my friend and I have been friends for six months. I found out she was a a friend of my neighbor since 3 and I met him twice. I did not know him until she introduce him. Few weeks later, she accuse me stealing him away from her. I am a loyal friend, I barely met the guy, do not know him, and it was unfair that she said that to me. She kept yelling at me and tell me admit I like him. I honestly kept saying no and I was frustrated why can not she understand I did not like him or steal him. I did not contact her for week to let her cool off. When I did contact her either a text or call. She does not reply or says she is busy. I am in disbelief how this friendship ended. Is it jealously, trust, or what ended the friendship? Should I let go of the friendship and move on?

Everyone involved- mom, me and the guests -- are all at least age 35 and up. This is my first baby shower ever- and I'm a hostess with a co-pilot helper. The mom has 3 kids already. This is her last pregnancy-- it was a major surprise. We just got started-- but my dear friend the mom to be is getting extrememly involved in the decisions. I say she should mostly sit back and let us handle stuff. I'm not saying she shouldn't have input-- she's already picked the theme, colors and is now coming along to pick the invitations. I'm asking, since I'm new at this-- really, at what point is she gettingn too involved? If she gets any more involved,then I'm just the wallet for her party instead of the hostess and decision maker. At least that' what it feels like. TIA for your answers-for real. Please, for me, put your age or age range in your answer so i can get an idea of your perspective. Thanks!

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Her other friends are more "emo" so I guess they fit her theme, but it sucks as she still has the same friend on there four times, but not me. She even specifically asked me to like her lastest picture, which low and behold, was her and her friend. Sorry if I sound like a whiny brat with a first world problem, but should I be concerend?

So I'm currently in summer going into junior year and I am very bored. I have hobbies that I love to do but I really wish I had friends who I could hangout with. I go to my friends kickbacks at his house like once a week and its fun and all but that is like all the fun I have. I don't have any of the same interests as everyone in my closest group of friends and I just keep hoping till high school is over so I can leave and meet new people with atlas similar interests as me. What am I supposed to do? I can't make many new friends in summer but I guess who knows. Im messaging a girl but if that doesn't work out then I honestly don't know what to do about my friends and the rest of high school. Any thoughts?

My friend was wondering if the state. She lives in would give her son a check for being diagnosed with ADHD. Her son is very adhd ....she currently lost her job and was just wonderingif that was a option.

So over the summer I have decided to join an athletic camp at my current school, and it so happened to be a coed. A couple days in I was comfortable until another guy randomly decided to join the camp (I'll call his lifesaver for privacy reasons). Normally this type of action wouldn't bother me, but this 'guy' was the same guy that I use to see during school days, and he would always just constantly stare at me. I think that it was a coincidence that he decided to join the same camp as me out of 15 of them. Suddenly I became nervous and wanted to talk this join, but what could I say? He's an upperclassmen who didn't even know my name. That day was extremely long, and being the only person who sucked at most of the activities really sucked. I was only a beginner and this was my excuse to talk to him. There was a partner activity that day, and I was partnered up with lifesaver (not my choice). I was completely nervous and the situation was more awkward when my trainer decided to stop the camp so that lifesaver can properly introduce himself to me. I wanted to be impressive that day, and honestly I failed considering he had to help me with everything. we didn't even make small talk. The next day my trainer decided that instead of training we should play a game. I was automatically a team captain and I picked a few players. I never wanted to pick lifesaver, but when it came to my last teammate my trainer picked him for me. This was a perfect time to make small talk. What ended up happening instead is him introducing himself again to me, and stating that he didn't know how to play the sport we were playing ( which was a complete lie).

Okay so in the 6th grade there was this girl who my teacher asked to help with an assignment. Ever since then she thinks we're best friends and I don't even want to be friends with her. She always is tapping my shoulder or poking me or screaming my name to get my attention. She always asks to go to my house or to hang out places. She follows me EVERYWHERE. I always ignore her texts, I deleted her phone number but she keeps putting it back in, she found my Instagram and snapchat, and I really just want her out of my life. She keeps calling me her "best friend" and in makes the bile rise in my throat. I'm making her seem a lot nicer than she is but it makes me physically sick to think I'm stuck with her for the rest of my schooling. Oh and btw when we signed up for high schools (my high school of choice is divided into 4 different parts for 4 different types of future careers) and I went to the school I really wanted to go and when she found out we picked different school she sent multiple requests to change her application to go to my school.

in class I was staring into space & I saw the girl I like looking at me then later I started to stare at the wall & then when I turn around I saw the girl I liked looking at me & smiling while she had her hands resting in her head

Just looking for some thoughts... My friend died this weekend and his funeral is this week and I don't think I can attend. It's just gonna be too much for me to deal with all the sadness... and I don't think I'm ready to accept the fact that he's gone.

She's one of my best friends, we would do almost everything together there were periods where we weren't talking as much but that's because either she was in a relationship or I was in a relationship, but we always stayed good friends. She's like a sister to me. However lately has been a different story, her mom came into a big inheritance and bought her a condo. This was about a year ago but she has changed a little I've noticed this going on for months now all she cares about is superficial things, like her personal things online dating she's got a new boyfriend and that's all she cares about and talks about, which is totally fine I understand that but the worst off............. is she's grown closer to one of her friends and pretty much has replaced me with her. I notice she doesn't call me and talk to me about things she's a lot more closer with her other friend, when we're all three together I feel like a third wheel. To be honest I've noticed throughout the years this is kind of been a little bit of a pattern. Her or I will meet someone else and it seems as though she kind of buddies up with that other person. And I always end up feeling like the odd man out. I don't know if it's because neither her or I have a lot in common. We`re kind of opposites in the way but we do get along, we're like sisters. Not only that, I've noticed she's never really been too happy with my successes she's very competitive.

So i've always had a bit of an issue being social. I was a bully throughout middle school and going into high school, but i've been trying to change that for the past couple years. I live alone with my dad and live a moderately solitary life. I have some close friends but I always have to make the plans and nobody ever texts me asking to hang out or anything like that. I have a big issue being social and making conversation and I always feel super awkward. I really want to make new friends who I hang out with a lot and really enjoy doing things with but I don't know how.

The guy I like got my #, told me his upcoming sched and said he has to go to a out of the country wedding, but gets back soon. He texted, "let's hang out :)" Then we were randomly talking about how we met when he said, "Thankfully we don't have to say we met each other at a bar. Talk to you soon." Who would we have to tell where we met, what's he talking about? I don't anyone he knows.

So now my friend is scared out of his mind, because the guy has a gun at his house, and has learned to shoot. I doubt he was being serious, but he's said it multiple times, and has little care for others' well being or emotions (We're also fairly sure he's got Asperger's or Autism), so he may actually do this. What should I do?

Ok i KNOW its sad but im going to my first high school party after prom and i think its odd that i was invited since im not very good friends with the people throwing it (the partying kids) except i have connections so thats probably why. Ive never been drunk...only tipsy. I dont want to be socially awkward like i always am and i want to make a good impression so that maybe ill get invited more often. Im think the alchohol will help with my social anxiety lol...any other tips (and please none of that "dont do it!" "Make good choices!" Bullshit ok let me have fun for once)

So, yesterday, I graduated from 9th grade, that is to say that here in Sweden, that means that one has completed all of elementary school and can now either choose to keep on studying for a couple of years on a gymnasium or start working right away, although a proper education is recommended and that is the popular and most common choice. The day before yesterday, on Thursday, there was this party for all of the graduation-students, or seniors, if you will, and everyone was invited since it was being held by the school. And so I get there and there's some people there which I know and talk to sometimes and other people which I don't talk to as much and people whom I talk to more often. There was this really nice dinner that we were served and after that everyone just started hanging out for real. And I talk to some people, just a little casual, you know, and I always took the initiative too. But nobody ever approached me, nobody wanted to talk to me or even noticed me standing alone by myself on the outside of the building, although there were other people there, but in a group. I've been ignored like this for pretty much all my time in school and now I have graduated and I am currently waiting for my answer on whether or not I get to study at the gymnasium I chose. But I am afraid that this process will just repeat itself during my 3 educational years, and I don't want to feel that sadness again and I don't know what I am doing wrong, I try to be nice to people...

My mom is super protective, and sometimes it's really annoying. I know this is a typical teenager problem but still. A while back, she caught me sending inappropriate pictures to a guy. That's why she doesn't trust me. I know it was stupid and I shouldn't have done it so please don't tell me. I just wish she would trust me. And the friend is a boy too, which doesn't make it any better. He truly is a good person and I know he's not a catfish. I need advice! Please help!! This boy is not the guy I sent the pictures to,

Im a 16 year old dude, and I never liked the sport, and I have always been despised by my parents, and friends because of this. I am more into parkour, with my other friend who also does it with me. Im not gay or anything. They always tell me that I SHOULD love it and that I have to keep in touch with the real world, because apparently to them, parkour is fiction. I know there's nothing wrong, but its really annoying, what do I do?

It all started when I was 13 years old, when I moved to a new school and couldn't make any friends. Because of this, I didn't really talk to anybody and just started playing video games. This carried on into my entire high school and community college years (I regret this sooo much now). I was, and still am a very passive person, but I am trying very hard to break out of my comfort zone. I am also not close to my parents at all - I know almost nothing about them and I never really talk to them about anything besides school (I have poor Asian parents who know nothing about the real world). I pretty much just wasted about 6 years of my life - I didn't learn anything in school, didn't develop any hobbies(besides gaming), didn't develop any real friendships/relationships, and didn't experience anything. It's pretty sad now that I think about it, I pretty much grew up alone =( After finishing community college, I wanted to get away from home and try to experience the real world on my own so I decided to go to a university that is 5 hours from home, and have been going for 2 years. I learned soo much in these past 2 years, but I still have trouble holding a conversation and meeting new people. This is very annoying and people don't understand how hard is it for me to fix this because I haven't really had any experience with anything and I don't know much about the real world. I am trying to develop new hobbies, learn basic things, but its so HARD. I've been trying to talk to a girl I like, but I realize that I am so boring that I don't have a chance with her. I think I need to find myself before I get into a serious relationship. I am moving to LA for 6 months for an internship in the engineering field - and my #1 goal during these 6 months is to break the **** out of my comfort zone! Any tips would be awesome

Im a boy and im tired of playing football every time me and my friends hang out. I think it gets over played and annoying over time. I have to ask every time to hang out which is almost never. When i ask, i sometimes dont get a answer back or i have to play football. I want to gwt invited to pool parties and parties in general or just a simple hang out. What should i do? Am i the only one?

I wanted to talk to an old friend of mine but i don't know what to say!

Friend A= Eyeliner guy Friend B= A friend who is trying to help. Me, friend A and B have tried educating people and, I know it's not a good move, but I have used violence because one of his other 'friends' said 'aren't you embarrassed to be next to him.' People are turning against friend A and some are trying to get rid of his friends. Others are now targeting me and friend B for hanging out with someone who they think is gay. The teachers know but won't do anything. The best conclusion we have came up with is, start being rude to people and throwing punches but, even though we like punching people, we think there should be a better solution. What should me and my friends do? (Sorry this is long and probably doesn't make sense.) We don't have a principle but the guy with slightly more power knows too.

Guys, my best friend is constantly asking me what's wrong and I feel like I have to tell her that nothing's wrong because I don't want to be burden because that's how I lost my other best friend, but the truth is, I just don't feel like I'm good enough and that people are constantly judging me and I'm putting myself down and I don't know how to get back my self confidence ( I don't self harm or anything) plzz give me ideas?!

I'm 14 and my best friend and I just started high school together. We were so excited to go to the same school even though we have been going to the same school since kindergarten. We became best friends last year when I finally realized ex-best friend was just using me and was constantly bullying me. So back to the problem, lately she's been distant. In the beginning of the school year we did everything together. We even met more friends and added them to our "group". So my BFF has pretty much every class with one of them and literally clings to her whenever she's around. I'm not gonna say I'm not jealous because I am sometimes. And the girl asked us to take a trip with her and my BFF couldn't go but I'm going. And she was really mad with me when I said I was going. Ever since then whenever I'm around she ignores me and avoids eye contact with me whenever I am trying to talk to her. Now her and the other girl literally hang out every day and I feel really left out. And me and my BFF were supposed to go to summer camp together and now she said she wasn't going. I really miss our old relationship and really want her back. Please help me. Thanks :)

So like half of the school year this boy named Jason liked me. Then he supposedly stopped liking me during Half of the school year. But during the Half of the school year when he admitted he didn't like me no more, he and his friends would still stare at me. They would hide behind bushes and stare at me. They would point at me and I'm like 20 feet away from them. My friends had witnessed all of it. One day after school, I was walking out the main office and Jason was coming my way probably to pick up his skateboard he left. He saw me coming my way and went off to the side on the wall cursing the s*** word 3 times. Okay so graduation day was yesterday and I didn't go to it because I am a junior. He was a senior. My friend was invited to go to it because she has a sister graduating. My friends name is Emlly. Emily told me that she said bye to Jason and his friends. Jason's friend named Cris told Emily to tell me that Jason says bhe bye. I'm confused at all of this. Can someone help out? Why didn't Jason just talk to me the last day of school? Did he still like me or did he not?

I'm 23 and I have a terrible time making lots of friends. I'll admit that I'm shy and that probably pushes some ppl away from me, before you think I'm hiding flaws. However, because I can't find a decent job to save my life, I don't have money to constantly get my hair, nails, and makeup done all the time and it makes me feel that this is also why other females don't want to be friends with me. I have tried making friends with these group of girls because I wanted to join a graduate chapter of AKA (a black sorority). We all exchanged numbers and texted each other, but I found out that they went to an event without me by seeing pictures on the internet. That gives me the impression that they aren't interested. I used to be so hard on myself for being stupid and for being desperate for friends at times, but my actions are starting to make a lot of sense now! I've tried the following: kissing butt for internet strangers as a teenagers, trying to be friends with EVERYBODY, spending $150 on someone, and dressing like the other girls (middle school) Going a long period of times without friends is unhealthy and this is why I feel that everybody should be obligated to have friends to keep their sanity. My problem is that I want friends NOW and I want what everybody else has. While everybody is partying, going to concerts, and traveling on Snapchat, I'm struggling to find a job and I'm just signing up for 3 graduate classes because I can't find any work.

i have a boyfriend who i love dearly (and wants to do long distane) and amazing friends, my parents need a bigger house because rn in new jersey we cant find any and they wont let me live with a friend and they prefer the colleges there, how do i deal with this? i know i will be lonely and depressed there

How do you announce things like new jobs, pregnancy, etc., on Facebook without coming off as bragging? I have a cousin who just got a really cool job and is moving 6 hours away. He uses FB to keep in touch with a lot of family, so he announced his move and job on there. Most of the comments were positive, but one person accused him of bragging. How do you announce things like this without bragging? He felt like he needed to make an announcement, not for the job so much, but because of the move and he was leaving town.

I have been ordered 24 hours of community service by the court and it has to be for a non-profit and non-religious organization. While Salvation Army confirm that they are a non-profit org, they are keeping mum about whether or not they are a non-religious org as well.

Me and my best friend have been friends for 11 years and best friends for 5 years and recently she's been hanging out with another person and has been hanging up on my calls because this other person is calling her and cancelling our plans and is nearly never free. My other best friend (who is her best friend as well) has been noticing this as well. I've talked to my best friend telling her that I'm worried he's changing her and she agreed saying that he sometimes goes a bit too far and annoys her. I'm getting really upset that it doesn't seem she has any time for me anymore but I feel like I'm being really petty. It would mean a lot if you told me what you think.

Hey, so I am going to my friend's birthday party. The theme of her party is sorority. I am in charge of the games. Can you give me a list of sisterhood/sorority games without alcohol? I want something fun. I don't want outdoor games. Something everyone can do as a group

She's one of my best friends, we would do almost everything together there were periods where we weren't talking as much but that's because either she was in a relationship or I was in a relationship, but we always stayed good friends. She's like a sister to me. However lately has been a different story, her mom came into a big inheritance and bought her a condo. This was about a year ago but she has changed a little I've noticed this going on for months now all she cares about is superficial things, like her personal things online dating she's got a new boyfriend and that's all she cares about and talks about, which is totally fine I understand that but the worst off............. is she's grown closer to one of her friends and pretty much has replaced me with her. I notice she doesn't call me and talk to me about things she's a lot more closer with her other friend, when we're all three together I feel like a third wheel. To be honest I've noticed throughout the years this is kind of been a little bit of a pattern. Her or I will meet someone else and it seems as though she kind of buddies up with that other person. And I always end up feeling like the odd man out. I don't know if it's because neither her or I have a lot in common. We`re kind of opposites in the way but we do get along, we're like sisters. Not only that, I've noticed she's never really been too happy with my successes she's very competitive.

My friend keeps ignoring me and reading my texts and snapchats. All i do is show her i care for her and want her to be happy as a friend should, but she never shows the same for me. Shell talk about meeting new people and doing new things and all i show is happiness for her but as soon as i say i met someone cool or did something cool too shell get pissed off. Friends are supposed to be happy for eachother. What do i do?

My best friend is jealous of my other friend that she used to be friends with but then they had a fight yesterday i was hanging out with A my friend and then N my best friend got jealous and said that i change around other people. So she said she doesnt want to be friends with someone who is friends with a slut *** ***** thats what's N said about A. They had a fight about how N's other best friend posted a musically in her sports bra and A told her not to do that or else she would end up a slut. And N agreed but then had an argument with A since i was both of there friends i said i wasnt choosing sides i had an opinion but didnt say. Then when i was at A's house i almost started to cry cause my best friend of 4.5 year's didnt want to be friends with me anymore. Then i begged and sent her a best friend quote she screen shotted it posted it on insta and tagged C in it and wrote how she was her best friend. Then i wrote her a long paragraph that said how i was sorry and was going to keep fighting for our friendship and said that she just needed a break from me for a while. But we're going to a Thomas Rhett concert on july 1 and if we're still on a break its going to be awkward. And our parents are going so it will be upsetting if we just cancel. Thomas Rhett is my favorite singer btw. So i guess my question is is it normal for best friends to do this? Oh and she was crying cause she still wanted to b friends but im like you're the one who didnt want to be friends with me anymore

I'm 16 and I'm apart of a friendship group of 6 girls (myself included). I had an AMAZING best friend but this ended when a new girl joined our group; this girl is so clingy towards me, despite her being my 'friend' I know she is SO manipulate and is a compulsive liar, she just can't help herself. She's taken friends from me in the past and boyfriends, anything that's ever made me happy really. It's like she wants everything I have for herself and for me to have nothing but her. I used to be so close with the other 4 girls until she came in the group and she's so negative and I feel like it rubs off on me. I'm not close with the 4 girls anymore at all, including my best friend. Because of this, I feel so alone. I have no one except my boyfriend and I always take my bad moods out on him now. He tries to help but I really do feel like I'm getting depressed and always think "well, I lose everyone in my life so he's going to be next". Any advice would be appreciated and making new friends isn't an option, I live in a small town. :(

My friend is so mad because she says I've been acting mest up lately and she dosent even want to talk to me what do, i do???

My birthday is coming up soon, and i was going to invite all my friends ( not a whole lot, so i could pay for everyone if it came to it) and i wanted to know if i invite them to dinner, should i pay for them, or expect them to pay their own way? Its my first time planning something like this, so i dont have much experience.