My boyfriend and I are on a break because I sunk into depression and anxiety and I put us in a really bad spot in our relationship. He kept giving us tries and chances and finally called it quits to take a break. I moved out and we still hang out and talk everyday. He said he s not holding his breath on this relationship that if I want us to happen that it s my turn to show him. That may seem wrong to you guys but I do need to show him that I do care again. Yesterday he told me I was the best thing he did ever have. I want us to start dating and connecting again. I saw on his phone tinder and meet me. I know he s allowed it but I m just stuck on being sorry. How do I move forward and be the person he met? I m scared. How do I try make us right again and show him i am the girl again that he fell in love with? Hes my everything and he gave me everything and I took it for granted. I have this last chance. Please help. (I don t need to read break up and bashing him. Seriously real advice)

know this question may be too personal for Yahoo but I feel like you guys are friends from afar that can guide me without judging me personally. The other night, I was sexually violated. Unfortunately, the guy who did this is someone who I've liked for a long time, who I gave my Virginity to about a month ago, and someone that I care about. Nevertheless, he forced himself into me. I feel responsible and like this was my fault for letting him in my house, and because he knows that I have feelings for him. I'm also questioning whether or not he really intended to force himself on me, maybe he was just being aggressive because he had been drinking, maybe he was feeling kinky that night. I know it doesn't make it okay, but just maybe he didn't intend to hurt me. Maybe he thought I'd like it. I really miss him, and I wish none of this ever happened. I want to reach out to him and get closure because I'll always remember the guy who took my Virginity, but I don't want to remember him in this dark way. I know he hates me now because I told my cousin who is like my sister, and she called the cops and my father, even though I didn't want her to. I didn't want to make this into a big deal, but she told me "If you don't, then I will", which I had no choice but to accept it, as humiliating as it was. I know she did the right thing, but I wish she kept it confidential. What should I do? Ladies, if you've had this happen and ever felt this way, what did you do? Is it normal to miss him?

i live with a family member that own a real or fake gun with plastic or real bullets. i just found that thave lockup gun in the closet and they told they need for protection. i feel uncomfortable and nervous know their a gun lock up in the house im living in.

So there is this middle eastern guy in my photo class and i have him added on facebook. Hes somewhat new to my school but we have never talked at all. Im a dude so I dont think hes looking into a relationship or something but im creeped out. He has called me once before and he said it was on accident. This time he called me and asked for my whatsapp(messaging app). I asked him why and he said just give it to me. I blocked him but and still a little creeped out. What do you think I should do? Btw he does not seem lonely or anything, he has a bunch of friends and I dont know why he wouldnt just talk to me in person then. Any advice is helpful. Thanks

Hace tres años comenzamos a andar porque nos presentaron y comenzamos a salir y a acostarnos después de tres meses de relación, el siempre fue callado y me engaño en varias ocasiones y yo también, nunca quería hablar de lo que sentía por mi hasta que un día se lo pregunte y e grito que no sentía nada ni por mi ni por nadie, seguimos siendo amigos con derechos, nos contábamos de nuestras parejas y así, y después decidimos juntarnos el juraba que me amaba era muy complaciente conmigo, me embaracé y peor era mucho más dulce hasta que una amiga me contó que se mandaba mensajes con ella en tono de ligué, el nunca pudo decírmelo pero yo ya lo sabía, lo perdone por mi embarazo y pues el decía que lo hizo porque yo lo engañe una vez recién que nos juntamos en venganza. Ya estábamos bien nació mi bebe el estaba muy contento vivíamos en casa de mis padre porqué ellos me ayudaban con mi bebé, hasta que empezó a tomar mucho, después me dejo en casa de mis padres para trabajar porque decía que mis padres nos ayudaban mucho y el se confiaba y por eso le daba igual no ir a trabajar, yo me puse muy triste y le pedí que regresara, ahora estamos juntos pero nunca habla conmigo yo lloro mucho y el solo me ignora y dice que le da igual que lo deje, pero lo he corrido y no se va, estoy desesperada, no se si no me quiere que hace conmigo, yo lo amo. Pd. Yo le pedí que nos juntáramos y siempre me da dinero.

he's squandering the money he have, i asked him don't he regret doing that at all? and he replied "you won't know till when you're going to be alive, so spare nothing" he said

Girl rejected a guy because she dated another guy. Both stopped contacting each other for 2 months.After that 2 months, she starts staring guy she rejected. What could happened? and What is the reason?

Hey Everyone, I've sort of been in a dry spell in my humor lately. Normally I'm a pretty goofy guy, I love cracking jokes, making people laugh. and laughing as well. Lately though I don't seem to laugh as much as I have before at jokes or tell jokes/make people laugh for the past few weeks and it's been getting to me. For those of you that have felt this way (losing your comedic touch) is this sometimes normal? If so what do you guys do to regain your old self? I just feel like my old self and it's really bothering me

like this? Have you ever loved that much?

Hi it let me type the story here so I wrote it in a notepad on my phone and screenshotted them and put them in 3 links and they re in order. Please read I m sorry if they are long I just don t know what to do :( http://tinypic.com/r/2zp6rex/9 http://tinypic.com/r/v3n3es/9 http://tinypic.com/r/5lnp14/9 Thanks so much !!!!

I am 25 years old and i am fairly new to smoking weed. I mainly do it once or twice every week or every other week. I will smoke from a bowl or a joint with my girlfriend and one of her friends. My issue is when i get high i will start to feel overwhelmingly aware of thier facial reactions to things i say and body language they make. They will talk about things while i am doing something and i will assume they are talking about me and how i am high and how stupid i look. I lose grasp of normal functions. As an example my girlfriend and i smoked and were walking back in my apartment as my neighbor was getting in his truck. Normally i would give a wave. Instead i looked over and thought he saw us and i didnt say anything and i started laughing to her. Afterward i felt like a moron for hours. That my neighbor saw me laugh and thought it was at him and i didnt wave and he thought i was an asshole when normally i am very friendly. I dont know what to do about this social anxiety i get. When i smoke by myself i find that it really makes me think deeply and really concentrate on stuff i am doing. I also notice i tend to clench my teeth alot when i am high because i get anxiety. What tips can you give me on breaking from this social anxiety, calming down, like seeing my girlfriends facial reaction to like me being high and saying something idiotic just make me feel horrible about myself. The body language they have from me. Like it makes me feel so self concious Any advice?

He's the married one not me, and he keeps asking me if I want to go out with him for drinks etc... but he's the one who should know better, why should I feel bad?

We moved to Oklahoma and my daughter joined a girl scout troop in our area. Shes enjoyed being in the troop until this year. I paid for my membership to be adult member/assistant troop leader and have done everything the leader has asked me to do. This year, was daughters first cookie sale and she sold 600 boxes. The leader kept making comment of how exhausting this year is since we did over 15 cookie booths which my daughter and I were at all but one booth as was her daughter. she said how one of her parents "took over" as cookie coordinator last year and did everything and all she had to do was show up. I signed up as her cookie coordinator this year and told her since I was new to the whole cookie thing, that I would not take over the entire operation but would do the booth scheduling, set up, take down, box pick up etc. She would handle the money, paperwork, etc. and that next year, I will know what to expect and I can "Take over it all" meaning the cookie sales. She blew up at me and yelled at me in front of girls and a couple teachers and parents who were witness to accuse me of saying I was plotting to take over her troop when I was talking about cookie season. My children are home schooled and we meet at the local public school and because my husband works, my son comes to the weekly meetings. He sits quietly in the back of the room and plays on my kindle as to not be a distraction to her meeting. We ,including my son, went outside to work on a "get active" badge and exercise. When we finsihed as we were headed back to the building, my son said he needed to use the restroom and so I stood at the door and watched him go to the restroom location. The leader then made me out to be this neglectful parent stating that he is unsupervised and made comment in front of the entire troop that a responsible person supervises kids and when I told her that I know exactly where my son is, that he got my permission to use the restroom and I watched him go to the restroom and I can see him come out of the restroom, she replies "well I didn't see that" and acts snobby and did not even apologize then at the conclusion of the meeting tells me that my son plays on the kindle and throws it in her daughter and her face that we have electronics and they don't. First of all, my son doesn't utter a peep during the meeting and he stays out of the way and the kindle is on silent. I explained that I did not appreciate being made out to be an irresponsible parent in front of the girls and did not deserve that while this was going on, her daughter went over to my son and wrote on the kindle "X BF" and circled it and told my daughter that she was her EX Best Friend which hurt my daughter's feelings as the girls have been friends off and on as girls do but then the leader tells my daughter who is crying by this point "what is your problem and what do you want me to do to make it all better" and my daughter sees that her leader is angry says "Nothing" and her leader says well "Nothing is what I'm going to do" and if your mother wants to stay home and not come to the next booth and do nothing" that's fine too" she is screaming by this point. WHAT THE HELL?!?!?!? Where is this crap coming from? Why is she attacking me and my kids when I have personally done nothing but try to help her out all year? My daughter and her daughter were having a spat as they've done in the past and worked it out but now her mom is attacking my daughter for being upset and attacking my son for bringing a kindle to keep busy which is something he's done for months and now its a problem?!?!? And then accusing me of trying to take over her troop? So I politely and very calmly told her (even though I wanted to scream back) that if she has a problem with me or my children and feels that it is necessary to attack us for no reason that I would finish out the year and be done once the year concludes. We get outside to my vehicle and she walks to my truck and points her finger at my daughter who is now sobbing into my side and I am trying to comfort her. Tells my daughter "Yeah your mommy is going to mommy coddle you and this whole mess is all your fault and if I lose my friend and helper, I hope your happy." what kind of person treats a child like that? What kind of leader and example is this? Seriously? We had the Powder Puff Derby for the troops this past weekend and we had a chili cook off which was judged by local firemen. One of the fire men's wives attended with their children and while we hadn't said it was time to eat, she and her children ate. My daughters leader makes the comment to this wife "Well don't we think we've got special privileges today?" OMG I was so embarrassed. But its comments like this we deal with all he time

Would I be born to the different mother or father?

IDK if its time to move out of my parents house. I am 21 years old, and in a relationship. I've basically lived with my girlfriend during our relationship, but im not sure if its time to move out. My parents are Latino so it makes it harder. I've been in college living away from home, but come back on the weekends. Eventually i started coming back home less and the other day my mom said that ive changed now that i have my girlfriend. She started making a whole scene about it,.

Quick points of our relationship -It had been almost a year, sex one or twice a month. -Although i have two jobs and go to school. -he goes to school. -sleep over at his place on the weekends-Thur, Fri, Sat, Sun (1 to 2 days off luckily falls on the weekend) -he always say he is not a sexual person, but in the beginning we have a decent amount of sex -another sign is its been months and we haven't said "i love you" Anyways the drastic change makes me worry, to the point of breaking up. Plus, he is a social media person and i don't have a single social media, except if this counts. But he have never posted a picture of of us. Is that a reason to be worried? My friends say that I should be more involve in my relationship by asking him these questions, but i don't want to ask my boyfriend about his personal stuff his their social media, i think that's his privacy. should i be worried? All these answers sucks, did you guys even read the details?

Wat up doe its yo boy big G from naptown lookin for a fine lady to chop it up wit I got Dat good pipe its Da truth I want a sexy lady dat got Dat wet wet idc what yo race is black blue purple white Asian long as I can eat dat booty like groceries and slurp dat cat like a plate of neckbones all da ladies luv me no joke I look good I'm a fat boy doe but I can lay dat pipe however yu want it holla at yo boy asap we can hit up da telly fo da night

Let me start off by saying before I accused my ex of cheating physically she did flirt with a guy sexually and another guy non sexually through texting. I accused her of cheating (having sex with another guy) and I told her she broke my heart and im not sure if i can trust her anymore when I thought she cheated (it was pretty clear after to me she didn't cheat) After I accused her, shortly after she cut lines on her wrist hand and a lot of blood came out and when I asked her why she cut herself she told me it's because I told her she broke my heart. Why would she do that if I told her she broke my heart? One of the scenarios before that where I caught her flirting with another guy through text (nonsexually) I found out by demanding to see her phone and she said "no its my phone" and when she finally gave it up and I saw what was in it she got mad and took my phone and through it at the wall and cracked my screen (no she didn't do this cause I assumed wrong because she admitted after everything calmed down she was flirting with him..she never gave a real reason why she did it and I always treated her good)..the reason I'm telling you this is cause it just kinda popped up in my mind when she cut herself I accused her of cheating with a guy physically (with a different guy then the two she flirted with through text)..and I did so a month after the last guy i caught her flirting with through text ***The last 2 lines in this question explain the timeline of when i accused her of cheating and i wrote it to explain that i accused her of cheating on me with a DIFFERENT guy than the ones she flirted with through text*

Because I'm talking to her on facebook (TM) and i feel wierd not knowing our relation!

So the thing with these guys is no one really drinks beer/alcohol in this group except for one guy so we are looking into a gamer theme. They are mainly PC gamers, some like xbox and some like ps2 or wii-u. I've looked on etsy and other places but we are not finding that niche for them, and gift cards are not personable and seem cheap. We want to at least spend $80-$100 on each of them, which they're 6.

We used 2 get along so well. We're able 2 tease each other & joke around & we knew when it was a joke vs. seriousness. My friend's a pretty busy person, so I don't ask/beg 2 hang out, we see each other @ work & outside work we do text or she calls on the way home 4rm her night job (I tell her if she wants 2 call, if not no biggie). I understand she's goin thro personal things in her life besides different jobs she has & I've always been there 4 her if she needs me. However, she doesn't like 2 discuss things goin on in her life 2 much. I once didn't tell her about an incident in my life because i didn't want 2 interrupt/bother her while she was havin family time. Anyways, lately she's just been moody/dismissive & 4rm what a family member has told me, she's just being mean & there's no reason 4 her treating me differently. Recently I gave her a b-day gift, never said thank you. And when I text her on her b-day, I asked her if there was anything wrong, She text back that she can't be the friend that can be there like I want and it's best we distance ourselves right now. Idk where this came from because she was always the 1 sayin we were meant 2 b friends & we'll stick together. I asked her for how long and I understood if that's what she needs. SHe said she's not sure right now. After a wk I txt her & told her I wish she'd just talk 2 me about it 2 work it out but I know she wants distance so I'd be there when she's ready. It's going on a month & still I haven't heard from her.

My mom has always been a selfish person. She even told me I was an accident. My brother in law kinda took me under his wing. At a young age maybe around 7 I knew I liked older guys. I shyed away from him knowing things could get bad at the time I was 12. I refused to go to my sisters house. When I turned 13 my mom found out I was self harming and hit me saying it was for attention. I wasn t allowed to go to school for days. When I did my teacher found out and told me that if I ever needed to talk he was there. Shortly after we had a barbecue. Him and I laughed and played but after that he wasn t the same. We stopped talking and hugging. I moved in now being 15 and he is angry with me when I m on the phone with a guy and such. He is kinda abusive but it s only when I leave without his permission. He gets very mean at times and he won t answer me when I ask why

I love movies and parties so, you know, why the heck not. Any advice or recommendations to make it awesome?

I've become very interested in a married woman. I have met her husband as well- in short seems an ok guy. In no way am I putting signals out or doing anything inappropriate. Also, to be clear, I would never make a move or even receive a move by her while she is married. That being said, all I ever see on these boards are crazy insults to men in my situation....as if we are some horrible people for having feelings. You can't help whom you become interested in, and if you are not actively pursuing it, why do people still freak out? What is wrong with being in a girl's life and if over time she chooses she likes you over her husband, starting a relationship? I see all these posts about how the moment a woman is married you should basically act like she doesn't exist...I guess I don't get it. Maybe it's my naiveté nature, but people aren't owned / wedding bands are not proof of purchase. In my mind, as long as you are not disrespecting the marriage or the spouse of the person you lie, then nothings wrong. Why do so many people freak out about this? Are they insecure about their own relationship? Do people think they have the right to give up after marriage and not try to keep their spouse in love?

I was walking at the hallway with my friend and i saw the girl I liked there & I was looking at her but then I looked away. Later when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. When she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me so I just looked away. Then later she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop. So then when I turn around I saw her at the back of the class and she was looking at me but then later left class early

When you have so much stress going on in your life and the people around you treat you like ****

So I was sitting at lunch with my friend Bob (His name isn't actually bob, im using this name just to cover his other name) who is sitting right next to me and my other friend Bill (again not his actual name) sitting across of me. Then me and my friend Bill were fooling around and I put a straw cover (whatever you call those) on top of his Lunchbox. Then he got mad at me for doing it and sat further away from me trying to make it look like I did it to try to MAKE him mad. (Note that bill throws oranges and tackles me all the time for fun of course) and then after he moves away from the table I whisper something like "Ok then" and my friend Bob sitting next to me then lashes out at me saying "Your an a****** and a little brat." and I say "What did I do wrong?" then bob says "Just stop, you are a brat and an a******!" then he looks away. I'm sitting there terrified just like WHAT JUST HAPPENED Does anyone know why this would have happened? This happened a while ago like 2-3 months ago but I'm really curious why he yelled at me for such a small thing like putting a straw on bills lunchbox! NOTE: Bob was also VERY serious, he was not joking around. He even eblowed me hard in the elbow (It didn't hurt, but I sure felt it)

Me and my family are wanting to move to either Mississippi, Alabama, or Florida but would like for my husband to find a job that might help with relocation. Any information would help! He is an experienced welder but has also worked as a warehouse associate and cotton gin worker.