So today in class we were working in groups. I had the worst group ever, however there was one person who was particularly bad. He even told all of us that we were going to do all the work because he quit. So, he was busing talking to another group and I kept telling him that we actually needed to work, and he just was like "b*tch" in these really elongated way and then started talking again. That's probably the rudest thing anyone has ever said about me, especially to my face. That pretty much has sealed that I pretty much seals the fact that I have almost zero respect for this person. Later in class, he did it again. We're moving seats soon so I shouldn't have to work with him again, but what can I do when I ever have to work with him in other classes? All im going to think of is when he called me such a rude name.

on the weekends I go to my dads house. he is handicapped so I help him with a few things. most of the time I'm with my best friend you know go over her house or maybe even sleepover with my fathers permission. but I ask him if I can go to his house tomorrow and he says are you coming down to see me or your friend. and I start to think where did that come from. I love to sometimes spend time with him but there's nothing to talk about and I kinda get bored. we don't do things together like other people could because he's disabled. he always says you come here to relax but I come over to his house to see him and my friend. am I spending too much time with her? if so even if I do stay with him I get bored what do I do?

My friend always cancels last minute and has excuses and I haven't called her out on anything because she is sensitive, and I don't want her to get upset. If I do, I'm sure she will start beating herself over it and become the victim of the situation or become sad or dramatic, etc. I'm sure she has lied to me multiple times about small things (which is why I don't say anything to her because they're small things and I feel like I'm the dramatic one if I do). She always talks about her issues and never really asks how I'm doing. She only replies when it's convenient for her (or if she needs my help), and doesn't reply when she feels like it. I've tried my best to be patient and tolerant, but she keeps on doing the same thing and doesn't seem aware of what she is doing. I've had to change my schedule multiple times but she acts like it's not big of a deal. I feel like she only does this to me because her other friends seem to have no problem hanging out with her. Ditching her is not an option. I've known her for a while, and the thing is, she is quite nice and friendly. If possible, I don't want her to get hurt when I confront her. However, I don't even know where to begin dealing with her flakiness?

I'm known by my family to be a talker and I have lots of friends but I'm not normal. I mean that in a variety way I'm different everyone had a story to tell or music to talk about. I can talk about football and rugby but that's no good to some people, most can laugh at general things and have a great conversation but when I'm one on one its mainly silence. This hurts especially when I care about a girl and we start dating I can't keep a conversation going because I don't know how to, I don't have a best friend at home I'm living in London now and made one but basically by lying about my past and telling him stories that other people told me so I'm a fraud really, yes I've got a best friend I can tell anything and give advice to when he needs it but I hate lying and it seems I get shut out because I can't talk like normal people can, it's weird I know and maybe not a. Big deal to some of you but I'd like to get it right if I could. Cheers

i want to create a website for people to post stuff anonymously (especially people who has been true bullying and want to share there stories) are there any suggestions on what websites that i used use ?

So at my lunch table, I sit with my 2 good friends, and some of their friends who I sometimes talk to. Well there's this girl that sits at our table who I talk to a bit, but we're more of acquaintances than friends. Well today was her birthday, and everyone at my table who is friends with her, bought her a gift. She is a very nice girl but I don't work and my family is kind of tight on money so I wasn't really able to get her anything. And since her and I aren't really friends, I forgot it was her birthday today. Well when my friends were giving her their gifts, they looked at me and said "Hey where's yours?" And I said "I'm so sorry but I don't have one to give." The birthday girl gave me a dirty look and whispered "What a great friend huh" and the whole lunch time, she was giving me mean looks and wouldn't really talk to me. But I don't consider her a friend really, we barely talk and when we do, its just at the lunch table and it's small talk. We've never hung out, texted, etc. Anyways, I've been feeling bad and I don't know.. Was it wrong for me not to give her a gift?

i've had this friend for 5 years. and she was pretty critical of a lot of things i did & would easily get mad at me, but she's a good person and a good friend. and we also have the same friends. but starting 2 weeks ago, i would talk to her a lot and she wouldn't even say anything. so one day at lunch i asked her why and what was wrong and why she wouldn't talk to me bc i thought she was mad at me. and she finally talked & started getting really angry at me all of a sudden and was like "OK WHAT DO U WANT ME TO SAY WHAT'S THERE TO TALK ABOUT" & was just mad and then she had to go to the bus so she just left really angry. then she texted me and we were talking about it again (it was about/around the same thing). today in tennis class (we have tennis and lunch together every other day) i didn't talk to her that much but still did and i thought everything was ok again bc she at least sort of talked to me but then this afternoon she texted me and we texted for like an hour and she said she didn't want to be friends anymore and i was so confused and then she basically listed things about me she didn't like. she said that i was annoying, that i talk too much, i suck at tennis, stuff like that, & that it takes a lot for her to straightforwardly say all this to me, or anyone. and i try really hard to be nice but some days idk. am i just wasting my time on her? & what about friends? we have the same friends & if we're ever in a group together or something that would be really awkward

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You can relate back to my last question for my boyfriend story. Well now Lisa, Jennifer and him are telling everyone crap about me and have gotten everyone to hate me. I lost ALL my friends. There's not even one person left. I can't join a club or try to socialise because people are physically ignoring me and I have gotten the nickname "little *****". All my old friends are hanging out with Lisa and Jennifer now and constantly tell them "It's okay, she has no status, she has no power or right to do anything to you". Then I started receiving anonymous hate messages and threats from people calling me ***** and to die. Then there was a turn of events. Someone had been posing as an autistic boy and had been making fun of him and framing it as me by the way they talked. So everyone thought it was me. Well Lisa and my ex started the 'it was me' theory. So yeah, many people hate me for that, branding me a shameless ***** now, not just a little *****. I can't even go to lunch because I am refused a seat. I was uninvited to a big party everyone was going to and the host said on our class chat 'With that ***** coming, we'll have no fun" and "Oh no she can see this message" and then my so called friend who was my last wrote "It's fine haha" and Lisa wrote "Let's go to the other chat". So they did. They made another class chat so they could talk **** about me and I'm the only person not in it. I really cannot cope with this and I have been missing school for two days. How to cope?

I feel like I have good friends that love me, but I m never any of their first choices, and sometimes you can t see me in group pictures, or they don t even ask me to join the picture. I also don t get invited anywhere but everyone tells me how funny and sweet I am, and that they love me, and it s not fake because I know when they re fake, so why does this happen?

So my friend says I'm annoying. She never wants to start a conversation with me. Honestly, I don't know how to start a conversation with her bc she always looks really bored. I want to keep talking to her. What do I do?

Nearly all of the boys, even most of my friends have to touch other people's butts, shoulders, each other in general etc, randomly hug each other, and are all just so annoying. Always disrupting class and what's worse is that even when the jerk in our grade smashed a girl's head into the window the teacher didn't give him a detention! Wtf?! It's driving me insane I can't stand touchy feel needy people and I can't stand my school anymore.

Part 2. Let my homeless friend stay night on couch. Was raining hard outside. Stopped raining so made him leave. I could see how sad he was leaving to the cold but he comes over in very dirty clothes and never bathes not even here. Has strange clearing throat cough all the time and gets mad when I ask him to get tb checked. I'm thinking he is mentally ill maybe. Won't be letting him back over have no choice. Tried recommend him to programs he doesn't listen changes subject. I'm not a shelter or safe to have him here. But he is my friend from way back when he was more normal. Don't know what happened to him. He won't do anything to help himself and I get mad now. We have bought him a bike and things, he always loses stuff. Got let him go and not enable

im just curious what normies who arent used to this kind of stuff would make of this weird strangeness. basically im trying to learn how to understand people. just try to describe what you think this is and how it makes you feel in the most descriptive way possible. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IWsEw-6TR74

So... I dont have many friends... People from high school just party a lot and drink... But dont really invite me to go to a party or something... Only sometimes or if i say i wanna go... Friend which we are pretty close here is not attending parties and if he go, he goes with another friend which dont like me and i dont like him... I talk to people at school and once i was at a party but dont know them so much... Most of the schoolmates doesnt even party... I avoid parties because i usually dont have anyone to go with and because i must not drink because i am on antidepressants... SO what to do? How to be more social and eventually meet a potential girlfriend ?

HELL COMMUNITY! WHAT CAN I DO IF I SEE AN INTERESTING GIRL BUT DO HAVE ENOUGH COURAGE TO BEFRIEND HER?

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If i text my friends they would sometimes answer with k, okay, or kk. I dont know if im being too sensitive but i find this rude. Should i start doing this just to get back at them? Lol but at the same time its kinda rude and i honestly cant imagine myself doing that -.- am i being too nice? Halppp >_<

I m really upset, it s my 18th birthday tomorrow, and I invited 5 of my friends to hang out and go to the city in 2 days. Just this afternoon my friend said she can t come because she has work. Like I don t get it, can t she skip a day of work for my special day? I m really mad over it. What do I do?

So basically at school on Friday I gave half of my sandwich to my best friend because he did not have any lunch. Our lunch table has a reputation of being messy and leaving trash to the point where we are talked to everyday about it. I almost always pick up every piece of trash that is mine. The teachers always threaten that they will slit us up but they never do. Anyways, my best friend took one bite and didn't like it so he left it on the table without throwing it away. One of the teachers saw me eating the sandwich so they automatically thought I was the one who left it. He told me on my way back to class that I would be getting a new seat on Monday. Well as everyone knows there's kind of different tables around the room. Not to be rude but there's basically the nerds, populars, rejects etc. Anyway the teachers obviously know who is who and they purposely moved me to the other side of the lunch room by the sort of mentally challenged kids. facing the opposite direction from my friends. I was told to sit there all week as punishment, even though It wasn't my fault my friend didn't throw the sandwich away. I dont want to blame him because hes my best friend even though he did it. I told the teachers what happened but they always were very abrupt and had responses like "I dont care". It made me so furious. I talked to the guidance councilor and the vice principal even called my mom. OVER A SANDWICH. I really think these teachers need to grow up.

In my Social Studies class there is 3 of my classmates who asked me to make them study guides because I wrote down 5 pages of notes for a big up coming test. They have cheated off me before. Would I get in trouble if I gave them all the wrong notes as in payback? :P

Today I had a doctors appointment because I was sick. My brother's fiancee who is basically my mom (I live with them) is the one who took me. Well one of my friends also was there and got there after me. So we were talking when my name got called and my brother's fiancee came into the room with me. I didn't ask her to stay out for some reason but I'm sure she would have. But I'm afraid my friend may torment me about being a child. I'm 16 by the way.

I have small family who are spread across US and very few close friends who are far away. I'm planning my wedding and it is either like 10 people or 150 people. There is not a real in-between number without making people feel bad. . What should I do Keep it very intimate (basically elope) or invite a lot of people I really don't care for. Of should I get a fun group of people I just met to have a party with.

She has been my best friend, who I'll call Jess since fourth grade (we are in tenth now). We have always been like sisters, and we bicker a lot. But we've agreed that it doesn't mean anything and that we aren't really mad. A few weeks ago, I started hanging out with an old friend again, who I'll call Rachel. Jess had begun acting weird, being very short over text (saying things like okay, cool, huh, K, etc) all the time. And every conversation either of us starts ends in less than 5 minutes because she keeps saying things like that. I decided to ask what was wrong, and after spending a while convincing her to tell me, she said she didn't want me to talk to Rachel. Ever. of course that was unreasonable and wasn't going to happen, so I told her that there was no way she was going to get replaced, but I'm not going to stop talking to one of my friends because you are jealous (I didn't say the jealous part, that would've been rude). So that got resolved, but she still acted the same. I just made more of an effort to hang out with her, talk to her, etc. FAST FORWARD-- two days ago I went to a friend's birthday party. I didn't mention it to Jess, but I didn't hide it from her. It just never came to topic. saturday night, i slept about three hours because me and my friend were out doing stuff for her birthday, so when I got home sunday, i went to sleep at about 5pm until 10ish monday morning (today). When I checked my phone, jess had messaged me at about 6pm, saying something-- --to which I didn't reply because I was asleep. then at about 8am, she messaged me saying "okay, ignore me. that's fine. Ill ignore you too. byeee" with a bunch of blushing and smiling emojis. I told her i was asleep and she said "for twelve hours? yeah, right. I believe you" with more emojis. I got irritated so i said "you're right, you know everything, dont you?" and she said "yup!! just like you :)" so i said "uh, okay" and she replied with K. I messaged her an hour later asking what was-- --wrong, and she said "if you dont know, then bye. plus, i already told you :)" and i knew it had to do with rachel so i said I hadn't even been talking to her lately, and she said "nope, it's you." and i asked her to explain and she said I would "figure it out" ??? I told her i wasn't going to play games, and that I wanted to resolve whatever this was. so she said "K bye." and I havent talked to her since. WHAT DO I DO??? She is my best friend and I CAN NOT lose her.. thank you so much ALSO, soooo sorry this is so long, I wanted to give all the details. but to sum it up. my best friend is mad and wont talk to me, saying that "it's me", and she wont tell me what I did, she is just saying that I'll figure it out. also she has been very passive aggressive the past few weeks because I began talking to an old friend and she got jealous. Again, THANK YOU FOR ANSWERING

Last night this guy I hate joined a group call he knew my scouse friend and I were in since we started it. The guy couldn't even talk, he's in college and his roommate and suite mates were around so he just listened and typed while he did his essay. He made several offers to leave each time I mentioned that I hated him, but my friend didn't want him to go. basically what happened between the two of us: We used to really like each other(but we never really acted upon it) and constantly talked etc. He was one of my best friends and it was great fun to converse. We had a strong friendship. Then.. something happened last April and we both hurt each other, he proceeded to kick me while I was down after and it only got worse. I cut off most contact and hardly hear from him. He knows fully well that I hate him and last night he wrote that he deserves all hate I have for him and he was a horrible friend. If I ever send a message to him for whatever reason he responds within minutes if not seconds. I still am not entirely innocent. But I think after all that has happened since he forgave me when he realized he was no better. He told the mutual friend that he tried to "make her not hate you." I'm not angry at him, I don't know if I was ever really angry, but I do hate him for all he's done, I just don't know if he deserves it as much as we thought anymore.

A guy is dying of cancer. So, to feel better in his final days he buys a $16,000 stereo system? Does that seem selfish or self-centered? I'm not implying I want his money. I don't even know the guy.

Okay, so, I'm in 8th grade, and this is my first year playing basketball competitively. So first, we do a passing drill with 3 people. This one girl (M) (who also is on varsity) never wants to go with me because I mess up sometimes. Im like the only person on the team that she does that to. Then, when I messed up really bad on a shot, people laughed at me(not everyone) even my COUSIN on the team laughed at me! This isn't even the first time. At tryouts people laughed when I did stuff wrong.Then, NO ONE talks to me at practice, or outside of game and practices! It makes me wanna cry, but I don't so I seem tough enough. Our first game is next week, and I'm really considering leaving. Should I? Maybe I'm just not meant for basketball..

Their name is also highlighted in green when I "search for friends" with a green check mark next to it opposed to the normal purple check mark

So I have been having affair with a man who has really been a life long friend. I must say I did a pretty nice job of covering up the affair for five years. My husband has treated me like a queen during our twenty two year marriage,, however I needed a change. So I decided to spice things up by having an affair. Initially it was going to be a short term things, but I fell head over heels for this man. When my husband goes to bed I often send text messages and fb messages to my lover, sometimes we send naked photos of each other on our phones. One day I told my husband I was going to the grocery store i was really going to meet my lover, while my husband stayed home to work on bills and do some housework. When I returned two hours later, my husband discovered the various fb messages I sent to my lover, apparently I left it open (woops) He became enraged at me for cheating on him, the FB messages were definitely incriminating. He told me to pack a suitcase and kicked me out of the house and said he is going to file for divorce. Was he justified in kicking me out, I mean both our names are on the lease so it's illegal right?

Been acquaintances with this girl for more than a year but only recently started talking. had lunch a couple time the last week, make a lot of flirty sexual jokes and innuendos, getting more physical with her than her friends and such. However, I'm not sure whether I should make a move or not. She suggested we(me and her) get together sometime at my house for a movie and pizza whilst a mutual friend was present with us. So I'm asking her tomorrow if she's good for Thursday. Had a nice fun conversation with her tonight. The conversation: - Just light joking around chat, she invited me along with two of our mutual friends for pizza - She used the word "screw" and I said "I don't mind the screw part but that's probably not what you meant", Her: "Haha you're getting naughty again ^_^ You joining or not?" Me: "Yeah sure. Should I keep my mouth shut and just eat? The pizza I mean." Her: "You can eat and then have some pizza ;) :P" Me: "That can be arranged." Me: *picture captioned "I just want you to be happy. .... And naked.:" Her: "Sometimes I wonder how much you're really joking" Me: "That's for me to know and you to find out" Her: "Hahaha you make me worry" Me: "Would it make you feel better if I call you a terrible person and completely unattractive?" Her: "Haha nooo nooo you may not" What to make of that? Especially the worried part. My distinct lack of good experience with girls tells me it means she doesn't want anything. What do you think? *part of the conversation

So a female friend of mine her birthday is coming around and i wanted to give her an orginal present. I'm quite an introverted person and i never told her how important she is to me so i thought about writing her a handwritten letter telling her this. So girls, what do you think of my present? Would you like to receive this from a male friend? Also any tips on what i should put in the letter are welcome. I already have a beginning and a end but i struggle with the middel part Thanksahead

My friend isn't treated me like one. She never waits for me at lunch break, even though we sit together everyday (like not just us) and when I'm like wait for me friendly of course, she's like I will and then wanders off by herself. But if I just go she's expects me to wait for her, and glares at me if she doesn't. Today she was like you owe me 50c even though I didn't and made up some fake time when I owed her. I gave it to her anyway to stop pestering me, since she said she would start paying interest tomorrow even though I said I didn't have much lunch and would be hungry. She has other friends, I'm friends with them too though. She started bad mouthing one of my friends, and then literally acted like they were best friends. If we have a fight, she says I'm wrong and gossips about me to my other friend. I'm on the brink of tears right now I feel like I have only one true friend. She is generally nice to me it's just these things. Sometimes when we're all hanging she's like I'm bored and goes away. It just hurts me so much, I did start paying her with her own medicine and she started being really shallow. What should I do?

At the start of the year, I started talking to this girl. We first started talking during a one off lesson at school, where both our classes was mixed up and I happened to be seated next to her, which caused us to start talking. From that moment on we became really good friends. We went out a few times together and we could trust each other with our deepest secrets. After a few months though, I realized I had grown feelings for her, and I decided to tell her. At first she didn't seem at all effected by this news, and said our friendship wouldn't be effected either. But then things started to change. She became distant and began to keep secrets from me. I asked her what was wrong, knowing that her life was difficult at times because she told me before all of this happened, but she said she didn't want to talk about it and walked off. After that I messaged her monthly trying to be friendly, but she never messaged me back. I was the only friend she pushed away and cut contact with me, and she never said why. I stopped messaging her 3 months ago now, mainly because i felt broken because I'd lost such a good friend, and the thought of her made me depressed. I felt betrayed because in the end she didn't trust me with the reason for pushing me away. But recently, she messaged me saying sorry for how she treated me, and wanting to make it up to me by meeting up. Although I want to forgive her for pushing me away, i'm afraid of being hurt again. I don't know what to do for the best.

I just am way too different from him now and I mainly want him to stop hanging around me all the time. It's hard to be romantic with my girlfriend when he's sitting there and HATES PDA. How can I end this friendship but do it without hurting his feelings?

I mean, I'm 18, and I have never had a boyfriend, and I don't have a feeling I'm gonna meet one soon. My best friend is someone whose friendship I appreciate a lot but I don't feel like she'll be there for me forever. Other friends I have are more aquaintances, really. I have no siblings, my closest cousin is 8 years younger than me. I just feel like I'm destined to live my life on my own, and I feel really sad for it. Like, it's super depressing, I'll have no boyfriend, no husband, no close friends, not even family to share my life with. Like, honestly, what are the chances I'll meet new people that will effect my life at my age?

I was in a group chat and me and a lot of others were tired of two people hogging it and being the boss of it all. And when I tried to do one thing the girl removed me from the chat (it was on another account though) so on my main account I explained to her why I was leaving and that I didn't want any drama about it so I left quietly. Of course that didn't work. My friends kept pming me and trying to add me back and I was talking to my friend and I finally went to bed. Now today I get a pm message from this guy in the chat that is a typical douche. He started screaming at me how I'm a two faced hoe and he showed me the messages I had with my friend. Not only did she send it to someone else. But that someone else sent it to him. Now everyone is fighting and leaving and everyone is blaming me. I didn't want any of this, but it still happened. This is the third time. These people were my best friends and now I feel more alone then ever and I don't know what to do. I don't want anything to do with it and I just want out of the drama.

So I recently started going out with a guy. It turns out one of my best friends likes him. And now her and my other friend are trying to break us up bc my other friend thinks they are better together than I am with that guy. I only know this bc this happened. So today in class I heard my friends talking about how their snapchat conversation won t delete. And I somehow knew that it was about me. And I was really stupid and invasive and looked at the messages that my friends had been sending each other and they said that they were going to talk **** about me to my boyfriend so that we would break up and my other friend could go out with him. I don t know what to do I feel really betrayed. I know I was wrong for snooping and believe me I feel awful and dumb. But I feel like my friends don t like me any more. I need help I feel so sad. What should I do. Should I break up with the guy? I don t have really strong feelings for him so it wouldn t be the worst thing if it meant keeping my friends.

There is some guy who would occasionally bother me about Dance Moms (yes, he watches it for some reason) last year. This year, he was completely ignoring me until last month. All of a sudden, he would always be really nice to me and became my science partner. For the next few weeks, whenever he saw me in the halls he d say, "hey best friend!! excited for science?!" or "hey science buddy!!!!!" Also, his friends have been being nicer than usual to me me. All of a sudden, today, he was completely ignoring me. Also, he asked to get a new science partner. My friend said she was moving as a joke, and then the guy started to fake cry. He asked me if I was moving, and when I said no, he told me "Aw I wish you were moving instead of her.... no offense." That got me really angry and annoyed. Then, to top it off, when my friend accidentally pushed me and I said "ow", he yelled at me for being rude to her since she was "moving"?? I really don t understand what s happening.

I met this one girl who has friends already, and she's not new to the school. Her name is Sam. I'm starting to get to know her so I said I would invite her to my birthday party. I already introduced Sam to one of my best friends, and now my best friend and her are talking a lot. Now Sam says she wants to be friends with all of my other friends I invite to my party. Is she trying to take my friends away from me? I'm already jealous Sam and my best friend hit it off so well. Idk man please help...

My best friend just came out of the closet yesterday to me and onl me and asked if he could suck my dick. I told him no but the rest of the time was super awkward when we were hanging out and I really need to make it normal again because he has been my best friend since we were kids and we are seniors in highschool now

One time at my old job one of my co-workers who I didn't get along with would go up to me and smack me in the face with a wet towel filled with bleach and ammonia and he would find it hilarious after doing so, fortunately I was able to keep my composure and politely told him if he could stop doing that and that he could seriously hurt somebody doing that, he didn't take what I've had to say seriously and did it again, I've had to report him to the supervisor and at first she didn't take it seriously and casually told him to stop doing that, he didn't take what she had to say seriously and did it again, finally the supervisor berated him good and he got so scared of her berating him that he finally stopped, I've felt a lot of empathy for my co-worker because in school he has gotten teased, bullied, picked on and beaten up by his classmates and people would even push him in the creek, he was the most hated student in high school. or One time at a friends wedding there was a girl who I really liked that I used to be friends with who unfortunately shunned and rejected me in favor of her other friends, I've felt so hurt, betrayed and rejected by it because I've had always liked her a lot and wanted us to continue where we've left off from high school. I've felt envious of this girl because she was popular, came from a well off family and had lots of friends and she was everything I've wanted to be.

I'm getting married in 3 weeks, and I got a Facebook message from my maid of honor a few days ago. she wrote that she found out her mom Is terminally ill. She apologized for not telling me in person or calling but she was just too upset. The doctors don't know whether her mom has days, weeks, or months left. My friend said in the message that she needs to take the next few weekends to be with her, including the day of the wedding. I feel horrible for my friend, called her and told her I understand and support her. Im not going to replace her with anyone else because I still consider her the maid of honor. I'm heartbroken she can't be with me, but there's a part of me (that feels guilty feeling this way), that secretly wishes she could somehow still come. I'm not going to say anything because I want to be supportive and I probably don't know everything. Her mom lives out of state so she is planning to visit her every weekend for the next few weeks. I feel very guilty that I'm having the thought of not completely understanding why she can't still attend the wedding before leaving that weekend. I haven't gotten a chance to really talk to my friend and don't want to bother her she is dealing with so much. I guess I'd just like some advice, and if it's normal to wish/wonder if she could still come.

Hi, everyone. This is a VERY long story, so be prepared. Basically, I have an online friend who is 16 years old. 3 years ago, her and a friend used to hack games that they used to play (including me) because the people who owned the games were really rude to them. There was a guy there that would repeatedly tell people to kill themselves, so my friend and her wanted to get back at him. They did not know that he had arrythmia, so when my friend found out, she sided with him and the other girl got furious, and set out to make both the guy's life and my friend's life a living hell. She has harassed my friend on skype, telling her to kill herself and impersonating me, hacking my skype and sending her death messages through my skype so that she would think it was me. She harassed the other guy so bad that his heart stopped beating and he had to be rushed to the hospital. My friend has had 6 panic attacks in the last 7 months, and one was so bad that she slipped into a light coma and now has minor psychosis because of it. Her sister added me on skype and we keep trying to think of ways to get the girl to stop harassing people. Because of the psychosis, she frequently tries to overdose on drugs, hallucinates, and has episodes where she will run out of her hospital room, lock herself in storage closets, and faint on the floor. This girl will not stop harassing her, and she finds any means neccesarry to make her life a living hell. I frequently have to call her on skype while she has these episodes (which i do not mind because i want to help her) and calm her down. She has to have drugs for the psychosis which she is scared of, so i call her on skype and tell her its ok to calm her down. The thing is, she has these randomly and we could be having a normal conversation over skype and then she starts acting very strange and hallucinating (she once told me she saw the devil and he wanted to kill her.) I don't know what to do. I'm very scared for her. Please help. Also, the girl that is harrassing my friend keeps changing her IP, so that nobody can track her down. My friend's parents already called the police, but they can't really do anything about it considering that she keeps changing her IP.

We are both 17. We're always teasing echother and playing sexualy, we sometimes cuddle. He has a girlfriend and i also like women, in fact the only man i like its him (he is extremely hot btw), i've never felt anything for other man rather than him. But right now im not sure if he is just joking or if he low key wants to kiss me or something. I dont think im gay but i want to kiss him very bad, sometimes he approaches me like if he was about to kiss me and the he steps back and laughs, i dont know what to do. Pls help, and dont hate on the comments.

Ok so I've been friends with this girl for a while now. Let's call her friend B. I feel like I need new friends because I don't want to be stuck with just her as my only friend. So I made a new group of friends (about 5 girls I think. One of them is my cousin! Lol I just found that out not too long ago) but girl B is REALLY annoying. She does not stop talking! One of the girls in the group didn't like her at first. She told girl b she was super annoying to her face. Now they have 'secret handshakes' an stuff. The only reason I made new friends was to get away from her! But she followed me! Ttoday girl a decided to be partners with girl b in gym. I asked to join them and girl a kept saying no which I thought was strange because I thought she didn't like girl b. The two other girls in the group wouldn't do anything like that. We'll call them girl c and d. Girls c and d are shy but really nice. Like me lol. But girl a and b are real big mouths. Like girl a could be mean if she wanted to. Girl b wants to be all "cool" and goth like. They don't like her because she is trying to be someone she's not. I mean I think girl a really doesn't like her but is still being nice to her. What should I do? Should I ask girl a if she is being friends with girl b or is just being nice to her? Please no rude answers! Thank you!

hi this is kind of hard to explain but ill try my best... So im in a friend group with three other girls lets just call them L,M,I. L has a bad rep. and M is kind of rude but my closest friend and I is close with me and really nice. L and M apparently told I something that I said which wasn't true but M and I are best friends (M talks about her all the time but they are still "BFFS") which is v annoying anyway they are all kind of mad at me now and M really isn't but doesn't talk to me a lot and L is super fake and told I and M that she would ignore me but she really isn't.. I asked I if we are good now but she said that id didn't apologize so I said "Well im sorry" I know didnt do anything wrong but I wanted this to be over... but she hasn't replied and school is so awkward bc they don't really talk to me I feel left out I dot know what to do

Sorry about grammar im a little upset right now. Im a freshman its first quarter and im at a fairly good school. Im in a good community, mostly middle class people. At my school I dont have any close friends but i do have friends and people i sometimes talk to, Im also enrolled in a JROTC program. Ive never felt like i belong anywhere, It just got a lot worse. See, middle school f*cking sucked and I was hoping high school could be a fresh start but i just got my report card and my GPA was a 1.86 i cant give the exact grades because i trashed the sheet because it was making want to cry. I cant wrestle unless i have at least a 2.0 and ive been wrestling for 4 years and its one of the few things that I enjoy in life. My teachers say its because I dont try hard enough but they dont know sh!t because im giving up on the things I love most to excede in my classes and do well and i honestly feel that im trying as much if not more than straight A students. I also dont have a lot of friends and the ones i do have dont get me. I want to do good in school but i feel like its not for me. Honestly I feel like nothings for me and it depresses me, sometimes i think id be better off dead.

We're both 16 and ,,,Like it's making me feel like absolute crap and I don't know how to deal with it She's always shoving things in my face like "omg he said I'm beautiful, "some guys whislted at me",some guys just came up to me and started talking to me" its getting quite annoying because she complains about herself to me and others all the time even though she gets all this attention ,_, telling her will only make it worse, trust mee I've tried and she will keep denying and denying and then she will get angry at me and will say how I'm over reacting,I'm not jealous of her its the fact that she keeps shoving it in my face,,,how can I deal with this without telling her ???????????

I have a crush on this guy, but I'm too afraid to talk to him (I'm quiet and have a mumbling habit) I've been hoping he'd talk to me, but he's quiet too. :S friend request on Facebook

I have a friend that is talking about me and my best friend behind our backs with people that really don t like us. My best friend and I are unsure if we want to stop being her friend though because if we do our lives will be worse and a lot of people will pick on us like they do already. I don t know what to do because I don t like seeing my friend hurt me and my other friend but I also don t want the situation to escalate. Can someone help?

So basically, I've started to be friends with a girl. Friendship was good, till she started telling me about her problems and how depressed she is. I always give her good advices, and she doesn't take them, and that annoys me because the next day she comes to me and talk about the same problem again. She is always depressed, even though I try to make her happy she always ruins everything. I cannot make her happy, and the fact that she is always depressed annoys me. Any advice? Thanks. @someone. Well basically, she sometimes says she wants to kill herself, and wants to cut herself, she never stops being depressed and I've tried my best to make her happy but it doesn't work.

So I've been having some really tough times lately. I'm in 8th grade and I just don't really see the point of living. My girlfriend just broke up with me, I have no friends. I wake up each morning to do what? Go to school and have a really terrible time? Then I come home and do homework for 3 hours. After that, I basically just play video games because I have, like I said no friends. If I died, who would care? 4 of my close relatives? I don't see why I would even want to wake up each morning if 9/10 of my day sucks. Can someone tell me why? I'm honestly just trying to have a good time in life but I can't.