I know several women in real life, who are REMARRIED and STILL get alimony (the guys they remarried are on SSI but still have some income) And they CRY about their "dead beat ex".........what the ever loving ****?!@?!

My sons father and I have been broken up for over a year now. I ve been dating a new guy since then who I have so much chemistry with and treats me like a queen. Recently, I ve been in a confused state, feeling guilty for breaking up with sons dad. I broke up with him because the chemistry wasn t there anymore and everything had become so routine. His mom was like a 3rd partner in our relationship, and that played a part in the decision as well. Money was an issue all the time, and I was doing something to further my education and he seemed to be comfortable with where he was at job wise, with no plans to gain a college degree. He doesn t have any ambition, but he s a great guy and father nonetheless. Our relationship wasn t really anything to write home about. Recently, I told my boyfriend that we should stop dating and I asked my sons dad if he would give us a second chance. He agreed and we ve been working on things. It feels "right" being back with my sons father, but relationship wise, it feels forced. My now ex boyfriend has been understanding about the whole thing, but he has pleaded his love for me and made known to me that he has plans on marrying me. This is all hard for him and I feel so confused as to what to do I guess I want to make sure that I give my relationship with my sons father a fair chance before I end things and move on, so that guilt won t riddle me. Am I making a mistake?

I like my boyfriend, he has a great personality and we have fun but I'm not super attracted to him. Not in the way that I've been with other guys. With the last guy I dated we were out of control physically, just so attracted to each other. Now it's lacking....but he's a good person and I want it to work with him. I don't mean to sound rude in any way but if he were to lose 20-40 lbs I think he'd be so much more attractive physically to me. I'm not attracted to his double chin. Am I a horrible person for secretly wanting him to lose weight? I really think it would make a big difference...

My hubby and I have been married many years. We love to go to fun places and yummy restaurants. I love him with all my heart. He is an incredible man! I want to hug and squeeze him! He is a perfect, wonderful man that is sweeter than all the candy in the world!

My husband and I have been together a year prior to getting married. He was the love of my life, my best friend, my comforter, my everything. After marriage I do not love him anymore. He has put me through so much. This is my first marriage and first time being away from home. He is very childish and self-centered. Before we moved into our first home together, he brought his brother along and said it would only be about 2weeks,his brother is still here and isn't working or anything. Long story short, he won't make his brother leave despite me feeling uncomfortable, not having the room or funds for him to be here and giving me a hard time. He makes me live like he's still a bachelor. His friends are over all day at all times of the night, they eat our food, they don't even knock before entering the house or a room. He has been ignoring me and my feelings for months. I can't get anything I need or want without him getting angry with me. He hasn't even tried to spend one day alone with me since we got married, despite me telling him over and over how I feel. There's so much more I could say but I don't want to make this too lengthy. Should I wait it out, hoping that one day he and our life will change or divorce?

I feel like when you're completely in satisfied sexually and emotionally in your marriage, you're naturally going to want an escape or distraction even if you never actually cheat physically.

She doubts everything he says, she is cynical when he tells stories, she gets depressed on little things that may remind her of his cheating.She gets into a bad mood in places she knows they had been to. The respect is lost even when she doesn't say so. She gets moody on important occasions like valentines day, their anniversary, christmas, birthdays and reunions. it has been 3 years and it seems she hasn't moved on yet though she had accepted him to come back. She has crying spells from out of the blue.. How can help as her friend?

i want to know what is the meaning long time into marriage means?

You can still live together, remain faithful, explore other options, cheat, intercourse, ect. Is it for the kids or does this date back to some crazy religious thing that forces people to marry one another like "no sex before marriage"? I'd probably stay a bachelor and date around, but marriage sounds like a situation that is only entertaining when you get a divorce for smart individuals with cash like myself. I feel as though the richer I am the more I would get involved in marriage? Vegas Chapels ect. I don't think marriage should define a relationship or measure ones love for their respective spouse. Can you elaborate on the Social Expectations of this marriage stuff? That's the part that weakens me.

My ex always drives by my house, after five years I started dating someone new. He will pop up and cause issues.

hello…i need help ..really bad I have been depressed since my son who is now 1 year old, i love him to death but i hate my marriage, my husband had been physically and verbally abusive, also doesn't seem to care if i stay with him or leave him, he has flirted with girls and tried to meet up with women, he is so disrespectful to our marriage…i do not trust him anymore. I don't even feel he loves me anymore, he has made me so depressed and hate my life, the only thing that keeps me going is my son. I have forgiven my husband but its hard to get over what he has put me through, i want my son to grow up as a family, not a broken home so i am doing it for my son. this has affected my job as i suffer from anxiety attacks at work and can't socialize with people like a normal person, makes me resort to drinking, i thought about seeking professional help ike a doctor but scared of getting prescription pills and getting addicted,, all i wanna do is be healthy and continue to love and raise my son but life is overwhelming me, i do not know what to do?…everyday i get called faul names by this man and he never even acts remorseful

My girlfriend and I been together for almost a year and a half and we want to get married. We are expecting our first child so she is about 6 weeks pregnant. We don't want to announce the pregnancy not until after the first trimester. I am afraid that if I propose to her after we tell our friends and family about the pregnancy that they are going to think we are getting married because we going to have a baby. Her family is really old school

Him: You 'never' respond to my text messages. Reality: Maybe once a month I am too busy to respond right away. That's like 1/100. Him: you 'always' leave the closet door open. Reality: We both leave the door open a pretty equal amount of times. Him: You're 'always' so inconsiderate. Reality: we both do things accidentally that are inconsiderate sometimes. He just gets more butt hurt about it and takes it more personally than I do. I am so annoyed by this. Why can't my husband speak more realistically about situations, why is everything so extreme and absolute?? He also tends to be very confrontational about things that he doesn't need to be that way about. That's just the way he communicates. Half the time I don't think he even means it that way, it's just his tone of voice and choice of words. AAARG

My stbx told me he got a new job. He later told me that he got hired because someone had not shown up for 2 days. He says the day he started the guy came back so they fired him. Is this legal or is he probably lying?

What is the ideal age to get married for men and women?

I've been having sex with this 36 year old married woman for about 4 months. Shes now in love with me and she said she's willing to leave her husband in order to go with me. Do you think its a good idea to marry her?

My husband told me he was going somewhere and came back almost 3 hours later. Then he told me he was going to get something to eat and I told him I wanted food from a restaurant well he never came with the food and came back another 3 hours later and didn't answer his calls. When I asked him why he left me waiting for so long he said he was at a bachelor party. But where was he the first 3 hours? Well I looked in his phone and saw a message of him flirting with some woman and the lady said they should hook up again. I looked up her number and confronted him about it. He refused to answer any of my questions and was more concern how I got this info and what is my conclusion. When he found out I was snooping his phone and phone records he got a new cell phone number the very next day and changed his passwords to everything and got furious with me and told me he was leaving. He said that he couldn't trust me anymore and felt micro managed. I got upset since I didn't have the answers I was looking for and called the girl and she said they did meet for a bit but I found out that he was was hanging out much longer than what he said and with a group of woman. A week later he found out through a friend that I had called the girl and he got furious and says the line of communication is gone and that I didn't think about our family when I went through his stuff. He also said that she is none of my worries. That I should be worried about some other woman. Does he have the right to act this way and threaten to leave me and his kids? Was I wrong for looking into his things?

I know several women in real life, who are REMARRIED and STILL get alimony (the guys they remarried are on SSI but still have some income) And they CRY about their "dead beat ex".........what the ever loving ****?!@?!

My sons father and I have been broken up for over a year now. I ve been dating a new guy since then who I have so much chemistry with and treats me like a queen. Recently, I ve been in a confused state, feeling guilty for breaking up with sons dad. I broke up with him because the chemistry wasn t there anymore and everything had become so routine. His mom was like a 3rd partner in our relationship, and that played a part in the decision as well. Money was an issue all the time, and I was doing something to further my education and he seemed to be comfortable with where he was at job wise, with no plans to gain a college degree. He doesn t have any ambition, but he s a great guy and father nonetheless. Our relationship wasn t really anything to write home about. Recently, I told my boyfriend that we should stop dating and I asked my sons dad if he would give us a second chance. He agreed and we ve been working on things. It feels "right" being back with my sons father, but relationship wise, it feels forced. My now ex boyfriend has been understanding about the whole thing, but he has pleaded his love for me and made known to me that he has plans on marrying me. This is all hard for him and I feel so confused as to what to do I guess I want to make sure that I give my relationship with my sons father a fair chance before I end things and move on, so that guilt won t riddle me. Am I making a mistake?

I like my boyfriend, he has a great personality and we have fun but I'm not super attracted to him. Not in the way that I've been with other guys. With the last guy I dated we were out of control physically, just so attracted to each other. Now it's lacking....but he's a good person and I want it to work with him. I don't mean to sound rude in any way but if he were to lose 20-40 lbs I think he'd be so much more attractive physically to me. I'm not attracted to his double chin. Am I a horrible person for secretly wanting him to lose weight? I really think it would make a big difference...

My hubby and I have been married many years. We love to go to fun places and yummy restaurants. I love him with all my heart. He is an incredible man! I want to hug and squeeze him! He is a perfect, wonderful man that is sweeter than all the candy in the world!

My husband and I have been together a year prior to getting married. He was the love of my life, my best friend, my comforter, my everything. After marriage I do not love him anymore. He has put me through so much. This is my first marriage and first time being away from home. He is very childish and self-centered. Before we moved into our first home together, he brought his brother along and said it would only be about 2weeks,his brother is still here and isn't working or anything. Long story short, he won't make his brother leave despite me feeling uncomfortable, not having the room or funds for him to be here and giving me a hard time. He makes me live like he's still a bachelor. His friends are over all day at all times of the night, they eat our food, they don't even knock before entering the house or a room. He has been ignoring me and my feelings for months. I can't get anything I need or want without him getting angry with me. He hasn't even tried to spend one day alone with me since we got married, despite me telling him over and over how I feel. There's so much more I could say but I don't want to make this too lengthy. Should I wait it out, hoping that one day he and our life will change or divorce?

I feel like when you're completely in satisfied sexually and emotionally in your marriage, you're naturally going to want an escape or distraction even if you never actually cheat physically.

She doubts everything he says, she is cynical when he tells stories, she gets depressed on little things that may remind her of his cheating.She gets into a bad mood in places she knows they had been to. The respect is lost even when she doesn't say so. She gets moody on important occasions like valentines day, their anniversary, christmas, birthdays and reunions. it has been 3 years and it seems she hasn't moved on yet though she had accepted him to come back. She has crying spells from out of the blue.. How can help as her friend?

i want to know what is the meaning long time into marriage means?

You can still live together, remain faithful, explore other options, cheat, intercourse, ect. Is it for the kids or does this date back to some crazy religious thing that forces people to marry one another like "no sex before marriage"? I'd probably stay a bachelor and date around, but marriage sounds like a situation that is only entertaining when you get a divorce for smart individuals with cash like myself. I feel as though the richer I am the more I would get involved in marriage? Vegas Chapels ect. I don't think marriage should define a relationship or measure ones love for their respective spouse. Can you elaborate on the Social Expectations of this marriage stuff? That's the part that weakens me.

My ex always drives by my house, after five years I started dating someone new. He will pop up and cause issues.

hello…i need help ..really bad I have been depressed since my son who is now 1 year old, i love him to death but i hate my marriage, my husband had been physically and verbally abusive, also doesn't seem to care if i stay with him or leave him, he has flirted with girls and tried to meet up with women, he is so disrespectful to our marriage…i do not trust him anymore. I don't even feel he loves me anymore, he has made me so depressed and hate my life, the only thing that keeps me going is my son. I have forgiven my husband but its hard to get over what he has put me through, i want my son to grow up as a family, not a broken home so i am doing it for my son. this has affected my job as i suffer from anxiety attacks at work and can't socialize with people like a normal person, makes me resort to drinking, i thought about seeking professional help ike a doctor but scared of getting prescription pills and getting addicted,, all i wanna do is be healthy and continue to love and raise my son but life is overwhelming me, i do not know what to do?…everyday i get called faul names by this man and he never even acts remorseful

My girlfriend and I been together for almost a year and a half and we want to get married. We are expecting our first child so she is about 6 weeks pregnant. We don't want to announce the pregnancy not until after the first trimester. I am afraid that if I propose to her after we tell our friends and family about the pregnancy that they are going to think we are getting married because we going to have a baby. Her family is really old school

Him: You 'never' respond to my text messages. Reality: Maybe once a month I am too busy to respond right away. That's like 1/100. Him: you 'always' leave the closet door open. Reality: We both leave the door open a pretty equal amount of times. Him: You're 'always' so inconsiderate. Reality: we both do things accidentally that are inconsiderate sometimes. He just gets more butt hurt about it and takes it more personally than I do. I am so annoyed by this. Why can't my husband speak more realistically about situations, why is everything so extreme and absolute?? He also tends to be very confrontational about things that he doesn't need to be that way about. That's just the way he communicates. Half the time I don't think he even means it that way, it's just his tone of voice and choice of words. AAARG

My stbx told me he got a new job. He later told me that he got hired because someone had not shown up for 2 days. He says the day he started the guy came back so they fired him. Is this legal or is he probably lying?

What is the ideal age to get married for men and women?

I've been having sex with this 36 year old married woman for about 4 months. Shes now in love with me and she said she's willing to leave her husband in order to go with me. Do you think its a good idea to marry her?

My husband told me he was going somewhere and came back almost 3 hours later. Then he told me he was going to get something to eat and I told him I wanted food from a restaurant well he never came with the food and came back another 3 hours later and didn't answer his calls. When I asked him why he left me waiting for so long he said he was at a bachelor party. But where was he the first 3 hours? Well I looked in his phone and saw a message of him flirting with some woman and the lady said they should hook up again. I looked up her number and confronted him about it. He refused to answer any of my questions and was more concern how I got this info and what is my conclusion. When he found out I was snooping his phone and phone records he got a new cell phone number the very next day and changed his passwords to everything and got furious with me and told me he was leaving. He said that he couldn't trust me anymore and felt micro managed. I got upset since I didn't have the answers I was looking for and called the girl and she said they did meet for a bit but I found out that he was was hanging out much longer than what he said and with a group of woman. A week later he found out through a friend that I had called the girl and he got furious and says the line of communication is gone and that I didn't think about our family when I went through his stuff. He also said that she is none of my worries. That I should be worried about some other woman. Does he have the right to act this way and threaten to leave me and his kids? Was I wrong for looking into his things?