I have been with my current girlfriend since I was 19 (I am now 27) she is my first girlfriend. in the last year and a half we have run into several issues in our relationship and I don't think its going to work out anymore. When we started dating I told her I had HUGE memory problems, trouble picking up other peoples emotions, as well as picking up clues when people try to imply things to me. Normally all these things frustrate everyone including my friends, bosses, even my parents (I've even made my mom cry when she tries to get me to remember simple things) but she accepted everything about me. I was later diagnosed with aspergers and some other things, but that didn't seem to bother her. 2 years ago after a fight we moved in together and problems started. in the last year we moved to another apartment thinking things would get better. Things have only gotten worse (we even tried couples therapy) I've lost the passion at this point, but I think my girlfriend still cares for me. I know shes not happy, and I want her to be happy, but I'm not emotionally there anymore. At the same time I'm scared because I remember how hard it was to find someone who would accept me for all my bad habits and I've read online and here on yahoo answers about how hard it is for people with aspergers and other disabilities to find people who will accept them. I need to know (for the both of us) how to move on without being scared for the future.

My ex fiance (3 years ago) who I haven't talked to since around that time called me (I've had the same phone number for years) and told me that if I don't pay her money, she will tell my wife that I am sleeping with her. I don't think my wife would do this but regardless it looks really suspicious and if I were in my wife's position and someone told me that I'd still have trust issues.. I'm trying to figure out how to handle it. She said that she has pictures of facebook chats from years ago where we were "sexting".. I deleted all of my correspondence with her from then as it was a bad breakup and I didn't want the reminder (lesson learned) so I don't have a way to prove other wise maybe other than the phone bill which shows I haven't made any calls to her but still a weak case..

I hope this isn't too long, but here goes. In fifth grade, I received a fish tank for Christmas from my parents. This is when I was obsessed with fish (it was a phase) I dreamed fish and spent my ENTURE SUMMER researching gold fish and how to properly take care of them. In fifth grade, this was my whole life, I cared about it more than you could possibly imagine. After I got the tank, I spent about a year trying to keep my fish alive to no avail. The whole idea crashed and burned within twelve moths of getting the tank because I eventually gave up. And now I don't have that dream anymore and I want to get rid of it. Now, this is not a crappy tank. It comes fully equipped with a filter, filter media, pump, light, feeding door, stand.. Ect. It's 14 gallons and retails for about $350.00 in all. Today, I'm 14, and that wonderful fish tank has not had water in it for almost two years. It sits in my room in the same spot, everything is still connected and working. I've said that I'll get it up and running again, however, I'm not sure that I'll ever get around to it, mostly because I'm not so sure if I want to. So, here's my problem: I want to get rid of it but it saddens me so much because it's like a dream that never took flight, and I want to make it work, but at the same time I don't. Also, I'm scared that my parents will be disappointed that they spent all of that money, only to be left with five dead fish and a tank that is no longer wanted. 10 pts best answer!

So as summer arrives, I visited my sisters school ( she's a seventh grader) I saw that during her gym class she wore spandex and knee high boots ( that's just what she does) but for some reason while they were running there was a bunch of boys following her and stoping to do what looked like the waistband trick and then kept going. I pulled her aside and told her what happened and she told me that she saw them tucking their waistbands often but she never knew what for. what should I do?

I have a young women who is very close to me and does some work for me when she is home during summer break. Well, yesterday I overheard the girl telling someone that she had been let go from her job on campus because she didn't meet the gpa requirements. We had talked about this before since after finals she was feeling scared that she wouldn't make the requirements and needed someone to vent too. She is an amazing girl and has been through a lot in this last academic year two car accidents which resulted in her going to physical therapy three times a week, losing a friend to cancer, and then losing a close family member to sudden illness among other things. But she still tried her best with her grades and did things like going to tutoring sessions for her classes. This young lady was great at her job in fact even though she was the newest member she received the highest evaluation scores out of the staff. She loved her job and her residents more than anything else. Do you think that I should secretly ask the employer to give her another chance, I am willing to bet all of my money on her that she can get her gpa up to the requirements in one semester. The job that she has pays for her room and meal plan, but I'm so confident in her that if she doesn't bring up her grades I'll reimburse the university the money that they paid. As you can see I love this young lady and I know she has the potential to make this right, she just went through a rough patch is all. Thank you!

I'm a 16yo girl and i like the girl next door! no, i'm not a lesbian but i don't know what's got into me! the thing is she may not look like it but she's only 12! i like the way she looks, she moves, she talks and i always look for an excuse to invite her over! sometimes i play with myself thinking about her! i thinks i actually have strong feelings for her! but i don't know if i should talk to her about this? she's pretty mature for her age so i think she knows all about these stuff but i don't know how she will react! anyways, lately i was thinking i may be a pervert and this is all just some dirty thoughts i have because i don't have a boyfriend or something?! please help!

Are there many kinds of bonding?

He says their getting divorced and I think they are so everyone is bashing the wife who asked for the divorce but in case they get back together I don't want to bash her. Our uncle and aunt seperated once and it was the same thing, the wife asked for a divorce, so we bashed her and then the two got back together. When they were back together the aunt wanted nothing to do with her in-laws who'd bashed her for the first few years back together. So I don't want to make that mistake here. How do I show him support without bashing her?

This guy I was hooking up with we had sex for the first time together a few weeks ago and I bled on his penis a little. I hadn't had sex in months I told him and I told him I was so embarassed and he said not to be and that he wanted to make sure I was okay. But I haven't heard from him since and he hasn't responded to my texts. He is disgusted right? My guy friend said so.

This was like 2 years ago. But it came up in conversation with my friends and one of my friends told me it was definitely sexual assault. I didn't think so at the time but now I'm starting to question if it was. I was 16 and I went to a store and it was really late at night. This guy came up to me and kind of cornered me and it seemed like he was a little buzzed. He said that he was 26. He told me that he loved the way I looked and asked me if I worked out, and I said no and he was like "lemme see" so he pulled my jacket open (it wasnt zipped but it was still closed by the two flaps, had a tank top on under it though) So I grabbed it shut and told him to stop. I was young and stupid and he was like lemme get your phone number and I told him I didn't have a phone... Not thinking cause my phone was literally in my hand. He was like what's that then? And I was like my phone... So my stupid a** gave him my phone number. Again I was 16 and really scared I didn't know any better. Anyway, I was like ok I'm leaving and he was like wait give me a hug first. So I gave him a small hug but he squeezed me and I was like I have to go and pulled away from him. Then he was like "you look so soft" and he touched my breast. Like I had cleavage and he rubbed his hand on it. And it took me until that happened to grow a pair and say please don't touch me I have to go and I walked away. The next day I got a new phone number. But anyway, do you think this is sexual assault?

Me and my fiance got a home together. We was both working. I made 7.50 an hour and he made 9.25 an hour. We had to leave our dogs at home for long periods of time just to come home to a huge mess. It was my first ever job so it was the first time my dogs was home alone. I'm guessing they have separation anxiety because they tore up EVERYTHING and also they have never been away from me for more than 2 or 3 hours until I got that job. We bought a huge kennel and kept them in that while we was gone and the neighbors complained that they whined and howled the whole time. Working two completely different shifts was not an option because he worked 10-12 hours a day and I am defiantly NOT a night owl. luckily, a miracle happened and he got promoted and started making 15$ an hour and he told me to quit that he now has everything under control that I should just stay home and take care of our two dogs and the house. Even though he is now making more than enough to pay bills and even having money left over I still feel horrible. He talks about how good our lives are now but I just feel lazy and like i'm a burden to him.

So recently I was at the store and there was this woman there. She was a "Soccer mom" as she drove a nice SUV and was pushing her shopping cart with all her groceries in it. She had a big family that was for sure. Anyway so I started having a conversation with her and I asked her a simple question. I said "Do you like men with muscles and who are in shape? I work hard on my body and don't you like how my muscles look in my tight shirt? Im very sexy aren't I? You would love to rub these muscles yes?" Well she giggled and then told me "Its nice that you are in shape, but at my age all I really care about is my family, how much money my husband is bringing in, and the car and house that he can provide for me. Muscles don't buy me happiness. When I was younger and chasing boys, I really liked muscles. But now I really only care about what pays the bills."

He has forgave her so many times, yet she keeps breaking his heart. They are both 14 and she says she doesn t understand love and that she s just friends with all these other guys. My son has grown up in a relatively harsh environment, with him losing his mom, and that only makes him perseverate over women more. He says he can t lose another woman that he loves. I don t know what to do, I m lost, she continued to break him and then claims she didn t know what she did wrong. She then goes on to tell him how horrible she is and how he deserves better which only weighs him down more. Any advice?

she gets kinda angry at me too. and she keeps looking on what im looking at, at her phone. I do trust her but certain things she does bothers me and my trust for her.

-- all names are place names -- -- first + middle names -- Surname: Stockard, Parrish, Melbourne, Langley Dad: Israel, Phoenix, Kyle, Hudson, Ross Mom: Kimberly, Eden, Taylor, Amelia, Madeline Triplet 1: Shiloh, Courtney, Savannah, Shannon, Chelsea Triplet 2: Sierra, Sharon, Kelsey, Alexandria, Dakota Triplet 3: Leslie, Mallory, Kaya, Kendall, Lindsay Son: Carson, Dale, Camden, Orlando, Paxton Daughter: Amara, Brooklyn, Avalon, Lilith, India Daughter: Paris, London, Blair, Lara, Beverly Triplet 1: Shirley, Hayley, Deanna, Macy, Valencia Triplet 2: Kenya, Mali, Lourdes, Lorelei, Ainsley Triplet 3: Lorna, Ireland, Vienna, Sahara, Odessa Son: Dallas, Rio, Kingston, Lane, Cairo Daughter: Zola, Geneva, Sidney, Brighton, Catalina Son: Alden, Daryl, Devon, Kelby, Lakeland Daughter: Madeira, Quincy, Siena, Whitley, Theresa . Kyle Hudson Melbourne + Amelia Madeline Melbourne Savannah Shiloh Melbourne Kelsey Sierra Melbourne Kendall Mallory Melbourne Camden Carson Melbourne Brooklyn Lilith Melbourne Blair Lara Melbourne Macy Hayley Melbourne Lorelei Mali Melbourne Lorna Ireland Melbourne Lane Dallas Melbourne Geneva Brighton Melbourne Devon Alden Melbourne Siena Whitley Melbourne

here's the story, I've been living a peaceful life but 2 months ago a girl who I never knew sent me messages and harassed me constantly, I blocked like 4 of her accounts and she kept making new ones to send me hate messages. Apparently, my cousin which I'm very close to, is having an affair with this womans husband for 2 years already and this guy is married to the woman who has been harassing me, they have kids too. My cousin is just 19, now I want to tell her parents what she's been up to, because I told her a million times that she has to stop, she doesn't wanna listen and every night she cries about it. She's so stupid, I was planning on making an account and tell her parents to do it anonymously but I'm scared that karma will come for me. and I suck at telling lies, like big time.

i'm having all sorts of blacked out memories of him violating me surfacing to concious and I want to go make sure I sh!t all over his pedophilic grave, even if it is just a plaque and not really his remains in it (as they were supposedly shoved off to sea, being a military idiot that he is. I'm well into my years not ever molesting anyone, thanks for the concern, now, how do I find the ******* grave? My parents are dead to me, also, abusive satanists, as he was.

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

I'm finally coming to terms with my rape that occurred four years ago. I chose not to report it because the guy who did it had been a close friend. I chose instead to just cut off contact. I've only told a total of three people that I was raped, my current boyfriend, one of our mutual friends, and an online penpal. Only one knows the rapists identity. My parents and I are not very emotionally open. The idea of telling them frightens me. I can't predict how they will react. The longer I wait the more difficult I think it will become. I love my parents and I know that they love me, I just don't know how to go about it.

Que pasa? Puedo quedar embarazada? Aún sin que se venga dentro de mi? Paso hoy con mi pareja pero no eyaculo dentro de mi

I've been dating a man who unbeknownst to me is married. We met one day when I was walking home in the neighborhood after grocery shopping. He lives in the neighborhood too and approached me, introduced himself, chatted for a while and exchanged numbers. He was very polite and friendly. We've gone on dates since and he's always been a gentleman. Well I recently decided to look him up on Facebook, and Google and was horrified to find that he's been married for 8 years, with 3 children including a 1 year old baby girl! He professes his love to her on Facebook and I doubt she knows what he's up to. I also found out that he lied about his age - he's 50 but told me he was 42! I am a 25 year old woman but I look even younger than my age which makes me wonder why he ever approached me to begin with. I confronted him about this but he just said he "married her for papers" which is obviously a lie. I'm so upset about this and feel bad for his wife. My question is how do I go about handling this? Do I let his wife know? They seem happily married and I don't understand how someone can disrespect the person they love like that.

I'm not sure I want to go on the date now. To be honest it would be pointless because I cannot have a serious relationship with someone who says the see and talk to ghosts. I am trying to figure out the best way to handle this without offending her. Please no answers trying to convince me ghosts are real, this isn't about that. Its about the fact that I don't see us being together in six months from now.

Everyone KNOWS that jealous and envy are green-eyed monsters that ruin your life. That doesn't mean that envious and jealous thoughts won't hit at one time or another.... Seemingly veryone around my age (22)are pairing up and starting lives together, which is great. Except for the few, like me, who are not. Now, I know that it's wrong, selfish, etc., to feel envious. But it's not that I'm not happy for them. It's just that I'd like to feel that sort of happiness, too! You know, join in on the fun. There are even family members younger than me who are beginning to date...and I just can't help but wonder if there really is something wrong with me. And if their happiness at this time happens to coincide with another person being romantically in their life, I just feel that others perceive that I'm just doing life wrong and not "where I should be". Again, it's not that I'm annoyed that others are in relationships. I just wish that maybe I could have that special someone and do cute stuff with him this summer, etc. I know, I know.. "I'll find him when the timing is right.." How do I respond to people coupling up, both with respecting them and their happiness but being happy with myself just as much!?! I mean, is it selfish to want to be happy, too? --- Solo Sister *jealousy *everyone gahhhh...sorry for the errors Dx

There is a guy that has liked me since we were in preschool, and now we are in high school. Even though I had told him clearly that i don't like him in that way several times, he continued to be very in-my-personal-space every time i saw him. A year ago he stopped having a crush on me, but now he is just mean. Every time i see him now (which is a few times a week) he constantly makes fun of me. I have been putting up with it for about a year. Every time he called me a name i just ignored it. Today he kept calling me names and telling me i was doing everything wrong, so I finally stood up for myself, only for him to laugh at me. I pointed out how he called me "A dingus, ugly, loser, stupid, used trash, and an idiot" all in the course of 2 hours. But he said that he was just joking around and i needed to learn how to take a joke. I looked to my brother and the adults around me for some sort of support but they all said the same thing. "He's not serious","You are too sensitive""Learn how to take a joke""He's just mean because he probably still likes you" I finally stand up to someone when they are treating me badly and all I get in return is for everyone to say that I am the one with the problem. ANd one Guy even mentioned how he was allowed to be mean to me because i turned him down when he asked me on a date. I never stand up for myself and am miserable but when i do get angry i get made fun of even more. And i can't stop seeing this guy because he is a family friend.

I'm the youngest kid out of 5. I have 3 brothers and a sister. My older sister is really pretty and super nice and really fun to be around, yet she rarely pays attention to me. I used to worship her and do everything to appease her, but now since I'm older I try to dial it back a bit. How do I (subtly) get her to love hanging out with me?

I'm an incoming senior, a girl. I had a (male) teacher freshman year, we got super close. He helped me through an extremely tough time in my life that year, I needed tons of surgeries, he was the only teacher who was there to help me. This last day of school was super emotional, he said he was moving which means he won't be here my senior year. We took pictures together, he was getting choked up telling me Goodbye & how I was his favorite student, is go so far etc.. I forgot to ask him for an address because I wanted to invite him to my graduation next year. I tried contacting him through school email but they were already closed, I ended up asking a teacher for his email but they gave me his phone# instead. I texted him explaining who gave me his number and why I needed to contact him (to send him a graduation invite). He ended up saying "Yes of course I would love to go see you graduate next year! Here's my address ________ save it! I hope you are having an awesome summer" How do you think he felt about that? do you think he might've been weirded out by it?

So this person commented something offensive to me and many other people people and it made me feel really bad so i told him to kys i regret it now though because he started getting aggressive can I get into trouble? I did apologize to him and explained myself.

so I told them the rate was $12 meaning $12 an hour but they thought I meant $12 for the 2 hours so that s what they paid me how can I tell them that I meant $12 per hour without seeming rude.

I ve been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He s been going through the divorce process since September of 2014. Lots of back and forth between lawyers and mediations. Thousands of dollars. They can t agree on anything. He shares two children with her. A 7 year old girl and an 10 year old boy. Prior to deciding on a temporary visitation agreement in August of 2015, she refused to allow him to see his children or allow them to come over. I finally met them September of 2015. She won t allow the children to talk to their Dad between visits. She has demanded $1000 a month in child support, only allows him to have visitation 8 days a month. She s had cops come to our house to do wellness checks as well as refusing to give the children to him on his scheduled time. I m getting a little impatient waiting for everything to be finalized. The pre-trial is finally in a couple days but then the trial date has to be set. I ve tried to get along with her and she gets very ugly and throws all these accusations and threats out there. I know his "ex" is going to be in our lives forever. I don t even want to be in the same room as her because of everything. She s trying to turn the kids against their Dad. I never pictured things to be this way. I m trying not to lose faith and trust that God has a plan. But it s all I think about. I ve never been married. I want that magical moment so bad. I love this man and know he is the I one I want to spend forever with.

Would this have been a betrayal of my brother as we haven't seen her since they divorced 8 years ago and he is remarried? He and his ex did not have any kids together and were married four years.

Ive been flirting with this guy for the past couple of years. We tend to be very comfortable with looking at each other and being close and touching eachother. We text a couple times a week. On a few occasions he has grabbed my *** and also gives me lots of compliments. One party in particular we were at together he started rubbing me on my thigh and on my crotch over my jeans for the extent of the party. It has never gotten farther than that, and we have never kissed on the lips, though he has kissed my hand. We have never addressed our feelings for each other. I can sense he knows I like him, but I don't know whether or not he likes me. One issue is that he is in a relationship and has been for five years. Would you think the relationship I have with him would be considered him cheating on his girlfriend. I don't mean to flirt with a guy in a relationship but I admire him a lot and find myself very sexually attracted to him to the point where I just forget he is in a relationship. So would you think that he is cheating on his girlfriend with the way our relationship is?

They crashed into my parked dart and totaled it I only got 2500 for the loss and I kept the salvage since I couldn t let go of the car. I can get 300 dollars for having them tow it away. What else can I do with it? Maybe store it somewhere or sell it somewhere?? Please help!!

I went to my friends house I've known him for a super long time and we are both 17. So basically, we were chilling and everything was fine and our parents went out for dinner and we stayed back and we just watched a movie. I usually lay on his bed all the time and nothing ever happens but today It was super weird. Out of nowhere he started playing with my hair and telling me I was really pretty, and I just kinda laughed it off but I did say thank you. Then he stopped being weird but as the movie was going on I was kinda falling asleep at one point and he kissed me it was weird and I didn't know what to make of it and then at the point I tried to stand up and he like pinned my hands down and I wasn't worried at that point it was whatever but it was hard to push him off considering he plays rugby and his a lot taller than me. I told him to get off me and he just kept smiling and was saying no and then he started to like kiss my neck which I didn't like at all and I tried using my legs to kick him off but nothing was working he then said he wouldn't get off me till I kissed him and at this point I knew things weren't right his my friend. I have lots of guy friends who don't want kisses from me so now I'm here like what exactly is he trying to do? Like is he trying to make things awkward and ruin the friendship? I don't want to make things awkward and I also don't want to ruin anything I've known him since we were 4. I don't really know how to go by it. The whole situation is just super weird, I did kiss him though once I figured it I couldn't get off him so did I do something wrong too? He didn't get off me though he just used all of his body weight on top of me and he kept his mouth there and was using his hands to pin down my waist I tried using my hands to push his face off but nothing was working.

Apparently, my man has a problem. Our relationship is crazy. I found him attractive and I needed someone to love me because I was so lonely and depressed. It's been a year since I lost my husband who cheated on me and now im losing a relative to stage 4 lung cancer ..we've been dating...for six months...i cant even call him my man because he lives with a woman . OMG! Recently, i notice that he is acting different since I stopped having sex with him. He told me that he was going to find someone else because I dont give him attention. I just looked at him and said "Really!" And i kept walking. he sometimes looks at other women. When we're at work he flirts with this female coworker who im cooil with. He is a lot older than me and I wonder if he is going through a midlife crisis. He said that he lived with a woman and they're not together but I'm no fool. We haven't had sex in a month because I just don't feel comfortable habingdon sex wother a man who lIves with a woman. Ive kept my distance for about a month and he asked me what was wrong with me and if I had someone else. Really! How can he expect to have a relationship with me? He has someone to go home to and I dont. Now, he is leaving crazy voice mails on my phone asking me where I'm moving to and where my new job is etc. And saying that he can't handle breaking up with me and that we're in a relationship. What? I never even been over his house. Can someone please help me understand his mindset what is going on here?

Well my parents are just harassing me they are enforcing their beliefs on me I am an an atheist but can't even breath all I can hear from them Islam and Islam and Islam so they forced me to convert or I would be killed do u have any suggestions???

I'm currently 16 years old and i just finished up my junior year of high school, passing all except one of my classes. I currently have a 2.4 gpa( i know horrible) and i don't know what to do about college. Where i live, community college is looked down upon, i don't really like the idea of going either and I'm really interested in moving back to Florida and attending whatever school in Florida ( believe it or not some schools still give horrible students like me a chance), the problem is there's NO MONEY. My parents( who aren't together cant afford to help me pay for college). I begged my mother to allow me to have a job, but she wont allow it because of my grades( Which really doesn't make sense considering holding a job really wouldn't make much of a difference in my performance anyways, can you believe i had the opportunity to work at SEARS, and she said no, like the manager literally said i had the job. My plan was to save up at least $2000 for a down payment and first 3 months rent on an apartment but after i told her that information she immediately made me stop my job search, its almost likes she want to hinder my progress. Update: i'm 16 going on 17 in September and my brother i still have a bedtime at 9:30( ridiculous, i cant get ANY homework finish, as i took 2 AP classes this year and the course load is heavy and requires A LOT of TIME,not to mention her snatching my laptop). So now my plan is to join Rotc Update 2: program at whatever college accepts me in order to pay for school. I know my mother makes to much for me to qualify for FASFA. I just don't think i can live here anymore(she's always negative, putting me down, She grew up really poor and believes that sense i didn't have to grow up her circumstances that life is perfect, its like she doesn't understand the emotional side of being a parent not just taking care of your kids financially. Update 3: And on top of this I tried to harm myself but before i did i called the suicide hot line and she got super pissed. She refuses to listen to me when i tell her about my troubles. She made me move to the same school as my brother this year and its so MUCH worse than my old school as far as bullying. Update 4: I honestly don't think i can spend my last year at this school. i tried to ask if i can be home schooled on line and my mother said shes scared might turn our house into a "whore house"( I'm a virgin by the way). I started skipping my 3rd period class earlier this year(she found out and went crazy, i skipped to avoid the bullying in the class) I seriously don't Know what to do. I'm considering running away but i know that would only make things worse so then the next option is to kill myself.

everytime my neighbor leaves he revs his engine while looking at my house...he is doing it on purpose to harass me...should i ask if he has a problem with me? I live alone and he has his brother and wife so it would be 3 against one.. I am so tired of it and i know he has a problem with me but i don't know why...i want to do something about it but i don't know what

So it all started back in December. When I told all my friends that I liked this guy named Josh. Me and him started talking and it seemed like he really liked me to. January of 2016 I decided to move in with some roomates and during that month I worked a lot. I was always tired and I always wanted him to sleep next to me basically everyday. Me and him would get into arguments because I believe I liked him too much to the point that I wanted him to always be with me. But we also argued about different things. I would always bring up the question of when are we going to start dating and he said he wasn't ready. Mostly because he got out of a 4 year relationship. But yet we would do couple things like kiss and everything. It got to the point where we would argue every week because he always spent time with my bestfriend. They would say they are really good friends but I always thought he liked her. Even my roomates would think that too because of the way they acted. I confronted both of them about it and they said that they didn't like each other it's just that they were really good friends. But it seems like he's there for her more than he is for me. I have stayed up till 6 in the morning worrying about him and also when he gets sick, but when it came to me he would say he's tired or he has to get up early for work. Now he stays up till 4 am to hang out with everyone and when it's me and him he says he's tired. I don't know what I should do. Or what I should tel him.