Because I don't think so. It such a big risk to take to agree for marriage.

So let's say a woman and man are married. The woman goes on and has sex with a random man and gets pregnant. She tells her husband that the child is his and they raise the kid. Does this make the child evil or bad? The father was a man who stole millions and millions of dollars and he's s great actor. Will the kid turn out bad? Or just like his father?

Do emotionally abusive men change for the better after therapy? Is it possible for them to change or do they remain emotionally abusive forever?

I want to move to be with my boyfriend but we cant get married until his divorce is final and even then we have to wait six months. I have a lot of credits from University. I did media and history classes but unfortunately I wont be able to complete the degree. I'd love to get a job in his state so we can be together but I need advice on the best options that are available to me. Thank you.

I explained to her that I didn't want to get married. I listed the divorce statistics and explained how I would get screwed in court. After I listed all of my FACTS she started crying and called me cold. I might be cold but at least I'm not miserable. Note I am quite happy being alone and would like to travel and earn money for myself doing what I love(computer programming) and this contradicts the family dynamic of men earning more money and women spending more money. So how do I make her not so emotional Or at least accept it

My bf had some soda and snacks he bought and put in the fridge at my place. When my ex husband was over at my place visiting his kids either him or his dad (my former father in law) got into my boyfriends food stash. When my boyfriend came over the next day he saw someone at his food and opened his soda and he told me I should get him more at the store. Is he mean for doing this?

My husband an I have been together for 18 years. We have 4 children that range from 16 -7, we have custody of his 11 month old neice that we have have had since she was three months. I love the baby like my own, it has strained my family. She was an addict baby. It has been hard, no sleep and family heartache. Mother was addicted to herion at her birth. We have no time together anymore. Is it horrible to demand attention from my husband, I need it I stay at home with 5 kids, take em to school and run em to all their sports.

I've scared of being in a marriage scam but I feel that he is being very genuine.He's 21 I'm 22 .I know his family and his family knows me.I'm also a young mother and he's very happy and understanding about it as well as his family .And everyone thinks we should tie the not but the stereotypes of a marriage scam is clouding my decision. someone please help!!!!

Long story short; I briefly dated my male friend 8 months ago. We ended things bc he said he wasn't ready for a girlfriend (he was living in his parents apt, only had $500 saved in the bank, insecure about his life). He emphasized that he didn't want to use me for sex & said I'm girlfriend material & even though I was offering friends with benefits he didn't want to bc he knows what kind of girl i am. However, HE wanted to stay friends & we did.. He hasn't dated anyone since & he's SO attentive & caring & protective of me. 4 months ago he started flirting heavily with me again & saying that Im wife material & joking about how i intimidate him. He's been there for me while im going through family problems. Then 3 weeks ago we were hanging out & he started joking about us having sex & I laughed it off but then he KEPT on joking for the next few weeks and hinting and so I joked said "well maybe we need to revisit that" and he said "Ok, anytime" then he took my phone & looked at my photos & joked are there any sexy photos of you? I said no and he said "well you should send me some haha" and I said "Now why would I do that if we're not doing anything" and he mumbled "well maybe if you did it would encourage other behaviors" and then we dropped it and proceeded to talk. On Monday I decided to send him a sexy photo with a sexy text and he LOVED it and we SEXTED for 10 minutes but then he texted "Not to change the subject but I meant to text you but I was swamped at work today. How was yesterday? I know it mustve been tough for you, you ok?" (yesterday was fathers day & me & my dad have been fighting) SO that led to him texting me about my dad and trying to make me feel better for 40 minutes! Longer than we sexted. I thanked him and he said "anytime, thank you for the sexy photo. I have a business dinner right now but we will continue this at another time." I said "sounds good" and he wrote "Id much rather be with you right now and that sexy body but I guess I'll settle for a steak dinner lol"

I separated from my husband 5 months ago. We had been arguing a lot because of our financial situation and shortly after I found out he was having an affair. I grew suspicious and went through his phone one night and saw texts between him and another woman. I confronted him which ended in a huge fight and I told him to leave our home. We had been together a total of 12 years and married for 2. Recently I have been in contact with him and he wants to try to work things out. I see the effort he's putting into fixing what was broken but I am extremely afraid to trust him again. I love him with all my heart, he's my first love, my best friend and I honestly believed he was my soul mate and has been really difficult for me to let go because he's all I've known/wanted. Can we possibly get passed this? Does the pain and feeling of betrayal ever go away?

Ok so I'm 14 and in 8th grade. I talk to a lot of guys on snapchat from around where I live bc we have mutual friends! Now that it's summer a lot of them want to meet and hook up.(makeout and feel up and stuff) so I met up with one of them and hooked up with him for an hour and a half nonstop. Then a few days later I did the same with a new guy and then a week later a new guy and a few days after that a new guy. I just want to make this summer fun and memorable bc ur only young once! Sooooo idk if its bad to do this and think that

he was amazing telling our friends It lasted for about a week because he then found out what i had done with one guy, sexual wise and many untrue rumors were spread about me We were hook up buddies for a while if you know what i mean It was noting emotional However the guy i was talking to got mad at me for a week and wouldnt tell me why He started being very very dry and i still kept trying to go for it At the beginning of us talking I told him that I had hooked up with person x a couple of times and if there were any rumors about me to address them with me instead of assuming because i wanted him to hear it from me not the whole world and i wanted to gain his trust I didnt go into detail what it was that i had done with the boy and it was everything but sex and that is the only person i had done that type of stuff with except with my one ex boyfriend that i had been dating for 8 months. He found out in detail later on from someone which is why he was being very dry i later found out from him. 1 week later i went on a trip and things doing good then my friend started snapchatting him and they started flirting and this was around the time that things started to go downhill again I still had feelings for him i am so into him but my "friend is all over him knowing how he left me out of no where not talking to me Taking pictures with him twinning to school What to do I cant tell her because she will spread it to everyone and everyone will hate me HOW TO GET HIM TO LIKE ME AGAIN

Should a husband reward his wife when she does her part in marriage by gifts, dates, mini vacations just us two. What about if she does non of that like cooking, cleaning, groceries shopping, washing clothes. She don't work but takes or daughter to camp and I pick her up after work. We only have sex when she wants to, she complains about me time but ain't that free time when I'm at work amd or daughter at camp. That's 9hrs of me time, I solo come home to cook our meal, make sure our daughter gets a bath, I take a shower and watch tv.and she complains about me not spending time with her when I get off work. Help me out you people please

My boyfriend doesn't allow me to talk to other men, not even guy friends because he doesn't speak to other women as well but I converse with my guy friends every now and then, not often at all even though he's told me not to and I don't tell him. I'm not cheating or flirting, I'm just talking, is it bad that I don't tell him? I just move on from it like nothing, I put too much pressure on myself and think that I'm doing wrong when I tell others this situation they tell me that If im not doing anything wrong then I shouldn't be worried but I'm worried because I think to myself that I feel like I'm being fake or inconsiderate to his boundaries, should I not tell him, not snitch on myself for talking to my friend and just move on or should I just tell him even when he doesn't like it at all?

I was playing spin the bottle with my friends and i was supposed to kiss this one guys but we were both uncomfortable but i was uncomfortble only because i dont know how to kiss in this kinds of situations. I know how to kiss normaly but its differen in spin the bottle. PLZ HELP

Im 17byear old girl, and Me and my crush have known each other 7 years, and that history bonds us to the point that pain and fights never last. We have a connection and somehow know each other, even when its been a while. We're so comfortable being ourselves with each other that outsiders don't understand how we can put up with imperfections, but they're not imperfections, they're our complete selves and we have learned how to adapt to them. I would do anything for him, and have sacrificed so much to try to make him happy. He's been hurt so deeply by women, and sometimes we hurt each other, but I don't want anything to happen to him, I want to make him happy and safe. We have the same values and likes and dislikes, and our families love each other and he has a logical and steady financial plan for the future. I have tried but I have never loved anyone like him before. But how can I make this dream a reality? What are the practical steps? I have no idea how he feels about me, or what to do next.

Because I don't think so. It such a big risk to take to agree for marriage.

So let's say a woman and man are married. The woman goes on and has sex with a random man and gets pregnant. She tells her husband that the child is his and they raise the kid. Does this make the child evil or bad? The father was a man who stole millions and millions of dollars and he's s great actor. Will the kid turn out bad? Or just like his father?

Do emotionally abusive men change for the better after therapy? Is it possible for them to change or do they remain emotionally abusive forever?

I want to move to be with my boyfriend but we cant get married until his divorce is final and even then we have to wait six months. I have a lot of credits from University. I did media and history classes but unfortunately I wont be able to complete the degree. I'd love to get a job in his state so we can be together but I need advice on the best options that are available to me. Thank you.

I explained to her that I didn't want to get married. I listed the divorce statistics and explained how I would get screwed in court. After I listed all of my FACTS she started crying and called me cold. I might be cold but at least I'm not miserable. Note I am quite happy being alone and would like to travel and earn money for myself doing what I love(computer programming) and this contradicts the family dynamic of men earning more money and women spending more money. So how do I make her not so emotional Or at least accept it

My bf had some soda and snacks he bought and put in the fridge at my place. When my ex husband was over at my place visiting his kids either him or his dad (my former father in law) got into my boyfriends food stash. When my boyfriend came over the next day he saw someone at his food and opened his soda and he told me I should get him more at the store. Is he mean for doing this?

My husband an I have been together for 18 years. We have 4 children that range from 16 -7, we have custody of his 11 month old neice that we have have had since she was three months. I love the baby like my own, it has strained my family. She was an addict baby. It has been hard, no sleep and family heartache. Mother was addicted to herion at her birth. We have no time together anymore. Is it horrible to demand attention from my husband, I need it I stay at home with 5 kids, take em to school and run em to all their sports.

I've scared of being in a marriage scam but I feel that he is being very genuine.He's 21 I'm 22 .I know his family and his family knows me.I'm also a young mother and he's very happy and understanding about it as well as his family .And everyone thinks we should tie the not but the stereotypes of a marriage scam is clouding my decision. someone please help!!!!

Long story short; I briefly dated my male friend 8 months ago. We ended things bc he said he wasn't ready for a girlfriend (he was living in his parents apt, only had $500 saved in the bank, insecure about his life). He emphasized that he didn't want to use me for sex & said I'm girlfriend material & even though I was offering friends with benefits he didn't want to bc he knows what kind of girl i am. However, HE wanted to stay friends & we did.. He hasn't dated anyone since & he's SO attentive & caring & protective of me. 4 months ago he started flirting heavily with me again & saying that Im wife material & joking about how i intimidate him. He's been there for me while im going through family problems. Then 3 weeks ago we were hanging out & he started joking about us having sex & I laughed it off but then he KEPT on joking for the next few weeks and hinting and so I joked said "well maybe we need to revisit that" and he said "Ok, anytime" then he took my phone & looked at my photos & joked are there any sexy photos of you? I said no and he said "well you should send me some haha" and I said "Now why would I do that if we're not doing anything" and he mumbled "well maybe if you did it would encourage other behaviors" and then we dropped it and proceeded to talk. On Monday I decided to send him a sexy photo with a sexy text and he LOVED it and we SEXTED for 10 minutes but then he texted "Not to change the subject but I meant to text you but I was swamped at work today. How was yesterday? I know it mustve been tough for you, you ok?" (yesterday was fathers day & me & my dad have been fighting) SO that led to him texting me about my dad and trying to make me feel better for 40 minutes! Longer than we sexted. I thanked him and he said "anytime, thank you for the sexy photo. I have a business dinner right now but we will continue this at another time." I said "sounds good" and he wrote "Id much rather be with you right now and that sexy body but I guess I'll settle for a steak dinner lol"

I separated from my husband 5 months ago. We had been arguing a lot because of our financial situation and shortly after I found out he was having an affair. I grew suspicious and went through his phone one night and saw texts between him and another woman. I confronted him which ended in a huge fight and I told him to leave our home. We had been together a total of 12 years and married for 2. Recently I have been in contact with him and he wants to try to work things out. I see the effort he's putting into fixing what was broken but I am extremely afraid to trust him again. I love him with all my heart, he's my first love, my best friend and I honestly believed he was my soul mate and has been really difficult for me to let go because he's all I've known/wanted. Can we possibly get passed this? Does the pain and feeling of betrayal ever go away?

Ok so I'm 14 and in 8th grade. I talk to a lot of guys on snapchat from around where I live bc we have mutual friends! Now that it's summer a lot of them want to meet and hook up.(makeout and feel up and stuff) so I met up with one of them and hooked up with him for an hour and a half nonstop. Then a few days later I did the same with a new guy and then a week later a new guy and a few days after that a new guy. I just want to make this summer fun and memorable bc ur only young once! Sooooo idk if its bad to do this and think that

he was amazing telling our friends It lasted for about a week because he then found out what i had done with one guy, sexual wise and many untrue rumors were spread about me We were hook up buddies for a while if you know what i mean It was noting emotional However the guy i was talking to got mad at me for a week and wouldnt tell me why He started being very very dry and i still kept trying to go for it At the beginning of us talking I told him that I had hooked up with person x a couple of times and if there were any rumors about me to address them with me instead of assuming because i wanted him to hear it from me not the whole world and i wanted to gain his trust I didnt go into detail what it was that i had done with the boy and it was everything but sex and that is the only person i had done that type of stuff with except with my one ex boyfriend that i had been dating for 8 months. He found out in detail later on from someone which is why he was being very dry i later found out from him. 1 week later i went on a trip and things doing good then my friend started snapchatting him and they started flirting and this was around the time that things started to go downhill again I still had feelings for him i am so into him but my "friend is all over him knowing how he left me out of no where not talking to me Taking pictures with him twinning to school What to do I cant tell her because she will spread it to everyone and everyone will hate me HOW TO GET HIM TO LIKE ME AGAIN

Should a husband reward his wife when she does her part in marriage by gifts, dates, mini vacations just us two. What about if she does non of that like cooking, cleaning, groceries shopping, washing clothes. She don't work but takes or daughter to camp and I pick her up after work. We only have sex when she wants to, she complains about me time but ain't that free time when I'm at work amd or daughter at camp. That's 9hrs of me time, I solo come home to cook our meal, make sure our daughter gets a bath, I take a shower and watch tv.and she complains about me not spending time with her when I get off work. Help me out you people please

My boyfriend doesn't allow me to talk to other men, not even guy friends because he doesn't speak to other women as well but I converse with my guy friends every now and then, not often at all even though he's told me not to and I don't tell him. I'm not cheating or flirting, I'm just talking, is it bad that I don't tell him? I just move on from it like nothing, I put too much pressure on myself and think that I'm doing wrong when I tell others this situation they tell me that If im not doing anything wrong then I shouldn't be worried but I'm worried because I think to myself that I feel like I'm being fake or inconsiderate to his boundaries, should I not tell him, not snitch on myself for talking to my friend and just move on or should I just tell him even when he doesn't like it at all?

I was playing spin the bottle with my friends and i was supposed to kiss this one guys but we were both uncomfortable but i was uncomfortble only because i dont know how to kiss in this kinds of situations. I know how to kiss normaly but its differen in spin the bottle. PLZ HELP

Im 17byear old girl, and Me and my crush have known each other 7 years, and that history bonds us to the point that pain and fights never last. We have a connection and somehow know each other, even when its been a while. We're so comfortable being ourselves with each other that outsiders don't understand how we can put up with imperfections, but they're not imperfections, they're our complete selves and we have learned how to adapt to them. I would do anything for him, and have sacrificed so much to try to make him happy. He's been hurt so deeply by women, and sometimes we hurt each other, but I don't want anything to happen to him, I want to make him happy and safe. We have the same values and likes and dislikes, and our families love each other and he has a logical and steady financial plan for the future. I have tried but I have never loved anyone like him before. But how can I make this dream a reality? What are the practical steps? I have no idea how he feels about me, or what to do next.