Family: Question: How do I convince my parents to kill themselves?

Question: How do I convince my parents to kill themselves?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 01:05 PM PDT

I have awful, verbally abusive parents. They embody everything that I hate about the world, they are immoral, insufferable, and worthless to society. My question is, how do I convince them both to end their lives? I"m stuck living with them for at least another 2 years until I can move out but I probably won't actually be able to for a long time. I think that the best option for me right now is to go into the care of somebody else because my parents have done enough damage to me already and if they don't commit suicide, god knows I will. Any ideas on what to say to them to persuade them? Thank you! God bless

Question: My family might get disbanded.I'm in a really bad situation and I need your help!?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 01:05 PM PDT

Recently My life has got worse and worse, due to my family, my family is small, I'm the only child in the family, Father and mother. I'm 20 year old, still studying , not working yet, and recently my mom has been accusing my father for cheating with her, with some Colleague, even today we had a fight and I was between them shouting each other, I can't stand all this **** anymore, I really get nervous, tears are coming off from my eyes, even I got several hairs whitened already. I even managed to make my father (took me a while) to show facebook messages with her, but nothing much really, most of the chats were about work and job, it was bit strange they were talking like too close friends, but nothing sexual or something to go after! but My mom is putting her head that My father is somehow Cheating with her. idk who is right and who isn't. I don't know if my mother is over exaggerrating or my father is doing some kind of sneaky ****. but what I know is I can't continue like this, I need some kind of advise what to do, sometimes i don't even want to come home, recently I"m not at home most of the times from morning till the late night comes. Even today was a horrible day they even started swearing and I became so angry and amotional , I was hitting the door with my hand, with all the strength while shouting help please!

Question: My brothers are way to overprotective, why?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:55 PM PDT

I am 14. I am the youngest of 5 boys and I have 1 older sister. My brothers are not as protective over her but they are so overprotective over me. Every night they make me give them my phone and ALL of them take turns going through it to make sure I am not even talking to any boys at all. One time this boy asked me for nudes and I obviously said no then he started calling me things like a *****, hoe, slut etc. As soon as they found out they got in the car drove to his house and beat the crap out of him. I live in a small town and none of the boys talk to me because they are all scared of my brothers. Sometimes it is nice to have them looking out for me but it can be a little much. Is this a good thing and I should just leave it be or should I do something about it?

Question: What is my moms deal?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:51 PM PDT

I'm 27 years old And my dryer broke so I asked to borrow hers. The second the cycle was done she was yelling at me to transfer my laundry. Then she started criticizing me for going to the beach for a day and criticizing my overweight friends. I have a full time job and an independent why does she treat me like this? And she thinks I don't respect her I wonder why.

Question: Convince my parents for a fursuit?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:51 PM PDT

I always dream of having my own fursuit and brining my character to life. I have good grades and is more trusted than my older brother. As of now, I am in middle school so I plan on getting a partial suit. How could I convince my parents to let me buy one?

Question: How can we tell my auntie to leave?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:49 PM PDT

So my auntie is a free loader she go from house to house free loadering off of people we are like her official house that she go to when she sick of free loading off of other people but me and my mom are tired of her she comes to are house uninvited and trys to stay for months some times she uses all of are products and food without replacing it and its only a 2 bed room house she is here staying on a new couch that my mom just bought 3 months ago how can we tell her to leave

Question: My friend s parents are abusing him, what can he do and how can I help?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:42 PM PDT

My best friend is gay and his parents are homophobic so they are always telling him he s not gay and his mom calls him a fa**ot. The other day she took his phone and found out he has a boyfriend, and then she beat the h*ll out of him for it. I told him he can move in with me but she knows where I live and will just come get him and beat him again. I have witnessed her call him an idiot, an a**hole, stupid, di*ckweed(whatever that means??), etc. She calls her daughter a b*tch and a wh*re all the time. But she does it mostly to him because he s gay. He s come to the point where he wants to run away to another state with his boyfriend because he thinks his mom wouldn t be able to find him but it just doesn t work that way. She has had her kids taken away before for abusing them and doing drugs but it didn t change anything but the drug problem. He s only fifteen so what can he do about this?? And am I able to help at all?

Question: I've really disappointed/hurt my mom, what do I do?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:40 PM PDT

I've hurt my mom so much, by doing something that I shouldn't have. I don't feel comfortable saying it here. But I apologized to her once before, and she forgave me. But after promising, I couldn't bear it and did it again. This time, she won't give me a second chance, even after so many apologies. She yelled at me, and said she was ashamed to be mother. she also said that for me to change, she's sending me to a boarding school in another country (she's being serious). She says she no longer knows who I am, and that I've went behind her back and manipulated her since birth. But I love her so much, we were like best friends. I wrote her another apology letter saying that I love her too much to leave her, but she hasn't read it yet. Will it work? What do I do to gain her love and trust again? Will she ever forgive me? I've been crying all day. She just says I'm being self centered. I really don't know what to do. I am punished, she took away my dress for the graduation dance and is not letting me go to the field trip to Six Flags..but how do I get her to forgive me and for things to be the same again??

Question: Well im grounded for the whole summer, someone help?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:28 PM PDT

well i ended up sneaking out last night with these two guys and my friends. im 13 and the guys are 17, i know them really well, so i trust them. well, i walked out of my window and im so dumb, i got into their car literally right in front of my house. it took me a couple of hours to think about whether i should sneak out or not, but i just said **** it as usual and ended up doing it anyway. i walked out and as soon as i got into the car, i heard an extremely loud, "HEY!" at least 10 times. i walked out of the car and knew i was screwed, they then hurried and left. they ve taken my phone, my computer, my tv, my play station, my other phone, all my fans, they took all my pretty clothes, so all i have is t-shirts and nike shorts, they took my makeup and straighteners, they even took the door off. im also grounded for the whole summer. i have nothing. someone please help lol.

Question: HELP! MY FRIEND IS GOING HOMELESS?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 12:14 PM PDT

my friend is 17 year old girl and her dad is dying from cancer. They r poor and her mom doesn't work (maybe at Macys), but if dad dies they cant afford to stay at home. What can my friend do? Is there a certified job that can pay?

Question: Consequences of running away? In Hawaii specifically?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:49 AM PDT

Question: My Dad's An Asshole?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:48 AM PDT

How does someone get to that point? He yells 24/7 since I was a kid I can remember him yelling to get his point across. Since I was a kid I cab remember him saying that he was going to leave. He's never done it and me and my sister are the last ones to leave soon since we're about to be adults. My dad always wants everything clean no matter what and if he gets mad he keeps it going adding in new stuff that's happened and just gets louder and louder. He's always threatened to best up my mom but never went through with it either. I mean he's bought me what I needed and things that I wanted and given me advice and made me a tough person. He's always put all of us down except the girls not so much. Telling me that I'm ugly or I won't be **** just because I'm not focused 24/7 like he is and that I should quit my sport because it means nothing and just work. Never ever ever gotten anything good even when I came home with a medal. He went through some **** as a kid and got stabbed a couple times but why be an asshole when you can finally start enjoying things. He's really street smart but he's an asshole to everyone and always puts on an act when around most people. Always making my mom and other people cry. I'd kill myself before I became like him. I never did drugs I never did things with girls that I shouldn't I never drank I never fight I'm about to finish school never having failed a grade I'm going to the military I'm going to college but yet I still have him on my case 24/7 about how much of a **** up I am.

Question: Why Am I Treated Like A 9 Year Old When I'm 15 ?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:45 AM PDT

so my mom went out of town for a whole week and left me here i'm 15 years old , and my mom told some of her friends that she went out of town and they are so annoying they show up every where unexpected to my house looking through the whole house ! and my older cousin all of the sudden now has to watch me because i'm " Too Young" like really this is so annoying i'm Fuxking 15 not 9 if all this is going to happen when she goes out of town than i dont need to stay home alone anymore . I WANT TO BE ALONE !

Question: I feel as if my mom doesn't care about me.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:38 AM PDT

I mean not literally, but I feel as if I'm like a dog to her, she doesn't care about my happiness nor my lifestyle.only if I'm alive and healthy. She didn't care when I gave up on an instrument.I told her I was in depression ,till now thinking I was stupid even though my score levels were high (112 iq) since she made me feel stupid and criticized me for everything. Then she just made a joke about it. Believing that I was just bsing her. When I call her she yells "WHAT?!?!". And when I try to talk to her about my problems, she thinks I'm acting. Problem is I don't know who to talk to, my school doesn't have a counselor. I studied politics to show her I'm smart. And at this point I think she hates me. I wanna drop in tears for a real mom. All my friends have fulfilling conversations with their mommoms and I don't have ****. Can somebody please give me advice????

Question: Should spanking a child never be used as a punishment?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:33 AM PDT

Question: How to prepare for my grandfathers passing?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:31 AM PDT

I am currently 12 My Grandfather is close to death, his kidneys have completely stop working and he sounds horrible. My father has only heard him cry once, that was when he was told he had cancer, the other day my dad called my grandpa and he was crying. Im really upset that we don't have much time, how to I prepare for it? We are planning to see him over the summer but im scared to see him, I don't want my memory to think that he was really sick in the last moments. I just don't know what to do, im scared to wake up and be told that he passed away. Help?

Question: How do I eliminate my Father in law?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:27 AM PDT

My Father in law is a horrible human being. He likes to see me suffer and will go out of his way to make me feel like a piece of crap. He pretends to be okay with me just so he can see his grandchildren, but we all know he hates my guts and wants me to die. I just don't know what to do anymore, how can I eliminate him? Not necessarily from this world all together, but just eliminate him from me and my childrens life? Also my wife (his daughter) is pretty close to him... so it's causing a pretty big rift between me and her because she wants him actively involved in her and our childrens life. She doesn't care how i'm treated by him or how I feel.

Question: What would you do if you saw your daughter asleep while nursing in a bikini at a party? Cover her or remove the baby?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:25 AM PDT

Question: My favorite teacher is moving and it's been so hard on me?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:20 AM PDT

Needing to vent! Need advice? My favorite teacher (Mr.T) is moving this summer. Long story short, freshman year I got into a basketball injury & went blind for a year. (I gained my vision back last year) he would come to my house everyday & help teach me geography while I was blind, he was the only one who helped me pass the whole year! While blind! He's been with me through thick/thin, we're extremely close. Yesterday was the last day of school, he told me he was moving, which really upset me bc he won't be here to see me graduate. He told me how proud he was of me, how much I meant to him and that I'm his favorite student, how I'd go really far etc.. He took a picture with me & gave me the biggest hug ever, I wanted to cry. I want to send him a graduation invitation next but there really is no way I can contact him sadly. It's just so upsetting because he's so important in my life, I want him to see me graduate but I don't know how i will be able to see or talk to him again. I emailed hi school email today hoping he will answer before taking leave but I don't know if he will see it. I'm a bit upset about it, Any advice?

Question: I am jealous of my cousin?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:20 AM PDT

So, his father invited me on their amazing 4 night vacation to the beach, and we stayed in a very nice hotel. But, in the days preceding the vacation, I spent the night there, and I shared a bedroom with him. His room was so great. He has a huge bed and a chaise lounge, AND a flat screen and a bunch of other stuff that my parents could never afford. All of my cousins live like this and I feel so poor and sad. He's nice to me, I guess, though we didn't really talk much. He just put on a movie and when it ended he filled me in on the itinerary for the next day, then told me to sleep on the chaise. Why can't I be rich too? I feel like everyone else was born being fed from a golden spoon, and I am stuck with a plastic one.

Question: I'm so angry lately especially to my Mom feel like I'm going crazy?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 11:15 AM PDT

My Mom was recently in debt so I sold off my games and other bits including electrical hair stylers (All things I bought myself) and she didn't even thank me or seem apologetic about it. MY brother is getting away with everything, doesn't have to a lift a finger in the house and didn't even say anything about the debt or try to help. Then my grandmother is complaining about all of this to me and doesn't stop for hours. I feel like I'm headed for a mental breakdown. I want to start and annoy/hurt everyone but I can't tell if it's because I'm so stressed or if it's my anxiety & depression.

Question: Why does my friend encourage my family and their family to go to the amusement park together in Florida?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:58 AM PDT

You kidding right? Nooo! It's soooo hot! Why would she force us and she tries to act like it's not much of a big deal we have drinks cold water ice drinks cold food you name it but I can't go with my fam since we don't go out when it's hot and I live near Florida but it'll take both our families to drive 5 hours straight to there just to go to a park really? I can't believe her she is turning 15 next month and I'm turning 14 in June 23 so I think she wants to do this for my bday but I'm not really sure about that. Can you please help? Ok ok alright thnks for ur help I appreciate it And thank you Emliy, Cool. That's nice to know. Happy early bday to him, too.

Question: Just found out my grandma (79) has dementia. What can I do to help my grandparents?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:57 AM PDT

I live in a trailer next door to my grandparents that they pay for. I feel so useless when it comes to helping them. I cant think of any good ways to assist them and it bums me out. What do I do?

Question: Am I a bad family member?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:55 AM PDT

Hello, I am 19 years old, male. By nature, I am rather reserved, and not very communive. I am not very good at expressing gratitude for other people, even when I feel grateful. Also, I have Asperger's. My grandfather, who is my neighbor and owns the house in which I am living for free, I rarely walk the 3 meters between our houses to say hello or have a casual conversation. I mostly either go because I need to use his washing machine, because he invited me to eat dinner, or because I need something else from him. I go and say hello and have a short conversation sometimes so that I do not seem that ungrateful. With my parents, although they have let me live with them as a basement dweller for one year after graduation (still with pressure) I am not very talkative, I take long to answer to messages, and hardly ever write to them by my own initiative, most of my texts being rather minimalistic replies to their messages. Depending on whether I go to the college I applied to or not, I will have to go back to living with them while I study (I am right now working in another country for about one more month). My whole family is kind and supportive to me, but how much I communicate with them relies almost entirely on how convenient they are to me at a certain time. They are family, but I can not see them as friends, except for my sister, but I talk with her less than I should.

Question: Mom forces me to bring my sister with me every time i meet up with friends. How do I make her stop?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:45 AM PDT

So I'm a college student, and my sister is in middle school. Every time I want to go meet up with my friends (who are also college students), my mom forces me to bring my sister along. It's incredibly awkward because she's in middle school, and I end up not having a good time because we have to try to censor literally everything. How do I make my mom stop? She won't listen to anything i say, and she said that she'll stop when I turn 25.

Question: Is this child abuse?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:36 AM PDT

I'm so tired, mentally and physically. I have so many problems... so broken. Before I begin I wanna say I'm a male. My father squeezed my ***... in a kind of sexual manner. Then he kept... I don't know how to explain it... he said I was lying when I wasn't, then was almost forcing me to say what wasn't true (that I liked something when I didn't). I assume he was drunk but I couldn't see the bottle or smell it. Sometimes he's like that when he's sober though. I am so scared and torn apart, I want to end my life...

Question: Is my little brother or self-centered or just retarded?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:31 AM PDT

Should you speak in your native language or secondary language when you're talking with your parent who's not that influenced in secondary. Meaning she understand some English but not fully. My little brother interrupted saying that i can communicate with them in English when they somewhat understand English. Moreover, he said i would be wasting money if i were to attend a class at 6:00 P.M. I don't understand what he is saying, from my knowledge. I know that you can adjust your college schedule the way you want. Also, what does size matter in a fight? He said i'm a pussy so i was like bring it, and he clearly stated "Why would i, you're bigger than me?" From my perspective, there's people that are capable of beating people who's twice bigger than they are. He always think his right when it comes to argument, no matter what i tell him. He twist his word, go back on his word, lie about how he never said it, and etc.

Question: Should I tell my mother about this? Would she want to know?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:28 AM PDT

I am a high school guy with a 36 year old single mom. She is the best mom ever. I just adore her. She often goes with me to school events. Each time she does that, some guys afterward tell me how lucky I am to have a beautiful, hot, and sexy mom. I always tell them my mom is NOT hot and sexy. Even some of the girls tell me the same thing. Girls also tell me I am in big trouble if I expect my dates to be as beautiful as my mom. Several guys and girls always ask me if my mom was/is a model. Should I tell my mom what they are saying about her. Would she take it as a compliment that guys my age think she is beautiful, hot and sexy? Would I get in trouble for telling her about the hot and sexy part? Mothers, and others, please tell me what you think. THANKS.

Question: I dont have a dad anymore. ;(?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:26 AM PDT

I was texting my dad last night and i said i did not want to go to his house on Sunday because i wanted to sleep over my friends house( i have not seen her since Easter ) She is my closest friend. He said: No its not happening you make plans on the wrong time. I said :I always go with you and i just want to go see her! I dont care, your coming. But please! I dont care, your coming to help me plant U only want me there to plant............... You should have planned it yesterday. Too late. You coming Please! Im not waiting another week to see you No. I always go! Its my decision. But its mine 2 If your not coming dont come at all I didnt tell u to get me a room Okay then you dont have one anymore between all the child support ( he dosnt give us child support he is liying) Please! Fine no more hard time dont come ok goodnight. Please help! I dont think i have a dad anymore. Well i never did. Mom said he bribes me to come to his house like the time when he bought me a computer. When i was sick and had a fever he didnt bother to take care of me. My mother did that instead. He never did what a dad was supposed to. He talks bad about my mom. He said the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. I need advice. Im 10. I need advice!

Question: My father wont buy me a new phone?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:24 AM PDT

The phone I have right now is some old alcatel one touch fierce phone. It's cracked, it cant play sound anymore, the speakers are broken, when I call someone I cant hear. And it drops calls. And whenever I get text messages they get deleted. Its so bad. I want the iPhone SE. but my father says Your phone is still good. Like wtf I got this in 2013! Its old and broken. How can I convince him to get me an iphone? Hes so cheap!!!! Whos right me or him? And money is not a problem.

Question: My mum claims that she only wants me to happy but I always felt that I was unloved. See the details and answer me please?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:23 AM PDT

My dad died when I was 2, my mum did every effort to give us good education. However, I always felt left out and unloved, well now when my sisters are married and my mum is alone and she expects me to take care of her, she has realized that I have a tailored a psycho lifestyle and a world of my own she claims that she wants me to be happy and talkative. I can't talk to her even, I have always been this way. What can I do to make her happy?

Question: Why my sister always insult and teasing my job?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:20 AM PDT

I'm a fresh graduate and working as contract officer at goverment office.But my sister always insult my job because it is contract not permanent.I'm working to get experience and learning new things.And I also seek new permanet job at the same time.Its so hard to get permanent job nowadays.My sister is studying PHD and she never working.Im working and get my own salary.But she get scholarship from PHD and always proud of it.She always said she would be offered the professional job with higher salary and become rich because she would get PHD.Im feel down with it.What should I do when face the situation?

Question: My mom keeps getting hives is she allergic to something- URGENT?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:15 AM PDT

this is kind of a long story but please read because I m worried about my mom so about a month my mom bought a victorias secret bombshell bra which contained a chemical called formaldehyde she borke out in hive that night around her breasts and back. after that she threw the bra away and we thoougt it was fixed but no ever since then she has got hives every night around her boobs and back, on her stomach and on her arms but today it got really bad. she woke up this morning and they wer all over her face, legs,and scalp along with the usual spots we went to urgent care but we cant figure out what it could be shes in a lot of pain if you can please answer i would greatly appreciate it and i am going to repeat WE WENT TO THE DOCTOR AND THEY DID NOTHING, what could this be how can we fix it.

Question: Should I pay for new phone?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:14 AM PDT

My Mom always leaves her phone on the kitchen counter and we have limited space. I spilt milk on it the other day and she wants me to pay for half of it which is fine but she says it s completely my fault, doesn t she take some of the blame here for leaving her phone in a space where food is always being handled?

Question: Please help me stop doing this?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:13 AM PDT

Alan, my ex husband and I are on friendly terms. We did not have any children. Two times in the last 3 years I ran into financial difficulty. I could not pay my rent or car payments. I called Alan and told him my problem and he gave/loaned (I am not sure which) me the money to solve my problems no questions asked. He never ask for the money back. Another time my computer died and I ask Alan how I would get it fixed. He sent a repair tech out to fix the computer and when I tried to pay the tech, he said Alan had prepaid him for the service call. My friends tell me I have to stop asking Alan for help if I ever expect to live on my on. I think that is probably true especially if he gets married again. However it is hard to get a loan from a commercial source and so easy to just call Alan and he will solve my problem no matter what the problem is. How do I stop my self from taking the easy way out and calling Alan when I have a financial problem? ALL ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

Question: My little sister is losing herself/dressing like a slut help?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:06 AM PDT

my sister has always had standards and has always been against wearing revealing things but suddenly, shes wearing super revealing clothing for people 5 years older than her! It all started when she started hanging out with the IT group at her school. I wish she would just be herself but i dont know how to talk to her about it without being weird. Like what should I say?

Question: What to do about my daughter being upset with me for supporting TRUMP indicating I m taking chances at not seeing my only grandchild?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 10:05 AM PDT

If I say, do or don't do what's expected, I've always been punished by not being allowed to see my granddaughter sometimes for months. I've been the only 1 who's been there, accepted & supported my daughter & her family whenever needed, loving them unconditionally. My daughter's had a hard life. She's health issues & needs medical care to help in cancer prevention. She is a small business owner who is doing all she can to succeed so she can provide for her family as her husband doesn't work. They feel strongly in their beliefs, are VERY against me supporting TRUMP, say they'll move out of country & not be able to see my granddaughter if TRUMP wins! I'm told I don't know facts like, U.N. will eliminate U.S. from U.N. leaving us w/o protection, ALL countries are declaring WAR threatening to bomb us, cutting Social Security, Medicaid & OBAMA CARE hurting families in need of medical/dental coverage like OBAMA CARE making it impossible for U.S. citizens who need help affording or even qualifying for insurance. He's against Small Businesses only supporting large wealthy businesses, is a racist, caters to the RICH ONLY, degrades women.... her list of negativities are long! I will NOT vote for CLINTON or SANDERS! I don't care if any friends unfriend me or want nothing to do with me. I do care about losing my daughter & granddaughter. What am I missing about TRUMP? I don't want to lose my family over this. I am always given ultimatums & my daughter WILL stand by her threats! Thank you

Question: I don't know what to do I am 19 and had sex with my dads friend who is 35 years older than me. My dad found out some how.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:52 AM PDT

I don't think it's my fault because he is older than I am, but my dad won't understand that and will blame me, I don't want to go home and face him.

Question: Are my mom and step dad aloud to look through MY mail and take stuff out of it?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:47 AM PDT

Recently my dad sent me a package for my birthday along with a card. It got delivered while I was at school so I wasnt there to get it. When I came home my mom told me a package came and it was in my room. I went to my room and found both it and the card opened. I dont know who opened it but I assumed it was both of them seeing as they where home when it came. My dad said he put some money in the card but when I looked in the card there was none. I assume my mom took it. It was addressed to me and no, I am not 18

Question: Can my mother give custody of me to my boyfriends parents?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:46 AM PDT

I don't have my dad around much anymore, just my mom. She has soul custody of me and my aunt has temporary custody of me. Living witj uer isn't working out... I'm 14 now. We're good together, were close, we' just don't get along enough to live together until Im 18. My boyfriends family is more than willing to take me in (it's been 7 months) and if I talk to my mom she'll agree with me Because she knows how me and Kendall are, could my boyfriends parents get custody of me?

Question: Is this a bad idea?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:42 AM PDT

I am 17 and recently my mom remarried and I got a step sister who's 15. She's been pretty nice and we got along pretty well. One day though, I needed to ask her about something so I knocked on her bedroom door and she said "come in". So I went in and I found her fingering herself to a picture of me (which I have no idea how she got). I turned around to not watch again and yelled "What do you think your doing? Don't do that again!" She was like "Sorry it's just you're so hot" and then she moaned. It was creepy af. I was gonna tell my mom but she said she'd never do it again so I didn't. When I woke up the next morning, I found her naked, on top of me with my dick in her pussy!! I slept with only underwear on so I guess she went into my room naked, got onto my bed, took my underwear off, and just grabbed my dick and inserted it into her vagina while I was asleep! Like wtf! Then she shoved her **** in my face and then got off. She moaned and said "You are so hot!" I shoved her away and she ran off. I told my parents about it but they didn't believe me, they said it was probably just a hallucination, which is crazy. Anyway, the next day, she did the same thing, but instead I woke up before she could get to me. She just stood there, naked. I got up and noticed that this time, I had an erection. Her naked got me so hard. She was just too hot. And since my mom and step-dad weren't going to do anything about it, I thought why not? So I got up, walked up to her and we simply f***ed. She then said "Oh yeah that's more like it". Since then we've been doing this everyday. My question is: is this a bad idea?

Question: Daughter sex at family party!?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:20 AM PDT

Me and my family had a party. At the party I saw that my daughter wasn't wearing a bar underneath a blouse which was kind of see through, I thought that it was a bit odd but I didn't confront her about it. During the party I noticed she was gone and so were my husband, my dad and my brother. So I went up stairs to look for them, when I got up I could hear noises coming from me and my husbands room and the door was slitly open. I look in and saw that my daughter was on the bed getting penetrated in each hole by my husband, my dad and my brother. They didn't notice me so I went back down stairs acting like nothing had happened so people wouldn't find out but the image was stuck in my head.

Question: My mother laughed in my face and screamed at me when I cried?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:15 AM PDT

I'm 17. Finally admitted to her I have anxiety and depression, she got really cruel with me. She started saying things like "are you mad now? Are you gonna be in a mental home? Pills for the rest of your life, they'll make you fat you fool." She also said it's all in my head. She had such a vicious tine to her voice when she said these things. usually, we're close, but this totally made me see her in a bad light? How dare she laugh at me? Why would she act so cruel? How do I get over this? I'm pretty hurt and betrayed? I was sobbing so hard I couldn't breath and she laughed. I have no other family or friends.

Question: Should my husband tell his mom and sister?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:09 AM PDT

Me and my husband always go to a special restaurant for the sepcial occassions. He always makes it a point to tell his mother and sister we are going so they can ask him to bring stuff back, now should he always be telling them or should he just keep it to himself. Whenever his family goes they never ask us if we want anything. If we dont tell them when we do go they start complaining and giving my husband a hard time and making him feel guilty. Any suggeestions? No rude comments thank you. I have seen it and it irritates me cause to me i feel like he shouldnt , we are married and we shouldnt be telling them were we go regardless. They love making him feel bad when and if he doesnt bring anything to them and it really makes me mad because i feel its like their way of controlling him. How can i tell my husband that he should stop or any suggestions on what i can do .

Question: I never get alone time and I'm really stressed out?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 09:06 AM PDT

I'm 17 years old, and I never EVER get time for myself. I'm currently enrolled in online high school per my moms request and every day she's been mean to me and saying that I need to watch my sister (who's 2 years old BTW), and I try to complete my school work but she has me watch her nearly everyday while my mom goes on Facebook and talks with her friends. Then she tells me that I'm behind in my schoolwork and that I need to catch up but it's HER fault that I'm behind in the first place. And when I'm not doing schoolwork I'm watching after my sister because my mom is too lazy to. She can't even get up out of her chair most days. And if I'm not watching after my sister then I'm at work. And my mom is also unemployed so she's always at home which leaves me absolutely no time for myself. She always gets alone time tho, because she'll just send me and my stepdad and my sister out for "rides" while she lounges around at home. I'm getting really stressed out and really tired of this lifestyle. I'm turning 18 in a few months and my mom told me that I'm not legally allowed to leave because I don't have my license or a vehicle yet. Any help?

Question: Alcoholic mother? Relapse?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:54 AM PDT

Hello. So in October, my mother went to rehab for acoholism. She was doing extremely well until last week. She used to drink everyday ever since my parents broke up about 6 years ago. But she was the best I had ever seen her a few months ago. But, last week I walked into her room and I opened her drawer to get her something, and I saw a bottle of vodka. My heart sunk, and lately she has been acting odd. She doesn't seem completely drunk but I know she has been drinking. Every time I come home from my dads house it's like she's hiding something. I try to sit with her, and I ask her a question and she has to turn her head away to speak so I don't smell alcohol or something. I am a very smart girl, I'm 13 and I just to know every single time my mother took a sip of alcohol. My dad knows about her past problem but I haven't told him I have a suspicion she is going to relapse. I just don't know what to do anymore. I love my mom and I want to tell someone but she will get extremely mad and won't talk to me. Please help ;(

Question: I don't speak the same language as my mum?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:52 AM PDT

My mum doesn't know the full language of English and as I grew up I lost my mothertounge so now I barely know any of the language she speaks. My mum doesn't have a job and is a house wife, thus she's not really required to know English kinda thing. Anyway, there's an extreme lack of communication between me and my mother and it's gotten to a point where it's pitiful she herself is a quiet person and prefers not to speak a lot but ik she wants to talk to me and my siblings understand what we say ( siblings also only know English) I've tried to learn it but it just dosent work out. Im not close to my father and he doesn't have the best relationship with my mother. My siblings and I just usually do our own thing and we're just so accustomed and comfortable to living like this but I feel like my mother is pitiful and lonely and dosent really have any hobbies and stuff. Including me my mum and dad there's 6 of us unless you're apart of what's going on you wouldn't get it but like feeling bad isn't enough I need to do something , but I just can't. I'm 15 btw and honestly I don't know my point myself I guess I'm just trying to put my feelings somewhere I can't do anything I've tried to tell her I love her at the very least but I can't do it the words don't come out idk anymore

Question: I'm so embarrassed of my sister. She's so weird?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:50 AM PDT

I'm 17 and she's 16. We go to the same school. Anyway, she's so shy and is considered one of the losers. She used to have one friends, a foreign girl who could barely speak English, but she moved back to Russia so now my sister has no one to sit with. She's not autistic, but everyone in school thinks she is. She never wears make up, only owns three outfits that she just washes and wears all the time, never had a date or kissed a guy. She listens to the weirdest music from all these other languages she doesn't even speak, ancient rock music, and opera music. She's always singing Opera at home. She wants to be a singer but I don't know how she'll do that because she's so shy. She feels bad for inaminate objects and thinks they have feelings so she's a hoarder. She's always learning different languages and randomly becomes obsessed with other cultures. She also changes her accent every few minutes. She's also afraid to go shopping because it makes her uncomfortable to interact with people. I'm so embarrassed people in school know I'm related to her. What do I do?

Question: Is 5,7 short for a 15 year old my dad is 5,6.5 and my mom is 5,3?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:40 AM PDT

Question: What do I say to my dad about his sick sister?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:39 AM PDT

My dads sister is sick and I can tell he s depeessed 2 of his brother recently died in late 2015 and his sister is really old and sick and she might die. I want to say something to him but I don t know what he doesn t even know I know. I m trying to come up with something to say when he does tell me but I don t know what I don t really know my aunt that well.

Question: How to deal when parents don't believe in your dreams?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:29 AM PDT

Basically I've been doing music my entire life. I sing, play guitar, play piano, drums, etc. I would say i'm very talented. Ive played tons of shows and people in the crowd freak out and say im amazing. Ive also been approached in the street if i have my guitar in hand and people tell me ill be famous. I HAVE to do music. It's evetything to me. It's not something i want to do it's something i need to do. Its the thing thats been there literally through my whole life, good and bad. My brother also does music and my parents are completely supportive. They eat up everything he does and says. They talk about how he'll be famous. While me they never do. My parents always suggest different jobs i can do for a career later in life, and it has nothing to do with music. Which they KNOW that's what i want to do. They constantly suggest i do other job's and how i can work all these places. It just feels hurtful to see my brother get tons of support from them, and me they act like I'll never make it like they believe so hard he will.

Question: Headphone thief?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:20 AM PDT

Yesterday morning I was using my earbuds before I left for work. Before went out I left my earbuds in my room. And also there was only one person in the house in the 12 hours of work I had. My parents also went to work and left at the same time as me. So I know they didn t take it. The only person that didn t leave was my older brother. When I came to my room after work I realized that my headphones weren t in the place I left them in. I ve already speculated that my brother took them. My parents already confronted him about and he denies it. My parents then left it at that I m so ******* piss right now because I know where I left them and if the same thing were to happen to my brother my parents wouldn t get off my case. My parents automatically assumed that I lost them somewhere in my room. The problem is that I have the smallest room in the house so really there not much to look at. What do you think I should do? I really don t feel like spending over 30 bucks for some apple earbuds.

Question: My family is toxic what do i do?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 08:18 AM PDT

Hi im Kris ive been suffering from depression ever since i was about 10 or 11 years old largely having to do with my family they are very emotionally abusive towrads me my parents are very narcissistic my sister is very hatful and cruel my step brother is a junkie im in my room a lot becuse i feel very unconftable around them im 16 years old what do i do update i meant to say since was a little kid before 10 or 11

Question: My parents are divorced and I have a step dad. I want to send a father s day wish to my real father, I have no idea what to write in there.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 07:49 AM PDT

Question: My sister is really weird?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 07:47 AM PDT

She likes to kick boys in the balls and laughs so hard in movies whenever a girl kicks someone in the balls,she calls herself the "ball popper" or "ball buster", she also likes toes for whatever reason. what's the cause for this?

Question: My sister is the favorite of all the family! I feel sad.?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 07:12 AM PDT

I love my sister and all and I'm not jelous of her... I just feel sad for myself. I can't understand why she is always the favorite and I'm not. I'm the 13 and I'm the child who likes to talk and be funny and be generous, while my sister is 11 and she is the quiet one and she is talented on drawing. The other day my uncle came to visit us and he looked at a picture on the wall that my sister drew and he said it was a masterpiece and he took a picture of it and started a conversation of how beautiful my sister drew. Then I went and got a picture I drew and showed it to him and all he said it was nice, and continued talking about my sister. On my sisters birthday, our older brother bought her a birthday present, but on my birthday, he only said happy birthday and didn't bring me anything. On all family reunions the main topic is my sister and I feel bad. Yesterday my parents bought her a new pair of shoes and I asked them nicely if they could buy me a pair too, but they said that they only were going to buy my sister a pair. I tried to talk about my parents how I feel but they just say it's my immagination. I love my sister and I'm not jelous of her, all I want to do is understand why they love her more than me?

Question: Should I feel bad about moving out?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 07:06 AM PDT

Well, this summer I plan on moving out of my mother's house to California to pursue my dreams as an artist. However, I've been feeling bad about this whole situation. Me and my mom have never really had a close relationship because all we do is argue but I still feel that she doesn't want me to move halfway across the country. I don't know I'm just confused as of now. If anyone has any advice I'd appreciate it. Thanks

Question: I think I am 16 and pregnant?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 06:58 AM PDT

I already know how judge mental people are going to be but I'm 16 and I've been with my boyfriend a year and a half. Every time we've used a condom. My last period came on time, but only lasted 2 or 3 days. Right now, I'm a day late. I looked up symptoms of pregnancy, I don't really have any. My breasts did grow a little though. I plan on getting a pregnancy test in the next few days. I don't have supportive parents either, they might kick me out. I won't get rid of the baby if it's there. I don't know what to do. Do you think there's a chance I'm pregnant?

Question: When you get a buzz cut with the same length all around (for example using a #2 clipper guard all around) does the hair grow in layers or no?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 06:53 AM PDT

Does the hair grow back in layers when you do this or no?

Question: I just started working when I'm a shut in loser and my family members suddenly started treating me more trashy ?

Posted: 05 Jun 2016 06:50 AM PDT

I think I should treat them like they are one of my customers when I work as a waiter. I have to act and don't show my feelings. It's really disappointing. When I'm a.. Not as a .... well I'm really sorry for you American or whatever English speaking country you live in because I didn't made any mistake but all you guys do it ***** about my English. Let me ask you this. Can you speak a single foreign language ? Never mind. Actually you can't even speak your own shitty language so that's too much to ask.