my mom doesn't know about the crate. But its getting uncomfortable down there. What should I do? I love my dad and my family so I am willing to compromise to make them happy.

My mother asked me a few months ago if I would come to a family reunion that is taking place just a couple hours away from where I live. For her, it's a flight across the country but she travels a lot and can afford it. I grew up mostly overseas and am not very close to this side of the family, but agreed to drive my 8 month pregnant wife and four year old child up and we'd stay the night in town. Mom said she'd pay for the stay and food, I never asked. Now that we're getting closer to the reunion date, she's told me that she's also flying up my sister, who I have been estranged from for years, and my sisters family. While I thought that might be a risk, I figured I could deal with it for a few hours at a big public reunion. But, now I find that my mother wants us all to stay in a rental house for the entire weekend and share meals, outings, etc in addition to the reunion. How can I back out of this? I already tried telling her I might have a work commitment but she started crying and launched into "I never ask you for anything, I gave you months of notice, I do EVERYTHING for you". How do I make my mother understand? My sister was awful to me my whole life and as adults we stayed apart for a few years at a time and each time we got back together, she was back to her normal self, being nasty and cruel. My wife suggested we stay in a hotel and just go for the reunion, but I know my mother will not accept that. Suggestions??

My sister has recently told me that she doesn t love her husband like a wife should and that she s still in love with her childrens father, who s also in love with her. Her husband used to do drugs and she is really all he has because all his ex-friends do drugs and so does his brother. She s the reason he stopped. They ve been married for just over a year and got married after only a couple months of dating. My sister tells me that everything he does irritates her, i.e. He hacks up loogies in the morning while brushing his teeth, he coughs a lot, he never drops subjects, he s always asking questions, etc. They ve been fighting a lot more recently and it s mainly initiated because he does something that irritates her. I ve already told him that she doesn t love him like she should but should I tell him she s in love with her ex?

My mother and siblings embarrassed me today by their poor social manners

Yesterday I tweeted about the attack on the Pulse nightclub in Orlando and about sexuality. Some of my tweets said: -"RIP to the 50 people who died in this senseless act of violence. F**k the person who killed all them people." -"It doesn't matter if you're gay, lesbian, straight, bi or pansexual. We are all the same. F**k whoever says you're different. #LoveIsLove" -"The gunman targeted them people because he was homophobic. Homophobia is f**king disgusting. It isn't fear, it's hate." My sister who is 13 saw the tweets and was disgusted by my use of the word f**k and told on me to our mum. She shown my mum the tweets and she was disgusted by the use of that word as well. She said, "I'm happy that you support LGBT rights but you should NEVER EVER swear, even on the internet." I said, "I don't care if I swore, all I did was trying to make valid points." Mum said, "But swearing is so unnecessary. You should be ashamed of yourself for using such foul and disgusting language." Should I be ashamed of myself?

Hi! Am 13 years old and i hate My parents. Everytime there is something special they freaking ruin it, there is this theme park that my class were going to, with the teachers, I asked my mum if I could go there and she said Yes, then I got all money and **** and I knew they weren't gonna wake me up so I tried to stay awake the hole night. Then my dad comes yelling "Why aren't you sleeping, go to your bed nooow!" And I just didn't answer. I was supposed to sleep 11 Pm but I stayed awake for 6 AM, and my class arrived 8:30 AM. So I slept 6 AM cuz I was a little bit tired then my F*cking parents wake me up 11 AM! I was soo god damn pissed I decided to smash the T.V, which am gonna do once. My dad lives in this country for 1 year and has decided to sit home, watch tv and don't get a job. I ******* hate him. Like my family gets 1200 dollars per month, my friends parents gets 5000 dollars a month, and they give to charity. We do have money to pay clothes and food and other **** but like I want hover board I gotta wait like 2 months. My parents and I have a iPhone 6s, and we we can buy expensive things but he just haven't got a job and sits at home and yells at us doing little mistakes like forgetting to put back the iPad I used. So what should I do to give them payback and make them Veeeeery angry, piss them off and make myself happy as well?

i will give you a brief back story, i come from a broken family, my dad was the abusive type and the alcoholic type and my parents got divorced when i was young, we moved away, year after i was sexually molested by two different men. i was bullied in school up until the day i graduated i have little to no friends because i was different or weird or annoying, everyone had called me a slut because i lost my virginity young.... i was diagnosed with major depression and PTSD i cut myself because i hated who i was and i tried committing suicide three years ago.... i now don't talk to many people i once knew and i have a fiance, im in college.....my dad is getting remarried and doesn't speak to me anymore even tho i tried calling him he always said i would never make it into college and i would just be like every other person in our county...trash. yeah sucks that somebody "daddy" would say that right?....anyway i just got my first car and i still havent been able to drive it because nobody will ride with me so i can learn, i have a part time job in a deli which seems like a full time job that takes into my school work. my fiance had the hardest time telling his parents we were engaged as a matter of fact... he didnt they found out through family members that have facebook that told them. im ready to move out he still wants to live at home. i grew up very young and new what i wanted to do with my life i want to become a radiologist and live in the country where i will have my family and a nice little farm. i started becoming aware that i wanted to have kids when i was about 14 years old, but i never had them that young thank god but i thought my only purpose in life was to be a mommy, and my and my fiance decided in about 5 years we will make that family and i though ok cool i can do that, but its really difficult when you go on facebook and somebody new is announcing there having a baby and its somebody you know so being around that makes me feel sick with jealousy because they have the little one that i am waiting desperately for. i went through a lot and didn't have much of a childhood every time i brought home a cheer leading form or an audition paper or a tryout paper my mom said no im not wasting my gas for that ****. i wound up being you sad little emo kid in the corner, picked up guitar and wrote songs that was what i did. for my senior year i bought everything myself and my mother made me cry on prom because she wasnt even there to help me get ready i bought my own dress and shoes and i cried because she didn't make me feel like the princess i should've felt like. with my kids i would rather they not turn out like me i would give them what i never had (not spoiled of course) but a chance to experience every opportunity they wanted i would rather have my kids in clubs and sports than on the street doing drugs or hating themselves and wanting to end there lives, if my kids came to me and said mom i really want to play tennis or mom theres this musical in school and i really want to be in it can you be there for me? i would say yes and support them in what they love....my fiance isn't ready and i don't think he ever will be all he cares about is enjoying his young life while he can before kids come along he wants to have things like a big screen tv and nicer cars he already has a nice nice honda that his parents bought him. i have to pay for school, he gets his paid for. we come from two different sides of the track. and theres so many things in my way i don;t think my life is ever going to start...whats wrong with me why do i think like this

Its been days when i touched my older cousin's penis (we're both males). Im 13 and he is 33. Im gay and i did that because i was abit horny, i know it was wrong and im guilty but he caught me and been calling me gay since. He told his gf, our maid and my mom. Im not sure if our maid and my mom still remembers but im sure my cousin and her gf still does. We havent talked yet. Until today he chatted me on facebook saying i should give his charger back with an insult calling me gay. I borrowed his charger because we both use samsung but its fair that i get my charger right? He has a samsung phone and tablet and i have my phone. We only own two chargers. Please help me with these two problem. Its just right that i get a charger because i should have my share, right? And how can i solve the problem between us? Thanks