There are 5 of us sisters. She is the oldest and I am number 4. I honestly can't stand her. I hate the way she breathes, I hate the way she eats, I can't bare to sit next to her. I get so bored and angry when she talks to me. She is a very emotional person and I feel like I can't say anything to her without her over-reacting. I would of thought us being so similar and having the same interests we would get along, but I can't wait till she leaves home. It makes me so sad because I have tried countless times to talk to her about the way I feel and that I do still love her, but she does my head in. We seem to get along for like 2 days and then she argues about something and then I go back to hating her. I get along with all my other sisters and they get along with her as well. Yes she does have some good and bad qualities, but I want to stopwatch hating her. Any ideas? *stop We are both in our 20's

Over the past few years (since I went away to college), I've noticed when I come home that my dad drinks a lot more than he used to. He has also gained weight due to it. He drinks on week days as well as weekends and is visibly tipsy probably 1-2 times a week. He's never violent or abusive in any way, and never has been. He's a really nice guy, but I'm worried about this increase in alcohol consumption. He didn't seem to drink like this when I was growing up. I'm also worried that something might happen to him because of it. I care first and foremost about him and his health, and want him to stop for his own sake. But I'm also still financially dependent on him (I'm currently in my last year of grad school) and so it affects me more than psychologically. I am very anxious about it all. I told my mom about it but she doesn't seem to understand. She works so much that I think she doesn't even realize what he does and she rationalizes it away. He seems to have control still (he only has maybe 2 drinks in public or at other people's houses). It's just at home that he seems to binge. Help me help him? And help me calm down :( I'm not sure how bad it is, but I think it's not normal. I know you can't convince people to stop drinking and that they need to address any underlying issues, but you CAN help them, right? I should add that he has recently developed high blood pressure and a permanently flushed face, both of which are evidence of over-consumption of alcohol....

My parents are not split up but they dont seem in love. They dont argue but they dont seem happy together. My mum got pregnant with oldest brother when she was a teen and then they got married. I think they did cos of their parents pressure or something cos theyre strong Christian families. I never look at them and think "wow they're in love" I just see two people who are making things work. I feel like my dad isnt all that interested in loving my mum, but is just playing the "father" role and the "married man" role. If they go out, he tends to stay on his phone and they don't seem to engage in thrilling conversation. They seem to just discuss relatives and family friends and general talk. Sometimes they talk about their younger years n they really did seem in love then, but I think theyve fallen out of it. They almost never kiss n when they do it's never proper it's just a peck to make me laugh or feel cringey. My mum is kind of submissive when my dad says no to something but she doesnt have to be cos my dads not mean or pushy. Its like someone has told my mum she has to be the "submissive wife". She's not afraid of him cos he's literally so nice (he's a great dad) but honestly they don't agree on much (they never argue tho). But I honestly think if my mum hadnt got pregnant they would not be together today. I feel like they love each other but they are not in love with each other you know? I just want to see them look at each other like theyre truly happy. What can I do?

It was really early in the morning and I was half-asleep so I'm not even sure if it actually happened, but either way I'm kinda grossed out now... How do I get my mind off of it?

Ephesians 2: 14 For He Himself is our peace, who has made both one, and has broken down the middle wall of separation, 15 having abolished in His flesh the enmity, that is, the law of commandments contained in ordinances, so as to create in Himself one new man from the two, thus making peace, 16 and that He might reconcile them both to God in one body through the cross, thereby putting to death the enmity. 17 And He came and preached peace to you who were afar off and to those who were near. 18 For through Him we both have access by one Spirit to the Father.

I am a 23 year old korean woman, and my boyfriend is a 21 year old white dude. Weve been together for 2 years, and lives with me my single mom(58) and my 2 older sisters (26 and 27) for 6 months. My mom and sisters get along with my boyfriend. In the last month or so, as my mom and sisters started to become more comfortable around my boyfriend, they are revealing their aggressive and very harsh sense of humor. I am 5'7 weighing 150 pounds, but my sisters are 6'1 weighing 190 and my mom is 6'3 weighing 250. My boyfriend is a small guy standing 5'3 weighing 110 but he is fit handsome and ripped. My mom always cracks jokes about how small my boyfriend is compared to her and my sisters will laugh along with her. My sisters call him the baby of the family since he is the smallest and the youngest, and call him "little man". One instance my mom showed him her dresses and told him "my dresses are longer and wider than your whole body, you can use them as a sleeping bag" My mom is just being teasing and means it in a loving way. She needs to understand that this type of humor is not acceptable and might come across the wrong way. I think its also a cultural thing since koreans love to make rude and harsh jokes about others. My sisters I feel also need to speak out. My mom and sisters love him and see him as part of the family. I just dont want any misunderstandings to happen

I live with my grandparents and they are very strict. My boyfriend and I have been dating for less than a month, but we have been talking / friends since last September. The only time we are ever able to see each other is at school, the mall or a restaurant. If we see each other at the mall or restaurant, however, it's not that often because my grandparents don't like me going out much (with him or anyone else for that matter). They are extremely overprotective and they think he's going to play me and break my heart (not anything personal against him, they think all teenage boys are like that). I would really like to be able to hang out, alone, with my boyfriend at his house. I have asked my grandparents politely before and they said no, because it's "too soon" to meet his family. However, I have already met his parents at one of his baseball games. I'm not allowed in his car so the only way we would be able to go to his house is if we said we were going to go see a movie and drove to his house with me in his car. Is this a bad idea? I really do want to respect my grandparents but it's very hard not being able to ever be alone with him. He's 17 and I'll be 17 in 3 months. What should I do?

Being teenagers, 15 and 17, it's only natural for them to misbehave when their parents aren't home. Should we let them stay home for the week or just take them with to avoid the problem?

I think it is only a matter of time before I die because of stress issues... bleach is sitting right next to me and I plan on drinking it unless I find a solution to this problem. I'm 16, dealing with depression nearly most of my life ( I don't take any pills ). My dad and sister don't talk to me and treat me like **** because they want me to be religous or some **** and I tell them I'm too busy and my mom was on my side and now she is not. They plan on kicking me out and I told my dad I was going to beat him up and he said go ahead. Just to let you know I do Muay Thai and BJJ and my dad has no fighting background. Here is my question before I die or if I die. Please only answer this question please! I plan on disowning my parents but if I do where do I get taken? Do I get taken to a foster house? If I do then will they pay for my expenses?(<- Important) Because I still take fighting classes and it is a monthly payment and I plan on attending a university when I turn 17 and a half and I am wondering will fostercare pay for all that? If they will then goodbye parents and if they won't then I might be dead by the time I recieve a good amount of answers. Thank you to anyone who can help me Btw who do I call to get foster care? I just don't want to die please help Btw since my parents are religous, they will freakin' praise my death and crap so if I do end my life I plan on driving somewhere far far away and drink bleach or just drive into a place or drive off a ledge

My parents are too strict. I'm almost 16 and this is becoming too much. They force me all the time to do things I don't want to do. They stress me out, pressure me, and always make me feel like I'm not doing good enough. When we go out with my mom's parents my mom pressures me to eat kosher. I do what I want cuz I'm my own man. But how do I make money faster. I can't get a job cuz I can't de with people without flipping out. I'm leaving at 18 and let's just say I've had to do some... unsavory things to make cash. I only get $5 a week in allowance and that just doesn't cut it. So I've been trying to fight for money. I've done well a few times actually. I've made money in a few fights and haven't been seriously injured or anything. About $250 and counting in prize money so far. Any advice on getting away? Bad girl I'm not Jewish I'm an atheist.

I am a 31 year old woman and thinking about this still makes me kind of queasy and feel dirty. When we were little kids there was a few times my dad would make us sit on his lap when he was sitting on the toilet. He never touched us but we did not want to sit on his lap cause we knew he was naked and it felt wrong. My sister acknowledges that it happened but does not like to talk about it.When I think about it I feel shameful and dirty and I have a strained relationship with him thinking about it makes me sick cause I knew it was not appropriate. I am so ashamed to tell my boyfriend cause its just so creepy and wrong. I do not want to think what my dad did was molestation but I don't like being around him. Was it molestation even though he did not touch us sexually?

A 30-40 something year old lady is threatening to get one of her other 30- 40 somethhg year old man to Rape And Kill my 13 YEAR OLD SISTER!! if I do go to the police what will they even do? This lady called my sisters phone because her son goes to the same school and we don't even know why. I don't want to go to jail for sending some old lady to the hospital but I don't know what to do, if something happens to my sister we will know it's her but she hasn't out a hand on her so I know the police won't do anything, if the steps foot on my moms property again I might just shoot her because she is always threatening my family and my sister most of all for no damn reason what can we do, this is serious!!

I am a single, full-time father with 2 girls. My parents have always been difficult to deal with. My mom has said mean things to me and my kids (like they are fat). I have distanced myself from my parents ever since, but my mom continues to try to call me, and my father emails me. I ignore these things. However, my Mom has been texting me asking if she can see my kids. I don't want to deal with her but should I allow her to see her grand-kids?

He went without wanting to so I am not optimistic about his recovery but I still want to be supportive (he only went to avoid jail).

My relationship with my parents, especially my father, has not been the strongest lately. They always talk to me like I've done something wrong, but that treatment doesn't seem to apply to my younger siblings. I feel like their expectations for me are much higher and are much stricter. For instance, they expect me to make sacrifices in order to accommodate my suicidal sister and younger brother. And I'm not saying that I don't understand those expectations, since I am the oldest child, there's going to be more responsibility on my part. But I've been treated so much harsher. They did not celebrate/greet me on my birthday, they did not congratulate me on college acceptance, and they just haven't shown any signs of being proud when I have accomplished so much in my high school career(NHS induction, over a 4.0 grade average, being named an Illinois State Scholar). All I want is for them to be proud of me and to actually treat me like their kid. I feel like I did everything right by being a studious pupil, a contributor to my community through volunteering, and majoring in something that they always wanted me to(Nursing). And, I don't want to bring this up to them, because they are still dealing with my suicidal sister and it would be hard to tackle on two conflicts at the same time, even though that is their responsibility as parents. I honestly believe that after completing college, I won't have a relationship with them anymore.

My brother (age 10, almost 11) is a jerk. He has an attitude to everyone in the family. He has a fit every time he has to do something. And he LOVES annoying me, he even admitted it to my face. I can't stand this. My parents almost never discipline him, and when they do, they simply take away his computer, then he throws a fit and they give it back. He shows no positive change, this only worsens. I have tried everything from talking to him to hitting him to not reacting. Nothing works. Please help...

I ve had my license for three weeks, and in those three weeks, I got a flat tire and now in a minor car accident. When I got my flat tire my dad blamed me entirely and grounded me, made my curfew earlier and restricted my driving privileges. Yesterday, I was on my way to my grandmas house with my boyfriend, on a backroad and was going to speed limit when the guy in front of my suddenly braked to turn left. I was following too close behind and slammed on my brakes but it wasn t enough and I collided into him. No one was hurt, but I was really shaken up. My boyfriend helped calm me down and the other guy told me about his kids doing the same kind of stuff. He was really understanding, thank god. He called the police and my boyfriend called his dad and my mom. My mom is a really understanding person and sees it as my first mistake and now hopes I ll be more aware of the road. Which I will be, entirely. However, our issue is my dad. He has always expected a lot from me and my flat tire incident really ticked him off and we re dreading telling him. I m already responsible for paying my own insurance and have a job, and I know it ll come on me to pay for my increased insurance. I just don t know how to tell him because he will not handle it well at all.

I know this girl since 2013 and were both in middle school. She moved here from Texas with her parents. I didn't even know she had a sister until she told me when I got to know her more. I thought she was an only child. Well she and her older sister are half sisters because they share the same dad but have different mothers Her half sister stayed behind because she was a university student in Texas so ber half sister lived in Texas with her mom. Unfortunately my friend's half sister was killed in a car crash two in a half months ago. Anyways, what do you think? Her half sister was 9 years older than her.

I am 16. I really want to move from the place we've been living in. It is June and we've been living here since March and I ******* hate it. It is 2 stories and the walls are all white. We're not allowed to paint them. My room has a roof that is slanted up like an A line roof (so that the snow/rain can fall off), but my whole room is slanted like it so it makes me feel nauseous having a roof this tall. The cieling is tin so when it rains, it is so loud it keeps us up at night. Just constant horrible banging. Our neighbors party until 2 AM and we've called the cops but they keep going. How can I convince her to move us into a small 2 bedroom apartment closer to work?

i need some opinions on how my family feel about me. ok so heres some background. i am 20 and living with my grandparents after escaping the abuse of my mother and step-father. now that i am living with my grandparents i also live close to my aunts. everyone in the family has an opinion on everything the everyone else does, that is especially true went it comes to me. ok so here are some examples. last year i started college and i hated the course so i decided to reply for a different one this year. my family tell me that the new course is a bad choice. i want to study phycology. i came out about my sexuality and they think I m faking plus they also make fun of it. i decided to go on anti-anxiety meds to treat anxiety i had from abuse and they start telling me that those meds will make me commit suicide. they also say that I m tired looking all the time which couldn t be true as this is not something the meds ever do. in fact the changed my life completely. i could never imagine feeling so at ease again. then i wanted to get a tattoo of the kicked me out. i decided to not get it so that i wouldn t be homeless. I m currently looking for somewhere else to live. anyways no matter what it is, whether its that i don t go outside enough or don t eat the right food, they never cease to stop annoying me, yet they say the love me. what the hell is going on?

So I'll start at the beginning. I've been swimming for 9 years now, and at the beginning, I enjoyed it, but now I detest it! I used to have a passion for it, but now I just want it all the end! I'm 17, and my mom thinks that I can get a scholarship for it, but I don't want one. My dad would be more than willing to pay for school (My parents are divorced) and he knows I do not want to swim! He wants me to quit if I don't like it! But she won't let me! I hate having to get up at 4am 4 times a week, and I have night practices 3 times a week! It is legitimately killing me! I have no social life, my mom verbally abuses me, and I have no time for school! My dad wants me to move with him (I do too) but the only reason I am not is because of how my mother would react. Any advice on what I should do would be great! Thanks

Every time me and my girlfriend have a argument she runs and tells her Mother. Now, her mother does not want us to be together, and neither does her father. Mind you, i dont cheat on her, i dont lay a hand on her or treat her bad in any way. I do admit, that i have a smart mouth SOMETIMES...but never cursing her out or nothing similar. Just gf/bf fight..normal..but she is sooo sensitive that anything offends her and then she cries and goes to her mother. Her mom hates me and so does her dad..not for who i am, but how the daughter has me as a bad person. We recently had a big issue after the birth of our 1st son..and now we live separately.

Hey guys, I'm 15 and I don't know what to do. I only live with my mother (my dad died when I was 9) and she's driving me insane! First of all, I don't have friends (I mean, I don't even have a social life!) because she thinks that I'n going to do drugs (I never tried drugs!!?) and she told me that if I'd get friends, She'd never talk to me again. I can't even go outside alone. I mean, you probably think I'm mad because I have a curfew but.. No. I can't even go outside for 5 minutes, take the bus alone or even go to a store near our house! I have no freedom and she treats me like a 5 year old! When I was younger, she used to beat me and now, she always yells at me for no reason. I don't know what I should do... I thought about suicide but it's not a solution. She treats me like crap and she watches tv all day while I must do all the chores! She doesn't even thank me and I feel like I'm just a worthless slave. Please, help me:(

People have said that they were envious (and Mean always tearing you down) because of what we have (for no reason at all it's so ridiculous) but they've dug and dug for research and found out that we struggled ALOT and now they are happy and friendly with us. That still doesn't feel right...plus they are family. How would you deal? They are family. Extended family.

I'm 17, and going into my senior year of high school in a few weeks. Recently my parents have stopped believing anything I tell them simply because I'm getting older and am therefore more "at risk" to do dangerous things. I rarely go out on friday and saturday nights because my parents are so strict. They often won't even let me go to movies. I always have to tell them where I am going, who I'm with, when I'll be home, and what adults are there to supervise. Today, they told me they want to drug test me simply because theres a possibility, as with any 17 year old, that I do drugs. I have told them countless times that I don't, and it's the truth. This weekend is prom and the upper classmen are all having a party, which I am not allowed to go to. I am the only person of my grade who has to come home directly after prom. I always feel really left out of things because I am often not able to go out. I have showed my parents that I am mature and responsible, but they always find faults in my actions which make me unreliable in their eyes. It's so frustrating. I'm growing up, and will be 18 in a few months. Every time I mention that I need more freedom, they restrict me more. I've actually become quite depressed because of how enclosed, untrusted and shamed I feel by my parents. I don't know what to do anymore. How do I relate my feelings to my parents without them taking it the wrong way?

My mother and I do not get along AT ALL. It's not because I don't like her and some other teenage thing but because she's suffocating! She won't let me date, go out with friends, walk to a friends house or even drive my car. She puts my keys on her key ring to make sure I don't go anywhere. We even moved into a neighborhood with a gate guard that she has call her if they see me leave or have somebody come to the gate for me. Mind you I turn 18 in 3 months! She says she is like this because I can't be trusted but I have done NOTHING to prove me untrustworthy. I try to explain to her that I need freedom but she says I have more freedom then most kids because I always go on trips with her, the mall or out to eat. The thing she doesn't understand is that it is always with HER! I need to be able to breath. The thing that was the final straw for me was I went to the lake by my house. I went with this girl Tiana and guy friend Andre. When he got to the gate I guess he said he was coming to see me. The gate guard called my mom. At first she called me saying where was I. I said at the lake but I was coming home. She hung up in my face then when I got home screamed and swore up and down I was sneaking a man in the house to have sex and if the man was over 18 she was calling the police. I kept telling her it wasn't the case even called Tiana mother to have her say that she was the one who let him in after he asked for me. She still wouldn't believe it. Now i'm not allowed out the house period without her approval and if i'm in front of her texting she's wants to know who the person is and so forth. I'm at the point now where i'm sick of it. If she already doesn't trust me then I mine as well give her a reason. The worst she can do it beat me or take stuff away. I'm tried of feeling trap, i'm tried of not being able to tell her things openly and i'm just tired having the privileges of a 12 year old. It isn't right AT ALL! I'm not a bad kid I try my hardest with my mom but she's so obsessed with me getting pregnant like she did when she was 15 or being some horrible trick stir that she doesn't realize she's pushing me away. So now she does have a ultimatum either she gives me some freedom or I will take it. I don't want to go that route because it seems incredibly immature and rebellious but if that's the way it has to be then so it. I will accept the consequences. Can I get some advice PLEASE How do I try to handle this peacefully?

My family has lived in Texas for generations. My immediate family is very close and even when my siblings and I grew up and moved out of our parents house we all stayed in the same city. I love my family to death, the only problem is I hate my job and I'm also starting to really hate this town. I'm 22 years old and my fiance was offered a really good job in North Carolina. Obviously he wants me to come with him, and I really want to go. He would be making enough money to support both of us so I can go back to college full time and get a degree so I can get a better job. So everything would be perfect except that I'll be 17 hours away from my family. My mom can't believe I'm even considering it. I mean, I knew she would be upset but I thought she would understand. SHE DOESN'T - AT ALL. She told me that when someone truly loves their family they make sacrifices for them and even though I'm not happy here I would stay if I really loved them. I was so taken aback when she said this. Am I actually being selfish by planning to move? Or is it the reasonable thing to do given the circumstances? I'm really torn. I know how happy I will be in NC but I don't want to upset my family and I know how terribly I will miss them. And if I do go, how can I get my mom to understand that it's not because I don't "love them enough"?

The kid accidentally walks in on their parents having sex and they tell trusted friends and family members that they saw their dad hurting their mom? When asked further questions, they don't clarify what they saw, they just insist that he was hurting her.

Idk what to do anymore my sister is 13 and she has a guy friend from school that hangs out with her almost every day, the kids mom is ******* crazy, her some has even said that she does drugs, anyways this kids mom is always hollering and being crazy. Knocking on my moms Door asking for her son, when he's not even there, goes on to say, I know my son is in there, you're daughter is probably hiding him, what ever. Things have gone way too far, this ***** calls my sisters phone, and say that she's going to get one of her male friends to Rape And MURDER my sister, she lives in the same neighborhood but I need to do something before I literally go break this bitches door down and curb stomp her ******* jaw on the pavement, my mom says if she steps door in her property (we live in TX so it's okay) she's gonna drag her *** inside the house and beat her *** up, while I would make her bite on the curb and stomp in her so her jaw would break, I need to do something so I won't go to jail for a tracking this female for saying this my 13 year old sister!!!

Im 13 years old and the other day i had a couple friends over and we all went squirrel hunting. Well my one friend said that my brothers gun is a plastic piece of crap. He has to tell my mom and she is convinced that i told him to do that. Later on we went camping back in the woods and he stole my sleeping bag and said it was his. I started arguing with him about it and then I flipped on him. He keeps acting like he is a good hunter even though he never got anything and he always wears camo to show it off so i called him a wannabe country boy. I got in huge trouble i got my guns taken away for 2 months and she said if i hurt him or do that again she will cancel the order of my redbone puppy. The unfair part is that he calls me a retard all the time just my mom don't here him say it so she doesn't believe it. Also he came home with a bad report card and acted like he was all upset and crying and then my mom kept trying to make him feel better, but when i got a bad report card she said that I'd better improve my grades next time or im not allowed to go turkey hunting. I just don't understand why she won't get him in trouble ever. Plus he's always mean to my sister and i told him to knock it off or I'll beat the crap out of you since no one punishes you but nope i get in trouble and my sister gets in trouble just for saying a comeback

I need an idea as to what to get my dad for fathers day. my mother died about a month ago in the hospital at the age of 44 and my dad is taking it very rough due to them being married for almost 20 years. Fathers day is right around the corner and I have no idea for what I should buy him. We are a very southern family, and he likes hunting a lot. He doesn t go out much and he really likes guns and watching videos on youtube about them. Beer is his favorite drink, but I m only 17 so it doesnt really work out for me to buy him that. I have a job so I have plenty of money to buy him a gift ($120 currently), all I need is gift ideas. I ve gotten him watches and t-shirts in the past and i like to paint so I ve painted him gifts too. It would be great to have it somehow related to my mom because she was such a big part of his life. My mom was in love with pugs and was a shopaholic. Thank you in advance! :)

My parents don't give me allowance and yes here and there I can wash a car for 20$ and do small things but that won't get me to my goal. I want to save up to about 250-300$ by August so I can go on a big shopping trip with a friend for clothes/video games/Instax film. I baby sit once on a blue moon. I advertised my baby sitting but no one ever wants me except for one girl who I baby sit maybe once every 3 months. Same with dog sitting/walking. I can't work anywhere yet until next summer, and other family members that actually live in my area don't need anything helped with. My mom won't let me do yard sales, and I could sell my photography online but the chances of getting things sold is incredibly rare. How am I supposed to make anything if everything that's out there won't even work for me? My parents can't just keep giving me money I need it from somewhere else. And no I have no birthdays coming up so that's off too :/

She doesn't drive and she wants me to drive her around all the time even though I have a lot of homework and studying to do. I'm taking calc 2 and physics in the summer so it's fast paced and she won't understand that I need extra help because those classes are tougher. I need a lot of time for studying but she just won't understand and make me feel like I'm dumb for needing so much time. She tells me that I'm a bad daughter and stuff but I've helped her a lot al ready and I've even missed class before because of her and that is why I've fallen behind and now it's so hard to catch up. Time goes by so fast and I'm tired of being her chauffer, it's exhausting and she thinks I'm just being arrogant, but I;m not I'm tired and worried about college. Heck I don't even have friends or a social life but she's just being so selfish. :(

I worked two jobs and put myself through college. Actually was the first in my family to graduate. I didn't have any help and several were missing from my undergrad and master's graduation ceremony. Well my husband and I are not RICH!! We own a home and both work hard. The problem is family members are both always asking for money. My side of the family and his. We can't even visit without being hit up for money. It is so depressing. My brother just called and asked for $500... FIVE HUNDRED! :( We have two young children with autism as well.

My nephew was forced to do boy's dancing when he was 9. At first he liked it, but he then started to hate it. so, when he was 10, his parents (my sister and brother-in-law) let him quit. However, they signed up for him again, with no regards to the promise. He didn't want to go to the performances, but was forced to anyways. Here is the issue. He never complains to the teacher, he always goes along with everything, and so the teacher takes advantage of that, and treats him however he pleases. He now has to do one final, end of year performance. To get out of it, he threatened to break a bone a week before the performance. We thought it was an empty threat, so we ignored it. However, the next day, he slammed his head into a wall and got a black eye, to prove that he was being serious. Is he considered mentally insane? Should I tell my sister to let him not do it? Should we send him to a mental doctor?

My MIL has been jealous lately of my own mother. MIL moved to Florida a few years ago so she doesn't get to see the kids much. She does come every summer and spends about 6 weeks in the area in their nice camper. We usually see them every weekend and they spend some extended time watching the kids too. Meanwhile my own mother lives about 4 hours away. We only get together about once every 3-4 months. Most of the kids are actually my step kids so not my own mothers "real" grandchildren. It doesn't make any difference to me or my mom but I get the feeling MIL doesn't like that her "real" grandkids spend time every few months with step grandma while they're back home in Florida. MIL is currently up from FL and we saw them last weekend. This coming weekend was coming up and my own mother wanted to see us (it's been a few months). She invited us to their cabin about an hr away. I thought it would be nice to lend an offer to MIL too so we could all spend Saturday evening together. MIL had a grad party already planned so she had to decline.. so we made plans for Sunday instead with MIL. MIL is griping to her son (my husband) that my mom is purpose trying to rub it in or make her jealous.. (there is no reason to think that..?). Another problem was on mothers day my mom wanted to see us.. towards the end of the week I realized the drive wasn't feasible so I sent her a bouquet as like sorry I couldn't make it. She posted a pic to FB of the flowers.. (sorry had to add on) anyways my Mom posted a pic of the flowers. MIL was very jealous. the post did not try to taunt or make anyone feel bad, it just said she was happy to receive the beautiful flowers. MIL felt my mom was trying to "rub it in" with the pic? Now I'm already dreading another outing I want to do in a few weeks. there's a state park I want to visit and show my husband. It's about an hour away from where my mother lives so she would likely join us. it involves hiking. unfortunately MIL has a bad knee and would feel left out if she came. I don't want to invite her to something she wouldn't get to enjoy. but I also know that if I don't invite her.. she will be really jealous that step-grandma got to come and enjoy the day with the kids. Just feel like I can't win here. what do you think I should do about inviting her?

This year I told some of my friends about my family life and stuff via face book and one day I open my account ( I dont know if they use my account or computer, becuz sometimes i leave computer in locker during class) and I see that there is a fake account linked to me on my computer and my account was hacked and dirty (REALLY DIRTY) messages were sent to random men and some of my family members! WHAT DO I DO!!!