There is this girl that I regretted not telling her I like her. When we were in high school she and I would passionately stare at each other for several seconds almost everyday for 3 years but never talked. There are other things that indicate she liked me but won't get into it. The fact is that I was extremely shy. I thought it would be easier to tell her when we were at the same college, but turned out to be harder because I barely saw her. When I would encounter her at the college she had her head down, looking sad. Again I couldn't tell her I liked her and blew my shot. Now I haven't seen her for 2 years. Fastward in the future I am much more Confident now. I have been lifting weights, running, and about to graduate nursing school. Everything is going right in my life. But I feel that there is some loose ends that I have to take care of if I am going to move on. So my question is if you were in her place how would you react. Thank you!

Like what should I be thinking when or before i approach a girl i find attractive?

If so, how did U move on?

To keep this short , me and my girlfriend broke up it was forced by her father. We still care, want to be with each other, the part that I don't get is she's asked me to not talk with girls that are always flirting with me, but she's ALWAYS talking to other guy and hugging them! Any clue as to why that is?

I've been talking to this girl for 6weeks & we don't see each other often but we talk & chill outside of school. She ignores me when i ask her out but she asks me to go out. I flirt with her, she used to call at night, she knows I like her, & for some reason she wants me to move in with her & her friend when we graduate. She came to my house once & we were all over each other but we've never kissed or had sex. I was texting & flirting with her yesterday and she said "you want me so bad don't you?I know your dirty thoughts lol." We started talking about us just being friends or more than that.I asked if she considered me more than a friend sexually. She said no, she doesn't want any kind of relationship or commitment because she's got a lot going for herself right now and she doesn't need a guy pulling her down. I told her I wouldn't but she said that she didn't wanna hurt me, that she's a nightmare, and that if we did have sex she'd stop talking to me after. We were having a serious but joking text at the same time & it was all good. Today my friend & I parked in the same parking lot she was & I saw her getting in her car. I went up to say hi & I accidentally scared her lol.She seemed mad at me & we were fine before, she just didn't seem friendly, like she didn't wanna talk or see me. I doubt it but maybe because I was with another girl?I texted her "didn't mean to creep up on you lol just saw u & wanted to say hi." No reply.Why is she mad? Should I talk or text her again?

When my ex broke up with me, he told me to start dating again because he wouldn't care and wouldn't get jealous at all. For some reason, I don't believe this. It's been a month since we broke up. And we recently started talking again. We haven't talked about us yet. Should I tell him that I'm dating someone to see how he reacts? Currently I'm not dating anyone. I still have feelings for him. And I know he also has feelings for me. We broke up because he was deployed to Iraq

Is he just not that into me?

I've been crazy about this girl for 4 years but she friendzoned me although she does think I'm attractive to her, the problem is her attitude and I've come to accept it but it still bothers me, this other girl started talking to me the other day and I'm starting to like her but I still have this huge crush on the other one. Girl A: We've gone out four times, already kissed and held hands, she can be really sweet sometimes to just sarcastic and rude on a bad day, she always helps me out in every way she can and has done so much for me. But I have a problem with her extreme liberalism, she's done almost everything, kisses lots of guys (even girls) without any second thought and does weed, really yolo although she focuses really hard on her studies and doesn't want a boyfriend at the moment. Girl B: I've been talking to her for a week straight, we do most of the chatting at midnight until she falls asleep with her phone on her face, from what I've seen, she's completely different, it kind of makes me laugh in a good way how cute she is when talking because she acts really innocent and is very considerate, started talking to me because she saw I had a surgery and wanted to give me tips, she sends loooooong messages full of emojis and usually responds in less than 5 seconds. The problem here is that we don't seem to completely agree on opinions as much as the other girl and that might create some discussions in the near future. Should I keep pursuing the first girl or...?

Okay so I like this guy and my friends think he kinda likes me back cuz he always teases me all the time and everytime we talk he blushes , and smiles . Soo could y'all pls list some examples?😇💗

so we live far apart and i heard that asking a guy for help on something makes him feel good about himself. What are some things i could ask him for help with?

I m a pretty skinny guy who gets tired after a couple minutes of stroking during sex. How can I stop this? What should I focus on when working out? Any other tips other than working out? Thanks

So I have known this girl since October and we have been friends since then. She is a little shy/awkward but at first she used to be fine around me and we could talk and talk for ages since we had a lot in common. So over the last week or so I have noticed she keeps avoiding eye contact unless i dont look at her which is when she starts staring again. She also used to giggle a lot at everything i said and seems a little more awkward sometimes although i can still easily make her laugh if and when i want to. She is pretty much fine around everyone else just seems to be different around me. She was also upset at me the entirety of last week eve though i never said anything and she keeps going through phases where she is okay one day then seems a little cold the next. Like last Friday she pretty much ignored me and today she was really talkative and back to her usual self and started paying more attention after I decided to work with another girl for our group project and she kept asking me stuff about her after class. Does this mean she likes me because I kind of do have feelimgs for her but i dont think i have time for a relationahip yet

Background: So I play cup soccer and I'm on a team that plays in the national league. I'm new to the team this year along with 3 other girls. I am a little behind technically but I can still hang. I have suffered 2 injuries that hve somewhat set me back a little bit but I'm working hard to catch up. My main problem is I only play half a game at most and my mom has been pushing me so hard lately. She wants me to play more and she takes it out on my saying things like "I'm starting to think I care more than u" or "if u keep playing like that u deserve to sit on the bench". I'm trying to not let it bother me but it's really killing my confidence. I want more than anything to play and play well but I also want my moms approval. It seems like no matter what I do I'm not good enough for her. How do I get her to lay off? Or how do I manage to not listen to her so that I don't let it affect my play?

Last year in July I was talking to this guy who is 5 years about to be 6 years older than me..which where I'm from is illegal..we dated in August-November...it was good until we has s*x, because after the 1st time..literally every time we saw each other we'd have s*x then go eat..he never dressed up or did anything cute...but we had this connection like we could tell each other anything...I tried moving on, but no one is like him..I still love him...we still have s*x except for last month when we quit talking...I called him drunk last weekend and he ended up staying the night with me, and he told me he's still in love with me...he says we cant be together due to our age, but if thats the case i dont get why hes still having s*x with me? am I really being used ? Or will things work when I'm old enough ? Which won't be until next year

There's this guy that I find really cute, I actually had a class with him last year. The thing is I don't know what to say. I really want to be his friend, the problem is that he is shy. From what I heard is that he doesn't talk to girls he is really reserved (He is straight). Whenever I pass him in the hallways we always make eye contact every time we pass each other. In the mornings I sit with my friends near his locker so I always see him. When he passes by my friends embarrass me by saying "Oh hey look who it is!" out loud he even turns around when he hears that. A few days ago, I was sitting in front of the stairway (where he goes through and passes everyday) I looked up and we made eye contact but he gave me a strange look. Everyone keeps on telling me to just go up to him and say hi, but the problem is that i'm shy too. I also think that If I were to go up to him and say "Hey" he would just look at me and just give me a weird look. My friends tell me that when i'm not looking he checks me out and smiles when he is talking to his friends while looking at me. What do I do?! I really like him but I don't know if he finds me attractive, I really want to be his friend without coming off as creepy or a stalker (Btw me and him are shy). Thank you.

This morning I got a text from him saying ''Daddy's c*m hungry little bwc fiend needs her little asshole toyed and ******'''. No we're not dating, nor will we ever, but doesn't it seem disrespectful? Doesn't even try to sound seductive, and gets mad and ignores me when I call him out on how gross he sounds? At least talk to me a little. Pls he knows better..I'm 24, he's 29.

He's 38 and married with a kid and I'm 16. He honestly usually innocently flirts with me a lot. This isn't in a cocky way but I'd consider myself pretty and so like do teachers find students pretty? Idk The way he looks at me, calling me a nickname he gave me, how he smiles so big when I ask him a question, asking if I was texting a boyfriend, etc.. But this past week we haven't talked like at all. It's partially because I've been in a bad mood and just haven't been talking to anybody in class, but I just feel sad we haven't talked. Like I have a huge crush on him and it sucks knowing that obviously nothing could happen. But when we at least talk it makes me happy but we haven't in like a week. I just don't get it or how to get over him.

For example if someone tweets that they don't care about something they used to think a lot about. Does that mean they honestly don't care, or is it the other way around? Because from personal experience when I actually care, but I'm really mad/trying to make myself believe that I don't care, I tweet that kind of stuff. But I'm not sure if it's like that for everybody. I don't recall ever sharing anything that I didn't care about at all.

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I have a friend who at one time, I was really starting to develop feelings for. I have severe OCD and have had to move back home with my family, and they are very unsupportive and even emotionally abusive at times, making it very hard for me to get better. And I posted about it on an OCD support group online, and he messaged me saying he would like to help. And he was there for me - he always listened and really seemed to want to help me beat the OCD. Then he told me he had developed feelings for me, and I realized I had feelings for him too. But now, I'm kind of seeing that I have lost interest in him. He is just NOT what I would want in a boyfriend. I thought I could look past the superficial things, but the undesirable parts of his personality are now making it so it ALL just looks really unattractive to me. Physically, he weighs over 400 pounds and has an unattractive face too. He's missing some of his front teeth. He sits around and plays video games and smokes weed all day, and mocks people who want to work hard and make something of themselves, calling them "try-hards." He also makes fun of people who go to the gym, which is ridiculous considering that he is morbidly obese. He has also offered to threaten my family to get them to stop yelling at me, such as saying he could deface or shut down my dad's business website - although they have been horrible to me, they are still my family, I still love them, and it is unacceptable for other people to threaten them. He is also really vulgar and often says words like "titties" and "pussy" - I thought I could get past this, but I really want a classier guy than this. He's also always talking about how he can give me oral sex, even sending me pictures of his tongue between his fingers. It creeps me out and makes me extremely uncomfortable. He also asks if my vagina is acting up whenever I'm stressed out about anything. It's not only vulgar but inaccurate - being on your period is not "your vagina acting up." He apparently has told all of his friends that we are getting married - I agreed to a date with him months ago, I never agreed to marry him. Now I feel like I'm being shoehorned into something I really don't want. I have waited my whole life to find love - why should I have to settle for a 420 pound guy with a 3 inch penis (yes, he told me that) who can't behave with class and respect, is almost trying to force me into a relationship, and thinks it's OK to insult and threaten my family? He has said multiple times that I owe him a date - he has mentioned that the date could be payback for all his help. But it seems like he wants much more than one date - he and his family are trying to pressure me to move to Arkansas when I have NO INTEREST in living there. He has said his parents probably love me more than mine do - what RIGHT does he have to say something like that?? But at the same time, he was there for me when no one else was. And he is saying now that he is depressed because we aren't talking as much anymore. I feel like I owe him now. How do I break this off?

I mean...I don't know...Sometimes he'll disappear and act really distant for a while and I wonder what's up. I get we're just fwb but I've had ones before and we were at least actually friends, as opposed to this guy, who only wants to talk about sex and occasionally other stuff when he's bored. anyways I asked him in a text conversation this morning and his answer was ''Do I sense insecurity?" and I said ''No'' and he hasn't responded since. Was I in the wrong to ask? He's made me feel guilty.. literally been fooling around for 7+ months...not even actual sex, just play.

They make an honest mistake forgetting to meet a girl, which meant a no call no show. But genuinely apologizes and the girl gives him some grief? But, then she's ok and tells him she missed him being there? Or would you rather her of been like,"no worries, we'll try getting together another time"

A friend of mine told me he s been telling people he s single and that he doesn t care about me he just thinks about this different girl,but when I confronted him about it he claims he never said that and that s not how he feels at all.should I trust him and stay with him or should I break up with him so he doesn t play me

So there's this girl that I've known for awhile now and she's a really good and beautiful girl that I like being around, I've had feelings for her before and im pretty sure she knew a little bit at the time but it wasn't weird or anything as in we are pretty good friends I don't really have as much serious feelings for her as I did last year but there's still that small Part of me that has a little bit Of those feelings for her, it's not that serious tho as in shes the type that isn't interested in relationships until college. Ever since the school year started I've been thinking about wanting to take her to ball/prom with me and that's what I was planning on I'd really like to take her, but recently me and this other girl have been talking for about a month and I can see me asking her out eventually as in with in before ball depending on how stuff goes nd I actually like her it's not just some random girl. Should I still ask her to ball??(ball is in like 2 months) My concern is if/when me and this girl start dating it might be a problem with her please help

I had eight miscarriages before the age of 27, followed by four years of infertility and thousands of dollars on fertility treatments with my ex husband, with no results. I m with my bf five months, and I m pregnant. I thought I was broken, so I was careless. We didn t use anything for protection. Now I m in a corner. My bf is 4 years younger then me and has no interest in children of his own. I am seeing this as my miracle accident... My last chance at a baby. Has anyone been in a situation like this? I m terrified to tell my bf. He has made it very clear he doesn t want kids, and only went without protection because I ensured him I am broken. I know he loves me, but if he suggests an abortion, I m going to flip out on him. Someone give me some advice. I m a middle aged woman. I shouldn t be feeling like this.

I got mad at this girl so I stop talking to her, and I catch her staring at me everytime, and then she saids that she accidentally screenshot my snapchat. She tried getting my attention in wendys by saying I hate this guy loud as **** can someone answer my question?

So his family is divided, I met his mother and she is lovely! His brother was nice but his dad was both verbally and emotionally abusive and I don't know how I can speak with respect to him knowing how much he damaged my loving boyfriend. I have dealt with many nights where he has nightmares waking up screaming and crying. I know how painful it was with him telling me how his father hit him and pulled his hair.. I love him and my boyfriend sees him a couple of times a month so they aren't completely distant but I am not sure if I will be able to keep myself composed. How can I do that?

There's this girl whom I'm friends with, I also really like her, although I have no clue whether she feels the same way about me. We get along pretty well and share the same interests, etc. The thing that bothers me though, is that she doesn't really seem to put much effort into talking to me even though she's said I'm one of the few people she trusts and the pretty much the first guy she feels comfortable with. She sometimes also takes days to reply back to me. Now she has anxiety and depression issues and she's said that it sometimes causes her to be avoidant with people and such, and I think naturally that's just how she is. But still, she can at least put in a little more effort?? Like she doesn't really treat me like someone she trusts. I'm mostly the one to initiate things and ask how she's doing, etc. And it kinda hurts how she doesn't really do anything, I dunno. I've also been wanting to talk with her to tell her my feelings (she doesn't know) but she has told that she's tired and can't talk and blah blah blah, even though she tells me she hopes to talk soon too. Yeah I'm starting to question that. It's been the third time in a row. The last time was 5 days ago, and I still haven't replied. And honestly I won't message her until she says something back. If she cared enough, even as a friend, she'd get back to me right?? I think I've put in enough effort. And if she won't message me back in say 2 weeks I plan on telling her something. What should I do? Is it worth it And just to clarify I haven't said anything wrong and I'm not clingy. And just to clarify I haven't said anything wrong and I'm not clingy.

I got mad at this girl so I stop talking to her, and I catch her staring at me everytime, and then she saids that she accidentally screenshot my snapchat and told me in a message she accidentally screenshot my vid. Later on, I was in Wendy s at she tried to get my attention by saying I hate this guy really loud once I was near her but I ignored her can someone please answer this?

I went out with this guy yesterday and it went really well! we had a really long/deep conversation. He even said things like "I've never met someone so much like me!" And "I usually don't tell this kind of stuff to girls." I resisted the urge to text him as soon as I got home. Today at school I saw him in the halls and he acted excited to see me and my walked me to class. There's an improv show this Saturday, is it a good idea to ask him to go with me? Or should I wait for him to ask me out again?

What if this guy, he is analytical thinking and everyone knows him analytical thinking type of person, and scientifically, analytical thinking is more to left brain hemisphere, which is supposedly right-handed. But this guy is left-handed and verbally good, but sucks at math. How could this be?

me and fried are pretty close, well he just like admitted to like me and well now we are sorta something. And its like very intense between us. me and him are really close not I feel like its gonna be weird. we get along great being friends and I'm happy he likes me cuz ya know I like him but how can things be less awkward? is this awkward stage gonna last long? should I talk to him about it?

i was talking to my friend about this girl i saw browsing the internet and i cant find her because i never knew her name. she models and stuff but googling blonde girl isnt exactly gonna get results. so if anyone knows what is this girls name. https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-laxR5un4Er0/VnPX7jeUftI/AAAAAAAAATs/l0TCwX0JLk0/w426-h930/2015%2B-%2B1 sorry the link wont connect copy it and paste it into your search bar and it should come up

I really like and care about her, and have tried to do whatever I can for her (and even told her I cared about her). She started getting super flirty with me (teasy, jokey, staring, etc), and I made a move. I asked her out to a movie, and got an I don't know. Then asked her over text and another I don't know saying she was busy. She then started talking about Prom a lot, so I asked her who she was going with, and she said no one atm. I hinted at the fact of going with me (not actually asking, just feeling out) and she seemed hesitant or shy to answer (but it seemed like she was ignoring it). Next day, she is still flirty, bringing up Prom, hinting at it etc, but I see her walking around with another guy. She keeps telling me they aren't dating and she doesn't like him like that but I don't know. Her friends keep talking about are they official yet, or has he asked you out again (she rejected him the first time he did). I kind of ignore her the rest of the day. Later on she texts me, and when I don't respond she spams me until I do. I'm so confused, my mind tells me she's just playing me and that I need to just move on, but I also feel like I have a chance. I just want to get over it but any thoughts, ideas?

Here's the thing: I really like being choked by my boyfriend (it's a sexual thing), but no matter how long he does it, I'm unable to pass out. The only thing that happens is that I receive a pounding headache. Of course, we want to be safe about this, but I'm also just curious - what preventing me from being able to pass out from this?

Me and my gf have been together roughly 8 months and this guy made his debut appearance into our relationship about 3 months ago. At first, I shrugged it off. My gf is attractive, funny, all the great things many would love about her. The problem is.. he would flirt a lot. He genuinely wants to date her. However, she's showed me she's never flirted back. Though i trust my girlfriend, this guy has consistently tried to buy her meals, give her money 300$+, buy gifts, you name it. She never asks, he just does it and tries to give it to her. Now i just find that completely disrespectful, mostly because I give my gf everything. I treat her right, and she knows that Its not like I can't provide for her. But then this guy, doesn't care she's dating me and continuously will show up out of nowhere to see her and spend hours around her and try to push money and gifts on her. Now, my girlfriend has never flirted back, but I guess does entertain. She's not mean spirited so she can't find it in her to tell him to "**** off" , and she's mentioned more than once she's dating me. I don't know what to do or how to keep living with the situation.

ok so I recently got my nipples pierced. I send my friends pictures of I since they're all girls. I recently got back in contact with my ex. We have been friends for 10 years now, we dated for a year on and off because he is the military so long distance is hard for us. The last time we broke up was a month ago because he got deployed. Now we are just talking and I told him I got my nipples pierced. I kinda did it to show him what he can't have now. He asked to see them and I don't know if I should. Should I politely decline? Say I got a boyfriend so I can't. (I don't have a boyfriend) or should I send them to him? What I want is to make him see how much he ****** up. I didn't want to break up with him. He insisted because he didn't want to "hold me back". He repeatedly told me to start dating other people and that he wouldn't care....I WANT HIM TO CARE. I don't know if he said it to make me move on or he really doesn't care

I met him two months ago at work and we became really close, spending a lot of time together. We talked everyday and he used to treat me to lunch/dinner. Last week I got really drunk (not the first time) and acted really crazy and ended up puking twice. He had to take care of me and it wasn't the first time he had to watch out for me. I took my pants off it front of him and changed into a skirt. I drunkenly said I see him as a friend but never someone I would date. I also said I wanted to give someone a bj and kept asking if I'm ugly and why no one will date me. I talked to him for a bit yesterday and he said he wasn't mad but he never talks to me anymore and acts like I don't exist. Is there a possibility he will forgive me and re kindle our friendship. I really miss him

I feel like a weirdo asking this because normally I feel like I know if a guy likes me & also I don't even know if I like him. To start of we are in college & I am 2 years older than him, I normally date older guys so even crushing on a younger guy is weird. I would like to think I am fairly attractive, normally I feel like I am getting almost constant attention from guys so I guess I am confused why he isn't. The first time I meet him was through friends on a weekend trip & he would like stare at me & sit by me but wouldn't talk much even though all of his friends were talking to me. He did hit on me once straight out but honestly I shot him down a little because he is younger. our paths don't cross much but he normally goes out of his way to say hi and get my attention but then doesn't like really have a conversation with me! This last weekend we were at a party & I was fairly drunk & decided that I wanted to make-out with him. He joined me downstairs & we ended up talking/flirting & he literally did the whole hair behind my ear thing then left his hand on my face looking into my eyes & didn't do anything! Finally I was like screw this I'll make a move, so I did & then after he told me that he didn't make a move because he was intimidated. Also he wanted to actually talk about his family & other stuff. He ended up walking me home & was super concerned about me being cold. That was 3 days ago & he still hasn't said anything to me and I'm like why don't you like me?

i sorry my english not so good, should say "I want sex with tight booty hole but all i get is loose vagina. where my booty girl at?"

So this boy in my class did a presentation about his ancestry and he started talking about how his grandparents met. I listened to the story and I thought that is was a really nice so here it is. His grandfather was walking to his college, saw another girl walking to a different college and fell in love. He would walk miles everyday to catch a glimpse of her.