My plan was for me and my husband to take my single mother to dinner for her birthday. I had to work late so I called my husband to pick up my mother and bring her to the restaurant and I would meet them later and that is what he did. My mother ALWAYS has a great sense of humor. At dinner she said "I am disappointed". When I asked her why she said "My first date in 10 years and he did not try to get into my pants". I told her that if he did try, he could say goodbye to his balls and I don't mean his golf balls. We all had a good laugh. My husband said "Ouch, that even hurts to think about it. He told my mom "Just like your daughter, you are beautiful and you will not have any trouble finding guys that would want to date you". "Even guys my age will want to". Mom said "None of them will be as good looking as my daughter's husband". OH MY GOD. Is my mother flirting with my husband OR are we just having a fun conversation?

I'm 14yr old male and my parents won't take a few hours or hell even 1 day to look into what I do/like to do. Every day I get yelled at or get in trouble for the things I enjoy. I like to ply video games and just sit on my phone, but each day if I do ANYTHING wrong they blame it on me and the things I enjoy. I do work around the house but not as they want me to, they expect me to be a workaholic just like them but I'm not that at all! It's gotten so bad of them blaming everything on me that I've thought of some kinda bad things it may not sound that I've been though a lot but it's Ben happening everyday for the past 3 years. Is there anyway I could get them to understand? I've thought about saying" could you guys take one guy or a few hours to look/see of what I enjoy doing?" But I know if I say that they will just get mad at me... Any tips I'm lookin for anything

So I'm not that old, out of privacy concerns I'll just say I'm under 17. First my mom took $20 so I thought "whatever, she probably needed it for something" so I just asked her for next time to ask me first. About 4 days later I looked at my account status and realized $100 was missing. I then started looking for my wallet (that's where my debit card was) and I ended up finding it in my moms room... I confronted her and she said she was sorry and she repaid me so i let it go. Around 2 weeks after that I saw that $400 was missing from my account! When my mom took the $100 I didn't even bother looking at what it was spent on because I assumed my mom needed it for something important. But this time ($400 missing) I did look at what it was spent on and it was spent over time on things like fast food. At this point I was furious and when I confronted my mom I admit that I wasn't very polite. Even after all this today I looked in my wallet I saw that $40 in cash was missing... I think I can assume that my mom was the one who took it since she's the only one I live with... What should I do about this?

When I post stuff I do on Facebook that I'm proud of my mom acts like she is proud on there I sometimes think about deleting her comments but don't want to make her feel bad but when I talk to her she acts like she doesn't care, should I say something next time it happens? She is well um fake on Facebook I hate saying it but it's true

So I m 14 and for the past... About ten months I d say I ve known where my dad keeps his condoms(out in the garage, where I always am because I m a creative kid and he s a woodworker) so every now and then I see a few in the trash in their room or on his night stand in the wrapper, only once were they in a ziplock in the glovebox in our car. There was a pretty long break where there was no evidence they were doing it, I walked in on them once when i was like 8/9 but I figured they were kissing(I was raised different up until about 11 when I discovered porn) but two nights ago I was in their room talking with my mom and I had to hock a loogie so I spit it in my dads trash where there s a torn condom wrapper, that s okay and all because the trash isn t typically somewhere where I look, so I brush it off and keep talking while my head is a million miles away, and I glance over at his nightstand and I see a small mountain of condoms behind his alarm clock, smooth dad, like sandpaper. So I put my face in my hands and now my mind is even farther away, I basically feel uncertain and almost queesy knowing that while I m still awake they re doing it. my room is right next to the office(which is where is spend a lot of my time). the west wall of the office borders the east wall of their bedroom, so my two questions are: why does it make feel like such crap knowing This, and what should I do because I ve been pretty sleep deprived lately

does that make me and my dad not latino?

My parents got divorced a few years ago, and before the papers got filed my dad was dating a woman (let's call her Amanda) who our family had known since I was little. Unsurprisingly, my mom got very bitter which I can't really blame her for. That being said, her emotional attachment to the situation means that she's only capable of seeing my dad and Amanda as awful people. There were a few years where my dad and I didn't talk because of his alcoholism but since then I've been trying to rekindle a relationship with him and now that relationship includes Amanda. All in all, I like being around them and I'm so happy it's going well after all the issues we've had. My mom however can't stand me even bringing up the fact that I'm happy things are going well, and launches into long criticisms and stories about how terrible they are. She has breakdowns after they see each other, and blames him for her not being able to have a social life (her reasoning being that couples don't want to be around single women though that doesn't cover the fact that other single women exist). I'm going to be starting my junior year of high school soon, and there are things I need them to be able to do together (required school events, graduation, looking for a car, outside of school activities, getting from one house to another, etc.) and I don't know how to talk to her about that because she just starts ranting about them every time I bring it up and wallowing in self pity. Any ideas on how to talk?

My mom is very crazy she's been stealing lying gossiping she's breaking apart my whole family she just sent one of my sisters to her dads and another sister of mine to a shelter now I just need to know what do i do she's splitting us all up and I love my family its just because of my mom and don't be like get a therapist or hold an intervention that won't work my moms mean and rude so if there's a way to force her to get help please tell me my family's at risk

For example, I was kissing my sister on her cheek and she shouted at me and grounded me. And she sometimes threatens to send me to (the hospital where crazy people get treated, don't know what its called in English). I just can't take it anymore and I need help on how to solve this.

Hey guys so my parents have been getting on my nerves lately. It's like everything they do pisses me off. I'm 24 years old and still live with them, but I am saving up to get my own apartment because I should have been out the house. When I first got out of high school I didn't really take life seriously I still acted like I was still in school and didn't really change my attitude. Now at 24 I'm a bit older and wiser and I'm ready to get my life together and take on the world. My parents are just too negative for me to handle. And on top of that they make me feel unwanted sometimes because when I try to strike up conversation with them it's always so bland and it's like the have an attitude with me or something. I haven't held down a steady job since 2012 and I know they are angry about that. They want me to work and I want to work too but they suck. I'm going back to school this year while working full time so that I can be the best that I can be in life. I just wish they weren't so negative all the time. It's always you'll never get right, or man you just so stupid, or you're crazy, you're stupid. They say things like that to me and expect me not to feel a certain way. What should I do about them?

Yeah I know girls copy each other and "imitation is the sincerest form of flattery" blah blah. But she goes to extreme measures to do, like the littlest detail! If I do my hair a certain way she'll mimic it to where the littlest strand of hair is in the same place and I **** you not. I've never met her in person she's from the U.K and I'm an American. If I post a photo of myself she will copy the pose I am doing, I put up a photo of my artwork she did it too. I went to a Disney park in Oregon close to where I live, she traveled to the U.S to Disney Land California which isn't a huge deal as long as she didn't travel up north towards me. I'm not saying that she will ever find me in real life, it just wouldn't surprise me if she did. I highly doubt she'll show up at my house bit she seems like the type to do so know what I'm saying?

Take my mother's family for example. I always wondered why my mother's parents only had one cousin between the two of them. I would hear there were lots and we'd met them all at a reunion. "That is it" it seemed so weird. I saw my cousins weekly. I also thought it was weird my mother's nice cousins we only saw at funerals. Now I see it is normal, why? Why must it be like this? As a kid on my mother's side it was grandparents, Mom-Dad and Mom's 5 siblings when with her side of the family weekly. It was beautiful. As a teen the older cousins were the first to fade, it became holidays and summer travel. As a young adult the grandparents died and it was everyone pledging to stay in touch after the funerals and then seeing each other only over Christmas time and maybe summer. Then a few years later it became every other summer, not even xmas. Now I am 44 and it is just reunion every 3 or 4 years and only about 30 percent of the relatives come. After don't even reply to invite. I see now my grandparents once had cousins. They used to play with them and have fun with them at their grandparents house. And then as adults the world took over and they just faded away. It became "oh we met them at that one reunion". By death it became "is he still alive" when mentioning them. Family is supposed to be forever, why isn't it. Those happy memories at grandparents all ended when the grandparents died. Why must the world be like this? Why? I don't have kids but my nephews and nieces our not going to know my cousins nephews and nieces? My grand nephews and nieces won't even have heard of my cousins grand nephews and nieces. I'll be dead one day and I will just be forgotten. Two hundred years from now my family won't exist. It will just be scattered descendants who don't know each other or that they are 5th cousins. I know classmates are temporarily and come and go from schools and same with neighbors or even some friends. But family? Family was supposed to be forever. Are my parents and grandparents the only real family and maybe siblings? Is everyone else just temporary? If this is the case why was I put her on earth? Shouldn't family be the reason to live. Those fun days at Granny's now just scattered descendants who don't know one another? Why, why are we forgotten When will this end? Was I wise not to bring children into a world where they'd have great-grandkids who don't know their close cousins great-grandkids? I don't know the grandkids of any of my grandparents cousins other then two. They'd be 3rd cousins which mean they are family. I have one cousin I haven't seen in 10 years, thats a decade. He could be dead and I don't even know. He was Mom's nephew, forever. Now he is some guy on Facebook I saw in 2005 last. When I die will any family still remember me? Will the grandkids of my cousins say "who is that" and someone says "oh just some distant relative". Please help, why are we here if our descendants won't know our families descendants?

I'm in m first year of sixth form so I've been pretty busy with studying and revising and exams. My mum sometimes says to me that I should see my friends more as I haven't really seen them since I've started sixth form. But at the same time, when I go out to see one or a few of my friends, my mum asks me where I'm going and I say to see my friends for a little while. Everytime I plan on seeing my friends, she gets angry and accuses me of abandoning my studies. She then forces me upstairs and I have to stay up there all day. Why does my mum do this? What is the point of her saying I should go out and see my friends more when she never lets me go out and see my friends anyway?

I live with parents and my sister lives with parents. They are always doing things together. Sister doesn't speak, dad will speak sometimes but not like with my sister. I have told him about this, and that doesn't help anything. If it's about me he doesn't seem concern.

I bought a computer from my neighbor for $200.. He plays a game on his phone, and he needs a computer to download something called cores. I am not exactly sure what it is. Since then, he has borrowed my tablet to do his cores. He has it more than I do. When I need it, I have to go to his apartment to get it. He will then come to me a little while later and "borrow" my tablet again. I feel like I am borrowing my own tablet when I have to go to him to get it. He acts like it is my fault he can't do these cores cause I bought his computer from him, and he acts entitled to my tablet

My Dad works for Donald Trump's Ohio campaign and my mother says he works too hard. My mother is backing Clinton and has Clinton stickers on her car but I don't think she necessarily is in love with Clinton, she is just mad at my Dad for working for the campaign. They fight about politics constantly and my sister had to call the police one night when my mother was heard threatening my Dad (my sister thought my mother had a knife but was found not to). Now they are getting divorced. My mother accuses my Dad of being a racist con and my Dad says my mother is in a cult. So how can I get them to wait and try to reconcile and then if they still don't like each other a year after the election then they can divorce. I am liberal so I will live with Mom but I'd like them to stay married.

My parents divorced after my brother died and they'd been married 22 years. My brother died because he killed himself. He was 19. My parents were having a fight a year ago when they divorced and though I am 20 I listened in like a kid and heard my mother say "if you hadn't been so consumed with work we would have seen these problems sooner and he'd still be with us". She repeated this belief to me. Now I am mad at my Dad. Is it his fault? Should I be mad at him? I don't want to tell him I am mad as I know he didn't mean to make my brother commit suicide but if he hadn't worked so much my parents might have seen sooner he had problems (my brother had Bipolar but never talked about what was wrong). I feel bad now and mad at my Dad for doing this but don't want to tell him. I have thoughts of wishing I could die but I would never kill myself because I don't want my mother to hurt again and I still kind of love my Dad even though he did this. I have one other brother and he just stays with my Dad all the time and avoids my mother. I am 20 and a girl

I'm 18 and I just graduated high school, I am in New York right now and I live in Georgia but I'm in New York to visit . But the thing is I was born in New York and I moved to Georgia when I was nine so I had to move there . Most of my family lives here . I wanted to stay in New York to live here but my mom brothers live in Georgia I'll just leave them alone there . Is it bad to feel guilty that I won't be there to help my mom , because I help her out more then my 16 year old brother. Since I'm the one who does most of the chores around the house then there is another thing. I guess I could ask my aunt if I can ask her to stay with her . And my grandparents don't have space because they have too many people living in the. House with them.

I am 22 years old and about to begin my career as a registered nurse within a year's time. I still live at home as my parents help me financially with school, and I also have a part time job as a waitress and pay for many things on my car, phone and other expenses. I absolutely love my mother and she is always putting herself before my brother and I. I spend as much time as I can with her, and always do chores around the house for her (she is crazy about cleaning, even getting water on the floor sends her into a fit of rage). I am in a long term relationship with my 24 year old boyfriend, and my mother hates it whenever I do stuff with his family (which isn't often). When I come home from spending a day/night out with them she gives me the cold shoulder, and now I always feel bad whenever I am with his family and thus, I always feel the need to lie or avoid telling her we visited them. She is not like this with my 18 year old brother who constantly goes out partying when he has work at 7 am, but God forbid I spend one day out of very few with my boyfriend's family. She's a very angry person; I'm constantly walking on egg shells around her, and it has really given me some anxiety when my boyfriend asks me to go to dinner at his parents. I don't want to be rude and not go to his family dinner (because they are fun and loving people whom I enjoy being around), but I also do not want to upset my mother because I then I have to listen to her tell me how I'm hateful. What do I do? My mother and I have always fought about me spending "too much time" with my past boyfriends, and she has also had extremely high expectations of me which has put a strain on our emotional relationship.

My plan was for me and my husband to take my single mother to dinner for her birthday. I had to work late so I called my husband to pick up my mother and bring her to the restaurant and I would meet them later and that is what he did. My mother ALWAYS has a great sense of humor. At dinner she said "I am disappointed". When I asked her why she said "My first date in 10 years and he did not try to get into my pants". I told her that if he did try, he could say goodbye to his balls and I don't mean his golf balls. We all had a good laugh. My husband said "Ouch, that even hurts to think about it. He told my mom "Just like your daughter, you are beautiful and you will not have any trouble finding guys that would want to date you". "Even guys my age will want to". Mom said "None of them will be as good looking as my daughter's husband". OH MY GOD. Is my mother flirting with my husband OR are we just having a fun conversation?

I'm 14yr old male and my parents won't take a few hours or hell even 1 day to look into what I do/like to do. Every day I get yelled at or get in trouble for the things I enjoy. I like to ply video games and just sit on my phone, but each day if I do ANYTHING wrong they blame it on me and the things I enjoy. I do work around the house but not as they want me to, they expect me to be a workaholic just like them but I'm not that at all! It's gotten so bad of them blaming everything on me that I've thought of some kinda bad things it may not sound that I've been though a lot but it's Ben happening everyday for the past 3 years. Is there anyway I could get them to understand? I've thought about saying" could you guys take one guy or a few hours to look/see of what I enjoy doing?" But I know if I say that they will just get mad at me... Any tips I'm lookin for anything

So I'm not that old, out of privacy concerns I'll just say I'm under 17. First my mom took $20 so I thought "whatever, she probably needed it for something" so I just asked her for next time to ask me first. About 4 days later I looked at my account status and realized $100 was missing. I then started looking for my wallet (that's where my debit card was) and I ended up finding it in my moms room... I confronted her and she said she was sorry and she repaid me so i let it go. Around 2 weeks after that I saw that $400 was missing from my account! When my mom took the $100 I didn't even bother looking at what it was spent on because I assumed my mom needed it for something important. But this time ($400 missing) I did look at what it was spent on and it was spent over time on things like fast food. At this point I was furious and when I confronted my mom I admit that I wasn't very polite. Even after all this today I looked in my wallet I saw that $40 in cash was missing... I think I can assume that my mom was the one who took it since she's the only one I live with... What should I do about this?

When I post stuff I do on Facebook that I'm proud of my mom acts like she is proud on there I sometimes think about deleting her comments but don't want to make her feel bad but when I talk to her she acts like she doesn't care, should I say something next time it happens? She is well um fake on Facebook I hate saying it but it's true

So I m 14 and for the past... About ten months I d say I ve known where my dad keeps his condoms(out in the garage, where I always am because I m a creative kid and he s a woodworker) so every now and then I see a few in the trash in their room or on his night stand in the wrapper, only once were they in a ziplock in the glovebox in our car. There was a pretty long break where there was no evidence they were doing it, I walked in on them once when i was like 8/9 but I figured they were kissing(I was raised different up until about 11 when I discovered porn) but two nights ago I was in their room talking with my mom and I had to hock a loogie so I spit it in my dads trash where there s a torn condom wrapper, that s okay and all because the trash isn t typically somewhere where I look, so I brush it off and keep talking while my head is a million miles away, and I glance over at his nightstand and I see a small mountain of condoms behind his alarm clock, smooth dad, like sandpaper. So I put my face in my hands and now my mind is even farther away, I basically feel uncertain and almost queesy knowing that while I m still awake they re doing it. my room is right next to the office(which is where is spend a lot of my time). the west wall of the office borders the east wall of their bedroom, so my two questions are: why does it make feel like such crap knowing This, and what should I do because I ve been pretty sleep deprived lately

does that make me and my dad not latino?

My parents got divorced a few years ago, and before the papers got filed my dad was dating a woman (let's call her Amanda) who our family had known since I was little. Unsurprisingly, my mom got very bitter which I can't really blame her for. That being said, her emotional attachment to the situation means that she's only capable of seeing my dad and Amanda as awful people. There were a few years where my dad and I didn't talk because of his alcoholism but since then I've been trying to rekindle a relationship with him and now that relationship includes Amanda. All in all, I like being around them and I'm so happy it's going well after all the issues we've had. My mom however can't stand me even bringing up the fact that I'm happy things are going well, and launches into long criticisms and stories about how terrible they are. She has breakdowns after they see each other, and blames him for her not being able to have a social life (her reasoning being that couples don't want to be around single women though that doesn't cover the fact that other single women exist). I'm going to be starting my junior year of high school soon, and there are things I need them to be able to do together (required school events, graduation, looking for a car, outside of school activities, getting from one house to another, etc.) and I don't know how to talk to her about that because she just starts ranting about them every time I bring it up and wallowing in self pity. Any ideas on how to talk?

My mom is very crazy she's been stealing lying gossiping she's breaking apart my whole family she just sent one of my sisters to her dads and another sister of mine to a shelter now I just need to know what do i do she's splitting us all up and I love my family its just because of my mom and don't be like get a therapist or hold an intervention that won't work my moms mean and rude so if there's a way to force her to get help please tell me my family's at risk

For example, I was kissing my sister on her cheek and she shouted at me and grounded me. And she sometimes threatens to send me to (the hospital where crazy people get treated, don't know what its called in English). I just can't take it anymore and I need help on how to solve this.

Hey guys so my parents have been getting on my nerves lately. It's like everything they do pisses me off. I'm 24 years old and still live with them, but I am saving up to get my own apartment because I should have been out the house. When I first got out of high school I didn't really take life seriously I still acted like I was still in school and didn't really change my attitude. Now at 24 I'm a bit older and wiser and I'm ready to get my life together and take on the world. My parents are just too negative for me to handle. And on top of that they make me feel unwanted sometimes because when I try to strike up conversation with them it's always so bland and it's like the have an attitude with me or something. I haven't held down a steady job since 2012 and I know they are angry about that. They want me to work and I want to work too but they suck. I'm going back to school this year while working full time so that I can be the best that I can be in life. I just wish they weren't so negative all the time. It's always you'll never get right, or man you just so stupid, or you're crazy, you're stupid. They say things like that to me and expect me not to feel a certain way. What should I do about them?

Yeah I know girls copy each other and "imitation is the sincerest form of flattery" blah blah. But she goes to extreme measures to do, like the littlest detail! If I do my hair a certain way she'll mimic it to where the littlest strand of hair is in the same place and I **** you not. I've never met her in person she's from the U.K and I'm an American. If I post a photo of myself she will copy the pose I am doing, I put up a photo of my artwork she did it too. I went to a Disney park in Oregon close to where I live, she traveled to the U.S to Disney Land California which isn't a huge deal as long as she didn't travel up north towards me. I'm not saying that she will ever find me in real life, it just wouldn't surprise me if she did. I highly doubt she'll show up at my house bit she seems like the type to do so know what I'm saying?

Take my mother's family for example. I always wondered why my mother's parents only had one cousin between the two of them. I would hear there were lots and we'd met them all at a reunion. "That is it" it seemed so weird. I saw my cousins weekly. I also thought it was weird my mother's nice cousins we only saw at funerals. Now I see it is normal, why? Why must it be like this? As a kid on my mother's side it was grandparents, Mom-Dad and Mom's 5 siblings when with her side of the family weekly. It was beautiful. As a teen the older cousins were the first to fade, it became holidays and summer travel. As a young adult the grandparents died and it was everyone pledging to stay in touch after the funerals and then seeing each other only over Christmas time and maybe summer. Then a few years later it became every other summer, not even xmas. Now I am 44 and it is just reunion every 3 or 4 years and only about 30 percent of the relatives come. After don't even reply to invite. I see now my grandparents once had cousins. They used to play with them and have fun with them at their grandparents house. And then as adults the world took over and they just faded away. It became "oh we met them at that one reunion". By death it became "is he still alive" when mentioning them. Family is supposed to be forever, why isn't it. Those happy memories at grandparents all ended when the grandparents died. Why must the world be like this? Why? I don't have kids but my nephews and nieces our not going to know my cousins nephews and nieces? My grand nephews and nieces won't even have heard of my cousins grand nephews and nieces. I'll be dead one day and I will just be forgotten. Two hundred years from now my family won't exist. It will just be scattered descendants who don't know each other or that they are 5th cousins. I know classmates are temporarily and come and go from schools and same with neighbors or even some friends. But family? Family was supposed to be forever. Are my parents and grandparents the only real family and maybe siblings? Is everyone else just temporary? If this is the case why was I put her on earth? Shouldn't family be the reason to live. Those fun days at Granny's now just scattered descendants who don't know one another? Why, why are we forgotten When will this end? Was I wise not to bring children into a world where they'd have great-grandkids who don't know their close cousins great-grandkids? I don't know the grandkids of any of my grandparents cousins other then two. They'd be 3rd cousins which mean they are family. I have one cousin I haven't seen in 10 years, thats a decade. He could be dead and I don't even know. He was Mom's nephew, forever. Now he is some guy on Facebook I saw in 2005 last. When I die will any family still remember me? Will the grandkids of my cousins say "who is that" and someone says "oh just some distant relative". Please help, why are we here if our descendants won't know our families descendants?

I'm in m first year of sixth form so I've been pretty busy with studying and revising and exams. My mum sometimes says to me that I should see my friends more as I haven't really seen them since I've started sixth form. But at the same time, when I go out to see one or a few of my friends, my mum asks me where I'm going and I say to see my friends for a little while. Everytime I plan on seeing my friends, she gets angry and accuses me of abandoning my studies. She then forces me upstairs and I have to stay up there all day. Why does my mum do this? What is the point of her saying I should go out and see my friends more when she never lets me go out and see my friends anyway?

I live with parents and my sister lives with parents. They are always doing things together. Sister doesn't speak, dad will speak sometimes but not like with my sister. I have told him about this, and that doesn't help anything. If it's about me he doesn't seem concern.

I bought a computer from my neighbor for $200.. He plays a game on his phone, and he needs a computer to download something called cores. I am not exactly sure what it is. Since then, he has borrowed my tablet to do his cores. He has it more than I do. When I need it, I have to go to his apartment to get it. He will then come to me a little while later and "borrow" my tablet again. I feel like I am borrowing my own tablet when I have to go to him to get it. He acts like it is my fault he can't do these cores cause I bought his computer from him, and he acts entitled to my tablet

My Dad works for Donald Trump's Ohio campaign and my mother says he works too hard. My mother is backing Clinton and has Clinton stickers on her car but I don't think she necessarily is in love with Clinton, she is just mad at my Dad for working for the campaign. They fight about politics constantly and my sister had to call the police one night when my mother was heard threatening my Dad (my sister thought my mother had a knife but was found not to). Now they are getting divorced. My mother accuses my Dad of being a racist con and my Dad says my mother is in a cult. So how can I get them to wait and try to reconcile and then if they still don't like each other a year after the election then they can divorce. I am liberal so I will live with Mom but I'd like them to stay married.

My parents divorced after my brother died and they'd been married 22 years. My brother died because he killed himself. He was 19. My parents were having a fight a year ago when they divorced and though I am 20 I listened in like a kid and heard my mother say "if you hadn't been so consumed with work we would have seen these problems sooner and he'd still be with us". She repeated this belief to me. Now I am mad at my Dad. Is it his fault? Should I be mad at him? I don't want to tell him I am mad as I know he didn't mean to make my brother commit suicide but if he hadn't worked so much my parents might have seen sooner he had problems (my brother had Bipolar but never talked about what was wrong). I feel bad now and mad at my Dad for doing this but don't want to tell him. I have thoughts of wishing I could die but I would never kill myself because I don't want my mother to hurt again and I still kind of love my Dad even though he did this. I have one other brother and he just stays with my Dad all the time and avoids my mother. I am 20 and a girl

I'm 18 and I just graduated high school, I am in New York right now and I live in Georgia but I'm in New York to visit . But the thing is I was born in New York and I moved to Georgia when I was nine so I had to move there . Most of my family lives here . I wanted to stay in New York to live here but my mom brothers live in Georgia I'll just leave them alone there . Is it bad to feel guilty that I won't be there to help my mom , because I help her out more then my 16 year old brother. Since I'm the one who does most of the chores around the house then there is another thing. I guess I could ask my aunt if I can ask her to stay with her . And my grandparents don't have space because they have too many people living in the. House with them.

I am 22 years old and about to begin my career as a registered nurse within a year's time. I still live at home as my parents help me financially with school, and I also have a part time job as a waitress and pay for many things on my car, phone and other expenses. I absolutely love my mother and she is always putting herself before my brother and I. I spend as much time as I can with her, and always do chores around the house for her (she is crazy about cleaning, even getting water on the floor sends her into a fit of rage). I am in a long term relationship with my 24 year old boyfriend, and my mother hates it whenever I do stuff with his family (which isn't often). When I come home from spending a day/night out with them she gives me the cold shoulder, and now I always feel bad whenever I am with his family and thus, I always feel the need to lie or avoid telling her we visited them. She is not like this with my 18 year old brother who constantly goes out partying when he has work at 7 am, but God forbid I spend one day out of very few with my boyfriend's family. She's a very angry person; I'm constantly walking on egg shells around her, and it has really given me some anxiety when my boyfriend asks me to go to dinner at his parents. I don't want to be rude and not go to his family dinner (because they are fun and loving people whom I enjoy being around), but I also do not want to upset my mother because I then I have to listen to her tell me how I'm hateful. What do I do? My mother and I have always fought about me spending "too much time" with my past boyfriends, and she has also had extremely high expectations of me which has put a strain on our emotional relationship.