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- Question: How come my mom finds joy in undermining me when i have friends over.?
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| Question: How come my mom finds joy in undermining me when i have friends over.? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 05:53 PM PDT i was in the car with my friend and she thinks its entertaining and funny to yell at me and call me stupid and be very rude to me when i have friends around. its sick because she finds it entertaining. when my friends are not over she is not like this. she is still rude but not CONSTANTLY yelling at me and calling me stupid. here is an example, i get absolutely no joy in reading books that are meant to entertain you. i just find the boring. i will read if i have to, like if I'm in school or have a reading assignment, but i will not enjoy it.my mom constantly yells at me and calls me a stupid person because of this and that i will end up working at walmart. ( i have all A's) but here is an example: " oh look mom, its a cute dog in the street, oh wait sorry i meant to say dog" and then she yells at me calling me retarded and that " i would know the difference if i enjoyed books." I DOT ENJOY READING and i can't force myself to enjoy something. its just impossible. an she just yells at me making me look stupid in front of my friend and then looks at my friend smiling, expecting a reaction of them laughing in enjoyment of her undermining her own child. it just doesnt make any sense to me. sorry for the rant^^ |
| Question: Why do girls go out in public and complain about getting groped and catcalled? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 05:31 PM PDT when it is expected and common as breathing. it is pretty much exactly like if I decided to hang a piece of meat around my neck and jump into a pool with a shark, and then be surprised when the shark tries to eat me if you don't want it you should go with your boyfriend or male friend or brother. This is just one of the prices of being a pretty girl just another example of girls crying over nothing. Really is ridiculous and laughable |
| Question: What to do during the summer? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 05:24 PM PDT I'm a 19 y/o college freshman w/ no friends. What to do? Any Ideas? |
| Question: I was not invited to my friend's wedding? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 05:19 PM PDT We are friends since 9th grade but we're not as close since we've graduated. We still keep in touch though. We went shopping a few months ago and text and call each other often. She's the only "friend" I kept from high school so I still can't get over the fact that she did not invite me to her wedding. The worst part about this whole story is that I only learned she got married on instagram where I saw pictures of her in a wedding dress and her sister, some random girls and another girl from high school as bridemaids. When I congragulated her via text message she saw but didn't text back. Does she feel bad or should I just move on? |
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| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:37 PM PDT Like a family member of mine had a partner leave them recently and on some level I knew it happened anyway (it was obvious) and my friend was asking me what did I think of the whole situation and I simply said " it doesn't bother me, I'm not the one who is married and it has absolutely no effect on my life. Is it kind of selfish of me not to care? |
| Question: How can I have a good summer? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:33 PM PDT Last year I lived 1 mile away from my best friend. We would wak places like stores near us and parks and wander around. She stayed at my house for like weeks at a time! We had the best summer ever! In Janurary I moved to a place 30 minutes away. Neither of us are old enough to drive but we still want to have a summer as fun as last year s! I feel all sad and don t think we can have good summer and don t know what to do ! Help please! |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:32 PM PDT Whenever she helps me my friend Abby wants me to pat her head. It's like she's seeking approval, or a sign of affection. So I pat Abby's head and she just gives me this cute smile of thanks and in return gives me a hug. What's her deal? I'm a guy just so you know. |
| Question: Was I wrong? Please be honest.? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:29 PM PDT I need for people to be completely honest with me. I used to communicate with this really nice guy through Instagram. He's an activist like myself. I would defend his heritage and culture just like he would defend mines (before this incident of course). Some months back, I saw one of his friends making some very prejudiced remarks towards people in Jamaica. So I messaged him through Instagram, asking him if he could check his friend on his bull crap. He tells me "sorry, sis. I would prefer not to get involved. One of the reasons for me retiring from my Instagram account was to not have to deal with petty bull crap from people of my own community." I became angry at him because I would always check my people for being prejudiced towards his people (Native Americans). So that's when I messaged him "Okay. Thanks for showing me how you really feel. I understand." Then I blocked him. After about 15 minutes, I began to feel bad. So that's I unblocked him and apologized for the way I lashed out at him. No response. About a month later, he makes a huge comeback on Instagram. I was excited for him. Underneath one of his photos, I post "I always knew that you would make a comeback. Thank you for enlightening us with your knowledge. Again, I apologize for what happened a while back. I don't blame you if you don't respond back." When I go to his page, I was blocked. what do you guys think? Was he in his right to block me? Or is he just revealing himself to be an asshole? I feel as if he could've accepted my apology. I apologized twice for goodness sakes. I even thought about messaging him from my personal account. but I'm not doing that. I don't kiss ***. |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:26 PM PDT Growing up, I never had someone to look up to. I've always wanted an older brother to take care of me and be my best friend, well I never got one not even a big brother figure for me. I am blessed with 2 younger brothers that I love so much! but we are so different and we never really like the same stuff, we are always fighting and sometimes they act like children. I just want someone mature and quiet. My brothers are really loud and it bothers me that I dont have anyone to talk to. I've been mature since I was a kid, I never really hung out with others. I have a best friend right now but we are rarely hanging out for some reason. Sometimes I just feel that my life will change some day but now im just hopeless. |
| Question: How do I confront my friend about lying to me? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:22 PM PDT For junior prom, my friends and I went down the shore to one of my friend's shorehouse. For senior prom, she was talking to me about going there again. However, a few weeks before the weekend we were supposed to go down, she told me (and everyone else, according to her) that her grandparents did not want to do it two years in a row and that we were no longer going. I was suspicious, but I didn't have any real proof so I decided to just ask everyone individually if our friend told them the same thing. They all agreed that she had told them that it had been cancelled. Therefore, I made plans with other friends not in that group for the weekend and didn't think much of it. Then today I'm on one of the other girl's Facebook pages, and there's a picture of everyone who was supposed to go down that weekend except for me and five others posing on the Boardwalk of the beach we went to my junior prom that was posted the weekend after prom. Now how do I confront her about this properly? I'm graduating from high school in a week so I really don't care if she turns around and cuts me out of her life or something crazy like that. I realize that it's immature to scream at her or anything like that so I'm not planning on doing that. But I'm certainly not letting it pass by because "I want to be peaceful" either. Any advice is appreciated. |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:15 PM PDT The very little things are what I need; love and affection. I st in my room all day, and of course I do a few things here and there. I'm going into my junior year this year, and it's not the school I want to continue. I want to lose weight and enter a new school. I want to have nice beatific new things. I know it sounds like I'm being "materialistic" but I'm not. It's what I need. I have so much on my mind that's it's driving me to insanity. I live with a dysfunctional family, so it's hard to get the things that are a necessity in life. You know. Just I need someone to talk to and to give me advice. |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 04:14 PM PDT My friend said they cancelled it is that true? |
| Question: Jerked of with friend, ADVICE AND INFO? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 03:18 PM PDT Hy! a friend of mine came over (we are both straight) and we were talking and talking... then at once we were talking about masturbating, nothing wrong, right? But then he said that his show was going to start so he tried to leave to downstairs (we were at my room). He was walking weard so i askes if there was something and then he told that he got horny of talking about masturbating.. I asked if he needed to jerk himself of and he said that he realy needed to do it today. So i suggested that he could do it here. He came back in my room and after we talked, we decided to jerk of togheter. He joked about jerking each otter of, i said that we COULD do that, and then he asked if we weren t going to tell anyone. So we pulled of our pantses together (his dick was kinde huge..) and then i started to jerk of him, and asked if we were doing blowjobs. He said that if it was fast, so i sucked his dick.. Then when he came, and we cleaned it up, i asked to jerk me of. He did but he "couldn t suck my dick, he just couldn t". I didn t made a problem of it and let him jerk me of. When i came, he just wanted to get out and told me that he was not feeling well by this. I told him me neither (now i am kind a happy that we did it...) (but i m not gay!). I just wanted to ask what you think and have some advice. I m also scared he is going to tell it to someboady... Thanks! (sorry for the bad englisch..) |
| Question: How to break off so called friendships? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 03:17 PM PDT If people didn't care for me then why would anyone care for me now. Kindness is just a facade. One friend said that I'm one of her closest friends and says that I'm a good person but then says she's afraid of me. That doesn't make any ******* sense. If you fear someone you shouldn't be friends with them. Oh well. If I'm feared then that's who I am. Christian is gone. There is only CARNAGE. |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 03:15 PM PDT At school one time a girl came up to me and randomly gave me a hug. She said I'm quiet and quieter then the boy in the room that barely talks or makes a sound. No one has ever heard him talk before. She said I'm more quiet then him which is weird because I ask questions and I participate. The boy I knew since middle school and elementary school was in the class too when she said that. I could tell by his face that he agreed with her because I have always been quiet since elementary and middle school and I felt like he was thinking something negative when the girl said this. I even felt like everyone in the class was thinking something negative of me and thought I wasn't cool. It even embarrassed me and the teacher started talking to me in a certain way. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: Is my friend misleading me? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 03:09 PM PDT I ask my friend to hangout with me on thursday and she said she can't, she already have plans with her other friend. I asked her again 2 weeks later, she said she can't, she have finals. I asked her 3 weeks after she finish her finals, and she told me she had school. I waited until she was finish with school then I asked her to hangout, she said she can't because she might be hanging out with a friend. I asked her 3 weeks later, she said she can't, she have volunteer that day. 1. Should I even bother asking her to hangout? 2. It this a wrong thought process, after they finish what they say they are doing that day, they would hangout with you afterwards? What is the right thought process of a person wanting to hangout with you? 3. Is she a poor friend or am I assuming too much? It's been years of excuses and she still says "I can't, because *insert reason*". 4. Does she actually want to hangout with me at all? If she doesn't, how come she just can't tell me that? I've been waiting for years to hangout with her. 5. What would you do if you were me? |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 02:54 PM PDT ok so was a abandon orfan, i don't what my ethnic background is. who should i side with, or am i just an alien |
| Question: What do you think about this? Advice please? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 02:52 PM PDT Woman A gets cancer. She tells everyone, and I mean everyone... All her friends and family. She tells everyone in her church, she tells her new neighbours who moved in, she tells literally everyone. Even when she was trying to sell her house, she told her estate agency. Is it the best? I can come across as stubborn as I always think I know best, but is this (my) viewpoint not better? In a situation like this, you only tell your true family members e.g. siblings and very close friends. You don't know who is who, who is secretly rejoicing. I also don't like the idea of people pitying woman A and her family, and having so much access to their personal life - woman A family is an open book. Or am I wrong? I just feel that the way she went about this is not the best, why should she tell everyone? NO it is not nothing to be ashamed about and it is not a secret, but it is good for in situations like this just tell close family and close friends, I don't like the family to become a pity party or open book. The people she have told have all been so supportive, cooking/helping/praying/giving her lots and lots of money - but I just feel it degrades her and she has now become a charity case. Or am I wrong? Please I am young and willing to take correction. If a girl goes to a night vigil someone will think that is good, but if woman A daughter goes to night vigil people will look at her like "aw poor girl she is going to prayer for her mother" they now will just associate this family with sickness and pity.Or am I wrong? |
| Question: I don't know why they hate me? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 02:41 PM PDT 1 thing you need to know - I met these people online. Okay, so, I met Ann about 8 months ago. We were good friends, and then I was racist to her soon to be boyfriend, Harry, and so she stopped talking to me. I told Bob (her ex boyfriend) some things, and he told her. So, 1 month later, Ann texted me saying, "omg pls hows the baby?" (I told her ex i was pregnant because I was just pissed. So we were friends again, for like, 2 months, and then I cause some drama between Bob and his new girlfriend, and Harry, Ann's boyfriend, starts cussing me out and then they both stop talking to me for 4 more months.And so when I do crap, it's horrible. But when Harry does crap, it's okay. Here are some things Harry did, which were equal to what I did: -Sent a guy after me to ask for nudes -Made fun of my pregnancy, made fun of rape -Called me worthless and nothing -Causes drama like me, but apparently that's okay??? -also participated in drama I was in but that's okay for him??? -treated ann like s**t because she told him she was talking to me but that's okay??? and here are things i did -i was always there for Ann but that's not important??? -caused drama -hurt ann -was racist and ann: -sided with harry when he treated her like crap -always told me it was my fault -participated in the drama harry and i participated in what do you think? they said they would be okay with me coming back in like, 7, months, once I've "changed", but i'm pretty sure harry needs to change too. what do you think? |
| Question: What to say to a suicidal and homocidal and depressed best bestest friend? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 02:30 PM PDT |
| Question: How do girls make friends with each other? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 02:27 PM PDT I really don't understand how girls become friends. Girls usually seem to be put off by me. What is it? Is there some unspoken girl code that I've never picked up on? |
| Question: Is it bad that i don't want to go to a friends dads funeral? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 02:25 PM PDT Like some people are better off dealing with stuff by themselves right? |
| Question: Not happy with my life? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 01:59 PM PDT I'm 18 going on 19. I haven't hangout with anybody in about a week. I usually hangout wit the same one kid. I have a few friends but I don't go out really. I have never had sex. I am singlw. Nobody is honestly attrated to me. I xan be very a awkward. I am afraid of making a crappy home or something usually so I don't say anything.im just not happy. |
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| Question: How to get over being a homebody & homesickness?? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 01:38 PM PDT this summer my friend invited me to go on vacation with her family. we live in Texas and are driving to Florida. I don t usually get "homesick" at sleepovers but most of the time at sleepovers it takes me HOURS to fall asleep and I am always so tired the next day from barely getting sleep. so I am very anxious to go on the trip because it is 9 days long so i don t want to be awake all night for those days. and I am a homebody I do tend to miss my home and bed when I am awake at the sleepover and everyone else is asleep. I just don t know what to do because I know if I am awake during the night far away from my parents and home I will get anxious and freak out. I hope this all makes sense but what can I do to maybe help me feel comfortable during the trip and not be homesick? and how can I fall asleep at sleepovers and on the trip quick and easily? because we will be going to the beach like everyday I will be miserable if I get no sleep. please help thank you!!! |
| Question: I think this summer will be awful.? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 01:26 PM PDT First of all I always put some people first, people who put me second.I'm their second choice.And sometimes I feel lonely around my friends.For some reason when I tell them to go for a movie/walk/coffee they are just never in the mood.And where I use to go for summer holidays, I'm not having fun, never.I think I want to stay home for this summer but I'll hate my life and I'ill be so bored all summer with all of them gone for holidays.(but I'll hate my life anyway, gone for summer or not)Idk how I am supposed to feel and what to do. |
| Question: I feel like I can't trust anyone. Help!? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 01:15 PM PDT I've been feeling really depressed lately and I feel like I cannot trust anyone, even some of my closest friends, I still have some skepticism over. I have been stabbed in the back many times I life, many of my former friends I have trusted then they turned on me for no reason. Anytime I don't hear back from my friends in a while, it always makes me question whether or not someone is mad at me. Why am I having these thoughts? Help! |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 12:45 PM PDT We have a couple in their 50's that are frugal but make good money that we sometimes do things with. I asked the husband if they wanted to come to a concert with us and he said yes. I sent he and his wife the ticket location and prices and asked if they were ok with this. She replied ok with me so I bought the $100 tickets which totaled $200 for their tickets. I noticed that they never offered to pay me for the tickets so I started questioning him the day before and he reluctantly told me that he would pay me. After we got to the concert last night, I asked him where was my cash so that could buy beer because I did not bring cash since he said he would pay me. He said nothing and walked up to the bar and bought me a beer. I said thanks but where is my 200.00 dollars? His wife jumped in and said oh we were going to write you a check. I replied that "your husband told me he was going to give me cash". The husband then jumped in and reluctantly pulled $100.00 out of his wallet and said here, I'll give you 100.00 today. I was livid. After all of the expensive parties we through at our house and invited them where they came empty handed every time, I thought I would be the last person he would try to snake out of paying. I decided last night that our friendship is over. Since I gave them the ticket prices up front and asked if they were ok with it, isn't it tacky of them to run a miser like avoidance of their ticket share? Your thoughts? |
| Question: Is he interested in me? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 12:42 PM PDT The guy I like got my number and texted: let's hang out! Talk to you soon. Is he interested and do I have to contact him or is he saying he will contact me? |
| Question: Am i immature for a 23 Year Old? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 12:40 PM PDT So i suppose i don't mean maturity in how i act but I was looking up some old class mates, a lot who seem to have kids and are married (same year group so 23 now), I consider myself fairly mature in that i have a full time job and studied well in college but seeing how some people are already married or having kids and I'm only just happy with a decent job, having a laugh with friends when we hang out and such. I suppose im really asking, am i behind for my age in that i enjoy hanging with friends and just living by the day or should i really be more into looking for a partner by now (obviously open to finding someone but i am not exactly going out my way either) or is it more just some grow up quicker than others... |
| Question: How can I stop being a stick in the mud? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 12:10 PM PDT Serious answers only please. I get accused of being a stick in the mud by my boyfriend and his friends sometimes. I m not offended by it because I know it s true. My friends and I have always been reserved, shy people who don t stick out in a crowd or make our presence known by being loud or jumping into the fun. I don t want to be this person forever. I want to let my inner wild side come out around other people. What can I do to get over my shy nature, just be me, and just be fun to be around without being a stick in the mud. Thanks so much to anyone who answers! :) |
| Question: HELP ME FRIEND PROMBLE? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 12:07 PM PDT So yesterday my Instagram got hacked .. And it got access to my account and tag people in this mean thing and it was like too ugly people on Instagram so it tag this girl aka it tag most of my followers... I never knew about till later when everyone got mad at me for something I didn't do the girl is my friend and she is now not believing that some hacked it she was like there's no proof and if u tag me in it again I will tell the teacher but it was never me! Then she was like don't talk to me anymore and then she blocked me and in school she completely ignored me:( |
| Question: Anybody else posted a embarrassing video/photo on social media and not mean to? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 12:06 PM PDT i posted this video of me laughing it meant to go on my private acc jus for friends but it went on my public acc and i had the video up for a hour and a lot of people saw it , now i disabled my ig because im so embarrassed |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:59 AM PDT So a few years ago I was invited by a friend to come with him to the neighborhood he grew up in. It was located in the city and he introduced me to people there. At first they were nice and so forth. They even invited me to join a social club that they belonged to. Well so a little time passes and I put together an event for the club. I organized it and sold tickets and all the members were excited to go to it. Well when they went one of the founding members of the club thought he could get smart with me along with another member and in front of everyone I told them to go F themselves and even chased after them and confronted him about it. So after that happened no one from that club wanted to associate with me anymore. So when I go to the neighborhood since most of those people live there they give me the cold shoulder. Even though the guy was the first one to give me the finger and tell me to go F Myself before I even said a word to him. Why? |
| Question: I need a friend. Can you please be my friend? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:56 AM PDT Hi, I have no friends, both online and irl but I really do need someone to talk to, or someone to listen to. Just someone to interact with. It's been long since I had friends and I feel like it's right to do so. I'm a good listener though. I'll post my email later or you can post yours and I can message you. Thank you and have a nice day. |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:52 AM PDT Hi guys I am starting secondary school in 4months and are really scared because I know nobody I have never been very popular in my class but not a loner but new school means new start and friends how do i not mess up and be a freek because this not in my class *popular* says the loner in the class knows more people then me please please please help |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:49 AM PDT ever since she started dating some friend of ours she doesn't go out unless he goes she stop talking to close friends we've been friends since we were 5 and now I only talk to her when I see her at work because she also seemed to completely forget I exist at times |
| Question: My friend is pregnant by our mutual friend. Am I wrong to not feel bad for either of them? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:39 AM PDT So she vented to me...they were "together" for 4 months. I didn't even know they were officially dating and neither did our friends...but they moved in together and she helped him get a job...and they had a lot of sex. But now he has broken up with her...and she says it isn't fair....but I don't feel bad. Am I wrong????? 4 months isn't long enough to do jack with someone...but et pregnant. Now she is pregnant and he already has 2 kids....by 2 other women, one being her best friend....He used her right? She knew this but was blinded.... |
| Question: Whats happening between me and my friend? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:38 AM PDT So me and my friend are the best of friends. We pretty much do everything together. But, towards the last three weeks of school (right around the time i started talking to this new guy but we didn't work out) she started drifting away from me. She barely talked to me at lunch and started inviting other people places when she knew i was completely free and up to hang out. She started acting like i was being completely annoying and she even called me out on something that annoyed her about me in front of the class (and she knows i have generalized anxiety disorder and getting called out on something in front of people is my worst fear and makes me want to cry). Recently, shes only been texting me when she needs to tell me to do something or has a question and she only invites me places if her first choice person cant go. I feel like shes mad about something or is annoyed at me or doesn't want to hang out anymore. I don't know what to do please help. P.S. - She always gets mad at me (and she CONSTANTLY brings this up) because last summer i hung out with some of my other friends more than her (which I've apologized for multiple times and i regret doing that to her and she knows that) but now shes doing the same thing and i don't know why |
| Question: Is this social anxiety? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:20 AM PDT I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm usually really out going and good around a lot of people that I don't know but lately for some reason I HATE being around big groups of people I don't know. For example we have a cabin at a lake and the lake is usually very crowded and if their are other people on that part of the lake I won't go and have my parents turn around and take me back to the cabin & I play tennis and my mom signed me up for a tennis camp with high school students because I will be playing on the high school team but just thinking about being with a group of people and playing in front of everyone makes me want to break down in tears. I feel like all eyes are on me. I'm out going with my friends though so what's wrong with me??? Thank you |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:14 AM PDT Ok, so this friend I have, her name is Vicky. My name is Marianna. Anyway, Vicky is 12. Recently, she got a boyfriend who is 14. His name is Steve. Vicky blows me off for Steve almost everyday. She is always talking about him because she is apparently in love with him. They've already talked about marriage. I'm getting really tired of being blown off but when I do hang out with Vicky all I hear is Steve, Steve and Steve. I get how she's excited about her boyfriend but its been six months and this is still happening. She celebrates everyday as their anniversary. They got each other presents for their three week anniversary. Somebody tell me what to do?! |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 11:11 AM PDT Tell me stories about nicknames you've gotten,or given to a friend,and how/why |
| Question: Why does my friend act like this? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 10:57 AM PDT Ive been friends with her since 2nd grade. Im in my freshman year of high school. She argues with me over EVERYTHING. Small little things, even things I know Im right about. And Im not someone who has to prove their correct, but she tries to tell me Im wrong "And I don't know what Im f-cking talking about." Like for 4 days, she's neen arguing over the pronunciation of names. (if someone could answer that question, thanks). And I hate fighting, but she wont get off my case. What should I do? I dont want to just cut her off, we've been friends forever. This is recent too, just about 3 months. Thanks :) |
| Question: Have I been thinking too much? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 10:55 AM PDT Lately my friends have kind of left me behind. Even my two best friends who I've known since elementary school have been going out without me. Of course they've been talking to me at school but I'm sure that's just because they want to be nice, since I already know that they don't want to hang out with me. On top of that me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot lately, almost every day and I feel like he doesn't care at all about me either. That's why I've been thinking of breaking up with him but no matter what, I can't. I feel like he's everything I have right now, since my friends have been pushing me aside, even though he regularly makes me feel worse and bad for myself, by either getting angry at me for stuff that it's not my fault or accusing me for his mistakes. All this has made me cut myself more regularly than I already had and feel really down, something that everyone around me must have noticed. On top of all that, everything that has been happening in the world lately doesn't help at all and makes me question how had I never, in my 16 years of life, noticed how ugly the world we live in is. |
| Question: My best friend is a shitty friend? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 10:47 AM PDT The other day she came over and we had a long talk about our friends and ourselves. She said that she finds me extremely annoying in group situations and that I cling onto other people when I'm with them. She also then proceeded to tell me that I'm mean to her when we're in a group. Now, this girl has a past with getting into drama with nearly everyone of our friends. She's the person who has multiple different people that you can't invite to a party if she's there because they can't get along at all. I am in no way mean to her. She continued to mock the way I act, and ask why my parents haven't taken my abroad, then criticize me when I said that it was too expensive. The problem is, I can't just drop her. I have far too many involvements with her to just drop her as a friend. She's terrible and I don't know what to do? |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 10:37 AM PDT Help me! What to do! |
| Question: A guy emailed me this poem but I'm not sure how to interpret it? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 10:35 AM PDT This was written by someone else but a guy sent it to me. What now, to be defined by my cowardice. For many a days now I dream of just a word with you. But when the opportunity to do so presents itself, I flinch at the prospects to what this union can bring. Not union, in its romantic connotation, but rather, the union of my ideas, and perceptions of you. And what if I were to say hello or inquire about you — your life, your thoughts, your feelings, but was met with abject repulse. Who, to share, with you? You'd laugh. Why I have latched on to this fixation, I do not know. Does the mind ever have an explanation for its workings? It is much simpler to hide behind a wall of indifference to the spark that your energy and presence ignites. And I sit and wait, for the day, if it should come, that the apprehension I've built up that it shall dissipate and I, the gutless person that I am, should finally voice my thoughts with spoken word. |
| Question: Was our boss being mean to us? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 09:53 AM PDT I work in an office with 11 other women. Most of us are single and in our 30s. We have a 29 year old great looking and I mean great looking boss. He is also a great boss and a great friend. He is always giving us training so we can get promotions and better pay. He is fun to work for. We like to joke with him and he loves for us to do it. It just makes the day go buy much faster. One day at a staff meeting, jokingly one of us said "Boss, I can not get much work done today". "I am missing a period". Instantly our boss said "No problem, I will get you a new keyboard". We ALL had a GREAT laugh at his answer. It just made our day. In the employee beak room we were still laughing about it and employees from other departments heard us. They told us our boss was being mean to us. We told them we were just having fun. What do you think? Was our boss being mean to us? |
| Question: Should I quit my job? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 09:49 AM PDT I'm just an assistant but I have a lazyass, self absorbed boss that just makes me do all the work and all he does is sit around and socialize. He pretends to have alot on his plate but yet he doesn't really do much. He makes me go to meetings so people don't grill him for stuff he's behind on. I'm really sick of it. Only reason why I'm staying is because I like the people here. And everyone needs me cuz everything would be **** without me. But the pay is shitty now that minimum wage is going up and I'm only making a few more. Also not getting what I'm worth... so.. should I just throw my middle finger in the air and drive off and hope for the better? |
| Question: Can I be popular without ditching my friends? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 09:24 AM PDT See, so there is this really popular kid, and the reason he us so popular is because his dad is si rich and pays off out school. (He only goes to our school because he got kicked out of private school). So, lat year, I joined this basketball team, and he started talking to me. It turned out he's actually really nice and cool, but he had one condition if I was to hang out with him. He doesn't like one of my other friends, because my friend embarrassed him in football. He's my best friend, but if If I continue to hag out with him, I have everything to lose, because e could get me kicked off the team. How can I hang out with both people? Help? |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 09:14 AM PDT Hi you guys! I am a part time photographer and have a photo shoot with two sisters next week. They want to do something really special and would like to incorporate their favourite tv show- Friends- into the shoot. I have absolutely no idea how to do this. I was thinking maybe adding some quotes or something? The problem is, I ve never in my life watched Friends, so I have no original ideas. If you could please help me, so I could just get my brain going. I m normally very creative, but am going completely blank here. Thank you so much! Ten points to best answer |
| Question: Is This Guy Playing Around or Interested? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 09:02 AM PDT He's been nice to me, asked to send me study materials to help for my exam, caught him staring, texted me with random excuses(like did my grandma make it upstairs ok? like call your grandma lol) then asked to go out for sushi after my exam. HIs grandma and I live in the same apts and he comes here 3 days a week, a year ago I got impatient and called him out on beating around the bush and said a guy w/ a gf couldn't be interested in me, he said he was being friendly and has a gf he's happy with. But the secret stares and the coming around, started dressing nicely since the fight could it mean something else? Also before we got into a fight, He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?"He asked one day when giving me gym advice "dont you have a bf to teach you all this?" |
| Posted: 13 Jun 2016 08:49 AM PDT They replied yes that they wanted to go. I said great, I will look for tickets and let you know what I find. Are you guys ok with this? The tickets are 40, 60, 80 and 100. The 40's available on the back rows have obstructed views. 60's are limited and these are the 3 best seats in the $80 range. Front row - mid center with no seats in front of us. It's the walking path in front of us. Let me know if you are ok with these? IMG_2734.JPG picture of receipt showing 3 tickets at $100 ea. 80+ fees Wife: ok with me This couple kept avoiding the payment issue. I could sense that they did not want to pay for tickets. After pressing he gave me $100 and the day before he asked me how much they were so he knew he owed me $200. After all of the fancy parties we invited them to our house, i didn't appreciate the miser tactics. They held back and did not want to pay me. I saw signs that they were misers but I thought they agreed to buy their own tickets. On the way to the concert, they dodged a $2.00 toll and we lost 15 minutes. If they were poor I could understand but he earns $150,000.00/yr. I will drop these two as friends because I was the last person they should have been misering after all of expensive parties I invited ten to. Know way should have had to beg them for their ticket money. Fk the $100 they still owe me, I'm dropping them. I despise misers that earn big money. Your thoughts? The wife made the comment of thanks for inviting us. |
| Question: What do I do if my sister keeps giving me lice? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 08:38 AM PDT she hangs out with these friends who are infested with lice and she has had lice for a while but I didn't know she had them right now I thought they were gone since she keeps dying her hair and now somehow I caught them but I don't even share brushes with her or stay near her it makes me want to move out. I'm 17 isn't lice only common in little kids??? This is the 2nd time I've got them from her now I'm going to have to redye my hair wash all my bed sheets and throw out my brush :/ this is embarrassing I started dating this guy and I don't wanna give him lice!! |
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| Question: Kinda hurt trying not to make a big deal out of this...? Posted: 13 Jun 2016 08:30 AM PDT I called my best friend of 7 years the other day. I guess he didn't realize I heard him but he was telling his friend that I'm a liar & I make up things a lot. I'm kind of hurt by this because I don't lie EVER. I really try to tell people how it is so I'm kinda shocked he'd say that. Should I just let it go? I mean do friends say sh-t like that? I feel like all friends at times get annoyed & "vent" about their other friends on occasion Is this accurate? |
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