So I am 25 years old and I have bipolar and I don't want to work due to my condition. I highly doubt that I can even hold a job and I have been denied about 5 times for it. In about three years from now I am supposed to be going to vietnam to meet and marry this vietnamese girl. It's official this time and I am gonna marry her. Both of our families came to an agreement and we are supposed to get married in 3 years. I have been criticized for being 25 and not having a job and still living at home. People criticize me for living at my parents home when I am 25. I just don't have the ability to move out right now and plus it is normal in my culture for us to live with our parents until we get married. I tried explaining to my friends about that many times and they keep on saying this is america not vietnam you need to live your life by american standards and etiquette. I don't wanna do that and I want to follow the vietnamese tradition and live in the house until I get married and move out. Why do people think it is weird for me to still live here ? Why do I get told to get my act together if I wanna get married ?

On IG my husband posted a picture. This guy commented and said "good pic!" My husband responded with "it would look better with you in it". I thought this was a weird response so I asked my husband about it and he says they are friends and he was just being complimentary. Do you people think this sounds complimentary, or kinda flirty? Thanks for any input. :)

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I had some dates with a man who was divorced and custody a 5 year old kid. His ex-wife sent me a message that she and the man did not divorce!!! I responded it was none of my business and they should sort it out by themselves. Later I texted him "You and your wife please stop send text to annoy me. You should take care of you kid and wife in stead of flirting me". He replied "Of course I must take care of my kid". Then I said "You have to take care of your wife too" and he replied "If you are wife, you will know it". Is he or she a liar? What would you think about him?

I'm not sure what the clitoris is. Does the penis enter there or is that just a spot of arousal? Also how can you tell where to put the penis? Is it possible to put it in the pee hole, or would it just go right to the vagina? Should I be worried about putting my penis in the wrong hole my first time?

My best friend has been struggling financially due to her husband's job loss two months ago. She has been a stay at home mom for a year now because her husband's salary was enough for them to live comfortably. But since he lost his job, she says she sees no motivation on his part to find work. She, too, is now trying to find work and daycare for the little one, but she says all her husband does is play video games or watch movies. They've argued over it before and he makes promises that he doesn't keep. What can she do to get him to look for work? Also, he is collecting unemployment but it isn't near enough to cover their expenses. I'm assuming he thinks he can "ride" by on it. I can't tell you the countless arguments they've had on this subject, so personal experiences really helpful! Please no rude comments, helpful answers appreciated.

I have had my nipples pierced for a little over 6 months and i want to go swimming but my family can not know about them so i was hoping i could take them out while we are swimming without them closing

I'm really sad.. I don't know what to do I have been crying all day and I feel like my family is being torn apart...

I just turned 26, but feel so lost, even though I have a wonderful husband and daughter , I am not happy. I just always felt that I am not a family oriented person . I have been married and been a mom since age 19. Well the issue is,... That I never really wanted to be married, nor be a mom, as horrible as it sounds. I have always been a free spirit, and feel so trapped in this family lifestyle. Recently I took a trip part solo and with my childhood girlfriend to Japan. I have never felt so blissful in my life, and realized that what truly makes me happy is to be free and to travel. I am seriously considering leaving my family for my dreams. I am so frustrated and don't know what to do. My husband doesn't seem to understand and I have been very depressed since I got back from my trip. In fact, I was never happy even before my trip, and my husband could tell.... Please help!! ----

I heard about women going bra less and that it has many benefits but most of these women have small breasts. Will going bra less be beneficial to me as well? And if you have an article or book for reference, can you link it?

The first method would be based on subjectivity as we all know that feelings are very arbitrary and unmeasurable. The second method would be based on objectivity and kind of along the lines of Darwinian Theory where the person who is the MOST fit wins you as their prize. I think I married for the first reason, but I think I would have been better off doing it for the second reason. But now I wonder, which is the "right way" and why would you say that away is the way we should be doing it over the other? *way

I've only been with 3 partners in my lifetime, i am 26 yrs old. Whenever my fiance and I have unprotected sex and he finishes in me, a few hours later even after I shower and wash with a unscented soap my vagina will have a horrible smell to it. Now this has never happened to me with any other partner and I am clean from any std, we have both been tested. The odor is fishy and can be smelled through my pants. It does go away after a day or so. But im just curious as to why this keeps happening. It does not happen when we wear condoms. What could be causing this?

My husband and I have been married nearly 6 years. We have children, one of which is extremely stubborn and hyperactive. We don't trust anyone else to watch our kids except our families. My mom was never married and adopted me, therefore she cannot fathom why we need a date night. We have told her that sometimes, we would like a break from the noise to just go to supper or to a show. She throws a fit and says that date nights are optional/a choice and are therefore unnecessary and very selfish of a couple. Some relatives of ours go on a date at least once a month, we are lucky to get one a year. We also argue about my mom and other things due to stress. Is my mom correct, that we do not need a date (she often demanded she be allowed to go with my 1st husband and I on dates actually) OR are our relatives correct that we should go out?

I have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 and the youngest is 5. I find that I yell and scream at my children over very insignificant issues... Such as my daughter that is 5 she spilled her cereal and I just exploded w/ anger and started yelling at her and I ended up calling her stupid. It's just small things like that, that make me explode with anger at them and I will usually apologize later, in hope that can help some what. I also am this way with my husband. I find that every little thing he does annoys me or enrages me to points that I will explode. Why am I like this? PS* I came from a great loving home. My parents were overly sweet & kind folks. Why am I such a monster?

My husband has been deployed for 3 months and I still have quite a few to go. I can't seem to get to sleep at night cause I'm so used to him sleeping next to me. I know it's been a while but I just can't get used to it. It's starting to effect me and I have a two year old so I really need to be rested to take care of her. I've only been getting around 4 hours a night. I just can't seem to turn my brain off so to speak to get to the point where I can really sleep well. I was doing good for a while...but not anymore. Any suggestions or words of wisdom are more than welcome.

I have been suffering from migraines for over 10 years. I am 23 years old and the older i get the worse it gets. My husband seems to lack compassion when i am in severe pain. Last night my head was killing and my husband wanted to have sex. I told him no and he got so angry he slept on the couch. This is not the first time he has done this. How can i get him to unferstand my migranes are something serious and im not just being a grouch * also when my migranes are over i have sex with him right after.

My husband and I are separated, due to infidelity. We are "working" on it but I often feel like last choice. I don't know if im overly needy and demanding too much or just taking crumbs out of the fear that he will leave me. I know it may seem like common sense to some but I am in so much emotional turmoil that i cant decifer logical thoughts from anxious thoughts... Anyways.. question time: today is my day off and my husband ended not having to go to work, for hours and hours i heard nothing from him. I finally receive a text and i act normal because I know im anxious and maybe over thinking things. However, I ask what time we are going to see a movie there is a 7pm and 12am viewing. he chooses 12am, then i ask " when do you want me to come by" he says 11. i dont know if im just being crazy due to my anxiety, but i feel hurt by that choice. i guess i want to feel like he wants to spend time with me. A part of me wants to skip out on plans because i feel taken for granted, last choice. but i dont know .. can you please help me rationalize. just need an outside perspective.

I have a creamy white lotion discharge that has a very mild itch with no smell. When my discharged was checked under the microscope by my GYN, she said that most of the cells were healthy but I had a couple bacteria infected cells. She gave me Metriondzale cream which did not help. After so long of using the insertor, I developed this deep dull belly pain when inserting it into my vagina. Sometimes with the discharge, I get this tickle itch feeling. What could this be? It does not come out in big amounts, but it changes from thin to not thick, but pretty full. What could this be?

Sex doesn't necessarily mean you love someone else at all, neither does it mean that you dont love your own partner, so why is it cheating? I am married and I love my wife but I could EASILY sleep with someone else, or a different woman or two every day but I really love my wife and would never leave her. After thinking about it rationally and in depth, I dont see how its logical that having sex with someone else is a betrayal at all. It seems like one of those things rooted in Christianity which are now obsolete, along with with shunning homosexuality. People probably only think its a betrayal because they are conditioned to think of it as that when its not.

I feel I can get a new wife but never a new mother. I love her but she has disrespected my mother by refusing to take part in her Thanksgiving last year and now calling her "pissy" for complaining. We have been married two years.

i got married in las vegas in late march the relationship only lasted less than 3 weeks. she went back to mexico when i refused to apply for a green card on her behalf right after we got married. i only contacted her once about getting a divorced, her answer was she was never going to sign any divorce documents and for me to do whatever i wanted. do you think i qualify for an annulment and if so could i do it in california or do i need to go to vegas? if you know of an inexpensive way help me!

I am in the real estate business. I am a home restorer and a rental maintenance man. I have been in many homes where the husband was a professional and the wife was a home maker. I have seen these women cheat on their husbands when they were away. In fact, I too have been propositioned by these married women. They seem to have no reservations about it. Some don't even believe they are actually cheating as they refer to it as just sex. It seems that women are more prone to cheat than men nowadays. What would you attribute this behavior to in the 21st century?

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We have been talking and seeing each other for alittle bit of 3 years. He has talked about having sex with me but haven t done it yet. We ve done a lot of sexting and touching but not over that because we are both married and i only have limited of time to see him . Even when I was pregnant, he would tell me how beautiful I was and sexy. Would still talk to me emotionally and sexually but I refused to see him because of the pregnancy. My infant is 6 months old and he still wants to talk to me. I tried to tell him I was talking to someone else so he would back off but he confused how jealous he was an asked all sorts of questions. So I told him nothing was of it. I want to stop talking to him but I can t! This past week, he invited me over to his home ( for the first time) be his wife was away but I told him u had to work. Also, I would never step foot in his family home. He would bring up the past and says he had a fun time and WANt to relive it. We don t talk 24/7, usually on and off. We re not in each others business all the time. We re pretty chill for the most part. Is this an affair? What s going on? Why can t we stop? Even when we told each other we were stopping, we still ended up talking to each other. We set rules for no strings attach but he says those things. Which I don t understand. We are 21 years apart. He is 48 and I am 27. Will it end? Is it an affair or nothing?

I was just wondering if it is normal to clean up right after sex. I see in movies and stuff that people lay in bed after sex just holding each other. My wife insists on running to the bathroom to clean up. Any ideas?

I'm an asexual person. I'm just curious.. I mean there are lots of responsibilities when the child is born and we can see the husband (sme) going after other women and stuff. Also the increasing devorce and expense of marriage adds to it all. Stillwhy get married?? can't they stay as gf/bf.. Dnt say trust issues cuz even if they dnt hav trust as lovers shdnt they nt be getting married??

Wife started "modeling" she was a doing a shott with some shady guy so I tell her no nudes he wanted to do a a phot with her nude wrapped up in a confederate flag as long as she was covered that was fine with me I just dont want anyone else looking at her like that well she came home and told me she got in a white tee with no bra and.jumped in the lake and let some random guy pretty much take.nudes of her and she didnt even get paid she got some new clothes out of it and thats it would u ask your wife to quit modeling if she went against your wishes and broke your heart I feel like ive been cheated on or should i find that photographer and put his ***** *** in the hospital......... my biddy.models and said that this dide is shady uses the pics for his personal use and sells them to foreign porn sites

Hello! So I'm asking this question because I am a 14 year old guy, and have been thinking that when I get into a relationship in like 10 years, if my spouse would mind that I'm not handy... My dad isn't handy and my mom actually does most of the work around the house. My dad didn't know how to take care of anything. Construction things don't seem to interest me at all so will I be forced to do it? When do men learn how to do handy things??? I'm paranoid!!!!!

I feel so very lonely, just need someone to touch my hair, my face, care about me, smile at me and make me feel happy and beautiful. Many people have what I dont have, do I ask too much?

I have sole custody of our 9 month old son. The divorce and everything was just finalized in May. He gets every Saturday from 11-4 and then an additional 5 hours on another day of the week. It has been 2 weeks and he hasn't had any visitation. He keeps cancelling because he says he's too tired to see our son. I have tried working out other days for him to see our son, but he never sticks with the plans. The court says that I should work around his work schedule since his schedule is different every week and mine is a fixed schedule. But, what do I do now that he won't even try to see our son? I've never tried to stop the visitations; I always try to find a way for him to have them. Even when he does have the visitations he brings him back home after 2-3 hours. What should I do? I live in Ohio.

We were at the store the other day and i was paying and my hubby putting the bags in the buggy there was a girl behind me and she kept looking back trying to get his attention behind my back and well he is like a pup on a tight leash and never looks up but anyway she was making me soooo mad i felt like turning around and smacking the snot out of her, and to top it off he was with his wife and kids.... and another woman was staring at him at the park today... does that not tick u off? I find that very rude expecialy if he has got his woman with him

So if a married man has a woman on the side, gives her gifts, has sex with her, etc....she's a mistress. What if it's a married woman with a "kept man"? What is he called?

I've been married for 20 years and for the past year my husband has been looking up porn and then deleting it from the history so I can't see what he has been looking at. He has also been reading sex stories and when I found out about this he said he wasn't reading them anymore. Well I found them on his phone by accident. He said he's not reading them anymore but I'm having a hard time believing that since he lied once before. Should I be concerned?

I have always considered myself an attractive person, always got a lot of male attention ever since I hit puberty, and aside from the times I went a little too nuts on the ice cream bars, I was always more than pleased with what I saw in the mirror. I've been offered to model by a couple of scouts, and people have told me in random conversation I should get into modeling. The guys I've dated in the past always seemed very interested in me and I never felt I was treated poorly. However, when I got married (for dumb reasons, I wanted independence from parents and the military benefits were all too alluring in today's economy), my husband treated me awfully. Never complimented me even when i really tried my best to look nice, he said nothing, yet didn't hesitate to mention how good other girls looked. I thought maybe he's just distant or it was a pathetic attempt to make me jealous, but I later found out that he complimented his exes quite a lot (who, no offense to them, were really nothing special), sometimes even to thep oint they got annoyed with it. I also saw old messages of him telling other girls how beautiful they were, and leaving compliments on lousy drawings and mediocre music performances. I beg him to compliment me and he will but it'll seem insincere, and if I just simply ask him how I look or something he'll say "you look okay." I get hit on pretty frequently when I'm out. Not to sound full of myself but I do get qiute a lot of stares, and guys strike up conversation and ask to hang out. I've never had a problem with men. I get compliments from other guys by the boatload. These of course mean nothing to me (although thank goodness for them for preventing my self esteem from being completely ravaged), since my husband doesn't say much. Perfect strangers seem to think more highly of me than my husband and it's extremely depressing. I don't know what to do?! I feel like the biggest loser to have to ASK for compliments and then still come up short of having heard something really nice for the day. What to do? I'm trying to be patient but I don't think anything much more is to come. I am desperate, if things don't change, the other guys who compliment me might start getting a little bit more than just a smile and thank you.

His house was very messy when we were still dating. He promised he would clean, it's only messy because he's too busy. Now that we're married... he hasn't changed. I can't clean the house because all his documents are on the table. It's all important and he doesn't want me to touch them. I told him to put it in the closet where all important documents should be... but no. he hoards, magazines, fliars, plastics.. I try to tidy things up but he won't let me touch anything. we have 3 bedrooms... 2 bedrooms are filled with boxes and junk. we sleep in the smallest bedroom.. separate beds. He doesn't want one big bed. He told me Japanese only sleep on separate beds. BULL#### He doesn't care about my culture. I'm American Filipino. We care about family and cleanliness. Every time I ask him if my family can stay over when they visit. He says NO!! No family, no friends.... I want children but I ignores me. He even told me to not wear shorts, or remove my bra at home. It's not sexy and in the long run he doesn't get turned on. Is that normal?? Do men really lose interest so quickly?? We argue about his mess... he tells me to change all the time!! CHANGE CHANGE CHANGE!! Japanese people are like this, Japanese people Japanese people. He can't accept my culture, He ignores my needs, he doesn't want to clean, our sex life is zero. I changed for him. I did everything he wants. I left my country, my family and friends for him. But he can't change. What should I do???

the reason as to why i think i cant get married is because i have somebody else in my heart and i also think it wont be fair living a life with a guy when u dont feel anythng for him

I am cheating on my wife by talking to another woman for past yr. I hide all texts .

My wife is a gym rat and developed friendship with a bunch of men. Some she added on facebook. I trust her but some of these men seem to want more (I read her fb messages with her consent). She also mentioned that some of them hit on her. I personally had to confront a guy for overly complimenting her. In my point of view as her husband, should I tell her to stop talking to these men? She has a brain. However, I'm also worried that some of these men are real life creep and wouldn't stop at nothing to get to her. Whay do you think?.

I want to divorces my wife a month ago now I find out she's pregnant. Because of her age would it be wise to wait out the pregnancy?