Family: Question: How can I get away from my abusive mother, if my dad doesnt have the money for a lawyer?

Question: How can I get away from my abusive mother, if my dad doesnt have the money for a lawyer?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 02:12 PM PDT

I'm in my early teens. I asked that to someone and they told me "Talk to CPS about it, they might arrange it so your dad can get help from social services to take care of you",... but I said "Can I tell my dad about it? Im afraid that they'll call my mother and let her know, that happened the last 4 times. I refuse to go home and I didnt get fed for 2 days. I was locked in my room with only a rock-hard poptart, the icing was sticky and gooey. In the past, I've been choked by her. A couple of days ago, she ran to me and tried to punch me, but I hurried and slammed the door in her face". HELP ME PLEASE! My mom isnt home right now and im sneaking, using my sisters phone.

Question: How can I get away from my abusive mother and live with my dad, if my daf doesnt have the money for a lawyer?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 02:05 PM PDT

Question: Cutting a parent out of your life?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 01:43 PM PDT

I have recently decided to cut my mother out of my life. I'm an adult and she's been really stressing me out all my life, even with her phone calls. Every day I would wake up dreading the phone call from her, even if it didn't include any anxiety-based conversations, but I never know when they would blow out of her. It's not that she's a bad person or does major bad stuff to my life, but she talks about family members and forces me to interact with them in ways I don't want to do so. I have written her a letter explaining boundaries and I was really nice about it, focusing on good qualities and things I want in a relationship but a week later she disregarded that completely and whenever I'd try to express how I feel and that I want to be happy she'd criticise my wish and ridicule it. She tried to contact me today, but I refused to answer her, even when she tried to make my sister give me her phone so my mother would talk to me through my sister's phone. How can I stop feeling guilty about this? Because I love my mother, I just can't and I have tried to reconcile, but I'm unable to let her treat me this way anymore, or let this be in my life anymore. I've felt so free and happy and accomplished so much in my life I wouldn't have expected to ever since I naturally found I had cut her out of my life. How do I proceed from here?

Question: Any legal eagles out there?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 01:42 PM PDT

When a sibling (of a big family) dies leaving no will (NY) but wanted everything to go to the last remaining living sibling, can nieces and nephews of a deceased brother sign a waiver refusing any monies from the estate? Just to clarify the nieces and nephews (are being respectful) and don't want to accept any share of money. They want it all to go to the last remaining living brother. So they want to sign a waiver refusing any possible claim to any money.

Question: I have a question for a police officer in regards to ending contact with my father and personal safety for doing so.?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 01:25 PM PDT

Hello I m a 21 year old and even though I m an adult I m still seeing my dad even though I want him out of my life, out of fear of what might happen when I tell him I don t want to see him anymore, I m worried that if I do so he will do something dangerous, either to myself, my mother and her side of the family, himself or to strangers. He has anger issues, his life isn t going well for him and he has an obsession with guns and violence (I have seen him watching extremely graphic things online in the past which he seems to be fixated on)

Question: I'm so angry at my mother?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 01:25 PM PDT

I'm about to literally explode. Have you ever been so angry at your mom that you don't want anything to do with her. I've had enough with her. Honestly I just wanna run away and never come back. I'd rather live with my cousin than to live with her. I remember one time I go so angry I bunched a hole in the door. Smh Man you how people say my mom is my best friend well for me she's different. It's alonely so much I can take. Like I feel like when I move out I'm not commucating with her much. Smh.

Question: Is it wrong for me to want to lose contact with my dad?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 01:14 PM PDT

My parents split up when i was about 7 and ever scince that ive lived with my mom. I never felt like something was missing, its always been me and my mom and thats okay. When i was younger i think i enjoyed seeing my dad more but as i grew up ( im 16 now) i really could care less if i see him or not. Anyway, at one time he moved to another state to find a job and then i only got to see him once a year. but now hes back and wants to see me every week. My mom could care less if i see my dad or not, and he doesnt even have a job, so no child support. He has two childen so he usually works under the table to avoid them taking half his pay away. i didnt find this out untill recently but apparently i had a bank account that had a couple thousand bucks when i was a baby for college and it was under my dads name. So when him and my mom split he took it all and blew it on who knows what. The only reasons i force myself to see him is because i love his side of the family, they are very jolly people. Also his life is depressing. He cant see his one daughter because the mom is really angry at him for something, and he jumps from one persons couch to the next cuz he hardly has enough money to support himself. He really tries to reach out to me, and hes not mean or anything. I just feel like whenever im with him i burden myself. i feel like without him my life would be better. Your thoughts? sorry i rambled on i just wanted to get my point across

Question: How to live with my mom at 18?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 01:00 PM PDT

i help my mom bpicking the kids up everyday from school. I'm the oldest, we we don't get along, they are ungrateful. anyways I just started working now that it's summer, my mom asked for help with the rent so I gave her money which took most of my check. the only people I see are my boyfriend & cousin. we've been together for 4 years and we have sleepovers. my mom says I'm setting a bad example for my siblings. I don't drink or do any bad, so I don't think I'm a bad example. my mom takes some sleeping pills that make her high I believe, and sometimes she takes them during the day so my siblings are left hungry and we have no food at home so the only way to get food is if I go get some. today I took my sister to a birthday party by the mall (20 mins away) I only took her because my mom was supposed to be at the doctor. she didn't go, when I get home she tells me to take my brother to the movies which is at the mall. I'm very angry, I don't wanna go, I have laundry to do. I said Noone asked me to take him so no im not going, she screams saying she's telling me to take him and how I could've done my laundry yesterday. I was helping my cousin all day with decorations for her mom's bday, I was all sweaty. she screamed and got in my face as if she was gonna hit me if I didn't do it. I didn't wanna fight so I just did it, my boyfriend is always saying how I'm scared of her. I was just raised to do what was my mom told me to. I have no dad, how do I live with her peacefully or leave

Question: I don't exactly know how to put this in a question?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:45 PM PDT

Ok so, I'm 13. I have a brother who is 21, he is going to be home all summer. So basically, I love to bake. I love to diy and create treats and follow recipes. Everytime he sees me make something or hears me talking about it, he yells at me. He tells me it's unhealthy and I need to learn to make healthy stuff. So I told him I wanted to make these Popsicles that contained strawberries, yogurt, and honey. He yelled at me saying that yogurt and honey are way too unhealthy. He just makes me feel so useless. and whenever I want to DIY he tells me what I'm doing is worthless and to go find some friends to hang out with. It just makes me want to cry and I don't know what to do because I'm not gonna be able to do my favorite hobbies like all summer without feeling like crap.

Question: Please help me,what can I do to stop this?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:41 PM PDT

My mom has ketoacidosis and just recently went to the hospital after a near-death experience. She's been doing fine as of now until recently my stupid brother has been purposely yes PURPOSELY stressing her out and picking fights with her and he knows she has trouble with high blood sugar and extremely fast heart rate and he's trying to give her a heart attack! He even said he doesn't care if she dies andn ow she's threatening to stop taking her medicines and kill herself and my brother and dad are fighting too and everything's getting worse and I keep telling them to send him away but they won't and I'm only 13 and my mom wouldn't let me call the cops and i don't know what to do and I'm scared because I don't want my mom to die and I'm sick of all this dumb drama and please!!! I'm typing really fast so im sorry if all of this is just kind of one big mess but please please someone tell me what to do!!

Question: Why can't my parents understand?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:35 PM PDT

They believe that my home ethic is my work and outside world ethic. Even though I got straight A's, have done some freelance work, am very serious about my life. They cheat, lie, and manipulate all the time. They assume the worst in people. I am constantly criticized and made fun of for my actions such as when I helped someone who was struggling by giving them gas money and watching their kids with my girlfriend. It was my money and they still talked down about it. They wanted my little siblings and I to clean while they sat around. I said I'll clean if you do, they then guilt tripped me and threatened juvenile detention. I stood there at attention no baring break in protest of nonviolence. They called the police and they said I have to listen. That I was a bad example, when my dad is an adulterer. That I was a baby. That there's no difference between work and home ethic. That I'll be on the street someday or in jail. I said I'll respect anyone but them. He said I'll come back to my parents. I said never. He said I'll be begging him for food someday. He'll have to turn me away.

Question: Is my mom being unfair or am I just being too lazy?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:28 PM PDT

Yesterday I decided to sit down and watch Netflix. Right as I was about to sit down my mom comes in and yells at me to do something useful. She told me to clean the whole pile of dishes and clean the whole living room and kitchen and when I finish I can watch Netflix. I did and by the time I finished it was already 10pm at night and so it was already too late to watch Netflix. This morning since I finished all my chores I went to watch Netflix. Again as I was about to sit down my mom comes in and yells at me for being lazy (again) and go do something useful (again). I told her that I did all of my chores yesterday but she says that that is no excuse. We have to be doing something in the house EVERYDAY. I also have a little sister who does nothing but lay around and makes a mess. It seems like I'm the only one out of my siblings doing my chores. It just seems like my mom only wants me doing the chores instead of my other siblings. Is this fair or am I just being lazy?

Question: Moving out at 14?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:24 PM PDT

I'm 14 years old and my family has had 2 CPS cases within the last three years. They've done absolutely nothing to help my situation because they don't check up on my mom after sending her to therapy. My mom emotionally abuses my brother and I and she'll occasionally physically hurt my brother. (My brother is 6 btw) My dad is never at home as he has a job in Florida and comes back for a week every couple of months. My mother constantly tells me that if we get involved with CPS or the police again she will personally give me hell. A couple months ago my friend's mom had offered to adopt me for four years. I mentioned it to my dad which he completely blew off. The problem is that I want to take up on her offer, but I have to have my dad's consent in order for it to be legal. Is there any way I could take up on the offer without my dad's consent?

Question: At what age can a child choose whether they wanna see the parent or not?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:17 PM PDT

I m 15 years old and I have divorced parents. I go with my dad every weekend, I don t like going because he yells, hits me sometimes, & just doesn t treat me right. How old do you have to be to choose whether you wanna go with your parent on the weekends or not? I live in the state of Texas BTW.

Question: My mom accuses me of dressing like a hooker?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 12:02 PM PDT

I m 16, and I m the daughter of two moderately conservative parents (if nationality/culture is of significance, we re Chinese.) Yesterday I was out with my friends with a fitted top that was just over my belly button, however I had compensated by wearing high-waisted shorts. The shorts didn t expose any butt, were of fairly reasonable length and not skin-tight. The crop top was fitted, yes, but I did not expose any midriff or cleavage. I was wearing a bralette underneath, some of which DID peek out, but I ve seen girls wear shirts like that and I thought it d be okay if I did too. I got back from home with my mom criticizing my fashion taste and my friend squirming uncomfortably in her seat, and today my mom started calling me a cheap hooker...? I understand that my mother does want me to dress a bit more "classy," but I have trouble doing that since it s so hot outside. Everyone in my school enjoys the things I wear (not just boys, of course), and I ve never really gotten hit on either. My mother had always told me that half of looking good was being confident, but now she s calling me a whore because a bit of a bralette peeked out of a shirt and people could actually see my waist. I tried to tell her that now this kind of dress was completely acceptable and even in style, however, my mom now refuses to talk to me. What should I say? If this helps at all, I have never even dated a boy. I've always been the top 10% of my school, which is currently the top 2% of high schools in the nation. Nothing that I have ever done has warranted me of being a "slut," except apparently wearing a tighter top. Also, most compliments about my "sense of style" has come from girls, not boys.

Question: Hey guys I'm just wanting to know is it normal for a teenager to cry because she missed her mother that she hadn't seen for a hole day?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:56 AM PDT

Question: I don't have a good relationship with either of my parents?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:55 AM PDT

It does get to me a lot, I will admit it. I haven't spoken to my Dad is over 10 years, and me and My Mum have such a rubbish relationship. We Dont agree with anything, I mean, I have better relationships with my friends and tell them more things than my mum... it's upsetting. I know people are going to say "build a relationship with them" but it's difficult to do that when 1) You don't even know where yur Dad is and 2) You can't even speak to your mum without getting into some sort of argument and speak to each other about things. I genuinely can't remember the last time I told my Mum about anything about me. We can't even share any emotions about anything. Our coversations are usually boring and lifeless and we just don't agree with anything. Is it normal? I am 18 btw

Question: Why do my parents beleive that cursing is a much worse offence than physical violence?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:54 AM PDT

My sister has on a regular basis beaten up our little nephew. If I so much as comment on the situation negatively using curse words, my parents hit me. My question is: Why is physical violence towards children MUCH more acceptable than SAYING WORDS. Please, I need anyone s help. I m very confused.

Question: Should i go?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:49 AM PDT

im 19 and i want to move out and move to a different state. I have never been out on my own. My mom has always had control over my life. Would i be consider a runaway even though im 19. or would it be like a missing person even though i plan to leave her a letter or something.

Question: My brother says I'm named Honey because I was conceived on the honeymoon? How does he know??

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:44 AM PDT

He was born before my parents were married. His name is Joel I need insults about his name

Question: How to run away and what to pack?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:33 AM PDT

I m 14 and my life is terrible. First of all, my mom married my stepdad five years ago and ever since it s been awful. Before that I had my grandparents and other family members to go to, but then we moved two states away. At first me, my sister, and my brother were fine with it, but then one day my step dad grabbed my mothers throat and pushed her onto the concrete. Since then alot of stuff like this has happened, but my mother and siblings refuse to look at it for what it really is. I have no one to go to because no one at school even looks in my direction anymore. Also, I only get to see my other family members once a year in the summer, but every year the visits get shorter and me and my siblings get older. Going to visit my grandparents is my only escape because at home I get yelled at for everything and my step dad hates me and my siblings so we just stay in our rooms all day. A few times my step dad has grabbed my throat but my mother wont let us call the police. In fact, the fights have gotten so loud that the police have been called to our house many times. I have light clothes to bring because i live somewhere warm so i dont need a coat. My real dad has to give me and my sister $110 a month each on our own card for child support. I would bring that with me and get all of the money out at an atm so they can t track the purchases. I m not sure if I ll head to my grandparents house or if I ll just roam but all I know is that I have to get out of that situation.

Question: DOes This Guy Have A Crush Or What?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:26 AM PDT

He's been nice to me, asked to send me study materials to help for my exam, caught him staring, texted me with random excuses(like did my grandma make it upstairs ok? like call your grandma lol) then asked to go out for sushi after my exam. HIs grandma and I live in the same apts and he comes here 3 days a week, a year ago I got impatient and called him out on beating around the bush and said a guy w/ a gf couldn't be interested in me, he said he was being friendly and has a gf he's happy with. But the secret stares and the coming around, started dressing nicely. Also before we got into a fight, He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?"He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?" HIs parents always stare at me, he comes to his grandmas's a lot and stares at me a lot Why would a guy do all this and freely say he has a gf but let go of her hand when I saw them together out

Question: My dad found out that I go over my bestfriend a house. (He's a boy) and I'm a girl.?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:23 AM PDT

He thinks that I go over there and do things a 14 year old shouldn't do. But I haven't done anything wrong, I want my dad to trust me. He said that he is disappointed in me, and that I'm making him look bad... He said that I'm not to go inside his house ever again, the thing is my dad doesn't even want me to have guy friends. He thinks that I will let them take advantage of me. But honestly, they won't, what do I do? I would try to talk to my dad but he is stubborn. And he doesn't listen to me

Question: Why is the earth rund?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:23 AM PDT

Question: Some parents are too soft on disciplining their kids that their kids are actually dis-respecting them. Agree or disagree?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:17 AM PDT

Question: I'm uncomfortable around my dad?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 11:00 AM PDT

I always get really uncomfortable around my dad. He used to scream at me and hit my arms and get really close to my face when he was angry. When I was really really little he used to chase me down the halls as I got out of the bath and shout "when I see a naked butt I have to spank it!" As if it was a fun game to him. He's never sexually abused me although he still did and said things that were slightly inappropriate, and now I cringe whenever he hugs me or puts his hand on my knee or something like that (the knee is too avoid anywhere else inappropriate). I watched gone with the wind and I wanted to break the tv when the dad kissed his daughter on the lips because it reminded me too much of my dad, and I don't think I could ever be with a man with facial hair because of it. Am I being irrational? Is this just my anxiety?

Question: How to sneak out the house without getting locked out in the morning?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:53 AM PDT

Want to sleep over at my friends house don't ask or say to not sneak out. Problem is I only have one key to one lock on the Apartment door. There is a chain lock and 2 bolted locks. But if I have a way to make it look as if the chain lock is still on my gma probably won't even check the door to make sure all locks are on correctly. No I cannot sneak out of a window we live on the 10th floor. I'm not going to get severely punished or grounded either. Just need advice on how to leave with it looking as if locks are still on or how to come back without getting locked out. If she happens to have to open the door in the morning for me what should I say? Btw my aunt live here too.

Question: Do you care ABOUT OLDER FAMILY MEMBERS. those AGE 45 AND UP?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:50 AM PDT

Question: My cousin is stealing my clothes?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:49 AM PDT

so since last year I've been noticing that my older cousin has been stealing my clothes... When it first happened I thought that it was by accident because she was doing the laundry so I thought that it got mixed up or something so I didn't think much of it, later some of my shirts that had gone missing appeared in her suitcase, she would take my shirts, pants, and underwear! (I have no idea) I don't know what to do, I'm scared of confronting her bc she's my older cousin and we've been close since we were very little and I don't wanna destroy the relationship that we have. what should I do? should I just confront her or no?

Question: How can I get away from my abusive mother and live with my dad, if my dad doesn't have the money?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:42 AM PDT

Question: My dad shoved my face down my plate because I wasn't hungry?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:37 AM PDT

He grabbed my head and shoved it down the plate saying I was being an ungrateful kid... I'm scared..

Question: My brother called me pretty ?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:23 AM PDT

Does he really mean it when he calls me pretty ? Or he's just saying that because he's my brother ?

Question: Why does this make my sister in law mad?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 10:06 AM PDT

my sister-in-law will get mad at me whenever someone tells her, her daughter (my niece) looks like me. Whenever we go out public, people often think her daughter is my daughter, and she will then ignore me for the rest of the day. She never laughs it off she just gets kinda mad/upset. why is that? I personally dont get it. im 21&she is 30 if that helps?

Question: What do I do about my mom?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:56 AM PDT

So my parents are divorced and my dad has a girlfriend who treats me and my family great. Well my mom who doesn't act like one she acts like a complete and total slut. The other night my mom got undressed and got in bed with my dad. It was dark she my dad couldn't see and he didn't know untill he felt the bed sink. He told her to leave right that minute. She does anything to break my dad and his girlfriend up and I'm getting sick of it. I just don't know what do about her. She needs help. Anyone have any suggestions? Anything would help. Thanks.

Question: What should I do after a domestic abuse situation?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:50 AM PDT

I am in college, but live with my parents during breaks. I don t like doing this because we fight a lot, mostly because my dad is the opposite person as me and his SO only takes his side even when they don t agree with what he says. A few days ago my dad said I was too "condescending" towards him and proceeded to physically attack me, leaving bruises in the shape of his hands around my arms and fingernail scratches on my arms. The only thing I did was defensively hit him in the chest with a fist after he threatened to hurt me and proceeded to slap the tip of my nose. I don t know what to do or where to go. I can t find any short term lease apartments around my area that I can afford. Does anyone have advice for me?

Question: HOW CAN I BECOMINGJ A MEMBER OF THE SOCIETY?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:44 AM PDT

Question: I am exhausted of feeling negative and I would really appreciate advice?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:44 AM PDT

Hello and thank u very much for clicking my 'question'. I really appreciate it I am a 18 year old girl, grew up a obese kid with lot of people making nasty comments about me. It shred my self esteem from young age on with even my own mother calling me ugly fat and insulting me everyday. I felt scared, judged, anxious and ugly. It became so bad that I starved myself, purged and became obsessed with the scale. My heaviest was 102 kg and in two years I dropped to 75 with a lot of struggle. But I gained some of it back and right now I'm 85 kg. I am really sensitive and avoid socializing if I can. My biggest problem is my father, a old pal 75 years old but the biggest heart ever. Unfortunatly as he grows more older, he swears and screams at me making me feel useless. He has a very small income 1000 euros a month and has to pay the rent of the house and our health insurance already being 900 euro together. He has a huge debt and we cant pay anymore. I used to work parttime but my contract wasnt lengthened so I am already applying for jobs. My mom doesnt support much since she also has a really small income. I quit school two times during following school and lost 3 years because I was exhausted of combining work and school. The debt was stressing my father so much out, he eventually reacted it out on me which makes me feel so stressed also lol. He swears a lot saying i'm useless, should just die etc. I just dont know what to do?

Question: Do you know of the song "City Baby Attacked by Rats" the meaning?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:41 AM PDT

Do you know of any other rat songs. I like rats and I want to sing about rats one day to a family of rats for peace and unity

Question: Do you think that were "spoiling" our oldest daughter, by helping to provide for her financial needs, while she's in college?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:34 AM PDT

Our oldest daughter is 18, and she has a 3 year old son. Our daughter received an academic nursing scholarship from Ohio State University. The scholarship covers books, tuition, housing, and a meal plan for herself. It doesn't cover food or basic necessities for our 3 year old grandson. We are going to give her a monthly stipend to help cover the costs of the things that her scholarship, and her part-time job won't cover. Someone told me recently that we aren't teaching our daughter how to be responsible, and that we're "spoiling" her, by giving her a monthly stipend. Our daughter has had a job since she was 15. She's very, very, very good at saving money, and she has very frugal spending habits. She pays for her own insurance, gas, cell phone, expenses for our grandson, and various other things. We feel that giving her some extra money isn't spoiling her. It's helping her out, if she truly needs it. Our daughter is very wise for someone so young. She's mature, very responsible, and very sensible. @ Karen L, our daughter came to us 4 years ago as a scared, pregnant, 14 year old foster child. She's an excellent mother, and our grandson is thriving under the care of our daughter. She went to a technical high school, where a good portion of her classes translated into college credit. She's entering OSU as a junior. She is a STNA, and an MA. I think she has done very well for herself, despite all of the challenges and prejudices she's had to face. We're very proud of her!

Question: My dad still babies me even though I'm 15?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:22 AM PDT

Like he acts like I'm 8. Hell hug me and call me his little baby and he'll do it in public and everytime I tell him to stop he's like "wow I'm such a horrible father because I love my daughter" and I try to talk to him about it and he says its "teen rebellion". My mom agrees it's weird what should I do?

Question: What can I do in this situation with moving out of mom s house?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:13 AM PDT

My mom was stealing adderall from me and also was just acting like a crazy unreliable ***** so I moved out of her house to my dad s and now when I m trying to get back my things from her house she won t let me in to get them. She just stands outside and makes a scene like I did something wrong. My birth certificate, social security card, furniture is all in there and she never answers her phone when I try to tell her beforehand I want my stuff. I even called my grandmother and had her ask my mom. I m 23 and this is really getting to be ridiculous especially since I m trying to buy my own house and I need my things to do that. Can I call the police and have them let me in the house to get my stuff?

Question: My little brother gets Jealous and Annoying? How do I make him stop?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 09:06 AM PDT

My little brother is seriously getting on my nerves. He gets so jealous when our big brother takes me with him places that my little brother can't go. Me and my big brother are very close to each other and my little brother knows it and he tries to cause division between us all the time. Like he would pull pranks on my older brother and blame me but my big brother doesn't believe him and when I have a problem and I am talking to my big brother in his room in private my little brother always walks in and tries to start a fight. We spend a lot of time with our little brother but he gets Jealous when my big brother wants to spend time with me without him. My parents tell my little brother to leave us alone and he throws a temper tantrum every time he doesn't get his way.

Question: My parents won't let me spend my own money and I need new clothes?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 08:53 AM PDT

I want some new clothes and I honestly don't know what to do. I know it's not the end of the world, but it's annoying wearing the same clothes over and over. I only ever get new clothes when it's my birthday(my birthday is in September) and when it's christmas. My parents won't buy me new clothes and I am not allowed to spend my own money. I have talked to them both about this several times, either they just ignored the subject or called me spoiled. What do you suggest I do?

Question: Women, when you're mad at a guy, how long are you mad for?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 08:31 AM PDT

I'll explain why I ask this. I know it's gonna sound crazy but me and my cousin that likes to follow me around is 19. So as we hung out more (pretty much everyday) I started to grow attach to her. And then as I feared, i be attracted to her. I know that we are cousins. So I would hug her for long times and try to hold her hand and stuff and she'll see this and tell me to stop and I will. But then a few days ago, i started an argument for nothing and called her many mean and hurtful names and now she won't talk to me at all. I would send many long apologizes and promise to never act like that again and such but she wouldn't reply or if I text her on snapchat, she would open it but again, no reply. Since it is completely my fault and i was mean to her, how long would she be md. I feel so bad, I really don't want her to cut me off, she been so nice to me.

Question: Help! My grandmother went missing!?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 07:34 AM PDT

Okay, so my grandmother is 86 years old and senile, and I've been watching her at home for the past couple of days while my dad is in Vegas with his buddies. Anyway, yesterday I was trying to get her to eat dinner with me, but she seemed really upset for some reason. I asked her why and all she would say was "They're coming, I can feel it!" Since she wouldn't cooperate and also refused to leave her room, I went downstairs and ate dinner by myself. As I was going back upstairs to check on her, there was a loud screeching sound outside and she ran out of her room, screaming "They're here, they're here!" She tried to leave the house, but I mananged to catch her, and after I calmed her down, I locked her in her room for the rest of the night. I didn't think much of the incident, because stuff like this happens all the time. Then, just this morning, I went upstairs to give her breakfast and her bedroom door was open and Grandma was nowhere to be found. I did a little searching and discovered a trail of her footprints in the mud that led from the sliding glass door all the way to the woods behind our house. I followed them into the heart of the forest, but when I reached the end of the trail, Grandma wasn't there. I tried calling my dad, but he didn't answer. Then I called my friend Geoffrey and asked him if he could help. He told me to call the police, but I'm not on good terms with them and I don't want to risk it. Please help me find my Grandma some other way!

Question: ATTENTION!! ADVICE PLZ!! HELP ME IM SCARED!! WHAT DO I SAY? WHAT DO I DO?? HELP ME!!?HELP ME!!?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 07:30 AM PDT

I recently started really liking this girl at work. I dont know how to approach her or get at her. She works in the coffeehouse and i work across the hall in the kitchen for the restaurant. I get jealous when i see her talking to other guys. I have like a knot in my stomach all the time. I wanna see her all the time and IDK what to do.What do i say? there are video cameras there. Why would a girl or anyone does this ok so she said hey derek when she walked into the kitchen at work then she walked behind me and whispered hey derick again even tho i had said hey to her when she said it the first time. she smiled a me when i looked at her i was like what the **** but didnt say anything.

Question: Part 3 of me being let down?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 07:27 AM PDT

Part 3 Kyle when you live here and we kick Reece out you will have to take the dogs out and Kyle went you won't kick Reece out and then She went if he hasn't got a job by the time he is 18 he will be kicked out I'm just so freaking peed off everyone treats my like rubish and no one cares no one really dose like when I got into a argument with my step mum I went to grandmas because grandma went if you ever have a enough come here and you can stay here until they sort it out and I went there and grandma and grandad told my dad that I was stoping there and dad went he isn't I'm picking him up and he is coming back here and grandma and grandad went when he dose come here Reece we won't be able to do anything about it you have to go home with him and just in general my entire life all I have had is a handful of empty promises sorry if overlaps

Question: Part 2 of my story on what I should do?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 07:24 AM PDT

Part 2 how do I know you ask because the walls in the flat are so thin I can hear here like because I take the dogs out late at night it's somehow my fault when they wee in the moring I take them out in the moring at 9 o clock and she gets into so many arguments with my dad and she always goes Reece take the dogs out scence I move here I'm not being funny why can't she take them out and il leave it 5 mins to finish my match on the PlayStation because I'm 17 and she shouts Reece TAKE THE DOGS OUT and always shouts me to get the buzzer she never gets it and the worse thing is I've been applying for loads of jobs and haven't got any unfortunately I can't work with dad because he delivers stuff so I need a drivers licence and have to be 18 because he works for the NHS and I can't work for my Step mum because I have to be 18 to work there and then literally just my step mum went to my brother Kyle when you live here and we kick Reece out you will have to take the dogs out and Kyle went you won't kick Reece out and then She went if he hasn't got a job by the time he is 18 he will be kicked out I'm just so freaking peed off everyone treats my like rubish and no one cares no one really dose like when I got into a argument with my step mum I went to grandmas because grandma went if you ever have a enough come here and you can stay here part 3 il link

Question: Why me why has my life just been full of empty promises?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 07:20 AM PDT

I'm 17 and all my life I've been let down it started with mum saying she move me to a different school because of bullying she didn't then if and when I told a teacher the bullying just kept on then when someone pretend to be someone else the whole school thought it was me I sware down it wasn't me but no one believed me hell even my own mum and dad didn't believe me do you know how it feels to know that no matter what you do no one cares about you and no one will believe you but no I fought Reece all you have to do is get through school then you can live with your dad and I got through the school and I live with dad and I thought everything was going to be better but then my dad got a girlfriend that is clearly using him for the money and the flat and I got into a argument with because we have a stair gate for the living room so the dogs can't get in and she didn't close it and the dogs went into the frontroom and somehow it was my fault I sware the only reason I'm here is to take the dogs out and this stupid girlfriend of his slags me off behind my back this is part one il link the other parts because of word count

Question: If my sister stole from my gmas purse and took car keys and I hit her and she violently attacked me can I go to jail ?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 07:20 AM PDT

I am 16. I was protecting my gma because she was a sleep and my sister went through all of her purse and took our keys and I hit her once and she got up and violent attacked me. Pulling my hair punching me in the ground and tripping me. Taking my phone to call the police. Can I get in trouble for hitting her?

Question: Should I Consider Him My Father?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 06:49 AM PDT

Ok i am a 26 year old woman and when i was 20 i was disowned by my father for being a lesbian, after that i moved in with my then girlfriend who was 21 and her parents, now my girlfriend is now my wife, so her father and mother are my motjer and father in laws, though me and my wife have our own house now. Thing is my wife's father has been good to me since i was disowned, would it be strange if i gave him a father's day card? For Mothers day i gave a card to my real mother who accepts me, though when i was disowned my parents had divorced and i never knew my real mother until years later, i am close to her now though and give her a mother's day card, i also give my wife's mother a mother's day cars as i am close to her too.

Question: My mother is making me miss my soccer game in a tourment?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 06:36 AM PDT

So we had a game at 8 and it ended at 9:00 we had 3 hours in between games we r driving home she now says she's not Ganna drive me back it's my birthday in two days how could she do this to me

Question: People keep telling to move on and live my life, but i'm worried about my brother, what should I do?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 06:26 AM PDT

Before anything, let me just give you a brief intro about my situation, i'm 27, my only brother is 19, he's my whole world, I can't ever imagine my life without him, my parents passed away when he was really young, so he never experienced the love of a parent, we stayed at my grandparents house until I was able to find a decent job that pays enough to feed the both of us, so we've been living on our own for a while now. The thing about my brother is that he has hypoglycemia, and he's still not able to handle this situation alone, sometimes at night he blood sugar drops and he just ends up having nightmares or screaming. People have always been telling me to live my life, let him handle everything alone, that he's not a baby anymore, and that I should get married, but how can I do that? He doesn't have a job, he's still studying, and considering his condition I can never let him live alone. And about the marriage thing, i've been with my bf for about 4 years now, I love him a lot, and I know he wants to marry me, i'm just afraid, it's not that I don't want to, I do, but my brother... My bf is aware of his situation and he knows how much he means to me, so that's why he's not pressuring me to do anything. I honestly don't know what do anymore, I would love to marry my bf, but I also love the way my life is right now, but people keep telling I need to stop treating my brother like a baby and just leave him alone, but I can't, with his situation, if things go wrong he could end up dying, he's all I have left, I don't want to lose him.

Question: WHAT WILL U DO IF U WERE IN MY PLACE? Pls Help?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 06:16 AM PDT

I am 34 years old woman. I am currently in malaysia. I work here full time. I have a son and my son is diagnosed with severe speech delay and learning difficulties he is 12 years old. My husband and my son's father left us 11 months ago because he didn't want anything to do with my son. Anyways, we got divorced which was good but he doesn't pay any allowances that the court ordered him to pay and everyday i am following up with courts. I cannot find right schools for my son here in KL( he didn't go to school for a year now) so i decided to move to London. I got accepted in one of the university there to do my master degree and my son will be studying in special education school. I plan to find a job after that one year once i graduate from university so i can reside in london and my son can continue his school. During my divorce process my siblings who i considered we were close never called me. When I requested my mother to come with me to London for year or at least six months so i can settle and try to look for a job she flatly refused and said it is very cold for her to live in london. My family live currently in singapore, so i couldnt find a nanny and my son's home teacher resigned, BECAUSE my son is not verbal and he cannot tell me whether he is abused my anyone i put camera in my entire apartment and asked my mother (who doesn't work) if she can stay with us for two months only so i can continue my job as i really need the money now. My mother just said she cannot stay with me in malaysia without further explanation. I felt very hurt because i have always been there for my mother and i could expect that from anyone else but not her. I feel that my family are trying to distance themselves from me. What do you think of my situation and what will u do if you are in my place? Thank you

Question: Younger brother about to start Uni, worried about him?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 05:56 AM PDT

My younger brother is about to start his first year in a University, he is really smart, but the thing i'm worried about is that he's careless, he has no time management at all, all he does is play video games the whole day, if he was going to stay at home I would be able to control him but the problem is that he's going to study abroad, he always does everything literally the last minute, he thinks that everything's going to be the same, i'm trying to make him understand that a Uni is nothing like high school, he's going to have tons of assignments to submit and a lot of exams, I know he wouldn't anything until the very last minute and i'm just worried that this is going to cost him, i'm really worried that he's going to fail because of this, usually you'd be worried about him partying or drinking or that kind of stuff, but he doesn't do that, he's straight edge, but the only problem about him is I mentioned earlier, video games, he plays video games all day long, he wears glasses and his eye sight just keeps getting weaker because of them, what am I supposed to do?

Question: Would I exist if my parents had never met...?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 05:32 AM PDT

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

Question: Is this fair on me and my mom?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 05:18 AM PDT

So my granny died some 4 weeks ago, she lived in PK with her husband. She has lived in the US, for nearly 6 years but really wanted to go to China and died there 2 weeks later. So my mom and my dad had to go to do her funeral etc. My dad promised that my mom would come after a week because my aunt either from Denmark or Canada would go live with my granddad, they would make turns of some sort. So! my mom goes with my dad and has been stuck in that desert for nearly 5 weeks!! Because none of my aunties would go now. they're making excuses!!! I am stuck in Denmark with a bitchy aunt.. What should i do i feel like crying all the time. My dad made a fool out of my mom didn't he, he wouldn't let her go unless somebody else from my weird family goes live with his dad (my granddad)

Question: How do I get over my depression this Father's Day Weekend? Read below?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 05:13 AM PDT

My mother told my Dad I couldn't come this weekend because it was her father's birthday (it isn't really until Tuesday). My Dad made plans without me as a result and I am 15 so can't drive to where he is. All my Dad's family and my step-mother's parents and sister will be gathering for the summer gathering and I will be the only one not there. My mother laid into me when I asked her to let me go all about how I am favoring my Dad despite all he did to her and all this gossip about him and my step-mother. She does this at xmas every year also. Her lectures to me are about how bad my Dad and step-mother are (she is especially mad I am nice to my step-mother). So now I am missing the annual gathering again because of Mom. I feel depressed and angry at my Mom. My Dad says just to do as she says as he is done arguing with her (they divorced eleven years ago). I am so worried my relatives (cousins, aunts, uncles, etc...) will think of me as a little known relative as my mother always holds me back from seeing my Dad on holidays so I only see them at funerals. She even made me miss a wedding three weeks ago claiming it was due to school work (BUT ITS FAMILY) So how can I get my mother to STOP abusing me this way? I am 15 and can't go sneak out as my Dad is one hour away. He won't stand up for me and my mother is abusive this way. No one will like me when I am older because of this. HELP

Question: My mum said she has a right to look through my phone?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 05:04 AM PDT

Yesterday, me and my mum had an argument because I caught her looking through my phone. She kept asking me loads of questions such as "Who is Jake?" "Why are you putting kisses at the end of all your messages?" and "Why do you swear in your texts? You know swearing of any kind is socially unacceptable." Our fight lasted for about 15 minutes and in that fight, she said to me "I've every right to look through your phone because I'm your mum, and I have a right to learn about your private and personal lives." I said to her, "You have absolutely no right to learn about them!" and she said "Don't you dare talk to me that, you stupid brat, and I do have a right because I AM YOUR MUM!" She then forced me upstairs. Does she have a right to look through my phone? Does she have a right to access both my personal life and private life?

Question: My brother (23) is unemployed, lives off of Mom and Step-Dad, Has anger problems, and is on probation for drugs.Is this definition of a bum?

Posted: 18 Jun 2016 05:03 AM PDT