I've been divorced for 9 years after a 20 year Marriage. I have dated through the years But, have not committed to anyone. My two Sons are now young adults and living their own lives here at home with me. My question is my Ex now has a Girlfriend and it looks like it may become a committed one. This is the second Girlfriend he has introduced to our Sons because the first one they were to be married after 6-months of dating, But, they ended up breaking up. This new Girlfriend is divorced with three kids of her own. My ex and i have had a respectful relationship during our divorce. Him and I have been involved in our Sons life and we have attended functions for our sons together after divorce. The thing is I feel he is not engaging anymore with his Sons and is absent. I guess he is preoccupied now with his Girlfriend. My Boys find no problem with Dad not being around as much. I should be happy for him, But, I feel isolated. I think I need to get a life! LOL anyways I knew one day one of us would find a significant other and well here we are. I've seen photo of his Girlfriend and I like her she looks mature and pretty. I guess I'll miss sharing memories or chit chat about our Boys with my Ex. Hopefully his new Girlfriend will allow me to communicate strictly about our Boys. Got to move on with my Life!

and it's putting strain on our relationship. What should I do to help him? He quit his (good) job almost a year ago because it wasn't what he wanted from his life. He was in law enforcement and he no longer wanted to go to work everyday worrying about being physically injured or dying. I did and still do fully support him. I just wish he hadn't quit without finding something else, because now here we are. Luckily I have a pretty good paying job too but the fact that he can't find anything is driving me crazy. He tries very hard and has sent out hundreds of applications all over the country. He can't find anything. Every day he gets emails saying "Sorry but out of more than 150 applicants we chose someone else." What should I do?

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Hello, I am applying to an online school in SC. I am moving from maryland to south carolina. In the application, it requires, not one, but two emergency contacts. Now the problem is that it can't be my mom. I have no close relatives in SC. The closest live in DC. And obviously I can't do friends because we are moving to another state where we know no one. Help please!

I got suspended 2 times in 2 weeks. My dad always have a talk to me everyday when he drives me to school and I don't listen to him so once I got suspended this week he got really angry at me. He had a 30 minute speech with me once I got inside my house and I'm a good kid but my social studies teacher (captain of my school team, not related to sports or anything) gave me this packet to give me to my dad since my teacher thinks I am special because I act stupid and he always catches me doing it. My dad signed no to not do it and 2 months later now he is willing to sign it, he is trying to get that packet back or I think it is an extra one on my table. He never said he was going to sign it but he is trying to get me scared, or he is probably going to sign it. Any suggestions, please ASAP! When I was going to get something to eat, I said: "I haven't ate nothing all day" He told me because I was in "jail" since I don't know how to deal with regular kids. That is what he said. I'm getting really scared now, I need more answers ASAP! Please...!!!!

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

I was having sex with this guy at the age of 18 and didn't want to and since I've move in with him n his wife his wife won't or hasn't gave it to him much at all due to her ... Size of body ... And he turns to me and wants it I don't want to hurt him n say no and I let him do me but ... I dont want to and hate to cause were ... Related by blood and I get a sick feeling every time we do it ... I want to get out of what he thinks is a "romantic double life and kind spirited relationship" I just want to have a normal relationship with him when we were kids

Oh my freaking god it was so disgusting.

I'm suffering from hair loss and I may eventually be completely bald, in my country it's hard to find a guy who doesn't care about looks so I'm afraid that I'll be single for the rest of my life, I don't want to live alone but what should I do when most guys here wont even get close to me because of my hair I even started to cover it in front of my family.

There is this guy at my work and I only work with him one day. He is nice and we talk sometimes. Recently, another coworker got mad with him about lying about something he never said. She and the guy I work with don't get along. This coworker ended up acting rude towards me and accused me. The guy I work with told me to not let her talk to me like that, to stand up for myself and to not sweat the situation. A week passed and he asked me if anything happened with the situation. I told him everything seemed to have turned out OK. He told me good because I didn't like how she was talking to you. I said everything is OK and he said "good, as long as you're okay" but he kind of looked away when he said it. He then asked my other coworker who is nice if I was mad with him for some reason even though I'm not. That day, he asked me if I needed help ringing up a customer with a lot of items. That same day my brother called and after I hung up the phone he said "everything alright?" I said yes. We talk but I notice he is quiet around me. He seems to care a lot about me but supposedly my coworker who is nice told me he has a gf. One time he lied to her and said he didnt have one. Why does he care so much about this?

She lives next door btw. Healthy relationship with husband and son . And she has a body to die for. I dont care if it's bad or good. I know its bad. But i just want to do it.

Her son is tight with me. Husband comes back from work at evening She's all alone .Only the housemaid is around. I know the pros cons of doing this. but i just want to do it. A swift reply would be nice

Do you think she will do that?

i got pregnant at 17 in 2007 by my boyfriend whos is a black man and when i told my grandma i am pregnant and she was shock and upset, she told me who is the baby father and i said to her that its from my boyfriend at school and he is black and my grandma got even more upset and tells me to get an abortion cause its from a black man and the child will suffer of bein biracial and will get people confused of what baby color it is from and will have parents from different race sooo i refuse her and she tells me to get out of her house when the baby is born and i begin sobbing alot. as my stomach grew bigger my grandma didnt even care about my pregnancy so that made me get stress alot, as i was in labor my grandma wasnt there to help me with the pain and when my child was born jan 2008 its a boy he didnt have my skin color he has his dad skin color and my grandma came to see and kiss me but didnt see my newborn she really ignored him but my mom and my boyfriend was there to support me. two weeks later my grandma fell in love with my son and she told me that she is ashamed of herself but she dosnt like my boyfriend at all and he was okay with that but he just wants to be there for me and my son four years later my grandma passed away of liver cancer, my son is 8 now and looks completely african american. please give me soe advises, tips, trivias or say anything about my story pleeeeaaaasssseee

I made it to UCLA. With my hard work and dedication I would have made it to Berkeley or beyond. Anyway, my mom denied my admission to UCLA because we didn't have enough money. Now I'm regretting never having gone and living a life of independence. The good thing is that I don't have any school debt whatsoever. And I at least did get experience at a UC. But I still can't help but feel like I was cheated. I'm not like anyone in my family. I'm head and shoulders above them in terms of american culture integration and assimilation and it's very easy for me to understand any concept thrown at me. The rest of my family members are hick blue collars that just like staying at home watching movies all day. What is the point of my existence? Why hold me back like this if I was supposed to go above and beyond?

So, shes's been gloating to all our friends about how she's carrying my baby and we are going to be together for ever. The thing is I don't want a child and told her to have it cut up and sucked out in an abortion. She said she wants to keep it and have family.

A guy that works in my store who's about 10 years older than me has made it a habit of visiting me more than once a day and is even getting kinda touchy-feely, today he ran in and tickled me and recently he came up to me while I was trying to work and hugged me goodbye. I'm married, and he knows it. Before I go to management I want to try resolving the situation myself. Is there a polite way to say f uck off?

Facts: -friend unhappily married to current hubby, in process of separation, admitted she's been unfaithful, and says she's just not that into him s3xually -Hubby, friend, and I have actually all had a threesum ONCE before when we all got drunk...and I was REALLY drunk. THEY don't habitually do this, are NOT swlngers, and DON'T have threesumes! It just kinda happened! ONLY ONCE! THIS HAPPENED LIKE 3 MONTHS AGO! *Fri, we all get drunk again *Friend on verge of moving out this weekend *Friend goes to bed earlier, leaves me alone with hubby *I go to bathroom and leave the door open, he walks in and looks away but I say "who cares, you've seen it"...and he stops looking away and talking to me (nonsexual) -We're playing catch and I catch the ball we're tossing between my legs, he says "beautiful snnatch - pun intended". I just kinda laugh but don't make a big reaction otherwise. -I wanted to go to bed a little earlier than he did so I said I'm going to bed. Him and wife sleep in different beds every night and she's already asleep at this point. He said, "I'll sleep with you in the bedroom but no funny stuff; my cpap's in here"...I don't really fight him on this and I also don't want anything sexual to happen even in my drunken state. -In the bed I slept kinda close to him, but not quite touching. I think I slept close because I was cold. -In the bed, for the most part he kept to himself but I did feel him roll over and grab one of my boobs, he said something that I either couldn't hear or just can't remember, but he quickly let go and turned back around to sleep. The way I slept was on my stomach, facing the opposite way of him. He was sleeping on his back. -What the hell happened here? lol Suzanne I slept fully clothed!! We were both clothed!

I was out for lunch with my friend and I seen my boss's husband in there..with another girl! I started to panic and think oh my gosh what should I do? Then my friend made a good point that it was probably his sister or a cousin or something. As we looked over, they kissed! I don't want to be in other people's house holds but, I like my boss she's very nice and a loving person with a great personality! It would break my heart to see her broken. I though about writing a anonymous letter to her? What should I do? Should I keep quiet or tell my boss. If I do tell her, what would be the nicest way to put it.

I know love and romance is not what life is all about but I've never known what love or romance is for 31 years of my life and it's really hard for me to say it doesn't matter right now because i never experienced it before. I never knew what it feels like for a woman to like me and i never experienced my first kiss plus am a virgin and am embarassed to say this. I really hate when people that's experience love and romance tell me that it's over rated and that it's not the most important thing in life. To me it means an entire world to me just to feel like a woman returns the interest that i show in her back at me. I don't care what she looks like because am not shallow. If she's on a wheel chair, Mentally disabled, as long as she doesn't reject me in a heartbeat. Why shouldn't having a partner mean the entire world to me now?

So me and her daughter sometimes send certain pictures we delete them soon after but we were taking one time and we talked about our first time and somethings we did and her mom saw the conversation and sent this to me ( This is jarelys mom i read ya conversation and I don t want u near my daughter again don t even think of coming cover ya want to b nasty wait till ya ******* grow up ya r 16 I taught I could trust my daughter obviously was wrong)

For how long would you ignore them?

Im a teen and I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months.Things werent really going on well recently.It was like the spark was lost between us and it was clear that he was preferring his boyfriends over me.He started to change his attitude,trying to be the centre of attraction with his gang.We were fighting frequently and it all ended in a breakup.During the relationship there was many times where the thought of breaking up occurred in my mind as sometimes I wasn't feeling appreciated.But when I used to tell him,we used to end up all nighters and make up again.He even cried sometimes so I don't leave him.The last fight we had turned out different.As he was the one that left😢It was a day like the others,I was in a good mood but he fighted with his dad and was in a really bad mood.My dad and I took him to training (I used to try being the perfect girlf) He used my phone and he found some chat with a friend of mine, telling him to come over just from joke. He tought I cheated on him. And we broke up. This time he never came back crying or telling me that he misses me as usual. He only came to talk to me casually on facebook, we talked but he didn't mention that we must get back together. It seems as if he's living a great life without me from social media. I too don't feel that sad now as it has already been 2 weeks. But sometimes i just miss him, and those memories are killing me. What can I do? I want him to come back? I wish I turn back time😭

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So I'm 12...... My dad lives 3000 miles away (California) so I have separation anxiety from my mom but I have to go there this summer for three weeks.... He hits me and my sister and I told my counselor and she's not doing anything.... I'm just so scared that something is gonna happen... I have to fly there on my own too... Any advice for how to get out of going? I've started self harming because of my anxiety for going and I'm becoming depressed but plz just help me with the legal part...

My boyfriend& I have been together 4 years We've had no troubles But for the past few months hes been working 2 jobs to prepare for our baby we have on the way His 2nd job calls him in once a week to work a night shift &im cool with that one night of being away but lastnight he was called in He came home this morning I looked through his phone &had discovered that he had been searching motels/hotels &had even called 2 of them I looked through his online call log because of course he had deleted the calls I didn't see any womens numbers but I did see his cousins number 2 or 3 times &this cousin is very slick &even cheats on his girl So I don't trust him I think they were conference calling the female through his cousin I asked him about it &he told me it was from 3 weeks ago when he was helping someone find a motel that was a lie because I clearly saw it was from last night Why'd he lie? Then he said he accidentally searched the motels trying to find where his job was Why'd he lie? &I swear I smelled liquor on his breath! What should I do? I dont know how to feel or react to this hes steady telling how he'll never hurt me how he loves me etc. &hes so calm! What should I do I've been having this feeling for the past 2 months &just haven't said anything I haven't left yet because first of all I have no friends or family where would I go &second I don't have enough evidence. But I feel if I don't make a move now I'll just be some kinda joke &he'll just keep doing it please help!

I overheard my brother in law bad mouth me to his brother and my sister's friend. The next day, I confronted him and he acted as if he doesn't know what I'm talking about. I didn't tell my sister yet but now she doesn't talk to me, call, and is ashamed of me when she is around her husband's family. I really don't care anymore because she does that to her older sister too. I haven't heard from both of my sisters in a long time. Advice.

Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. I recently found out that he had been lying to me about watching porn. He is obsessed with a porn star named "Proxy Paige", and told me that she is attractive, but "not as attractive as [me]". I'm extremely hurt that he would lie to me for so long. I don't watch porn, but I suggested we watch it together if he gets those urges in the future. It still makes me very uncomfortable, though. Finding out made me feel ugly, inadequate, and lied to. How should I react to this? Should we watch it together? He said he will quit altogether, but I feel like me banning porn would be a bad idea. I guess I'm just asking for advice. He says he watches porn sometimes up to twice per day. We do not have sex, because I feel I am still a bit young (I'm 18 as is he), and so I realize that porn is probably a good outlet for an 18 year old boy? He just seems obsessed. I don't know what to do. Thank you in advance.

My girlfriend dumped me like month ago and last time we spoke was like 2 weeks ago and 1 day. Last time we spoke she said she's seeing someone else that they kissed already and it broke my heart because we just broke up and she already found someone. Ofcourse I got sad angry and heartbroken I was moody 5 minutes I yelled at her next 5 minutes i begged her to come back and ill do everything ill be better person idk i just became emoctional. She said she still loves me she has no feelings for that guy then i dnt understand why shes doing this to me. Problem is i think of her everyday doesn't matter what i am doing shes always there on my mind. I did deleted her from facebook and other social media but deep inside I want msg from her and 2 days ago ive done biggest mistake and checked on her instagram and saw this half naked photo of her and this again broke my heart. IDk how to get her out of my head it hurts so bad knowing shes moving on and have another guy thinking that he kisses her and likely sleeps with her just kills me inside. I'm taking long walks trying to be busy but when I am at home I cry I cry at work it gets little bit better for a while but then this feeling returns. And night times are the worst i feel so hurted and lonely erghh. I don't want to date anyone because it;s not fair to hurt someone only because i feel hurted I dont want anyone to feel this way. And I am tired to feel this way tired of all the pain i am feeling tired thinking of her.

This occured during the same day or over a period of 2 days. Are they sensing something? If so what? I don't converse with any of them on a regular basis. I met someone new recently also.