My husband and I might leave the room and he goes right back at it. Problem is, he will masturbate into things like socks. He's very forgetful and I'm sick of picking up his socks with a nasty surprise.

My husband constantly finds ways to fight with me, makes me miserable and doesnt want to talk to me about any of the issues we are dealing with. If I try to talk to him about anything, he provokes me and causes a fight. He is clever to change the topic. He also doesnt allow me to share my problems. He asks me to deal wirh it myself. We have our good days, go out and go on vacations. But his behaviour is causing stress and tension at home. Why does he do this? How can I normalize my relationship with him? He doesnt want to talk to me about it.

We all know there are many issues with this and that this "used to" be better.

He has a SMALL penis compared to the red HOT ITALIAN BF I had. Do those pumps work?

The guy is separated from his wife and he's an old friend. He asked me if I would consider dating him, but he told me from the start he's still legally married. His wife is currently living in another state and they have a daughter together. Should I really risk this? My worst fear is them getting back together or me messing up a chance for them to get back together, though he claims there is no chance of that happening, but I've seen it happen before.

Our one year contract ended in January 1st of this year but we stayed month to month looking for a house because my husband and I had been saving for a house. He decided that he wanted to make more credit and that's why we are still here paying rent. Well, the rent is the cheapest one around because it's all bills paid and the apartment is decent and pretty big. The only problem is that the AC won't be turned on until in a few weeks and others really hot. Other than that I really don't have any problems. Well my husband wants to move to another apartment but the other complexes won't have any until April or May maybe June and he tells me to keep calling and calling just to keep getting the same answer. Well, he called me from work to call to the place where his mom lives and I told him that I already paid the rent. It's $620 which is pretty cheap like I said. And he got mad telling me that I messed this **** up again and that I should've called again to the other complex. Now I feel like a stupid loser and that everything is my fault that we can't find anything. I mean I have called every single apartment complex and have gotten answers why can't he understand that?

I'm an 18 year old senior at the time of this post and I haven't had sex yet, but I'm an atheist and I don't want to wait till marriage. I do think I would like to be married someday, however, and since I haven't had sex at all I wonder if it is difficult to have sex with only woman for the rest of your life.

There is a divorce happening in my husband's immediate family. I am finding myself in a difficult spot whenever my husband or SIL (who I get along with wonderfully) discuss the specifics with me. Certain people are picking sides which leads to bashing of the other person, etc. It's a sad situation, but it's stemming from hurt and surprise because nobody saw this coming and it is very recent news. While I married into the family, I do not feel it's my place to really offer an opinion whenever people are venting and want to pick my brain. As an outsider, I can remove the emotion and see certain problems that the immediate family members can't. But in my efforts to remain neutral, I have people bothered that I don't fully agree with them and jump in on the action. Have you ever been in a situation like this? Are you truly honest with your spouse with absolutely everything, or do you prefer to keep your opinions to yourself to avoid bothering or insulting them? I was trying to be vague, but I suppose more details would be helpful. It's his parents suddenly divorcing (both in their 60s, which makes it harder for the adult kids I think). He and I have been married just under 10 years.

I will not remain married to a man who does not maintain his faith to God. To even question our faith is disrespectful and blasphemous to Jesus Christ. He died for our sins! Is he not grateful for what our Lord has done so he could be free? No. I absolutely must divorce. What is the normal price of divorce? Atheists shall not answer my question. They will never understand love as the only love a person needs is God's love. My husband not going to church is him denying God. Oh my, is he turning atheist too? No. Not my sweet Peter. What will the neighbors think of our children knowing their father is an atheist? Well I reported your answer Mrs. Frankenstein. Your kind is not welcome here. And I will have you know that you are going to Hell for your disbelief in the Lord Jesus Christ. You should be ashamed of yourself. All of you should be. You all are vile. That's why I want a divorce. You all are pitiful creatures. I can't wait until Lucifer himself takes each and every one of you. This is adultery opinionated. He is having an affair with the devil and disgracing our relationship with Jesus Christ. Is that not enough reason to divorce? I do not speak to vile filth so I will not be responding to your answers any more Frankendevil. The sooner your kind is taken to Hell the better. I am tired of paying higher taxes to keeping the likes of you alive. And to you Anonymous I am glad I have your blessing but you never told me how expensive it is or where to go. I am in Mississippi. What's there to win Frankendevil? While you are burning in hell for the sins you committed, I will be in Heaven with my family. Have you ever wondered why Heaven is above you and Hell is below? It's because we will be staring down at you. Shaming you for your filthy life. So there's no winning. You lost the minute you declared war on God, the ONLY God. Rebecca, thank you for your kind internet links. I will be sure to pray for your health for your good deed. It appears no one knows how much it would cost. I won't believe it costs as much as Bertsta said because I see atheists get married all the time and I don't know how they can afford it if it costs that much. Why with their minimum wage jobs and all. Filthy atheists. I hate all of you. You will be forced to repent. DON'T YOU DARE SAY GOD'S NAME IN VAIN! I KNOW WHAT GOD WOULD WANT BECAUSE I ATTEND CHURCH AND HEAR THE LORD'S WORDS. YOU FILTHY RAT WOULDN'T KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE EVEN IF YOU TRIED. YOUR WHOLE LIFE IS DIRT. WITH LITTLE DIRTY PARENTS TOO. ALL OF YOU WORKING MINIMUM WAGE JOBS AND LIVING OFF OF THE GOVERNMENT. FILTHY. ALL OF YOU FILTHY. I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL TRUMP IS ELECTED. IT WILL BE A RACE OF WHO GETS YOU FIRST. GOD OR TRUMP. TAKE THAT FILTH. My church are the ones who told me to do it. They said they would no longer trust a man who let go of his faith. I agree. A man who abandons his faith is a man with no integrity at all. If he cannot remain committed to God and questions Him then I will not stand for this man any longer. The church promised opportunities for our children. I will not let him ruin this for them. I would rather divorce and show my faith to my Lord than be lorded by an unfaithful man. Sara, I'm sorry to hear about your tornado damage. Surely you could have just moved to your other house while it was being rebuilt right? I do have pity on poor people at the church, but you never know when someone is a God hating rat like that Frankenwhore atheist. So I don't give people food if I don't know they go to my church. I will keep you in my prayers that the construction workers rebuild your house fast and not steal any of your belongings.

I tried "Letting God" control my life and He blew limbs off of my dead tree then sent my neighbor over to my house to threaten my life. So no more God trust for me, God's a jerk.

My fiancee and I are going to get our marriage license and I wanted to know when you obtain your marriage license can you also get married at the same place you get the license at on the same day and if so how do I find information on it . Thank you

I would never used this as tool to get my way or to disarm you. So if you used the D word - do you have already have thoughts to leave your husband? My wife been using the D word for a tool, knowing that it effects me. is my marriage gong to end?

I have been married a couple of years now and before I married my husband we we dating for 4 years. I love him a lot but when I see strangers I get a little excited and tingly. I would never cheat and I have never acted on my excitement but this happens with everyone I see. Is this normal? Does anyone experience the same thing? I feel bad because it happens all the time even though I only love my husband.

She is not who I thought she was. When I first me her she was literally everything I ever wanted and I fell for her I was a young and I knew I fell for a young single mom. She said she finished high school but never went to college and chose to raise her kid I felt something was up but never looked into it. I eventually married her and we had three kids but over time she started acting weird. I hired a PI and I learned after having her investigated she has not only been living a double life working in a unusual profession something called a dominatrix but she has also lied about her past. She didn't grow up in a regular suburban family but with a foster home who according to the investigator is basically a nightmare apparently she ran away from this foster home after getting pregnant at the age of 15 and spent years living out of motels. According to this guy I hired she'd lie about her age and marry guys for their cash and then divorce them. Apparently she's quite the grifter or was. I confronted her we fought and I threw her out. It's not just the lies and secrets she's clearly not as stable as I thought. She's like a party girl or sex addict obsessed with being the perfect step-ford wife. From what I've learned about the real her is she's always been obsessed with becoming the perfect wife with the perfect family but hates herself for wanting to be free and consequently can't reconcile these two sides of herself. I love her but I don't know if i should take her back. From what she's told me I was just a mark then she started to care for me. Apparently she lived the double life because I'm very conservative(or as she calls it vanilla) and she's very kinky. She said she wanted my money in the beginning but grew to care for me. She says before I met her she learned everything I liked so she'd be my dream girl and felt so guilty she devouted all her time into being my dream girl and was afraid I won't like the real her. I'm trying to get to know the real her but we're polar opposites she's more blunt condescending and rude. For example we have this neighbor and when we were leaving she said to her friend "Next time make sure your pig husband doesn't touch my ***. " I then later found out that our neighbor has over the years been making unwanted advances on her even coming close to assaulting her but she never told me because that would worry me and make me unhappy. She's literally all about making me and our kids happy and just doesn't care about herself and it's scary like she doesn't get how big of a deal it is. When I asked why she never told me she said "It's no big deal it happened all the time when I was a kid I learned to deal with it so it doesn't bother me. All I want is to be perfect for you." She's afraid of failing me if she thinks she's failed as a wife she'll go on a suicidal rant. I want to help but I think she shouldn't be around the kids.

So I ve been with my husband for almost 4 years and we were each others first for sex and basically everything. He wants head but I m to scared? He s uncut and ive never put a dick anywhere near my mouth...I ve thought about it a few times but cant bring myself to do so. and even weirder he never takes off his underwear. I ve never seen his dick. Ya...lol..we take a shower together:he leaves his underwear on...we ****: he leaves his undies on....maybe he s not comfortable with himself? Idk what to do. We have a daughter who turns 1 next month also. Any advice on how to get him to finally take the damn things off? Lol and advice on how to get myself to do more in the room?

This seems like pretty unambiguous evidence of his marital state to me but my friend doesn't think he's married "because of the way he acts around me". If you met someone you really liked who wore a ring on that finger how would you figure out their marital status?

I'm very conservative with my money. My husband justifies small purchases as "it doesn't cost that much" and larger purchases - $100 tools etc. as "needs" to do repairs that may or may not happen. For example, he bought an engine hoist, engine stand, and other tools to change out a bad engine on a car that he misdiagnosed before purchase. We bought the car in May - it's still sitting in the front yard with the engine on the stand while I pay insurance and license on it. I'm the breadwinner in the family. I've also burned through a large chunk of my inheritance paying off credit card debt accrued when I was too sick to work full time. He's healthy but just finds excuses to get a job...yet always has needs for tools or electronics. I've bought him a laptop, for example, on the promise that he would get a job...but he never even looked. When I bring it up he says he will look but never has anything to show for it. Please don't respond with "divorce him" as I'm his sponsor so I'm legally obliged to cover his living expenses even if I divorce him. I've shown him our budget. We've talked about how much we have to spend each month. Yet, each time he finds a way to justify his purchase as a "need". $30 here....$20 there. Some things get done a bit at a time. What more can I do to reign in our spending? I can't take away his purchasing power entirely or he won't do anything. I'm at my wits end. I realized this was a bad idea. I don't have enough space to explain why I cannot divulge enough of my current finances to show why so many of the suggestions just simply won't work. What I will say though is even if I take away all the credit cards or close them, he will use all the money in the bank. I live in a state where everything I own is also his so I cannot withhold money from him period. Also, if I don't have money he will just take out a credit card in his name.

I always end up apologizing to him for irritating him even though he irritates me when I'm feeling bad. Why can't he be more understanding?

I am a 53 year old woman and married for 28 years. My husband wants to renew our vows at 30 years but he rcently has this infatuation with wanting to do nude modeling for artists. I am uncomfortable with his disrobing in front of other men and women, I have told him how I feel and he has not acted on it yet But I saw a text message thread on his phone to an art instructor and nude poses he sent to this insructor. Am I wrong for not letting him do this or is it disrespectful to me? He says I am being unreasonable and he would never sop me from doing anything I wanted to do.